Can I just say, the sock thing sometimes never goes away... Lol, 30yrs later, I am still picking up socks, but my husband has so many other great qualities that I just smile and pick up the socks. I can say that after 30yrs, I still find something that I love more about my husband every day and he still tells me that there is nothing more he wants to do but to wake and put a smile on my face. So I just love watching you two discover how great your marriage is.
If it isn't Bob our robot vacuum finding my husband's socks some where, it the cats. One time a dang on cup came from under the couch, it was water he was drinking, but somehow it got pushed under the couch. They get into those sports 😂❤️
Listen I was thinking the same thing it ain’t happening eventually you laugh at them and leave it sometimes and if he a good man like mine you smile 😂❤
Hey. Please tell your husband, “thank you” for that scripture. This 59 year old, married for over 30 years, needed that. We are never too old to learn ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️.
Omg! My husband is so kind, sweet and gentle with me. Very patient. Girl, Like I'm rough around the edges. I'm a New Yorker and have brothers smdh. I didn't realize that at all till we got together. He has taught me to be more gentle. It is actually quite nice.
Soooo many great moments in this vlog!😍😍So, first off thank you for that! It always feels like I’m just catching up with a friend! 1. Your sister in law having to explain to Pia that your wig wasn’t a monster is THE BEST thing ever! 2. Working out consistently will help regulate your sleep cycle, so that hopefully you can sleep at night, BUT you have to find a time that works for you. That is a common mistake when trying to start a routine. We go with what everyone pushes: early morning workout, but that is not everyone’s testimony, bc like you said you don’t have a 9-5 where you HAVE to get up that early. Find a better time that works for YOU, honey….probably noon-ish. Early enough that you’re not waiting around for it, but late enough that you’re already up. 3. Jonathan always sings with his whole chest, and I love that for him. Also, he is soooo wise….like beyond his years. He stay dropping nuggets on us! 4. Lastly, I just had to go to urgent care last week for hearing loss aka excessive wax. My hearing had been going in and out for about two months, but last week it didn’t come back. They did a lavage, where they basically stick a tube down your ear and pump warm water in and let it come out in a little tub….0/10 stars absolutely don’t recommend. It was actually VERY uncomfortable! However, I can now hear “a rat piss on cotton” as my grandmother would say!🤣🤣 I’ll see myself out.🚪
LOLLLL so i had one of those done to me before and it was SOOOOO uncomfortable, i feel like nobody talks about that part but yea it definitely does work though lol I'm considering it because im going on day 9 of no hearing in this ear and im so over itttt..... and thank you for the rest of your comments sis!!
There goes my favorite TH-camr!! Being married for 5 years has taught me it’s the effort put forward everyday. Some days you may not have the effort but your spouse may have the effort for the both of you.
Big up Johnathan. He is wize above his years. Some still dont get it that both genders are different and each should be celebrated. Yah man, show grace... cho
Loved the vlog Jess . For sleeping I suggest praying until you fall asleep. It helps me, whenever I can't sleep . Once I actually fell asleep listening to preaching so that's another suggestion. Hope it works for you.
First I appreciate how you vlog. It’s legit like friend to friend. The “don’t come for me bc I told you” had me cracking up. I think the cut will be cute and it’s your head! Ma’am!! I hollered at the wig and gasped when you said you were CUTTING OFF the end of the boppy pin! My LOOORRDDD! glad you didn’t rupture your ear drum. The two of you are too cute…I love the openness and realness y’all share about being newlyweds. It’s nice that you share it but you guys are sharpening yourself with simply being open to each other and having those convos (shared here or not). Love to see it!
Regarding sleep: get a good amount of sunlight (with no sunglasses) during the day. The sunlight in your eye stimulates melatonin production (why we get so sleepy after the beach).
Jess the same thing happens to my son when he goes swimming. Get you some Swimmers Ear dropping. They at Walmart or CVS etc, always put them in after you go swimming to dry up the water.
Jess, I have the same issue with earwax. Warm water works magic. You just have to spend some time repeating the flushing process. It truly works without hurting your ears. Also you and Jonathan are adorable. Oh and a fun fact. I was re-baptized in July and my wig pompom came off. Jesus has the best sense of humor.
For sleep magnesium chelate, epsim salth baths, pure/natural chamomile tea and a bed time routine (no phone or certain lights 2-3hrs before sleep, calming music etc)
Had to pause the video... sis the socks will still be on the floor. I'm 12 years in and I've learned that if nothing ever changes (meaning small pet peeves), I still whole heartedly love him. It has become a non issue that doesn't bother me which helps him in picking them up on his own without me mentioning (eventually 😂). I realized if it's not on "my" time, it's still ok. Grace is imperative in a marriage. Hope that helps. You guys are the cutest!
I dont know if you have over the ear headphones but if you do go on youtube and look for rain storm storm sound videos. There is one that blacks the screen after 10 seconds. But trying laying down with the sounds playing in the headphones. I have chronic insomnia and this changed my life. The sound of the storm quiets racing thoughts and I knock out. Best of luck to you with sleep and the ear thing!
Lol girl you make me laugh so much when I watch your vlogs. You're such a real and authentic soul. In terms of sleeping melatonin gummies work well but if you don't wanna use them camomile helps. It is available in a tea bag form so you can make teas with it if you wanna go the natural route. Some other methods are sleeping with the lights off, taking deep and slow breaths or counting. I find taking deep breaths worked rather quickly for me once I've already set the mood and tone to sleep and once I'm already in bed. Hope something from what I mentioned is able to help you ❤.
You and Jonathan spoke a word!!!! When it comes to nagging…imma do it 🙊😭 but it’s honestly something I’m working on! Although I’m not a newlywed, I’ve been married for 5 years, I can use all the tips I can get. You and Jonathan are so insightful and articulate about the struggles and tribulations of marriage thus far I feel y’all should make a couples page ❤️
Thank you!!! We’re still learning as well lol I don’t want to make a couples page just yet because I don’t want to put pressure on him to have to be a youtuber, he supports me and pops in every now and then but it’s not his thing at the moment. And also we’re still learning so much, we’re not ready 😂
Jess girl, you are so funny. I think you are the only person I can watch and listen to tell a story. Others I’m like get to the point. I can’t wait for the update on the dress situation. That’s good that you guys can laugh and joke with each other.
Try not to break each other trust, and u all be ok. Also listening is key. Some will say communication BUT if you r NOT listening to what I am communicating what the sense. God bless you both always.
Hey Jess, if you don't mind noise in your background when it's bedtime you should try listening to "sleeping with the word or prayers that help you sleep." I play those and they help like 5 out of 7 nights.
Sleep: go lay the exact time every night. To start, go down 1 hour before your sleep time. You’ll toss and turn for a week but after that you’ll be good to go.
You could be having trouble sleeping due to anemia. It causes insomnia. But I am a heavy earwax babe also lol I use a soft tip earwax tool for daily use. But if I feel like it’s a lot I use the earwax kit from Walmart. Just put drops in the ear and flush it out with water and a suction bulb.
This vlog was highlariousss! I laughed so much. Jess, you are a riot and can tell a good story. Why was that hairdresser hating on vlogging? The pool party and water slide looked hella fun. The hair monster had me dying laughing. It doesn't pay to buy cheap furniture from China. It might be made wrong and the directions may be wrong too. So annoying. I've had my share of ear infections as a young child. I'd be screaming crying it hurt so bad. I feel your pain. You and Jonathan are fortunate to have each other to take care of. I like how you two laugh a lot together. True love and happiness is nice to see.
Ok the wig situation was hilarious...... But Babbbbbbby I Love dem Wallace's!!!!!! Bless em Lord Bless em. I am so inspired by you two.....awwwwwww I Love it. Y'all Rock. Gone Jess you are an inspiration to so many. And now as a couple you two are a blessings to others... i.e. Marriage Ministry
It’s called the law of inertia 😂 The wig was still in motion while your body had already come to a rest! Your sister had quite a laugh- very infectious 💗
That is good marriage advice guys. As men and women we can be so quick to judge each other but its all about adapting and elevating with one another, especially if u luv each other...bravo 👏
Lol Jess❤❤ I am completely with you!! Why shouldn't be able to blog whilst she is doing your hair..supporting each other💚💚. I Love your Spirit sis. Married life agrees with you!! Things always come together for our Good 👍🏽. Love you Girl❤💛
For helpful sleep tips, try aromatherapy. I had trouble staying asleep so I would put either a relax essential oil blend or lavender oil in a Diffuser and have it going all night. Best nights of sleep! Hope it works! Love you guys! ❤
Through sickness and in healthy is already happening. Go ahead and honor those vows. Thanks for the scripture Jonathan. I sure needed that reminder. Glad you're feeling better Jess😊
Sleepy Time Tea (has a bear in pjs sleeping in a rocking chair in front of the fire place in his house) and Pure Chamomile Tea (is in a light blue box with the flowers on it). both of them help you to sleep, Peppermint Tea ( the box has fields of peppermints all over it) helps to relax the mind and body. You can mix them for an extra kick, but these should help a sis out! Been using these and other kinds of tea for heath for decades without fail. Whatever mix you want with peppermint as the base. Hope this works for you. I love your videos, keep up the good work, your honesty and silliness makes me laugh so much bc I feel you.
I too have suffered with excessive ear wax but mine started when I was hit by a car when I was like in 1st or 2nd grade. When I was struck I fell into dirty slushy snow and that water got into my ear. I would get extremely bad ear infections due to water getting into my ears and from the excessive production of ear wax. It’s annoying but I too must resist from sticking stuff into my ears. I now flush my ears out every few months with warm water to loosen the wax after putting a few drops of hydrogen peroxide into my ears. After not being able to clear so clearly you feel like everything is so loud but feels refreshing. Feel better and I look forward to more videos from you and your Hubby.
Mrs. Jess and Mr. Johnathon, what I have learned in my second marriage, you have to accept the person just the way they are. Not trying to change them to who you want them to be. Either they want to change for themselves or they don't. Yes...the last person in the bed should make the bed, it's nothing like getting into a fresh made bed. Marriage is truly a blessing from God!!!
Hey Jess! You should try to take melatonin, it’s a supplement. It will help you sleep really well. You just can’t take it long term, it’s naturally produced in your body. But it helps with getting your sleep schedule together.
You and hubby laugh so much together I love that. I watched all your ads cause hospital ain't no joke. I'm just glad you didn't pierce your eardrum. And I'm totally a instructions girl, I'm not winging it
Jesss! Love you and Jonathan soo much and thank youu so much for the advice he is soo righttt handling it with grace will be better in the long run. What's crazy is I make up my bed as well each morning. Also for helping with my sleep is listening to rain/thunder black screen sounds it may help won't want to wake up your husband. But can't wait until your next vlog and your ear will be better in no time.🙌🏿❤️
Girlll You and your husband are so funny 🤣🤣🤣 But at the same time you guys give very useful advice 🤗 Seriously, God bless you guys and keep learning from each other ❤🤗
Hey Jess.. probably avoid taking coffee after 1:00pm everyday.. it's been helpful to me.. hope it is for you too.. sleep is beautiful and you deserve it... All the best dear
Hey Jess, to help me sleep, restfully, I use a lavender diffuser at bedtime, Traditional Medicinals chamomile/lavender tea and I started using Dr. Teal's Sleep Spray. Also reading helps me go to sleep. Good Luck!!
I have the same issues. You might need some drops from the ENT. Also, put in water blockers before swimming. I don't swim in chlorine anymore because that's what bothers me, only salt water.
Hi jess! I dont really have sleeping problem.... BUT i heard that you could buy red light bulb ( or changing ones). And use them 30 to an hour before bed. It increase the melatonin levels and help you sleep!
Awesome advice y’all, we have been married 32 years, and we are still learning something new about one another. LOVE is beautiful, especially in a GODLY MARRIAGE!!
Hydrogen peroxide girl! It loosens up the wax and you will be able to hear so freakin clear. I’ve been doing it for years. Peppermint and chamomile tea works for me in like 20 minutes. Good luck girlie
Great advice for couples. There is something in turkey that helps you sleep. Try eating a turkey sandwich before bed, around 9pm. A pediatrician suggested it for my daughter and it helped.. it helped me as well. My ears and throat hurts every single time I was my hair. Ugh
My son went to the Dr. about his inability to fall asleep and stay asleep at night. Dr. suggested he take 1 10 mg of melatonin 1/2 pill of the pink tablets of benadryl. It worked for him. Sometime a good workout may help you sleep at night. Great video! Very entertaining!
I am the same way with things that are supposed to put you to sleep. Like sleepy stuff keeps me awake and wake up stuff makes tired...maybe you could try coffee. Sn: I love tbe relationship you have with your family and your husband 💕
Girl my doctor recommended taking magnesium (any mg) to help relax your body and take melatonin (you can take up to 20 mg a night but they recommend you start at like 5 to 6 mg then work your way up to find the best dosage for you 10 mg works for me). You can take both together at least an hour before you plan to sleep. No phone or TV try to read a book or write in a journal or take a hot bath or something relaxing. Goodluck girl
Organic TART cherry juice is a natural melatonin. Try a couple shots of that in your bedtime tea. Me personally- I turn on some ASMR music with a black screen.
So I had that same problem falling asleep at night. I started reading Psalm 91 and 56 threw times a day praying and meditation at night before bed it has helped a lot and I sleep with a humidifier on with lavender oil inside. Hope this helps
That whole marriage section you had in this video was to touching and funny at the same time, it brought tears to my eyes I can tell you guys will have a beautiful marriage!! ❤
First love the Detroit Pistons shirt! Second after 16 years of marriage I still leave my bras around the house 😂 but hubby just accepts his loving wife 😆. Third I struggled with sleeping for years, I had a sleep study done in my late 20s and it was determined I had restless legs syndrome. Medication didn't work for me but someone recommended meditation and it was beyond helpful to get me better sleep. I average about 7 hours now whereas before I would be lucky if I got 4. And on stressful days melatonin does help. Good luck!
My hubby does the same thing putting stuff down in his ear, and had to see the Dr. too a few x's chile, yall a mess🤣glad ur feeling better dear, love your vlogs!😍
Hey Jess…you didn’t say how long you were off your phone but here are some suggestions that you could try…(I’d try them all on the same night) You could try using blue light blocker eyeglasses during the day when watching your tv, computer and phone screens. U should be protecting your eyes anyway. 1) Try to not look at tv or your phone for 2hrs before going to bed 2) try to create a new habit of meditating (quiet time or maybe listening to the ocean, rain or running water like a river-sounds from nature-white noise-look them up on TH-cam) and reading your Bible or a book for as long as you can while relaxing in your bed. Reading the Bible at night always puts ppl to sleep! 3. Try the sleepy time tea and soaking in a hot tub or bath with a few drops of lavender essential oil(as hot as you can stand it-jets in a jacuzzi will knock you out) Oh and a GREAT MASSAGE!!! You have to find ways to relax your mind and not think about how bad you need to go to sleep!!!!! Stop worrying too!!! Hope this helps!❤❤❤
great vlog as always Jess , I just had to pause for the cause and watch. Your marriage is literally so blessed because your husband literally loves the Lord and always go back to the word love how he loves you with such kindness and uses bible scripture in everything. I was listening to my fav podcast today and she literally mention that if you're single the perf man you should be looking for is not one with 6pack and fine yes that too but its one that fears GOD because he's the highest authority and if one doesn't fear GOD welp he won't fear anyone and will do anything and how when you have an argument does he go back to the word to see what God says and you have that which is a blessing. girl you're strong for surviving that wig embarrassment cuz I was literally in tears 😭and hopefully your ears get better. for sleeping try melatonin also workout closer to bed time like an hour or 2 before bed time (grow with jo)just to get your body moving take a hot bath try to relax no phone. hope that helps
Alcohol ear drops work wonders for swimmer’s ear in order to keep it dry, (no I’m not a swimmer, but when I wash my hair water gets deep inside my ears causing infections). I also add cotton to my ear because loud noises becomes too painful when it’s healing. I also like to drink anything soothing like hot lemon,and honey, which helps with the throat inflammation.
Hopefully you see this! Try Passion flower extract/tincture or ashwaganda for sleep. Works like a charm 😊 Doing peroxide ear drops and throat rinse can help with the ear and throat pain. 2 parts water 1 part peroxide gargle for 30seconds -1 min.
You can try bath and body works Sleep body wash and lotions (lavender). Soothing sleep music and drink your sleep time tea before you take a bath/shower so it can have a opportunity to work its way through your system.
I hope you get your hearing back to normal soon, I wouldn't give up on the bedtime tea. You wasn't feeling well, give it another try when you are feeling better. That tea really helps me, I even got a guy from work hooked on to the Yogi bedtime tea. He bought me the caramel flavor and told me to try it. I didn't know about ( each stores has different flavors) ❤️
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Your husband is such a pure soul! I love y’all together, I feel he grounds you. It’s beautiful ❤️
Thank you so much! He truly is special 🥰
Can I just say, the sock thing sometimes never goes away... Lol, 30yrs later, I am still picking up socks, but my husband has so many other great qualities that I just smile and pick up the socks. I can say that after 30yrs, I still find something that I love more about my husband every day and he still tells me that there is nothing more he wants to do but to wake and put a smile on my face. So I just love watching you two discover how great your marriage is.
🥺🥺🥺🥺 I'm not crying
If it isn't Bob our robot vacuum finding my husband's socks some where, it the cats. One time a dang on cup came from under the couch, it was water he was drinking, but somehow it got pushed under the couch. They get into those sports 😂❤️
@@monicahill750 Oh the places we find the socks and other objects especially during football season
So you’re telling me I’m licking up socks forever?? Man he lucky I love him, ima till try to fix this tiny problem though 😂 thank you! 🥰
Listen I was thinking the same thing it ain’t happening eventually you laugh at them and leave it sometimes and if he a good man like mine you smile 😂❤
13:00 "It's not a monster baby, it's just hair" 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 I love all this family fun ❤️
Lol my poor niece probably scared of me now 😂
He's a wig saver. He did not let it drown 🤣🤣🤣
He’s a keeper 😂
Wig whisperer🤣
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Hey. Please tell your husband, “thank you” for that scripture. This 59 year old, married for over 30 years, needed that. We are never too old to learn ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️.
🥹🥹🥹 I will let him know ❤️ we’re always learning :)
Omg! My husband is so kind, sweet and gentle with me. Very patient. Girl, Like I'm rough around the edges. I'm a New Yorker and have brothers smdh. I didn't realize that at all till we got together. He has taught me to be more gentle. It is actually quite nice.
Yessss it’s like salt and pepper, we’re different but we go together lol thank God for our husbands ❤️ and they lucky to have us too okay? Lol
Soooo many great moments in this vlog!😍😍So, first off thank you for that! It always feels like I’m just catching up with a friend!
1. Your sister in law having to explain to Pia that your wig wasn’t a monster is THE BEST thing ever!
2. Working out consistently will help regulate your sleep cycle, so that hopefully you can sleep at night, BUT you have to find a time that works for you. That is a common mistake when trying to start a routine. We go with what everyone pushes: early morning workout, but that is not everyone’s testimony, bc like you said you don’t have a 9-5 where you HAVE to get up that early. Find a better time that works for YOU, honey….probably noon-ish. Early enough that you’re not waiting around for it, but late enough that you’re already up.
3. Jonathan always sings with his whole chest, and I love that for him. Also, he is soooo wise….like beyond his years. He stay dropping nuggets on us!
4. Lastly, I just had to go to urgent care last week for hearing loss aka excessive wax. My hearing had been going in and out for about two months, but last week it didn’t come back. They did a lavage, where they basically stick a tube down your ear and pump warm water in and let it come out in a little tub….0/10 stars absolutely don’t recommend. It was actually VERY uncomfortable! However, I can now hear “a rat piss on cotton” as my grandmother would say!🤣🤣 I’ll see myself out.🚪
LOLLLL so i had one of those done to me before and it was SOOOOO uncomfortable, i feel like nobody talks about that part but yea it definitely does work though lol I'm considering it because im going on day 9 of no hearing in this ear and im so over itttt..... and thank you for the rest of your comments sis!!
There goes my favorite TH-camr!! Being married for 5 years has taught me it’s the effort put forward everyday. Some days you may not have the effort but your spouse may have the effort for the both of you.
I love this! Thank you!! 🥰🥰
Big up Johnathan. He is wize above his years. Some still dont get it that both genders are different and each should be celebrated. Yah man, show grace... cho
Agreed. He's a great guy..
Loved the vlog Jess . For sleeping I suggest praying until you fall asleep. It helps me, whenever I can't sleep . Once I actually fell asleep listening to preaching so that's another suggestion. Hope it works for you.
Also remember that some annoyances from your spouse may never change but your reaction to them will.
Oooo that’s good ❤️❤️
First I appreciate how you vlog. It’s legit like friend to friend. The “don’t come for me bc I told you” had me cracking up. I think the cut will be cute and it’s your head!
Ma’am!! I hollered at the wig and gasped when you said you were CUTTING OFF the end of the boppy pin! My LOOORRDDD! glad you didn’t rupture your ear drum.
The two of you are too cute…I love the openness and realness y’all share about being newlyweds. It’s nice that you share it but you guys are sharpening yourself with simply being open to each other and having those convos (shared here or not). Love to see it!
Thank you so so much!! These comments make me feel like I’m doing something right lol I’m glad you guys are enjoying the vlogs 🥹❤️❤️
Regarding sleep: get a good amount of sunlight (with no sunglasses) during the day. The sunlight in your eye stimulates melatonin production (why we get so sleepy after the beach).
Anytime I have insomnia, I just spend the time praying and I sleep like a baby right after 😊
Jess the same thing happens to my son when he goes swimming. Get you some Swimmers Ear dropping. They at Walmart or CVS etc, always put them in after you go swimming to dry up the water.
Jess, I have the same issue with earwax. Warm water works magic. You just have to spend some time repeating the flushing process. It truly works without hurting your ears. Also you and Jonathan are adorable. Oh and a fun fact. I was re-baptized in July and my wig pompom came off. Jesus has the best sense of humor.
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For sleep magnesium chelate, epsim salth baths, pure/natural chamomile tea and a bed time routine (no phone or certain lights 2-3hrs before sleep, calming music etc)
Had to pause the video... sis the socks will still be on the floor. I'm 12 years in and I've learned that if nothing ever changes (meaning small pet peeves), I still whole heartedly love him. It has become a non issue that doesn't bother me which helps him in picking them up on his own without me mentioning (eventually 😂). I realized if it's not on "my" time, it's still ok. Grace is imperative in a marriage. Hope that helps. You guys are the cutest!
I dont know if you have over the ear headphones but if you do go on youtube and look for rain storm storm sound videos. There is one that blacks the screen after 10 seconds. But trying laying down with the sounds playing in the headphones. I have chronic insomnia and this changed my life. The sound of the storm quiets racing thoughts and I knock out. Best of luck to you with sleep and the ear thing!
Awww man Jess I was on the floor I’m sorry about your wig.
Lolllll it’s okay sis I understand 😂
Lol girl you make me laugh so much when I watch your vlogs. You're such a real and authentic soul. In terms of sleeping melatonin gummies work well but if you don't wanna use them camomile helps. It is available in a tea bag form so you can make teas with it if you wanna go the natural route. Some other methods are sleeping with the lights off, taking deep and slow breaths or counting. I find taking deep breaths worked rather quickly for me once I've already set the mood and tone to sleep and once I'm already in bed. Hope something from what I mentioned is able to help you ❤.
You and Jonathan spoke a word!!!! When it comes to nagging…imma do it 🙊😭 but it’s honestly something I’m working on! Although I’m not a newlywed, I’ve been married for 5 years, I can use all the tips I can get. You and Jonathan are so insightful and articulate about the struggles and tribulations of marriage thus far I feel y’all should make a couples page ❤️
Thank you!!! We’re still learning as well lol I don’t want to make a couples page just yet because I don’t want to put pressure on him to have to be a youtuber, he supports me and pops in every now and then but it’s not his thing at the moment. And also we’re still learning so much, we’re not ready 😂
@@OnlyOneJess i definitely get it! I send prayers of continued happiness and prosperity you and Jonathan’s way!
Omg I MISS being able to walk into a salon and get my hair done same day.
Really tho lol the good old days 😭❤️
Right!?? Good times 😭
Wow you're husband made me cry with the scripture really needed that thank you 13 years with mines and still learning
Jess girl, you are so funny. I think you are the only person I can watch and listen to tell a story. Others I’m like get to the point. I can’t wait for the update on the dress situation. That’s good that you guys can laugh and joke with each other.
You’re have not Husbanded us out enough! You totally made me get up and make dinner lol 😂
Hahaha okay good just checking 😂🫶🏾
I love the marriage lessons....it is actually teaching ME what to consider for my future one day. I always appreciate how authentic you are as well.
Try not to break each other trust, and u all be ok. Also listening is key. Some will say communication BUT if you r NOT listening to what I am communicating what the sense. God bless you both always.
Hey Jess, if you don't mind noise in your background when it's bedtime you should try listening to "sleeping with the word or prayers that help you sleep." I play those and they help like 5 out of 7 nights.
So funny. I am glad your hair underneath was ok. Not every lady's hair is ready to be seen.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Sleep: go lay the exact time every night. To start, go down 1 hour before your sleep time. You’ll toss and turn for a week but after that you’ll be good to go.
Girl so far the video is amazinggggg so thankful your marriage life is going well!💕
You could be having trouble sleeping due to anemia. It causes insomnia. But I am a heavy earwax babe also lol I use a soft tip earwax tool for daily use. But if I feel like it’s a lot I use the earwax kit from Walmart. Just put drops in the ear and flush it out with water and a suction bulb.
This vlog was highlariousss! I laughed so much. Jess, you are a riot and can tell a good story. Why was that hairdresser hating on vlogging? The pool party and water slide looked hella fun. The hair monster had me dying laughing. It doesn't pay to buy cheap furniture from China. It might be made wrong and the directions may be wrong too. So annoying. I've had my share of ear infections as a young child. I'd be screaming crying it hurt so bad. I feel your pain. You and Jonathan are fortunate to have each other to take care of. I like how you two laugh a lot together. True love and happiness is nice to see.
Ok the wig situation was hilarious...... But Babbbbbbby I Love dem Wallace's!!!!!! Bless em Lord Bless em. I am so inspired by you two.....awwwwwww I Love it. Y'all Rock. Gone Jess you are an inspiration to so many. And now as a couple you two are a blessings to others... i.e. Marriage Ministry
Wow thank you so so so much!! 🥹❤️❤️❤️
It’s called the law of inertia 😂 The wig was still in motion while your body had already come to a rest! Your sister had quite a laugh- very infectious 💗
I always wanted to understand inertia😂
Lol yup Newton's first law😂😂
That inertia got me good sis, it got me good 😂
Come on with these facts Sis 👏🏾
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That is good marriage advice guys. As men and women we can be so quick to judge each other but its all about adapting and elevating with one another, especially if u luv each other...bravo 👏
Jess: “I can do this by myself”
Jess reading the instructions: “hmm?”
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😂😂😂 I thought I had it in the first quarter lol
@@OnlyOneJess 🤣🤣 you seriously crack me up.
Lol Jess❤❤ I am completely with you!! Why shouldn't be able to blog whilst she is doing your hair..supporting each other💚💚. I Love your Spirit sis. Married life agrees with you!! Things always come together for our Good 👍🏽. Love you Girl❤💛
For helpful sleep tips, try aromatherapy. I had trouble staying asleep so I would put either a relax essential oil blend or lavender oil in a Diffuser and have it going all night. Best nights of sleep! Hope it works! Love you guys! ❤
Try turning the bottom around like you did the top. If that doesn’t work… return it! Glad you fun on the holiday weekend.
Naw Jess u haven’t been giving us the “my husband” as much as you could 🤣🤣🤣 I’m here for it!
Through sickness and in healthy is already happening. Go ahead and honor those vows. Thanks for the scripture Jonathan. I sure needed that reminder. Glad you're feeling better Jess😊
Sleepy Time Tea (has a bear in pjs sleeping in a rocking chair in front of the fire place in his house) and Pure Chamomile Tea (is in a light blue box with the flowers on it). both of them help you to sleep, Peppermint Tea ( the box has fields of peppermints all over it) helps to relax the mind and body. You can mix them for an extra kick, but these should help a sis out! Been using these and other kinds of tea for heath for decades without fail. Whatever mix you want with peppermint as the base. Hope this works for you. I love your videos, keep up the good work, your honesty and silliness makes me laugh so much bc I feel you.
I too have suffered with excessive ear wax but mine started when I was hit by a car when I was like in 1st or 2nd grade. When I was struck I fell into dirty slushy snow and that water got into my ear. I would get extremely bad ear infections due to water getting into my ears and from the excessive production of ear wax. It’s annoying but I too must resist from sticking stuff into my ears. I now flush my ears out every few months with warm water to loosen the wax after putting a few drops of hydrogen peroxide into my ears. After not being able to clear so clearly you feel like everything is so loud but feels refreshing. Feel better and I look forward to more videos from you and your Hubby.
Melatonin helps me a lot grab the slow release kind helps you fall asleep and stay asleep for a more restful night and you wake up refreshed.
You guys are so beautiful together🥰
Mrs. Jess and Mr. Johnathon, what I have learned in my second marriage, you have to accept the person just the way they are. Not trying to change them to who you want them to be. Either they want to change for themselves or they don't. Yes...the last person in the bed should make the bed, it's nothing like getting into a fresh made bed. Marriage is truly a blessing from God!!!
Hey Jess! You should try to take melatonin, it’s a supplement. It will help you sleep really well. You just can’t take it long term, it’s naturally produced in your body. But it helps with getting your sleep schedule together.
I just commented about this. Tart cherry juice is great. It has a higher percentage of natural melatonin.
Your relationship is just sweetly amazing such best friends l love it 💕 May you continue to prosper…x
I just love y'all relationship and Jonathan is just too adorable.
Ah thank youuuu!! 🥹❤️❤️
@@OnlyOneJess You're welcome girl! 🥰🥰
You both are just so adorable. My heart literally smiles when I watch the two of you. 💓🙏
You and hubby laugh so much together I love that. I watched all your ads cause hospital ain't no joke. I'm just glad you didn't pierce your eardrum. And I'm totally a instructions girl, I'm not winging it
Jesss! Love you and Jonathan soo much and thank youu so much for the advice he is soo righttt handling it with grace will be better in the long run. What's crazy is I make up my bed as well each morning. Also for helping with my sleep is listening to rain/thunder black screen sounds it may help won't want to wake up your husband. But can't wait until your next vlog and your ear will be better in no time.🙌🏿❤️
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You and your husband are so funny 🤣🤣🤣
But at the same time you guys give very useful advice 🤗
Seriously, God bless you guys and keep learning from each other ❤🤗
“Knit a sweater!” Took me OUT!🤣🤣🤣
Hey Jess.. probably avoid taking coffee after 1:00pm everyday.. it's been helpful to me.. hope it is for you too.. sleep is beautiful and you deserve it... All the best dear
« It’s not a monster baby. It’s just hair, I promise »🤣🤣cryinnngg girl we love you for posting this footage. You didn’t have to but ya did!!😭💕
Hey Jess, to help me sleep, restfully, I use a lavender diffuser at bedtime, Traditional Medicinals chamomile/lavender tea and I started using Dr. Teal's Sleep Spray. Also reading helps me go to sleep. Good Luck!!
And the greatest of these is LOVE. ❤️ Such good lessons you're learning early. Peace and blessings to you 💖
The instant replay says to me, you wasn't ready! 😂 😃
I have the same issues. You might need some drops from the ENT. Also, put in water blockers before swimming. I don't swim in chlorine anymore because that's what bothers me, only salt water.
Hi jess! I dont really have sleeping problem.... BUT i heard that you could buy red light bulb ( or changing ones). And use them 30 to an hour before bed. It increase the melatonin levels and help you sleep!
Omg it's the love and the teamwork for me. Love you guys 🙌🏽🥰
Awesome advice y’all, we have been married 32 years, and we are still learning something new about one another.
LOVE is beautiful, especially in a GODLY MARRIAGE!!
The hair style is dope hair always grows back . Jonathan is a good man
I’m crying. A wave in FL took me & my wig OWT!!! 😂😂😂 After he save it, we just laughed. Woo chile ok let me finish watching.
sister if u cant sleep at night that means the Lord wants you to spend that time with him
! He wants to talk to you
Hydrogen peroxide girl! It loosens up the wax and you will be able to hear so freakin clear. I’ve been doing it for years. Peppermint and chamomile tea works for me in like 20 minutes. Good luck girlie
Very well said Johnthan, that is so true , and I’m 29 years in. Good advice
I got two older brothers and girl I’m rough with my husband and kid sometimes. Lord give me grace 😂 after 5 years still working on it 🤦🏾♀️
Tart cherry juice works and you only need a cup. It works wonders. Its pricey but it works!!!
Great advice for couples. There is something in turkey that helps you sleep. Try eating a turkey sandwich before bed, around 9pm. A pediatrician suggested it for my daughter and it helped.. it helped me as well. My ears and throat hurts every single time I was my hair. Ugh
My son went to the Dr. about his inability to fall asleep and stay asleep at night. Dr. suggested he take
1 10 mg of melatonin
1/2 pill of the pink tablets of benadryl. It worked for him.
Sometime a good workout may help you sleep at night. Great video! Very entertaining!
Thank u for making your tea the correct way. Tea bag then water. ✊✊☕☕☕☕
Jess getting a BOB!! Get color sis! I can't wait! And u got a Detroit shirt on this vlog! And your wig came off!! Yaaaasss!!
I am the same way with things that are supposed to put you to sleep. Like sleepy stuff keeps me awake and wake up stuff makes tired...maybe you could try coffee. Sn: I love tbe relationship you have with your family and your husband 💕
You are right Jess. It is your hair, treat it right sis.
I grew up making my bed and it’s something that make the room feel junky when it’s not made/
Yassss same. Boys are so odd man it’s such an adjustment 😂
Girl my doctor recommended taking magnesium (any mg) to help relax your body and take melatonin (you can take up to 20 mg a night but they recommend you start at like 5 to 6 mg then work your way up to find the best dosage for you 10 mg works for me). You can take both together at least an hour before you plan to sleep. No phone or TV try to read a book or write in a journal or take a hot bath or something relaxing. Goodluck girl
A possible perforated ear drum is serious. Take your antibiotic as prescribed! I also recommend seeing an ENT specialist.
Definitely an awesome LAUGH!!
Thanks for sharing everything y’all!! Looking forward to your new style Jess!
thank you!!!
I really love you and Jonathan, you both are so funny
Organic TART cherry juice is a natural melatonin. Try a couple shots of that in your bedtime tea. Me personally- I turn on some ASMR music with a black screen.
So I had that same problem falling asleep at night. I started reading Psalm 91 and 56 threw times a day praying and meditation at night before bed it has helped a lot and I sleep with a humidifier on with lavender oil inside. Hope this helps
That whole marriage section you had in this video was to touching and funny at the same time, it brought tears to my eyes I can tell you guys will have a beautiful marriage!! ❤
Jess try CALM, it's amazing. The bedtime tea doesn't work for me either but the calm is amazing..try it
First love the Detroit Pistons shirt! Second after 16 years of marriage I still leave my bras around the house 😂 but hubby just accepts his loving wife 😆. Third I struggled with sleeping for years, I had a sleep study done in my late 20s and it was determined I had restless legs syndrome. Medication didn't work for me but someone recommended meditation and it was beyond helpful to get me better sleep. I average about 7 hours now whereas before I would be lucky if I got 4. And on stressful days melatonin does help. Good luck!
My hubby does the same thing putting stuff down in his ear, and had to see the Dr. too a few x's chile, yall a mess🤣glad ur feeling better dear, love your vlogs!😍
Hey Jess…you didn’t say how long you were off your phone but here are some suggestions that you could try…(I’d try them all on the same night)
You could try using blue light blocker eyeglasses during the day when watching your tv, computer and phone screens. U should be protecting your eyes anyway.
1) Try to not look at tv or your phone for 2hrs before going to bed
2) try to create a new habit of meditating (quiet time or maybe listening to the ocean, rain or running water like a river-sounds from nature-white noise-look them up on TH-cam) and reading your Bible or a book for as long as you can while relaxing in your bed. Reading the Bible at night always puts ppl to sleep!
3. Try the sleepy time tea and soaking in a hot tub or bath with a few drops of lavender essential oil(as hot as you can stand it-jets in a jacuzzi will knock you out)
Oh and a GREAT MASSAGE!!!
You have to find ways to relax your mind and not think about how bad you need to go to sleep!!!!! Stop worrying too!!!
Hope this helps!❤❤❤
great vlog as always Jess , I just had to pause for the cause and watch. Your marriage is literally so blessed because your husband literally loves the Lord and always go back to the word love how he loves you with such kindness and uses bible scripture in everything. I was listening to my fav podcast today and she literally mention that if you're single the perf man you should be looking for is not one with 6pack and fine yes that too but its one that fears GOD because he's the highest authority and if one doesn't fear GOD welp he won't fear anyone and will do anything and how when you have an argument does he go back to the word to see what God says and you have that which is a blessing. girl you're strong for surviving that wig embarrassment cuz I was literally in tears 😭and hopefully your ears get better. for sleeping try melatonin also workout closer to bed time like an hour or 2 before bed time (grow with jo)just to get your body moving take a hot bath try to relax no phone. hope that helps
Alcohol ear drops work wonders for swimmer’s ear in order to keep it dry, (no I’m not a swimmer, but when I wash my hair water gets deep inside my ears causing infections). I also add cotton to my ear because loud noises becomes too painful when it’s healing. I also like to drink anything soothing like hot lemon,and honey, which helps with the throat inflammation.
Hopefully you see this! Try Passion flower extract/tincture or ashwaganda for sleep. Works like a charm 😊
Doing peroxide ear drops and throat rinse can help with the ear and throat pain. 2 parts water 1 part peroxide gargle for 30seconds -1 min.
I learned on TikTok that organic tart cherry juice helps with sleeping. Try about 4 oz and see if it helps.
I love how y’all be living y’all best life together!!
I love watching you both learn thangs hopefully your ear gets better so you can hear 🙏🏻
Hope you're feeling better Jess
🙏 ❤️ Love you're vlogs they are great and hilarious.
You can try bath and body works Sleep body wash and lotions (lavender). Soothing sleep music and drink your sleep time tea before you take a bath/shower so it can have a opportunity to work its way through your system.
Jess thanks for rocking your Detroit bad boy shirt… just know Detroit rocks with you to….❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I hope you get your hearing back to normal soon, I wouldn't give up on the bedtime tea. You wasn't feeling well, give it another try when you are feeling better. That tea really helps me, I even got a guy from work hooked on to the Yogi bedtime tea. He bought me the caramel flavor and told me to try it. I didn't know about ( each stores has different flavors) ❤️