Therapy For Parents?

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  • @queenjray
    @queenjray 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Miss Brandy is an absolute ALL STAR!!!! I am in Los Angeles and work with a company that interacts with therapists everyday, she is a GEM!!!

  • @kristicollett7887
    @kristicollett7887 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I love it when Ms. Brandy comes... I miss crazy Nanny. I hope she's doing well

  • @feriel4831
    @feriel4831 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm really impressed by the patience and the efforts the parents are making for Abby! You guys are amazing!

  • @annehoward2039
    @annehoward2039 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Abbie's therapist is simply the most patient person in the world.. you are so lucky to have her working with Abbie.

  • @michelleseveney9113
    @michelleseveney9113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Brandi is awesome!! I love that’s she’s been with y’all for so long!

  • @ladyemmer6710
    @ladyemmer6710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I watch your videos in the morning at 7 am before work. Your videos are so educational but fun and an easy watch! I’ve been watching for years and have enjoyed all the fun! Keep up the awesome parenting! Yous are awesome!

  • @saleenstringfellow9148
    @saleenstringfellow9148 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love vlogs like this, just watching Abbie in her natural ornery habitat! Lol y’all are doing great and thanks for sharing your content, it’s very educational.

  • @jodeedugger7570
    @jodeedugger7570 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I love the positive reinforcement and how great of a therapist and parents she has. Love you Miss Abb 💜

    • @cheekyrambler9752
      @cheekyrambler9752 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's abusive. There's plenty of evidence from autistic people to clarify this

  • @J.RO.
    @J.RO. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The sweetist dog's in the world 🐕🐕🐕

  • @AndeRabe
    @AndeRabe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Idk, seeing Abby going through the session and completing her tasks, made me really feel happy for her everytime she succeeded with a task and seeing her smile.

  • @isobelshepherd1223
    @isobelshepherd1223 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So happy this came up on my recommended loving this for your fam!

  • @jennifertaylor6918
    @jennifertaylor6918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    It looks as though she is just testing to see what she can get away with. But she’s such a great child I watch daily

  • @MARIMARI-sv8cq
    @MARIMARI-sv8cq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Abie is acting a bit like a teen but also she continues to grow up and she will become physically stronger. This is why it is great to have help of a specialist to encourage parents to deal the right way with Abie’s behaviour. You deserve respect for sharing this therapy session.

  • @rebbekkawilliamson2863
    @rebbekkawilliamson2863 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    As someone who is a BT in the ABA field, this helps so much. Much love and appreciation!

  • @marissanavarro2964
    @marissanavarro2964 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just wanna say you guys are such amazing parent’s and brother & abby is so beautiful and smart

  • @junegroves7295
    @junegroves7295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Brandy has been so amazing for you all and Ab! I love it!🥰🥰 Have a great Thursday everyone!!❤❤

  • @nurdygurl1016
    @nurdygurl1016 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My daughter takes things literal as well..if she had been doing this task she would have said “ you told me to unpack it you didn’t say put it away!” I love her impish giggle lol

  • @keepseekingJesus
    @keepseekingJesus 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Started watching you guys here and there a couple years ago but started diving into past videos and following each daily vlog since I got diagnosed with bipolar and I just wanted to say thank you because your videos have helped me calm my mind when I just can't seem to do it myself. You guys are amazing, you show everyone struggling with whatever it may be to never give up. Much love ❤

  • @juliannewood4204
    @juliannewood4204 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how Brandy talks to Abby so casually and as a conversation. I also like how she changes her tone appropriately as things escalate or de-escalate. That is a good skill to have for interacting with all people. I’m definitely going to be more aware of those things in my life as well!

  • @janetscott5252
    @janetscott5252 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Those looks & underlying smiles are pure teenager testing the boundaries🤣 My girls are now 50 & 54 but those looks & trying to drag it out!! 😅💕🙏💕

  • @Legokate
    @Legokate 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can you please have longer therapy sessions like this as I’d love it will she be taught anything new in the next few months hmm just asking because when she stops school that be a big change and might rattle the mind a bit because of routine hmm .

  • @OursonAaron302
    @OursonAaron302 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It’s so funny when Abby is thinking of something naughty. My son is the same way he does things and know he’s being naughty and laughs when I notice or call him out 😆

  • @madelyndennis371
    @madelyndennis371 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Abbie making awesome progress. Love the break idea for her to see it will help for home schooling next year

  • @kristenherndon8250
    @kristenherndon8250 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brandi is amazing!!! We have an awesome BCBA! Wealth of knowledge!

  • @sarinasvlog2830
    @sarinasvlog2830 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pretzels was always my favorite ever since I was little and I always used to have them in my school lunch box for school every now and then

  • @jayneholmes6355
    @jayneholmes6355 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh Abbie, You know Brandy has your number!! 🤣🤣Try as hard as you can and she still won't let you get away w/anything. Makes my heart smile that you are just continue to be a rockstar with everything you do!! I am excited to see how homeschool will go this next year for you!!

  • @julievanderleest
    @julievanderleest 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I want to say that getting the bracelet/jewelry making kit is absolutely excellent for working with fine motor skills and a fun way of doing so. I have a lot of neurological issues myself and have found that working on creating jewelry has really helped for me. Plus it’s enjoyable and sometimes people pay me to do so. It not only helps me neurologically but also mentally and giving me confidence in something.💜

  • @carriebowlen3785
    @carriebowlen3785 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you all so much! Great vlog as always! 💟💟💕💕

  • @hopeymac
    @hopeymac 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    at 9:43 - 9:47 the way she locks her eyes on Asa as he was talking to her was amazing!

  • @uniquely__awkwardsimply__b2701
    @uniquely__awkwardsimply__b2701 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    We love Mrs. Brandy like her job is no walk in the park! I think when people think of kids with different needs they assume they’re incapable or they don’t understand! No they totally understand and they still have typical behavior of a child that’s A typical! Example- Brandy literally was trying to get her off the couch - Soon as Asa walked over she got up! She’s a teen going through her own stage in life! When people say “ohhh her mischief is so cute blah blah” hmmmm no it’s not people! If that was your typical teen you’d be annoyed! Great thing about Asa he doesn’t handicap her- he genuinely knows most times when she’s being a defiant teen and when she truly doesn’t understand something!

  • @lissiet22
    @lissiet22 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    She was being so cheeky today, I love it lol.

  • @anniekolbe2
    @anniekolbe2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love you guys!
    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kimberlyarsenault1147
    @kimberlyarsenault1147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love when I get your notifications for your video cuz I enjoy watching your videos every single day I love watching Abigail's learning she's learning more and more everyday you guys are wonderful love from Canada happy Thursday evening ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️👍👍🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🌞🙂🙂🇨🇦

    • @angieang26
      @angieang26 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Their video popped up on my feed a few weeks ago and i immediately subscribed and been watching since.

    • @kimberlyarsenault1147
      @kimberlyarsenault1147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@angieang26 that's really cool I think I've been watching these guys since last year I'm so hooked on it I love Abigail she's such a doll happy weekend from Canada 👍🙏♥️🙂🇨🇦

    • @angieang26
      @angieang26 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kimberlyarsenault1147 what part of Canada are you from.

    • @kimberlyarsenault1147
      @kimberlyarsenault1147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@angieang26 I'm in New Brunswick

  • @MS-te3ob
    @MS-te3ob 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love her smile and her giggle! Such a teen!

  • @tyreesetjjoyner1995
    @tyreesetjjoyner1995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Abbie is so sweet

  • @essenmj2010
    @essenmj2010 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a teenager! The mischievous smile! 🤣

  • @briannzegers2720
    @briannzegers2720 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Brandy and how she interacts with Abby. My favorite

  • @N.Sardone
    @N.Sardone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    💙 @10:45 when she looked up at her dad - her grinning profile looked just like her mum!! Beautiful!
    Sometimes, when I look at my non-verbal sister’s profile I could mistake it as our mum’s. She is terribly missed!

  • @sheric4593
    @sheric4593 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Must be tough for Brandy, cause only family can demand tv music or late family stuff, but she learns!!!

  • @andreabennerakaandi9256
    @andreabennerakaandi9256 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Little miss sassy pants today! Hahaha. Love her so much!

  • @marlareid883
    @marlareid883 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Putting away the backpack was epic teenage attitude! 👀😂🎒

  • @kemeras3689
    @kemeras3689 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    yes 100% its needed

  • @bibibaum2309
    @bibibaum2309 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like the strategy idea.

  • @treshatanner2879
    @treshatanner2879 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love it when Abby has that smile that says "hmm can i get what i want" lol

  • @vmanuelacosta6007
    @vmanuelacosta6007 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy birthday 🎂

  • @Tricia0711
    @Tricia0711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel like Abby does more chores when she’s with her parents …. Abby knows how to manipulate a worker … she’s know where everything goes and when to get up more with her parents than a therapist… she got right up for her Dad and played with her therapist …. she’s knows who can get over on and who she can’t !! Her parents are way better than any therapist ♥️♥️

    • @Tricia0711
      @Tricia0711 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not in a bad way !! She knows her stuff … she actually laughs cause she knows that she can’t mess with her parents ♥️♥️ A therapist she can rule them !! I love Abby !! Smarter than that therapist… but she empty’s all her school bag stuff and knows how to empty a dish washer like a pro !!! You go Abby💕

  • @mikajohnson1958
    @mikajohnson1958 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Abbie is too cute

  • @amycampbell1529
    @amycampbell1529 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I watched this on my other account just now I swear when she turns around after you ask her if she Can't remember when the dishes go... She mouths "member" while laughing lol

  • @SJSpeaks84
    @SJSpeaks84 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Asa knows his girl I like how he handled this

  • @latanyad.mikell9821
    @latanyad.mikell9821 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤣😂🤣😂 she definitely smart and knows exactly what she supposed to do and testing everyone

  • @latashathomas137
    @latashathomas137 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    O my Miss Abbie her little smirks 😂😂😂

  • @roshondabowens9809
    @roshondabowens9809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi abbie and family are y'all ready for the memorial day weekend, hope y'all are having a wonderful thursaday and stay safe out there 🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️

  • @dandeliondreamer3365
    @dandeliondreamer3365 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Abbie’s mischievous grin, she may not be completely verbal but she has a sense of humor 😉

  • @peggycuomo1877
    @peggycuomo1877 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was awesome

  • @cbzzzzzzzzzzz1167
    @cbzzzzzzzzzzz1167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Finding the right therapist can be so hard for families with children on the spectrum. We look to them for so much and sometimes we as parents can make mistakes because we become comfortable with just the familiarity of the therapist...almost like they become family. This can lead to periods where our children don't thrive or learn as much as they should or could. We get into the same patterns over and over and the therapist goes over the same things over and over, never really coming up with better ways to reach children on the spectrum, mostly going off book smarts and classroom experiences they learned instead of developing their own methods of reaching special needs children through their own ideas and methods. Sometimes you have to think outside the box when teaching any child. There are amazing therapists out there just takes a little work to find them. Sadly it is only the parents that are able to actually teach their children. The parents have to be the majority of the teacher as they know their child best. In my experience, if a child is bored or not being challenged enough they will show signs with the instructor they are with by their protesting or acting out alot. Any child who struggles with verbal communication should always have available visual aides when ever a instruction is asked of them. Just like a break sheet, a First...Then card with the project asked and then the result afterwards will help to reinforce what you want from Abbey. Your therapist should already know this. Using words only may not be enough. Just like that first bus trip to that convenience store Abbey went to and got cookies from was a clue to how well children on the spectrum do when their environment changes up and they see how communication works and they get new items and experience new things that they love. Remember how happy Abbey was. Everyone around them is so happy when it all connects and new words are learned when our non verbal children learn something new. It's one of the happiest feelings ever. Same old, same old...creates less enthusiasm. I doesn't matter how nice, how many years you may have known someone, if things aren't moving forward...time to research a new teacher/therapists.

    • @aliciabellante6643
      @aliciabellante6643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow I don’t think they needed this lol. They know what they’re doing

    • @nleb1993
      @nleb1993 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They know what they are doing. Brandi has been working with Abbie for years. I have been watching them for many many many years and Abbie had made amazing progress with Brandi.

    • @aliciabellante6643
      @aliciabellante6643 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nleb1993 exactly!!

    • @cbzzzzzzzzzzz1167
      @cbzzzzzzzzzzz1167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nleb1993 Many years and Abbey is still getting upset when she sees Brandi, and this therapist is still working on the same things. This is all about pride now.

    • @angieang26
      @angieang26 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cbzzzzzzzzzzz1167 so are you saying the therapist isn't teaching Abbie different things.

  • @sarahstorr
    @sarahstorr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how Brandy speaks to Abbie. She’s not patronising or demeaning. Hope we all learn from this.

  • @mustlovedogs5569
    @mustlovedogs5569 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brandy is so cool

  • @reneewest1831
    @reneewest1831 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Abbie likes saying no

  • @mariacolon901
    @mariacolon901 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello beautiful Maass family. ❤😘🥰

  • @janet-leecomeau8035
    @janet-leecomeau8035 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Should breaks be timed for certain things if you need to do something in the near future?

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, we do timed breaks as well. The advantage here is they are self-times because Abbie wanted a snack.

  • @mothermarie6057
    @mothermarie6057 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brandy has Abbie’s # 😁🥰 Happy Birthday to Pricilla!!!🎶☀️💜♥️💄Mama

  • @russelaugust3391
    @russelaugust3391 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fantastic

  • @RayvinHatch
    @RayvinHatch 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    For someone reason I took a hiatus from watching your videos for a little less than a year. But I’m back, all caught up and I’m happy to be here!
    I’ve also just passed my 3 year subscription anniversary!!❤️❤️❤️

    • @RayvinHatch
      @RayvinHatch 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@trailer_trash_Barbie I’ve been subscribed for 3 years

  • @carolynwhitney5268
    @carolynwhitney5268 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are you coming back through Nebraska? Come visit Nebraska City!

  • @mustlovedogs5569
    @mustlovedogs5569 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Abby cheeky grinning after the snack hahahaha

  • @maryanngeraghty4792
    @maryanngeraghty4792 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Intentional cheekiness 😂 Gotta love teenagers 😂

  • @wendy_lee
    @wendy_lee 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I recognize that stubborn Taurus trait! 😏 If I don't want to do something, I'm the same way! 🤣 I'll drag it out until I lose patience myself and stomp my way through it. 🤣 Abbie is smart as heck. She can do almost anything. She just doesn't want to! 🤣 🐂

  • @reneewest1831
    @reneewest1831 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't know why she comes their Abbie don't listen when dad is their

  • @susanmiller7935
    @susanmiller7935 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I see so many behaviors in my own kids when they were teenagers as what Abby does. The stubbornness and the trying to change the subject. When she gets that smirk like she knows she’s doing the wrong thing I know that smirk well. You do such an amazing job with Abby and you have the patience of a saint.

  • @katiekawaii
    @katiekawaii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's funny how kids will put in an hour of work attempting to get out of doing five minutes of work 😁

  • @christineduxbury7709
    @christineduxbury7709 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Try OP therapy it help me a lot wondering if abbie would benefit from it

  • @jennifergoethals3600
    @jennifergoethals3600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    oooh that teenage attitude! lol
    she's feisty! love seeing it though.

  • @Whtever5evr
    @Whtever5evr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The smile on that ornery face always makes me goofy smile too.

  • @RealLifeWithMichelleRob
    @RealLifeWithMichelleRob 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    typical teenager trying to get out of a chore! lol You know how many times I got out of loading the dishwasher becuase "I couldn't remember the right way to do it"!!! Dad, can you show me again....I DID THIS!!! lol

  • @alicemazzucco2345
    @alicemazzucco2345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ya Abby definitely is a teen right now,my son does it.

  • @hollybrown6415
    @hollybrown6415 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    "Now you're just transferring them from one counter to the next."
    This kinda hurt my heart. I know everyone with autism is different, so I'm not trying to educate you on your own kid. Just sharing another perspective.
    For me, it can be much easier to break a task into parts, repeat part A as many times as needed, then repeat part B, and so on. So it would be far easier for me to take out all the silverware, then move it all from one counter to the next, then put it all from the counter into its slots -- rather than to take a piece out, then move it, then put it in its home, and start all over with the next piece. Y'know? My brain just processes 'AAA, BBB, CCC' a lot better than 'ABC, ABC, ABC.' I think it has to do with creating as few transitions as possible and working with, rather than against, my tendency toward repetitive behaviors.
    But I can understand if you think this was just more boundary testing, as in, 'if I do part of the task, can I skip the rest and get to the reward.' That makes sense too. It just kinda made me sad when she was doing the thing and getting criticism on how she managed the task.

    • @angieang26
      @angieang26 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Their teaching her how to do things for herself.

  • @nikkyrosepaloma3165
    @nikkyrosepaloma3165 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hello Mr. Asa and Family ❤️

  • @candicemcmaster9791
    @candicemcmaster9791 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing

  • @JessicaSmith-oe1up
    @JessicaSmith-oe1up 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guys said break so much that all I could hear is “WE WERE ON A BREAK”
    I’m not sure how to ask this question but I’m just trying to learn. Where is the line of respecting Abbie’s body space and getting her to do something. When brandy was trying to get her up she clearly didn’t want to be touched. I know she didn’t want to do her backpack and was testing her limits. I also know you are working on standing up when you say so so that she doesn’t lay on the floor.

    • @alinaporter3846
      @alinaporter3846 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It wasn’t that she didn’t want to be touched per say. She didn’t want to get up. They don’t disrespect her in any way imo. like I kinda don’t even see how that is something you think of in this scenario 🤷‍♀️ 🤦‍♀️

  • @baffledmouse
    @baffledmouse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She was definitely being mischievous and testing you but could the slight confusion with putting the cutlery away be because you took the knife and put it on the counter? So she thought "OK we are taking the things and we are putting them on the counter."

  • @melissagreen1117
    @melissagreen1117 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

  • @melexanie5403
    @melexanie5403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    LOL Abbie, you are a Sassy Princess and I AM HERE FOR IT!!!! The little giggles had me cracking up, and I was ready to see her sign "Wrestle" hehehehe.
    I love seeing these videos Asa, while my kids are verbal they still struggle with communication when they are having a hard moment. And Miss. Brandy gives some great verbal and non-verbal tips for me to follow :)
    For those commenting on Miss. Brandy "pulling" on Abbie, it's actually not pulling it's guiding to the next activity - Transitioning can be hard for anyone, not just those with additional needs. Just like you would guide a child to move away from a situation or onto the next place. If she was pulling, Abbie would kick up a fuss and Asa/Cilla would intervene.
    Brandy has worked with Abbie and her family for a really long time, and knows them very well.
    Thank you again for the therapy video, I have decided to make a break board for my children and the children I work with :)

    • @katiealbertson7373
      @katiealbertson7373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly totally agree! I love when they are patient yet firm with abbie to get her to be successful at what she is doing.. because they know she can do it..she is a smart cookie that one

  • @meganc8339
    @meganc8339 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was going to die laughing.. she grab that lunch box like she reserves in there

  • @mustlovedogs5569
    @mustlovedogs5569 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Do you think she sorta plays up for brandy or like gets shy with doing tasks etc

  • @phiby
    @phiby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I wonder what would happen if you let Abbie make the mistakes with the color stackers and then asked her to find and fix them. Could she identify the misplaced tiles and figure out how to correct the error without too much prompting?

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s all about drive for her. If she cared to then yes, she certainly could.

  • @dellaharper2581
    @dellaharper2581 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the video. As Parents you have every best interest in Abbie.

  • @shellydaybutch2230
    @shellydaybutch2230 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ohhhh…Abbie has a mischievous look today. 😆

  • @daiellefisk3865
    @daiellefisk3865 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Abbie gave her a run for her money lol!

  • @reneewest1831
    @reneewest1831 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The parents should not be in the room why she teaches Abbie

  • @sharonlee5294
    @sharonlee5294 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Asa, just wondering why you jump in when the therapist is teaching her? For example, when on the couch, Abbie did not want to get up, and the therapist was pointing for her to get up, and you jumped in and told Abbie to get up? Why not let the therapist handle it? Just curious

    • @nleb1993
      @nleb1993 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Maybe because Asa is stronger than Brandi, and Abbie needed to be pulled off the couch.

    • @pamelaprice7163
      @pamelaprice7163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hey, so from what I've learned watching these videos, is that (one of the) end goals of ABA therapy is for the parent to learn the techniques. Brandy only comes to their house for several hours every two weeks. When she's not there the parents need to actively practice ABA in order for it to work best.

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Yes, as Pamela said. Ultimately if we can get to a place where a therapist isn’t required because we as parents have learned the tools we need then that is fantastic. As I was saying in the video, this is a consultation session. Therapy isn’t for Abbie directly in this case it is for us as parents to learn.

  • @MsDawnnee
    @MsDawnnee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Abbie cracks me up with her mischievous grins, when you know she knows exactly what to do, but is just being a teenager.....🤣

    • @jodeedugger7570
      @jodeedugger7570 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She is something else ☺️☺️😂😂💜 Love that gal so sweet smart and funny

    • @MsDawnnee
      @MsDawnnee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jodeedugger7570 she knows exactly what buttons to press!! Lol 😆

    • @jodeedugger7570
      @jodeedugger7570 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MsDawnnee haha she sure does ☺️😂😂😂 her attitude is such a teenager ☺️😂😂😁

  • @tanyalloyd9283
    @tanyalloyd9283 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know this is content, but you should be mindful of what/how you show therapist working with Abbie. Whether a individually or corporately their brand can be impacted.

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m not sure what you mean. If there was something that I wouldn’t show the world in regards to therapy I would have to question that therapy.

  • @chairninja
    @chairninja 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are there therapists like this that work with older adults. I have complex issues and I feel I would benefit from this pitched at my level. I do feel I need to relearn how to be autistic as I was abused and I repressed everything in me that was ASD....it was very painful. I have lower needs in some ways to Abbie but in other ways I'm so similar in behaviour and need for support even if it's just reassurance I can do it. When someone I trust is there I feel encouraged, just having someone on my side is enough to get me over many of my hurdles.

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, her company works with adults.

    • @melexanie5403
      @melexanie5403 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've read your comment 4 times Jilly, I am so sorry you experienced those things as a child. I feel you would have tremendous trauma from this experience :(
      From what I have found online, they do have ABA therapists for adults. All suggestions for adults with Autism is to use CBT - Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.
      Google description:
      What is the best therapy for adults with Autism?:
      Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is a type of talk therapy that can be effective in helping children and adults. During CBT sessions, people learn about the connections between feelings, thoughts, and behaviors. This may help to identify the thoughts and feelings that trigger negative behaviors.
      Hoping this helps

  • @reinellenandrews9201
    @reinellenandrews9201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Question have you noticed weather or not some foods change her day like sugar or carbs or sleep pattern just asking because we had that problem

    • @alinaporter3846
      @alinaporter3846 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes. She can’t have dairy prior to bedtime they find it effects her nighttime medication

  • @carmenmarialinne2650
    @carmenmarialinne2650 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Can Abbie do any tasks yet on her own without coaching or verbal requests?

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Can she? Yes. Will she? That’s up to Abbie. Don’t confuse capable with willing.

  • @briantester1946
    @briantester1946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Abbie was what my grandma use to say: roday, you’re being a little testy in the head🤣miss my grandma

  • @mustlovedogs5569
    @mustlovedogs5569 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Could maybe u do a show me where it goes sort of thing

  • @Maguire708Julie
    @Maguire708Julie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Full on teen moments there, just like my neurotypical teenager yesterday having a hard time switching from break-time to homework.

  • @wincharles1195
    @wincharles1195 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    She 17!

  • @erikwallis153
    @erikwallis153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hey family! Hope there’s no more cps calls !