Kaun Bola Big Girls Can't Dance? - Sumukhi Suresh | Spoken Fest 2022 | Storytelling

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.พ. 2023
  • After Sumukhi Suresh stepped off the Spoken Fest Stage, she went to a corner with a few close friends and started crying. At the time, she couldn't understand why the tears were coming. After all, this was a... happy story? With a happy ending?
    Sumukhi's story, "Kaun Bola Girls Can't Dance?" is about a secret she has carried with her for years: her love for dancing. She was made to feel ashamed for it, and this story is about overcoming that shame.
    Watch till the end for a magical Spoken moment.
    Video edited by: Ninoshka Andrade
    Curated for Spoken Fest by: Tess Joseph
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  • @laveenapunjabi5533
    @laveenapunjabi5533 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Omg this is so heartwarming! Thank you for getting such beautiful people to perform such beautiful pieces 🥰🤩🥰

    • @KommuneIndia
      @KommuneIndia  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you so much for watching the pieces 🌻 We are so glad you enjoyed this one, we loved it too!

    • @laveenapunjabi5533
      @laveenapunjabi5533 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KommuneIndia Ayee, Sunflower is my favorite smiley too and i use it ALL the time.
      Also, love what you all are doing with kommune! ❣️

  • @shantanuanand9704
    @shantanuanand9704 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    What I love the most about this story is that nothing about it seems performative. It feels like she is having a conversation with the audience around her -- an honest, humorous and heartfelt conversation -- and the rest of us are listening in. She does not try too hard to make us feel any particular emotion, but we feel it all with her.

  • @digitalarchive9642
    @digitalarchive9642 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I hate the bastards and that it took so long for her to just danceee! Thank You Sumukhi for taking up the space and the stage and bringing it on fire! 🧡✨

    • @abhip4538
      @abhip4538 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      sad reality is world is full of bastards like Sandeep Maheshwari & Chetan Bhagat, (I really like them otherwise) but even they body shame.

  • @nikitasachar
    @nikitasachar ปีที่แล้ว +15

    It just reminded me of my school and college days...we are always comfortable the way we are till someone keeps reminding us how different we are...

  • @AR-kg7pt
    @AR-kg7pt ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I relate so much to the Big girl Tax bit. I spent such a big chunk of my life trying to make a crowd comfortable with my weight by poking fun at myself, even though I would never do that to someone else. So happy to see this comment section and Sumukhi at peace with themselves and the space they take ❤

  • @aparnasengupta9279
    @aparnasengupta9279 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The trauma of that unsaid bullying is so relatable dude. I just cried seeing this vid. I am out of that zone but I hope teenagers and even school teachers are more sensitive to such kids nowadays.

  • @ysa9
    @ysa9 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    It happened to me as well. A friend of mine (with good intentions) told me that she adores how i carry myself even after having such a body. It didn’t hit me until then that I’m actually fat. I was not “carrying” the body, I was just living

    • @KommuneIndia
      @KommuneIndia  ปีที่แล้ว +24

      "I was not carrying the body, I was just living" -- is such an iconic line!

    • @ysa9
      @ysa9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KommuneIndia it is!

    • @Kathakathan11
      @Kathakathan11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They always say tha, oh you look good for a fat girl. Atleast you have shiny hair, or hey atleast your eyes are better. Like WTH

    • @ysa9
      @ysa9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Kathakathan11 it’s like our identity!

  • @shubhasreesarkar9551
    @shubhasreesarkar9551 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Sumukhi spilling facts and winning hearts as always!!! I'm going to use BGT now!!

    • @KommuneIndia
      @KommuneIndia  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hahaha yes BGT is ICONIC!

  • @aditijha_06a25
    @aditijha_06a25 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    this is me....tired of hearing "stage tut jayega tu dance karegi toh" and dancing my heart out in my room(locking the doors and switching off the lights)......i love to dance....and ek din everyone will know

    • @Kathakathan11
      @Kathakathan11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hope when you join dance classes you find like minded people who appreciate you, not demotivate you. But if you don’t, don’t let others rule your life. It’s easy to say, but it’s something’s we have to do, at 15, or 25, 45, but we have to stop paying attention to others word. Sooner you do, better it is. Good luck

    • @UnderstandingChildren
      @UnderstandingChildren ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey there..I think it's a phase that a lot of people go through, in some way or the other, acne, hair, skin colour, too thin, being heavy and so on.... If people talk bad, remember, it's them, it's not you.
      All the best to you in whatever you choose.

  • @anjordeshpande4047
    @anjordeshpande4047 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It brought tears to my eyes. I'm so happy that you got to do your hook step 'like everyone was watching'. And I'm sorry that you had to go through this because I cannot even imagine what it must have been like for you. Thank you for putting this out and sharing it with everyone. Much love !

  • @dibyachhetri3109
    @dibyachhetri3109 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I liked the video when she said when girls backs you , girl backs you

  • @gulafshap6367
    @gulafshap6367 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When girls back you, they fuckin back you!!!!

  • @tuliptail5539
    @tuliptail5539 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don't know whether I am overwhelmed, confused , happy or feeling vulnerable but One thing that I felt for sure is I felt so much relieved. It felt like some part of me got to do what she loves in you Sumu . I wish I could be like you , bold and Frank and super cool . Even tho I am a bit overweight , It gets me to the core everytime I am in public . I workout , watch my diet and make sure to do what's in my hands to become slim but everyone's bodies doesn't respond to them the same way . Listening to you was so heartfelt to me . I love you daa ❤️

  • @sahanasarkar5562
    @sahanasarkar5562 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    This was so heart warming. Being a big girl myself I could so relate to it ! ❤️

    • @KommuneIndia
      @KommuneIndia  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We're so glad it spoke to you, Sahana! Thank you for leaving the comment!

  • @abhip4538
    @abhip4538 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank u ma'am for sharing this. m 163 kgs. Had similar experiences first bad and then good. Also pretty successful in my career (m CA in 1st attempt), and this story has brought tears to my eyes & smile to face. Thank u once again for sharing.

  • @dileswarisahu8443
    @dileswarisahu8443 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She has put up her video dancing to koi mil gaya in the diwali party!! I lovvvvve her🥰

  • @mansisingh3234
    @mansisingh3234 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    thisss beautyyyyyyy, 12 minutes crying was all worth at the end by the hook step,

  • @farahmujawar
    @farahmujawar ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i dont know why but seeing her smiling and dancing infront of the audience made me forget my pain and insecurities. love love love

  • @tharu123u
    @tharu123u ปีที่แล้ว +6

    RMH memories ki saugandh khate hue 😇 Sumukhi you were the most amazing dancer😍 My affection for you was threefold as you reminded me of my bf cousin who too was a chubby ekdam khatarnak dancer like you👏👏😘💕( Btw also a fan of yours😁)

  • @kabir_s
    @kabir_s ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I never knew what was comedy. One day just randomly scrolling on TH-cam i opened a skit performed by sumukhi 'maid' since that day and today I only look sumukhi's stand up comedy and skits because she do work open heartedly as if no one cares. Her careless attitude towards people and talent of comedy outshines her. I am sumukhi fan now.

  • @ayushiaryan2208
    @ayushiaryan2208 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    MUCH NEEDED IN TOAYS GENERATION. THANKU FOR PUTTING FOWARD SUCH A HEARTWAMING STORY ON BODY POSITIVITY. INDEED RELATABLE TO MANY BIG GIRLS LIKE ME !!! YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION INDEED , KEEP SPREADING YOUR STORIES AND KEEP INSPIRING MORE BIG GIRLS , WHO USE TO HEAR SUCH DEMOTIVATING COMMENTS ON THEIR BODY, YOU ALL ARE BEAUTIFUL THE WAY YOU ARE!!!NEVER LET ANYONE DEMOTIVATE YOURSELF, BEAUTY LIES IN ALL SHAPES AND COLOURS !!!!!!

  • @manikagupta795
    @manikagupta795 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is the best thing ❤️❤️❤️

  • @AK-zq8dt
    @AK-zq8dt ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You made our voice heard!💙 All my love for you because I am you.....the same Big Fat Girl who pays the same BGT Big Girl Tax. You prove our existence every time you come on stage and talk from our perspectives.💙

  • @bhumikadutta4368
    @bhumikadutta4368 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was amazing.
    I understand and relate to what she is saying since all my teenage I have been fat not overweight but definitely not what an" ideal female body"
    When I was in college I had some so called friends they literally fat shamed me every opportunity they got and if I ever stood up for myself they acted like I don't know how to take a joke!
    Finally during lockdown I started working out I am healthy now and I don't care about my weight anymore since I was never overweight, it was just that I was insecure and not confident enough.
    IDK what is it but everyone now a days says I look so good and all that, but IDK is it because my weight or because I am much more confident now however I always remained myself this high never lasts since seeking approval from others always break us a little.
    We need to know our worth❤

  • @sampritisen8756
    @sampritisen8756 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    you tell my story as i could have never told it. i feel yours like one BGT giver to another! Champion🎉

  • @jain-abhilasha
    @jain-abhilasha ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You're such an inspiration Sumukhi!! Your story hit too close to home, and I'm literally tearing up after seeing this video! I have always loved dancing, I've always been a big girl, and conscious of my body!!! I still can't dance like no one's watching, but I'll get there one day! I promise! Thank You for sharing this story!! Lots of love!!

  • @auro2008
    @auro2008 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The last bit was so wholesome 🥰

  • @shilpasunny3815
    @shilpasunny3815 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Smooth with comedy and life lessons too! Big inspiration!❤️

    • @KommuneIndia
      @KommuneIndia  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +100! And she's also an amazing entrepreneur, honestly, what can't she do??

  • @ajizaahmed3722
    @ajizaahmed3722 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I cried like a baby watching this,it is so true I felt like I need to take on a personality to cover up for the fact that I am big.I took part in every debate possible but never dared to go near sports.
    I remember a friend used to make fun of me using this line from k3g song,suraj hua mathdham-“main tehra raha zameen chalne lagi”

  • @sanjeebtripathy1
    @sanjeebtripathy1 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    First instance I read - “ Why bad girls can’t dance”. 😂 You rock Sumukhi.

  • @srinidhikumar2807
    @srinidhikumar2807 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sumukhi Suresh is the best! OG!

  • @harshvardhangodara5852
    @harshvardhangodara5852 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That summer holiday one, hits right on the spot😂😂

  • @himanijha5659
    @himanijha5659 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    sumukhi is my spirit animal & absolute fav ❤. Also have seen you dance on sooo many comedian's sangeets and you're way too good. ❤❤

  • @mownicaamanicomic
    @mownicaamanicomic ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for this!! 😄😄

  • @ketkitalwelkar6818
    @ketkitalwelkar6818 ปีที่แล้ว

    Saw ur jhumka dance with Nicole, Sumukhi, you're an amazing dancer!!!! Show us more! You're FAB!

  • @userhope
    @userhope ปีที่แล้ว +4

    the taking space thing and 8th grade shit was relatable and also the dharti fat gaya comments ..boys thiught it was comedic gold. not going down with the whole story ..but this is what happened my friends used to say if i do right side part i will look better this that and i told them but your face wont change you will look the same anyways something like that and it hit me that if i tried ti take less space it wont happpen because i will be the same size anyways so rather than being like a meek ship i ll just stride in confidence and i will have to admit that cinfidence came from watching confident plus size girls around me which also gave me a little push to dress the way i want with the current body i have rather than just waiting to fit in because may be in the streets someone might get the confidence in themselves by watching me like i did..

  • @salonimittal7457
    @salonimittal7457 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This story gives me goosebumps everytime i listen to it! Infact the host relatable set i found at spoken this year

  • @karishmanathoo7366
    @karishmanathoo7366 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This woman has my heart and how! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @catherineanichar6957
    @catherineanichar6957 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is sooo wholesome!

  • @mahika8915
    @mahika8915 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fabulous work sumukhi so great to hear how you grew over the years and the dance was the best ending any episode can ever get

  • @meetaksharamishra3088
    @meetaksharamishra3088 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of best comedian yet influencer of Gen Z ,always an inspiration. #lovesumukhi.💗

  • @akanshagoenka4045
    @akanshagoenka4045 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shevis awesome.
    Loved her attitude.

  • @hermalinlevina3554
    @hermalinlevina3554 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Woww! Thank you for this🥰

  • @TheAarushi1
    @TheAarushi1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sumukhi Suresh, you ROCK!! 💥💥💥

  • @harshithakrishna7416
    @harshithakrishna7416 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This set is extremely triggering and relieving for me at the same time 🥺❤

  • @samakshitiwari6494
    @samakshitiwari6494 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a winner!! So damm cool

  • @10anupriya34
    @10anupriya34 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Idk if it's similar or not but I'm skinny too skinny and I still hate my body dance only in my room coz uk I'm clumsy and it's weird I feel good hearing her story still I would not dance in front of people idk maybe someday I'll reach where she is . Happy for her

  • @moharagrawal
    @moharagrawal ปีที่แล้ว

    We back you!!!! Screaming for the people in the back….love you and this piece oh my god❤❤

  • @miku1408
    @miku1408 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely narration. Really paints a picture about how we body shame people and scar them. Sad and much to learn from.

  • @aswathya3532
    @aswathya3532 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So real❤

  • @yashikagolchha4521
    @yashikagolchha4521 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bahut rarely videos like karti hoon mein but the you said the thing about bgt I felt the urge to like and comment what I felt❤

  • @hansajeswani4648
    @hansajeswani4648 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    QUEEENNNN. Relate so much. Much love

  • @hammadshaikh4278
    @hammadshaikh4278 ปีที่แล้ว

    She needs standing ovation for what she did at the end.

  • @dollysingh007
    @dollysingh007 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was wholesome ❤

  • @dr.praicymathew1361
    @dr.praicymathew1361 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was soooooo good sumuki... Loved it. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @antariksharajkumari4110
    @antariksharajkumari4110 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh I love this❤

  • @ShowvhickNath
    @ShowvhickNath 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Smukhi You rock

  • @jaspreetkaur8273
    @jaspreetkaur8273 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg totally relatable

  • @nehaahuja6482
    @nehaahuja6482 ปีที่แล้ว

    SUMMMMUUUUUU LOVE YOU SO FRIGGIN MUCHHHH. THANK YOU FOR THIS, THANK YOU FOR GIVING A TIGHT SLAP IN OUR FACES WHO PRETENDED WE DID NOT MIND BIG GIRLS DANCING BUT ACTUALLY DID. WITH TIME WE GREW UP BUT THIS STIGMA IS NOW GONE

  • @sthaayi8151
    @sthaayi8151 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I cried when koi mil gaya played in some room at her diwali party!

  • @simranjadhav7991
    @simranjadhav7991 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All the love to you Sumukhi you queen 👸 ❤️

  • @soumyashreemishra9488
    @soumyashreemishra9488 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh wow!! She lost so much weight!! **mad respect**- already a comic genius.. now she's taking care of her health too.. would definitely encourage others!! It's such a difficult task.. kudos ❤

  • @mrsamsonpheonix
    @mrsamsonpheonix ปีที่แล้ว +1

    YOU ARE MY ABSOLUTE FAVORITEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!

  • @TheSoleSpeaks
    @TheSoleSpeaks ปีที่แล้ว

    Very powerful performance. I had goosebumps in the end.

  • @rukhsarjamadar2469
    @rukhsarjamadar2469 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sumukhi your a awsome person. I have met you nd your so humble.

  • @YOLO-tl1ih
    @YOLO-tl1ih ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Youngsters are brutal, they don't have adult lying skills" damnnnn , hit me hard

  • @ishika0701
    @ishika0701 ปีที่แล้ว

    You just made my day a little better, every ounce of love from this big girl's heart straight to your's.

  • @digitalarchive9642
    @digitalarchive9642 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sumukhi! Sumukhi! Sumukhi! 🥳🥳🥳

  • @snehagore6389
    @snehagore6389 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm glad that she rediscovered herself

  • @shwetamayekar1863
    @shwetamayekar1863 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish I watched this live! Amazing set ❤

  • @shraddhanjalisahoo7879
    @shraddhanjalisahoo7879 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl,never ever stop dancing.🔥

  • @kininans
    @kininans ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved it!

  • @shubham_mm
    @shubham_mm ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wholesomeeeeeeee 🌻

  • @nileshverma1931
    @nileshverma1931 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was sooo good 🤩🤩

  • @uselesstraveller2810
    @uselesstraveller2810 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can relate myself well

  • @arpithatiwari9361
    @arpithatiwari9361 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing! Sweet heart and you boosted my confidence!

  • @tvishaudyawar6252
    @tvishaudyawar6252 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you Sumukhi ❤❤

  • @vijooiyer
    @vijooiyer ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome ❤️

  • @sharvaribidaye8193
    @sharvaribidaye8193 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely amazing🎉 so heartfelt ❤

  • @RajaBabu-ur5kf
    @RajaBabu-ur5kf ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good stuff, felt nice.

  • @vevire1989
    @vevire1989 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    precious

  • @sakshyyay
    @sakshyyay ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sadly, I can relate with the whole childhood story.

  • @oindriladas980
    @oindriladas980 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just Love her innocence❤✌

  • @DrAshleysharma
    @DrAshleysharma ปีที่แล้ว

    Every big girl's problem... I'm still struggling to get that confidence back.

  • @Vidrohiman21
    @Vidrohiman21 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She is telling her trauma using humour 👌

  • @shahatajsarkar7626
    @shahatajsarkar7626 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love u Sumukhi!!!

  • @tanugarg5023
    @tanugarg5023 ปีที่แล้ว

    just amazing.

  • @sidhantjaishanker8424
    @sidhantjaishanker8424 ปีที่แล้ว

    so wholesome

  • @sunitanairnair2825
    @sunitanairnair2825 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Super

  • @isha_bhatt
    @isha_bhatt ปีที่แล้ว

    You go girllllllll!!!!!! Amazing!!!

  • @deepikanawaria9789
    @deepikanawaria9789 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ love to you

  • @Pasadena14
    @Pasadena14 ปีที่แล้ว

    So sweet!!! 👏👏👏

  • @lubispensieve
    @lubispensieve ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I ❤️❤️❤️ U Sumukhi

  • @zubikhan5634
    @zubikhan5634 ปีที่แล้ว

    👌👌👌

  • @jashalkhandeka8665
    @jashalkhandeka8665 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovedddd it

  • @VinitBatra_25
    @VinitBatra_25 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @deepairine
    @deepairine ปีที่แล้ว

    Sumuki being a Fact machine for straight 15 minutes

  • @shrekwazowski2325
    @shrekwazowski2325 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing crowd 💗

  • @shreyaapokharel5113
    @shreyaapokharel5113 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awww😍😭❤

  • @yojnadighe4577
    @yojnadighe4577 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🌟💛🌟