Definitely shedding the should mentality. It’s amazing how many voices are yelling at me about what I should do. I’ve made up my mind to put my happiness first and decide what I really want to do…what is self-love and self-care. It’s going to take some time to make the shift. So much has been run by all the “shoulds”
Damn.. beautifully put man. That’s one thing I forget. When something is seen and in light, you’re more aware, at first it gets louder because of that awareness.. but this is also a sign that they are dying
I've spent my whole life walking in the quicksand of should. I am trying so hard to step away from " what people expect" and live a life closer to God and my true self. Thank you , Kyle, for your insight and encouragement ❤❤❤❤
Blessings Kyle and everyone throwing away the “shoulda coulda woulda” trap. I no longer use that in my vocabulary anymore. Because. Life is happening for us all. Now. Wild abandon using wisdom, intention, fun, joy, acceptance, and loving ourselves for being courageous to live. ❤
I noticed my "should" was traveling..."are you traveling this summer?". As if that's what's expected and considered normal. So, I asked myself what I wanted...to STAY home, tend my flower and veggie garden without guilt for that being my happy place. I've traveled, it's fine..I want this now.
Kyle thank you! This is definitely what’s coming up for me the past few days and freedom has felt scary for these very reasons. I had a picnic in my backyard, and went window shopped yesterday and it was the most joy I’ve felt for a few months since the last time I said Yes to adventure. 🥳❤️
For me, it was funny... because I am recovering from a period of overdoing it and am in a period of rest at home. So when I saw this video, it activated some very panicked "I SHOULD GO OUT AND ADVENTURE!" energy. Very familiar energy that likes to look at what others are doing and what they value and try to make me conform to it. So that I will be lovable. I sat with the feeling of unlovable and I feel a little freer. I think my rest will be even more restful now. Thank you as always, Kyle.
i know you dont outright encourage for people to quit their toxic jobs but you have truly inspired me and gave me the push i needed. my last day is next thursday and i cant wait to be out of there. i feel liberated. i just hope everything works out for me and the universe aligns me with the perfect remote role that can allow me to use my creative skills and have more life balance so i can take care of myself and my needs more. thank you kyle.
We're heading into Winter on this side of the globe when America is heading into Summer, so it always confuses me when Kyle says "For the rest of the Summer." His videos are epic, just wanted to mention that we exist in Winter too😅
This last year almost to the month of May now. And it's gonna be worse than the year I just had. I let my dog be put to sleep May 13 cause I didn't have a ride to get her to a better VET than we have here. I think of her daily my life is grief and trying to learn to live with it sleep with it eat with it and so on. I listened to this video three times I'm trying to make it work. ty Kyle.
Kyle it’s uncanny how you release these videos exactly as these things are taking place in my personal life. I suppose it’s sort of a universal deal at this point. Anyway, thanks man.
A coach once told me "You're shoulding all over yourself. And it looks terrible on you." It's stuck with me a lot. Thank you for the synchronous moment of this should.
Kyle, this video came to me AFTER I dropped a should. A huge one. And I feel that this is a confirmation given to me only after I was able to have the balls to drop the should by myself. Thank you brother ❤
I was just thinking about all the shoulds in my life. I've "should-ed" all over myself for so long that I'm also should-ing all other others as well. I've been working on releasing this energy for a while. All about how the world should be, how others should be.
My dear friends how are all...my age is 29 And I had gone through enlightenment experience 6 yrs ago. And being a part of 90s generation,,we don’t have taht much patience to wait for a better world So I keeping loosing hope since then and pushed to rock bottom then universe angels guides me every now n then... There are other ppl who might awaken 10 yrs back 30 yrs back 50 yr or 60 ,70 yrs back How they hold it ? How they keep their faith hope in for heavenly world Oh my dear soul who walked the path 🙇🏻♀️🙇🏻♀️🙏🏼🙏🏼
"Should" means "it's not" It is a lie that scatters our attention (energy) away from what is. When we say, "the government should fix the roads. " we are saying the roads aren't fixed. We will all benefit from changing our shoulds" to "coulds". Blessings to all🙏
I really wont to say YES!! Right now I am soooo very tired and need my energies to come back😂😮💨🥰🙏💪🏼♥️👌 Much Love from Sweden and thank you so very much 🥰♥️✨🙏
There is no “should” in life. Either you “want” to do it or you “need” to do it. That’s what I’ve been telling my partner for years and what I live by as well.
I love that "adventure" was a part of your message this year. That is literally one of my words for the year as something I am looking for, and attracting into my life this year too! Love the synchronicity, Kyle!
I feel this. I’m working on accepting all my should’s. They are making me very frustrated this month! I absolutely detest being busy what feels like 24/7 - I have constant guilt when I’m not doing things. But I also know that resisting it isn’t working. I do feel like I’m going to just say too bad soon - I can’t see how that would work in my life logically but I’m beginning to not care. It’s not worth it to feel so overwhelmed constantly. I am speaking to many people about living in commune-style - hoping they pans out sooner rather than later.
Kyle, I wrote to my instagram bio “this is the joyous life I came here for” months ago, knowing that it wasnt my current reality but also knowing that it was coming as I was leaving layers and layers of sh*t behind. I used to be so careful of my words, but today I woke up and I said to myself “I’m taking over the show” and leaving all the should’s behind. seriously, how can I be free when I am imprisoned by all the things a good girl should do. I know I am ALWAYS on time and this is divine timing too, I am turning 30 in June and now I can see why they call it dirty thirty 😂 anyways, thank you for this and all of this.
Kyle, your message resonates so much with me! Before I even watched this I had thoughts of making this a magical summer going on spontaneous road trips and taking a month off work and doing all the things that make summertime magic!!!! Much love ❤
Thank you Kyle for all the work you do! I really appreciate you to the fullest! You are an amazing Man… your videos has helped me so much… thank you again for serving… ~Jada ~
Wow!! So resonated…. Should a simple word that controlled me for 56 yrs !!! Just before watching this I told my old self to take a break from it and remember who I’ve worked to become👊 “Should” I should do what is best for the new me!!! Thank you Kyle💜💜
Kyle I hope you see this question: What if the "Should" that I have in my head is a Should that possibly represents a higher purpose? Something I may have been meant to accomplish in this lifetime? Because my "Should"s are usually those: wondering which path, which choice, is in the highest vibration for my individual calling. Example: Should I quit my paying job entirely to devote my whole life to art, because that was a skill given to me and is an expression of my individual self? Am I weak and just being fearful if I don't? 😭Here's another: Should I spend more time outside in Nature each day? (And how do I balance that with the other Should, the increase in time I "Should" spend on art?} Should I try to meditate even remotely well? Should I drop sugar from my diet to tackle a food addiction? So are those "Should"'s still coming from an old story, or am I trying to enter a new story and wondering which way is best? I hope you see this. Maybe we can have a sequel video about Shoulds? 🙏😉 Thank you Kyle ❤
This is probably the best talk you’ve ever given, so far. 😎. I feel the stirrings of something new, exciting and daring. What freshness and vitality will Life bring my way when I stop shoulding on myself at long last?
had to do a rewrite in my head i will if i want to because i can up until recent years ive been shoulding my way through life and sometimes still do it alot especially when stressed but it doesnt always motivate me anyway but now up until now i can let it all go being too hard on myself hasnt always worked that well for me and having others since day one shoulding on me too
Hi Kyle, I really appreciate your raw and honest approach towards the struggles and encounters we face throughout life. You've been in my ear a lot lately and it's been helping. Thank you 🙏
Kyle, I am so glad you decided to allow this message to come through you and then to share it with us all. Amazingly perfect! I struggle so much with the "should energy" and even more with "knowing" a higher truth and going between the two. I was going to post a question today.. but stopped, listened through meditation and then came here for the answer God wanted me to hear. Thank you! :)
This message identified my state. Wants allowed! I’m so grateful to have heard!💕
I CHOOSE: rather that I should: changes reality.
I learnt to not say should many decades ago.. But could instead. Much Love Kyle.. Love from Australia 🌻💙🙏🏻🇦🇺
Definitely shedding the should mentality. It’s amazing how many voices are yelling at me about what I should do. I’ve made up my mind to put my happiness first and decide what I really want to do…what is self-love and self-care. It’s going to take some time to make the shift. So much has been run by all the “shoulds”
I have actually eliminated the word "should" from my vocabulary years ago.
I no longer "should" on myself or anyone else. Ever. Lol
For me: SHOULDN'T and SHOULD's is sh_tting guilt n shame on ourselves n others, when we use those words. Change to using "I will and or I won't." 🙏
Damn.. beautifully put man. That’s one thing I forget. When something is seen and in light, you’re more aware, at first it gets louder because of that awareness.. but this is also a sign that they are dying
I've spent my whole life walking in the quicksand of should. I am trying so hard to step away from " what people expect" and live a life closer to God and my true self. Thank you , Kyle, for your insight and encouragement ❤❤❤❤
I AM replaces I SHOULD. Thank you for this Kyle
I challenge everyone to eliminate that word😉 it's amazing how life opens up when you do this.
Do not should on thy self.
life is messy enough.
stay clean, free, and clear of all shoulders.
Thank you so much! Love you to Uranus and back.
I love the idea of the adventure of driving the RV to the little school 🥰❤
888.. Let's do this, folks. It's go time! Yes to even greater Success and Fulfillment!
💚💚💚. Love this! Thanks Kyle!
My “should” is hitting the fan!
I used to should all over myself, but I got over it! ❤️ TY for encouraging us.
I have been doing this for 5 years! Death to the “S(ould)” word. Glad you are sharing this too brother.
So amazing! Namaste
Thanks Kyle, learning about this very message & resonate 100% 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💙💙💙💛💛💛
Yes thank you ! Haven’t used should in a while !!! Yay!!
Blessings Kyle and everyone throwing away the “shoulda coulda woulda” trap.
I no longer use that in my vocabulary anymore.
Because.
Life is happening for us all.
Now.
Wild abandon using wisdom, intention, fun, joy, acceptance, and loving ourselves for being courageous to live. ❤
Yes! Literally what I wrote about a couple of minutes ago! ❤❤❤
Yes! Full on adventure and joy! Yes please! Thank you and now what I want is to be living in my own place creating fun and playful adventures.
What do you want? I choose... Omg you are the best..... ❤🙏❤
Should in my life died years ago. That created more inner relaxation, space.
Wonderful!!
Here we are
What Will I do?
is a more accurate and effective question.
OMG - I didn't t know that I missed you this much. Thank you for being you. I love you so much.
Super empowering! Thank you!
Whoohoo ❤ canny wait 🦋
Thankyou kyle xxxxxxx
Woo hoo!!! Hold on folks!!!
Excellent presentation. Thank you
I noticed my "should" was traveling..."are you traveling this summer?". As if that's what's expected and considered normal. So, I asked myself what I wanted...to STAY home, tend my flower and veggie garden without guilt for that being my happy place. I've traveled, it's fine..I want this now.
This was great Kyle , you are doing amazing work
Perfect timing.
If you should, and you don’t, then you feel bad. It’s a set up for judging ourselves.
Kyle thank you!
This is definitely what’s coming up for me the past few days and freedom has felt scary for these very reasons.
I had a picnic in my backyard, and went window shopped yesterday and it was the most joy I’ve felt for a few months since the last time I said Yes to adventure. 🥳❤️
The should has hit the fan!
That was phenomenal. “They can be a bitterly on this planet too.” Crying. 💜 Thank you Kyle 🥹
Thank You Kyle ✨💜✨
I Loved that Kyle!!!!!!! I am in the middle is “shoulds“
For me, it was funny... because I am recovering from a period of overdoing it and am in a period of rest at home. So when I saw this video, it activated some very panicked "I SHOULD GO OUT AND ADVENTURE!" energy. Very familiar energy that likes to look at what others are doing and what they value and try to make me conform to it. So that I will be lovable. I sat with the feeling of unlovable and I feel a little freer. I think my rest will be even more restful now. Thank you as always, Kyle.
I stopped letting others "should" on me a loooooong time ago !! 😁🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋
Don’t should on me, and I won’t should on you! 😇
Wow exactly what I needed to hear! 🙏😭❤
Yes adventurous, we want advenutrous ❤
wow, this was awesome! Thanks:)
Love this! ❤️
Our shoulds are going to finally hit the real proverbial fan...flitter away....
Great message good take home info
letting go of the shoulds
i know you dont outright encourage for people to quit their toxic jobs but you have truly inspired me and gave me the push i needed. my last day is next thursday and i cant wait to be out of there. i feel liberated. i just hope everything works out for me and the universe aligns me with the perfect remote role that can allow me to use my creative skills and have more life balance so i can take care of myself and my needs more. thank you kyle.
The should is gonna hit the fan
Every should is a reaction, every choice is a creation 😊
I love this for you so much, Kyle. Spend as much time adventuring with that precious girl as you can.
We're heading into Winter on this side of the globe when America is heading into Summer, so it always confuses me when Kyle says "For the rest of the Summer." His videos are epic, just wanted to mention that we exist in Winter too😅
This last year almost to the month of May now. And it's gonna be worse than the year I just had. I let my dog be put to sleep May 13 cause I didn't have a ride to get her to a better VET than we have here. I think of her daily my life is grief and trying to learn to live with it sleep with it eat with it and so on. I listened to this video three times I'm trying to make it work. ty Kyle.
Kyle it’s uncanny how you release these videos exactly as these things are taking place in my personal life. I suppose it’s sort of a universal deal at this point. Anyway, thanks man.
A coach once told me "You're shoulding all over yourself. And it looks terrible on you." It's stuck with me a lot. Thank you for the synchronous moment of this should.
Kyle, this video came to me AFTER I dropped a should. A huge one. And I feel that this is a confirmation given to me only after I was able to have the balls to drop the should by myself. Thank you brother ❤
Hooray 🎉xx thank you Kyle for this powerful get out of jail free card🫂🙏❤️xxx
Thank you kyle!!!
Thank you Kyle!, 😊this opens the door to free me conditioning thinking!
I was just thinking about all the shoulds in my life. I've "should-ed" all over myself for so long that I'm also should-ing all other others as well. I've been working on releasing this energy for a while. All about how the world should be, how others should be.
how have i only found you now? because in my journey i was ready... so very ready to hear all this.
My dear friends how are all...my age is 29
And I had gone through enlightenment experience 6 yrs ago.
And being a part of 90s generation,,we don’t have taht much patience to wait for a better world
So I keeping loosing hope since then and pushed to rock bottom then universe angels guides me every now n then...
There are other ppl who might awaken 10 yrs back 30 yrs back 50 yr or 60 ,70 yrs back
How they hold it ?
How they keep their faith hope in for heavenly world
Oh my dear soul who walked the path 🙇🏻♀️🙇🏻♀️🙏🏼🙏🏼
I really appreciate this video man, it’s definitly in line with where I’ve been and where I’m going which is actually moving forward lol
"Should" means "it's not"
It is a lie that scatters our attention (energy) away from what is.
When we say, "the government should fix the roads. " we are saying the roads aren't fixed.
We will all benefit from changing our shoulds" to "coulds".
Blessings to all🙏
Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤
Thank you❤
Loved it. I've freed myself and am following my highest excitement. Happy to speed things up. So much ❤ to all.
Another great reminder and powerful message. So blessed to be a member of the AEP community. Thanks Kyle. Happy May, 2023.
YES. This resonates 100%. I am going to listen to it every day this month. I'm aiming for complete liberation. Thank you.
Wow, I felt drawn to TH-cam & this was the first video. What an incredible message that I really needed today. Thank you, Kyle & team ❤
I really wont to say YES!!
Right now I am soooo very tired and need my energies to come back😂😮💨🥰🙏💪🏼♥️👌
Much Love from Sweden and thank you so very much 🥰♥️✨🙏
There is no “should” in life. Either you “want” to do it or you “need” to do it. That’s what I’ve been telling my partner for years and what I live by as well.
I love that "adventure" was a part of your message this year. That is literally one of my words for the year as something I am looking for, and attracting into my life this year too! Love the synchronicity, Kyle!
Thanks, Kyle! ❤ Soo encouraging! 👏👏👏👏👏
My comment often is:
Don’t should on me.
😊
Thank you Kyle. Appreciate you and your insight ❤️
I feel this. I’m working on accepting all my should’s. They are making me very frustrated this month! I absolutely detest being busy what feels like 24/7 - I have constant guilt when I’m not doing things. But I also know that resisting it isn’t working. I do feel like I’m going to just say too bad soon - I can’t see how that would work in my life logically but I’m beginning to not care. It’s not worth it to feel so overwhelmed constantly. I am speaking to many people about living in commune-style - hoping they pans out sooner rather than later.
And we have beautiful RV campsites in Central Texas… 😬😉
Kyle, I wrote to my instagram bio “this is the joyous life I came here for” months ago, knowing that it wasnt my current reality but also knowing that it was coming as I was leaving layers and layers of sh*t behind. I used to be so careful of my words, but today I woke up and I said to myself “I’m taking over the show” and leaving all the should’s behind. seriously, how can I be free when I am imprisoned by all the things a good girl should do. I know I am ALWAYS on time and this is divine timing too, I am turning 30 in June and now I can see why they call it dirty thirty 😂 anyways, thank you for this and all of this.
I really really needed this message today. Thank you so much 🌹
Kyle, your message resonates so much with me! Before I even watched this I had thoughts of making this a magical summer going on spontaneous road trips and taking a month off work and doing all the things that make summertime magic!!!! Much love ❤
Thank you Kyle for all the work you do! I really appreciate you to the fullest! You are an amazing Man… your videos has helped me so much… thank you again for serving…
~Jada ~
i'm in a good place today. life is good. so is the energy. good to augment it with this video, just to make me chill and appreciate today x
Thank you so much Kyle... you helped me find my porpuse and a plan. I want to transform darkness in light 🤲🏻
Wow!! So resonated…. Should a simple word that controlled me for 56 yrs !!! Just before watching this I told my old self to take a break from it and remember who I’ve worked to become👊 “Should” I should do what is best for the new me!!! Thank you Kyle💜💜
Love this so much. It resonates deeply💗💗💗
Kyle I hope you see this question: What if the "Should" that I have in my head is a Should that possibly represents a higher purpose? Something I may have been meant to accomplish in this lifetime? Because my "Should"s are usually those: wondering which path, which choice, is in the highest vibration for my individual calling. Example: Should I quit my paying job entirely to devote my whole life to art, because that was a skill given to me and is an expression of my individual self? Am I weak and just being fearful if I don't? 😭Here's another: Should I spend more time outside in Nature each day? (And how do I balance that with the other Should, the increase in time I "Should" spend on art?}
Should I try to meditate even remotely well? Should I drop sugar from my diet to tackle a food addiction?
So are those "Should"'s still coming from an old story, or am I trying to enter a new story and wondering which way is best?
I hope you see this. Maybe we can have a sequel video about Shoulds? 🙏😉 Thank you Kyle ❤
Very powerful message. Thank you 😊 💓
This is probably the best talk you’ve ever given, so far. 😎. I feel the stirrings of something new, exciting and daring. What freshness and vitality will Life bring my way when I stop shoulding on myself at long last?
had to do a rewrite in my head i will if i want to because i can up until recent years ive been shoulding my way through life and sometimes still do it alot especially when stressed but it doesnt always motivate me anyway but now up until now i can let it all go being too hard on myself hasnt always worked that well for me and having others since day one shoulding on me too
Extremely well explained.. easy to understand. I fully relate to every single word. Thank you for sharing. Love from the UK🙏🏻🙏🏻❤❤
Hi Kyle,
I really appreciate your raw and honest approach towards the struggles and encounters we face throughout life.
You've been in my ear a lot lately and it's been helping.
Thank you 🙏
Kyle, I am so glad you decided to allow this message to come through you and then to share it with us all. Amazingly perfect! I struggle so much with the "should energy" and even more with "knowing" a higher truth and going between the two. I was going to post a question today.. but stopped, listened through meditation and then came here for the answer God wanted me to hear. Thank you! :)
Love this, I really need more fun ❤