Van Life Wisdom Mental Health While Living in a Van

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  • In todays video I tell my own story of struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts. Sometimes life can throw things at us that we can’t seem to cope with, and at our lowest points escaping through suicide can seem like our only hope. In my moment of extreme need I turned to a Higher Power and found hope and a way forward there. For years i asked myself every day, “Why should I be alive today?” And the only answer that worked for me was to serve and build a community. Serving others was worth the pain, when nothing else was. I hope you can find something of value in this video.
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ความคิดเห็น • 464

  • @daylight5500
    @daylight5500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Bob! You have done your son proud. His memory lives on in the kindness you show others and the many lives you have changed. I wish you a long life. The world needs you more than you realize. You are a good man Charlie Brown.

  • @JohnDoe-np3zk
    @JohnDoe-np3zk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    It takes courage to tell your story like that in front of so many people and of course the youtube community too. Inspiring.

    • @SiRrrRoM
      @SiRrrRoM 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      pardon me to say this, is also hard, at least i feel so, is hard to go back to those moments. I have a tear wanting to fall since i read, you know? :-) i don't even want to say the word. Love, so much love from Spain, let's force a smile. Take care, feel free

    • @NenaLavonne
      @NenaLavonne 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ♥️

  • @LifeBetweenTheDash
    @LifeBetweenTheDash 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    "I was very alone in my desolation" ...until we are reminded that we aren't. Thx Bob

    • @Onlinesully
      @Onlinesully 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      JBryant Concierge
      Hi. Are you on the road or at a base camp ?

    • @corey1961
      @corey1961 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bob, thanks for sharing your story with all of us!! You have truly made it possible to be free!!

    • @Onlinesully
      @Onlinesully 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      corey1961
      yes for sure, if you want to live in a van.
      some do, loads don't.
      It's truly great for those who like living in the van. Just not for me.

  • @donwyates
    @donwyates 4 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Bob, you remind me of a real life George Bailey. Just imagine all the people whose lives would not have changed for the better. The message you've shared with all of us, has had a profoundly positive impact. I'm really glad you stuck around sir!

    • @margiecallahan3009
      @margiecallahan3009 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Don Yates AMEN!

    • @livinglike_lisa7954
      @livinglike_lisa7954 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      What a great analogy. I couldn’t agree more.

    • @celtglen
      @celtglen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bob, aka George Bailey. I like it.

    • @tigercat1966
      @tigercat1966 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Top fella i could not afford a motor home built bed in Rav4 and went posh camping ..need to go again .

  • @WayPointSurvival
    @WayPointSurvival 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you so much for sharing your experience. It was a pleasure to meet you and thank you again for the opportunity to be a part of the 2020 RTR.

  • @jaimhaas5170
    @jaimhaas5170 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    A powerful and very personal story Bob. Thank you for trusting us with it.

  • @bikelanez7376
    @bikelanez7376 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Bob the man that has set a great example helped thousands on how to survive the way that it should be bob is for the people I’m so grateful for bob because of him I have learned so much so thank you 🙏 BOB IF YOUR READY THIS IM EXTREMELY THANKFUL FOR ALL YOU HAVE TAUGHT ME THROUGH THIS VIDEOS A PRAYER GOES OUT FOR YOU AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL CREW GOD BLESS.YOU IN YOUR JOURNEYS TO COME VIRTUAL HUGS TO YOU AND YOUR CREW👍

    • @k.pacificnw02134
      @k.pacificnw02134 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bob is a good and concise speaker. Has he thought about doing a Ted Talk? (I don't know if Ted Talks pay anything, but that's neither here nor there.) Depression has been in my life in myself and loved ones, and in another video Bob said do everything you can to think about others and not yourself. Depression tricks you into navel gazing and so yes; working on anything (anything!) outside oneself is the answer.

  • @marksabia3468
    @marksabia3468 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I'm bipolar manic depressive and I have learned as well...when helping others I'm helping myself.....Bob om so happy ur here....love all of ur vlogs and ur pure and honest soul....God Bless

    • @rbmh
      @rbmh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      God Bless, i Understand Also Have Bi Polar Episodes.

    • @AsTheWheelsTurn
      @AsTheWheelsTurn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      even if your own life is a mess ,if you are able to help someone else in some way to manage there life or be happier you have done something profound. My step dad was bi polar/manic depressive, I grew up seeing(experiencing) his struggle , despite the fact that he was sometimes very hard to be around his overall influence was still good, I love him very much, he taught be many things and some of the best parts of my personality came from him. he is in his late 60's now and somehow has very much leveled off , he is pretty content in life and doesnt have such huge swings anymore. he is a really good man that I love dearly and I love the aspects of myself and interests I gained from him.

    • @SiRrrRoM
      @SiRrrRoM 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AsTheWheelsTurn ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ i have no other words than love reading you. 👍👍👍👍 AllTheBest All

  • @generic234username
    @generic234username 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Oh bob you’re such a beautiful soul. Thank you for your service to the community and for your legacy. You are a historic figure and don’t even know it yet.

  • @gladyskravitzjr825
    @gladyskravitzjr825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Thank you for sharing this Bob. I felt your words in my heart. Everyone of us are the walking wounded. God is working through you.

  • @khubbard9489
    @khubbard9489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Thank you so much for sharing your experience. Mr Wells most people don't want to or know how to talk about the people left behind after a loved one commits suicide but you did a fantastic job. My mom commited suicide and I go through severe depression. I feel your message was sent for me to hear because believe it or not I started watching your videos during one of my depressed moments and I have been following you every since. I probably will never be able to afford to buy a van but when I watch your videos I feel like I have been on vacation and it gives me a sense of peace. Sorry for rambling but I had to let you know how much I appreciate you sharing your life 🙏🏿

    • @margiecallahan3009
      @margiecallahan3009 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      K Hubbard you should apply for Bob’s HOWA van giveaway

    • @wendyannh
      @wendyannh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bob couldn't afford to buy a van, either, when he started out, but he certainly couldn't afford to pay rent after a bitter divorce. He started out in a bare-walled panel truck he was able to purchase for $1,500.

    • @eileenlester3313
      @eileenlester3313 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so very sorry for your loss. Prayers for you. 🙏💜🙏

    • @SiRrrRoM
      @SiRrrRoM 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👍👍👍👍👍👍 wish you all the best K Hubbard, hope you can have more sunny days than rainy ones, hey :-) or viceversa if you love rainy ones. Cheers

  • @debbesumner8921
    @debbesumner8921 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Oh wow! From the bottom of my heart, I’m so very glad you are still waking up in the morning! 💕💕💕

  • @dayspring1239
    @dayspring1239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We have nothing unless we give ourselves away! You do that Bob. Thank you.

  • @margiecallahan3009
    @margiecallahan3009 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Bob, you’ve moved me to tears! I lost a son a year after you did. It does something terrible to the surviving parents. Also two divorces like you and 2008 was a financial disaster for me. You’re living your purpose and that is the definition of mental health. God bless you!

  • @JL-nb3dh
    @JL-nb3dh ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bob, thank you for sharing your story. Mental health should be something we should talk about as freely as physical health. Your life has touched so many, and I know sharing your story will also touch many who are silently suffering.

  • @cdb4464
    @cdb4464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very touching, dear Bob. I honor your healing process because it brought you to the man that you now are, compassionate, infinitely kind, honorable, deep thinker, respectful, generous, unpretentious. In working for others, you've been healed yourself. Loved when you said that being out in nature brought you so much joy. I totally agree. Nothing can compete with the beauty, majesty and awesomeness of God's creation reflected in nature and in our smiling faces, all warmly smiling back, loving you.

  • @CB-sr8ee
    @CB-sr8ee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I stumbled across your TH-cam channel a few months ago when I was day dreaming (for the thousandth time) about van life. I get so excited whenever I see you have uploaded a new video and have learned so much though your channel-especially through your interviews/RV tours. You’re an excellent interviewer and I love that you interview all kinds of people and give us a little glimpse of their story.
    I’m happy you had the courage to share your own story and struggle with mental health. I can’t even begin to image the pain you felt losing your son, and all of the other struggles that were compounding at that point in your life, but I am so grateful that your friend came in at the right time to help you begin to cope and heal.
    I thank you for choosing life, for sharing your story, and for creating this amazing TH-cam channel that has brought me so much joy!

  • @TFrakesTanks
    @TFrakesTanks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So glad you are still here Bob. Your videos have changed the lives of many including mine. I'm a 26 year old who has had battled anxiety and depression my whole life. I describe it just they way you did, not mopey and sad but definitely not happy. Ive talk to my doctors of course and have never let it take full control but really just having someone like you be so open about how they feel and have felt, is such a boost knowing Im not alone in the way I have felt. Im not on the road yet but I bought a van in October for a hell of a good deal I think just repairing the body work on it so I can finish the rest of the build on the inside and hit the road this summer. Thanks for everything you and everyone that helps this channel operate do.

  • @wallystewart1979
    @wallystewart1979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    humble,caring,compassionate, we need more people like you

  • @roseannejacquette9347
    @roseannejacquette9347 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    It is brave of you to share your story. The loss of a child is the worst thing that can happen to a person. I’m so glad you found your purpose in life. Everyone needs a Steve. I’m looking forward to finding my nomad family. You know I’ll be a happier person. Bless you.

    • @Onlinesully
      @Onlinesully 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rose Anne Jacquette
      Hi. Are you on the road ?

  • @debbied7803
    @debbied7803 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The loss is very real... When it rains it pours.. Things have a way of ironing them-selves out many I'm still going through hard pressed. Nature is a beautiful Spirit that I find never leaves me. I must visit it constantly... Thank you Bob.

  • @tainoindian450
    @tainoindian450 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Bob we dont know each other but i am so happy you found your purpose you give of you every day i pray you never feel a sad day again GOD BLESS YOU MY BROTHER

  • @Freespirit5371
    @Freespirit5371 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Sadly, there is still so much stigma towards mental health issues and it takes great courage to admit one needs help. I appreciate you speaking out about your feelings and your struggles to live a happy life. Thank you, Bob! I wish you great success and happiness!

    • @theresam1649
      @theresam1649 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Depression is a constant. Life is so much better with a friend or some friends. Bob, you have a purpose, good friends who share your vision and fulfillment in your life. In this, I'm very happy to find you here in Y-°t^be at least. I'll probably never meet you, but you're an inspiration to me. Because of you, I know there's hope. THANK YOU. Here's to you, Bob, & your beautiful friends! HOWA. ♡♡♡ 🏕🏜👍

  • @dskgc
    @dskgc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Thank you for sharing your mental health story Bob!! Since becoming a nomad, I have decided to pursue my dream of becoming a nature therapist, and I start school next fall! Thank you for all that you do! You bring a lot to the world and I am glad you are here! I hope to meet you and your lovely team someday. Take care!

  • @robertroach1127
    @robertroach1127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thanks Bob for sharing your story. My father also took his life when I was very young, it's not something that you ever truly get over, but you honour your son's memory with all you have done for so many.

  • @Foundinthewoodsbushcraft
    @Foundinthewoodsbushcraft 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    What a beautiful story!!! I just love Bob & his wonderful spirit. He doesn't know it but he has touched so many lives & telling his story so many can relate. Thank you Bob, you are a beautiful man inside out. 🧔🚐💖

  • @sandyhobo2053
    @sandyhobo2053 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks Bob for everything you say and do. I'm so sorry about your son. I've got the van. But I'm afraid to drive that far. I'll keep watching and try to get the courage up.im way in michigan, and I've fought depression all my life. But like you, I'm so darn happy in my van. GOD BLESS YOU.

    • @susanpeters4608
      @susanpeters4608 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Where in MI, I'm in central IN

    • @sandyhobo2053
      @sandyhobo2053 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@susanpeters4608 hi Susan, I'm in fort gratiot. Just north of port huron.

    • @susanpeters4608
      @susanpeters4608 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Do you come to Indiana? I have taken baby steps and then leaped! If I can help with the courage building or confidence let me know!

  • @TheMarialevy
    @TheMarialevy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bob, thank you for speaking from the heart. I too went through a suicidal period. I stayed alive for my dog. I thank God for putting him in my life, though he has eaten a lot of furniture and shoes. Anyway, we are so blessed to have you here with us. Thank you for sticking around.

  • @christahart2850
    @christahart2850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    God is the answer, Bob. Thanks for sharing your story. You are an inspiration to so many. May God continue to bless you all the days of your life.

    • @jaimhaas5170
      @jaimhaas5170 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Christa you missed it. The "purpose" is what saved him. He requested it...yes I get that. Feeling connected to a purpose was the answer to his quest.

  • @dreaminez472
    @dreaminez472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing how a camping trip with a good friend pulled you back from the brink. It shows what's really valuable in life.

  • @wendyannh
    @wendyannh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh, Bob, I'm so very, very sorry about your son! I cannot even begin to imagine going through that.
    I'm shocked how many people I now know whose children have committed suicide, including a close cousin, and a close friend of my brother's. It seems to be an epidemic in the children of our generation - a truly terrible one.
    I'm so glad you've found a new reason to live, though. Helping others *is* the way through depression, to that I can also personally attest.
    Thank you for sharing your journey. I'm very grateful you are still here, sharing your knowledge, which is likely to help *me* survive in the likely not very distant future. I do hope we can eventually meet, but even if we never do, I respect and admire you and what you have built and continue to do to help others. May you continue to find purpose and meaning in your life.
    Wendy

  • @douglasharley2440
    @douglasharley2440 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    i was deeply moved by your personal story bob, deepest thanks for sharing and thanks also for everything you do to help create and inspire and sustain such a community of great, resilient people!

  • @susanpidgeon9683
    @susanpidgeon9683 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I love you Bob and this heartfelt testimony makes me love you even more! 👍❤💔

  • @linda4899
    @linda4899 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you Bob, you are a huge inspiration! I found the courage to travel alone cross country to the RTR and caravans, and loved it - because Spirit spoke to me through you. May we all listen to that same loving voice within, and discover our own beautiful way of giving.

  • @barbaravilarchao6337
    @barbaravilarchao6337 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Bob you are a beautiful soul with much purpose on earth. Many blessings to you.

  • @sherryfrantz2785
    @sherryfrantz2785 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    You are such an amazing inspiration, Bob....you are a gift to the world. It’s all about spreading love and light and you do that so well. Thank you so much for all that you do and give.

  • @paulabear101
    @paulabear101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Living through such a devastating tragedy could break anyone’s spirit- so glad you came out the other side by helping others- thanks from this misfit toy to you and the crew💖

  • @havevanmusttravel1441
    @havevanmusttravel1441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Good video! Thanks to Bob for sharing his story. Without a reason to get out of bed in the morning life IS depressing. We all need to feel we have a purpose to thrive.

  • @felixcat9318
    @felixcat9318 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your natural care and love shone through your torment and heartache with understanding and kindness.
    You were able to create these beautiful things which enhance the lives, experiences and confidence of countless people, Cheap RV Living and the Homes On Wheels Alliance.
    In doing so, you have given people hope where none may have existed and have enabled them to overcome something which they were previously unable to see their way through!
    Your kindness, support and guidance means more to people than you could ever imagine.
    Thank You.

  • @justthetips4377
    @justthetips4377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Sorry to hear about your son.. I'm really glad you're alive today you've been such an inspiration. I've traveled so many places and it's all because I seen your TH-cam videos and got expired to move into my van. thank you

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have witnessed a huge change in Bob over the last decade. His giving to us has gone back to him bit by bit….so heartwarming to observe.💞

  • @cathyremchuk5819
    @cathyremchuk5819 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Glad you are here Bob! You have helped so many. Even though I don't camp or travel I enjoy following you on your channel. My brother took his life while camping in Montana in '98. I will never understand why.. but he was very unhappy. I miss him everyday. Thank you for sharing your Mental health journey with us. Take care!

  • @contactjoy4140
    @contactjoy4140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank-you, Bob.
    I've been an voracious follower of yours, gleaning every bit of knowledge from you that I can.
    You've made statements about how you need to be alone..... and yes, at those times you do.
    Hearing your deepest truth humbled me.
    There is no way to readjust to such a loss.
    All of those times when you asked, "Why can't I leave?"
    Yes, it took a little while and now you know.
    The majority of those in your audience are here by necessity and had no point of reference of how to pull it off until they found you on TH-cam.
    You needed TH-cam to reach all of these folks, including me.
    You needed your period of adjustment so you can tell others that it takes a period of adjustment, after each loss, to find a purpose.
    You found yours and touched thousands of lives.
    One of the greatest things you have done is to remove the stigma of being homeless and living in a vehicle.
    Thank-you, Bob.

  • @RavenTextiles
    @RavenTextiles 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh my Bob , my tears are flowing . I can't stress enough how important your transparency is to so many . When you leave this world you can know you've done the best thing any human can do and that is, self forgiveness , self love , and giving wholeheartedly to the well-being of others. That is pure LOVE ! Know that you are LOVED across the globe . Thank you for leading by example a new awakening in so many. XoxoxoxoXO Lots of Love from Ontario Canada Bob !

  • @lindadowling8484
    @lindadowling8484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Flowers of Purpose Often Grow from the Broken Places of Our Lives. Thank You for Your Humble Sharing.

  • @TheAmwroble
    @TheAmwroble 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Bob,...Thank you for all your inspiration!

  • @roxanneharding9767
    @roxanneharding9767 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm grateful your still here Bob. Your videos have helped me. Thankyou for your story and honesty.

  • @kellydoyle
    @kellydoyle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Best Bob Wells Video I’ve ever seen. Thank you for sharing your story, Bob. In a society that programs us not to share our pain, those that have to courage to do so are beacons of light for the rest of us. Inspiring.

  • @jasper123453
    @jasper123453 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bob you brought tears to my eyes. God brings people into our lives when he knows we need them. I've suffered from depression for years. I worry about how being a nomad would effect it. Thank you for sharing your story with us.

  • @johnsimpson8198
    @johnsimpson8198 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for all you do Bob, this world is a better place because of you, your an inspiration!

  • @karimarie5732
    @karimarie5732 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am very, very grateful too that you are here. Watching your videos during a very long illness over the past two years was honestly the only thing that brought me hope for the future because you inspired me to dream about the adventures to come. You are such a blessing Bob 🙏💛

  • @AlexSmith-px1di
    @AlexSmith-px1di 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bob has helped me to look at life differently, I am so happy that I tuned into his channel.
    Thank you Bob, I don't think you understand just how truly awesome you are!

  • @resellingandthrifting
    @resellingandthrifting 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Amen! I feel ya Bob. I lost both my daughters ten years apart almost to the day. Very young. Appreciate everything you do for people. I think helping is what life's all about 😊♥️

    • @celticwarrior777
      @celticwarrior777 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤗♥️

    • @denisemayosky1955
      @denisemayosky1955 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So sorry!😞 Here's hoping you find peace. I'll pray for you!💖🌹

    • @resellingandthrifting
      @resellingandthrifting 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@denisemayosky1955 thank you sweety.

    • @wendyannh
      @wendyannh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so, so sorry for your terrible loss, @RV BUTTERFLY! It's hard enough to imagine losing one child, let alone two. May their sweet memories be for a blessing, and may you find your way through the pain to still be able to find some measure of happiness in life.

    • @resellingandthrifting
      @resellingandthrifting 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@wendyannh Thank you so much 😊♥️

  • @elq5317
    @elq5317 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for sharing Bob. So happy to hear meaningful friendships and purpose brought you upliftment. 💛💛💛

  • @susane4078
    @susane4078 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You walked through the darkest time of your life and survived, by choice. I’m so glad you chose life. Look what a positive DIFFERENCE you have made in the lives of so many people. Thank you for all you do.

  • @kash7585
    @kash7585 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m so sorry about your son. 💔 Thank you for sharing your story. Thank you for giving hope to others that they don’t have to be trapped in a hamster wheel of work, and material things. You’re great. Keep on going. You have so much more to share. ❤️

  • @Gypsy-lq1xh
    @Gypsy-lq1xh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow...thank you for sharing your story Bob.....it gives me great comfort knowing this community is compassionate and supportive towards those in crisis mode and beyond ....

  • @tomre2769
    @tomre2769 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    And I beleve you are the reason to keep going, for many others, Bob. You inspire me, and I am in Norway :-)

  • @mysticalmisfit1332
    @mysticalmisfit1332 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you, Bob. I’m so sorry for your loss💐💐 So happy you are here. You’ve inspired & helped so many.🙌🏽🙌🏽 ❤️

  • @saturninc3786
    @saturninc3786 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    bless you Bob for taking the road less travelled and ending up being such an inspiration and lifesaver to countless of people. You bring hope when there is none left. I have so much respect for you, brother. Thank you for being you, and being there! Jason

  • @vivienmakovik8054
    @vivienmakovik8054 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What an amazing story. God heard you that day and changed your life and gave you Steve. The power of friendships. Thanks for your channel. One of my favs. 🇬🇧

  • @journeyoflovelight
    @journeyoflovelight 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for sharing your Journey... i appreciate you..

  • @taminormal7103
    @taminormal7103 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Love you Bob. Love what you do. Thankful you are here.

  • @zing913945
    @zing913945 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    We are all in this together Bob ! Wishing you the best as you continue to give your best ! You have helped a lot of people along the way !

  • @sandyp9891
    @sandyp9891 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful!!! I have lost a brother and a brother-in-law to suicide in the last 18 months and this after losing both parents in the six months before. If it were not for the support of a few friends and family members, the waves of depression may very well have consumed me. My doctor lost his son to suicide in 2018. He highly recommended that I do what he did... hit the road and get into nature. That's when, at 60 years old, I outfitted my SUV for a trip from SE Texas to the Appalachians, all by myself and it was amazing. I still live in my home near my support group, but I do travel alone. Thank you for this!!! Our Higher Power listens and directs people into our lives in some pretty amazing ways. Make time to be alone in nature, but don't neglect that wonderful net of people that literally save lives.

  • @theresafinn4257
    @theresafinn4257 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thank you for your courage in sharing.

  • @robbanks5023
    @robbanks5023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sorry for your loss, Bob. I am glad you are still around, you inspire many.

  • @nikhilsukumar23
    @nikhilsukumar23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your story is so real and unfair. Sometimes life is unfair to us and we need to find a new purpose. I feel for your loss and your feelings. I too have been fighting depression for some years. I don't take medication but I try to create a parallel world in my mind which is sweet. Thank you Bob. Your story brought tears to my eyes. Often men don't tell our stories. At least one krn must tell their feelings.

  • @cynthiadeneen8950
    @cynthiadeneen8950 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks Bob for talking about your son & your journey through depression.
    You are an inspiration to me and Many more.
    I've lost my best friend and a year later , the man I was to marry to suicide. It's been hard, but listening to you helped.
    Our high power is using you to change many lives & helping them find the courage to seek a better life. ❤️👍

  • @eptunes3616
    @eptunes3616 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    😢. I’m happy you’re here. I also believe as you there is a greater being than us. Keep going you’re the reason many are here, freedom from their life stresses.✌🏽

  • @bikeboomer2617
    @bikeboomer2617 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    After viewing this I have a new respect for Bob Wells. Meaningful and helpful. Thank you Bob for this video.

  • @lynnepierce3676
    @lynnepierce3676 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So sorry for the loss of your son😢 but I believe it is so wonderful that you have been and still are helping so many ppl. You give them hope where none might have existed before. Bless you for continuing to do that.😊❤️

  • @S.G..E555
    @S.G..E555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As tough as your path has been bob you manage to spread so much wisdom through sharing your life and ideas... I was definitely heading for a breakdown before I went to live in my camper car... I’m now happy and debt free... thanks bob for everything ✌️✌️✌️ all the way from north west England

  • @ramblinginramsey1395
    @ramblinginramsey1395 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thanks so much Bob. I’m watching this surrounded by my new nomad friends in the Woman’s Caravan in the La Paz Valley.. From the testimonies shared at the campfire each night, I can attest that your efforts have profoundly helped an amazing amount of people. As Stephen Hawkins said, “No matter how difficult life is, there is always something helpful we can do.” (Something like that.) This was my first RTR. So glad to be a part of it. Next time hope to share my appreciation face to face. Mary Ames Mitchell

  • @renaissancepoet
    @renaissancepoet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm currently caring for a physically disabled wife and mother. My wife was also diagnosed with Bipolar 1 Disorder in 2014 so she has changed into a completely different person who feels differently about me now. I am a prisoner to both her and my mother's needs. I have no life of my own and no happiness, only depression. I find escape in watching van life, truck camper life, and RV life in general videos on TH-cam. I am a writer with currently 8 self published books. I have more stories to write but my depression is crippling me and preventing me from doing so. One day I hope to live the nomad life. One day I hope to be free. Thank You Bob for your story.

  • @susanpeters4608
    @susanpeters4608 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mental health is so important ! Thank you for sharing your story. I am so Grateful that Steve came into your life when he did as it allowed you to open the door to others. Being on the road has been a dream for many years, 2 years ago I was in an auto accident with black ice, totalled 'George Washme' my Jeep. I broke both my legs, my dominate arm and my autonomy to say the least. Oh I had plans for George! That was 2 years ago and 2 days ago. Watching your videos have been one of my best therapies! I continue to struggle with the autonomy and have to locate new transportation but you have kept me going and for this I thank you. Bless you all!

  • @Birdzy100
    @Birdzy100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hugs! Almost cried watching this. Have "found" you perhaps several months ago and have learned soooo much. Thanks for being you! Keep On Keeping On!

  • @anns1921
    @anns1921 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow!!! Thank you Bob for sharing such a personal story. Life is really hard for most of us but your words encourage and inspire and you give so many people hope. I think you are one in a million and I hope and pray you will be with us for a very long time. Be safe and may God bless you wherever you go!!

  • @susanhowell1673
    @susanhowell1673 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    No words, except, "I love you, Bob Wells." After discovering your channel, it is so great to know we are not alone. Thank you, God and thank you, Source for helping all of us to find each other.

  • @janicehaas2979
    @janicehaas2979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very sorry to hear about your son! I’m thankful that you hung in there and can function better now! Look how many lives you’ve influenced! Hugs to you Bob.

  • @kimberlyknight9584
    @kimberlyknight9584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love you Bob. Such an important topic. Thanks for your transparency ❤️

  • @jonisjourneys3684
    @jonisjourneys3684 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bob, we are all very grateful that you are here too💕 Your story brought tears to my eyes and empathy for your pain, loss and sadness. You have such a good , caring heart and we are blessed that you have found your reason😊 Safe travels 🌻

  • @Twelvestonestacking
    @Twelvestonestacking 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    touching and adequate. having lost my daughter in '18 i understand! i will gladly, "walk with you"...those words are the only words necessary when encountering people with "loss" ! thank you for sharing your personal journey!

  • @believer7733
    @believer7733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you so much Bob! I can't imagine this world without you! I'm so glad you found your purpose.

  • @deefromtx5530
    @deefromtx5530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh Bob, I had no idea. Thank you for sharing your life, your heartaches, and struggles. We all have a story and yours is very touching and relatable. You’ve managed to turn your life around and are receiving blessings from the love and wisdom you’re so freely sharing with others. May God bless and keep dear man. I’m so sorry about the loss of your beloved son.

  • @robin6564
    @robin6564 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I relate very much to your story. I thank you for helping me through dark times with your videos. Looks to me what you are doing is meant to be. Thank you.

  • @chrislaborio-garner7702
    @chrislaborio-garner7702 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m so very glad you are here!! Thank you for what you do and give. Many blessings to you Bob💗

  • @nancyhoss7067
    @nancyhoss7067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My heart goes out to you! I can’t imagine the pain you went through. You bring love and hope to many and I hope only good things will happen to you from this point onwards! You are a kind, wonderful man!

  • @Michelle-jn3iv
    @Michelle-jn3iv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your testimony is very touching, Bob. Thank you for opening up and sharing your heart. So inspiring. You are a good human being. Connection is so vital to our livelihood and you are doing just that. The Maker is looking out for you. You are never alone. Lots of love to you.

  • @veronicajacobi2248
    @veronicajacobi2248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow, I have always been really grateful to you Bob, but now I am super grateful. Thank you so much for hanging in there, and I am damn excited about the Tesla! (I am part owner of a LEAF.)

  • @sophiebeaudoin5294
    @sophiebeaudoin5294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So sorry for your son. I'm happy you found an outlet for the love you have for him!

  • @2XCoworking
    @2XCoworking 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your bravery in sharing your story, Bob. Although I haven't yet joined van life, I've lived overseas a couple of times and dealt with loneliness and depression. Thank you for turning your pain & grief into care and practical help for others who are suffering. This world is better for having you in it!

  • @NickDemski
    @NickDemski 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Mental health is such a big part of travel that people don't talk about. It takes work, and if you're not an introvert like me who gets 100% satisfaction from the relationship I have with my daughter, then it might get lonely. That can wear people down.

  • @cherylseefeldt1952
    @cherylseefeldt1952 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for sharing, Bob. You’re a good man and a blessing to us all.

  • @sluggo8633
    @sluggo8633 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Incredible story Bob...thank you for sharing

  • @mizzki9836
    @mizzki9836 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow, very touching, Bob! Real and human and honest and brave. I'm sure because of you many people's lives are so much better, with you being an unsolicited wise man, showing them the way.....u'r pretty incredible and may you always be watched over and blessed.

  • @kiefferkeepinon828
    @kiefferkeepinon828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have not been suicidal, per se, but I was the "living dead" while being severely depressed, losing several years to it and what you said about your dog resonates with me. If it wasn't for my dogs and cats, I would've lived much more poorly, as it was them that got me up and moving day-by-day through the worst of it all. Thank you for sharing your story and yourself to us. It means more than words could ever explain. 💗

  • @cobyporschifer221
    @cobyporschifer221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for all advice & help you have given to so many people starting over and going into van life . Bless you 👣

  • @lisalamorey3453
    @lisalamorey3453 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh Bob thank you SO much for sharing your story. You are SO loved by many. You are a true gift to this world.

  • @snakeyes2126
    @snakeyes2126 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That was beautiful Bob , watching you on TH-cam and others like you , is what keeps me going ! Thank You !

  • @begeezy831
    @begeezy831 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When you spoke to GOD from your heart he answered as he always does to show you he is able and no matter how hard it may seem he will always be there for you. You are an inspiration to many and through your good deeds and guidance of others within this community you are laying many treasures up in Heaven where it matters most. That's why GOD protected you through it all and sent you your friend as a earthly guardian angel at your time of need. GOD bless