I ATTEMPTED SUICIDE 3 TIMES AND GOT S3XUALLY ASSAULTED BY MALE RELATIVE TO LOSING THE MAN I LOVED 😞

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ม.ค. 2024
  • Sometimes we wonder how people who have gone through such horrifying experiences still survive but Charlotte is a proof that you can!
    What’s your take on today’s episode especially that this is related to the ongoing femicide outbreak in Kenya?
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  • @getnakedwithlydia
    @getnakedwithlydia  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    What have you learned from today’s video? Do you think as a country we will come to a time where women are safe?
    If you would like to share your story on our channel please email lydiaw710@gmail.com or dm us on instagram lydiawanjiru.ke or click here 👇
    instagram.com/lydiawanjiru.ke?igsh=MWFqeWZzdDc3bWI4cg%3D%3D&
    Remember to subscribe, like and share and follow Charlotte on socials;
    instagram.com/challchaflo?igsh=a2xtMGFiZWluOGo=
    www.tiktok.com/@chafflo...kavs?_t=8jSd8KWy1zS&_r=1

    • @BettyMwikali-bb9bf
      @BettyMwikali-bb9bf 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Give us her full names on social media

  • @wanguigrace2957
    @wanguigrace2957 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    It's so heartbreaking that this beautiful lady lost the ONLY person that ever loved her genuinely. 😢 Sometimes life can be very awkward 😔 I hope she finds peace. ❤

  • @Mama-A
    @Mama-A 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Mungu nipee maisha marefu,afya, na hela za kulea mtoto wangu...protect me and my child from any damage that is formed against us.Thank you

  • @karenm605
    @karenm605 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I remember the national uproar on this. We even did a choral verse on it in school and we mentioned her name. I am so so sorry girl, you’re so brave.

  • @jelagatkoimur1038
    @jelagatkoimur1038 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    The way I struggle with forgiveness aki, right now I wouldn't call ANYONE a relative, like NADA. May God's grace keep you strong and may you find peace dada. Naskia kuku hug for 1 hour uninterrupted 😢😢. May God sustain you

  • @Favouriteshows254
    @Favouriteshows254 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Had really waited for another episode ,,thanks lydia

  • @phylliswangoi8759
    @phylliswangoi8759 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    hugs Charlotte, your very strong mummy!!

  • @allisonogola8973
    @allisonogola8973 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Wow this lady has been through a lot in life. Life could have brought her completely down but she seems to be quite well adjusted. I really hope she continues to heal and just keeps thriving and shining!!!!!

  • @bettymwangi5617
    @bettymwangi5617 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Charlotte my girl a friend to my daughter I know what you have gone through by the grace of God you are where you are

  • @user-dt1hw7il6j
    @user-dt1hw7il6j 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    My high school friend Charlotte. Sending love to you

  • @shontelleveenjeri3033
    @shontelleveenjeri3033 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks Lydia for this episode 😢

  • @bossycharh
    @bossycharh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Waaaah ,,have just cried the whole episode 😭😭😭,, you've really passed on gurl,, remember through all these God has seen it and is going to work miracles upon you Charlotte,, don't give up in this life,, take your time ,,heal ,find a place in your heart to forgive those who wronged you and forget. Seek Gods guidance and start a new life,, accept yourself to who you are and leave it to God.. I lack words to express what am feeling in what have heard through your story am in deep pain😭😭😭 .God have seen and he's going to change things according to His way..hugs mummy💞💞💞💞💞💞💞

  • @gracejohns6108
    @gracejohns6108 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Wickedness if you can't take care of other people's children... Don't force it then mistreat them theyll rather go to children home... Really it pains my heart when I listen to this.... But why??? Please don't take them because you bring curse upon yourself n your children... Very sad 😢. May God heal your heart n pain...

  • @kibegeorge9073
    @kibegeorge9073 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    A strong woman you are♥️♥️ mob love nd ur story 😢😢 i feel u...

  • @samuelokumu4610
    @samuelokumu4610 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I remember this famous Kavata story, I was like in class 3 or 4 🤔....... it awakened the fight against female gender violence. It was indeed traumatising to the whole country. Aki pole sana

  • @zipporahmuthoni6263
    @zipporahmuthoni6263 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Really really really
    The darling girl way back in high school
    May God uplift and take you to greater heights
    God is not done with you my darling
    Sending love ❤❤

  • @user-gt4ep7mw8v
    @user-gt4ep7mw8v 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You are a strong woman God works in mysterious ways

  • @user-sl4eu6gk8k
    @user-sl4eu6gk8k 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Oh my. Just how much misery would one person go through. I'm so sorry ❤❤

  • @sharonadhiambo7553
    @sharonadhiambo7553 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Good job online big sis @lydia 👏👏👏for creating awareness using your content

    • @getnakedwithlydia
      @getnakedwithlydia  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you too for supporting 🙏

  • @wairimugrace
    @wairimugrace 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    God this sent chills all over my body 😭💔

  • @kathomimurithi5671
    @kathomimurithi5671 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I hope one day I'll be able to share my story....thankyou Lydia for this

  • @elizanjoki4908
    @elizanjoki4908 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ooh my goodness...you have gone through so much 🫂 hug girl,God is going to change your story

  • @alavenderachieng4369
    @alavenderachieng4369 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    please stop putting everything on the introduction part.......its like the whole story in 3seconds

    • @overandabove9821
      @overandabove9821 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Sure.. I couldn't watch again... I already know the story just from the intro 😮

    • @getnakedwithlydia
      @getnakedwithlydia  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      There’s soo much from that story!

    • @getnakedwithlydia
      @getnakedwithlydia  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There’s soo much from that story to watch

    • @vyolalimo8079
      @vyolalimo8079 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True

    • @janenjoroge4682
      @janenjoroge4682 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Plus she didn't lay a good intro for the guest..we were 1sec in and the mother ,DM and child are being beaten,2 seconds later my dad and I were really close...😮😮
      The story of the killing of kavata was big,it deserves to be told In a systematic manner

  • @liserorose4713
    @liserorose4713 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Kavata. I now remember this story flashing all over the national channels. the guy was from Tala

  • @user-dq2qw6jd7q
    @user-dq2qw6jd7q 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Lydia this one is amazing woiii my kibe hapo😅😅😅😂😂😂😂 kibe is storyteller he is always make my day

  • @MoraaOsiemo
    @MoraaOsiemo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Oh My God!!!! I will never forget the Betty Kavata story. I was in class six when i saw that story in the media. That was when I vowed that I'd never let a man lay a hand on me.

    • @getnakedwithlydia
      @getnakedwithlydia  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It’s sad to know that femicide started way back and women are being killed by men they know 😔

  • @fridahmiriti39
    @fridahmiriti39 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you Lydia for bringing Charlotte to us. I remember this Kavata story so well. I remember how the story went viral that time.
    Am so shocked this is what happened to her at the hands of her maternal aunt. Surely where did humanity go? Na huyu aunt ako wapi saa hii?

    • @getnakedwithlydia
      @getnakedwithlydia  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      These relatives hides so much in public eyes 😔

  • @mosiaralucy6980
    @mosiaralucy6980 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Aki naambia mungu asanti my daddy mungu alimtembea aka aja kuchapa mummy na sai wako poa but noo day waliseparate ata kutuharmbush na akuna day tuliteseka isipokua ile tu life ilikua ngumu juu ya umaskini but God ni nani anatuonekania tu mdogomdogo tu tunashukuru Lydia good work❤❤❤❤

  • @lindamadegwa1530
    @lindamadegwa1530 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are so beautiful Charlotte. May the almighty God continue blessing to you and your family abundantly.

  • @patriciamwamburi7821
    @patriciamwamburi7821 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    She is a strong lady,hope she finds a destiny helper and peace

  • @jasminelilian6917
    @jasminelilian6917 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i feel so sorry for her its like she is also telling my childhood story but all in all it is well ❤️❤️❤️

  • @janengari2345
    @janengari2345 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sandra God Loves you , and the far God has brought you he will never abandon you. He is the father of orphans. Love yourself and your kids and all will be well.

  • @kokise75
    @kokise75 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Na huyu msichana ni kasipu though. Like Mom like daughter. But where do the relatives get the strength to maltreat a family?

    • @getnakedwithlydia
      @getnakedwithlydia  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      From the darkest inner most parts of their souls 💔

    • @monicamwangi3122
      @monicamwangi3122 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Aki she beautiful qm asking same question? Does she talk to antie ,do she even miss to see them.mm kaa my anties side I have over 20yrs cjawai waona or visit

    • @fridahmiriti39
      @fridahmiriti39 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why did the aunt treat her so bad? Beautiful soul. Hugs and more

    • @Vatethina3178
      @Vatethina3178 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      When the enemy has put a mark of rejection & hatred on you..life will turn upside down for you. It's time we understand how the spiritual side works. This can be understood spiritually

  • @Mummie_g
    @Mummie_g 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Am actually thinking now i can tell my story when am ready

    • @getnakedwithlydia
      @getnakedwithlydia  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can and when ready, reach out!

  • @rosemaiga8280
    @rosemaiga8280 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My sisters daughter and she is like my own i can't do that, you are supposed to love her even more than anything.

  • @zoeythekitty4533
    @zoeythekitty4533 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I wish you all the good things and the best life has to offer mamii. May God bless you and bless your babies ❤.
    Now, that aunty of yours didn't have bipolar. She was the devil incarnate walking the face of Athi River and its environs. Ashindwe mahali alienda!!
    Your opportunistic in laws who tried to disinherit you, may Karma get to them before they hit their graves!
    I hope you continue to live and see God's goodness in your life!

  • @carolinemukundi4918
    @carolinemukundi4918 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My God..Lydia more grace to this lady❤❤and you as you listen 👂.

  • @lavendermuhatia
    @lavendermuhatia 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I’m relating so hard as someone who has been fostered by different relatives. Wueh we really need therapy aki

  • @nguantai
    @nguantai 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Sijafika halfway and am already 😭😭 omg..

  • @user-br6nd8gy7i
    @user-br6nd8gy7i 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wow! I thought I knew you but waaah, yenyewe some beautiful souls are born from deep pain

  • @ndinyakhasele2269
    @ndinyakhasele2269 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She's too young to have gone through so much in life. Hope life blossoms for greater win.

  • @luizahshiro5832
    @luizahshiro5832 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hugs gal,she is one strong lady..she was my hae school classmate n I thot all was well then🤗

    • @getnakedwithlydia
      @getnakedwithlydia  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She carried herself so well ❤️

  • @bethmurira7278
    @bethmurira7278 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    sometimes life is so unfair but God knows ,may God do you well

  • @0sengoshikondi.junior451
    @0sengoshikondi.junior451 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wooi, pole Sana Madam God will revenge for you... Your aunt one day she's Gona cry blood for how she treated you.. Sorry for mummy may her soul continue resting in perfect peace..it was so unfortunately.😢

  • @user-ew2ze5wv7t
    @user-ew2ze5wv7t 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So unfortunate my dear. All that happened and we didn't know. May God give you a destiny helper and a shoulder to lean on in times of need. May God bless Juliet and her family for standing with you at all times. God makes the impossibilities possibilities and makes a way where there is no way in Jesus Mighty name. Why! Why! Would a blood aunt be so wicked to her niece 😂😂😂

  • @nyarsakwa1492
    @nyarsakwa1492 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    When i heard the guy alikuwa Lamu forest, i knew it will not end well

  • @wamuthonijoy
    @wamuthonijoy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The character of her aunt is exactly the character of my mum..me until today going to visit my mum is tricky am never free with her coz the trauma keeps on coming..we sat down tried to talk I clothed her atleast to create bonding... weuuhh it never worked.. nowadays I decided to find peace within myself. Never to bother myself with somethings

    • @getnakedwithlydia
      @getnakedwithlydia  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sometimes you have to come to terms with the fact that some relationships can never work and live peacefully separately

    • @wamuthonijoy
      @wamuthonijoy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Very true

  • @worldscaperelaxation503
    @worldscaperelaxation503 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I feared passing by your house at Depot police station, you were small but you have a good memory. You were neighbors with Musa on the right. I lived opposite Musa on the other side of the Road. May Betty Kavata rest in peace.

    • @getnakedwithlydia
      @getnakedwithlydia  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It was a horrible experience 💔

  • @kiddohterry2738
    @kiddohterry2738 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sending love and hugs❤

  • @nonig8816
    @nonig8816 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That your aunt ni nyanya ya shetani. May she pay for treating an orphan like that. Hugs gal❤️❤️❤️

  • @bettynino7354
    @bettynino7354 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Don’t give up on God and love God has great pans for you, don’t give up mum.

  • @qelseykenya3933
    @qelseykenya3933 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So sorry 😢

  • @hanansalim6983
    @hanansalim6983 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Omg ..this is so sad😭😭😭😭

  • @phelisterwanja7269
    @phelisterwanja7269 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Seems your aunt didn't love your mum,who does that?Shame on her,what did the child her do to be taken through all this?😢. Pole sana Kavata,God will take you far.

  • @missngai6135
    @missngai6135 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Life is spiritual, the bible says we perish for lack of knowledge, these are evil patterns and altars of rejection following you my sister, from father rejecting you and beating you up, the auntie mistreating you and other family members, its now pouring out to marriage, pray and disconnect yourself from this, pray for deliverance, God is faithful he answers and delivers. Do it now that it will not follow your children and generations to come, all the best and sorry for all you went through, it shall be well.

  • @rudolphharrigan1804
    @rudolphharrigan1804 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow this is very sad so sorry for this sad story

  • @millicentmaina3687
    @millicentmaina3687 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Looks great and very eloquent

  • @Ravvy871.
    @Ravvy871. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hugs gal

  • @benendettakiilu9910
    @benendettakiilu9910 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hugs girl.......eeeeeei

  • @DonCharmeur-zz6he
    @DonCharmeur-zz6he 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Weeeh😢😢😢Kav I don't see what to say😢Aki si umepitia mengi jameni,😢

  • @emilykimani872
    @emilykimani872 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great talk that's my life I really relate copy paste

  • @ceciliamueni5483
    @ceciliamueni5483 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm so sorry sweety it is well. Just forgive and let go

  • @decoloniz_afro
    @decoloniz_afro 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    🙆🙆🙆luos were just chilling

  • @ambinya
    @ambinya 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I remember this so sad story when i was young, i cursed that man like i knew him. I actually made my mom buy gazeti everyday ndio nijue kama Kavata alipona and when she died i really cried alot nikama i knew her personally. Kavata's unfortunate death made me promise maself to never allow any man disrespect me in any way let alone beat me. Mueni i pray that God blesses you with peace of mind and heart. I pray that you heal from all these pain. Love and light to you.❤

  • @its_jaywes
    @its_jaywes 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Following. 💔😢

  • @irinesatia2048
    @irinesatia2048 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Kavata I really admire your strength may God continue giving you peace

  • @phillipsidhojapap1461
    @phillipsidhojapap1461 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Don't put down Kibe, he speaks the truth. Some would say some of these women channels are toxic. Your last man was just evil, but used advice from kibe to justify his deeds. Same as how people use the bible to justify wrongdoing. In fact, my advice is if you listen to Kibe, you'll understand how men and women think. He is one of the most woke individual out there. Plus, I would say next time heal before getting into a committed relationship. Because most times if you haven't healed, you'll likely attract another broken person as you. Toxicity attracts toxicity

    • @getnakedwithlydia
      @getnakedwithlydia  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      We get to decide who we like and listen to!

    • @phillipsidhojapap1461
      @phillipsidhojapap1461 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@getnakedwithlydia madam, I made a suggestion. If you don't like, don't. Just as you asked/pleaded with people to subscribe and listen to you and some did. You now boast a small listener-ship thanks to Lynn

    • @phillipsidhojapap1461
      @phillipsidhojapap1461 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@getnakedwithlydia just ask yourself, if you started a podcast like kibe, would you get an audience of his size? Kibe generates his own content. he is in his own league. your level is hosting others with content

    • @esthernjeri3863
      @esthernjeri3863 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@phillipsidhojapap1461let people be.do not compare to other

  • @0sengoshikondi.junior451
    @0sengoshikondi.junior451 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Luhyas we are the best men when we truly love..

  • @fredTek
    @fredTek 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    kwanini wanawake wa kenya mnapenda ketesa watoto mayatima ? halafu sisi wanaume mnataka tuoe single mothers
    mko na tabia za kuichawi hadi my child cannot live with another woman

  • @nawirelynnett9245
    @nawirelynnett9245 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hugs Kavs ❤❤❤...you are a gem

  • @l.kcurtaindecors9727
    @l.kcurtaindecors9727 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Some relatives are devil😢

  • @monikahoile6009
    @monikahoile6009 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Why mistreat a child aki?

    • @getnakedwithlydia
      @getnakedwithlydia  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Some People are psychopaths and soo toxic!

  • @janekogi6442
    @janekogi6442 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She was very insecure,and so suspicious

  • @user-dw2vl8cq7o
    @user-dw2vl8cq7o 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Pole sauna for what you went through when Enoch passed on....most widows or partners go through that. On a lighter note you don't look and talk like a Police officer...just like. there are good and bad men ( people ) in all tribes😂😂

  • @eunice-gi7ze
    @eunice-gi7ze 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😢😢😢 I have nothing to say

  • @catherinenjoki9378
    @catherinenjoki9378 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That's the way most inter tribal end in Kenya

  • @suegreg8040
    @suegreg8040 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bipolar ingine ni ya kujiwekelea

  • @zipporahmuthoni6263
    @zipporahmuthoni6263 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    😭😭😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @elonkagotho9667
    @elonkagotho9667 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow beautiful girl

  • @ceciliamueni5483
    @ceciliamueni5483 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My friend from way back Charlotte

  • @linetkhavugwi209
    @linetkhavugwi209 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So 😔 walai