This song literally saved my life when I was 26 years old. Helped me have the strength to leave an abusive relationship. I always wanted to write Mary a letter to thank her. So thank you Mary 🙏🙏🙏
I thank Mary J, for helping me leave the drama of abuse and a man who never supported me while I struggled with breast cancer surgery and leukemia. I am truly blessed as a 16-year breast cancer survivor. Thanks to God's blessings, my children who has been with me from the. beginning. Their support meant the world to me. Her songs always touched my heart and soul.
This made me cry , because one of my brothers was an addict and many times i begged him to stop, and he never did, well they found him dead inside his hime a few months ago and I AM destroyed, because he raised me, he was everything to me, he meant the world to me.
I'm so sorry. I went thru it and I'm grateful af to be alive. Hugs to you. It's not easy to be an addict,but it's harder, in my experience, to love an addict. He's still with you 🦋❤
Bonjour à vous Je suis un homme bien évidemment, sela fait 16 années que je vie seul, parce que je le veux, plus de triangulaire, reste sans jamais voir la personne pendant trois années, j'ai dit stop, je préfère aider les gens qui en ont besoin, sans rien demander en retour. Excellente journée à vous.
This is a song hardly anybody can sing because it takes more than a good voice to deliver. What you need is the ability to create the drama within the drama. The composition is a constant increase of tension and it would be so easy to drown here. Mary knows what to do and how to do it. A masterpiece.
For sure! The delivery comes from a place of personal experience and the drive of a great arrangement down to the instrumentation from some of the greatest arrangement and production from the great Jimmy Jam and Terry Lewis!!!!!
so crazy I was thinking the same thing-- now while I never been a big fan of Mary's voice; I wouldn't want to hear this song from even the most pitch perfect artist it just wouldn't be the same.
"Another lesson learned. Better know your friends or you will get burned." That is so real. Edit: Thank you all for the likes. I wasn’t expecting that many, when I commented. As I hardly ever commented on TH-cam videos during the time. It just happened to be something I was going through the during the time. But hey, it was for the best; God truly knows the best for us all. We have to go through pain and rain, to get the treasure and rainbow at the end. 🙏🏽 I don’t want to say too much about the situation, except she was definition of a fake friend. Wasn’t happy when I got into a relationship with a good man, she talked behind my back. I was the “bad friend and fake” because I didn’t want to put up with the toxicity anymore. 🤦🏽♀️💁🏽♀️🥺 I’m ok though, I already forgiven her and her mother for talking behind my back. You KNOW you’re a strong, good person when you forgive a person, who are not even slightly remorseful for their actions. I pray you all can do the same thing. Sometimes, God removes people from all lives for a reason. Praise Him, through it all because think where you’d be if you stayed around that toxic person. Let’s just say now, I’m doing way better now, I’m currently engaged to the love my life. 🥲 We also have our beautiful 6-year-old daughter who is now in 1st grade. She’ll be graduating from preschool next year. When you remove, a toxic person from your life; you grow without them! May God help you all, find peace and joy in your lives. In Jesus name, amen. 🙏🏽
I have spent 19 years with my ex thinking I was a punch bag (with 3 kids) this song brings back memories. I learnt to move on. Now years later my kids are all grown up with kids of their of own. I lived a abusive life but had the strength to move on. 3 beautiful kids and 8 grandkids. It can happen. Stay strong.
@@KidsandMe find the strength with in you. I no it's easier said then done. Talk to family and friends if you can, if not there are womans refuge you can contact. One night I was sitting alone in the dark crying(while everyone was asleep) thinking what have I done it's all my fault ..that's why is he treating me like this.. dinner wasnt on time...coffee was to cold.. kids crying....im a waste of space...and the rest of it..it only took little things to set him off..its all my fault and the kids are suffering for it. Then started thinking (looking back) none of this made any sense to me...why would you hurt me because coffee wasn't hot enough..dinner not on time. .. your worthless....no one will ever want you now with "bagged in tow your now second hand goods" fat and ugly (saying all this while hands around the neck with a black eye)it was never about me it was always about him. Low self esteem...lack of confidence...so try and bring you down to make him feel better about himself..and to do that they will do whatever it takes to make feel about yourself...thinking you will not leave....your alone. Your a far from it. YOU ARE NOT AND NEVER HAVE BEEN THE PROBLEM. If you need someone to talk to I am here. You are NEVER alone hun. XX
When it first came out I was only 9 years old I remember standing in my bedroom crying my eyes out singing No More Drama. Now im a 30 yrd woman and this song still gets me. We go through so many things in life , diffrent struggles and growths. Some more painful than other but there is beauty in all of it. So many of us resonate with Mary's pain we all feel it in her voice and that's the beauty in it. The shared experince that connects us
Mary is one of the few artists who truly understood the human condition, with the capability to narrate our lives with the passion in her voice. Growing up in war torn south central LA where there was a shooting every half hour, I was a little girl begging for the violence to stop… Mary gave me a song that literally said what I wanted to say. In addition to my heartbreak, abandonment, emotional neglect from my family and partners. From tribulation to triumph, Mary really sung the soundtrack of my life. Thank you Mary!
I am an achild abuse survival ,, I did not choose to be abused but I choose how I am going to live my life ,, therapy and daily decision to No more drama and No more pain helps ,,
Everyone in this life has something in common. I have loved this song for a long time and am still living it today and I will be 70 in August. Thank you Mary J. Blige!!!.
Yes, she helped me through mine as well. I listened to her growing up, but it hits when you’re grown. Always felt her music deeply, she empowers me to NEVER give up on ME especially when I am feeling lost. 💪🏽❤️ Forever MJB
This is so beautiful. I just learned about this song from the SuperBowl 2022 and I am so grateful for it. My mom passed 4 months ago and I've been struggling a lot to sleep and move on with my life because I miss her with all my heart and soul. I just want the pain and the drama to end, and that's why I love this song.
You just brought tears to my eyes. I’m so sorry. I just said a prayer that God will bring you comfort and also send others who will help you in the midst of it all
That is why I love Mary J. so much. She transformers you in every time she sing . Her voice is pure and that is why she touches so many people with her songs . It doesn't matter if you are black or white red or yellow our hearts are all the same. We all feel pain she just sings us to a better place. #ShesReal #SheFeels #SheKnowsOurPain #GodBlessUMaryJ
Brought to tears at the end of this song. I feel her pain and emotion when she said "Lord help me"! That's all you have to do is cry out to him and will hear you! Love you Mary💕
This song got me through a 30 yr marriage and divorce with an alcoholic..didnt want the same things..i finally just up and left..no job..nothing..ty mary NO MORE DRAMA
The song brings back so many memories. A place of pain and hurt. To everyone who is going through these dark times, It will get better 🙏 I pray for you
Nope it really gets worse. Have you not seen the state of the world and how fast its declining. Theres no one to find. Unless you want more of this song in your life.
I cried myself to sleep last night - cries from the depths of my soul - woke up this morning to find “Not Gon’ Cry” the current song on my playlist 😢 Now I found this song….. and “Unholy” by Santino Le Saint. Never really listened to MJB until now…… I’ve never felt this pain before…
New Generations are just now finding out about Mary and this song. This song is about healing which is what this country really needs rn People were talking shit about how she wasn’t even that great of a singer. They are callous and soul-less. I hope this sparks a new wave of healing that is much needed in this time. Also this was produced by Dr. Dre which is why it was chosen for the Halftime Performance. All the artists presented songs produced by Dr Dre because it was about his Legacy as a producer.
I lost both my parents when I was a young teen, became Homeless on the streets at 16... but I stayed in school, graduated, went to College University, graduated with not 1 but 2 degrees. Worked in Social services and homeless youth services for 17 years... however I'm hated by people, my community, people at work mock me at times, people make remarks and even sometimes laugh... though I've come through so much and accomplished so much, I'll never be good enough... why? Because I'm transgender. Just when I think about jumping over the edge and giving up, I back away because this is my life and I don't know what's next but what I do know is. I better make good of what I do have. Contrary of what folks may think I didn't choose this. I'm tired tho but if I have to path through darkness to see the sun, than so be it, even if I have to do it alone... thank you Mary for this anthem, it has showed up for me more than you could possibly know.
I’m a straight man. All I can tell you, is own yourself. People will love/hate you over other things if it isn’t your gender. Surround yourself with the right people. That’s key. Hope you are well.
This song speaks to me in a way that no one can. My mom (RIP) loved this song so much and now that I’m an adult, I understand why. She was at war with her alcoholism, her tumultuous marriage, and everything in between. Now I am experiencing the same thing (minus the alcoholism) and I sing with this song differently now than when I did as a teenager. Such a deep and meaningful song.
Her voice, her acting, her lyrics, her passion, her everything, no one will ever top her she took it to a whole new level, just pure perfection, old but GOLD.
+Earthian Moon God bless your soul sweetie, you're not alone but you're still here. we all went through something everyday in life. It's always important to pray, ask the Good man and just be thankful and happy. Thank goodness you're still here and so am I.
Henry Cooper thank you. you two. if only more people will see that depression is something we make up. we either are born or something happen to us that depression started. and i hope you heal. bless you. : )
This song hit different when you see her perform it live. I'm a Grown Ass Man, and it put tears 😢 in my eyes. This song 🎵 brought me through some rough times.
After she says "no more" at 2:55 the next frame where emotions just rush through her body, LITERALLY gives me shivers every time. Just repeated it a good 5 times, I can almost feel the emotion, like you just cant handle all the issues you have going on and your body just involuntarily tries to physically shake it off. This song is such a rush of emotional relief.
This song is PERFECT for reinventing Yo’SELF….just like old school EXPRESS Yo’ SELF way back in the day. True Free Spirits take the good with the bad and mix the bitter with the sweet and keep it moving. You have to look for us for we reinvent everything about ourself in less than 2 seconds. Our power to DETACH is second to none because we never make decisions with our EMOTIONS. So you don’t love ME anymore? I can be real ok with that in less than 2 seconds. Learn to live only by this truth….. IT ALWAYS IS EXACTLY WHAT IT IS!❤
im a 42 yr old single dad, been through alot to say the least and this song and the conviction in marys voice brings me to tears every damn time!...love u mary and thank u xo
@@yankee2666 hater follow mary from old albums and now u will know she sdoesnt sing anyhow every song has a meaning whe God has taken u from somewhere u understand what art is because he's the number oe artist...NEVER FORGET THAT SHES NOT A MUSICIAN SHES Q TESTIMONY
This song was playing in the background at the moment I got saved! At that time my life was headed for utter destruction. I had so much drama and sadness in my life, addiction, and wrong relationship. I was on the verge of a mental breakdown and I didn’t know what to do. One day I was laying on my mom’s couch crying my eyes out and desperately wanting freedom from all of the emotional pain and mental suffering. This song was playing in the background and by the end of the song, the Holy Spirit had came into the room and filled me up. I raised up off of the couch and was jumping for joy uncontrollably. I had instantly been set free from the prison of pain and pit of depression that I was in. Jesus LITERALLY saved my soul that day! He came and free me from the addiction instantly and eventually the bad relationship ended and my life has never seen those dark days again. Jesus Christ literally saved my soul on that day this song was playing and I am forever grateful. I noticed years down the line that toward the end of the song, Mary was actually commanding the demons to get out of her face and to leave her life. Listen again if you missed that part. God used Mary J. Blige voice to help deliver me into a brand new life…I got born again. It’s been 23 years since that day and I never turned away from walking with God, my Heavenly Father, since then. No one will ever know the depths of my appreciation for what God did in my life on that day and how thankful I am for this song to have been playing at that precise moment. That was no coincidence…it was the divine timing of God to have my favorite artist playing at that time. I always had hoped to meet Mary J. Blige one day to let her know that God used her in a very special anointed way to help bring me total freedom. I love you Mary J. Blige and I pray you have freedom, joy, and the love of the Lord Jesus Christ in your heart too. I know you have been through so much over the years and I pray that the peace of God will help free you from any pain. I am forever grateful for you and the gift of your voice! 💐🌹😘 With much love in Jesus name, Khalilah Wilbourn John 3:16
FaytLinegod I can definitely feel her pain and it makes me feel the pain I used to feel...I now feel pain for my family cause they are so wrapped up fighting and getting high. Breaks my heart to the max 💔
It's just knowing pain is what makes you stronger and allow it to make you stronger. What doesn't kill ya only makes you stronger. Mind over matter. Pick your self before anyone always. Because In the end it's all about how much heart you got to keep on walking forward after each pain you've conquered. Facing fears is a superpower. Lol jk I'm afraid of myself .. how gorgeously brilliantly confusion is that part
How many brides walked down the aisle to this song? I was a June Bride in 1985. It lasted 14 years. I believe Nadia’s Theme was more of a curse than a blessing. Perfect for a come back song and a new beginning. Mary J! Here’s to strong women! May we respect them and with the grace of God may we raise them. Amen! I come from a long line of strong women. Even still, we have to find our own way. Thank God for strong women.
I’m listening to all my “tear jerker songs.” Those are the song that hit so deep within the soul, you can literally feel it in your heart! ❤️❤️❤️ No more drama!
Omg this song saved me...I was 19 got in a "relationship" whn 16 he was severely abusive he almost killed me I remember when I heard this..Mary's voice the lyrics & strength in her emotions had god given me the Stength to leave for good at 21 I survived 🙏 truly a Blessing 🙌 Thank you so much Mary!! I still listen to this when I feel weak ❤
i will never forget how much power and hope this song was giving me when i was a teenager.. growing up in a fucked up household... bursting in tears when she stands in front of the tv's and screams no more drama and i just wanted to escape .. still so many emotions when i hear this. timeless
wait a minute here...not just for all women...but why not for men??? this song is for anyone who has made the decision of making the best choices for themselves...and stop trying to please others...it's one of Mary's best songs!
@@stephenalbertson8920 as long as we are also respecting others in the process. What people think is the "best choice for themselves" and not pleasing others, can sometimes be selfishness and disrespect. The song is about rejecting and getting out of abuse.
This song speaks volumes for me. When i turned 40 i realized i was just tired of so much drama and i should not even apologize for my own happiness. This gave me the strength to stand my ground. To those walking away from stuff, stick to what you know is right for you. Thanks Mary J for this powerful song.
Just hit 40...having moved into my own place after a relationship which I ended after a domestic abuse incident. The power of saying to yourself "No more" and really meaning it hits so much.
I don’t even have serious drama in my life at this time and I feel tears coming up listening to her sing. I can see how this song helped so many people.
It's been a whole year since he was removed from my life. I saw him in court today. He has no power over me anymore and I see him as the weak pathetic creature he is. I WILL NEVER be treated that way again. No man will ever put their hands on me again because I will never trust another man again.
+Becky Norris I know you want to build a wall around you and never allow anyone to hurt you again. Maybe after you have healed and built your self esteem back again, you'll allow yourself to find love and allow other to love you. Good luck!
+Becky Norris please, please don't judge all of us men like the monster that hurt you I know its easy to say I have been sexually assaulted by women but I don't tar you all by the same brush
+Becky Norris. I know exactly how you feel. Un neccessary negativism and evil that these men , etc. create. Anything to bring your spirit down. I read this other day " Satan daily will say things to bring you down.. Satan destroys.. God will daily uplift your spirit and God restores! Amen ♥
It's been 3 yrs since he was removed from my life. Haven't see him in three or heard from him in two. Glad he moved on but this passed February sent me a friend request I sent a message 💔💔💔💔 really and he removed it.. Just got back to loving myself & enjoying life it took a big toll on me.. I Love too hard 😰Still not ready to date again.. Just patiently waiting don't see how some people jump right back in without healing first.. Takes time 💞💗🙏🏾
Who cannot like this song. She gives me strength. Especially now to this day. Sometimes you don’t want the publicity. I don’t care anymore. It is was it is. I want my life back. I’m getting it back and more. People wanted to cause drama. We’ll reap what you sowed. Thank you UFC. For controlling your fighters
After losing 6 family members back to back within three months this song still resonates with my soul and what I felt at the time wasn’t drama it was the greatest pain I’ve felt as a human being and this song has helped to transition me through it all! Mary j I thank you 21 years ago I never knew the extent nor true meaning but I get it now!
This song brings tears almost every time I listen to it you can hear her pain when she sing no other like her except for Aretha and patti and few others 🥰🥰🥰♥️♥️♥️♥️
This made me cry from all the stress I had in my life with depression as a kid acting like a person I’m not for people and people making ashamed of my self thank you Mary j blige
Every time I listen to the song, I love the power of it. Every time I watch the video, I see the hope, the path of possibility through pain. One of her most powerful songs.
Heard her sing a part of this at the super bowl a couple of nights ago and had to come back to this and hear this one more time. I can't tell you the number of times I've went to the song about an issue or a problem and I couldn't say anything, but this song said every word that need to be said and help me cry every tear I needed to cry. Such a powerful song
This gives me such chills. It's just one of those songs where you just had to be there to understand. If you look at the TV screens towards the end, you'll see Mariah, who was seriously seriously seriously going through it real bad at this time, and of course 9/11 just happened and we were going to war. Just so much going on in 2001-2002. I was preparing for college..
I survived domestic violence the last straw was when he put me in the hospital for 3 months. When I got out had this song on repeat. It gave me the strength to remove him out of my life. This song will always be my favorite Mary J song
I see Mary J Blige well maybe 6 years ago at the TD Bank guy and she was phenomenal unbelievable with some Jay-Z as a backup and I'll tell you have Mary does take you there and you have to love Mary and also love her music because she tells it like it is and she's truthful and she tried to make you realize that you're not the only one there is someone out there became famous as soon as she did but she's come up and she's Miss Mary J Blige
You right about that. There's so much domestic violence going on now it's sickening. Women and men losing their lives, because they're afraid to be alone. I was like that..... until I woke up in the hospital. I lefted with nothing but the clothes on my back..... am happy and safe. Thank You GOD
Yes this song touches on issues that are so real no more drama in my life I'm a servivor and love this song and how many people it's touched its absolutely amazing and real!!
This song is still relevant till this day & this was released when Aaliyah passed, Lisa Left Eye Lopes passed, 9/11 happened, Mariah Carey had her breakdown, Puffy legal troubles, & Mary had her own problems
And I could've sworn the version I saw on the music channel back when it was released had footage of 9/11 on the screens and showed that more than the other news stuff....unless they re-edited a less intense version for censorship or something... or am I just having some kind of weird Mandela effect?
Yeah now its been 20 years ago when the video came out after 9/11 during the worst time.Mariah Carey been thru a lot.I pray for both Mariah and Mary.Its really powerful video that Mary did.
Reading these comments had me crying the whole 4 minutes and 9 seconds i love you all. This song also saved my life.. i remember calling the cops on myself when i was ready to give up. I didn’t let the devil take over 🙏🏻🤍!!!
Remember the live Grammy performance of this song when she had on the gold tone pants suit. She did this special thing with her feet when dancing. I get the chills every time I watch it. Queen indeed!
Yes, thankyou dear dear Mary. I just left a 17 year relationship that had become toxic. I am staying at a friends house, i left our home. I am happier than i have been in years and have the full support of family and friends. And this song so perfectly gives voice to everything i am feeling right now. Also to all these comments: so good to know that healing is possible, no matter what kind of circumstances brought on all rhe pain. All love to the people and hail Mary!
Can't get past the beginning 20 seconds of this song without bursting in to tears!! This is MY theme song!!! Every super hero has a theme song!! Mary wrote it and sang it, but these are my words to my story!!! This will always be relevant to all that I went through but survived!!!!
@@michellelanning5006 welcome to... We all go thru hard shit, it's how we come out that's important! Many crumble, some find a way to move forward. "Don't wish for an easy life, wish for the courage to endure a difficult one." Bruce Lee Congratulations, you are now a graduate of, The School Of Hard Knocks. All praises, credits, and credentials apply.
When you're in a toxic relationship you got to get out of it if you don't you're just hurting yourself even more no drama get out of the relationship and they won't be no drama don't have no friends so you won't have no drama stay to yourself love yourself respect yourself and one day you will meet somebody just like you never stop loving yourself
Was powerful back then... Is powerful now. ... Will stay powerful even in it's future. Love ya Mary j. Bilge ! You were awesome on stage you nailed it!
Can’t believe this song was made almost 20’years ago! Time flies so quickly it’s crazy. This song is still so powerful and relevant. Gives me goosebumps every time!
3:22 Diddy and Mariah? Did they co-write/produce the song? I love no-more drama so much- Mary has these rough soulful outbursts like she's the catalyst for my emotions
This song literally saved my life when I was 26 years old. Helped me have the strength to leave an abusive relationship. I always wanted to write Mary a letter to thank her. So thank you Mary 🙏🙏🙏
God bless you Judy!
@@valchung296 thank you and god bless you as well 🙏❤️
Be blessed and stay blessed
💜💜💪💪Well done girl. Hope you're happy and thriving now 😊
Thanks for sharing! I'm glad your here!
I thank Mary J, for helping me leave the drama of abuse and a man who never supported me while I struggled with breast cancer surgery and leukemia. I am truly blessed as a 16-year breast cancer survivor. Thanks to God's blessings, my children who has been with me from the. beginning. Their support meant the world to me. Her songs always touched my heart and soul.
You kicked cancers ass!!!
@@niishdageech6044 pretty sure it was the drs and chemo.
God bless you.
Sounds similar to my situation when I was diagnosed with breast cancer he walked out of my life
Thank you Jesus Christ for healing your body ❤❤❤
I'm a domestic abuse survivor. No more pain. No more drama. By the Grace of God. Amen.
+SouthSideLady Wright AMEN!
so happy you escaped and survived abuse
Amen girl 🙌
Amen ! this bought tears to my heart . beautiful
In jesus name amen.
This made me cry , because one of my brothers was an addict and many times i begged him to stop, and he never did, well they found him dead inside his hime a few months ago and I AM destroyed, because he raised me, he was everything to me, he meant the world to me.
I'm so sorry. I went thru it and I'm grateful af to be alive. Hugs to you. It's not easy to be an addict,but it's harder, in my experience, to love an addict. He's still with you 🦋❤
My condolences and heart go out to you. It is so hard. A side hug and my prayers go out to you! Positive vibes.
🙏🏾my condolences
Bonjour à vous
Je suis un homme bien évidemment, sela fait 16 années que je vie seul, parce que je le veux, plus de triangulaire, reste sans jamais voir la personne pendant trois années, j'ai dit stop, je préfère aider les gens qui en ont besoin, sans rien demander en retour.
Excellente journée à vous.
My condolences. 🙏
This is almost like a Spiritual, gospel song. It touches your soul. God bless you, Mary J. Blige!
Amen!!!!
Facts. This song brings back the memories I thought about when I first heard it. I don't cry as much as I use to though.
AMEN! GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME!
@@mariamitani8289 AMEN! HEALING IS A BEAUTIFUL THING QUEEN😇💜!
@@kembaleo6004 yes it is.
I am a 41 year old man and I swear when I listen to this song it cleanses my soul.
I couldn’t agree more with you. It’s like a present day psalm.
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36 years here I feel you. This is one of those speak it and it will be type of songs.
Mine too man!
This is a song hardly anybody can sing because it takes more than a good voice to deliver. What you need is the ability to create the drama within the drama. The composition is a constant increase of tension and it would be so easy to drown here. Mary knows what to do and how to do it. A masterpiece.
The arrangement is just phenomenal. I need a bit of Mary J in 2021. We all need a move on anthem.
For sure! The delivery comes from a place of personal experience and the drive of a great arrangement down to the instrumentation from some of the greatest arrangement and production from the great Jimmy Jam and Terry Lewis!!!!!
Ali Caldwell did justice to this song, her version is beyond heaven
Spot on!!!
so crazy I was thinking the same thing-- now while I never been a big fan of Mary's voice; I wouldn't want to hear this song from even the most pitch perfect artist it just wouldn't be the same.
2024.... This song is still amazing! This world is fucked. People, lets band together!
For real..
This song! Helped me to understand everything when I lost my mum in 2006. Still my go too when I need reassurance
I agree, it sounds fresh and a powerful sentiment.
Sing it Mary thanks for beautiful song ❤❤
No more drama
"Another lesson learned. Better know your friends or you will get burned." That is so real.
Edit: Thank you all for the likes. I wasn’t expecting that many, when I commented. As I hardly ever commented on TH-cam videos during the time. It just happened to be something I was going through the during the time. But hey, it was for the best; God truly knows the best for us all. We have to go through pain and rain, to get the treasure and rainbow at the end. 🙏🏽 I don’t want to say too much about the situation, except she was definition of a fake friend. Wasn’t happy when I got into a relationship with a good man, she talked behind my back. I was the “bad friend and fake” because I didn’t want to put up with the toxicity anymore. 🤦🏽♀️💁🏽♀️🥺 I’m ok though, I already forgiven her and her mother for talking behind my back. You KNOW you’re a strong, good person when you forgive a person, who are not even slightly remorseful for their actions. I pray you all can do the same thing. Sometimes, God removes people from all lives for a reason. Praise Him, through it all because think where you’d be if you stayed around that toxic person.
Let’s just say now, I’m doing way better now, I’m currently engaged to the love my life. 🥲 We also have our beautiful 6-year-old daughter who is now in 1st grade. She’ll be graduating from preschool next year. When you remove, a toxic person from your life; you grow without them! May God help you all, find peace and joy in your lives. In Jesus name, amen. 🙏🏽
+Janessa Ganuelas My name is Janessa too:D
Janessa Bowden I can see that! :D
Yes indeed 💯
realest shit I Eva heard. cause I'm going thru it right now but its worse cause its with family
NaturalHairology101 I know what you mean. I went through with family and a friend.
I have spent 19 years with my ex thinking I was a punch bag (with 3 kids) this song brings back memories. I learnt to move on. Now years later my kids are all grown up with kids of their of own. I lived a abusive life but had the strength to move on. 3 beautiful kids and 8 grandkids. It can happen. Stay strong.
Thank you for sharing
That’s me right now. Pregnant with child number 3 trying to leave the man who hits me. Trying to find the strength
@@KidsandMe find the strength with in you. I no it's easier said then done. Talk to family and friends if you can, if not there are womans refuge you can contact. One night I was sitting alone in the dark crying(while everyone was asleep) thinking what have I done it's all my fault ..that's why is he treating me like this.. dinner wasnt on time...coffee was to cold.. kids crying....im a waste of space...and the rest of it..it only took little things to set him off..its all my fault and the kids are suffering for it. Then started thinking (looking back) none of this made any sense to me...why would you hurt me because coffee wasn't hot enough..dinner not on time. .. your worthless....no one will ever want you now with "bagged in tow your now second hand goods" fat and ugly (saying all this while hands around the neck with a black eye)it was never about me it was always about him. Low self esteem...lack of confidence...so try and bring you down to make him feel better about himself..and to do that they will do whatever it takes to make feel about yourself...thinking you will not leave....your alone. Your a far from it. YOU ARE NOT AND NEVER HAVE BEEN THE PROBLEM. If you need someone to talk to I am here. You are NEVER alone hun. XX
I was on both sides..i hit back..but you can't force love
@@KidsandMe u can do this Stay strong chant Nam Myo Ho Renge Kyo and u will find ur power. Do this for u and ur kids
When it first came out I was only 9 years old I remember standing in my bedroom crying my eyes out singing No More Drama. Now im a 30 yrd woman and this song still gets me.
We go through so many things in life , diffrent struggles and growths. Some more painful than other but there is beauty in all of it.
So many of us resonate with Mary's pain we all feel it in her voice and that's the beauty in it. The shared experince that connects us
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Tears
Wow I relate 100% same age and all. Glad you kept your head up & continue pushing til this day ❤
AMEN 🙏
Agreed..
Mary is one of the few artists who truly understood the human condition, with the capability to narrate our lives with the passion in her voice. Growing up in war torn south central LA where there was a shooting every half hour, I was a little girl begging for the violence to stop… Mary gave me a song that literally said what I wanted to say. In addition to my heartbreak, abandonment, emotional neglect from my family and partners. From tribulation to triumph, Mary really sung the soundtrack of my life. Thank you Mary!
I am an achild abuse survival ,, I did not choose to be abused but I choose how I am going to live my life ,, therapy and daily decision to No more drama and No more pain helps ,,
I remember BLASTING this song, in tears, when my divorce was final! This song RIGHT HERE saved me!!! THANK YOU MARY!
Preach!
LOL
Everyone in this life has something in common. I have loved this song for a long time and am still living it today and I will be 70 in August. Thank you Mary J. Blige!!!.
she,s a saint ,,, all the pain in the world ,,, bless you mary ,,,
Yes, she helped me through mine as well. I listened to her growing up, but it hits when you’re grown. Always felt her music deeply, she empowers me to NEVER give up on ME especially when I am feeling lost. 💪🏽❤️ Forever MJB
This is so beautiful. I just learned about this song from the SuperBowl 2022 and I am so grateful for it. My mom passed 4 months ago and I've been struggling a lot to sleep and move on with my life because I miss her with all my heart and soul. I just want the pain and the drama to end, and that's why I love this song.
Hang In there hon
SIH FARAH'S MOM
Play it for me
Thank you for the likes, sweet people! I hope y'all find healing and comfort in this song. May God bless you.
You just brought tears to my eyes. I’m so sorry. I just said a prayer that God will bring you comfort and also send others who will help you in the midst of it all
2024 anyone? This song hits a little harder and makes more sense with each passing year.
3:23 ----->> *Diddy's FACE on the TV* ..
_I believe we understand the *majority of MJB's PAIN_ 😪
Fuck, yes..
I'm 43 now. Yes. This song is impactful. I hope people remember it: always. ❤
🙋🏾♀️
Yessss
I'm here because of BET 2019 Awards...Mary is indeed a Legend Queen🙌🙌🙌🙌💪💪💪😘😘
Meeeeeeeee tooooo 🙌🏿
💕 💞 💓 💗 💖
Yankee Level me too
YES!!!! I felt her emotions when she sang this at the awards. The best comeback I've seen in a long time.
Facts 💯💯
Mary brought that raw ass emotional pain... You can feel that pain in her deliverance
That is why I love Mary J. so much. She transformers you in every time she sing . Her voice is pure and that is why she touches so many people with her songs . It doesn't matter if you are black or white red or yellow our hearts are all the same. We all feel pain she just sings us to a better place. #ShesReal #SheFeels #SheKnowsOurPain
#GodBlessUMaryJ
@@sonjaashmore2972 i feel ya
Brought to tears at the end of this song. I feel her pain and emotion when she said "Lord help me"! That's all you have to do is cry out to him and will hear you! Love you Mary💕
Amen
Every time I get to the end of this song I feel the same way
Audra S. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
This song got me through a 30 yr marriage and divorce with an alcoholic..didnt want the same things..i finally just up and left..no job..nothing..ty mary
NO MORE DRAMA
Hope you are well and living your victory today 🖤
Same here!!
So proud of you
Keep ya head up queen. You did what so many are not strong or brave enough to follow through with.
This song makes me weep every time I hear. I'm finally escaping the drama in my life and this is helping me stay strong.
Smmfh,rite hear,God BLESS.!!🙏😪
Amen
The song brings back so many memories. A place of pain and hurt. To everyone who is going through these dark times, It will get better 🙏 I pray for you
Nope it really gets worse. Have you not seen the state of the world and how fast its declining. Theres no one to find. Unless you want more of this song in your life.
I pray for you too.. In Jesus Mighty name.. Amen.
This Song sound familiar
I cried myself to sleep last night - cries from the depths of my soul - woke up this morning to find “Not Gon’ Cry” the current song on my playlist 😢 Now I found this song….. and “Unholy” by Santino Le Saint. Never really listened to MJB until now…… I’ve never felt this pain before…
@@journeyfurthur6396 aw that so sad
Mary owned that fucking stage tonight. Period. Point. Blank. 🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆👑👑👑👑👑👑👑
New Generations are just now finding out about Mary and this song. This song is about healing which is what this country really needs rn People were talking shit about how she wasn’t even that great of a singer. They are callous and soul-less. I hope this sparks a new wave of healing that is much needed in this time. Also this was produced by Dr. Dre which is why it was chosen for the Halftime Performance. All the artists presented songs produced by Dr Dre because it was about his Legacy as a producer.
YES SHE DID!!
She OWNED it and made many of us watching emotional with remembering
They all killed it IMO. When the RAP God, Eminem came out, he got the crowd yelling his name
@@angelica21290 that generation is me lol. My mom told me she used to love this song and now I’m in love with it.
44 months sober and clean
That's HUGE!❤Keep going! Love is all around you.
Amen blessings
I’m so proud of you. Keep going ❤
So proud n happy for you you got this
Keep going! You got this 🎉
I lost both my parents when I was a young teen, became Homeless on the streets at 16... but I stayed in school, graduated, went to College University, graduated with not 1 but 2 degrees. Worked in Social services and homeless youth services for 17 years... however I'm hated by people, my community, people at work mock me at times, people make remarks and even sometimes laugh... though I've come through so much and accomplished so much, I'll never be good enough... why? Because I'm transgender. Just when I think about jumping over the edge and giving up, I back away because this is my life and I don't know what's next but what I do know is. I better make good of what I do have. Contrary of what folks may think I didn't choose this. I'm tired tho but if I have to path through darkness to see the sun, than so be it, even if I have to do it alone... thank you Mary for this anthem, it has showed up for me more than you could possibly know.
Nomi Williams God bless 💪❤️❤️❤️❤️
In tears while reading your post, bcus I'm a victim too.
I’m a straight man. All I can tell you, is own yourself. People will love/hate you over other things if it isn’t your gender. Surround yourself with the right people. That’s key. Hope you are well.
Nomi Williams ....❤️❤️❤️
You are beautiful
This song makes me cry because what she saying is so true it makes me emotional because women are so powerful and precious❤❤❤❤❤😢😢😢💘
She put her heart in this one. Them tears was real, baby.
I am 48 single black female, today I decided to leave the drama and pain for the streets, I like peace and will follow peace
You can do this. My sister did. You can too.❤
Thank you
Prayers
Same boat, heartbroken
Same sis ❤
This song speaks to me in a way that no one can. My mom (RIP) loved this song so much and now that I’m an adult, I understand why. She was at war with her alcoholism, her tumultuous marriage, and everything in between. Now I am experiencing the same thing (minus the alcoholism) and I sing with this song differently now than when I did as a teenager. Such a deep and meaningful song.
@@DarkMadamX83 thank you ♥️
May God deliver you and keep u safe
@@remarkablepunkin8035 thank you so much sweetheart. Same to you ♥️
Tumultuous meaning abuse ? Leave it gets worse . Never better
I suffer so much with pain and alcoholism
I hate it
I Truly Do
Her voice, her acting, her lyrics, her passion, her everything, no one will ever top her she took it to a whole new level, just pure perfection, old but GOLD.
Amen!!
***** skssmwls
Yolanda Groves
jailaJonson@com
And her beauthy
this song remains me when my manic depression was really bad. i can say now that i'm glad i no longer am fighting with my depression.
+Earthian Moon Wish you all best girl ;) it's gonna be all right ;)) !
thank you both. : ) im glad i'm not fighting with my depression. now i have control of it it instead of it controling me.
+Earthian Moon Excellent....
+Earthian Moon God bless your soul sweetie, you're not alone but you're still here. we all went through something everyday in life. It's always important to pray, ask the Good man and just be thankful and happy. Thank goodness you're still here and so am I.
Henry Cooper thank you. you two. if only more people will see that depression is something we make up. we either are born or something happen to us that depression started. and i hope you heal. bless you. : )
I listened to this song every day visiting my mom while she was dying and this song gave me so much strength!!! Thank you Mary♥️
Ameen
Mary went hard in this song.
This song hit different when you see her perform it live. I'm a Grown Ass Man, and it put tears 😢 in my eyes. This song 🎵 brought me through some rough times.
I feel you
Isn't the power of music awesome!? It's food 4 the soul. Jus like laughter
When she sang it live on Jools Holland she gave a phenomenal performance
You're never too grown to have emotions. More men NEED some.
Same!! I can’t stop crying
After she says "no more" at 2:55 the next frame where emotions just rush through her body, LITERALLY gives me shivers every time. Just repeated it a good 5 times, I can almost feel the emotion, like you just cant handle all the issues you have going on and your body just involuntarily tries to physically shake it off. This song is such a rush of emotional relief.
Literally on rewatch 4 from this part lol
cause your a "b" male
@@bilbobaggins5962sdfuu
Best Comment in this section.. It was so real..
Same. She was feeling ALL of that..
this not a song. this is an announcement for a fight, for a change, for a new future
A proclamation is what I say!
This song is PERFECT for reinventing Yo’SELF….just like old school EXPRESS Yo’ SELF way back in the day. True Free Spirits take the good with the bad and mix the bitter with the sweet and keep it moving. You have to look for us for we reinvent everything about ourself in less than 2 seconds. Our power to DETACH is second to none because we never make decisions with our EMOTIONS.
So you don’t love ME anymore? I can be real ok with that in less than 2 seconds. Learn to live only by this truth…..
IT ALWAYS IS EXACTLY WHAT IT IS!❤
im a 42 yr old single dad, been through alot to say the least and this song and the conviction in marys voice brings me to tears every damn time!...love u mary and thank u xo
Your are appreciated!!❤😔 I promise ❤🙏🙏
Miss Vanjie took me to church!
A queen she is
yeeeees
YES
That was magic!
go to deep of your self ...simply ....you need no one.
This new generation will never know how iconic Mary J Blige is.
que no que?
im 19 and i listen to her
Iconic only in your mind.
I like her and I listen to her two am 15 and I love her along with Toni 😍😍😍
@@yankee2666 hater follow mary from old albums and now u will know she sdoesnt sing anyhow every song has a meaning whe God has taken u from somewhere u understand what art is because he's the number oe artist...NEVER FORGET THAT SHES NOT A MUSICIAN SHES Q TESTIMONY
This song was playing in the background at the moment I got saved! At that time my life was headed for utter destruction. I had so much drama and sadness in my life, addiction, and wrong relationship. I was on the verge of a mental breakdown and I didn’t know what to do. One day I was laying on my mom’s couch crying my eyes out and desperately wanting freedom from all of the emotional pain and mental suffering. This song was playing in the background and by the end of the song, the Holy Spirit had came into the room and filled me up. I raised up off of the couch and was jumping for joy uncontrollably. I had instantly been set free from the prison of pain and pit of depression that I was in. Jesus LITERALLY saved my soul that day! He came and free me from the addiction instantly and eventually the bad relationship ended and my life has never seen those dark days again. Jesus Christ literally saved my soul on that day this song was playing and I am forever grateful. I noticed years down the line that toward the end of the song, Mary was actually commanding the demons to get out of her face and to leave her life. Listen again if you missed that part. God used Mary J. Blige voice to help deliver me into a brand new life…I got born again. It’s been 23 years since that day and I never turned away from walking with God, my Heavenly Father, since then. No one will ever know the depths of my appreciation for what God did in my life on that day and how thankful I am for this song to have been playing at that precise moment. That was no coincidence…it was the divine timing of God to have my favorite artist playing at that time. I always had hoped to meet Mary J. Blige one day to let her know that God used her in a very special anointed way to help bring me total freedom. I love you Mary J. Blige and I pray you have freedom, joy, and the love of the Lord Jesus Christ in your heart too. I know you have been through so much over the years and I pray that the peace of God will help free you from any pain. I am forever grateful for you and the gift of your voice! 💐🌹😘
With much love in Jesus name,
Khalilah Wilbourn
John 3:16
It's such an intense video...it reaches out to your core...
Yessss
Nul
This is probably the most powerful, thought-provoking song Mary ever recorded. It completely sucks you into its orbit.
+FaytLinegod Absolutely...! This...the song & video... is some heavy shit.
+FaytLinegod amen!!!!!!
FaytLinegod I can definitely feel her pain and it makes me feel the pain I used to feel...I now feel pain for my family cause they are so wrapped up fighting and getting high. Breaks my heart to the max 💔
T you are not alone. I'm always crying watching this video..
God, it really hurts that people are actually facing these situations.
I am
I Truly Am!.!
@@cjturner370 It's gon be ALRIGHT, trust me....🙏🏽🙏🏽
It's just knowing pain is what makes you stronger and allow it to make you stronger. What doesn't kill ya only makes you stronger. Mind over matter. Pick your self before anyone always. Because In the end it's all about how much heart you got to keep on walking forward after each pain you've conquered. Facing fears is a superpower. Lol jk I'm afraid of myself .. how gorgeously brilliantly confusion is that part
@@strawberrys8189 Keep your Head to the SKY...🙏🏽
I am
How many brides walked down the aisle to this song? I was a June Bride in 1985. It lasted 14 years. I believe Nadia’s Theme was more of a curse than a blessing. Perfect for a come back song and a new beginning. Mary J! Here’s to strong women! May we respect them and with the grace of God may we raise them. Amen! I come from a long line of strong women. Even still, we have to find our own way. Thank God for strong women.
This might be one of the most powerful songs….EVER😭, as a grown ass man this shit hitting different!
Yes
Same here bro
Same here bro.
felt that, we all going through it rn 🤝🤝
"Powerful" is the word to describe this song and performance
Agreed
Still one of the most powerful and relevant videos and song ever made NO MORE DRAMA !!!!!!
Congratulations to Mary J Blige for her induction to the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame
I’m crying again ... lord I’m tired and when she said “GO HEAD GO HEAD...”that’s the church I felt that in my spirit
I’m listening to all my “tear jerker songs.” Those are the song that hit so deep within the soul, you can literally feel it in your heart! ❤️❤️❤️ No more drama!
Girl you have a list of tear jerkers? put me on lol
At the Superbowl, she did a fantastic job performing this.
Greetings V.I.P
I really agree with that
those notes she hit during that performance was breathtaking. she honestly was one of the highlights of the show
i NEVER watch sports, but ill find a video on you tube
Omg this song saved me...I was 19 got in a "relationship" whn 16 he was severely abusive he almost killed me I remember when I heard this..Mary's voice the lyrics & strength in her emotions had god given me the Stength to leave for good at 21 I survived 🙏 truly a Blessing 🙌 Thank you so much Mary!! I still listen to this when I feel weak ❤
Mary J went off on this one right here, u can can feel her pain .... I love this song
Physical abused, Mental abused, Depression, Betrayed, Raped, Yes! I overcame it all. I’m still standing No more pain✨🙏🏾
At the end when she's crying and screaming at the TVs playing all the news because she's sick of all the drama & horror in the world, I felt that.
i will never forget how much power and hope this song was giving me when i was a teenager.. growing up in a fucked up household... bursting in tears when she stands in front of the tv's and screams no more drama and i just wanted to escape .. still so many emotions when i hear this. timeless
Still love this song in October 2024❤🇿🇲
PEOPLE DON'T REALIZE THAT THIS SONG MARY DID IS IS A MOVEMENT FOR ALL WOMEN OF EVERY RACE!!.... SALUTE!!
wait a minute here...not just for all women...but why not for men??? this song is for anyone who has made the decision of making the best choices for themselves...and stop trying to please others...it's one of Mary's best songs!
It’s also for all the bullshit they deal with in the industry
@@stephenalbertson8920 You're absolutely 💯 right Stephen. Men go through heartaches as well. You sound like a good man. It's their loss not yours.
@@maryhines6744 thank you Mary
@@stephenalbertson8920 as long as we are also respecting others in the process. What people think is the "best choice for themselves" and not pleasing others, can sometimes be selfishness and disrespect. The song is about rejecting and getting out of abuse.
I always cry and get sad with this song I think of all the girls victims of domestic violence alone scared 🕊️🕊️
This song speaks volumes for me. When i turned 40 i realized i was just tired of so much drama and i should not even apologize for my own happiness. This gave me the strength to stand my ground. To those walking away from stuff, stick to what you know is right for you. Thanks Mary J for this powerful song.
Just hit 40...having moved into my own place after a relationship which I ended after a domestic abuse incident. The power of saying to yourself "No more" and really meaning it hits so much.
AMEN
This music is never old...
2024 ,Unfortunately so many women still facing this Drama😢😢
I don’t even have serious drama in my life at this time and I feel tears coming up listening to her sing. I can see how this song helped so many people.
Damn, Mary.. I couldn't stop myself from crying, when she started singing this song at Super Bowl
Only Mary could take a soap opera opening and turn it to straight fire.
Actually this music is not from a soap opera. Look up Mancini Nadia’s theme
@@keithmcnally843
Actually, it was used in a soap opera. Although, the origin may be different, there's no denying where it was used.
@@keithmcnally843 yes it is
Its a soap Can’t think which one darn it But that little piano 🎹 at beginning is def a soap that I used to watch
It was fire to begin with. Young and the restless btw she even used the name as lyrics
3:19 this scene hits different after the P. Diddy allegations have come to light. Mary J. Blige was a real one.
She was always called many names....she said no.
It was well known. Cyber world makes it available for scrutiny.
I already knew she was . I felt her pain. God bless 🙌 🙏 ❤️ praying for all people right now. This world 🌎 needs it more than ever
“Better know your friends or you’ll get burned “
The older you get this song hit different 💯
Smmfh very well Said,& so True.!!🙏👍
Indeed
Yep can relate 100%
Amen to that 🙌🏼
TRUTH
It's been a whole year since he was removed from my life. I saw him in court today. He has no power over me anymore and I see him as the weak pathetic creature he is. I WILL NEVER be treated that way again. No man will ever put their hands on me again because I will never trust another man again.
+Becky Norris I know you want to build a wall around you and never allow anyone to hurt you again. Maybe after you have healed and built your self esteem back again, you'll allow yourself to find love and allow other to love you. Good luck!
+Becky Norris please, please don't judge all of us men like the monster that hurt you I know its easy to say I have been sexually assaulted by women but I don't tar you all by the same brush
+Becky Norris. I know exactly how you feel. Un neccessary negativism and evil that these men , etc. create. Anything to bring your spirit down. I read this other day " Satan daily will say things to bring you down.. Satan destroys.. God will daily uplift your spirit and God restores! Amen ♥
It's been 3 yrs since he was removed from my life. Haven't see him in three or heard from him in two. Glad he moved on but this passed February sent me a friend request I sent a message 💔💔💔💔 really and he removed it.. Just got back to loving myself & enjoying life it took a big toll on me.. I Love too hard 😰Still not ready to date again.. Just patiently waiting don't see how some people jump right back in without healing first.. Takes time 💞💗🙏🏾
amen to that girl. same here
Who else is still listening in 2020? Love me some Mary 💗
Me
🙋🏾♀️🙋🏾♀️
Queen Thomas ABSOLUTELY
Who cannot like this song. She gives me strength. Especially now to this day. Sometimes you don’t want the publicity. I don’t care anymore. It is was it is. I want my life back. I’m getting it back and more. People wanted to cause drama. We’ll reap what you sowed. Thank you UFC. For controlling your fighters
This guy, Mary J tell life like it really is! None of this fake gangsta shit, I need truth and something I can relate to in my life
This song hit 50 mil! 🎉 Thank you Mary for your help to get me through my troubles.
This song makes me tear a lot. So emotional. Sometimes you just have to let go
Fa Sho...
After losing 6 family members back to back within three months this song still resonates with my soul and what I felt at the time wasn’t drama it was the greatest pain I’ve felt as a human being and this song has helped to transition me through it all! Mary j I thank you 21 years ago I never knew the extent nor true meaning but I get it now!
Mary J. is so real. This brought back some tough memories from the past.
Me too
Kare - bear
xi
This song brings tears almost every time I listen to it you can hear her pain when she sing no other like her except for Aretha and patti and few others 🥰🥰🥰♥️♥️♥️♥️
Yessss and that’s why I love Mary ❤😊
This made me cry from all the stress I had in my life with depression as a kid acting like a person I’m not for people and people making ashamed of my self thank you Mary j blige
Every time I listen to the song, I love the power of it. Every time I watch the video, I see the hope, the path of possibility through pain. One of her most powerful songs.
Heard her sing a part of this at the super bowl a couple of nights ago and had to come back to this and hear this one more time. I can't tell you the number of times I've went to the song about an issue or a problem and I couldn't say anything, but this song said every word that need to be said and help me cry every tear I needed to cry. Such a powerful song
This gives me such chills. It's just one of those songs where you just had to be there to understand. If you look at the TV screens towards the end, you'll see Mariah, who was seriously seriously seriously going through it real bad at this time, and of course 9/11 just happened and we were going to war. Just so much going on in 2001-2002. I was preparing for college..
I survived domestic violence the last straw was when he put me in the hospital for 3 months. When I got out had this song on repeat. It gave me the strength to remove him out of my life. This song will always be my favorite Mary J song
Lance Gillespie ❤️
Glad you got away.... you don't need someone who will mistreat you. God gave you strength threw Mary J... God Bless You Lance..
Happy for you
Lance Gillespie no one deserves to be beaten up by a loved one. Glad you escaped with your life.
😃😱😢💚
R.i.p. mom. Your favorite song no more drama.
Sorry for your loss.
Sorry 4 the loss, keep pressing forward
Rest in Peace ...
quentin graves ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
quentin graves Sorry for your loss my condolences ❤️
No More Drama was a masterpiece, hands down my favorite album by Mary J. She really takes you there.
CassieJazz96 YES !!! One of my favorites from her
I see Mary J Blige well maybe 6 years ago at the TD Bank guy and she was phenomenal unbelievable with some Jay-Z as a backup and I'll tell you have Mary does take you there and you have to love Mary and also love her music because she tells it like it is and she's truthful and she tried to make you realize that you're not the only one there is someone out there became famous as soon as she did but she's come up and she's Miss Mary J Blige
no. more. pain
Mary J. is a class act!
To me personally, I think this was mary j blige best song ever. I love this song mary Put her heart and soul into it.
Peezley 💋
Makes perfect sense for the year of 2020
You right about that. There's so much domestic violence going on now it's sickening. Women and men losing their lives, because they're afraid to be alone. I was like that..... until I woke up in the hospital. I lefted with nothing but the clothes on my back..... am happy and safe. Thank You GOD
I thought the same thing. BIDEN/HARRIS 2020
I swear!!!
So correct
trust me
This song help me stand up for myself against verbal abuse. Thank you Mary J Blige.
Big Hugs,Love and Light to you,esmo..Hop you're doing better now.
Namaste.
Yes this song touches on issues that are so real no more drama in my life I'm a servivor and love this song and how many people it's touched its absolutely amazing and real!!
Congrats!!!
jfgsr901 wow my comment is from 4 years ago
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This song is still relevant till this day & this was released when Aaliyah passed, Lisa Left Eye Lopes passed, 9/11 happened, Mariah Carey had her breakdown, Puffy legal troubles, & Mary had her own problems
And I could've sworn the version I saw on the music channel back when it was released had footage of 9/11 on the screens and showed that more than the other news stuff....unless they re-edited a less intense version for censorship or something... or am I just having some kind of weird Mandela effect?
Yeah now its been 20 years ago when the video came out after 9/11 during the worst time.Mariah Carey been thru a lot.I pray for both Mariah and Mary.Its really powerful video that Mary did.
Reading these comments had me crying the whole 4 minutes and 9 seconds i love you all. This song also saved my life.. i remember calling the cops on myself when i was ready to give up. I didn’t let the devil take over 🙏🏻🤍!!!
WHO WANNA GO THRU NO MORE DRAMA IN 2019?
Me!!!!!
Me too!!!!! Been through way too much already.
Me!!!💯
Meeeeee
@Lorraine Long I will be praying for you and your family.🙏
This proofs Mary and Mariah Carey's longlasting friendship! Right @3:25 u can see mariah singing 'more drama' in the television
wow I always thought that was Britney spears
+Shalonna Jones lool no hahaha MC and Mary even have a song together
+matheuspaog wow ok never knew that ..thanks
+Shalonna Jones the song is called Its a Wrap if u wanna listen to (:
matheuspaog be,mmkmjfijfrjoidkit
She should've won an award for this song ✌🏾
Right every damn award there was.
They don't call her the queen for nothing.
Remember the live Grammy performance of this song when she had on the gold tone pants suit. She did this special thing with her feet when dancing. I get the chills every time I watch it. Queen indeed!
No More Drama actually won an MTV VMA in 2002 for Best R&B Video
she didn't win an award for this masterpiece?
Yes, thankyou dear dear Mary. I just left a 17 year relationship that had become toxic. I am staying at a friends house, i left our home. I am happier than i have been in years and have the full support of family and friends. And this song so perfectly gives voice to everything i am feeling right now.
Also to all these comments: so good to know that healing is possible, no matter what kind of circumstances brought on all rhe pain.
All love to the people and hail Mary!
2018 ' still loving her music 😍🙏
this song is wrote by jimmy jam Terry lewis
Mary J forever!!!
MJB is a legend an Icon
I'm Done With All Of This Drama
@The Paul Gray jr Yeah Me Too
after years this song STILL brings tears to my eyes, I love you Mary! BRONX IN DA HOUSE
christopher S it brings tears to my eyes
Fordham... white plains rd... castle hill.... #standup
Can't get past the beginning 20 seconds of this song without bursting in to tears!! This is MY theme song!!! Every super hero has a theme song!! Mary wrote it and sang it, but these are my words to my story!!! This will always be relevant to all that I went through but survived!!!!
@@michellelanning5006 welcome to... We all go thru hard shit, it's how we come out that's important! Many crumble, some find a way to move forward. "Don't wish for an easy life, wish for the courage to endure a difficult one." Bruce Lee Congratulations, you are now a graduate of, The School Of Hard Knocks. All praises, credits, and credentials apply.
When she broke that chorus down at the end, I broke down as a human 😭😭😭
Same.
Maan.....
YES LORD
After my drama I don't even feel human 😭
I know 😔
RuN as fast as you can!!!
And DonT look back!!!
❤️💪
When you're in a toxic relationship you got to get out of it if you don't you're just hurting yourself even more no drama get out of the relationship and they won't be no drama don't have no friends so you won't have no drama stay to yourself love yourself respect yourself and one day you will meet somebody just like you never stop loving yourself
AMEN,💪
I liked what you wrote, thank you. I've got to get away from my dad before he hits me again.
Lynn Marie Anderson I’m rooting for you. God bless you. I love you. ❤️
Protect you heart but, don't harden it because of past experiences.
Amen ❤
Was powerful back then... Is powerful now. ... Will stay powerful even in it's future. Love ya Mary j. Bilge ! You were awesome on stage you nailed it!
True
Can’t believe this song was made almost 20’years ago! Time flies so quickly it’s crazy. This song is still so powerful and relevant. Gives me goosebumps every time!
Smmfh very well & so True.!!🙏🎤🎹🎶😪
I miss music that touches the heart and soul and makes you reflect in an existential way. This song humbles me every time. A true classic.
To all my survivors. Please remember YOUR strength.
Goosebumps. We need this music back.
queen nie True that queen nie....I going to see Mary J Blige in November 2015, counting down the days......Peace !
queen nie DON'T CRY ANY MORE MARY J !
maybe you can email some
music labels ?
This song is powerful af🔥🔥
3:22 Diddy and Mariah? Did they co-write/produce the song? I love no-more drama so much- Mary has these rough soulful outbursts like she's the catalyst for my emotions