What to do After Marriage? & Name Change Process!

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  • @BigBudde
    @BigBudde ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Video starts at 4:29 - you're welcome!

  • @miarcoiris23
    @miarcoiris23 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Great video! Would love to hear about all the little bits you have to do a few months before the wedding - like seating plan, name card, worship songs etc! My wedding is in August so will need to start doing all those little bits soon and scared I'm going to forget something xx

  • @andreas_adventures
    @andreas_adventures 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Going through all of this right now. Just got back from the honeymoon. It’s honestly crazy how hard it is to figure out how to do this normal stuff.

  • @chozie7
    @chozie7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Oh my gosh, this was freaking great! I'm getting married in just about 4 months and I needed to know all this info. Thank you for taking the time to make this video!!!

  • @DLee1923
    @DLee1923 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video !! I hope people are still checking in all these months later ! Because lots of young couples can glean so many important things from this !
    Thank you for the time and effort it took to cover these topics. ❤️🥀

  • @elizabethlarkin4499
    @elizabethlarkin4499 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Super helpful video, thanks girl! I saved this video for when I get married next year. It's good to know that it takes a few months to get all the name changing stuff done.

  • @brittanymerk894
    @brittanymerk894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Holy...what a process.

  • @SamWest96
    @SamWest96 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This process is so different and so much more complicated than in the UK, my brain feels fried! If you choose to change your name it gets done automatically when the marriage certificate is signed and then you just use that and ID to change your name on everything else. You also take your marriage certificate away with you on the day so you could start changing things that day if you really wanted 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @scnguyen3234
    @scnguyen3234 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So helpful, since I'll be doing this soon and I totally agree - CA DMV waiting lines are crazy!😂

    • @anniemagnifique
      @anniemagnifique 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Guys -- the scene in Zootopia with the sloths says IT ALL. 😂

  • @emilyjohnson9406
    @emilyjohnson9406 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this! Also, I would love to see your everyday makeup tutorial 😊

  • @taystaunton
    @taystaunton 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for making this video! My husband and I JUST got married on March 23rd, and JUST got back from our honeymoon, so now it’s “go time” lol! I sure hope the DMV/DPS line in Dallas is not 2-3 hours long! Wish me luck!!

  • @kelleebeane9405
    @kelleebeane9405 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I made the mistake of watching this right after waking up. Lol

  • @HanBay2
    @HanBay2 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for putting this together!

  • @QtNicolie
    @QtNicolie ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this. It’s almost 2 months after my wedding and just starting this process. Also can I ask what lipstick you used? I love the color. If it’s just natural it’s amazing 🤩

  • @ashlynweaver5883
    @ashlynweaver5883 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for making this video!!! Definitely will be referring to it soon!!! 😁💕

  • @Sunshinestarsflower
    @Sunshinestarsflower 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for this! Will be needing it after April 12 (Elopement Day) 💛

  • @ameliuslantea1789
    @ameliuslantea1789 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey Michel, did you two ever consider the option that both give up their surname and adopt a completely new one?
    It's called "meshing", one of the things you could do:
    1. Combine both names and fuse them together, so for example "Brox" and "Thornton" would become "Broxton"
    2. If it's complicated to just fuse both names, choose a few letters from both and create a nice name with them
    3. Choose something which you both love as a template for a new surname (for example if both love swimming something which has to do with water or the Ocean etc.)
    3. Choose something completely different like a japanese name (like Satori) if both plan to live in Japan or a german name (like Müller) if they'd plan to live in Germany/Austria/Switzerland and so on
    I think that it's an interesting & romantic idea but seems to be rather rare, even around North America, South America, Europe and Australia ^-^

  • @brittanykocour5661
    @brittanykocour5661 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for all the advice. My fiancé is going is going to need this information for when we get married on October 12, 2019. He has no idea where to start and I will be sharing this videos with him.🥰

  • @leilani2258
    @leilani2258 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tip: when you pay for your marriage certificate, request for atleast 2 copies. They will make give you as many copies as you need just in case.

  • @melissathomasvoice
    @melissathomasvoice 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this! I've been curious about this process :)

  • @TreisiGomez
    @TreisiGomez ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this currently waiting on marriage cert to get here also do you have to update your citizenship cert too ?and where at the passport place i wonder ?

  • @cassidya1738
    @cassidya1738 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    one of my favorite parts about watching these videos is watching the Pothos plant get bigger and bigger

    • @MichelJanse
      @MichelJanse  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sassy Cassie there miiiiight be some merch coming out soon featuring the lil plant friend 😏

  • @debbienguyen5068
    @debbienguyen5068 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Really informative video. I am little overwhelmed by them and now it make me change my mind about change my name when i get marry. It would be even harder for me cause my bf is not a citizen either so would be more stuff to do😅

  • @sarahcortese4977
    @sarahcortese4977 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just got back from honeymoon! Thanks for sharing the info

  • @sharonhughes9122
    @sharonhughes9122 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Also if you get utility bills online and sent to you through email you HAVE TO PRINT THEM OUT. They don’t take digital forms.

  • @sharonhughes9122
    @sharonhughes9122 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I did the whole passport process and got my new one in the mail within two weeks; it was really quick.
    I also got my new social security card and new drivers license sent to me within a week 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @kaitlinv07
    @kaitlinv07 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    In regards to getting your new passport, you should be able to just go to any United States Post office and get it there. I just went and renewed mine and it sounds like its the same process if you're getting a new one because of your last name change. Call your local post office and they should be able to give you more info on it!

  • @J_Bb
    @J_Bb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m so stressed thinking about doing all this during COVID times 😓

  • @doriachic2851
    @doriachic2851 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    kinda helpful and currently getting through it ,about to rewatch

  • @debraroth2388
    @debraroth2388 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks great video love watching your videos great information to know

  • @bandojulia7
    @bandojulia7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can you change your first name at the same time? Will it be a separate process after taking husband's last name?

  • @pc10lovzyou
    @pc10lovzyou 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow should've got a pen when you said to. Literally just paused at 2:08 so I could take notes

  • @evegem8978
    @evegem8978 ปีที่แล้ว

    How did you find all of this information after changing your name? Once you change it do you have to change everything to your now marriage name or can you just leave as is?

  • @aselmoldobaeva6868
    @aselmoldobaeva6868 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    very helpful, Thanks!

  • @rachelle-zhang
    @rachelle-zhang 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I need this so much.

  • @laurenoliveira2800
    @laurenoliveira2800 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You have to mail away your passport ?! That would scare me, and can it be a copy of the marriage cert?

  • @jesicaaguilar9925
    @jesicaaguilar9925 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I recently got married at San Francisco City Hall. And I still don't understand why that can't mail us a free one. Is it that big of a deal? 😑

  • @danaisseh8166
    @danaisseh8166 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can you use your current passport (that has your old name on it) to travel? even after you've changed your name on your social security card?

    • @wge621
      @wge621 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, you just need to bring a copy of your marriage certificate

  • @SellingSmithLake
    @SellingSmithLake 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ohh! Thank you. Can you use your passport even tho you’ve updated your new license??

  • @deborahwilsonkells5868
    @deborahwilsonkells5868 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have seen some of your videos this mornings and somewhere you mentioned a book you read before you got married called preparing for marriage I think?! What was the author?! ThanksDx

  • @taniagomez4328
    @taniagomez4328 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    During the process at no point do you have to change your actual birth certificate , right?

  • @mollimcginnis9842
    @mollimcginnis9842 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So helpful.

  • @MommyKnowsBest
    @MommyKnowsBest 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    These are great tips!! Check out our video with marriage coach, Yana Gil de Montes, where she talks about the keys that helped her transform her marriage!

  • @Emilia923
    @Emilia923 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Getting married 7+12=19 (July 12 2019) lol
    Thank you

    • @Emilia923
      @Emilia923 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hailey Coppings congrats to you too! And don’t you just love how our date adds up lol

  • @valerielinares2068
    @valerielinares2068 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if you don't have a passport? Would a State Id or driver's license work just fine? Or, when you say "passport" are you just referencing just some form of a second photo ID?

    • @pc10lovzyou
      @pc10lovzyou 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Passports stand in for either a formal ID (like license) or proof of citizenship (like birth certificate). If you don't have a passport you'll probably need your license and birth certificate for applying for a new social security card and a new license

  • @katstarbuck2626
    @katstarbuck2626 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @prindale
    @prindale 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyouuuu

  • @rivil5654
    @rivil5654 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    help I'm married ironically

  • @crazyleaf257
    @crazyleaf257 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cool you believe in marriage, Dave ramsey, and you live in texas! Me too!

  • @crazyleaf257
    @crazyleaf257 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cool

  • @mollycady2878
    @mollycady2878 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You can claim you lost your passport... how are they gonna know a difference? lol

  • @angelarene5744
    @angelarene5744 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My hubby in L.A. n i in oklahoma we be marry soon n hope i change my last name to his

    • @andreafoxx925
      @andreafoxx925 ปีที่แล้ว

      once u both getmarry where u plan live in oklahoma or l.a?

  • @kristeld2348
    @kristeld2348 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi What if the guy's surname is "Peacock" My friends said it is funny. Will the law allow me to use PEAC or PEA so I can be Mrs. Peac or Mrs. Pea?

  • @jen.j3878
    @jen.j3878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wonder how long will this man taking practice sustain? If this is truly on equal partnership. What is becoming one to do with the groom’s name? What makes his legacy more important than the woman’s? This practice has disturbing roots. And even in modern day age this is in mainstream.

  • @ptrsamson21
    @ptrsamson21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Is it just me or does it look like her top lip it stuck to her teeth sometimes. Lol

    • @Gigiwasheree
      @Gigiwasheree ปีที่แล้ว

      Why do u comment this? It’s totally irrelevant smh