I'm going through the same , for about 2 years. The questions will never left. New generation of youth started asking this "meaning" questions , because we have satisfied our basic needs , that previous generations haven't. We are at the edge of mental revolution. Thanks for filming video and telling your truth . Wishing everybody has found their peace
I think this is something we don't talk enough about in personal development. As you said in previous video, I personally started feeling the dark night of the soul 3 years ago since I started getting into self development. After a moment I started forgetting my principle desire and got eaten by this darkness. I've never felt this much pain before and I really didn't understand. Right now I am feeling way better but still am not as happy as I used to be. I'm still really empty but I keep going. Thank you for remembering us that it is normal we feel this way and most importantly why. This is really something I really struggle with. Knowing that I am not the only person feeling this way reassures me; so yes, thank you again :)
Thank you for this. I really connect with what you say having been through the "dark night" actually a few times. What wise people have expressed to us over the past generations about the "dark night", I trust more of us are now taking to heart. It's important and so rewarding when we embrace our journey and, as you remind us, we don't fight it or argue with it.
Thanks so much for these videos I am going through my second dark night which has been going on for over a year now, the first was about 4 years. It's so nice and reassuring to hear from someone who has been through it and reminds me that this really is a true blessing and to accept how I'm feeling. Thank you 🙏
Hello Henri, I’ve subscribed to you channel for close to a year now and have found your teachings life uplifting. I need help. I am so sad and filled with despair most of the time. I grew up in an abusive family. Its took graduating from high school and going away to college that got me out and away. Since that happened 25 years ago, I’ve build a secured safe good life for myself. I have made of great deal of accomplishments from a PhD and law degree to having a wonderful life as an art historian and mother and wife. However, I have felt guilty my whole adult life because I remain away from my family. I made that decision because they are abusive and I am way too sensitive and want to protect myself from them. Back in March of this year my baby brother died suddenly and I have been overwhelmed with guilt and regret because I chose to leave my family I tried to convince my brother to come and live with me because I wanted to take care of him. He didn’t want it and with his death I feel like a failure. I don’t know what to do. I am empty about myself and have this vacant while inside of me. While I do at the same time have a 13 year old daughter that I have to take care of and I do, but I’m suffering from past abuse, neglect and pain from my past with my family. Help me!!
Glad to hear my videos have helped! Best recommendation I can make through the comments is to find a therapist that resonates with you, and take things from there. Be kind to yourself. We cannot control life. We all do the best we can. We become wiser one tiny step at a time. Wishing you all the best 🌱
Thank you for this video i had gone out of this situation not from long time ago really it's very difficult but it will teach you and you'll grow up more and more and simply you will a "Great man"
Notice if you are resisting the crying and want it to stop. If so, welcome the resistance and associated stories about it, and let the crying happen fully, when it is appropriate.
Just posted a guide to the dark night of the soul over on my blog. Here's the link if you're interested: www.wakeupcloud.com/dark-night-of-the-soul/
I'm going through the same , for about 2 years. The questions will never left. New generation of youth started asking this "meaning" questions , because we have satisfied our basic needs , that previous generations haven't. We are at the edge of mental revolution. Thanks for filming video and telling your truth . Wishing everybody has found their peace
I think this is something we don't talk enough about in personal development. As you said in previous video, I personally started feeling the dark night of the soul 3 years ago since I started getting into self development. After a moment I started forgetting my principle desire and got eaten by this darkness. I've never felt this much pain before and I really didn't understand. Right now I am feeling way better but still am not as happy as I used to be. I'm still really empty but I keep going. Thank you for remembering us that it is normal we feel this way and most importantly why. This is really something I really struggle with. Knowing that I am not the only person feeling this way reassures me; so yes, thank you again :)
Thank you SO MUCH for all these wise thoughts. I am deep (and lost) into it and your videos/words are precious.
Thank you for sharing your experiences, Henri. It's a really difficult time but I'm holding on. More power to you.
Thank you for this. I really connect with what you say having been through the "dark night" actually a few times. What wise people have expressed to us over the past generations about the "dark night", I trust more of us are now taking to heart. It's important and so rewarding when we embrace our journey and, as you remind us, we don't fight it or argue with it.
Thank you so much for these wonderful videos. You are a life saver.
Glad to hear that they're helpful! :)
Thanks so much for these videos I am going through my second dark night which has been going on for over a year now, the first was about 4 years. It's so nice and reassuring to hear from someone who has been through it and reminds me that this really is a true blessing and to accept how I'm feeling. Thank you 🙏
i'm so glad that i came across this channel, thank you 💜
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Hello Henri, I’ve subscribed to you channel for close to a year now and have found your teachings life uplifting. I need help. I am so sad and filled with despair most of the time. I grew up in an abusive family. Its took graduating from high school and going away to college that got me out and away. Since that happened 25 years ago, I’ve build a secured safe good life for myself. I have made of great deal of accomplishments from a PhD and law degree to having a wonderful life as an art historian and mother and wife. However, I have felt guilty my whole adult life because I remain away from my family. I made that decision because they are abusive and I am way too sensitive and want to protect myself from them. Back in March of this year my baby brother died suddenly and I have been overwhelmed with guilt and regret because I chose to leave my family I tried to convince my brother to come and live with me because I wanted to take care of him. He didn’t want it and with his death I feel like a failure. I don’t know what to do. I am empty about myself and have this vacant while inside of me. While I do at the same time have a 13 year old daughter that I have to take care of and I do, but I’m suffering from past abuse, neglect and pain from my past with my family. Help me!!
Glad to hear my videos have helped! Best recommendation I can make through the comments is to find a therapist that resonates with you, and take things from there. Be kind to yourself. We cannot control life. We all do the best we can. We become wiser one tiny step at a time. Wishing you all the best 🌱
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Thank you, so many times... thank you.
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Thank you for this video i had gone out of this situation not from long time ago really it's very difficult but it will teach you and you'll grow up more and more and simply you will a "Great man"
Thanks for watching, and taking the time to comment. Glad you got through your dark night!
Really nice video, gives the people in this situation some hope.
Is it even possible that you become independent from validation of others?
I believe it's possible. Not there 100% myself though, but much more independent than before.
Thank you how to stop the crying?
Notice if you are resisting the crying and want it to stop. If so, welcome the resistance and associated stories about it, and let the crying happen fully, when it is appropriate.