Revisiting this topic so that I can continue to nurture myself and teach my daughter to develop a positive self image and feed into her self esteem. Thank you Bishop ❤
Esteem - Regard something highly, Self Esteem - Must come from within you, hence prefix self. Keys to High Self-Esteem: 1. Starts with divine definition ○ No one can define/judge you but your creator ○ God made and fashioned you * Gideon was a coward UNTIL he heard God's definition of him - A mighty man of valor 2. Once you accept God's view of you NOW you have to appreciate yourself. ○ look yourself in the mirror and appreciate every little thing; your ears, eyes, nose, body….everything! Appreciate what God created ○ Remove what the world is constantly tying to tell you, that you're not enough and has you looking at yourself as if you are less than when in actuality you are a divine masterpiece. * Learn to love yourself as God made you! * Irony is the world always appreciates someone that does not need it's approval or appreciation * Romans 12.2 - Be not conformed to this world but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind. 3. Divine Meditation ○ Ingrain/Implant these truths into your very soul. Accept and recognize who you really are in the sight of the creator ○ To get something embedded in your soul requires mediation, repetition - this is what affirmations, mantras do. ○ What you constantly FOCUS on. You become/perform what you constantly meditate/focus on ○ The more implanted we are in God's word and what he says of us, the more we are delivered from the lies of the world * Psalm 139 - 'My soul knows right well' - this is a deep knowing *Joseph only had God on his side, no one else. That is all you need
***** Self Esteem comes from within you!
Too many gems within this teaching. I recommend watching the video, it is possibly my favorite at the moment. Thank you Bishop and Lisa for all you do. My soul has been refreshed by this word and wish the same for you all reading this .🙏
Bishop! You’re looking twenty years younger! Thank you for these therapy sessions! I grew up without my father and it showed in my choices and behaviors regarding men. I’m learning from both you and Bishop Samuel how to heal and grow! It’s life changing! Watch both of you guys’ videos on a regular like my life depends on it! Because it does!!!! I’m in Houston and would love to visit your church on a Sunday when you’re there! 🤍🤍🤍
I am freed by the renewing of my mine.Toxic paradigms that were instilled in me have imprisoned me and my family long enough.l am breaking the cycle of hatred and division within the family with excitement and inthusiasm now.Thank you for the hand up.
I was fat and didn’t realize it either. My esteem was high and my body didn’t affect how I felt about myself. But it became a tool for my narcissist husband and that’s when I fixed it just to give him less to use against me. I lost over 75 pounds and that only made him focus on something else. 🤷🏽♀️
I had that situation myself after I got divorced. I ballooned up too fat but my esteem was high so I had to take a look at my lab work and get the weight down to ensure it doesn't lead to long term illness. Life is such a balance, congratulations on your weight loss!
Amen and amen. Preacher, love your sincerity! Love your message. ....I thinkbthere is such a bias against age These days amongst younger peiple. Please consider a iMessage to the older among us especially women, who are routinely put down, and ridiculed by the younger generation in many cases. They will be 50 something very very soon themselves.... For some reason they think they got it all over us. A lot of women in middle age are suffering from lack of self as they lose their youth and the youth today makes them feel Superfluous.
People will PURPOSELY try to make you feel worthless because they can see the good self esteem you have and they want to break you down. Jealousy is dangerous and evil ..
Amen Pastor Blakes .. “ WE teach others to treat us based on how we treat ourselves” you don’t get treated based on how you treat others .. so remember your worth ..
I spent almost my entire life being belittled, bullied, harassed and abused. It’s not until I discovered your channel that changed my entire life for the better. People did not recognize me and I am the happiest and most successful I have ever been. Ladies, please continue to watch his videos and spread the word to other women/girls. God bless! ❤
Pastor your videos are reaching, rescuing, saving, touching , and transforming lives. Thank you for your arduos commitment to teaching and preaching the word of God. Your prophetic voice is going far!🙏🥇💯
Thank you Bishop Blakes! Self esteem is important. We just need to make sure we follow scripture & not think more highly of ourselves than we ought to. My weightloss journey has Always been about me & my health & being the best version of me. I know when I look my best. The way I look in my clothes & the reflection I see in the mirror. I had a woman ask me was I dating because i was losing weight. 👀👀🤔🤔🙄. No I'm doing this for me.
Thank you I feel better I just got discarded! the first year with him I was fornicating after finding you in April 2019 I put him in the friend zone and been celibate for 3years he just dumped my friendship! I moving forward not letting the past back in he became toxic you have kept me positive and level headed enough to keep my mind on God and my confidence in check. Thank you thank u thank u💕 for being an example with your wife. We need more men like you in the world for marriage
I love the new thumbnails and images of you smiling so much more inviting and less intimidating for the sensitive, triggered from fearful past trauma types. Thank you 😊
Wow Bishop. This message made me cry. When God made me, He was jammin! But I have never fully appreciated it, until about 33 minutes ago! Thank you for this edifying word! Time to meditate....💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯😊😊😊
My mom started calling me a piece of s*** before I was born. She said it forever. One day she said it and it was the last time I took it from her. Now she doesn't understand why I won't talk to her ever again. Six Decades of being told I was nothing but crap was enough. I used to privately look in the mirror and thank God did good work but I was never allowed to show it feel it or be it until I dropped her.
I love you Man of God! I love your wife, I love your family, I love your ministries. You all bless me day in day out! I love my life and all that I am becoming -I love the source of this supreme love, our MostHighGod nd our King & Majesty Yeshua the soon returning Messiah !
Thank you Father Yahweh for the anointing and wisdom that you have given to Bishop RC Blakes, thank you Bishop Blakes for operating in your Kingdom Assignment,may God continue to bless you and your wife and family, exceedly and abundantly 🙏💜.
Excellent teaching! Everything about each one of us is what makes us uniquely us. We are one of a kind, even identical twins have subtle differences. Enjoy your uniqueness! Thank you RC Blakes for these amazing videos, God bless you and Lisa!
Father God, in accordance with psalm 119:73, proverbs 22:6, genesis 1:27, psalm 139:14, proverbs 31:18, psalm 8:4-6, joshua 1:7-9 and this word I bind to hell every illigitimate source that wants to determine my self-esteem, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!
Greetings from South Africa!❤️❤️❤️ Bishop you have honestly become like my dad, the advice you give me I honestly feel like you are speaking directly to me, God bless you sir.
I’ll say It again and proudly say it I’m so grateful to you thank you for all the love and service you give to so many .. GOD bless you and your family ❤️
After my Mom passed in 1990 and my Dad in 1991 I gained weight not noticing, until some years later I happen to catch a glimpse in a shiny object! I also asked people that love me why they did not say anything. Their responses were all 'I thought you knew."
Thank you Bishop for such an empowering teaching on self esteem. I suffered from low self esteem most of my life and have had to deal with the consequences of making decisions in such a state. I have come in to the knowledge of the truth and in full recovery of myself. I am wonderfully and fearfully made; a Master's piece. Stay on the battle field Bishop. We need more like yourself and you wife. God Bless.
Daddy dearest, I strongly believe that apart from the earthly blessings you and your lineage will receive for obediently, consistently, relentlessly, passionately and sacrificially pouring into us on the regular, Only God can adequately reward you for how much you do to elevate, encourage, pray and motivate us to ascend to our God given places in destiny. I've noticed that people covet my advice, opinions on so many important life topics (career, personal life, weighty decisions, spirituality), I'm held in high esteem, I've even been elevated to highly coveted positions that I did nothing to contest for all because of these wisdom nuggets that I've subjected myself to enjoying, gleaning, learning and growing from, it is true when the Bible said walk with the wise and you'll be wise but a companion of fools will be destroyed. THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING.🙌👏🙏🤗
Your messages are always right on time❤️Lol. Some might say your messages are long but I think they’re not long enough 😂😂🤣🤣guess you can’t please everyone.
I learned not to seek others approval or care what others think, and realized that God loves me and he created me not man who is the creation not the creator so everything he says matter to me not what other think. I also learned not to let a career define me to be approved by others because I have a certain position or not. I'm a child of God that's who I am.
Iam growing into my self appreciation pastor blakes!this is rich wisdom lam so glad lam progressing in becoming the best version of myself unapologetically ..💜🙏❤😍
Pastor ?! Bishop.!! ..oh my goodness Godness!! After asking Holy Spirit "what do you like about me?" At age 11-13"yrs!! That was in 1978 ish. And Holy Spirit totally communicated. At 15 ego unleashes within..& oh gosh. I didnt ask Holy Spirit anything. LoL ive been wondering if i would ever hear this from a Pastor, Bishop, even female vicars, chaplins etc . Never hearing it like I imagined it. Except "new thought" Christianity congregations. "Jesus loves me this I know" since i was 3 yrs. but can i say that i love myself.? How does one love thy neighbor as himself. Esp from a male perspective, if indont eteem myself. . Im female. Christ shows us. After finally exiting the desert, here it is!! Lol Preach! The Truth! Thank you!'
Im sorry I have a hard time looking in the mirror, if God didn't make mistakes I wouldn't be going get work on my body. If looks didn't matter I wouldn't have been left for better looking people. God picks and chooses.
@PK Gibbs Stop letting the devil lie to you!! I saw your profile pic and you're beautiful. Those who left you couldn't 👀 see your inner and outer beauty.
Revisiting this topic so that I can continue to nurture myself and teach my daughter to develop a positive self image and feed into her self esteem.
Thank you Bishop ❤
Thank you Sir for reminding us these 😢😢😔😌😌
Esteem - Regard something highly, Self Esteem - Must come from within you, hence prefix self.
Keys to High Self-Esteem:
1. Starts with divine definition
○ No one can define/judge you but your creator
○ God made and fashioned you
* Gideon was a coward UNTIL he heard God's definition of him - A mighty man of valor
2. Once you accept God's view of you NOW you have to appreciate yourself.
○ look yourself in the mirror and appreciate every little thing; your ears, eyes, nose, body….everything! Appreciate what God created
○ Remove what the world is constantly tying to tell you, that you're not enough and has you looking at yourself as if you are less than when in actuality you are a divine masterpiece.
* Learn to love yourself as God made you!
* Irony is the world always appreciates someone that does not need it's approval or appreciation
* Romans 12.2 - Be not conformed to this world but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind.
3. Divine Meditation
○ Ingrain/Implant these truths into your very soul. Accept and recognize who you really are in the sight of the creator
○ To get something embedded in your soul requires mediation, repetition - this is what affirmations, mantras do.
○ What you constantly FOCUS on. You become/perform what you constantly meditate/focus on
○ The more implanted we are in God's word and what he says of us, the more we are delivered from the lies of the world
* Psalm 139 - 'My soul knows right well' - this is a deep knowing
*Joseph only had God on his side, no one else. That is all you need
***** Self Esteem comes from within you!
Too many gems within this teaching. I recommend watching the video, it is possibly my favorite at the moment. Thank you Bishop and Lisa for all you do. My soul has been refreshed by this word and wish the same for you all reading this .🙏
Thank you for breaking this down and typing this out!! Bless you!!
@@rxgub Thanks 😊 🙏 Be blessed too!
Thank You for taking the time to write this… The message was great.
Thank u for the summary! Greatly appreciate it! :)
Bishop! You’re looking twenty years younger! Thank you for these therapy sessions! I grew up without my father and it showed in my choices and behaviors regarding men. I’m learning from both you and Bishop Samuel how to heal and grow! It’s life changing! Watch both of you guys’ videos on a regular like my life depends on it! Because it does!!!! I’m in Houston and would love to visit your church on a Sunday when you’re there! 🤍🤍🤍
I am freed by the renewing of my mine.Toxic paradigms that were instilled in me have imprisoned me and my family long enough.l am breaking the cycle of hatred and division within the family with excitement and inthusiasm now.Thank you for the hand up.
Me too!!! But I grew up with a father that didn’t teach me the game so I made bad choices too. Thank u Bishop for your guidance. God bless you!
I was fat and didn’t realize it either. My esteem was high and my body didn’t affect how I felt about myself. But it became a tool for my narcissist husband and that’s when I fixed it just to give him less to use against me. I lost over 75 pounds and that only made him focus on something else. 🤷🏽♀️
I had that situation myself after I got divorced. I ballooned up too fat but my esteem was high so I had to take a look at my lab work and get the weight down to ensure it doesn't lead to long term illness. Life is such a balance, congratulations on your weight loss!
same story for me.
Been there. So, I understand. Self love is the greatest gift of all. Blessings to you.
THIS CONTENT IS PRICELESS🔥🔥🔥
This message should be pinned!! I'm building parental workshops discussing this topic. This message is phenomenal, Pastor!!
Amen and amen. Preacher, love your sincerity! Love your message. ....I thinkbthere is such a bias against age These days amongst younger peiple. Please consider a iMessage to the older among us especially women, who are routinely put down, and ridiculed by the younger generation in many cases. They will be 50 something very very soon themselves.... For some reason they think they got it all over us. A lot of women in middle age are suffering from lack of self as they lose their youth and the youth today makes them feel Superfluous.
Whew. "Can't beat em, join em" did it for me
Such a GREAT word Bishop!!
Thank you
So grateful to God for you
People will PURPOSELY try to make you feel worthless because they can see the good self esteem you have and they want to break you down. Jealousy is dangerous and evil ..
Powerful!
I love that statement “I am governed from within “...
Yes, me too. Pastor Blakes is such a powerful orator.
God bless you Bishop and thanks a million + 1
"Unforgettable that's what you are" I LOVE listening to you. Keep up the GREAT work! God bless you.
Amen Pastor Blakes .. “ WE teach others to treat us based on how we treat ourselves” you don’t get treated based on how you treat others .. so remember your worth ..
control women, rather than to truly help and heal us. Thank you.🌞
My esteem comes from my relationship with my creator
Thank you for what you do Bishop!!
Thank you 🙏🏿
I spent almost my entire life being belittled, bullied, harassed and abused. It’s not until I discovered your channel that changed my entire life for the better. People did not recognize me and I am the happiest and most successful I have ever been. Ladies, please continue to watch his videos and spread the word to other women/girls. God bless! ❤
My sentiments are the same ☺️🥰. Thankful for "uncle" R.C. He along with Louise Hay and Miles Monroe right here on YT.
Love the shirt, sir. I LOVE your videos! You have helped me get though a very tough time! Thank you.
Pastor your videos are reaching, rescuing, saving, touching , and transforming lives. Thank you for your arduos commitment to teaching and preaching the word of God. Your prophetic voice is going far!🙏🥇💯
Thank you Bishop Blakes! Self esteem is important. We just need to make sure we follow scripture & not think more highly of ourselves than we ought to. My weightloss journey has Always been about me & my health & being the best version of me. I know when I look my best. The way I look in my clothes & the reflection I see in the mirror. I had a woman ask me was I dating because i was losing weight. 👀👀🤔🤔🙄. No I'm doing this for me.
Thank you I feel better I just got discarded! the first year with him I was fornicating after finding you in April 2019 I put him in the friend zone and been celibate for 3years he just dumped my friendship! I moving forward not letting the past back in he became toxic you have kept me positive and level headed enough to keep my mind on God and my confidence in check. Thank you thank u thank u💕 for being an example with your wife. We need more men like you in the world for marriage
We love you Bishop.
I love the new thumbnails and images of you smiling so much more inviting and less intimidating for the sensitive, triggered from fearful past trauma types. Thank you 😊
Love this reminder ❤
Hello from the uk 🇬🇧 . Thank you so much
All the way from the Caribbean 🇹🇹 Trinidad and Tobago
I'm from the Caribbean as well... the US Virgin Islands 🇻🇮
Wow Bishop. This message made me cry. When God made me, He was jammin! But I have never fully appreciated it, until about 33 minutes ago! Thank you for this edifying word! Time to meditate....💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯😊😊😊
💃💃💃
My mom started calling me a piece of s*** before I was born. She said it forever. One day she said it and it was the last time I took it from her. Now she doesn't understand why I won't talk to her ever again. Six Decades of being told I was nothing but crap was enough. I used to privately look in the mirror and thank God did good work but I was never allowed to show it feel it or be it until I dropped her.
I love you Man of God! I love your wife, I love your family, I love your ministries. You all bless me day in day out! I love my life and all that I am becoming -I love the source of this supreme love, our MostHighGod nd our King & Majesty Yeshua the soon returning Messiah !
You are the only Man whom gets me to listen to the Bible . I thank the creator of all for you and your wisdom. Much love and Respect 🙏
When you feel “preachy”, Pops….PREACH!!! We need it. 🙏🏾❤️
Thank you Father Yahweh for the anointing and wisdom that you have given to Bishop RC Blakes, thank you Bishop Blakes for operating in your Kingdom Assignment,may God continue to bless you and your wife and family, exceedly and abundantly 🙏💜.
So encouraged!
Self appreciation is the greatest
strength i now know Bishop..
Thank you so much
That baseball story tickled me . Im gonna start telling a version of that to my grandchildren
Excellent teaching! Everything about each one of us is what makes us uniquely us. We are one of a kind, even identical twins have subtle differences. Enjoy your uniqueness! Thank you RC Blakes for these amazing videos, God bless you and Lisa!
Very Powerful teaching. It all start with self. I have my single daughter listening. Kat Williams taught me about self when you feel you are fat.
Just finishing up tonight. So powerful!!! TFS!!!
Father God, in accordance with psalm 119:73, proverbs 22:6, genesis 1:27, psalm 139:14, proverbs 31:18, psalm 8:4-6, joshua 1:7-9 and this word I bind to hell every illigitimate source that wants to determine my self-esteem, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!
Wonderful word Bishop. Thank you.
Self appreciation
Amen 🙏🏾 Another great teaching Thank you
🖐&MRS.LISA,PASTOR IT DOESN'T TAKE MUCH FOR ME TO HEAR OF YOU.
JUST A SENTENCE THAT YOU STATES...
I KNOW YOU'RE GOING TO SPEAK TRUTH&I LOVE THAT.❤❤❤❤❤
Great message
Greetings from South Africa!❤️❤️❤️ Bishop you have honestly become like my dad, the advice you give me I honestly feel like you are speaking directly to me, God bless you sir.
🇿🇦🇿🇦
This man is gifted,I can't even begin to explain how he changed my life😭.
@@zodienani9147 giiiirl I know exactly what you mean
Same here
I’ll say It again and proudly say it I’m so grateful to you thank you for all the love and service you give to so many .. GOD bless you and your family ❤️
I was truly blessed and encouraged by this word.
This one got embedded in my soul
Outstanding excellent teaching Bishop RC God bless your ministry
Bishop Blakes I continue to be set free and know who I am in God from your messages. I can't thank you enough!
After my Mom passed in 1990 and my Dad in 1991 I gained weight not noticing, until some years later I happen to catch a glimpse in a shiny object! I also asked people that love me why they did not say anything. Their responses were all 'I thought you knew."
Love what you said about parenting RC, that it is not a parents job to mold a child to what they want, but to support the child in their own journey
Amen
You are truly a blessing, thank you for your good works!
You are lead .. hence we receive the word
Thank you and God bless you always💗💗💗
Awesome
Pastor Blake’s am that size now an it don’t affect how I feel about my self … am trying to loss it for health purposes …
Thank you Pastor 🙏🏿🖤❤️
Thank you Bishop for such an empowering teaching on self esteem. I suffered from low self esteem most of my life and have had to deal with the consequences of making decisions in such a state. I have come in to the knowledge of the truth and in full recovery of myself. I am wonderfully and fearfully made; a Master's piece. Stay on the battle field Bishop. We need more like yourself and you wife. God Bless.
Daddy dearest, I strongly believe that apart from the earthly blessings you and your lineage will receive for obediently, consistently, relentlessly, passionately and sacrificially pouring into us on the regular, Only God can adequately reward you for how much you do to elevate, encourage, pray and motivate us to ascend to our God given places in destiny.
I've noticed that people covet my advice, opinions on so many important life topics (career, personal life, weighty decisions, spirituality), I'm held in high esteem, I've even been elevated to highly coveted positions that I did nothing to contest for all because of these wisdom nuggets that I've subjected myself to enjoying, gleaning, learning and growing from, it is true when the Bible said walk with the wise and you'll be wise but a companion of fools will be destroyed. THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING.🙌👏🙏🤗
Thank you for this life-giving message.
You are preaching today!
That was beautifully beautifully Explain!ed Well done
I love this message
This is powerful!!!!! 🤲🏽✨ thank you KIND SIR!!!! 🙏🏽✨🍃💜
Amen!!!🙏🏾
🙏God bless you always Pastod
Hi Bishop Blake’s, I’m Haitian and I’d love to hear what was said.
Thanks Bishop. 😊nly what GOD says about us matters...
Good morning Pastor RC Blake's and wife
So encouraging
This is all I needed! 💪🏼🙏🏻
Greetings from California, Bishop and Cyber Family. What a powerful message. "The mirror never tells me what I'm worth." 🙏
We do overstep our bound Bishop.
Your messages are always right on time❤️Lol. Some might say your messages are long but I think they’re not long enough 😂😂🤣🤣guess you can’t please everyone.
I needed this 💗
I learned not to seek others approval or care what others think, and realized that God loves me and he created me not man who is the creation not the creator so everything he says matter to me not what other think. I also learned not to let a career define me to be approved by others because I have a certain position or not. I'm a child of God that's who I am.
Love this message 💜
I wish I could like this 1000 times! Pastor you saying something 🙌🏽
Thank you Bishop you have been blessing me with your wisdom hv been listening you from Kenya. God bless you always Bishop RC BLAKES
Thank you for the preaching Father RC Blakes
Bless you and yours 🙏🏽
Love katt Williams
Absolutely Awesome!!! Thank You!!!
Iam growing into my self appreciation pastor blakes!this is rich wisdom lam so glad lam progressing in becoming the best version of myself unapologetically ..💜🙏❤😍
Pastor ?! Bishop.!! ..oh my goodness Godness!! After asking Holy Spirit "what do you like about me?" At age 11-13"yrs!! That was in 1978 ish. And Holy Spirit totally communicated. At 15 ego unleashes within..& oh gosh. I didnt ask Holy Spirit anything. LoL ive been wondering if i would ever hear this from a Pastor, Bishop, even female vicars, chaplins etc . Never hearing it like I imagined it. Except "new thought" Christianity congregations. "Jesus loves me this I know" since i was 3 yrs. but can i say that i love myself.? How does one love thy neighbor as himself. Esp from a male perspective, if indont eteem myself. . Im female. Christ shows us. After finally exiting the desert, here it is!! Lol Preach! The Truth! Thank you!'
I'm so greatfull I came across your channel sir... You give me great hope and clarity...
Thank u so so much
Amen🙏🏽🙏🏽This message was well needed. Thank you Pastor ❤
Nice Message Pastor. Bless You and the Family 💞
Powerful!!!
Than you.
❤
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
How did you loose weight?
Im sorry I have a hard time looking in the mirror, if God didn't make mistakes I wouldn't be going get work on my body. If looks didn't matter I wouldn't have been left for better looking people. God picks and chooses.
@PK Gibbs Stop letting the devil lie to you!! I saw your profile pic and you're beautiful. Those who left you couldn't 👀 see your inner and outer beauty.
Research the "ideal of beauty in other countries " ..We are displaced beautiful one..ask God to fill the voids
I wish, your videos would be shorter.
Adjust your PlayBack Speed! Thank me later… 🙃