Kitu nimelearn kwa social media ni usiwahi cheka mtu wakati ako kwa shida tables turn,nomatter who you are..Leo ni yy kesho inaweza kuwa ni wewe ama your closest family member!pole penny may you heal and find peace
Yes people who never dealt with narcissist men can't understand this type of relationship is had to quit because you trauma bond with the behaviour and you still feel lovin him
Pole peninah .my inlaws waniweelelea mambo when I left their family. They had contributed a lot to me separating to my husband. But God has been faithful .Mungu akuonekanie
The fact that he had multiple suicidal ideations was an indication of a deep rooted mental disorder that was never understood. MH is not well understood sadly he needed to be in a mental institution. Another reason is wicked in-laws the hubby loved his wife too much but wicked in-laws interferences caused his brain to be conflicted and the pain was too much for him to handle. This can cause psychotic incidents which made him want to kill his wife and himself to take away his pain. Mama it’s not not your fault have peace ✌🏾
Those who say she should not have worked harder than the husband I am not sure who indoctrinated them to think that a woman's job is to be bare feet and pregnant with an outstretched hand begging for the husband to provide. A secure man is supportive of the wife's hustle and is her greatest cheerleader. I cannot see how her hard work was detrimental to the relationship. It seems like he had a mental health issue which got worse when he was intoxicated. Mental health is a cause of many suicide cases and also those threatening to commit the same. Many countries have suicide helplines toll free. I hope one day Kenya will invest in the service to make it easily available.
Huyu mwanamme he was either abusing bangi ama alikuwa kichaa. Peninah you are a hardworking woman and you shall heal and thank God that this man died . He would have killed you and dinied you a chance to bring up your kids .
Got chills when she said if he didn't die maybe wangekua washarudiana😮😮😮.....i think the guy had an undiagnosed mental illness that went untreated for a long time.....i also hope she and her children heal, this is a lesson for all.....life sends you warnings in whispers, then it becomes an actual voice maybe through other peope....if you still ignore, then life will be very loud and very shocking....you won't be able to be the same again....EVER
This is common when you marry a emotionally insecure person,who becomes excessively jealous to his or her partner to an extend of killing the other partner when they think they are about to be left,they develope narcissist pschotic behaviors, very common to men who are unstable and their partner are stable, they feel insecure In such relationship
Hugs mum it is well take heart may you get healed with your kids . You have spoken well what ever you sow some day you will reap. May the Almighty God strengthen you and your kids and over come
Peninsula I can imagine what you went through and how you are hurting after the death of your husband, I went through the same with my in-laws but I have healed and forgiven but Karma does not forget the address of the oppressors .May God heal you mama and your children
Peninah is a great lady that has gone through a lot even after being a very hard working lady and above all very blessed because clearly God loves her, and it is evident that her in laws need to reflect and know that they failed in advising their son, however the truth will always prevail no matter how much they keep lying to themselves. Peninah God loves you and will continue blessing you because you are innocent. The Grace of GOD is sufficient for you. When time allows get some counselling lessons for the young children because it will be helpful for their future.
Sending love and prayers Peninah. God is the just judge.He knows it all and is your witness. Ensure you and the kids go thru counselling and move on................
Sister you're not still Healed kindly sarround yourself with positive attitude people. May God strengthen you and fill you with joy and you got strong sister. You very have strong sisters and young family. After giving your life to JESUS you needs Deliverance from soul ties si that you will be set free to have a new man/Husband. Sister please alway go to God Alter with a sacrifice to be set free from Bondages of living in pain rejection,kunyimwa haki,and children to be set free dreaming with their late Dad. Peninnah kindly be strong to be set free because if the late Husband he is seen visiting spiritually it can make Peninnah not to love anyone man or not to have a man because of spiritual Husband. Peninnah have time to get out sometimes and go meetings like women conferences,church fellowships,go places where there many people like towns to have fresh air,visit other women who lost their Husband and they are Healed. Sister Peninnah love yourself,you're sooo beautiful and a very brave and a strong woman.
Mental illness is what I can read on every occasion he brought up a fight. The crying he did was a call for help. It saddens that in 2023, Kenya has no Mental health awareness. Some mental health issues are hereditary thus I would advise Pauline to see a Psychiatrist, her children too. Break that chain of untreated mental health in families. You are not alone, in therapy, you will find many people worse than you. You have already been crucified, gossiped about, accused, beaten, cut among others. YOU NEED HELP. Before you reply to this comment, have DSM- 5 TR with you, then we can have a back-and-forth.
Lesson: never take over husband duties. Their ego is very ry fragile. Such a man feels very threatened and easily result to abuse and self harm. They feel useless and jealous in equal measure. Ondokea haraka sana. Hugs a lot Penina , a true muranga sister. Every new day will be better ,hang on there. You were too strong for him
I left my husband juu ya hio upuzi ..he used to be insecure hata nikienda msalani...... biashara yoyote ...was a threat to him...I had to call it Quits 🥺🥺🥺
It is all well Pesh, take heart and may you get healed with your kids and just believ that Pesh you shall overcome. Yu love this man tena mumekapitia sana naye behind those curtains and only you and him knows that. No one can understand what you feel coz of loosing him, He was ya man no matter what we say. Allow me to call you “Kihiki understanding” - with goodheart lakini My take gutiri hindi ungikenia andu aathi othe. Maisha ni maku. When death occurs only God knows and allow it. May be if your man never left the game it could have been you and your kids he could have sent them express to tha creator as he used to say. Kihiki understanding you are beautiful still you are young uko na bidii yako. Mytake “usikose kuolewa ati uishi maisha yakunjindanganya, ukijiambia ati watu watesema hivi ama vile” Pple will always talk. Raha njipe. Your joy comes just from you not from any one else. Do gud they will talk do bad they will talk mo. All in all pole sana juu ya watoto kuto zika baba yao
This guy had a mental issue or he was doing drugs. This lady looks a happy soul..may she find peace. This was such a toxic relationship. Thank God He saved this lady. This was a psychopath. And this evil lying inlaws are piece of work. And they rem malipo ni hapa hapa. This kenyan cops are sick
Peninah you are vindicated.It’s unfortunate that our communities are so ignorant of listening and making a sound judgement.From your side of the story it’s crystal clear that you loved your late husband despite his queer unpredictable violent actions.Chronic mental illnesses/conditions are an epidemic that are sweeping across villages,states,towns and nations.Some symptoms show up at a very young age but most of the family members shy from disclosing them to others and Or health professionals.This could have been the case to your late husband but nobody knows.However it is what it is and the best thing is to pray,forgive and move on.
Peninah you are strong.hiyo mambo yote imepitishiwa na baba na finally been accuse of killing him..rejection from the community and you are still strong...as peninah said..maa igutura iri maa na kiria wahanda itereria mai maa tondu no ukagetha....
This case is why it is important to de-stigmatize mental health. The constant high and lows of the husband, his inability to hold down a job and the constant drinking, suicide ideation, violent outburst, coupled with what could be described as symptoms of depression are indicative of cluster B personality disorder, which is manageable with the right kind of treatment and medication. I think his parents knew that he was not like everyone else but they also did not understand mental health and were just hoping to pray it away or hoping that the "right" kind of woman will "fix" him, and when she didn't (obviously couldn't because that is not how it works) they blamed her for his behavior. Can we please have serious conversations about mental health in this country!
Such a strong woman. Thank God he did not manage to kill her coz oh my God the kids would have been left orphans coz believe you me he would have killed her and still kill himself. Much love Penninah❤
the guy was much commited to his family and was soo good but seems to have some mental disorder if not sime spiritual attack of the family failed to address
At times the production team in charge of editing experience difficulties especially if the story was to be devided.... it's not entirely on Monica and how people vent out here don't seem to put into consideration about that
Hard working women sometimes go through alot. So sad for that family.
Peninnah is a strong woman from the beginning. You will overcome my dear. Sending lots of love and light your way ♥️ and also to your children. Hugs.
Ni vizuri uuze huko na uhame uondokee madui
Toxic marriages end up in death or suicidal, and most cases family members usema ni bibi or bwana ameuana. Her case is similar to Diana Kamande 😢.
In laws are the greatest enemies on this earth
why talk the truth.....
This is soo true
💯 kabisa
True iam also in this situation I escaped death a month ago I don't know how to move out nobody understands me
@@CharityNdumiakindly think about your children if not you. Please run for your dear life.
Kitu nimelearn kwa social media ni usiwahi cheka mtu wakati ako kwa shida tables turn,nomatter who you are..Leo ni yy kesho inaweza kuwa ni wewe ama your closest family member!pole penny may you heal and find peace
Yes people who never dealt with narcissist men can't understand this type of relationship is had to quit because you trauma bond with the behaviour and you still feel lovin him
Peninah your are very strong and hardworking woman.May God see you through and keep strong.
Such a story gives me chills. Thank you God for vindicating your loved ones. May they find help in the form of counseling to bring closure.
Whenever the brother appeared... There was a fight.. is there a connection?🤔
Kagoni link her with Lynn’s therapist . Her and her children need it
I will never took other things easy,Ukiskia mtu akikwambia atakumalizia, walk walk walk,I understand penninah story
Thanks monicah for airing this as we requested,hujatuweka Kama last time
Take courage Peninah.
God will strengthen and bless you with your children 🙏🙏
peninah am so sorry what you have gone through God will pay you,you were my best customer ukiwa carwash
May God protect peninah and her kids . Ningekuwa yeye Ningehama huko kabisa
Great job Monica dear♥️, fresh content not seen in other channels, God bless your work.
She’s beautiful and handworking woman May God give her peace
Pray for the baby to stop the spirit of the dead communicating with her
This guy seems to have had a mental issue that was not addressed. Family might have not understood or knew about and didn’t know what to do
Pole peninah .my inlaws waniweelelea mambo when I left their family. They had contributed a lot to me separating to my husband. But God has been faithful .Mungu akuonekanie
Peninnah you are a strong woman, may God heal you and your children
Went through the same situation but thanks to God am healed single mum .... to Penninah may God give you peace
Monica umeskia kilio Cha sisi wanyonge ukaleta part 2 the following day! 😂😂😂😂
aki, 😂😂
The fact that he had multiple suicidal ideations was an indication of a deep rooted mental disorder that was never understood. MH is not well understood sadly he needed to be in a mental institution. Another reason is wicked in-laws the hubby loved his wife too much but wicked in-laws interferences caused his brain to be conflicted and the pain was too much for him to handle. This can cause psychotic incidents which made him want to kill his wife and himself to take away his pain. Mama it’s not not your fault have peace ✌🏾
I agree this was a mental sickness case
Those who say she should not have worked harder than the husband I am not sure who indoctrinated them to think that a woman's job is to be bare feet and pregnant with an outstretched hand begging for the husband to provide. A secure man is supportive of the wife's hustle and is her greatest cheerleader. I cannot see how her hard work was detrimental to the relationship. It seems like he had a mental health issue which got worse when he was intoxicated. Mental health is a cause of many suicide cases and also those threatening to commit the same. Many countries have suicide helplines toll free. I hope one day Kenya will invest in the service to make it easily available.
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True imagine if she wasn't doing anything the in laws would have taken everything and they would be suffering right now with the children
Huyu mwanamme he was either abusing bangi ama alikuwa kichaa. Peninah you are a hardworking woman and you shall heal and thank God that this man died . He would have killed you and dinied you a chance to bring up your kids .
Peninah you are a strong lady🙏 God bless you
Got chills when she said if he didn't die maybe wangekua washarudiana😮😮😮.....i think the guy had an undiagnosed mental illness that went untreated for a long time.....i also hope she and her children heal, this is a lesson for all.....life sends you warnings in whispers, then it becomes an actual voice maybe through other peope....if you still ignore, then life will be very loud and very shocking....you won't be able to be the same again....EVER
My though too ama kuvuta bangi
Hi Monica plis take this lady for counselling to bring out of this dilema
Very genuine story .it can tell itself ✍️
Pole sana kairitu.jipe nguvu na u will heal in Jesus name
Thengio Monicah nigwathika ukaleta part 2 the next day
She seems like a good person,GOD bless you peninah.
Saaana,this a good lady...roho juu,naa roho safiiiii
This is common when you marry a emotionally insecure person,who becomes excessively jealous to his or her partner to an extend of killing the other partner when they think they are about to be left,they develope narcissist pschotic behaviors, very common to men who are unstable and their partner are stable, they feel insecure In such relationship
Hugs mum it is well take heart may you get healed with your kids . You have spoken well what ever you sow some day you will reap. May the Almighty God strengthen you and your kids and over come
This Is so sad , pole sana Penninah you are a strong woman , aki the things women go through …… but God Is faithful .
You are a strong woman, hiyo mwanamme alikua mgonjwa WA akili ama poor parenting.
I feel that if he had not died, you would still be with him! Is that love!?
PENINA YOU A STRONG WOMAN. MAY GOD HEAL YOU
Peninsula I can imagine what you went through and how you are hurting after the death of your husband, I went through the same with my in-laws but I have healed and forgiven but Karma does not forget the address of the oppressors .May God heal you mama and your children
Peninah is a great lady that has gone through a lot even after being a very hard working lady and above all very blessed because clearly God loves her, and it is evident that her in laws need to reflect and know that they failed in advising their son, however the truth will always prevail no matter how much they keep lying to themselves. Peninah God loves you and will continue blessing you because you are innocent. The Grace of GOD is sufficient for you. When time allows get some counselling lessons for the young children because it will be helpful for their future.
Painful story Peninah your strong woman umesaidia wamama ata wanaume wanapitia
Pole Sana! Husband must have been suffering mental illness. " schizophrenia" unpredictable.
What a life fully of vituko and tragic outcome. May God's grace be with this lady and give strength a to bring up her children.
Sending love and prayers Peninah.
God is the just judge.He knows it all and is your witness.
Ensure you and the kids go thru counselling and move on................
Pole sana mama may the grace of God give you comfort to overcome and move on
Hio jogoo haitaki kungoja Christmas 😂😂😂
Sister you're not still Healed kindly sarround yourself with positive attitude people.
May God strengthen you and fill you with joy and you got strong sister.
You very have strong sisters and young family.
After giving your life to JESUS you needs Deliverance from soul ties si that you will be set free to have a new man/Husband.
Sister please alway go to God Alter with a sacrifice to be set free from Bondages of living in pain rejection,kunyimwa haki,and children to be set free dreaming with their late Dad.
Peninnah kindly be strong to be set free because if the late Husband he is seen visiting spiritually it can make Peninnah not to love anyone man or not to have a man because of spiritual Husband.
Peninnah have time to get out sometimes and go meetings like women conferences,church fellowships,go places where there many people like towns to have fresh air,visit other women who lost their Husband and they are Healed.
Sister Peninnah love yourself,you're sooo beautiful and a very brave and a strong woman.
Mental illness is what I can read on every occasion he brought up a fight. The crying he did was a call for help. It saddens that in 2023, Kenya has no Mental health awareness. Some mental health issues are hereditary thus I would advise Pauline to see a Psychiatrist, her children too. Break that chain of untreated mental health in families. You are not alone, in therapy, you will find many people worse than you. You have already been crucified, gossiped about, accused, beaten, cut among others. YOU NEED HELP. Before you reply to this comment, have DSM- 5 TR with you, then we can have a back-and-forth.
Innocent, some inlaws belong to Jehanam, I can relate to what am going through. Pole sana Penninah.
Lesson: never take over husband duties. Their ego is very ry fragile. Such a man feels very threatened and easily result to abuse and self harm. They feel useless and jealous in equal measure. Ondokea haraka sana. Hugs a lot Penina , a true muranga sister. Every new day will be better ,hang on there. You were too strong for him
Such a strong girl.her weeping is heartbreaking.
Kuondokea ndio solution.especially when you have a man who is unstable and you are strong woman.He will do better without you.
I left my husband juu ya hio upuzi ..he used to be insecure hata nikienda msalani...... biashara yoyote ...was a threat to him...I had to call it Quits 🥺🥺🥺
Nima ouguo auga, kiria uhandaga nokio ukagetha. May God grant her and her children peace.
Am glad that you have posted part two immediately
Ooh God, as you embrace da broke hearted souls this morning, remember Peninah nd her kids, strength, Grace is all we pray to be her portion. Amen
It is all well Pesh, take heart and may you get healed with your kids and just believ that Pesh you shall overcome. Yu love this man tena mumekapitia sana naye behind those curtains and only you and him knows that. No one can understand what you feel coz of loosing him, He was ya man no matter what we say. Allow me to call you “Kihiki understanding” - with goodheart lakini
My take gutiri hindi ungikenia andu aathi othe. Maisha ni maku. When death occurs only God knows and allow it. May be if your man never left the game it could have been you and your kids he could have sent them express to tha creator as he used to say.
Kihiki understanding you are beautiful still you are young uko na bidii yako.
Mytake “usikose kuolewa ati uishi maisha yakunjindanganya, ukijiambia ati watu watesema hivi ama vile” Pple will always talk. Raha njipe. Your joy comes just from you not from any one else. Do gud they will talk do bad they will talk mo.
All in all pole sana juu ya watoto kuto zika baba yao
Great job Monica ,
Society hates women......she was beaten nearly to death and after the death of his husband she was blamed
Painful 😢
Oiye😢
Aki pole Sana my sister but God is watching.
This guy had a mental issue or he was doing drugs. This lady looks a happy soul..may she find peace. This was such a toxic relationship. Thank God He saved this lady. This was a psychopath.
And this evil lying inlaws are piece of work. And they rem malipo ni hapa hapa. This kenyan cops are sick
You were very strong gal for real , thankyou God you are alive ,
Waah,, pole sana peninah.
Shinda ilikuwa hakuna kitu watadai juu nyumba ...kazi ni za wife hawawezi kumnyaganya......
Very true coz zingekuwa za bwana, angeaambiwa niyeye ameplan kumuua ndio abaki na mali.
Please sister Penny, take that child to therapy
Nice job Monica. She is a strong woman
Such stories make me so sick! How you stay on after brutality is beyond me 😢😢😢
Penina you shall overcome.i shed a tear as i listened to you..
This is so sad for the family . But people in abusive marriage or relationships need to step out those situations on seeing first signs of abuse aki.
Mulimu wa muchoka niguo uninaga mundu
Depression with suicidal thoughts, let us not live in denial coz it affects the significant others. Be a brother keeper and seek help let's speak out.
Peninah you are vindicated.It’s unfortunate that our communities are so ignorant of listening and making a sound judgement.From your side of the story it’s crystal clear that you loved your late husband despite his queer unpredictable violent actions.Chronic mental illnesses/conditions are an epidemic that are sweeping across villages,states,towns and nations.Some symptoms show up at a very young age but most of the family members shy from disclosing them to others and Or health professionals.This could have been the case to your late husband but nobody knows.However it is what it is and the best thing is to pray,forgive and move on.
It's well mama .that man did not deserve an angel like you
Peninah you are strong.hiyo mambo yote imepitishiwa na baba na finally been accuse of killing him..rejection from the community and you are still strong...as peninah said..maa igutura iri maa na kiria wahanda itereria mai maa tondu no ukagetha....
I dont have words but sending you hugs peninah..n ur very beautiful
Hio Jacket ilikuwa na evi power 😢
Pole sana Peninah
Penny pole sana Jehovah niwe wonaga hithoini sis wehehinya ta mwana wa kairetu songa mbele.soma afilipi4:6,7 plz.
Wûûûi Peninah, Mwathani aromûhe thayû, we na ciana ciaku.
I went through hell n yet I was not married but I thank God nîatharire am single n happy waiting for my time
Me too relationship with a narcissist
Pennine be strong my sister,poa mimi Kuna wakati nilipitia hayo lakini wangu hakukufa after aliongea,fact remains fact
Ooh pole sana, l didn't know you lost him, lt shall be well
I'm in maaimahiu and I never heard of this story pole. Sana Peninah it is well
This case is why it is important to de-stigmatize mental health. The constant high and lows of the husband, his inability to hold down a job and the constant drinking, suicide ideation, violent outburst, coupled with what could be described as symptoms of depression are indicative of cluster B personality disorder, which is manageable with the right kind of treatment and medication. I think his parents knew that he was not like everyone else but they also did not understand mental health and were just hoping to pray it away or hoping that the "right" kind of woman will "fix" him, and when she didn't (obviously couldn't because that is not how it works) they blamed her for his behavior.
Can we please have serious conversations about mental health in this country!
Sorry penina but if am the one can sell n move from that area
Your a strong woman. Leave it all to God.
Such a strong woman. Thank God he did not manage to kill her coz oh my God the kids would have been left orphans coz believe you me he would have killed her and still kill himself. Much love Penninah❤
Team strong 💪 👏 ❤️ 💙 waiting ✋️ 💪 💙
Peninah your are strong woman ,,may God strengthen you always
Hiyo Jacket ilikua ina evil powers
Aky
I honestly pity the children I feel they need therapy more. May God watch over them and give them closure
Anyone that destroys ones life with lies take it as a loan cuz it will come back with interest
Be strong woman keep on moving on ,,focus on your goals , everything will be fine.
Hugs dear n b strong because of your kids
May God heal her heart l know inlaw can be something else 🙏
Penina mungu anakupenda....
My uncle did the same but my aunt ran away from him and later he hunged himself later but my aunty and my nephew and nieces were saved
Kuna spirit ilikua inafuta huyo jamaa
the guy was much commited to his family and was soo good but seems to have some mental disorder if not sime spiritual attack of the family failed to address
why do hardworking woman suffer
Pole sana mamaa
At times the production team in charge of editing experience difficulties especially if the story was to be devided.... it's not entirely on Monica and how people vent out here don't seem to put into consideration about that
Very strong woman you shall overcome