Ever After [3 years with Murphy]

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  • PLEASE WATCH IN HD
    It's not 3 years until next month, but I'm going to be super busy the next few weeks/months so I thought I would edit this and upload it now :)
    Well.
    When I first saw Murphy 3 years ago I would never have dreamed he would turn out how he did! He was not very pretty, clean or talented and I really only got him because i wanted ANY horse after waiting for 13 years. I had been looking for my own horse my whole life and I was just so excited to have him I didn't even think about wether he would be good or not! He was scared of his own shadow and didn't even know how to walk on a lead rope. You couldn't even pet him. It was so frustrating finally having a horse after all those years and not even being able to pet him without it being a big deal.
    He fought me at every turn for the first few months and I came so close to giving up because he was scaring me and just didn't want to work with me. But then, something clicked. We started to build a friendship, and gradually he started wanting to do what I asked. I learned about asking instead of telling, and Murphy's kind attitude made me cry on many occasions as he taught me that I could get him to do things by being gentle and asking nicely instead of forcing. He has literally taught me so much and made me a better, kinder rider.
    It's been a hard journey with lots of ups and downs, but I really love this little horse with all my heart and can't wait to see what another year brings :) He really is a perfect disaster :] he's been worth all the battles! It's amazing for me to look back and see how we have both grown together and learned so much from each other!
    I would love this video to get a lot of views so every like/comment/favourite/share means the absolute world to me :)
    Thanks so much for Ally for helping with the texture/colour!
    p.s. i frequently get asked why he was so dirty and why I didn't clean him. I got Murphy in february and he was caked in mud with a winter coat that wasn't budging. He was terrified of being petted, so it was very difficult to groom him properly. Trying to get the muck out was actually hurting him it was so caked in. So I had to do it gradually over time and wait for his winter coat to fall out eventually.
    Credit for the song goes to the amazing Marianas Trench, the best band ever!

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  • @lovelydreampink1021
    @lovelydreampink1021 8 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I wached this video almost 3 years ago and I still feel so emotional everytime I come across and re-watch it.

  • @belle6459
    @belle6459 9 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    It's so cute because the more mud that falls off the more her improves and I just love that even if it isn't a legit connection.

  • @REBECKAJO50
    @REBECKAJO50 10 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    So glad to hear you found that by asking instead of forcing this beautiful horse you achieved more goals. I just wish all horse people would understand that horses never need to be hit, whipped or even yelled at. Instead they need only love and a kind and gentle hand always asking permission to ride them or to jump them or to even groom them. Once a horse trusts that you will never hurt them they are willing to do anything for you. Natural horsemanship is the only way. I wish all horse people would study natural horsemanship.

    • @foreverhorseriding1270
      @foreverhorseriding1270 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah i think so too :) my little boy is not easy too

    • @xLunai
      @xLunai 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes!

  • @courtneyfraser6549
    @courtneyfraser6549 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    songs like this, with a video of horses in rough times makes a tear fall down my cheek...

  • @beautifullace
    @beautifullace 10 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I LOVE this. There are so many "journey" videos on here and most of them are just crap where people are over exaggerating how "bad" their horses are ect to make them look better, but I am so genuinely impressed by this one. He's awesome! I'd never of thought he could jump like that from the first few videos (not meaning to sound snobby or anything!) but he's awesome

    • @shinelbell5912
      @shinelbell5912 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i soo agree!!your horse is beautiful and you two together are genially amazing!!

  • @TheOneHorseWhisperer
    @TheOneHorseWhisperer 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I respect you so much for what you have done with him. You will go far in the horse world.

  • @nicoledoyle3253
    @nicoledoyle3253 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I watched this video about 2 years ago... It still makes my heart melt as much as it did the first time I watched it...

  • @samanthacullen9686
    @samanthacullen9686 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    You Know There Is A True Bond Of Trust And Love Between You And Your Horse When You Can Jump Bareback Without Holding Anything

  • @Carlaorfiiee
    @Carlaorfiiee 10 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is huge how it has changed!

  • @HmainTomlinson
    @HmainTomlinson 10 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I thought you got Murphy as a pretty good horse, done things, and that he was a little experienced! Not this! You both went through so many things, but you went through them together! You never gave up on him, even when he was scared of something silly. You stuck with him, and you have turned him into the confident, amazingly gorgeous horse he is today!
    You deserve this horse, and he deserves you too! Awesome job!

  • @isabellecrider6050
    @isabellecrider6050 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    This just proves how amazing horses are.

  • @kianadavitt6756
    @kianadavitt6756 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    i was amazed the amount of times he bucked you kept with him...... now look at him he is AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @noovak2263
    @noovak2263 10 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is so amazing! He jumps so amazing!

  • @aramintathompson883
    @aramintathompson883 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You've come so far with him!

  • @caitlinbrand3109
    @caitlinbrand3109 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a 12 year old girl who is inspired by people lyk u who take horses in and help and heal them. god bless you!

  • @UtterlyHooves
    @UtterlyHooves 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I come back and watch this every now and then. i see comments i left from both 7 and 8 years ago.
    truly love it

  • @guiltymorty4117
    @guiltymorty4117 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is so inspiring. Wow, thanks for sharing :)

  • @dorfmadcheni7772
    @dorfmadcheni7772 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Beautiful story ♡

  • @katieecimovic3029
    @katieecimovic3029 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    I laughed out load when I saw him trotting proudly around in his bright rainbow rug. I love it

  • @lorettaosmani6393
    @lorettaosmani6393 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    the horse is lucky to have such a kind owner who takes good care of it.

  • @ellacooney6893
    @ellacooney6893 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    hes so healthy now.

  • @lilgro4099
    @lilgro4099 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great!!

  • @Lkliewerp
    @Lkliewerp 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Only a true equestrian can bring out the confidence in a horse. And you did it!!!

  • @ilovesammy39
    @ilovesammy39 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    but you came along and found him and gave him a chance at a new and better life. and i just want to say thank you for saving such an amazing animal. and he will love you forever for saving his life.

  • @YolandaFernandez1302
    @YolandaFernandez1302 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He is lovely you two make a perfect pair (sorry for my english)

  • @sianhalliday4066
    @sianhalliday4066 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi amazing video was just wondering what the name of the song that you used and who is it by ?

    • @stormwolf1026
      @stormwolf1026 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I believe it's Ever After by Marianas Trench

    • @thatwelshcob4612
      @thatwelshcob4612 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sian Halliday it's called ever after by marianas trench💝

  • @lisaarends993
    @lisaarends993 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a wonderful example of a perfect friendship. It is only apparent that both of you enjoy being together. Murphy loves his life now and is now able to relax and be himself. He loves to play! Kudos to both of you!

  • @piratepony1897
    @piratepony1897 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Murphy is the most beautiful horse!!

  • @myamazingponies2692
    @myamazingponies2692 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Pore Murphy
    You've had a bad star in life haven't you mate

  • @beowulf229
    @beowulf229 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gave me goose bumps.... beautiful.

  • @sarahbuster
    @sarahbuster 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have watched all your videos here on TH-cam, I think you have done an amazing job with young Murphy. I admire your patients. I love to listen to you and your friend laughing when you are thrown into a set of jumps!! I was worried about you, but at the same time you make me smile😊
    I too have a young coloured mare, I have had her since she was 1, She is now 4, and I believe we have a special relationship together. I am disabled, and spend most of my time with her and my retired cob Buster. Keep sending the videos. I love watching you guys.xXx. Sarah

  • @tjgrobler
    @tjgrobler 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such delight to see how you two have grown. Bless you both.

  • @stephaniekostiuk8085
    @stephaniekostiuk8085 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    He . Is . Stunning .

  • @jodieegroves
    @jodieegroves 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    I shed a tear watching this every time

  • @torasofie5293
    @torasofie5293 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I sat there whit goodbumps the hole movie! ❤

  • @NightmareNinjaNicole
    @NightmareNinjaNicole 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Murphy is a gorgeous horse and you are just the most amazing rider.

  • @shaneryan7622
    @shaneryan7622 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    one of the most inspirational and best tranformations of a horse i have ever seen :) truely speechless :)

  • @LadyBurrfoot
    @LadyBurrfoot 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful story. Congratulations, A beautiful and strong road you two have lead.

  • @beckyturley2101
    @beckyturley2101 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so inspiring and given me the courage to rescue a horse and bring it on just like you have with murthy. Not many people can accomplish what you have and it takes guts. The bond you have is beautiful. So inspiring. Brought me to tears and probably many others too. Xxx

  • @madelineforgey5147
    @madelineforgey5147 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    he is absolutely beautiful and so spirited. adorable video!!!

  • @MrThatsme74
    @MrThatsme74 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ive watched this for the millionth time and still cry, its so beautiful!! x

  • @eleishadougie8167
    @eleishadougie8167 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Every time I watch this I get goosebumps, xx

  • @nakicpetrina
    @nakicpetrina 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love and work make miracles ... your story with Murphy is miracle!
    Congratulation! And happy 3rd anniversary!!!

  • @Ciscogirl27
    @Ciscogirl27 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bond with him and no one can ever break that bond will never break between you! This video reminded me of the horse that i ride and that you never gave up on Murphy

  • @ellanesbitt3649
    @ellanesbitt3649 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have done a great thing bringing on that horse Gemma I love you your my inspiration

  • @elenitalamejor12
    @elenitalamejor12 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow let me speechless, truly feel that you are the bravest and girls who deserve a prize for patience, love and respect, you give your horse a huge kiss from Spain

  • @etshowjumpingetmyhorsemybe2197
    @etshowjumpingetmyhorsemybe2197 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is how you no how much a horse can trust a human being - you 2 are incredable x

  • @RidingWithRowan
    @RidingWithRowan 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    This made me cry.. You look at him when he first started then look at him now.. I'ts just AMAZING!

  • @mandis20038
    @mandis20038 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a really good example of the saying Practise makes perfect!♥

  • @XxSamanthaKillsxX
    @XxSamanthaKillsxX 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Looking at Murphy then and now is just amazing. Gemma, this is amazing. You didn't just change Murphy you helped him.

  • @rhiafuller2271
    @rhiafuller2271 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    I absolutely love this I have just been looking back at my old favourited videos and I remembered and watched this again I still to this day find it gives me goosebumps :')

  • @phoebeJMS11
    @phoebeJMS11 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing. Beautiful horse.

  • @cazadoress13
    @cazadoress13 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    what an amazing job you have done with this horse!! He looks a million times better then when you first got him! What a bond you have built with him!

  • @monstermilo
    @monstermilo 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the definition of transformation! I wish I could ride like u! Murphy and u have come such a long way!

  • @lycanmagick
    @lycanmagick 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    aww i cried my eyes out at this! very lucky horse and a very lucky girl!

  • @delaneyosborne6675
    @delaneyosborne6675 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    His extension in his trot..... is just beautiful! You have done such a good job with him

  • @bellarsisi1999
    @bellarsisi1999 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I watch this video everyday because I want to start training horses and whenever I think "Im not smart enough, I'm not strong enough... I'm just not good enough." This video always gives me hope because look at what you did for him. He went from a "dangerous", scared, unhanded horse to a safe, rideable, lovable companion. Just by watching this it tells me that I can do this no matter how smart, strong, or old I am. Thank you so much because without you, I would have given up a long time ago.

  • @baziute88
    @baziute88 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you for fighting for Murphy, people like you keep my faith in humanity alive :)

  • @hopebrandwein3199
    @hopebrandwein3199 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video is so beautiful. It really shows what love and patience can do. Your horse is truly beautiful as are you. You are a fantastic rider. I hope you have many more fantastic years.

  • @cristinavalenta1576
    @cristinavalenta1576 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a brave and talented rider

  • @Phinnius23
    @Phinnius23 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow!! You two are proof of what love, kindness, gentleness, loyalty and dedication can do. You've turned his life around! You must be (and should be) so proud ;)

  • @xCiaraxBrackenx
    @xCiaraxBrackenx 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's amazing how far he's come!

  • @UtterlyHooves
    @UtterlyHooves 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    This always brings me close to tears as "oh.. there you are"

  • @1Djolijn
    @1Djolijn 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow, speechless. Gave me chills so good is the bond between you and your horse. A true inspiration

  • @robinelske
    @robinelske 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg.. this video shows what a relationship between you and Murphy is.. simply amazing..

  • @megancreith8420
    @megancreith8420 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    No matter how many times I watch this video I still love it and well done

  • @MoNaZandAED
    @MoNaZandAED 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gave me chills...well, not only is this one of my favorite songs, but seeing how far Murphy has come...it just gives me a lot of hope for my horse, who I am told to sell quite often...congratulations on 3 years, you both look absolutely amazing!

  • @storm12345jazzy
    @storm12345jazzy 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, cant stop watching this, your an amazing rider even if you 'rise to high' look at how youve transformed murphy!

  • @pureequine0150
    @pureequine0150 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know this videos old but it literally brought me to tears how kind you are to save a horse in such a state and not give up and i highly respect you for that.

  • @VeryHappyHorse
    @VeryHappyHorse 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    What an awesome journey! You two ROCK!!!!

  • @UtterlyHooves
    @UtterlyHooves 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    You did wonders with this horse.. you should be so unbelievably proud!
    Hes so lucky he got you as an owner.
    Dont even want to imagine where he would of ended up if you didn't come to his rescue.
    Look at him now.. you made him like this.. you gave him another chance.
    Because you didnt give up on him.. he is here on earth, happy, healthy and loved.
    So thank you for having faith, and giving faith to others to do the same x

  • @camilaboto2462
    @camilaboto2462 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    This made me cry. Congratulations and I hope for you to be happy forever. You deserve it❤️

  • @MissPsychoBug
    @MissPsychoBug 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stunning, just stunning!

  • @ColouredPoles
    @ColouredPoles 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hes such a powerful horse...beautiful!! you two will go far!!!

  • @JLBjourneyy
    @JLBjourneyy 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm not even lying when i say when i first watched this it made me cry. The bond you have with him is unreal and it shows true horsemanship, and I think i speak for everyone when i say this :)

  • @dressagegirl321
    @dressagegirl321 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    That blanket is fabulous.

  • @tayla7140
    @tayla7140 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing. Thats the only word to describe it. Wow

  • @deborahfoster5317
    @deborahfoster5317 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    I came to this via a suggested video of you and your friend with Murphy and her horse. This video followed straight after and I was absolutely blown away by where Murphy started. What you two have achieved together is just amazing.

  • @skilletrockgirl
    @skilletrockgirl 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    He is an AMAZING jumper!

  • @phepaters3157
    @phepaters3157 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    i can relate ! And just seeing the change in your buddy. They dont even have to tell you they love you xx

  • @fooooked
    @fooooked 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    in 3 years he has improved miles!!! your so talented. both of you xx

  • @sianienmagic
    @sianienmagic 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    You should be proud of yourself. its lovely to see someone make the effort and not give up! shows hard work and dedication works. you produced a gorgeous horse.

  • @VeryHappyHorse
    @VeryHappyHorse 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Because you never gave up on that horse he is safe, cared for, and beautiful! You did a wonderful job working with him! He knows he was rescued and I can see it in his eyes when he looks at you. You are an amazing rider! Never stop dreaming and you both will go so far! Thank you for sharing this video! :D

  • @horsesgirl36
    @horsesgirl36 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    you guys have gotten so far in your bond and relationship. hes is gorgeous and you guys were meant to be.

  • @xxtimmy4lifexx
    @xxtimmy4lifexx 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    People like actually respect u I brought a young unbacked pony and they are both little treasures so well done u xxxx

  • @violetwinterheart2736
    @violetwinterheart2736 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have to say your a beautiful rider and you really show people what riding's all about. Riding, feeling free and letting the bad experiences teach you and your horse things that have made your bond even stronger. When you saw this horse you truly must have seen all good and a future among all. You have inspired many to become and achieve your one and only dream which truly would have all been hidden inside such a wonderfully talented horse you now call your own. Please continue being amazing and being the best horse riding role model on TH-cam.

  • @CelineKristensen
    @CelineKristensen 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing what you and Murphy have gone trough and amazone story totalt fan of you and Murphy !

  • @NicoleNewton27
    @NicoleNewton27 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't get over how perfectly incredible and inspirational this video is...wow.

  • @CocoLovesNails
    @CocoLovesNails 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am literally in tears. the song fits so well with what you had to go through. you are truly an amazing girl and you found love and trust in a horse that many thought could not be loved or trusted. i admire you for who you are and what you've done and i only wish i could do what you did.

  • @emmashaw3134
    @emmashaw3134 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so patient, even after everything he's done to you, you still persevered and managed to make him and amazing jumper. Well done, (riding) hats off to you x

  • @laurensbink1529
    @laurensbink1529 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow its so amazing to see the diffrents from history and now

  • @Starmystik
    @Starmystik 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Got goosebumps watching this! Amazing story and the song is perfect. A great reminder that persistence and patience really pays off; kudos to you for not giving up and polishing a magnificent diamond in the rough!

  • @abigailsturt5341
    @abigailsturt5341 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's so inspiring what you've done with Murphy, you and him are so amazing together! ❤️

  • @kaylabulstrode
    @kaylabulstrode 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    i must of watched this video a thousand times and i can never get sick of it! it is sooo AMAZING!!! Murphey is stunning and i watch all of your videos !! you have made me want to buy a youngster when im older and bring him on myself like you did with Murphy xxxx

  • @CowgirlDreamz
    @CowgirlDreamz 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy 3 years with Murphy Gemma! You guys are so amazing together!

  • @884Lucky
    @884Lucky 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    You did an amazing job with that horse. Respect!

  • @jenniferrasmussen8423
    @jenniferrasmussen8423 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this video you are a very talented girl and you saved he's life and he end up being an beautiful good horse respect from me

  • @minty251072
    @minty251072 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Murphy is a stunning boy . Sad beginning what a fantastic life he has now. You've done a fantastic job with him xx and I must say Spyro's coming on really well too

  • @alexequestrianx
    @alexequestrianx 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow ive watched so many videos from when people got their horse and now but you and Murphy have got something amazing i was gobsmacked seeing this to what hes like now well done gemma your such and inspiration

  • @sarahconroy2512
    @sarahconroy2512 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    He's an AMAZING jumper!!!!