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Mary J. Blige - No More Drama (Official Music Video)

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 มิ.ย. 2009
  • REMASTERED IN HD!
    Music video by Mary J. Blige performing No More Drama. (C) 2002 Geffen Records
    #MaryJBlige #NoMoreDrama #Remastered #Vevo

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  • @judyd1898
    @judyd1898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5812

    This song literally saved my life when I was 26 years old. Helped me have the strength to leave an abusive relationship. I always wanted to write Mary a letter to thank her. So thank you Mary 🙏🙏🙏

    • @valchung296
      @valchung296 2 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      God bless you Judy!

    • @judyd1898
      @judyd1898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      @@valchung296 thank you and god bless you as well 🙏❤️

    • @bluetick4816
      @bluetick4816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Be blessed and stay blessed

    • @geministar2198
      @geministar2198 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      💜💜💪💪Well done girl. Hope you're happy and thriving now 😊

    • @brettservin4395
      @brettservin4395 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Thanks for sharing! I'm glad your here!

  • @maryhines6744
    @maryhines6744 ปีที่แล้ว +476

    I thank Mary J, for helping me leave the drama of abuse and a man who never supported me while I struggled with breast cancer surgery and leukemia. I am truly blessed as a 16-year breast cancer survivor. Thanks to God's blessings, my children who has been with me from the. beginning. Their support meant the world to me. Her songs always touched my heart and soul.

    • @niishdageech6044
      @niishdageech6044 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You kicked cancers ass!!!

    • @bilbobaggins5962
      @bilbobaggins5962 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@niishdageech6044 pretty sure it was the drs and chemo.

    • @Godsfollower444
      @Godsfollower444 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God bless you.

    • @marybradley-ih9gl
      @marybradley-ih9gl 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Sounds similar to my situation when I was diagnosed with breast cancer he walked out of my life

    • @Thollis1987
      @Thollis1987 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you Jesus Christ for healing your body ❤❤❤

  • @CrazyFilterLadyEntertainer2023
    @CrazyFilterLadyEntertainer2023 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    This made me cry , because one of my brothers was an addict and many times i begged him to stop, and he never did, well they found him dead inside his hime a few months ago and I AM destroyed, because he raised me, he was everything to me, he meant the world to me.

    • @abedofevilandlettuce
      @abedofevilandlettuce 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I'm so sorry. I went thru it and I'm grateful af to be alive. Hugs to you. It's not easy to be an addict,but it's harder, in my experience, to love an addict. He's still with you 🦋❤

    • @susanhampton9671
      @susanhampton9671 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      My condolences and heart go out to you. It is so hard. A side hug and my prayers go out to you! Positive vibes.

    • @lovememoremeticulous4378
      @lovememoremeticulous4378 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      🙏🏾my condolences

    • @oliviermagniant5175
      @oliviermagniant5175 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bonjour à vous
      Je suis un homme bien évidemment, sela fait 16 années que je vie seul, parce que je le veux, plus de triangulaire, reste sans jamais voir la personne pendant trois années, j'ai dit stop, je préfère aider les gens qui en ont besoin, sans rien demander en retour.
      Excellente journée à vous.

    • @emmy9248
      @emmy9248 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My condolences. 🙏

  • @meandmyEV
    @meandmyEV 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +182

    2024 anyone? This song hits a little harder and makes more sense with each passing year.

    • @SaucySammy
      @SaucySammy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      3:23 ----->> *Diddy's FACE on the TV* ..
      _I believe we understand the *majority of MJB's PAIN_ 😪

    • @stellafly737
      @stellafly737 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Fuck, yes..

    • @doll8part
      @doll8part 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I'm 43 now. Yes. This song is impactful. I hope people remember it: always. ❤

    • @AntoinetteChanel
      @AntoinetteChanel 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      🙋🏾‍♀️

    • @Amourbeauty_mua
      @Amourbeauty_mua 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yessss

  • @michaellewis2133
    @michaellewis2133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1693

    This is almost like a Spiritual, gospel song. It touches your soul. God bless you, Mary J. Blige!

    • @daniellen6354
      @daniellen6354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Amen!!!!

    • @mariamitani8289
      @mariamitani8289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Facts. This song brings back the memories I thought about when I first heard it. I don't cry as much as I use to though.

    • @kembaleo6004
      @kembaleo6004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      AMEN! GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME!

    • @kembaleo6004
      @kembaleo6004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@mariamitani8289 AMEN! HEALING IS A BEAUTIFUL THING QUEEN😇💜!

    • @mariamitani8289
      @mariamitani8289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@kembaleo6004 yes it is.

  • @HYVEnetwork
    @HYVEnetwork 2 ปีที่แล้ว +227

    After she says "no more" at 2:55 the next frame where emotions just rush through her body, LITERALLY gives me shivers every time. Just repeated it a good 5 times, I can almost feel the emotion, like you just cant handle all the issues you have going on and your body just involuntarily tries to physically shake it off. This song is such a rush of emotional relief.

    • @feliciarudolph9905
      @feliciarudolph9905 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Literally on rewatch 4 from this part lol

    • @bilbobaggins5962
      @bilbobaggins5962 ปีที่แล้ว

      cause your a "b" male

    • @briiyonaa
      @briiyonaa 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bilbobaggins5962sdfuu

    • @isaacmukiza9928
      @isaacmukiza9928 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Best Comment in this section.. It was so real..

    • @DarkMadamX83
      @DarkMadamX83 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same. She was feeling ALL of that..

  • @dhynacash4114
    @dhynacash4114 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Mary is one of the few artists who truly understood the human condition, with the capability to narrate our lives with the passion in her voice. Growing up in war torn south central LA where there was a shooting every half hour, I was a little girl begging for the violence to stop… Mary gave me a song that literally said what I wanted to say. In addition to my heartbreak, abandonment, emotional neglect from my family and partners. From tribulation to triumph, Mary really sung the soundtrack of my life. Thank you Mary!

  • @lulubens5108
    @lulubens5108 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +159

    I am 48 single black female, today I decided to leave the drama and pain for the streets, I like peace and will follow peace

    • @Mugwort_Sage-Reef
      @Mugwort_Sage-Reef 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      You can do this. My sister did. You can too.❤

    • @lulubens5108
      @lulubens5108 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you

    • @mikawaller6047
      @mikawaller6047 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Prayers

    • @anda-anina
      @anda-anina 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Same boat, heartbroken

    • @melissawinfield6856
      @melissawinfield6856 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Same sis ❤

  • @Altonahh10
    @Altonahh10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +564

    This is a song hardly anybody can sing because it takes more than a good voice to deliver. What you need is the ability to create the drama within the drama. The composition is a constant increase of tension and it would be so easy to drown here. Mary knows what to do and how to do it. A masterpiece.

    • @shannon6428
      @shannon6428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      The arrangement is just phenomenal. I need a bit of Mary J in 2021. We all need a move on anthem.

    • @trinamcdonald8139
      @trinamcdonald8139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      For sure! The delivery comes from a place of personal experience and the drive of a great arrangement down to the instrumentation from some of the greatest arrangement and production from the great Jimmy Jam and Terry Lewis!!!!!

    • @Rihanna8K
      @Rihanna8K 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ali Caldwell did justice to this song, her version is beyond heaven

    • @donnaidontwanna
      @donnaidontwanna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Spot on!!!

    • @JeN-ch2np
      @JeN-ch2np 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      so crazy I was thinking the same thing-- now while I never been a big fan of Mary's voice; I wouldn't want to hear this song from even the most pitch perfect artist it just wouldn't be the same.

  • @tracyghosthunting814
    @tracyghosthunting814 3 ปีที่แล้ว +751

    I have spent 19 years with my ex thinking I was a punch bag (with 3 kids) this song brings back memories. I learnt to move on. Now years later my kids are all grown up with kids of their of own. I lived a abusive life but had the strength to move on. 3 beautiful kids and 8 grandkids. It can happen. Stay strong.

    • @sarahmiller662
      @sarahmiller662 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Thank you for sharing

    • @KidsandMe
      @KidsandMe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      That’s me right now. Pregnant with child number 3 trying to leave the man who hits me. Trying to find the strength

    • @tracyghosthunting814
      @tracyghosthunting814 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@KidsandMe find the strength with in you. I no it's easier said then done. Talk to family and friends if you can, if not there are womans refuge you can contact. One night I was sitting alone in the dark crying(while everyone was asleep) thinking what have I done it's all my fault ..that's why is he treating me like this.. dinner wasnt on time...coffee was to cold.. kids crying....im a waste of space...and the rest of it..it only took little things to set him off..its all my fault and the kids are suffering for it. Then started thinking (looking back) none of this made any sense to me...why would you hurt me because coffee wasn't hot enough..dinner not on time. .. your worthless....no one will ever want you now with "bagged in tow your now second hand goods" fat and ugly (saying all this while hands around the neck with a black eye)it was never about me it was always about him. Low self esteem...lack of confidence...so try and bring you down to make him feel better about himself..and to do that they will do whatever it takes to make feel about yourself...thinking you will not leave....your alone. Your a far from it. YOU ARE NOT AND NEVER HAVE BEEN THE PROBLEM. If you need someone to talk to I am here. You are NEVER alone hun. XX

    • @goldenprospects
      @goldenprospects 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I was on both sides..i hit back..but you can't force love

    • @rhartog5796
      @rhartog5796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KidsandMe u can do this Stay strong chant Nam Myo Ho Renge Kyo and u will find ur power. Do this for u and ur kids

  • @joedenton7263
    @joedenton7263 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +185

    2024.... This song is still amazing! This world is fucked. People, lets band together!

    • @ctbcardinal
      @ctbcardinal 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      For real..

    • @kn1gh2
      @kn1gh2 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      This song! Helped me to understand everything when I lost my mum in 2006. Still my go too when I need reassurance

    • @TheReelDealFilmReviews
      @TheReelDealFilmReviews 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I agree, it sounds fresh and a powerful sentiment.

    • @wandadavis4293
      @wandadavis4293 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Sing it Mary thanks for beautiful song ❤❤

    • @EmileGHayes
      @EmileGHayes 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No more drama

  • @qaisniazi4167
    @qaisniazi4167 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +148

    this not a song. this is an announcement for a fight, for a change, for a new future

    • @sheilafisher3764
      @sheilafisher3764 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      A proclamation is what I say!

    • @bwilliams6384
      @bwilliams6384 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This song is PERFECT for reinventing Yo’SELF….just like old school EXPRESS Yo’ SELF way back in the day. True Free Spirits take the good with the bad and mix the bitter with the sweet and keep it moving. You have to look for us for we reinvent everything about ourself in less than 2 seconds. Our power to DETACH is second to none because we never make decisions with our EMOTIONS.
      So you don’t love ME anymore? I can be real ok with that in less than 2 seconds. Learn to live only by this truth…..
      IT ALWAYS IS EXACTLY WHAT IT IS!❤

  • @nomiwilliams6195
    @nomiwilliams6195 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1852

    I lost both my parents when I was a young teen, became Homeless on the streets at 16... but I stayed in school, graduated, went to College University, graduated with not 1 but 2 degrees. Worked in Social services and homeless youth services for 17 years... however I'm hated by people, my community, people at work mock me at times, people make remarks and even sometimes laugh... though I've come through so much and accomplished so much, I'll never be good enough... why? Because I'm transgender. Just when I think about jumping over the edge and giving up, I back away because this is my life and I don't know what's next but what I do know is. I better make good of what I do have. Contrary of what folks may think I didn't choose this. I'm tired tho but if I have to path through darkness to see the sun, than so be it, even if I have to do it alone... thank you Mary for this anthem, it has showed up for me more than you could possibly know.

    • @jessicagray1289
      @jessicagray1289 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Nomi Williams God bless 💪❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @faisalwahab8794
      @faisalwahab8794 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      In tears while reading your post, bcus I'm a victim too.

    • @Kingx90
      @Kingx90 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      I’m a straight man. All I can tell you, is own yourself. People will love/hate you over other things if it isn’t your gender. Surround yourself with the right people. That’s key. Hope you are well.

    • @ladyyates3704
      @ladyyates3704 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Nomi Williams ....❤️❤️❤️

    • @pugs861
      @pugs861 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      You are beautiful

  • @ShqipeNazifi
    @ShqipeNazifi ปีที่แล้ว +229

    When it first came out I was only 9 years old I remember standing in my bedroom crying my eyes out singing No More Drama. Now im a 30 yrd woman and this song still gets me.
    We go through so many things in life , diffrent struggles and growths. Some more painful than other but there is beauty in all of it.
    So many of us resonate with Mary's pain we all feel it in her voice and that's the beauty in it. The shared experince that connects us

    • @samlee6390
      @samlee6390 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @subu62
      @subu62 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tears

    • @adrianacruz424
      @adrianacruz424 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow I relate 100% same age and all. Glad you kept your head up & continue pushing til this day ❤

    • @ghwright2551
      @ghwright2551 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      AMEN 🙏

    • @REBECCAlPerez-st7qw
      @REBECCAlPerez-st7qw 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agreed..

  • @frankiepoggi6883
    @frankiepoggi6883 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +283

    44 months sober and clean

    • @abedofevilandlettuce
      @abedofevilandlettuce 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      That's HUGE!❤Keep going! Love is all around you.

    • @kevinwilliams1768
      @kevinwilliams1768 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Amen blessings

    • @blerdyveetv
      @blerdyveetv 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I’m so proud of you. Keep going ❤

    • @kendriafinney3282
      @kendriafinney3282 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      So proud n happy for you you got this

    • @ebwil
      @ebwil 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Keep going! You got this 🎉

  • @moniquesbeautylifeover50
    @moniquesbeautylifeover50 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    Who's here now?

    • @michaelcarter2145
      @michaelcarter2145 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Me Sea Rock Chico 🪨 here

    • @dianpratama-hq2yu
      @dianpratama-hq2yu หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yo

    • @gangsterforlife176
      @gangsterforlife176 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      This song always remind me of young and restless

    • @moniquesbeautylifeover50
      @moniquesbeautylifeover50 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@gangsterforlife176 that piano....❤️

    • @stoneythepoet
      @stoneythepoet 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I heard this song as a child and now I'm an adult and cant help but to cry, music isn't as real as this nowadays 😭

  • @janessaganuelas4323
    @janessaganuelas4323 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1913

    "Another lesson learned. Better know your friends or you will get burned." That is so real.
    Edit: Thank you all for the likes. I wasn’t expecting that many, when I commented. As I hardly ever commented on TH-cam videos during the time. It just happened to be something I was going through the during the time. But hey, it was for the best; God truly knows the best for us all. We have to go through pain and rain, to get the treasure and rainbow at the end. 🙏🏽 I don’t want to say too much about the situation, except she was definition of a fake friend. Wasn’t happy when I got into a relationship with a good man, she talked behind my back. I was the “bad friend and fake” because I didn’t want to put up with the toxicity anymore. 🤦🏽‍♀️💁🏽‍♀️🥺 I’m ok though, I already forgiven her and her mother for talking behind my back. You KNOW you’re a strong, good person when you forgive a person, who are not even slightly remorseful for their actions. I pray you all can do the same thing. Sometimes, God removes people from all lives for a reason. Praise Him, through it all because think where you’d be if you stayed around that toxic person.
    Let’s just say now, I’m doing way better now, I’m currently engaged to the love my life. 🥲 We also have our beautiful 6-year-old daughter who is now in 1st grade. She’ll be graduating from preschool next year. When you remove, a toxic person from your life; you grow without them! May God help you all, find peace and joy in your lives. In Jesus name, amen. 🙏🏽

    • @Zellie_nessa
      @Zellie_nessa 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Janessa Ganuelas My name is Janessa too:D

    • @janessaganuelas4323
      @janessaganuelas4323 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Janessa Bowden I can see that! :D

    • @Carameltenda69
      @Carameltenda69 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes indeed 💯

    • @imissthawwf94
      @imissthawwf94 8 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      realest shit I Eva heard. cause I'm going thru it right now but its worse cause its with family

    • @janessaganuelas4323
      @janessaganuelas4323 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      NaturalHairology101 I know what you mean. I went through with family and a friend.

  • @DavidRichardson95
    @DavidRichardson95 2 ปีที่แล้ว +694

    Mary owned that fucking stage tonight. Period. Point. Blank. 🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆👑👑👑👑👑👑👑

    • @angelica21290
      @angelica21290 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      New Generations are just now finding out about Mary and this song. This song is about healing which is what this country really needs rn People were talking shit about how she wasn’t even that great of a singer. They are callous and soul-less. I hope this sparks a new wave of healing that is much needed in this time. Also this was produced by Dr. Dre which is why it was chosen for the Halftime Performance. All the artists presented songs produced by Dr Dre because it was about his Legacy as a producer.

    • @barbaramitchell6910
      @barbaramitchell6910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      YES SHE DID!!

    • @lifeofreilly9943
      @lifeofreilly9943 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She OWNED it and made many of us watching emotional with remembering

    • @michaelbaker5
      @michaelbaker5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They all killed it IMO. When the RAP God, Eminem came out, he got the crowd yelling his name

    • @brando5484
      @brando5484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@angelica21290 that generation is me lol. My mom told me she used to love this song and now I’m in love with it.

  • @monaoldham5594
    @monaoldham5594 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    This song got me through a 30 yr marriage and divorce with an alcoholic..didnt want the same things..i finally just up and left..no job..nothing..ty mary
    NO MORE DRAMA

  • @user-wo7uu2fv7g
    @user-wo7uu2fv7g 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    Congratulations to Mary J Blige for her induction to the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame

  • @SouthSideLadyWright
    @SouthSideLadyWright 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5961

    I'm a domestic abuse survivor. No more pain. No more drama. By the Grace of God. Amen.

    • @CassieJazz96
      @CassieJazz96 8 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      +SouthSideLady Wright AMEN!

    • @alicialuellen.4480
      @alicialuellen.4480 8 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      so happy you escaped and survived abuse

    • @wesxvin
      @wesxvin 8 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Amen girl 🙌

    • @christinatravis6686
      @christinatravis6686 8 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Amen ! this bought tears to my heart . beautiful

    • @pinkcutie584
      @pinkcutie584 8 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      In jesus name amen.

  • @GregJoseph1978
    @GregJoseph1978 4 ปีที่แล้ว +439

    I am a 41 year old man and I swear when I listen to this song it cleanses my soul.

    • @Littlemsambitious
      @Littlemsambitious 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I couldn’t agree more with you. It’s like a present day psalm.

    • @RD-sl4tf
      @RD-sl4tf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙌

    • @charleycurls_
      @charleycurls_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    • @laurieherman1215
      @laurieherman1215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      36 years here I feel you. This is one of those speak it and it will be type of songs.

    • @stephenhayden9337
      @stephenhayden9337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mine too man!

  • @rochellefreed853
    @rochellefreed853 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Omg this song saved me...I was 19 got in a "relationship" whn 16 he was severely abusive he almost killed me I remember when I heard this..Mary's voice the lyrics & strength in her emotions had god given me the Stength to leave for good at 21 I survived 🙏 truly a Blessing 🙌 Thank you so much Mary!! I still listen to this when I feel weak ❤

  • @gigi131gmaw8
    @gigi131gmaw8 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    How many brides walked down the aisle to this song? I was a June Bride in 1985. It lasted 14 years. I believe Nadia’s Theme was more of a curse than a blessing. Perfect for a come back song and a new beginning. Mary J! Here’s to strong women! May we respect them and with the grace of God may we raise them. Amen! I come from a long line of strong women. Even still, we have to find our own way. Thank God for strong women.

  • @farahcardenas2328
    @farahcardenas2328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +581

    This is so beautiful. I just learned about this song from the SuperBowl 2022 and I am so grateful for it. My mom passed 4 months ago and I've been struggling a lot to sleep and move on with my life because I miss her with all my heart and soul. I just want the pain and the drama to end, and that's why I love this song.

    • @laurafarnsworth7721
      @laurafarnsworth7721 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hang In there hon

    • @charlesgreen7469
      @charlesgreen7469 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      SIH FARAH'S MOM

    • @dianetownsend5392
      @dianetownsend5392 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Play it for me

    • @farahcardenas2328
      @farahcardenas2328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you for the likes, sweet people! I hope y'all find healing and comfort in this song. May God bless you.

    • @blairbrownie1223
      @blairbrownie1223 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You just brought tears to my eyes. I’m so sorry. I just said a prayer that God will bring you comfort and also send others who will help you in the midst of it all

  • @sofantastic35
    @sofantastic35 9 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    Brought to tears at the end of this song. I feel her pain and emotion when she said "Lord help me"! That's all you have to do is cry out to him and will hear you! Love you Mary💕

    • @batcrazy9796
      @batcrazy9796 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen

    • @robertdavis32
      @robertdavis32 9 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Every time I get to the end of this song I feel the same way

    • @jessicagray1289
      @jessicagray1289 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Audra S. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @wendellgee11
    @wendellgee11 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I listened to this song every day visiting my mom while she was dying and this song gave me so much strength!!! Thank you Mary♥️

  • @violamarufu2748
    @violamarufu2748 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    This song speaks volumes for me. When i turned 40 i realized i was just tired of so much drama and i should not even apologize for my own happiness. This gave me the strength to stand my ground. To those walking away from stuff, stick to what you know is right for you. Thanks Mary J for this powerful song.

    • @owaindavies9457
      @owaindavies9457 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just hit 40...having moved into my own place after a relationship which I ended after a domestic abuse incident. The power of saying to yourself "No more" and really meaning it hits so much.

    • @REBECCAlPerez-st7qw
      @REBECCAlPerez-st7qw 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      AMEN

  • @yankeelevel3516
    @yankeelevel3516 5 ปีที่แล้ว +704

    I'm here because of BET 2019 Awards...Mary is indeed a Legend Queen🙌🙌🙌🙌💪💪💪😘😘

    • @motematshibangu4666
      @motematshibangu4666 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Meeeeeeeee tooooo 🙌🏿

    • @BarbButler
      @BarbButler 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      💕 💞 💓 💗 💖

    • @koechjepkemoi599
      @koechjepkemoi599 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yankee Level me too

    • @ladylequvia7
      @ladylequvia7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      YES!!!! I felt her emotions when she sang this at the awards. The best comeback I've seen in a long time.

    • @Twanboyyy3
      @Twanboyyy3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Facts 💯💯

  • @keekaboo8646
    @keekaboo8646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +753

    I remember BLASTING this song, in tears, when my divorce was final! This song RIGHT HERE saved me!!! THANK YOU MARY!

    • @krystanabors6797
      @krystanabors6797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Preach!

    • @jaseg6427
      @jaseg6427 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      LOL

    • @lauriesilva4901
      @lauriesilva4901 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Everyone in this life has something in common. I have loved this song for a long time and am still living it today and I will be 70 in August. Thank you Mary J. Blige!!!.

    • @johnmcgillycuddy5696
      @johnmcgillycuddy5696 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      she,s a saint ,,, all the pain in the world ,,, bless you mary ,,,

    • @DreaGats
      @DreaGats ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes, she helped me through mine as well. I listened to her growing up, but it hits when you’re grown. Always felt her music deeply, she empowers me to NEVER give up on ME especially when I am feeling lost. 💪🏽❤️ Forever MJB

  • @pimpstrumentalz1379
    @pimpstrumentalz1379 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Reading these comments had me crying the whole 4 minutes and 9 seconds i love you all. This song also saved my life.. i remember calling the cops on myself when i was ready to give up. I didn’t let the devil take over 🙏🏻🤍!!!

  • @minc9400
    @minc9400 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    This song hit 50 mil! 🎉 Thank you Mary for your help to get me through my troubles.

  • @angel12345616
    @angel12345616 6 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    I am an achild abuse survival ,, I did not choose to be abused but I choose how I am going to live my life ,, therapy and daily decision to No more drama and No more pain helps ,,

  • @areamooncat51
    @areamooncat51 8 ปีที่แล้ว +519

    this song remains me when my manic depression was really bad. i can say now that i'm glad i no longer am fighting with my depression.

    • @mmyers1735
      @mmyers1735 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Earthian Moon Wish you all best girl ;) it's gonna be all right ;)) !

    • @areamooncat51
      @areamooncat51 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      thank you both. : ) im glad i'm not fighting with my depression. now i have control of it it instead of it controling me.

    • @thechunk
      @thechunk 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Earthian Moon Excellent....

    • @imthebrother
      @imthebrother 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Earthian Moon God bless your soul sweetie, you're not alone but you're still here. we all went through something everyday in life. It's always important to pray, ask the Good man and just be thankful and happy. Thank goodness you're still here and so am I.

    • @areamooncat51
      @areamooncat51 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Henry Cooper thank you. you two. if only more people will see that depression is something we make up. we either are born or something happen to us that depression started. and i hope you heal. bless you. : )

  • @yvettenoland5500
    @yvettenoland5500 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I spend my days in a Max Security Prison. Every day when I go home to my peaceful home, I wish the Individuals I have left at work had been able to break free of the drama in their lives before they ended up where they are.
    I am lucky to lived my life. I want to rewind life for so many people I interact with every single day.
    Life is not fair.

  • @cjrddic3548
    @cjrddic3548 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    ❤ 2024. STILL. Listening ❤

  • @Littlemsambitious
    @Littlemsambitious 3 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    This song speaks to me in a way that no one can. My mom (RIP) loved this song so much and now that I’m an adult, I understand why. She was at war with her alcoholism, her tumultuous marriage, and everything in between. Now I am experiencing the same thing (minus the alcoholism) and I sing with this song differently now than when I did as a teenager. Such a deep and meaningful song.

    • @Littlemsambitious
      @Littlemsambitious 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DarkMadamX83 thank you ♥️

    • @remarkablepunkin8035
      @remarkablepunkin8035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      May God deliver you and keep u safe

    • @Littlemsambitious
      @Littlemsambitious 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@remarkablepunkin8035 thank you so much sweetheart. Same to you ♥️

    • @ciararespect4296
      @ciararespect4296 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tumultuous meaning abuse ? Leave it gets worse . Never better

    • @cjturner370
      @cjturner370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I suffer so much with pain and alcoholism
      I hate it
      I Truly Do

  • @donaldroby7042
    @donaldroby7042 4 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    This song hit different when you see her perform it live. I'm a Grown Ass Man, and it put tears 😢 in my eyes. This song 🎵 brought me through some rough times.

    • @jayhavar6309
      @jayhavar6309 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel you

    • @MissJanaMac
      @MissJanaMac 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Isn't the power of music awesome!? It's food 4 the soul. Jus like laughter

    • @ianrobson9601
      @ianrobson9601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      When she sang it live on Jools Holland she gave a phenomenal performance

    • @paulsaucier8500
      @paulsaucier8500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You're never too grown to have emotions. More men NEED some.

    • @Azizacreetube
      @Azizacreetube 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same!! I can’t stop crying

  • @existentiallifecoach2024
    @existentiallifecoach2024 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I miss music that touches the heart and soul and makes you reflect in an existential way. This song humbles me every time. A true classic.

  • @naomiderooy2518
    @naomiderooy2518 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yes, thankyou dear dear Mary. I just left a 17 year relationship that had become toxic. I am staying at a friends house, i left our home. I am happier than i have been in years and have the full support of family and friends. And this song so perfectly gives voice to everything i am feeling right now.
    Also to all these comments: so good to know that healing is possible, no matter what kind of circumstances brought on all rhe pain.
    All love to the people and hail Mary!

  • @bbylucio
    @bbylucio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1547

    This new generation will never know how iconic Mary J Blige is.

    • @liaortega3498
      @liaortega3498 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      que no que?

    • @victoriaa.4911
      @victoriaa.4911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      im 19 and i listen to her

    • @yankee2666
      @yankee2666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Iconic only in your mind.

    • @caitlynmunroe8866
      @caitlynmunroe8866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I like her and I listen to her two am 15 and I love her along with Toni 😍😍😍

    • @tiamo726
      @tiamo726 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@yankee2666 hater follow mary from old albums and now u will know she sdoesnt sing anyhow every song has a meaning whe God has taken u from somewhere u understand what art is because he's the number oe artist...NEVER FORGET THAT SHES NOT A MUSICIAN SHES Q TESTIMONY

  • @queenthomas4140
    @queenthomas4140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2620

    Who else is still listening in 2020? Love me some Mary 💗

    • @sheneyquamercan1699
      @sheneyquamercan1699 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Me

    • @crystalroussell1559
      @crystalroussell1559 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️

    • @omgitsnunubardi
      @omgitsnunubardi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Queen Thomas ABSOLUTELY

    • @danachiaramonte1387
      @danachiaramonte1387 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Who cannot like this song. She gives me strength. Especially now to this day. Sometimes you don’t want the publicity. I don’t care anymore. It is was it is. I want my life back. I’m getting it back and more. People wanted to cause drama. We’ll reap what you sowed. Thank you UFC. For controlling your fighters

    • @allmyfavs28
      @allmyfavs28 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This guy, Mary J tell life like it really is! None of this fake gangsta shit, I need truth and something I can relate to in my life

  • @xenophobiac4570
    @xenophobiac4570 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This made me break down after I came back from Iraq; afterwards it was what confirmed my decision to leave law enforcement. It’s the perfect description of burnout.

  • @godsprophecy222
    @godsprophecy222 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This song hits so much more different in 2023....
    Hope everyone receives blessings in their life and no more pain!

  • @williamwarren7774
    @williamwarren7774 4 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    Mary brought that raw ass emotional pain... You can feel that pain in her deliverance

    • @sonjaashmore2972
      @sonjaashmore2972 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That is why I love Mary J. so much. She transformers you in every time she sing . Her voice is pure and that is why she touches so many people with her songs . It doesn't matter if you are black or white red or yellow our hearts are all the same. We all feel pain she just sings us to a better place. #ShesReal #SheFeels #SheKnowsOurPain
      #GodBlessUMaryJ

  • @FaytLinegod
    @FaytLinegod 9 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    This is probably the most powerful, thought-provoking song Mary ever recorded. It completely sucks you into its orbit.

    • @richardmbowman
      @richardmbowman 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +FaytLinegod Absolutely...! This...the song & video... is some heavy shit.

    • @187scotiangurl
      @187scotiangurl 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +FaytLinegod amen!!!!!!

    • @misst3116
      @misst3116 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      FaytLinegod I can definitely feel her pain and it makes me feel the pain I used to feel...I now feel pain for my family cause they are so wrapped up fighting and getting high. Breaks my heart to the max 💔

    • @Galanty123
      @Galanty123 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      T you are not alone. I'm always crying watching this video..

  • @Nellia..
    @Nellia.. ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Went through a lot of bullying during secondary school and had no peace of mind and actually wanted to take my life but when I would go home from school I would play this song that gave me hope and peace so thanks Mary for this song that saved my life and probably so many ppl ❤

    • @ronasilverman9103
      @ronasilverman9103 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I can relate to you I was bullied as a child but I never wanted to take it out on me I wanted to take it out on them the anchor I had was intense the song is so great and they really Patuxent one's heart string I read your story the word is tugs at someone's heart strengths and I give you credit and I'm proud of you I'm older I'm 65 and you make great story straight great strides and remember which took me many years the ones who bully people are the ones who have nothing to offer and they have to lash out on somebody else much love and peace Rona

  • @noahhill2910
    @noahhill2910 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I was 19 dealing with a older man I drug me through the dirt beat me cheated on me and I ended up homeless in shelters before he was done with me one day I woke up I called my family told them send me a bus ticket I listened to this song everyday up until the day I left it was the only thing that helped my shattered heart thank u Mary for this song u just don’t know how great u are and thank u for your healing music❤

    • @elizabethmcleod246
      @elizabethmcleod246 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are you in a better place now? I sure hope so?

    • @danieljinkins3267
      @danieljinkins3267 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So proud of you

  • @regulargirlontheinternet
    @regulargirlontheinternet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    The song brings back so many memories. A place of pain and hurt. To everyone who is going through these dark times, It will get better 🙏 I pray for you

    • @user-2Hteyasizyc
      @user-2Hteyasizyc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nope it really gets worse. Have you not seen the state of the world and how fast its declining. Theres no one to find. Unless you want more of this song in your life.

    • @Qumang
      @Qumang ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I pray for you too.. In Jesus Mighty name.. Amen.

    • @kenyattatucker1279
      @kenyattatucker1279 ปีที่แล้ว

      This Song sound familiar

    • @journeyfurthur6396
      @journeyfurthur6396 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I cried myself to sleep last night - cries from the depths of my soul - woke up this morning to find “Not Gon’ Cry” the current song on my playlist 😢 Now I found this song….. and “Unholy” by Santino Le Saint. Never really listened to MJB until now…… I’ve never felt this pain before…

    • @kenyattatucker1279
      @kenyattatucker1279 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@journeyfurthur6396 aw that so sad

  • @lancegillespie8307
    @lancegillespie8307 6 ปีที่แล้ว +689

    I survived domestic violence the last straw was when he put me in the hospital for 3 months. When I got out had this song on repeat. It gave me the strength to remove him out of my life. This song will always be my favorite Mary J song

    • @lucylou730
      @lucylou730 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lance Gillespie ❤️

    • @reeree1392
      @reeree1392 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Glad you got away.... you don't need someone who will mistreat you. God gave you strength threw Mary J... God Bless You Lance..

    • @courageagbebaku4637
      @courageagbebaku4637 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Happy for you

    • @depthchargebetty3813
      @depthchargebetty3813 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lance Gillespie no one deserves to be beaten up by a loved one. Glad you escaped with your life.

    • @matthartleyjr9180
      @matthartleyjr9180 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😃😱😢💚

  • @uraniajackson2352
    @uraniajackson2352 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Thank you Mary you saved people's lives with this song thank you for helping me get through a rough time in my life

    • @Mugwort_Sage-Reef
      @Mugwort_Sage-Reef 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She definitely has saved some actual lives with this song.

  • @jonathanlewis3199
    @jonathanlewis3199 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This song has gotten me through some tough times. The song is like a ministry, it speaks truth to power.

  • @soad1996j
    @soad1996j 9 ปีที่แล้ว +334

    Her voice, her acting, her lyrics, her passion, her everything, no one will ever top her she took it to a whole new level, just pure perfection, old but GOLD.

  • @chris.richards
    @chris.richards 4 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    God, it really hurts that people are actually facing these situations.

    • @cjturner370
      @cjturner370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am
      I Truly Am!.!

    • @ladyd6545
      @ladyd6545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@cjturner370 It's gon be ALRIGHT, trust me....🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @strawberrys8189
      @strawberrys8189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It's just knowing pain is what makes you stronger and allow it to make you stronger. What doesn't kill ya only makes you stronger. Mind over matter. Pick your self before anyone always. Because In the end it's all about how much heart you got to keep on walking forward after each pain you've conquered. Facing fears is a superpower. Lol jk I'm afraid of myself .. how gorgeously brilliantly confusion is that part

    • @ladyd6545
      @ladyd6545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@strawberrys8189 Keep your Head to the SKY...🙏🏽

    • @barbarafordham9185
      @barbarafordham9185 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am

  • @Charmagne1977
    @Charmagne1977 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    2024 ❤❤❤ I’ve been listening to Mary since her first album. She got me through so much. I would just listen to her over and over again. Thank you Mary J. ❤❤

  • @UnapolegeticallyAProblem
    @UnapolegeticallyAProblem 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The irony of seeing this face at at 3:24 really made me laugh. 🤣

  • @empressnyahbinghi4972
    @empressnyahbinghi4972 5 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    This song makes me cry because what she saying is so true it makes me emotional because women are so powerful and precious❤❤❤❤❤😢😢😢💘

  • @julevelleharris94
    @julevelleharris94 7 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    She put her heart in this one. Them tears was real, baby.

  • @jeffmcloud5212
    @jeffmcloud5212 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Is there anyone but Mary J. on this earth who could make a video like this? She's the very best. She sums up the feeling of many of us, whether we are male or female, black or white. The intensity of emotion she shows on this video shows the reality that we are experiencing for many of us.

  • @sbaby-fc3ki
    @sbaby-fc3ki ปีที่แล้ว +27

    2023 and this is woman still shakes me to my core with her beautiful voice❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @dre5589
    @dre5589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    This might be one of the most powerful songs….EVER😭, as a grown ass man this shit hitting different!

  • @shalissamonique
    @shalissamonique 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1332

    Miss Vanjie took me to church!

  • @pncisalsome
    @pncisalsome 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Saved me as a teen I almost committed s****** from my toxic household. I see Mary and she is a mother in my eyes

  • @jessicaborland6467
    @jessicaborland6467 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This song means so much more to me now that I’m older 💜

  • @beckynorris4366
    @beckynorris4366 8 ปีที่แล้ว +194

    It's been a whole year since he was removed from my life. I saw him in court today. He has no power over me anymore and I see him as the weak pathetic creature he is. I WILL NEVER be treated that way again. No man will ever put their hands on me again because I will never trust another man again.

    • @janisjoplin543
      @janisjoplin543 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      +Becky Norris I know you want to build a wall around you and never allow anyone to hurt you again. Maybe after you have healed and built your self esteem back again, you'll allow yourself to find love and allow other to love you. Good luck!

    • @ProfessorMoriarty001
      @ProfessorMoriarty001 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      +Becky Norris please, please don't judge all of us men like the monster that hurt you I know its easy to say I have been sexually assaulted by women but I don't tar you all by the same brush

    • @cuty4allan
      @cuty4allan 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Becky Norris. I know exactly how you feel. Un neccessary negativism and evil that these men , etc. create. Anything to bring your spirit down. I read this other day " Satan daily will say things to bring you down.. Satan destroys.. God will daily uplift your spirit and God restores! Amen ♥

    • @erickawilson1764
      @erickawilson1764 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It's been 3 yrs since he was removed from my life. Haven't see him in three or heard from him in two. Glad he moved on but this passed February sent me a friend request I sent a message 💔💔💔💔 really and he removed it.. Just got back to loving myself & enjoying life it took a big toll on me.. I Love too hard 😰Still not ready to date again.. Just patiently waiting don't see how some people jump right back in without healing first.. Takes time 💞💗🙏🏾

    • @lanaparker4664
      @lanaparker4664 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      amen to that girl. same here

  • @blackbonesissta1090
    @blackbonesissta1090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    PEOPLE DON'T REALIZE THAT THIS SONG MARY DID IS IS A MOVEMENT FOR ALL WOMEN OF EVERY RACE!!.... SALUTE!!

    • @stephenalbertson8920
      @stephenalbertson8920 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      wait a minute here...not just for all women...but why not for men??? this song is for anyone who has made the decision of making the best choices for themselves...and stop trying to please others...it's one of Mary's best songs!

    • @jasminesymone801
      @jasminesymone801 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s also for all the bullshit they deal with in the industry

    • @maryhines6744
      @maryhines6744 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@stephenalbertson8920 You're absolutely 💯 right Stephen. Men go through heartaches as well. You sound like a good man. It's their loss not yours.

    • @stephenalbertson8920
      @stephenalbertson8920 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@maryhines6744 thank you Mary

    • @amg2598
      @amg2598 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@stephenalbertson8920 as long as we are also respecting others in the process. What people think is the "best choice for themselves" and not pleasing others, can sometimes be selfishness and disrespect. The song is about rejecting and getting out of abuse.

  • @toinettebostic4974
    @toinettebostic4974 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I am a domestic abuse survivor I thank her every day

  • @BlessedInEveryAreaOfMyLife
    @BlessedInEveryAreaOfMyLife 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I walked away from everyone….what an amazing feeling! #LifeLessonsLearned #Grateful ❤

  • @spamloaf410
    @spamloaf410 3 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    This song makes me weep every time I hear. I'm finally escaping the drama in my life and this is helping me stay strong.

    • @SG-em9ht
      @SG-em9ht 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Smmfh,rite hear,God BLESS.!!🙏😪

    • @krystanabors6797
      @krystanabors6797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen

  • @EarthWindandFirepower0990
    @EarthWindandFirepower0990 5 ปีที่แล้ว +706

    WHO WANNA GO THRU NO MORE DRAMA IN 2019?

  • @johnshields6852
    @johnshields6852 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Drama is why I've lived alone for the last 20 years, it's lonely sometimes but I'm moving on in peace. Good luck Mary J is such a fox and an amazing talented woman.

  • @sheylaramos5105
    @sheylaramos5105 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have been in a abusive relationship for 10 yrs now this song save me too i have ,3 kids with him i love my kids to death to stay in a relationship with thier father so i left i said fuxk this my life too precious thank god amen

  • @princessj7876
    @princessj7876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +295

    “Better know your friends or you’ll get burned “
    The older you get this song hit different 💯

  • @chasnikole7197
    @chasnikole7197 5 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    Mary went hard in this song.

  • @user-zs9qx5xj1e
    @user-zs9qx5xj1e 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    2:53-2:56-One of the most genuine, sensual and beautiful vocals I've ever heard

  • @tatiannaa9457
    @tatiannaa9457 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Full circle moment was just a little girl listening to this in the back seat while my mom jamming…..27years old and I’m done no more drama or pain

  • @ronkeosuntokun4165
    @ronkeosuntokun4165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    It's such an intense video...it reaches out to your core...

  • @tykelwilliams6053
    @tykelwilliams6053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    This song is still relevant till this day & this was released when Aaliyah passed, Lisa Left Eye Lopes passed, 9/11 happened, Mariah Carey had her breakdown, Puffy legal troubles, & Mary had her own problems

    • @tenshimoon
      @tenshimoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And I could've sworn the version I saw on the music channel back when it was released had footage of 9/11 on the screens and showed that more than the other news stuff....unless they re-edited a less intense version for censorship or something... or am I just having some kind of weird Mandela effect?

    • @amiehampton867
      @amiehampton867 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah now its been 20 years ago when the video came out after 9/11 during the worst time.Mariah Carey been thru a lot.I pray for both Mariah and Mary.Its really powerful video that Mary did.

  • @maryannproffitt44
    @maryannproffitt44 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    No more being yelled at for living and breathing or trying to show you a brighter side of life to have it screamed at and hated on. Haters can go away and stay away. If you don’t have anything nice for me keep your distance. I’m so thankful for the ones who weren’t hateful.

  • @elliottgoodall9467
    @elliottgoodall9467 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This song has aged superbly. Timeless classic MJB

  • @JennThacker_86
    @JennThacker_86 4 ปีที่แล้ว +309

    When she broke that chorus down at the end, I broke down as a human 😭😭😭

  • @ultramegamaga8611
    @ultramegamaga8611 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    im a 42 yr old single dad, been through alot to say the least and this song and the conviction in marys voice brings me to tears every damn time!...love u mary and thank u xo

    • @BlessedTalents
      @BlessedTalents 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your are appreciated!!❤😔 I promise ❤🙏🙏

  • @lisawest6575
    @lisawest6575 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Mary J music always hits home! I’m so thankful we have her & all of her empowering music! Love her!

  • @SHARION-dn3um
    @SHARION-dn3um 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    RIP MOMMA ❤ AND MISS U U WOULD'VE BEEN 79 TODAY AND 8YRS AGO U BECAME FREE OF ALL THE DRAMA IN THIS WORLD SO CONTINUE RIP HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN 4-19-1955 I LOVE YOU MA

  • @minaaino9582
    @minaaino9582 5 ปีที่แล้ว +323

    Only Mary could take a soap opera opening and turn it to straight fire.

    • @keithmcnally843
      @keithmcnally843 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Actually this music is not from a soap opera. Look up Mancini Nadia’s theme

    • @minaaino9582
      @minaaino9582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@keithmcnally843
      Actually, it was used in a soap opera. Although, the origin may be different, there's no denying where it was used.

    • @marklouis1890
      @marklouis1890 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@keithmcnally843 yes it is

    • @bridgetclooney3453
      @bridgetclooney3453 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Its a soap Can’t think which one darn it But that little piano 🎹 at beginning is def a soap that I used to watch

    • @watermelonludmilla5555
      @watermelonludmilla5555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It was fire to begin with. Young and the restless btw she even used the name as lyrics

  • @queenppetrapelties5561
    @queenppetrapelties5561 5 ปีที่แล้ว +342

    ALL you demons GO get out my life! you're already defeated in The Name of JESUS Christ!!!

    • @carlasmith3171
      @carlasmith3171 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      AMEN ,SATAN U DON'T HAVE NO DEEDS OR NO POWER .WE R GODS CHILDREN .🌹🌹💞👀🙏💪💪

    • @dresatitan4848
      @dresatitan4848 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ooh i love me a white queen that can cast out negativity

    • @jabreeascates987
      @jabreeascates987 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AMEN !!!

    • @ark198989
      @ark198989 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Queen P Petra Pelties AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN!!! YES!! GET OUT SATAN GET OUT IN JESUS NAME!!!

    • @queenppetrapelties5561
      @queenppetrapelties5561 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@carlasmith3171 AMEN!

  • @Safiq-54
    @Safiq-54 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I stopped, I sat down and I paid attention, I listened when I first head this song. I decided to pull close into my heart the message in this song. I said to my enemies No More Drama.

  • @SultanAlAli23
    @SultanAlAli23 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    They don’t make music like this anymore .. that’s sad

  • @powerintheshadowpodcast
    @powerintheshadowpodcast 5 ปีที่แล้ว +447

    She should've won an award for this song ✌🏾

    • @musiclover-cn7tb
      @musiclover-cn7tb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Right every damn award there was.

    • @musiclover-cn7tb
      @musiclover-cn7tb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      They don't call her the queen for nothing.

    • @carterattainment8421
      @carterattainment8421 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Remember the live Grammy performance of this song when she had on the gold tone pants suit. She did this special thing with her feet when dancing. I get the chills every time I watch it. Queen indeed!

    • @giuseppeianniello1998
      @giuseppeianniello1998 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No More Drama actually won an MTV VMA in 2002 for Best R&B Video

    • @noahe2991
      @noahe2991 ปีที่แล้ว

      she didn't win an award for this masterpiece?

  • @destankirimhan
    @destankirimhan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +504

    Makes perfect sense for the year of 2020

    • @ahrondasmith4301
      @ahrondasmith4301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You right about that. There's so much domestic violence going on now it's sickening. Women and men losing their lives, because they're afraid to be alone. I was like that..... until I woke up in the hospital. I lefted with nothing but the clothes on my back..... am happy and safe. Thank You GOD

    • @magicworld3242
      @magicworld3242 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I thought the same thing. BIDEN/HARRIS 2020

    • @niathomas184
      @niathomas184 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I swear!!!

    • @carinamorhart3145
      @carinamorhart3145 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So correct

    • @Ray-xo1zf
      @Ray-xo1zf 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      trust me

  • @warrenfriel8857
    @warrenfriel8857 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey, me too. I'm going through a violent split up. When I want to scream the house down I put the old headphones on and listen to m. J. Blige. I'm she has obviously been through it to sing such a song from the heart. God bless you sister. Xxxxxx

  • @moodyringtarotllc1624
    @moodyringtarotllc1624 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Still relevant music video, lyric messages and artist. Timeless.

  • @ChefQ14
    @ChefQ14 9 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    R.i.p. mom. Your favorite song no more drama.

    • @kortneyerin1982
      @kortneyerin1982 9 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Sorry for your loss.

    • @imthebrother
      @imthebrother 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry 4 the loss, keep pressing forward

    • @yasin386
      @yasin386 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Rest in Peace ...

    • @jessicagray1289
      @jessicagray1289 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      quentin graves ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @jessicagray1289
      @jessicagray1289 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      quentin graves Sorry for your loss my condolences ❤️

  • @Toomuch4u57
    @Toomuch4u57 10 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    When i saw that woman crying it just sent flashbacks right through me from seeing my mom get beat by my dad when i was a child... oh god i'm so glad she made it out of that.

    • @Toomuch4u57
      @Toomuch4u57 10 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ***** That's because i'm a boxer has nothing to do with beating women FOOL.

    • @Toomuch4u57
      @Toomuch4u57 10 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ***** Do you! think its cool to Disrespect people you know nothing about?my mom being abused by a man is the reason i started boxing is to make sure no man put his hands on her again. you wanna use racial slurs now you should see why many if not most black people are racist! i'm not changing my username have you ever heard the saying Don't judge a book by its cover?I don't like people of other races like you! who thinks abuse against women is only in the black community.

    • @MusicOrLoseItTV
      @MusicOrLoseItTV 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ***** What a punk. whoopyoass Glad you found self-reflection in this song and glad your mom got out of that.

    • @MusicOrLoseItTV
      @MusicOrLoseItTV 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ***** There there. Here's the attention you're desperately seeking.

    • @GIGIMOM4
      @GIGIMOM4 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      *****
      You are the racist for that comment, do you know how to get along in the world with other races, wow, smh

  • @Nellia.20x
    @Nellia.20x หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This song saved my life.

  • @el_towers
    @el_towers ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I love Mary J Blige! This song takes me back to the early 2000’s. Those were really the times! I am glad I was part of it!

  • @kare-bear3629
    @kare-bear3629 9 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Mary J. is so real. This brought back some tough memories from the past.

  • @steveisastar6235
    @steveisastar6235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    I always cry and get sad with this song I think of all the girls victims of domestic violence alone scared 🕊️🕊️

  • @one-lovepeace8692
    @one-lovepeace8692 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Unfortunately, I have experienced a lot of drama in my life and I still listen to this beautiful song ❤❤ And then everything will be fine again, bless you all God bless you all 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤❤

  • @kimberlysakwa42
    @kimberlysakwa42 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I suffered from abuse growing up and it caused me major drama I can relate Mary thanx