@@alliea8141 Oh wow, your answers don't indicate any problem with Jordy but they sure do indicate a problem with you. That is the most cynical and arrogant answer I have ever seen. You don't even know this man and you're assigning devious and manipulative motives to him, when he has never shown any signs of it that we have seen and yes, Michel is right, we're only seeing the merest hint of what Jordy as a person is like, but everyone around her loves him. Don't you think Michel's parents would see that and guard her from being around a toxic person like that? Put down your own baggage before you comment in a public forum would be my suggestion to you.
@@miapoe2501 So men are supposed to pay for everything and that doesn't make you beholden to them? Firstly, you've obviously never heard of the feminist movement and secondly, how did you forget that Jordy has paid for things on several occasions, or haven't you been watching the vlogs? Have you forgotten that Jordy has, in past videos, paid for Michel to do things so they could have remote dates and organised for meal deliveries for Michel when he was away from her? He also bought her the (very expensive) flowery top with the big bows that she had rented because she loved it so much? As far as I can see, he has only ever shown himself to be a super thoughtful, super caring amazing guy. I feel so sorry for the men in your life. You are obviously a taker who doesn't realise that every relationship has to be both ways. One sided never works.
@@marilynelliott3236 Look up covert narcissism and love bombing. He absolutely has shown signs and Michel should be very careful. Also I don't necessarily think her parents would notice. Many people aren't aware of mental health and more covert forms of manipulation, and her parents aren't mental health professionals/don't appear to have any strong knowledge of mental health in general. So I actually don't think her parents would necessarily know/pick up on this in the honeymoon phase, especially if they're more naive. He showed way too much interest too early. The gifts on the first date, $400 shirt just a couple months into dating for no special occasion (especially when he doesn't even have a particularly high income), watching her videos to study her before they started dating, talking on the phone with her for 8 hours at a time, struggling to come up with a real answer about what he likes about her, eating and drinking things around her that would be harmful for her to ingest and acting flippant about it (the coconut water and also several clearly non-gluten free items in the Hawaii vlog), watching her wedding video with her ex on his own months into the relationship, repeatedly talking about how "kind" he'll be to her because Brook wasn't (kind people don't have to announce or even think about intentionally being kind), not to mention how quickly their relationship progressed--that's not normal, and I could provide so many more examples. This looks way more like love bombing and manipulation to me than it does genuine affection, and anyone who isn't telling her to at least keep her guard a little bit up and be looking for red flags (which honestly anyone should be doing if they're only a few months into a relationship) is giving her terrible advice. He's a walking red flag and like Michel said, we haven't even seen most of it. What we've seen alone should make her veryyyy hesitant with him--I can't imagine how many more of these red flags there are that we haven't seen.
@@mackenziesmith3412 Wow, looks like I better watch out then, because my boyfriend and I did pretty much the same things Michel and Jordy are doing, because we were in a long distance relationship too. We're now five years in and getting married next year and I am over the moon because he is the man of my dreams and we are crazy about each other. I know what a narc is. My best friend has been going out with a narc for five years and they finally just broke up recently and the red flags were popping up everywhere with him. I do agree with you that narcs are problematic and not everybody can see them, but its the other things that narcs do that are the indicators. To me, Brook was more of a narc than Jordy. The undermining behaviour that slowly sucks your confidence away, the lies and manipulation, the gaslighting. Now that is a narc. And, her parents didn't like Brook, and let Michel know that, so they're not too naïve. We've all encountered them via the vids.. they seem like very thoughtful, deep thinking people to me. You only have to look at Michel herself. Watch some of the earlier videos and you can see how unhappy she was, because she really WAS with a narc then. Even when she was presenting a brave face and pretending everything was peachy keen, you could see it in her face. Her eyes were soooo sad. Now, she is glowing, she is confident, she is happy. You'll say, yes, because she's in the love bomb phase, but narcs don't keep that up.. that's just the hook to get you in. Jordy is not self absorbed or egotistical. He doesn't need all of the attention or for the adoration to be aimed at him, in fact he keeps on moving that focus back to her. If you asked a narc what do you do, he would NEVER answer, I'm just a guy and I date Michel". He would be singing his own praises to the hilt. He would never say something like, "If I do something wrong and I cause you pain then they can come at me because I would deserve it. " Narcs are more like, "It's your fault that they don't like me, because you haven't presented me properly". It's never them that's in the wrong, its you. Where do you see any of that in Jordy? Sometimes a kind man is just a kind man and I get the feeling Jordy is just a guy who really wears his heart on his sleeve. I thought his answers were very thoughtful and he is capable of great introspection.
@@marilynelliott3236 That's great, I'm very happy for you, congrats! I've been in two relationships with narcissists--one overt and one covert. They both started out the same way Michel's did, with tons of love bombing, and I was over the moon--that phase also lasted for quite a long time (longer than Michel has even known Jordy). People around me liked them at the time too. If you go back a long time ago, you can even see that at one point Brook love bombed Michel too. I also don't think her parents always disliked Brook, I believe they started to dislike him later into their marriage when he began to neglect her. But to be clear, I think Brook may be a narcissist as well, and I'm not saying that Jordy absolutely is one--of course not. I'm saying that this behavior is identical to love bombing and, although not every relationship that starts this way becomes toxic/abusive, many do. People with a history of abusive relationships (like Michel's with Brook) are also more likely to end up in another abusive relationship, so they should be especially vigilant for red flags. All I'm saying is that this behavior is not typical of an early relationship, but it is typical of narcissistic love bombing. Anyone experiencing this should be looking out for signs of narcissistic/toxic behaviors, but ESPECIALLY someone who has been in abusive relationships before. Narcissists begin relationships looking like the person of your dreams--they have idealized you and will do any and everything for you. This is until you reach the devaluing stage, which can happen days, weeks, months, or even years into a relationship (yes, the love bombing stage can and does last for years in some cases). That's when the gaslighting, putdowns, etc. begin--they don't happen at the start of the relationship. And no, your description of how a narcissist would respond is only accurate for overt narcissism (and even then, not necessarily). Covert narcissists actually commonly respond exactly the way Jordy did--by putting themselves down and minimizing themselves. It's typically a tactic to get compliments, other times it can be as a form of manipulation to appear humble. I don't think Jordy would be an overt narcissist, and to be honest, they're not as dangerous because their narcissism is pretty easy to spot. I think that, IF he is a narc, he would be a covert one. Covert narcs are very dangerous because their manipulation is very subtle, they often appear very kind and empathetic, etc. In fact, usually only people very close to covert narcs actually experience or see the abuse. And also because it's so subtle, many of the victims may not even realize it's happening--they often end up believing *they're* the ones at fault. I've spoken with people who were married for 20-30 years before realizing that their partner was a narc and was abusing them. I both have a degree in this and, like I said, was in long term relationships with people who had this illness. I know exactly what it looks like, which is why I'm concerned for Michel
Through the years I watched all the videos with your ex and I noticed how you spent half the time complementing him and lifting him up and he never did that for you, that irritated me a lot! So just the fact that Jordy has such nice things to say about you lets me breath out finally and feel very hopeful and happy for you! I know you are nervous of our response and judgement and I get it, hope all the friends here have 0 judgment and can be just so happy for you :) I know I am
Yes and it irritated me when he ex said his favorite thing about Michel is coming home and seeing his laundry folded. Ugh. He made it sound like he got himself a maid.
Agree! In the several videos I have seen of the ex, he just seemed kind of distant and uninterested. Not very warm. Jordy’s conversation clicks so much better with her and it’s adorable.
Jordy is such a breath of fresh air for you. I know if we can see the kindness he shows, his intentionality and his genuine want to make you happy and are giddy for you, I can’t imagine how you must feel, feeling it. You deserve the absolute world, and it’s so awesome to be seeing this amazing relationship come to fruition. I feel like I’m watching a couple that has been together for years, as their younger selves…like looking at your parents as young adults. Enjoy this life God has so purposefully and wonderfully given you…it’s obvious he was saving Jordy for you and anyone before him was just a stepping stone to shape into who you are today, ready to fully receive the man so obviously made for you ❤️
I really don’t wanna make a judgement or criticism but I really do appreciate Jordy’s energy and how present in the moment he is. That is a good kind of person to have in your circle 😊 welcome Jordy!
I love that his favorite thing about you ISN'T that you do his laundry... he seems very sweet and I'm glad you're with someone more aligned with who you are :)
I am so impressed with Jordy's thoughtfulness. The lovely gesture of gifting you a book for your birthday in contrast to your ex giving you a workout set in an Amazon box! TEAM JORDY!!!
I loved the talk you had with us before sharing him because it shows how much you’ve grown in the last couple of months. I love the fact that you’re setting boundaries with us, which you definitely should. I love this for you!
I just watched your introduction and paused to comment this. Only you know what’s best for you. I dated someone two months after my divorce was finalized. I posted a picture of him on my Facebook and someone commented “what happened to the one you married?” I knew then moving forward I would protect my peace at all costs. Her and her ignorant self were immediately blocked. You don’t owe anyone any kind of explanation for anything. You are VISIBLY over the moon and finally being treated how you deserve to be treated. If someone has anything negative to say about that, that speaks on their character. The real issues lies within those people and their sad lives. I’m proud of you for creating and implementing boundaries to protect what’s special to you.
I recently ended a relationship with my bf (we actually were in Hawaii a couple months ago too)and it'sbeen hard. Nothing horrible went wrong, I just never got that spark and knew we both deserved true love. When I watched this and saw they way you guys look at each other and interact I was reminded of what I look forward to having again one day :)
He seems really sweet and I love how relaxed/chill he is about your ex-husband situation and videos. His reaction to watching your wedding video was adorable. I think he is a kind hearted human, I say bravo on landing such a great one!!
This warms my heart!!! I pray everyday my boys find a young lady like you one day! Y’all are darling…I’m loving you two together! Thank you for sharing this darling relationship with us! TEAM JORDY!!!
This is not meant as shade but you seem like someone who always has a boyfriend, like not alone for long periods of time...I don't mean alone like physically alone (not long distance) but alone without dating someone for at least a year? I struggle with that and was just curious! Like have you been alone without a boyfriend or dating for a long time? I'm trying to do that and I'm finding it hard! People tell me I need to really get to know myself without someone around...What is your experience with being alone (not even dating)?
You two are really great at communicating. As a 51 year old recently divorced woman, I think that goes such a long way in preventing future issues. Keep being adorable 💕
I love how he talks about you. Also, I think acts of service is a love language for you. It equates to being taken care of and someone being really kind and wanting to make your day better by helping. Congrats you two!
People say they don’t care about their parents opinion but it’s honestly SO IMPORTANT. My parents love my husband and loved him upon meeting him. My parents did not like any previous so. Your parents see more than you do. You and Jordy are so comfortable around each other and that is so cute!
I went through a terrible breakup years ago with an ex fiance. I met my now husband a few years later and we now have 3 wonderful children. I found your channel very randomly but it has been a huge blessing and I’ve kind of been able to process things about my own breakup that I didn’t realize were still lurking in my heart. So thank you for your candid generous sharing of your life. You are making a difference to people. Bringing joy to the world. And I am very happy for you. You and Jordy seem like a genuine and sweet couple. Mutual admiration, shared values, and the care you have for each are evident. God bless!
I absolutely love how he looks at you and how he recognizes you for who you are and your kindness. Also, he seems very intentional about you and it shows how much this means to you. I hope you two are very happy together and I wish you all the best, because you deserve it
ahhh, i wish this video went on forever! jordy is such a breath of fresh air, and you can just tell how much he cares and adores you in his body language and the way he looks at you! the way he gave the BEST answers to some of the "toughest" questions with such ease shows how authentic and genuinely nice he is! SO SO happy for you, you look so truly happy! ♥
I agree! I know you want us to be kind to everyone Michel. In being my honest, authentic self, the 27 minutes flew by here, wheras with the previous partner, I often couldn't finish more than 8 minutes. He wasn't hard on the eyes, but his mannerisms toward you, like pent up jealousy, was hard to take. For reference I found your channel February 2022.
I agree with this. The other thing I noticed was her adoration of him, too! Michel, if you’ve not been told before, your profile and mannerisms are so similar to your mother’s.
You have grown up so much in the last year. I have cried with you, laughed with you and watched you find this wonderful, confident, beautiful person. Then oh my goodness not only are you out making friends, but you found a man that makes you laugh and your heart soar. You have made the 3 hours of dialysis 3 days a week fly by. I am so glad that this is your time. Be. Safe traveling and conquer the world!!
Well isnt he just adorable. He is one of the good ones. Hes not stuck on himself and worried about impressing ppl. Hes well rounded, believes in himself (there is a difference) and cares about you! Its genuine not fake. You 2 look so good together!!! Hes a keeper!
He is not shy! I love this for you and your continued growth. I honestly can only see positives here. He gives you space to grow while also being there for you. I also love how realistic and down to earth he is. So nice to see that!
I really like that Jordy seems to be a very confident man. He’s very expressive and not afraid to say what’s on his mind. I also see the kindness in his words. So very happy for you both. You seem very compatible with one another. Also- I love that you have that verbal/intellectual connection. I often think this is overlooked, but so very important especially for long term relationships. It’s always good to have your partner as the person to talk to and share thoughts with.
Michel, I found your vlogs around the time your divorce was public, and have followed your journey. Y'alls relationship is so sweet and it's so nice to see you happy. I wish the Michel a year ago could see how far she would come and how happy she would be. You deserve to be treated well and you are worthy of love..so happy for you and Jordy!! ❤️
He's like a breath of fresh air! The way he looks at you is just adorable too! I'm so very happy for you and hope to see more of Jordy! Welcome to the "family"!
I just wanted to say that it’s nice to see you happy! Whether you continue sharing your relationship online or not is your decision and completely respect it. He seems to be completely invested in you and what it takes to further your relationship and all that matters is how you feel about him. I wish you both the very best! 💕
Wow. I am blown away at the fact that you two haven’t been together for a long time because you genuinely seem like you’ve known each other for years. I love how kind and thoughtful you are to each other! Beyond happy for you both that you found each other. 💕
I loved this! I love how he is very real with you. Acknowledges that he isn't as super clean as you. He isn't trying to be perfectly, exactly what Michel wants or needs. You seem to really compliment each other. My favorite thing is his appreciation of you and how he shows you he cares.
Thank you for including us in your life. This was so well done. I think we can all see what you see in Jordy … a truly kind person. Two kind souls have found each other. Embrace it.
We love happy and in a healthy relationship Michel! He seems like such a great solid guy. He came off super well intentioned and authentic. Can’t wait for more content and what the future holds for MORDY
So nice "meeting" Jordy! I've been watching you since the divorce and have been cheering you on ever since. I've really enjoyed watching your journey and makes me so happy to see you and Jordy together.
This was lovely, you are both lovely together & separately. Michel, your ease, comfort, & joy are apparent. Thank you, Jordy, for being the man she deserves, after the guy she was married to. As someone who has been a subscriber from many apartments ago, thank you for taking us along as you bloom!🌺
8 mins in - he’s almost as precious as you are. I know you’ll treat him as such. You have the ability to make shit look like a diamond. But having an actual diamond already?! You guys are going to make each other feel so loved.
19 mins in - he feels like a younger version of your dad. I swore I would never do any comparing. And I’m not. I hope this comes out right. I used to wonder how your relationship with your ex happened when he seemed to be nothing like your dad who is the dad I wish I had. But Jordy - I get. Jordy reminds me so much of what we know about your dad. I will say this - when you left your ex I realized that that tenacity that left even though it hurt - THAT was the result of being raised by a man who taught you how to be loved. I would have stayed and continued to be mistreated. Have you heard “God Bless the Broken Road”? It’s a Rascall Flatts song. Listen to it. Please. Jordy is definitely a gift from the Lord. Every good gift is from the Lord. He literally hand wrapped you and hand wrapped him and delivered you each to each other. Didn’t you meet around your bday?? OMG he was your bday gift from Jesus!!!
LOVE. HIM. And LOVE you. You're wonderful together. The happiness and health of this relationship radiates off of both of your faces. I'm thrilled for you!
The way he couldn't find just one answer about his favorite thing about you. And how thoughtful his answer was. He's a keeper. You seem so at ease!! Love shouldn't be fire - it should be water. Calming and reassuring. Easy. Wishing you nothing but happiness! xxx
I discovered you from your divorce videos as I’m going through the exact same thing. It’s so reassuring to see that you’ve met someone like Jordy. He seems awesome I’m happy for you two!
You both look so effortless and happy in each others presence. So natural. I am absolutely thrilled for you and hopeful for myself after my divorce. Your videos have helped me to not become hardened or bitter. Thank you so very much. ❤️
I love how you approach what you share online in a very genuine way. Telling us your reservations and boundaries and how you want us to respect them gives us the opportunity to do so. I think, more than any other TH-camr I watch, you approach it as you would with a friend in real life, and I appreciate that.
AWE---This was an "awe moment" for me! For others too, I am sure. I am typing this before reading other's comment. I love the relationship you two are having. Hopefully it continues, because it is so precious! Glad you introduced Jordy's music. It's very good. Most music I fall for, are songs introduced to me by others. So, I am grateful you shared it with us. Love your trips, and how you share them with us. Let's not compare Jordy with past relations. Because, you can't share this in comparison of your past. He is very uniquely a man full of Love and Joy! His last relationship lost a precious soulmate, for sure! Jordy, thank you, for sharing your current life with us. It's a Blessing getting to know you! Brigitte (age 66) in Tulsa Oklahoma who has watched Michel, way before Michel even dated....her past relation. Love you both, dearly!
I didn’t comment in your video with your husband because I didn’t have anything nice to say but this guy is EXACTLY who you need to be dating. So so happy for you to finally have someone put you first. 🧡
He is so lively, positive, and talkative and fits your personality so GREAT, Michel! I am SO happy for you!! Also, I’ll add, Jordy mentioned how you aren’t “over sharing” on TH-cam and that you share for the benefit of those watching and I totally agree! I still to this day also repeat what you said in a vlog previously when I’m discouraged “if worrying about what other people think is the ONLY reason I’m not doing something, then I’m going to do it!” It really resonated with me and I will carry that with me for many years to come. 😊
You go girl!! Michel you have come such a long way! So proud of you! Jordy seems awesome! I am rooting for you both! I have one question?? It’s probably the most important one! How does Max feel about Jordy? 😉❤️
It is so refreshing hearing the both of you talk about Christianity and loving others. I find it’s such a struggle with explaining that I hate religion and I don’t “have a religion”, but rather, I love Jesus fiercely and am changed by Him. So, I love how you described your (individual) faith so eloquently. Praying for this dating journey, and thank you for being vulnerable and introducing Jordy!
I’m new to your channel and I started off with the video of you speaking on your divorce. I’m currently going through a divorce myself. Thank you. I appreciated you sharing your experience with such vulnerability. But mainly thank you for sharing how happiness exists after a divorce. Jordy seems so incredible for you.❤❤
I LOVE this!!! Really enjoyed getting to see other sides of you, that we don’t get to see, from his perspective, like your laughs and goofiness! I am so, so happy for you. Praying for God’s wisdom for you both as y’all continue to build your relationship ❤️
It’s nice to see you seem so at ease with someone. There doesn’t seem to be any artifice from him, he seems to be a really genuine and straight shooting person! Enjoy your time together 😊
I was just sitting here with tears in my eyes so happy for you. I cannot wait for my son and hubby to come home so they can wait how cute you 2 are! We are all about it! Keep on keeping on girlfriend!!!!!! love ya!
Oh this is so great. I just love that he notices your 25 diff laughs. For him to even mention that alone is sweet. This makes me happy. It looks and feels like you guys have been together for longer than you have. This reminds me of my hubby and I and we have been together for 13 years :). We used to have friends that would say to us that we made them sick of how nice we were to each other. There's just a lot of kindness and truth and this makes me smile.
After watching you go through such horrible pain during your divorce, it is SO amazing to see how happy you and Jordy are together! You made it through the valley and now you are on top of your mountain! I wish you both so much happiness and I look forward to watching you both grow in your relationship together!!
It was nice to meet Jordy! I remember listening to your podcast and wondering how you and your ex ended up together. From what you’ve said about Jordy, and from this video, he seems very sweet. I’m so glad that you’re happy and having fun getting to know each other.
One thing I prayed for in my future husband was that he really understood all the sides of me and truly loved me for who I was, and I feel like yall both have that here 💖 love seeing your silly and fun together!
My takeaway....he feels he can trust you...based on your character. His remarks about your kindness is that he feels that your advice and your part in his life is coming from a loving, genuine and authentic place. We should all be so lucky to find people in our lives like that. The fact that he values that means he's very aware of how important it is. So good. So nice to see you both together and get introduced to this part of your life. I think this will also give hope to everyone who has ever faced lying and deceit in people they have previously trusted.
I've always heard, all in God's timing and this is living proof. Enjoy this time, do what you both feel is right, travel, talk all night, become best friends and let God handle the rest. Blessings to you both with whatever the future holds. Michel, seeing you smile like you are, is a gift you give to all of us. Jordy, good luck in your music career and moving to San Diego.
Wow, I approve of this guy for you SO much. He’s so compassionate, reflective, kind, and intentional. You can tell he’s really in it for you and not just to check some box. I hope you decide to share more of your adventures together, but of course share what ever you’re comfortable with. SO happy you’re having this experience Michel, you deserve this so much.
What a contrast from the past relationship we were used to seeing. You two seem to be so comfortable with each other and it's so nice to see how healthy this relationship seems to be.
Absolutely love all of this happiness for you!! 😭❤️ The fact that he kept saying over and over again how much he values your advice and opinions!! That is the healthy relationship we’ve all wanted for you. ❤️
So happy for you sweet girl ❤️ I’m so glad Jordy said “don’t listen to my music if you think I’m just trying to promote myself” - that in and of itself shows his character! Not that I ever thought he would do that, but I’m glad he put his foot down on that so emphatically at the very start for any naysayers!
Ahhhhh!!! Sooooo sweet! I’m very happy for both of you. I’m one of your biggest cheerleaders guys. Be happy, enjoy each other, and remember God is blessing you with each other. I’ve been waiting for this video.. thanks for introducing Jordy and thanks Jordy for being here and so open with us. God bless you both.
This is proof that life is too short and there are too many amazing people out there for one to be wasting time in an unhealthy relationship. Glad that she was able to find a person who she can be happy with. Personally for me, it was so hard to leave my 7-year relationship (and it ended on a terrible note too) but fast forward to now, I am married to a man who is a much better match for me and we are happily married with 2 beautiful kids. There's so many positive and great people out there. If you are stuck in a bad place, don't be afraid to leave. Take the time to rebuild yourself (don't rush into another relationship either. You need a solid relationship with yourself before building a healthy relationship with others) and it is a true blessing to be able to discover who you are first before jumping into a long-term commitment.
Take your time with this relationship. Don't lose who you are in this relationship. And don't think you have to take the next step any sooner than your ready.
You both are outstanding communicators and very honest with each other. I love that Jordy asks to hear your opinion and really values your advice. That is huge in my book!! I watched some of Jordy's music videos out of curiosity and really loved his voice and personality on stage. He is refreshingly different and you guys make a great couple. Best wishes for continued happiness to you both.
Kind of feeling sad that I didnt just fall into a great relationship after the hardest breakup. I wish you all the best, maybe one day I’ll be that lucky.
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My favorite thing about this video is how HEALTHY and SOOO non-toxic his answers are. Very happy for you friend! (:
@@alliea8141 Oh wow, your answers don't indicate any problem with Jordy but they sure do indicate a problem with you. That is the most cynical and arrogant answer I have ever seen. You don't even know this man and you're assigning devious and manipulative motives to him, when he has never shown any signs of it that we have seen and yes, Michel is right, we're only seeing the merest hint of what Jordy as a person is like, but everyone around her loves him. Don't you think Michel's parents would see that and guard her from being around a toxic person like that? Put down your own baggage before you comment in a public forum would be my suggestion to you.
@@miapoe2501 So men are supposed to pay for everything and that doesn't make you beholden to them? Firstly, you've obviously never heard of the feminist movement and secondly, how did you forget that Jordy has paid for things on several occasions, or haven't you been watching the vlogs? Have you forgotten that Jordy has, in past videos, paid for Michel to do things so they could have remote dates and organised for meal deliveries for Michel when he was away from her? He also bought her the (very expensive) flowery top with the big bows that she had rented because she loved it so much? As far as I can see, he has only ever shown himself to be a super thoughtful, super caring amazing guy. I feel so sorry for the men in your life. You are obviously a taker who doesn't realise that every relationship has to be both ways. One sided never works.
@@marilynelliott3236 Look up covert narcissism and love bombing. He absolutely has shown signs and Michel should be very careful. Also I don't necessarily think her parents would notice. Many people aren't aware of mental health and more covert forms of manipulation, and her parents aren't mental health professionals/don't appear to have any strong knowledge of mental health in general. So I actually don't think her parents would necessarily know/pick up on this in the honeymoon phase, especially if they're more naive. He showed way too much interest too early. The gifts on the first date, $400 shirt just a couple months into dating for no special occasion (especially when he doesn't even have a particularly high income), watching her videos to study her before they started dating, talking on the phone with her for 8 hours at a time, struggling to come up with a real answer about what he likes about her, eating and drinking things around her that would be harmful for her to ingest and acting flippant about it (the coconut water and also several clearly non-gluten free items in the Hawaii vlog), watching her wedding video with her ex on his own months into the relationship, repeatedly talking about how "kind" he'll be to her because Brook wasn't (kind people don't have to announce or even think about intentionally being kind), not to mention how quickly their relationship progressed--that's not normal, and I could provide so many more examples. This looks way more like love bombing and manipulation to me than it does genuine affection, and anyone who isn't telling her to at least keep her guard a little bit up and be looking for red flags (which honestly anyone should be doing if they're only a few months into a relationship) is giving her terrible advice. He's a walking red flag and like Michel said, we haven't even seen most of it. What we've seen alone should make her veryyyy hesitant with him--I can't imagine how many more of these red flags there are that we haven't seen.
@@mackenziesmith3412 Wow, looks like I better watch out then, because my boyfriend and I did pretty much the same things Michel and Jordy are doing, because we were in a long distance relationship too. We're now five years in and getting married next year and I am over the moon because he is the man of my dreams and we are crazy about each other. I know what a narc is. My best friend has been going out with a narc for five years and they finally just broke up recently and the red flags were popping up everywhere with him. I do agree with you that narcs are problematic and not everybody can see them, but its the other things that narcs do that are the indicators. To me, Brook was more of a narc than Jordy. The undermining behaviour that slowly sucks your confidence away, the lies and manipulation, the gaslighting. Now that is a narc. And, her parents didn't like Brook, and let Michel know that, so they're not too naïve. We've all encountered them via the vids.. they seem like very thoughtful, deep thinking people to me. You only have to look at Michel herself. Watch some of the earlier videos and you can see how unhappy she was, because she really WAS with a narc then. Even when she was presenting a brave face and pretending everything was peachy keen, you could see it in her face. Her eyes were soooo sad. Now, she is glowing, she is confident, she is happy. You'll say, yes, because she's in the love bomb phase, but narcs don't keep that up.. that's just the hook to get you in. Jordy is not self absorbed or egotistical. He doesn't need all of the attention or for the adoration to be aimed at him, in fact he keeps on moving that focus back to her. If you asked a narc what do you do, he would NEVER answer, I'm just a guy and I date Michel". He would be singing his own praises to the hilt. He would never say something like, "If I do something wrong and I cause you pain then they can come at me because I would deserve it. " Narcs are more like, "It's your fault that they don't like me, because you haven't presented me properly". It's never them that's in the wrong, its you. Where do you see any of that in Jordy? Sometimes a kind man is just a kind man and I get the feeling Jordy is just a guy who really wears his heart on his sleeve. I thought his answers were very thoughtful and he is capable of great introspection.
@@marilynelliott3236 That's great, I'm very happy for you, congrats! I've been in two relationships with narcissists--one overt and one covert. They both started out the same way Michel's did, with tons of love bombing, and I was over the moon--that phase also lasted for quite a long time (longer than Michel has even known Jordy). People around me liked them at the time too. If you go back a long time ago, you can even see that at one point Brook love bombed Michel too. I also don't think her parents always disliked Brook, I believe they started to dislike him later into their marriage when he began to neglect her. But to be clear, I think Brook may be a narcissist as well, and I'm not saying that Jordy absolutely is one--of course not. I'm saying that this behavior is identical to love bombing and, although not every relationship that starts this way becomes toxic/abusive, many do. People with a history of abusive relationships (like Michel's with Brook) are also more likely to end up in another abusive relationship, so they should be especially vigilant for red flags. All I'm saying is that this behavior is not typical of an early relationship, but it is typical of narcissistic love bombing. Anyone experiencing this should be looking out for signs of narcissistic/toxic behaviors, but ESPECIALLY someone who has been in abusive relationships before. Narcissists begin relationships looking like the person of your dreams--they have idealized you and will do any and everything for you. This is until you reach the devaluing stage, which can happen days, weeks, months, or even years into a relationship (yes, the love bombing stage can and does last for years in some cases). That's when the gaslighting, putdowns, etc. begin--they don't happen at the start of the relationship. And no, your description of how a narcissist would respond is only accurate for overt narcissism (and even then, not necessarily). Covert narcissists actually commonly respond exactly the way Jordy did--by putting themselves down and minimizing themselves. It's typically a tactic to get compliments, other times it can be as a form of manipulation to appear humble. I don't think Jordy would be an overt narcissist, and to be honest, they're not as dangerous because their narcissism is pretty easy to spot. I think that, IF he is a narc, he would be a covert one. Covert narcs are very dangerous because their manipulation is very subtle, they often appear very kind and empathetic, etc. In fact, usually only people very close to covert narcs actually experience or see the abuse. And also because it's so subtle, many of the victims may not even realize it's happening--they often end up believing *they're* the ones at fault. I've spoken with people who were married for 20-30 years before realizing that their partner was a narc and was abusing them. I both have a degree in this and, like I said, was in long term relationships with people who had this illness. I know exactly what it looks like, which is why I'm concerned for Michel
Through the years I watched all the videos with your ex and I noticed how you spent half the time complementing him and lifting him up and he never did that for you, that irritated me a lot! So just the fact that Jordy has such nice things to say about you lets me breath out finally and feel very hopeful and happy for you! I know you are nervous of our response and judgement and I get it, hope all the friends here have 0 judgment and can be just so happy for you :) I know I am
So much THIS!!! ✨️
Absolutely agree! I always thought she deserves so much more. My husband even said so! ❤️
Yes!!!
Yes and it irritated me when he ex said his favorite thing about Michel is coming home and seeing his laundry folded. Ugh. He made it sound like he got himself a maid.
Agree! In the several videos I have seen of the ex, he just seemed kind of distant and uninterested. Not very warm. Jordy’s conversation clicks so much better with her and it’s adorable.
Jordy is such a breath of fresh air for you. I know if we can see the kindness he shows, his intentionality and his genuine want to make you happy and are giddy for you, I can’t imagine how you must feel, feeling it. You deserve the absolute world, and it’s so awesome to be seeing this amazing relationship come to fruition. I feel like I’m watching a couple that has been together for years, as their younger selves…like looking at your parents as young adults. Enjoy this life God has so purposefully and wonderfully given you…it’s obvious he was saving Jordy for you and anyone before him was just a stepping stone to shape into who you are today, ready to fully receive the man so obviously made for you ❤️
This is so perfect 🥹
The way he looks at you and just want to treat you so right with kindness! You deserve it! Sending all the good vibes two you both
I really don’t wanna make a judgement or criticism but I really do appreciate Jordy’s energy and how present in the moment he is. That is a good kind of person to have in your circle 😊 welcome Jordy!
Thank you for this 🥰🥹
@@MichelJanse haha I consider Jordy one of my friends now! Is that weird? LOL
I love that his favorite thing about you ISN'T that you do his laundry... he seems very sweet and I'm glad you're with someone more aligned with who you are :)
He seems better than the last one, but that is not hard to beat.
I am so impressed with Jordy's thoughtfulness. The lovely gesture of gifting you a book for your birthday in contrast to your ex giving you a workout set in an Amazon box! TEAM JORDY!!!
I loved the talk you had with us before sharing him because it shows how much you’ve grown in the last couple of months. I love the fact that you’re setting boundaries with us, which you definitely should. I love this for you!
I don't usually comment but my face hurts from smiling at how sweet and kind you both are!! Praying wonderful things for you both!!
I just watched your introduction and paused to comment this. Only you know what’s best for you. I dated someone two months after my divorce was finalized. I posted a picture of him on my Facebook and someone commented “what happened to the one you married?” I knew then moving forward I would protect my peace at all costs. Her and her ignorant self were immediately blocked. You don’t owe anyone any kind of explanation for anything. You are VISIBLY over the moon and finally being treated how you deserve to be treated. If someone has anything negative to say about that, that speaks on their character. The real issues lies within those people and their sad lives. I’m proud of you for creating and implementing boundaries to protect what’s special to you.
People commenting "He is a keeper", said the same thing for the ex XD
I recently ended a relationship with my bf (we actually were in Hawaii a couple months ago too)and it'sbeen hard. Nothing horrible went wrong, I just never got that spark and knew we both deserved true love. When I watched this and saw they way you guys look at each other and interact I was reminded of what I look forward to having again one day :)
Sending you big hugs and lots of love 🤍 so thankful for you!
I feel the same way. It's so good to see
He seems really sweet and I love how relaxed/chill he is about your ex-husband situation and videos. His reaction to watching your wedding video was adorable. I think he is a kind hearted human, I say bravo on landing such a great one!!
This warms my heart!!! I pray everyday my boys find a young lady like you one day! Y’all are darling…I’m loving you two together! Thank you for sharing this darling relationship with us! TEAM JORDY!!!
Your introduction before our meeting Gordy was so honest and real. Upward and onward and keep smiling. The best is yet to come💜
this story that is your life has been a joy to witness, thank you
This is not meant as shade but you seem like someone who always has a boyfriend, like not alone for long periods of time...I don't mean alone like physically alone (not long distance) but alone without dating someone for at least a year? I struggle with that and was just curious! Like have you been alone without a boyfriend or dating for a long time? I'm trying to do that and I'm finding it hard! People tell me I need to really get to know myself without someone around...What is your experience with being alone (not even dating)?
SO FAR IM DIGGING JORDY, HE SEEMS SINCERE,HAS A SENSE OF HUMOR, VERY KIND AND SO INTO MICHEL❤️
You two are really great at communicating. As a 51 year old recently divorced woman, I think that goes such a long way in preventing future issues. Keep being adorable 💕
I love how he talks about you. Also, I think acts of service is a love language for you. It equates to being taken care of and someone being really kind and wanting to make your day better by helping. Congrats you two!
I just love that when you brush against him, he doesn't move away. Your "touch" love language is very much appreciated in this relationship! 💞
I love his open and genuine personality. When she talks he looks at her, not at the camera or away. He’s not afraid to express himself.
People say they don’t care about their parents opinion but it’s honestly SO IMPORTANT. My parents love my husband and loved him upon meeting him. My parents did not like any previous so. Your parents see more than you do. You and Jordy are so comfortable around each other and that is so cute!
I went through a terrible breakup years ago with an ex fiance. I met my now husband a few years later and we now have 3 wonderful children. I found your channel very randomly but it has been a huge blessing and I’ve kind of been able to process things about my own breakup that I didn’t realize were still lurking in my heart.
So thank you for your candid generous sharing of your life. You are making a difference to people. Bringing joy to the world. And I am very happy for you. You and Jordy seem like a genuine and sweet couple. Mutual admiration, shared values, and the care you have for each are evident. God bless!
Saying that her kindness was a big part of what attracted you to her , is probably the nicest compliment you can give someone .
I absolutely love how he looks at you and how he recognizes you for who you are and your kindness. Also, he seems very intentional about you and it shows how much this means to you.
I hope you two are very happy together and I wish you all the best, because you deserve it
Got tears in my eyes when he said his favourite thing about you is your kindness. So sweet and so true!
ahhh, i wish this video went on forever! jordy is such a breath of fresh air, and you can just tell how much he cares and adores you in his body language and the way he looks at you! the way he gave the BEST answers to some of the "toughest" questions with such ease shows how authentic and genuinely nice he is! SO SO happy for you, you look so truly happy! ♥
Agree!
I agree! I know you want us to be kind to everyone Michel. In being my honest, authentic self, the 27 minutes flew by here, wheras with the previous partner, I often couldn't finish more than 8 minutes. He wasn't hard on the eyes, but his mannerisms toward you, like pent up jealousy, was hard to take. For reference I found your channel February 2022.
I agree with this. The other thing I noticed was her adoration of him, too! Michel, if you’ve not been told before, your profile and mannerisms are so similar to your mother’s.
Jordy is literally the nicest guy ever.. you look so happy and at ease with him and he seems so sincere. It's great to get to meet him
You have grown up so much in the last year. I have cried with you, laughed with you and watched you find this wonderful, confident, beautiful person.
Then oh my goodness not only are you out making friends, but you found a man that makes you laugh and your heart soar. You have made the 3 hours of dialysis 3 days a week fly by. I am so glad that this is your time. Be. Safe traveling and conquer the world!!
Well isnt he just adorable. He is one of the good ones. Hes not stuck on himself and worried about impressing ppl. Hes well rounded, believes in himself (there is a difference) and cares about you! Its genuine not fake. You 2 look so good together!!! Hes a keeper!
Jordy seems like such a genuine guy. Love seeing the two of you together and hope your relationship continues to be blessed.
He is not shy! I love this for you and your continued growth. I honestly can only see positives here. He gives you space to grow while also being there for you. I also love how realistic and down to earth he is. So nice to see that!
I really like that Jordy seems to be a very confident man. He’s very expressive and not afraid to say what’s on his mind. I also see the kindness in his words. So very happy for you both. You seem very compatible with one another.
Also- I love that you have that verbal/intellectual connection. I often think this is overlooked, but so very important especially for long term relationships. It’s always good to have your partner as the person to talk to and share thoughts with.
Jordy really seems like a really nice guy. He seems like a keeper. You both compliment each other.
Love that you two are living in the moment-- enjoying a spiritual relationship without the demands or drama of the ego. Two highly evolved souls!
Michel, I found your vlogs around the time your divorce was public, and have followed your journey. Y'alls relationship is so sweet and it's so nice to see you happy. I wish the Michel a year ago could see how far she would come and how happy she would be. You deserve to be treated well and you are worthy of love..so happy for you and Jordy!! ❤️
He's like a breath of fresh air! The way he looks at you is just adorable too! I'm so very happy for you and hope to see more of Jordy! Welcome to the "family"!
Jordy is a DELIGHT. I love the lightness and ease between the two of you. Thank you for sharing with us!
One thing I’ve always appreciated about you is how candid you are. I respect and really love that about him as well! It’s very sweet
I just wanted to say that it’s nice to see you happy! Whether you continue sharing your relationship online or not is your decision and completely respect it. He seems to be completely invested in you and what it takes to further your relationship and all that matters is how you feel about him. I wish you both the very best! 💕
Wow. I am blown away at the fact that you two haven’t been together for a long time because you genuinely seem like you’ve known each other for years. I love how kind and thoughtful you are to each other! Beyond happy for you both that you found each other. 💕
So excited to watch this Michel!! You seem so happy with him and that makes me happy! Already know I’m gonna like him!
I loved this! I love how he is very real with you. Acknowledges that he isn't as super clean as you. He isn't trying to be perfectly, exactly what Michel wants or needs. You seem to really compliment each other. My favorite thing is his appreciation of you and how he shows you he cares.
Thank you for including us in your life. This was so well done. I think we can all see what you see in Jordy … a truly kind person. Two kind souls have found each other. Embrace it.
We love happy and in a healthy relationship Michel! He seems like such a great solid guy. He came off super well intentioned and authentic. Can’t wait for more content and what the future holds for MORDY
So nice "meeting" Jordy! I've been watching you since the divorce and have been cheering you on ever since. I've really enjoyed watching your journey and makes me so happy to see you and Jordy together.
This was lovely, you are both lovely together & separately. Michel, your ease, comfort, & joy are apparent. Thank you, Jordy, for being the man she deserves, after the guy she was married to. As someone who has been a subscriber from many apartments ago, thank you for taking us along as you bloom!🌺
8 mins in - he’s almost as precious as you are. I know you’ll treat him as such. You have the ability to make shit look like a diamond. But having an actual diamond already?! You guys are going to make each other feel so loved.
19 mins in - he feels like a younger version of your dad. I swore I would never do any comparing. And I’m not. I hope this comes out right. I used to wonder how your relationship with your ex happened when he seemed to be nothing like your dad who is the dad I wish I had. But Jordy - I get. Jordy reminds me so much of what we know about your dad.
I will say this - when you left your ex I realized that that tenacity that left even though it hurt - THAT was the result of being raised by a man who taught you how to be loved. I would have stayed and continued to be mistreated.
Have you heard “God Bless the Broken Road”? It’s a Rascall Flatts song. Listen to it. Please.
Jordy is definitely a gift from the Lord. Every good gift is from the Lord. He literally hand wrapped you and hand wrapped him and delivered you each to each other. Didn’t you meet around your bday?? OMG he was your bday gift from Jesus!!!
Video done - I love him. He is a reward Michel. And so are you. It feels like you’re safe. And loved. And more than loved - really liked. ❤️
I love how you are both looking at each other during this whole thing, it shows just how much you guys connect with each other❤️
I’m not crying you’re crying!!! This made my heart so happy. He seems lovely and you guys look so comfortable and happy!
I’m so proud of you for setting healthy boundaries I can’t wait to see where life takes you! And Jordy!
LOVE. HIM. And LOVE you. You're wonderful together. The happiness and health of this relationship radiates off of both of your faces. I'm thrilled for you!
The way he couldn't find just one answer about his favorite thing about you. And how thoughtful his answer was. He's a keeper. You seem so at ease!! Love shouldn't be fire - it should be water. Calming and reassuring. Easy. Wishing you nothing but happiness! xxx
I discovered you from your divorce videos as I’m going through the exact same thing. It’s so reassuring to see that you’ve met someone like Jordy. He seems awesome I’m happy for you two!
Aw, Michel, you just glow around him. He's very articulate and seems very nice..glad you are happy 🤗
You both look so effortless and happy in each others presence. So natural. I am absolutely thrilled for you and hopeful for myself after my divorce. Your videos have helped me to not become hardened or bitter. Thank you so very much. ❤️
He seems like a very genuine guy with his mind and heart at the right place 😊 Hope the best for the 2 of you! ❤️
He’s a cutie, has a fun personality, and you both are adorable together.
So happy for you girl! 🫶✌️
michel i love him 😭 he seems so sweet, quirky (in the best way!), and genuine!!! i’m SO happy for you :’) 💗
I love how you approach what you share online in a very genuine way. Telling us your reservations and boundaries and how you want us to respect them gives us the opportunity to do so. I think, more than any other TH-camr I watch, you approach it as you would with a friend in real life, and I appreciate that.
What a genuinely nice person to meet. Thanks for taking the time to talk to us Jordy
AWE---This was an "awe moment" for me! For others too, I am sure. I am typing this before reading other's comment. I love the relationship you two are having. Hopefully it continues, because it is so precious! Glad you introduced Jordy's music. It's very good. Most music I fall for, are songs introduced to me by others. So, I am grateful you shared it with us. Love your trips, and how you share them with us. Let's not compare Jordy with past relations. Because, you can't share this in comparison of your past. He is very uniquely a man full of Love and Joy! His last relationship lost a precious soulmate, for sure! Jordy, thank you, for sharing your current life with us. It's a Blessing getting to know you! Brigitte (age 66) in Tulsa Oklahoma who has watched Michel, way before Michel even dated....her past relation. Love you both, dearly!
Ok his answer to the question about "earning trust" is the literal BEST answer to any question asked ever" 🥺🥺🥺
I feel like I'm watching your mom and dad in a younger version. Wow. Wishing you all the best no matter where it goes. ❤️
AWE THIS IS SO CUTE AND SWEET
I replied the same thing and then saw your comment. I'm glad to know I wasn't the only one thinking that. 😊
Agreed!
Yes! I love his open affection towards Michel!
I didn’t comment in your video with your husband because I didn’t have anything nice to say but this guy is EXACTLY who you need to be dating. So so happy for you to finally have someone put you first. 🧡
He is a breath of fresh air 🤍 I feel like he matches your spirit and compliments you so well. Welcome to the fam, Jordy! 🥰🥰
He is so lively, positive, and talkative and fits your personality so GREAT, Michel!
I am SO happy for you!!
Also, I’ll add, Jordy mentioned how you aren’t “over sharing” on TH-cam and that you share for the benefit of those watching and I totally agree! I still to this day also repeat what you said in a vlog previously when I’m discouraged “if worrying about what other people think is the ONLY reason I’m not doing something, then I’m going to do it!” It really resonated with me and I will carry that with me for many years to come. 😊
You go girl!! Michel you have come such a long way! So proud of you! Jordy seems awesome! I am rooting for you both! I have one question?? It’s probably the most important one! How does Max feel about Jordy? 😉❤️
Omgosh!! I've been so overwhelmed by all the feels that I didn't think...of course it is sooo important and now I must know!! 😂
It is so refreshing hearing the both of you talk about Christianity and loving others. I find it’s such a struggle with explaining that I hate religion and I don’t “have a religion”, but rather, I love Jesus fiercely and am changed by Him. So, I love how you described your (individual) faith so eloquently. Praying for this dating journey, and thank you for being vulnerable and introducing Jordy!
The innocence of his responses was so heartfelt! Loving this for you.
I’m new to your channel and I started off with the video of you speaking on your divorce. I’m currently going through a divorce myself. Thank you. I appreciated you sharing your experience with such vulnerability. But mainly thank you for sharing how happiness exists after a divorce. Jordy seems so incredible for you.❤❤
I LOVE this!!! Really enjoyed getting to see other sides of you, that we don’t get to see, from his perspective, like your laughs and goofiness! I am so, so happy for you. Praying for God’s wisdom for you both as y’all continue to build your relationship ❤️
It’s nice to see you seem so at ease with someone. There doesn’t seem to be any artifice from him, he seems to be a really genuine and straight shooting person! Enjoy your time together 😊
I was just sitting here with tears in my eyes so happy for you. I cannot wait for my son and hubby to come home so they can wait how cute you 2 are! We are all about it! Keep on keeping on girlfriend!!!!!! love ya!
The only concern I had was where he stood with his faith, and that you were both “equally yoked”. I’m glad that question was answered.
Oh this is so great. I just love that he notices your 25 diff laughs. For him to even mention that alone is sweet. This makes me happy. It looks and feels like you guys have been together for longer than you have. This reminds me of my hubby and I and we have been together for 13 years :). We used to have friends that would say to us that we made them sick of how nice we were to each other. There's just a lot of kindness and truth and this makes me smile.
After watching you go through such horrible pain during your divorce, it is SO amazing to see how happy you and Jordy are together! You made it through the valley and now you are on top of your mountain! I wish you both so much happiness and I look forward to watching you both grow in your relationship together!!
It was nice to meet Jordy! I remember listening to your podcast and wondering how you and your ex ended up together. From what you’ve said about Jordy, and from this video, he seems very sweet. I’m so glad that you’re happy and having fun getting to know each other.
One thing I prayed for in my future husband was that he really understood all the sides of me and truly loved me for who I was, and I feel like yall both have that here 💖 love seeing your silly and fun together!
My takeaway....he feels he can trust you...based on your character. His remarks about your kindness is that he feels that your advice and your part in his life is coming from a loving, genuine and authentic place. We should all be so lucky to find people in our lives like that. The fact that he values that means he's very aware of how important it is. So good. So nice to see you both together and get introduced to this part of your life. I think this will also give hope to everyone who has ever faced lying and deceit in people they have previously trusted.
I mean the car reference alone showed he realises how special you are. Long may you find happiness ❤️❤️
I've always heard, all in God's timing and this is living proof. Enjoy this time, do what you both feel is right, travel, talk all night, become best friends and let God handle the rest. Blessings to you both with whatever the future holds. Michel, seeing you smile like you are, is a gift you give to all of us. Jordy, good luck in your music career and moving to San Diego.
Wow, I approve of this guy for you SO much. He’s so compassionate, reflective, kind, and intentional. You can tell he’s really in it for you and not just to check some box. I hope you decide to share more of your adventures together, but of course share what ever you’re comfortable with. SO happy you’re having this experience Michel, you deserve this so much.
You guys look so happy 😊 together. ❤ that your sharing this personal side of your life. Stay Blessed 🙌.
What a contrast from the past relationship we were used to seeing. You two seem to be so comfortable with each other and it's so nice to see how healthy this relationship seems to be.
Went through a terrible breakup recently with similar situations and you’re really inspiring me to move on to better and greener pastures :)
Absolutely love all of this happiness for you!! 😭❤️ The fact that he kept saying over and over again how much he values your advice and opinions!! That is the healthy relationship we’ve all wanted for you. ❤️
So happy for you sweet girl ❤️ I’m so glad Jordy said “don’t listen to my music if you think I’m just trying to promote myself” - that in and of itself shows his character! Not that I ever thought he would do that, but I’m glad he put his foot down on that so emphatically at the very start for any naysayers!
More Jordy! More Jordy!
You can tell just how genuine and kind he is to you. So happy for you, Michel!
When the two of you waved at the end together, it brought such a huge smile to my face! Love to see you happy. :)
Hope you two are always close friends, you definitely seem very good for each other. And your smiles speak volumes. So happy for you both.
Ahhhhh!!! Sooooo sweet! I’m very happy for both of you. I’m one of your biggest cheerleaders guys. Be happy, enjoy each other, and remember God is blessing you with each other. I’ve been waiting for this video.. thanks for introducing Jordy and thanks Jordy for being here and so open with us. God bless you both.
Oh my gosh, we LOVE him. He seems like such a great for you and a wonderful person in general ❤️
I work from home and immediately stopped everything to watch this video. 😂 You deserve to be happy and with someone who values you! ❤️
This is proof that life is too short and there are too many amazing people out there for one to be wasting time in an unhealthy relationship. Glad that she was able to find a person who she can be happy with. Personally for me, it was so hard to leave my 7-year relationship (and it ended on a terrible note too) but fast forward to now, I am married to a man who is a much better match for me and we are happily married with 2 beautiful kids. There's so many positive and great people out there. If you are stuck in a bad place, don't be afraid to leave. Take the time to rebuild yourself (don't rush into another relationship either. You need a solid relationship with yourself before building a healthy relationship with others) and it is a true blessing to be able to discover who you are first before jumping into a long-term commitment.
Take your time with this relationship. Don't lose who you are in this relationship. And don't think you have to take the next step any sooner than your ready.
You both are outstanding communicators and very honest with each other. I love that Jordy asks to hear your opinion and really values your advice. That is huge in my book!! I watched some of Jordy's music videos out of curiosity and really loved his voice and personality on stage. He is refreshingly different and you guys make a great couple. Best wishes for continued happiness to you both.
Kind of feeling sad that I didnt just fall into a great relationship after the hardest breakup. I wish you all the best, maybe one day I’ll be that lucky.