Marriage as Consecrated Friendship

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  • @arialuv6894
    @arialuv6894 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Father's words brought me to tears twice today, and he's simply laughing when he speaks this wisdom. Praise God

  • @henrybarrett1292
    @henrybarrett1292 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My wife is truly by God’s grace my best friend. Praise God!!!

  • @Dom_Alexander
    @Dom_Alexander ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Thank you Father for this reflection

  • @thattimestampguy
    @thattimestampguy ปีที่แล้ว +24

    0:07 Marriage as Consecrated Friendship. From The Life of St. Seraphim of Sarov. A Great Ascetic, A Great Monk yearing for God.
    0:47 St. Seraphim had a great love and appreciation for Marriage
    1:10 St. Seraphim of Sarov interaction with his Spiritual Son, Nicholas Motovilov
    2:15 Heart Instructions.
    2:47 Consoling Nicholas' Grief. 3:13
    3:41 Consecrate an 8 Year Old to Nicholas Motovilov? How?
    4:25 In Friendship. Marry Her.
    4:46 She is like an angel. 6:34
    5:11 Don't be ashamed she is a simple peasant.
    5:47 Consecrated Friendship.

    • @American-Jello
      @American-Jello ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I appreciate you so much, That Time Stamp Guy. I'm so grateful we watch the same videos.

  • @chrisasterion5050
    @chrisasterion5050 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    when one stops using their own mind to solve issues & simply gives in to God's plan, they will never be unhappy, for which father when their child is hungry doesn't feed them to stave off hunger, sometimes though a father may have the child go without for a while, for a lesson is in the making....

  • @matthewbrooks5756
    @matthewbrooks5756 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A phenomenal reflection as always Father. Thank you and please pray for us 🙏🏻 ☦️

  • @Orthodoxi
    @Orthodoxi ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Oh to see his light flowing through this. The undying light. Brimming in joy.
    Glory to God. Glory to St. Seraphim.

  • @IOANNIS132
    @IOANNIS132 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was beautiful and THANKYOU dear Pappa.

  • @cyberpunkworld
    @cyberpunkworld ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God Bless. For us caucasians, emotional responses are well studied by now.

  • @kittyasmr6465
    @kittyasmr6465 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is a bit strange to hear. I would love to hear you talk more about their relationship, Fr. Seraphim and his spiritual child and his future wife, or perhaps where can I read a detailed account?

    • @guineapig55555
      @guineapig55555 ปีที่แล้ว

      look up "The day of remembrance of Elena Ivanovna Motovilova" as youtube doesn't allow links

  • @Magdalena-ow7gy
    @Magdalena-ow7gy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Many of us women marry men older than us.... where is the creepiness? Hearing it worded that she was 8 , doesn't sound creepy by the time both are in adulthood

  • @Michael_the_Drunkard
    @Michael_the_Drunkard ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The comments are open?

  • @mega3whatt
    @mega3whatt ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Father when did they get married?

    • @guineapig55555
      @guineapig55555 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ....look up "The day of remembrance of Elena Ivanovna Motovilova" as youtube doesn't allow links..

    • @emolovesblack28
      @emolovesblack28 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@guineapig55555 I can’t find anything, are there any other search terms?

  • @arkrou
    @arkrou ปีที่แล้ว

    Where do we read about the part where Seraphim of Sarov told his disciple that the woman was not right for him?

  • @jackzarour6009
    @jackzarour6009 ปีที่แล้ว

    St. Seraphim of Sarov's Conversation With Nicholas Motovilov Part 1 on TH-cam has the story

    • @henrybarrett1292
      @henrybarrett1292 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Forgive me, but I listened to the wonderful reading of this conversation you referenced and reviewed the transcript twice, but did not find the section on Motovilov’s marriage. Might you provide more detail?

    • @guineapig55555
      @guineapig55555 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@henrybarrett1292~~ look up "The day of remembrance of Elena Ivanovna Motovilova" as youtube doesn't allow links.

  • @jacehedrick7908
    @jacehedrick7908 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Is this young bride to be the woman who will eventually go on to give Saint Seraphim’s letter to Tsar Nicholas?

  • @donhaddix3770
    @donhaddix3770 หลายเดือนก่อน

    far more than frindship. union. 52 years for me

  • @Hoodinator17
    @Hoodinator17 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    8 yrs old?

    • @neptunetriton
      @neptunetriton ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She was 8yrs old at the time the conversation between Nicholas (who was also young) and St Seraphim occurred. Nicholas was disappointed because he wanted to marry a different woman right away, not wait until someone who was currently 8yrs old became old enough to marry (at age 16 in those days)

    • @badgalyaya2303
      @badgalyaya2303 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How old was Nicolas? At the time of this situation

    • @guineapig55555
      @guineapig55555 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@badgalyaya2303 ---look up "The day of remembrance of Elena Ivanovna Motovilova" as youtube doesn't allow links-----

  • @jacobkeltz3584
    @jacobkeltz3584 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Father, I like the message of the talk, but that story is just creepy. What am I missing?

  • @sistemasrbija
    @sistemasrbija ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good Father Josiah, the title of your video might be construed as something else or taken to mean something totally different. Marriage is marriage. We are today witness to probably the greatest attack on Christianity that we've seen since iconoclasm - the push to 'sanctify' same-sex unions. The anglicans folded after 48 hours of pressure just what, last month ? I've followed your work for a while and I know where you stand. What you are saying here though, probably meant for the audience who have the ears to hear and truly understand the message - can easily be taken out of context and misused. I dare to imagine - "Fr. Josiah reduced marriage to friendship", "It's OK to marry my friend" - or even worse, someone will extrapolate the example there given "her forefather Adam" (thereby undoing the class hierarchy, or worldly false divides) to include sex as a 'false division'. Forgive me for sounding rude or presuming more than my own station, but please do be careful. Marriage is Marriage, friendship is friendship and perhaps something got lost in translation.

  • @elmartell5724
    @elmartell5724 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "His true bride was 8 years old at that time... It's an amazing story"
    🤢🤢
    What the hell have I stumbled into?

    • @TheRecoveringNous
      @TheRecoveringNous ปีที่แล้ว +17

      They got married 9 years later.

    • @bananewane1402
      @bananewane1402 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The messed up part is these people will call gay and trans people “groomers” all day and night but then this actual story of grooming, it’s like they can’t see what’s wrong with it. I don’t think they actually understand what the word “grooming” means. They should be up in arms about this.

    • @TheRecoveringNous
      @TheRecoveringNous 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@bananewane1402 Predicting that it will be God's will for someone to marry a certain person someday and then proceeding to have no influence on that happening almost a decade later is not comparable to introducing children's impressionable minds to certain destructive ideas and images via attendance of certain rallies and frankly traumatic curriculum and books in public education. The former has not been abnormal for thousands of years and there was no dispute that the latter is abuse up until only a few short years ago. The standard you're using to determine that the former is "messed up" is simply a distorted moral framework inherited from Western Christians that continues to increasingly lose touch with its grounding principle of the Logos and thus will continue to become more and more "progressive" i.e. revolutionary in its judgements and will likewise continue to repeatedly become unrecognizable to its proponents with every step it takes into the future. Postmodern philosophy has no idea what will be immoral tomorrow. The Logos remains the same no matter how much our various ideologies and traditions may change over time.

  • @starstray4326
    @starstray4326 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really wish to get married