I can relate to this 110%. You have explained so much that I did not realize. I am very intrested in reading that book you have. Thank you Rayah! I needed this and this is a great start to the new year.
I can’t put into words how much I needed to hear that and I didn’t know it. Thank you for making the video, I promise you I will try to be better with myself. Here there are some things I’m going to try to remind myself every day from now on: you are smart, you can deal with this, it’s okay to say no, you don’t have to explain yourself when you really don’t want to do something. Once again thank you because i hadn’t heard about people pleasing until I saw the video and I feel so identified♥️
i teared up when your voice started to shake. i think it’s because of this realization of how big of a step you’ve taken by this video, and i couldn’t be prouder of you. we all go through this journey of life, but it’s definitely more insightful when i hear someone else with a whole different story speaking to my heart and affecting my personality and mindset. i needed this video more than i imagined, and am so thankful to you for that❤️
I’m so happy I clicked on this video. I want to start using the positive affirmations. You are so inspiring Rayah. My major is teacher education and I’m graduating soon. I’m really worried about being a teacher and kept telling myself I can’t do this. For the next semester, I want to start using positive affirmations and telling myself I can do it because I don’t deserve to be so hard on myself.
Rayah, you're an unique person and need to show how awesome you're to the world! Happy you're back!! I like to tell myself that I'm still growing and need to water myself (something I saw on Pinterest), and that I need to stay true to who I'm, because I believe that if we show our true selfs to others (including positive and negative things) we get the true selfs of them and it's ok because we have time to fix things, you know? Would love to watch your vlogs and to know about your creative process in your art!!XX 💜 from 🇧🇷
One thing I always say to myself is that negative comments are not worth thinking about, as the only person that matters is myself. If I like myself, then that is enough. On some days it works better than on other days... but working on it. Wishing you all the best on your positive journey! 🙏🏻
I’m so happy to see you back ! It takes quite a while to figure out and understand what’s really going on in our mind, and even more time to find solutions. I’m also on this road, for different reasons, but I get you ! When you start this journey, you cannot go back, and that’s the good news, it just gets better, slowly but surely :)
I'm always people pleasing; especially at work. I'm putting my physical and mental health last. I'm always tired, physically and mentally. I try to put my foot down with myself because I know I do it but I hate to think or feel like I've let people down. It sucks.
@@rayahdawn this has hit so close to home, I relate to this so much and have been trying to avoid confronting it. I'm so proud of how far you have come and hope to do the same in the next year
I'm glad you were able to open up about how your year went and explained about people pleasing it's hard, where you don't get to put your happiness first that others are before you. It's not selfish to make time for yourself first we all go through our mental health we shouldn't have to please others if it's hurting ourselves only all the time and people like that if they can't understand how you feel mentally those kind of people aren't worth keeping at all. I haven't gone through that to please people after I try to be cautious more about who I keep in my life that is genuine I believe in quality over quantity I wouldn't want those who hurt me where they don't care. So thank you for sharing what you truly feel how you want to put yourself first I can kind of relate to it
girl u need at LEAST 100k I love ur channel so much!!! 💕
Great video. Some affirmations: I'm enough, I'm a work in progress, I'm learning, I'm worthy, I'll be kind to myself today
I can relate to this 110%. You have explained so much that I did not realize. I am very intrested in reading that book you have. Thank you Rayah! I needed this and this is a great start to the new year.
i love you ❤️
some affirmations: i am proud of myself, i am worthy, i am grateful for all that i have, i can do anything i set my mind to.
I can’t put into words how much I needed to hear that and I didn’t know it. Thank you for making the video, I promise you I will try to be better with myself. Here there are some things I’m going to try to remind myself every day from now on: you are smart, you can deal with this, it’s okay to say no, you don’t have to explain yourself when you really don’t want to do something.
Once again thank you because i hadn’t heard about people pleasing until I saw the video and I feel so identified♥️
i teared up when your voice started to shake. i think it’s because of this realization of how big of a step you’ve taken by this video, and i couldn’t be prouder of you. we all go through this journey of life, but it’s definitely more insightful when i hear someone else with a whole different story speaking to my heart and affecting my personality and mindset. i needed this video more than i imagined, and am so thankful to you for that❤️
I’m so happy I clicked on this video. I want to start using the positive affirmations. You are so inspiring Rayah. My major is teacher education and I’m graduating soon. I’m really worried about being a teacher and kept telling myself I can’t do this. For the next semester, I want to start using positive affirmations and telling myself I can do it because I don’t deserve to be so hard on myself.
Not dramatic at all, you’re human. Happy you’re back❤️
Rayah, you're an unique person and need to show how awesome you're to the world! Happy you're back!! I like to tell myself that I'm still growing and need to water myself (something I saw on Pinterest), and that I need to stay true to who I'm, because I believe that if we show our true selfs to others (including positive and negative things) we get the true selfs of them and it's ok because we have time to fix things, you know? Would love to watch your vlogs and to know about your creative process in your art!!XX 💜 from 🇧🇷
One thing I always say to myself is that negative comments are not worth thinking about, as the only person that matters is myself. If I like myself, then that is enough. On some days it works better than on other days... but working on it. Wishing you all the best on your positive journey! 🙏🏻
I’m so happy to see you back !
It takes quite a while to figure out and understand what’s really going on in our mind, and even more time to find solutions. I’m also on this road, for different reasons, but I get you ! When you start this journey, you cannot go back, and that’s the good news, it just gets better, slowly but surely :)
I'm always people pleasing; especially at work. I'm putting my physical and mental health last. I'm always tired, physically and mentally. I try to put my foot down with myself because I know I do it but I hate to think or feel like I've let people down. It sucks.
So proud of you Rayah ❤️❤️❤️❤️ sending you love
:') thanks Katrina!
missed your videos ❤️
I missed uploading! planning lots of new vids for the new year xo
@@rayahdawn this has hit so close to home, I relate to this so much and have been trying to avoid confronting it. I'm so proud of how far you have come and hope to do the same in the next year
I'm glad you were able to open up about how your year went and explained about people pleasing it's hard, where you don't get to put your happiness first that others are before you. It's not selfish to make time for yourself first we all go through our mental health we shouldn't have to please others if it's hurting ourselves only all the time and people like that if they can't understand how you feel mentally those kind of people aren't worth keeping at all. I haven't gone through that to please people after I try to be cautious more about who I keep in my life that is genuine I believe in quality over quantity I wouldn't want those who hurt me where they don't care. So thank you for sharing what you truly feel how you want to put yourself first I can kind of relate to it
Love you I missed your videos
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