I do not know how far you are. He let me know in September, filed in October and they divorced us in November, so it has been less than 3 weeks. He left as cold as stone, left even extended family and all traditions and gatherings we kept behind. It hurts like hell, but trust me, videos like these helped me a lot - I do not want revenge, I want to find my peace and move on for the sake of my family and myself. I am focusing on being stronger - I started to pay attention to my health again (walks, exercise - slowly) - it is like - take this betrayal and build your new stronger . I know how hard it sounds now, but I have had some lighter moments - I feel it will just take some time. Focus on your well-being, on the people you can trust. Stay strong. 🙂
@zuzanabernikova6725 I chose to walk away from a toxic marriage of 22 years. He struggled with a pornography addiction and it was always the same empty promises, deception and lies. By the grace of God I will get through this. I pray for all the hurting people out there that have to find the courage daily to keep going. That have to find a smile for their kids. There will be brighter days🌞
I don't think she will ever feel any pain, she moved on pretty quickly, 26 years gone , and disappear like I've never existed. Her silence , hurted me even more. But it's ok , I just hope, that one day , she will realise what she has lost forever. My respect. ( who knows if she will care? ) 😅🤣
@@cerico76 Well, I have been divorced just for less than 3 weeks. Yet, he left for the city where he works, where he got infatuated crazily with his married younger co-worker and only called once what to buy for our sons for Xmas (they still live with me at home - 22, 24). He is planning to stay in that city for Xmas and I do not think he will come home soon or maybe just to pick up his remainig trash (clothes...). He discarded me abruptly, being so cold to me, experessing his deep feelings for that coleague of his, calling our whole marriage "strange". He left everything behind, our close-knit family, even his parents begged him not to divorce from me and leave. He did it anyway. I am devastated , but thanks to my family and these videos I will not let him break me down completely. We should not allow these selfish monsters rule and ruin our lives. I am 51 now, so my self-confidence is below zero, but I feel I am beginning to stand on my feet again - thanks my close ones, the online suport like this, healthy lifestyle and physical activity. I DO believe such betrayals can make us even stronger. It will just take time. Stay strong 🙂.
You love like Jesus. If it’s a spouse you thank God for a second chance. God uses all things for good. There are thousands of testimonies of restoration. God makes it far better. Look at how the person was broken, it gives insight to their actions. Forgiveness heals, and can keep generations from repeating the trauma/sin.
@@WalkawaySue unfortunately, he ran off to his mistress and we are now divorced. Yet he still claims that he and she have done nothing wrong because God brought them together.
Excellent explanation of Betrayal , I needed to hear this
he needs to give this speech to all public servants
Thank you for the video.
Reap what you sow…
thanks bro
I needed to hear this😢 going through a divorce.
The same with me after being discarded like old trash by me ex after 26 years of marriage.
I do not know how far you are. He let me know in September, filed in October and they divorced us in November, so it has been less than 3 weeks. He left as cold as stone, left even extended family and all traditions and gatherings we kept behind. It hurts like hell, but trust me, videos like these helped me a lot - I do not want revenge, I want to find my peace and move on for the sake of my family and myself. I am focusing on being stronger - I started to pay attention to my health again (walks, exercise - slowly) - it is like - take this betrayal and build your new stronger . I know how hard it sounds now, but I have had some lighter moments - I feel it will just take some time. Focus on your well-being, on the people you can trust. Stay strong. 🙂
@zuzanabernikova6725
I chose to walk away from a toxic marriage of 22 years. He struggled with a pornography addiction and it was always the same empty promises, deception and lies.
By the grace of God I will get through this. I pray for all the hurting people out there that have to find the courage daily to keep going. That have to find a smile for their kids.
There will be brighter days🌞
I don't think she will ever feel any pain, she moved on pretty quickly, 26 years gone , and disappear like I've never existed. Her silence , hurted me even more. But it's ok , I just hope, that one day , she will realise what she has lost forever. My respect. ( who knows if she will care? ) 😅🤣
If she has moved on so quickly, she does not deserve your love and affection. How long has it been?
@@zuzanabernikova6725 Since she left me?
@@cerico76 Yes.
@@zuzanabernikova6725 9 months more or less.
@@cerico76 Well, I have been divorced just for less than 3 weeks. Yet, he left for the city where he works, where he got infatuated crazily with his married younger co-worker and only called once what to buy for our sons for Xmas (they still live with me at home - 22, 24). He is planning to stay in that city for Xmas and I do not think he will come home soon or maybe just to pick up his remainig trash (clothes...). He discarded me abruptly, being so cold to me, experessing his deep feelings for that coleague of his, calling our whole marriage "strange". He left everything behind, our close-knit family, even his parents begged him not to divorce from me and leave. He did it anyway. I am devastated , but thanks to my family and these videos I will not let him break me down completely. We should not allow these selfish monsters rule and ruin our lives. I am 51 now, so my self-confidence is below zero, but I feel I am beginning to stand on my feet again - thanks my close ones, the online suport like this, healthy lifestyle and physical activity. I DO believe such betrayals can make us even stronger. It will just take time. Stay strong 🙂.
Judas didn't enjoy his bag of 30 pieces of silver
He basically just repeats the same exact message in different words thru the entire video. Listen to the first 3 minutes and save yourself the rest.
And what if they betray you in the worst way and now claim that they are redeemed and forgiven by God?
You love like Jesus. If it’s a spouse you thank God for a second chance. God uses all things for good. There are thousands of testimonies of restoration. God makes it far better. Look at how the person was broken, it gives insight to their actions. Forgiveness heals, and can keep generations from repeating the trauma/sin.
There is no god
@@WalkawaySue unfortunately, he ran off to his mistress and we are now divorced. Yet he still claims that he and she have done nothing wrong because God brought them together.