Hi everyone !! Thanks for being patient while I took a little R&R break from filming. Samson and I are both doing well! I'll have one more video at the end of the month and then will be back with regular weekly videos in the new year. Love you and hope you are treating yourself well this holiday season❤✨❤✨❤
As a fellow crafter it took me years to come to terms with lettig go of crafting supplies. The realisation that getting older meant more responsabilities, less energy and less time for crafting projects, only clicked recently. Now when I take the time to craft, they are "quality" crafts, meaning I dont craft little bits an bobs out of cheap materials but lasting well constructed items. So it hit me and I went through all my crafting stuff with new clarity and only kept what I would buy again if I didn't already have it and let go of all the rest. Now it feels like I am respecting my hobbies more by keeping quality supplies and only a curated amount.
I found for myself, that when I have held on to this much stuff, I lose track of what I have and then I buy what I need all over again - this is why I love the statement that someone made that I have lots of stuff and I keep it all in the stores because my home is not a warehouse....that was very thought provoking for me....great job you two!
To all the Judgy Judgersons, decluttering is process that takes time and I'm grateful to be invited along Becky's journey. Getting rid of everything is easier said than done. You don't know the emotional weight items hold to someone else. Becky great work always making progress ❤
Exactly! ❤ I am so grateful I found Carla. With her I got motivated, I began the process of detachment of material things, read my Bible in reference to materialism and things that will be ruined if we’re just holding it with no use or purpose. So I started donating what’s usable and it feels so so good to let go of things and allow someone else to benefit from it. I put on a video and I get motivated and I clean, set aside for donations and what’s useless I get rid of it. ❤❤ Thank you Carla!!!❤
She needs to transfer the VHS tapes to Digital format. Then she could let all of those go. The heat is not doing those tapes any good. One day she is going to try to play those and they will be unusable.
Yes, she needs to let more stuff go and stop spending so much money on junk. At least, it sounds like she is starting to realize it and hopefully she can make progress.
Agreed, tapes and cds in a plastic bin in direct sunlight is a no no. Her plants wpukd do well up there. She could transfer the contents of all her cds, both music and pics into an external hard drive with a back up in the cloud. No waste of space, always available and safe.
Becky is definitely more sentimental about her things than you. So great that you can respect her choices and support her declutter journey. Becky definitely needs to get all her important VHS memories transferred to DVD as soon as possible as they degrade more and more every day. And she needs to scan her photos for the same reason. Love watching! ❤❤❤
We 💗Becky!! That place is dreamy. Looks like she's chipping away really well...especially having lived in her last place for as long as she did. You really do acquire more than you think living in one space that long.
I love the episodes with Carla and Becky. I can relate to the long process of dealing with memories and deep emotions re: the stuff that is collected and held onto so tightly. Having lost everyone in my life that was near and dear (all family members and 2 wonderful husbands), I can tell you that there can be a lot of grief to process when their "stuff" is all you have left. To those who judge: you will never know another person's experience in full, but do your best to have empathy, and be thankful that you don't have the same struggles. Humility is far preferable to arrogance. Becky, I'm so moved by your courage, openness and loving spirit. ❤
You could put all your home movies and stuff like that on a thumb drive and Declutter all the old movies you can get it done at Walmart. Then you can revisit it on your computer anytime you’d like.
Great job, Becky & Carla!!!!! I loved it when you said "progress, not perfection". I think that should be everyone's goal in decluttering. Cant wait to see more videos!
Yay! A new video! I know Becky doesn’t like the brown boxes, but she should consider opaque containers because the sun will bleach her stuff and degrade the plastic. I am speaking from experience. 😭😂
Thanks again to Becky, we really do love her and her new home! Laughed so har when Becky said, "What do you even do with all this stuff?!" And editing Carla wrote, "Declutter it!!!" 😂 Also, Becky - Don't be so hard on yourself. Overspending habits are HARD to beat, I'm practicing to be better too, but GIRL?! You Got This!!!! I believe in you!!
I was so happy that you, Carla, went back to her place. Becky is like a ray of sunshine and always so happy. She did a great job with decluttering. Decluttering takes time and one day she will realize that she doesn't need or want to keep all these CDs and VHS tapes. I transferred my pictures on discs to an external hard drive so everything is collected under one little thing instead of boxes of CDs everywhere, much more convenient in every way and less space-consuming. I would like you to go back to your other friend who moved around the same time as Becky, her name was Lisa I think, and show us what her apartment has become. Wishing you all a Merry Christmas out there.
With all that sun light coming in in that upper area, she should put her plants up there, and that would free up some of the flat surfaces she was talking about. Also I would definitely bring in some of the stuff from the outdoor trunk, because I think it's going to get ruined out there with the weather fluctuations.
I thought the same thing about putting plants in the loft! Becky has no space to store her stuff though. Unless she gets rid of a lot more stuff, she will have to use the loft for storage.
I was wondering why more of those keepsake "never to be looked at again" items aren't pushed back on either side of the windows above? That keeps the light streaming in and she can put plants along the front? Just needs a cute ladder so that she can get up there and also water the plants.
The sentimental stuff is definitely harder to organize and downsize. It reminds me of, how even though many memories are beautiful, too many sentimental things actually weigh us down. You ladies did a fantadtic job ❤❤❤❤❤
Love watching you & Becky together. Great video today. Just a thought, Ikea has tall thin shoe cabinets that would fit in the hall in place of her other shoe rack. It would hold tons more shoes which in turn would free up the bottom of her closet. The bottom of the closet then could hold clear bins from above. Also, she has short dressers. Getting tall chest of drawers would give her a lot more storage. My rule in a tiny space...." always go vertical when it comes to storage pieces.". Just a thought!❤
Storage outside - the photos/papers should be inside, heat, humidity could damage them. The CDs and movies, should go in the storage container with the titles facing up, easier to find when needed. That's such a cute place, she's lucky to have found it.
Can I say how much I love you have sponsorships? I don't know why it makes me so happy - maybe a longevity sort of thing? How great to see your friend Becky again! I feel like going through her stuff really paid off last time, because it seems like she has systems that work and they just need tweaking.
I’m only a few minutes in but so excited to see Becky again! What a treat! For her plants taking up counter space, I’d mount them on little shelves like in the corner by the back door. She has wall space!
Lovely to see you back with Becky, her place is really evolving. Well done on doing a discrete declutter, the change was immediate and obvious. Can’t wait to see the next sessions ❤❤❤
I thought you said a "Depends box"😂😂😂 Ohhhh the PENS box😁You both did a great job!!! I'm inspired to go tackle my laundry room storage mess. 😮Maybe this is an odd idea🤔Perhaps Becky can put some of her plants on that loft ledge now that there is sunlight coming thru??
Love you guys! Well done Becky for letting things go, and well done Carla for maintaining your composure over the pens box 😂 💖 🎉✨ 🌿🪴 ps definitely keep the plants! 💚
Keep going Becky you can do it! Great start! I gave goodwill over a 1,000 CD's last year. we never used them and we can ask Spotify or Alexa to play just about any music we want. Good Luck on your next declutter with Carla you both have an amazing friendship!
Glad to see Becky back on the channel. If her green family heirloom hutch could be used in the kitchen as the entertainment center I think it would make that space look a lot more pulled together. The height of that piece would compliment that space so well.
@@marlymarlymarly That's a cool idea! She could also take the doors off(store them or use them as a cute picture boards and attach pictures with clothes pins) and remove some of the shelves to potentially fit the tv in.
I absolutely love her little bungalow ... just a thought, all the plants would look lovely on the ledge in her room. Maybe rent a little storage unit for all the things she wants to keep but won't really use or doesn't use often; pictures, movies, holiday decor and craft stuff. It might actually help her feel a push to get rid of some of it when she thinks about how much she's paying to keep it :)
My fave videos are the ones with you helping Becky. You are so patient and kind with people. When I saw the tapes and cds I am screaming tossssssssss. 😂 I understand people and their sentimentality and see how it could be hard. I have the opposite issue where I will throw everything away. I have nothing left to declutter and watching decluttering videos give me that dopamine hit I miss with decluttering!😅 Great job being a help! 😊
I love Becky and your friendship ❤️. It's great to have someone who loves her to help her declutter. I absolutely love to see you guys laughing together. I wanted to hear what was on Chicken Mix #2 😂😂.
The corduroy and sherpa jackets with mixed materials are divine! Thanks for sharing how Walmart is upping their fashion game. The stocking stuffers are all adores, heading there NOW!!! Love the decluttering video with your lovely friend, her cottage and her are both adorable, her backyard looks like paradise!
Oooh yay, a video with Becky in her cute little house full of plants and sun! One suggestion: that space where the boxes currently are - with the windows - would be great for the plants that Becky wants to keep but are taking up space on countertops. Could she rent a small storage locker for keepsakes etc, that she wants to keep but doesn’t use frequently? Just a thought! ❤
Nooooooo! No storage spaces!!! Too easy to let them get out of hand. Just keep plugging away at the excess stuff. Some day soon you may realize you don't do all those crafts. Convert all cd and vhs to digital/thumb drives. The original wow degrade.
Carla the production value has just become top notch!!! Idk if u got a new camera, or something but its so clear and lovely! Also never thought about how u must be editing all these vids and they are so well done! Whether its u or someone else u do great! Beckys new place is gorgeous, i found myself getting super anxious watching this as i grew up in a hoarding home, but remembering what Beckys closet used to look like i really see so much progress, and she has such cute taste. I'm glad she has her fav clothes easy to access now. Closet looks so tidy! Mine does not lol
Take some of your dvd's and VHS tapes to a person who can put them into a collage to play on your computer and then it would be less to store. Check with a Walgreen's or see if a person in the area does this as a business. Great video Carla.
Maybe closing in some of the storage would help the space feel less cluttered and a bed that lifts with storage underneath that she can easily access. I heard a quote that said ‘it’s important to honour the momentous of your life’ - maybe once she’s declutterred more she can have out her lovely memories etc. I’ve spent the last 8 years clearing/declutterring and organising, honestly it’s liberating. Now I’m headed into 2025 for a low buy year….. I don’t have any shopping apps on my phone etc anymore. I’ve taken my payment details off of Amazon and my budget spreadsheet is ready to go….
I think Becky needs a bigger step ladder. 😅 Great Job! Also, I like taking the retail labels off the clear boxes because I think it makes everything feel better.
If she has room under her bed she could store everything there. It would be easier for her to access and her plants would look lovely up on the shelf with the light ❤ Thanks Becky for letting us into your home. It looks so cozy and beautiful
Good to see you again Carla - glad you and Samson are ok 🌸 Lovely to see Becky again too! I recognize a lot of myself in her, and know how hard it is to let go when you’ve always held on to things. But every pass is progress 💗 Like with those pens, next time it will be something else and so on and forth. One idea: i have decided to do a no buy year (with written down ‘rules’ and intentions and a list of things i will buy (new mattress for example). That might be an idea for Becky too? Or one in two out? Or the minimalism game? I love these kinds of helpfull constructions to lessen the inventory. Much love from the Netherlands 🤗
@@gaynorprice-jones1826 Thank you for the good luck wishes. I know I will probably be buying a few things for my house, like wood paint for my stairs that need some TLC and a long overdue new mattress. Also I think I am allowing myself some room for clothes and shoes: because of personal reasons. But I will make a list before hand of what I think I will 'need' like for example closed summer shoes as I have none that are practical enough. But even while writing this, I feel like there's a big divide between want and need. I want to be frugal and intentional, but also allow myself joy and clothes that make me feel good (as opposed to worn out or ill fitting or otherwise not happy items). Other than that, I feel like I have everything I could ask for. So no new books, knick knacks, art supplies, garden supplies etc. And as for gifts, I will be trying to give experiences instead of things, unless people have something specific they really need. I am already good at finishing food and toiletries so there is no stress in that departement. I just realized how easily I still purchase little things (especially while thrifting) and also when I 'have a problem', the easiest way to fix it is to throw money at it. Even if it is just ten bucks. It's still ten bucks, and I want to challenge myself to figure out a different solution to whatever 'problem' I come across. I also unplugged my fridge again for winter time (and hopefully forever), but that's just another experiment on how to be less dependent on things people tell us we need. Because often, we don't. Having said that, I am living by myself which makes that process a lot easier :)
I’m so glad you revisited Becky! I wanted to see how her home evolved. The space above looks SO much better with the clear boxes. Becky, would you consider moving your table plants to above where the sky light is so you get to enjoy them, they get some nice sunlight and you get some needed surface space? You could also put a shelf on the wall behind your bed where you could display them and also free up surface area that way. Love following your journey! P.s. last question: Becky do you consider your shoes to be your jewelry? For example, is it your principal means of self expression? Perhaps instead of buying more (if you are looking to save money or stay within your budget) you could figure out the many cool ways to style the ones you have i.e. enjoy all the cool ones you already have (like using the art supplies you already have before you get more). You’re obviously a creative and lively person so maybe your creative mind can be used in savoring the beautiful things you already have.
I just thought.. have not seen Carla. Hope all is well with her and Samson. And then this popped up!! I declutterred my sock drawer while watching. 😂 and put some other items in the declutter bag. Shopping is definitely an addiction. Saying it out loud takes courage. Blessings
That top shelf with skylights and plants is beautiful!! I had to skip thru some of this bc all the clutter was making me anxious. But Becky is a sweet person and I wish her huge luck in her journey to downsize 😊
We love Becky! Her bundlow is fabulous! Tell her to definitely get her a bicycle cover. Check with her landlord about having some shelves installed for the plants,like someone else commented behind the door in the corner. Looks good you two did good.
I was just thinking about Becky's place. It's one of my favorite's on your channel. I like to imagine how I would set the place up with my things, it just seems so cozy and magical (especially with the resident wolf.)
I recognized myself in Becky's music and video collections. What came to mind was that the memories lie in the music not the media so she could sell or donate the CDs/DVDs and stream whatever music she loves/remembers. I did this with both my VHS and CD collections. The personal, irreplaceable VHS tapes can be converted for a price or even free using equipment at the library. They degrade over time so saving/preserving them now makes sense, while reducing the bulky storage. Good for keeping at it, Becky (and Carla). I, too, have a tiny place and appreciate each bit of breathing room I create while losing nothing that truly matters to me...sometimes in new and different forms. Thanks for opening your home and friendship to us.
I like having my own copies, you can't be sure the music you like will always be available for streaming, same goes for films. That being said, you can transfer music, films and pics to an external hard drive, plus a back up copy in the cloud and you have all your collections taking as much room as a couple of books.
I am commenting before I see the end of the video. That space above is so unique and full of character, I think she should leave it empty. I like the light coming through the windows.
I love Becky’s new place 💛 it’s bright, I love her plants and trinkets, ofcourse you can get rid of stuff but till then it’s already her vibe and that’s awesome! And without her no new decluttering video SO THANK YOU BECKYYYY 🥰
Great job! I think a second pass through each zone will help her. After 8 months of living in the new place, she probably has a better idea of what she actually uses. I’m going to be doing the same this spring.
So happy to see you today on your Live with Becky. I was having Carla withdrawals... also can't wait to check out the Wal Mart items you highlighted. Have a blessed Christmas and a wonderful New Year!
@ I mean no disrespect to you or others that use CD’s. However, this video is about a young woman who probably has many moves ahead of her. If she were listening to her music they would not be in a plastic box on a high shelf. She’s probably streaming music on a device that can play every CD she has.
Love Becky !!! So great to see her again and her gorgeous home … it’s so so beautiful. Suits her positive happy vibe perfectly. Love the friendship you have together .. all the laughs all the history. Looking forward to the next Becky ep 💖
Great work Carla! No offense to your sweet friend Becky intended. You are so patient with her and kind. I would have been jumping out of my skin with those bins of pens and boxes everywhere. 😂 she is making good progress and is so lucky to have your support. I am glad you were able to take a little break and that Samson is feeling better!
Thanks Carla and Becky! Its so nice to see you in this sunny place ❤ I live in a Tinyhouse since 2 years. Before selled and nonated a lot of things. I miss nothing! Great job today. PLEASE continue. Thankyou ❤ Steffi from Germany
You know I've hit Like and I haven't even started watching yet!!! So so excited to see your friend again. I was wondering how she was going (listen to me, as though I know you both personally! 😅). Yay yay yay! I've got a cup of coffee, I'm on the couch and I'm ready! PS omg!!!! I ❤ Becky's place!!!!
This may help you; I got myself some harddrives, took photos of about 95% physical old photos, letters and other so called sentimental things, then I saved a couple of copies, kept 5% (only the very best) and I could let go of these things easily. 5 trash bags left my home, the harddrives are the size of a chocolate bar, space and volume-wise it makes big difference and nothing is lost. That was 2 years ago, I don't miss or regret anything.
I really miss the days where I could jump start the morning for projects and get things done. Take care of yourselves ladies. You did a great job. Love seeing women/friends supporting each other.
I understand the move to a much smaller space and the difficulty of getting your things in. I had to move back to my childhood bedroom in 2020 after a breakup and had to figure out how to fit much more stuff and a cat into it. I realized the only answer was to actually let stuff go and Quit shopping. I talked to a therapist about it as I felt I really needed to change. I ended up challenging myself to a 30 day declutter and a no buy year. I also now can’t replace something until I know I only have a week’s worth left to avoid having huge, forgotten, back stocks taking up space. I just took a honest hard look at my habits and feel so much better now
Videos and DVDs are accepted by my local library. The arts recycling center takes them as well, even the old cases. Art supplies that still function (pens, pencils, markers, stationery, scrapbooks) to an art re-store as well.
You're doing great, Becky! Your home is so full of life and personality. I love the light coming through now. So jealous of you both living in Cali! And yes, the perimenopause exhaustion is no joke. Take it easy, ladies. Carla, I'm glad you and Samson took a break. Be good to yourself.
Carla! You look incredible in the brown velour outfit! How perfect for Christmas! Great work helping Becky, it is hard and overwhelming but I know you will help her get there! ❤ Much love to you and Samson from Perth, Western Australia!
Great video as always! Becky is so cute and seems like a fun friend! If possible, can you tell us the name of that jazzy music you added towards the end of the video? I am unpacking and decluttering from a move, and I feel like some punchy, happy music like that is just what I need playing in the background!
I'm just commenting for wishing everyone a good holiday season. 🎉 Thanks Carla for motivating me, for being yourself and for sharing these massive declutters, it helps so well to let go stuff on my own. It feels so great to know what I have and to see progress. Today I'm going to do the "horror" basement. 💪😎 Greetings from Germany 🇩🇪
Maybe UV-reducing clingfilm for the windows? A blanket over the boxes? I'm chiming in with everyone else who is concerned about the light destroying what's in the clear containers. Direct California sunlight blazing away on them at all hours of the day seems like a recipe for ruined stuff. But I'm happy to see a Becky update! She's fun to watch. Good progress, I'm cheering her on! I hope she gets a handle on her spending. Budgeting classes, therapy, whatever it takes. Debt is serious business. No judgment, just love ❤
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Continue taking care of yourself and Sampson. We all miss you but truly understand self care is vitally important. Have a blessed holiday season. 🥰🙏🏽
Hi everyone !! Thanks for being patient while I took a little R&R break from filming. Samson and I are both doing well! I'll have one more video at the end of the month and then will be back with regular weekly videos in the new year. Love you and hope you are treating yourself well this holiday season❤✨❤✨❤
oh and special thanks to BECKY for continuing to share her decluttering journey and being so vulnerable!❤Leave her some holiday cheer and love!!
Missed your videos ❤
I’m glad you & Samson rested & recharged
Mind yourself. ♥️❤️🩷
So good to see a new video….and over 100K 🎉🎉🎉
As a fellow crafter it took me years to come to terms with lettig go of crafting supplies. The realisation that getting older meant more responsabilities, less energy and less time for crafting projects, only clicked recently. Now when I take the time to craft, they are "quality" crafts, meaning I dont craft little bits an bobs out of cheap materials but lasting well constructed items. So it hit me and I went through all my crafting stuff with new clarity and only kept what I would buy again if I didn't already have it and let go of all the rest. Now it feels like I am respecting my hobbies more by keeping quality supplies and only a curated amount.
Thank for sharing this, I needed to hear this!
I missed Becky! I love when she pops up on your channel. She’s such a burst of energy 🌟
I found for myself, that when I have held on to this much stuff, I lose track of what I have and then I buy what I need all over again - this is why I love the statement that someone made that I have lots of stuff and I keep it all in the stores because my home is not a warehouse....that was very thought provoking for me....great job you two!
To all the Judgy Judgersons, decluttering is process that takes time and I'm grateful to be invited along Becky's journey. Getting rid of everything is easier said than done. You don't know the emotional weight items hold to someone else. Becky great work always making progress ❤
Amen.
Stop the flow!
@@karenhaire5451 What does that mean?
Exactly! ❤ I am so grateful I found Carla. With her I got motivated, I began the process of detachment of material things, read my Bible in reference to materialism and things that will be ruined if we’re just holding it with no use or purpose. So I started donating what’s usable and it feels so so good to let go of things and allow someone else to benefit from it. I put on a video and I get motivated and I clean, set aside for donations and what’s useless I get rid of it. ❤❤
Thank you Carla!!!❤
She needs to transfer the VHS tapes to Digital format. Then she could let all of those go. The heat is not doing those tapes any good. One day she is going to try to play those and they will be unusable.
Even cds are almost defunct! I got rid of half of mine. I must admit every now and then I panic and have to check I didn't put out a favourite 😂
Yes, she needs to let more stuff go and stop spending so much money on junk. At least, it sounds like she is starting to realize it and hopefully she can make progress.
I was gonna say the same…. And the photo cds, she could have them turned into photo books - then she could actually look at the pictures 🤗
Agreed, tapes and cds in a plastic bin in direct sunlight is a no no. Her plants wpukd do well up there. She could transfer the contents of all her cds, both music and pics into an external hard drive with a back up in the cloud. No waste of space, always available and safe.
It cost so much to get it done
Becky is definitely more sentimental about her things than you. So great that you can respect her choices and support her declutter journey. Becky definitely needs to get all her important VHS memories transferred to DVD as soon as possible as they degrade more and more every day. And she needs to scan her photos for the same reason. Love watching! ❤❤❤
It's so nice that someone who shares her memories can help her declutter!
Good point!
We 💗Becky!! That place is dreamy. Looks like she's chipping away really well...especially having lived in her last place for as long as she did. You really do acquire more than you think living in one space that long.
we need to send her some love n encourage to declutter ❤
I love the history you and Becky share. And I think it’s more fun when you reminisce as you declutter. Might take longer, but you feel better 😉
I love the episodes with Carla and Becky. I can relate to the long process of dealing with memories and deep emotions re: the stuff that is collected and held onto so tightly. Having lost everyone in my life that was near and dear (all family members and 2 wonderful husbands), I can tell you that there can be a lot of grief to process when their "stuff" is all you have left. To those who judge: you will never know another person's experience in full, but do your best to have empathy, and be thankful that you don't have the same struggles. Humility is far preferable to arrogance. Becky, I'm so moved by your courage, openness and loving spirit. ❤
You could put all your home movies and stuff like that on a thumb drive and Declutter all the old movies you can get it done at Walmart. Then you can revisit it on your computer anytime you’d like.
That's a great idea. I didn't know you could do that at Walmart. Thanks for the tip.
The videos with Becky are my favorites! You two are a lot of fun to watch together.
Great job, Becky & Carla!!!!! I loved it when you said "progress, not perfection". I think that should be everyone's goal in decluttering. Cant wait to see more videos!
Yay! A new video! I know Becky doesn’t like the brown boxes, but she should consider opaque containers because the sun will bleach her stuff and degrade the plastic. I am speaking from experience. 😭😂
Thanks again to Becky, we really do love her and her new home!
Laughed so har when Becky said, "What do you even do with all this stuff?!" And editing Carla wrote, "Declutter it!!!" 😂
Also, Becky - Don't be so hard on yourself. Overspending habits are HARD to beat, I'm practicing to be better too, but GIRL?! You Got This!!!! I believe in you!!
She is my favorite of your clients/friends. I am so happy to see you back helping her
I was so happy that you, Carla, went back to her place. Becky is like a ray of sunshine and always so happy. She did a great job with decluttering. Decluttering takes time and one day she will realize that she doesn't need or want to keep all these CDs and VHS tapes. I transferred my pictures on discs to an external hard drive so everything is collected under one little thing instead of boxes of CDs everywhere, much more convenient in every way and less space-consuming. I would like you to go back to your other friend who moved around the same time as Becky, her name was Lisa I think, and show us what her apartment has become. Wishing you all a Merry Christmas out there.
The clear boxes in the loft can have pretty paper/wallpaper used inside the front to unify all the disparate items.
With all that sun light coming in in that upper area, she should put her plants up there, and that would free up some of the flat surfaces she was talking about. Also I would definitely bring in some of the stuff from the outdoor trunk, because I think it's going to get ruined out there with the weather fluctuations.
I thought the same thing about putting plants in the loft! Becky has no space to store her stuff though. Unless she gets rid of a lot more stuff, she will have to use the loft for storage.
It’s too high to reach to water her plants every week
I was wondering why more of those keepsake "never to be looked at again" items aren't pushed back on either side of the windows above? That keeps the light streaming in and she can put plants along the front? Just needs a cute ladder so that she can get up there and also water the plants.
I would put fake plants on top in front of all the boxes to conceal them.
The sentimental stuff is definitely harder to organize and downsize. It reminds me of, how even though many memories are beautiful, too many sentimental things actually weigh us down. You ladies did a fantadtic job
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Getting a curtain over the closet would make the bedroom more peaceful ❤
Yes!!!
Best friends who have each other’s backs. Nothing better! I’m in love with your cottage, Becky. And What a great outdoor space!
The look on Carla’s face for the pens box 😂😂😂.
I was cleaning and listening and thought she said "Depends" box .
Love watching you & Becky together. Great video today. Just a thought, Ikea has tall thin shoe cabinets that would fit in the hall in place of her other shoe rack. It would hold tons more shoes which in turn would free up the bottom of her closet. The bottom of the closet then could hold clear bins from above. Also, she has short dressers. Getting tall chest of drawers would give her a lot more storage. My rule in a tiny space...." always go vertical when it comes to storage pieces.". Just a thought!❤
Storage outside - the photos/papers should be inside, heat, humidity could damage them. The CDs and movies, should go in the storage container with the titles facing up, easier to find when needed. That's such a cute place, she's lucky to have found it.
Can I say how much I love you have sponsorships? I don't know why it makes me so happy - maybe a longevity sort of thing? How great to see your friend Becky again! I feel like going through her stuff really paid off last time, because it seems like she has systems that work and they just need tweaking.
I’m only a few minutes in but so excited to see Becky again! What a treat! For her plants taking up counter space, I’d mount them on little shelves like in the corner by the back door. She has wall space!
I literally was going to say don’t block the light😂. I had to get therapy for my shopping issues & it was a game changer.
Lovely to see you back with Becky, her place is really evolving. Well done on doing a discrete declutter, the change was immediate and obvious. Can’t wait to see the next sessions ❤❤❤
I thought you said a "Depends box"😂😂😂 Ohhhh the PENS box😁You both did a great job!!! I'm inspired to go tackle my laundry room storage mess. 😮Maybe this is an odd idea🤔Perhaps Becky can put some of her plants on that loft ledge now that there is sunlight coming thru??
Love you guys! Well done Becky for letting things go, and well done Carla for maintaining your composure over the pens box 😂 💖 🎉✨ 🌿🪴 ps definitely keep the plants! 💚
Great to see Becky doing well. I love her little bungalow! It sure is tiring physically and mentally but you did awesome moving things O.U.T. 🥰
Keep going Becky you can do it! Great start! I gave goodwill over a 1,000 CD's last year. we never used them and we can ask Spotify or Alexa to play just about any music we want. Good Luck on your next declutter with Carla you both have an amazing friendship!
Glad to see Becky back on the channel. If her green family heirloom hutch could be used in the kitchen as the entertainment center I think it would make that space look a lot more pulled together. The height of that piece would compliment that space so well.
yessss and then get a screen and projector instead of tv!
@@marlymarlymarly That's a cool idea! She could also take the doors off(store them or use them as a cute picture boards and attach pictures with clothes pins) and remove some of the shelves to potentially fit the tv in.
I absolutely love her little bungalow ... just a thought, all the plants would look lovely on the ledge in her room. Maybe rent a little storage unit for all the things she wants to keep but won't really use or doesn't use often; pictures, movies, holiday decor and craft stuff. It might actually help her feel a push to get rid of some of it when she thinks about how much she's paying to keep it :)
My fave videos are the ones with you helping Becky. You are so patient and kind with people. When I saw the tapes and cds I am screaming tossssssssss. 😂 I understand people and their sentimentality and see how it could be hard. I have the opposite issue where I will throw everything away. I have nothing left to declutter and watching decluttering videos give me that dopamine hit I miss with decluttering!😅 Great job being a help! 😊
I love Becky and your friendship ❤️. It's great to have someone who loves her to help her declutter. I absolutely love to see you guys laughing together. I wanted to hear what was on Chicken Mix #2 😂😂.
I love Becky! Please do more videos with her! Love her honesty!
Carla, your music choice on thi video reflect the energy of that day i think. It was lovely.
You have the best taste in clothes! Everything you picked out from Walmart is so cute on you!
The corduroy and sherpa jackets with mixed materials are divine! Thanks for sharing how Walmart is upping their fashion game. The stocking stuffers are all adores, heading there NOW!!! Love the decluttering video with your lovely friend, her cottage and her are both adorable, her backyard looks like paradise!
Oooh yay, a video with Becky in her cute little house full of plants and sun!
One suggestion: that space where the boxes currently are - with the windows - would be great for the plants that Becky wants to keep but are taking up space on countertops. Could she rent a small storage locker for keepsakes etc, that she wants to keep but doesn’t use frequently?
Just a thought! ❤
Renting a storage unit likely not a good fit when shopping and debt are an issue.
Nooooooo! No storage spaces!!! Too easy to let them get out of hand. Just keep plugging away at the excess stuff. Some day soon you may realize you don't do all those crafts. Convert all cd and vhs to digital/thumb drives. The original wow degrade.
yes Becky your doing soo much better getting rid of things you dont need
Carla the production value has just become top notch!!! Idk if u got a new camera, or something but its so clear and lovely! Also never thought about how u must be editing all these vids and they are so well done! Whether its u or someone else u do great! Beckys new place is gorgeous, i found myself getting super anxious watching this as i grew up in a hoarding home, but remembering what Beckys closet used to look like i really see so much progress, and she has such cute taste. I'm glad she has her fav clothes easy to access now. Closet looks so tidy! Mine does not lol
Take some of your dvd's and VHS tapes to a person who can put them into a collage to play on your computer and then it would be less to store. Check with a Walgreen's or see if a person in the area does this as a business. Great video Carla.
Yes those tapes are going to degrade. The sooner they are converted the better.
Maybe closing in some of the storage would help the space feel less cluttered and a bed that lifts with storage underneath that she can easily access. I heard a quote that said ‘it’s important to honour the momentous of your life’ - maybe once she’s declutterred more she can have out her lovely memories etc. I’ve spent the last 8 years clearing/declutterring and organising, honestly it’s liberating. Now I’m headed into 2025 for a low buy year….. I don’t have any shopping apps on my phone etc anymore. I’ve taken my payment details off of Amazon and my budget spreadsheet is ready to go….
You can do this! 💪🏻
I love seeing that sunshine coming in at the end! Maybe next pass you can help her let go of enough that even more sunshine comes through ☀️
Agree. Put plants up there. That would be beautiful but it's looking better so best wishes on her progress!
I think Becky needs a bigger step ladder. 😅
Great Job!
Also, I like taking the retail labels off the clear boxes because I think it makes everything feel better.
If she has room under her bed she could store everything there. It would be easier for her to access and her plants would look lovely up on the shelf with the light ❤
Thanks Becky for letting us into your home. It looks so cozy and beautiful
Good to see you again Carla - glad you and Samson are ok 🌸 Lovely to see Becky again too! I recognize a lot of myself in her, and know how hard it is to let go when you’ve always held on to things. But every pass is progress 💗 Like with those pens, next time it will be something else and so on and forth. One idea: i have decided to do a no buy year (with written down ‘rules’ and intentions and a list of things i will buy (new mattress for example). That might be an idea for Becky too? Or one in two out? Or the minimalism game? I love these kinds of helpfull constructions to lessen the inventory.
Much love from the Netherlands 🤗
A 'no buy year' sounds great - I'd be interested to know what 'rules' you will have. Good luck.
@@gaynorprice-jones1826 Thank you for the good luck wishes. I know I will probably be buying a few things for my house, like wood paint for my stairs that need some TLC and a long overdue new mattress. Also I think I am allowing myself some room for clothes and shoes: because of personal reasons. But I will make a list before hand of what I think I will 'need' like for example closed summer shoes as I have none that are practical enough. But even while writing this, I feel like there's a big divide between want and need. I want to be frugal and intentional, but also allow myself joy and clothes that make me feel good (as opposed to worn out or ill fitting or otherwise not happy items). Other than that, I feel like I have everything I could ask for. So no new books, knick knacks, art supplies, garden supplies etc. And as for gifts, I will be trying to give experiences instead of things, unless people have something specific they really need. I am already good at finishing food and toiletries so there is no stress in that departement. I just realized how easily I still purchase little things (especially while thrifting) and also when I 'have a problem', the easiest way to fix it is to throw money at it. Even if it is just ten bucks. It's still ten bucks, and I want to challenge myself to figure out a different solution to whatever 'problem' I come across. I also unplugged my fridge again for winter time (and hopefully forever), but that's just another experiment on how to be less dependent on things people tell us we need. Because often, we don't. Having said that, I am living by myself which makes that process a lot easier :)
I’m so glad you revisited Becky! I wanted to see how her home evolved. The space above looks SO much better with the clear boxes. Becky, would you consider moving your table plants to above where the sky light is so you get to enjoy them, they get some nice sunlight and you get some needed surface space? You could also put a shelf on the wall behind your bed where you could display them and also free up surface area that way. Love following your journey!
P.s. last question: Becky do you consider your shoes to be your jewelry? For example, is it your principal means of self expression? Perhaps instead of buying more (if you are looking to save money or stay within your budget) you could figure out the many cool ways to style the ones you have i.e. enjoy all the cool ones you already have (like using the art supplies you already have before you get more). You’re obviously a creative and lively person so maybe your creative mind can be used in savoring the beautiful things you already have.
I was just thinking about your channel and wondering how you were doing - and then you uploaded!!! Wonderful news :)
Same 😃
I just thought.. have not seen Carla. Hope all is well with her and Samson. And then this popped up!! I declutterred my sock drawer while watching. 😂 and put some other items in the declutter bag. Shopping is definitely an addiction. Saying it out loud takes courage. Blessings
Her cottage is so cute and charming and of course she as well. 😊❤❤
Yay!! Great to see Becky again. Great work, ladies!
That top shelf with skylights and plants is beautiful!! I had to skip thru some of this bc all the clutter was making me anxious. But Becky is a sweet person and I wish her huge luck in her journey to downsize 😊
What good is it if all you have to do is store it!!
We love Becky! Her bundlow is fabulous! Tell her to definitely get her a bicycle cover. Check with her landlord about having some shelves installed for the plants,like someone else commented behind the door in the corner. Looks good you two did good.
I was just thinking about Becky's place. It's one of my favorite's on your channel. I like to imagine how I would set the place up with my things, it just seems so cozy and magical (especially with the resident wolf.)
I recognized myself in Becky's music and video collections. What came to mind was that the memories lie in the music not the media so she could sell or donate the CDs/DVDs and stream whatever music she loves/remembers. I did this with both my VHS and CD collections. The personal, irreplaceable VHS tapes can be converted for a price or even free using equipment at the library. They degrade over time so saving/preserving them now makes sense, while reducing the bulky storage. Good for keeping at it, Becky (and Carla). I, too, have a tiny place and appreciate each bit of breathing room I create while losing nothing that truly matters to me...sometimes in new and different forms. Thanks for opening your home and friendship to us.
I like having my own copies, you can't be sure the music you like will always be available for streaming, same goes for films. That being said, you can transfer music, films and pics to an external hard drive, plus a back up copy in the cloud and you have all your collections taking as much room as a couple of books.
@@Xiroi87 Great ideas, thanks! I'd never considered the possibility of them not being available.
I love listening to the stories of the sentimental items and seeing them all
I am commenting before I see the end of the video. That space above is so unique and full of character, I think she should leave it empty. I like the light coming through the windows.
Woohoo Becky and Carla!!! ♥️❤️🩷
Your hair in the Walmart portion of the video looks amazing ❤
I love Becky’s new place 💛 it’s bright, I love her plants and trinkets, ofcourse you can get rid of stuff but till then it’s already her vibe and that’s awesome!
And without her no new decluttering video SO THANK YOU BECKYYYY 🥰
Great job! I think a second pass through each zone will help her. After 8 months of living in the new place, she probably has a better idea of what she actually uses. I’m going to be doing the same this spring.
It was so good to see Becky again! I love the special friendship you have and especially the laughter! Great video as always!!! 🩷💕🩷
Yay! Becky is back! You both did great. Love all and giggling..
Lovely to see Becky again, you can see the difference in her home as she keeps decluttering, she seems lighter in spirit, ❤
So happy to see you today on your Live with Becky. I was having Carla withdrawals... also can't wait to check out the Wal Mart items you highlighted. Have a blessed Christmas and a wonderful New Year!
I'm really old! ( Mid-70's) I got rid of CD's and records because unless you're a hard core collector nobody uses them anymore.
I’m 83, and I still buy CDs, because I have a player, and there are still people whose music I really like.
@@brendasnow8255I’m 79 and like you, I don’t feel old at all!
@ I mean no disrespect to you or others that use CD’s. However, this video is about a young woman who probably has many moves ahead of her. If she were listening to her music they would not be in a plastic box on a high shelf. She’s probably streaming music on a device that can play every CD she has.
@ Maybe, maybe not. More likely, she has too many CDs that she is no longer interested in-like me-and culling some is a good idea.
Love Becky !!! So great to see her again and her gorgeous home … it’s so so beautiful. Suits her positive happy vibe perfectly. Love the friendship you have together .. all the laughs all the history. Looking forward to the next Becky ep 💖
Great work Carla! No offense to your sweet friend Becky intended. You are so patient with her and kind. I would have been jumping out of my skin with those bins of pens and boxes everywhere. 😂 she is making good progress and is so lucky to have your support.
I am glad you were able to take a little break and that Samson is feeling better!
Thanks Carla and Becky! Its so nice to see you in this sunny place ❤
I live in a Tinyhouse since 2 years. Before selled and nonated a lot of things. I miss nothing!
Great job today. PLEASE continue.
Thankyou ❤ Steffi from Germany
Way to go, Becky!! ❤❤❤ love your tiny home 🥰 I know it’s hard to let go of things, but it’s for the best ❤️❤️❤️
Woohoo a Carla video before bed🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Nice items from Walmart. Enjoyed seeing Becky again! I like how you are making this a very realistic declutter. It's never done in one day!
You know I've hit Like and I haven't even started watching yet!!! So so excited to see your friend again. I was wondering how she was going (listen to me, as though I know you both personally! 😅). Yay yay yay! I've got a cup of coffee, I'm on the couch and I'm ready!
PS omg!!!! I ❤ Becky's place!!!!
So nice to see you girls decluttering together again! Thank you for this video 😃
Good job Becky! I always enjoy your videos Carla.
Hi Carla welcome back ❤🎉🦋🥰🍾
Such a great video. Love your humour together. Becky's house is so lovely❤
Becky looks goood blonde!! ❤
She is so sweet! I wish her wonderful things😊
This may help you; I got myself some harddrives, took photos of about 95% physical old photos, letters and other so called sentimental things, then I saved a couple of copies, kept 5% (only the very best) and I could let go of these things easily. 5 trash bags left my home, the harddrives are the size of a chocolate bar, space and volume-wise it makes big difference and nothing is lost. That was 2 years ago, I don't miss or regret anything.
Great to see you and Becky!
Love you two and this friendship! Reminds me of me and my bestie from middle school 💛 Thanks for the video Carla and Becky!
Your a great friend. You make amazing transformations.
Happy holidays
I really miss the days where I could jump start the morning for projects and get things done. Take care of yourselves ladies. You did a great job. Love seeing women/friends supporting each other.
I understand the move to a much smaller space and the difficulty of getting your things in. I had to move back to my childhood bedroom in 2020 after a breakup and had to figure out how to fit much more stuff and a cat into it. I realized the only answer was to actually let stuff go and Quit shopping. I talked to a therapist about it as I felt I really needed to change. I ended up challenging myself to a 30 day declutter and a no buy year. I also now can’t replace something until I know I only have a week’s worth left to avoid having huge, forgotten, back stocks taking up space. I just took a honest hard look at my habits and feel so much better now
Becky I love your style and your place! I’m more of a minimalist but I love how cozy and eclectic your place is! Thanks for being real with us! ❤❤❤❤❤
Videos and DVDs are accepted by my local library. The arts recycling center takes them as well, even the old cases. Art supplies that still function (pens, pencils, markers, stationery, scrapbooks) to an art re-store as well.
Love ❤ Becky n love that you are so kind with her n her clutter 😇 you are a A grade bestie 💕
You're doing great, Becky! Your home is so full of life and personality. I love the light coming through now. So jealous of you both living in Cali! And yes, the perimenopause exhaustion is no joke. Take it easy, ladies. Carla, I'm glad you and Samson took a break. Be good to yourself.
Carla! You look incredible in the brown velour outfit! How perfect for Christmas! Great work helping Becky, it is hard and overwhelming but I know you will help her get there! ❤
Much love to you and Samson from Perth, Western Australia!
Great video as always! Becky is so cute and seems like a fun friend! If possible, can you tell us the name of that jazzy music you added towards the end of the video? I am unpacking and decluttering from a move, and I feel like some punchy, happy music like that is just what I need playing in the background!
I'm just commenting for wishing everyone a good holiday season. 🎉
Thanks Carla for motivating me, for being yourself and for sharing these massive declutters, it helps so well to let go stuff on my own. It feels so great to know what I have and to see progress. Today I'm going to do the "horror" basement. 💪😎
Greetings from Germany 🇩🇪
So many memories stored and explored. Love storing mine but being able to unpack and revisit them (and declutter too).
Maybe UV-reducing clingfilm for the windows? A blanket over the boxes? I'm chiming in with everyone else who is concerned about the light destroying what's in the clear containers. Direct California sunlight blazing away on them at all hours of the day seems like a recipe for ruined stuff.
But I'm happy to see a Becky update! She's fun to watch. Good progress, I'm cheering her on! I hope she gets a handle on her spending. Budgeting classes, therapy, whatever it takes. Debt is serious business. No judgment, just love ❤