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I actually did the work, roofing,painting, kept the cars detailed, the yard cooked and laundry this lady told me i wasn't doing enough,i told her i'm tired after work plus was starting a business, she destroyed that
I LEARNED TO LET EVERYONE SHOW ME WHO THEY ARE. ESPECIALLY FEMALES. ALSO, UNFORTUNATELY, MOST PEOPLE TRY TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF A PERSON THAT THEY PERCEIVE AS "GOOD" BECAUSE THEY OFTEN VIEW A VIRTUOUS PERSON AS WEAK.
Trust no one. I went to jail at 16 , even though I changed my life I swiftly realized "regular" people will NEVER respect you, which is cool. Always knew all skinned folks ain't kin folk
0:56 men are finally realizing women either want a rich dude with money who got a lot of hoz or they want a bum who’s at home while they work like Jody from baby boy no in between they love toxic relationships 😂😂
@@StaticbeyfrmSemoran that’s most guys who grew up in the hood and he represents alot of dudes who get women but still live with their mom and have a baby mom and can get other women even tho women might say they don’t want that type of guy it’s usually who they end up having a kid with ironically 🤷🏾♂️ 😂
I've told every guy who is about to get married and seems naive to leave something undone. Maybe don't do the laundry. Something tangible that she can complain about. Because she has to complain about something and if you do everything perfectly, she may find something to complain about that you can't change - like she suddenly doesn't like your nose.
I can tell you from experience being a good man to a woman gets you no where if they are not used to being treated good they will never appreciate it make her happy and treat her like shit like every other she’s been with
Don't get married... just enjoy a women for a period of time and keep it moving. If you have a kid, the kid needs to be raised with you, the man, not the woman.
JR, it's "The Scorpion and the Frog", but that's not the one you meant. It's the other one you referred to, "The Farmer and the Viper" by Aesop. In that one, the farmer picks up an almost frozen/dead viper and puts it in his coat to warm it up. When it warms up and recovers, it strikes and kills the farmer, who realizes his mistake. The moral of the story is kindness shown to evil will always be met with betrayal. Sure sounds like modern relationships to me (don't be the farmer, let the viper freeze to death).
I think it's the minority not the majority. Most want drama and chaos, that's what their used to. A man who brings a peaceful environment to his woman is considered lame or boring. It just is what it is. Or you gotta deal with the ones who will tell you how damaged they are from previous relationships with more than likely the hood dudes and thugs, now u have to deal with someone that always has their guard up, and whatever u do isn't good enough. This is just the reality of what the majority of "good men" have to deal with.
Most only want a good man to come along and fix her life after it's in turmoil. Good is seen as "weak" to most women. Very few women in the West are worthy of marriage.
4:44 mann this, relationships is about trust if you cant even let yo guard down enough to trust me then why am I wasting my time putting mine down while you do me as dirty as yo dude did you because of what you been through.
I love a good strong hardworking man. I love to do my duties as a wife by cooking, cleaning, being very supportive and pleasing him sometimes, I do those things for my husband. I'm the opposite of those modern women, when I love, I love very hard. I love being feminine and he be the masculine person. Thank you Mr. JR Wisdom. I love long-term relationships.
Yeah no f that. I already did that and held down a fulltime job. She still wasn’t happy and burned my house down. So now I don’t trust any of them and ain’t doing a goddamn thing for them. I give them 100% of nothing, let them go work for Daddy government.
You guys have to remember that many of your generation were born to young single mothers who had no idea how life works and what they should have taught the women that you are trying to date. Thank you for this channel so that you can teach your generation how relationships should work. There should be more channels like this. We are living in a different world.
I've learned that most women DON'T want the responsibility that comes with a healthy relationship, becasue that require accountability to themselves ot the man. The women that do have not problem with being accountable are mature emotionally, do not waste their time on troubled men and know that a healthy relationship requires grace and effort.
I think those women shouldnt chose those men because they are good. Because you cant negotiate genuine désire. I say women should have free will to chose what they want. Good or bad
The 304 phase never ends as long as she is healthy. She just becomes more subtle with her actions. Cats never bark and dogs never meow. A 304 is a permanent state of being.
You have to get to the level the way you and her staying together for her even see that if she just met you and she already moved you in I don't think I want to be involved with that woman
I've seen this all too often. And to the man, it makes no logical sense, especially the man who's trying to legit make things work. To the knucklehead, it makes perfect sense because he's used to her being and doing everything, all for the sake of his nothingness.
The problem is that they're choosing the wrong ones.... this must be a GEN Z THING or Millennials. Because I promise you the older generations aren't like that. And to be honest the younger generations are not on that level. They are not putting forth that much effort.
Look up grey divorce. Boomers and Gen X's are definitely like that. I think most of the bs going on today was either inspired by or encouraged by Gen X smdh. Look are your Gen X relatives and see how many of them are in healthy or happy relationships long term
At 3:32 he says its very RARE to find a man who's NOT going to beat you up, curse you out, belittle you etc and yet the discussion is about women?!?! Uhmmmm its seems like there's a bigger issue at play.
Imma keep it a buck - some of yall don’t want actual relationships and you’re just looking for “service” providers. People come with trauma. People come with hang ups. People come with all types of things that are part of their lived experiences. If you don’t want to be there for that, just leave it be. Also, women aren’t vending machines that, if you give enough money or do enough things for will lead to them having sex with you. Do things because you want to do them and stop always expecting that you’re going to get something out of doing enough or giving enough. Unless you have some sort of agreement already established - if I give you x,y, and z you’ll do x, y, and z for me - you’re not entitled to anything. Some of yall be so bitter because you have expectations in your head of giving enough or doing enough is going to lead to some outcome that you have and it doesn’t work that way. If you’re doing something to get an outcome, make that known ahead of time so that the other person knows and can let you know if that’s even possible. Otherwise, do things because you want to with no expectations.
Provision, kindness, respect, acts of service etc. These things are good for a relationship. But have NOTHING to do with actual attraction. This is why it seems women dont want these things. They do want them, but from a guy they actually desire. Other wise they'll either reject, or worse. Take advantage of a guy that does this.
Stop it. You know everything you need to see in the first 3 months sis. This goes for men or women. We just gotta tighten up as a group of people. Let me help you out. If man ain’t offering to pray over you and your kids or with you when you get distressed, it’s already looking bad. If he can love, respect, and serve Christ he can do it for you. Just have your act together so you can pray and bless him back, ain’t no other trait in a woman more attractive. You’re welcome🤣.
Yall are so corny. Its no wonder no onne really likkes blk wooooomeen. Yall steal our talking points, sayings and slang. Wommmmennn are knoown for being chammeleons, now yall want to call us chammeleons. Gtfoh
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I actually did the work, roofing,painting, kept the cars detailed, the yard cooked and laundry this lady told me i wasn't doing enough,i told her i'm tired after work plus was starting a business, she destroyed that
Don't be with such women who can't appreciate positive treatment. Simple.
Far to come by
They're literally designed not to though- they're at their happiest when they're validated socially.
Women don't want peace. They find peace boring.
They do the most for the ones that give them the least and expect the most from the ones they give the least to.
True statement I did the bear minimum for my last three ex's and they stayed with me for years. A lot of women are literally human science experiments
Facts
I saw a street interview where a guy said this," Women want a bad boy when they're happy. They want a good guy when they're sad."
Well-said.
Gentlemen, dont ever pay another man's emotional debts.
True statement, I just let a lady go because she couldn't handle go treatment
Indeed, wise words for a man to live by!
Never put in all that work for a women, because another man will not do ish and will get better treatment 😂
Pookie
Yep. It's only like that in the states though... and maybe UK
And Ray Ray
Facts!
No. Shes not yours, it just your turn. Sometimes you need to end the lease early.
I LEARNED TO LET EVERYONE SHOW ME WHO THEY ARE. ESPECIALLY FEMALES. ALSO, UNFORTUNATELY, MOST PEOPLE TRY TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF A PERSON THAT THEY PERCEIVE AS "GOOD" BECAUSE THEY OFTEN VIEW A VIRTUOUS PERSON AS WEAK.
Exactly. And then they say I pretend to be dumb when they feel stupid. Why can’t they treat people with respect from the start?
Trust no one. I went to jail at 16 , even though I changed my life I swiftly realized "regular" people will NEVER respect you, which is cool. Always knew all skinned folks ain't kin folk
And he’s not simpin, just talkin’ straight facts!
It's simpin if done for the wrong woman.
@@ron27401don't simp period 🤦
0:56 men are finally realizing women either want a rich dude with money who got a lot of hoz or they want a bum who’s at home while they work like Jody from baby boy no in between they love toxic relationships 😂😂
😆😆😆😆💯💯💯💯💯💯 to the point I had to decenter blk women 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆
If you think about it Jody wasn't really a bum juet didnt have the right opportunity to get right
@@StaticbeyfrmSemoran that’s most guys who grew up in the hood and he represents alot of dudes who get women but still live with their mom and have a baby mom and can get other women even tho women might say they don’t want that type of guy it’s usually who they end up having a kid with ironically 🤷🏾♂️ 😂
🔥🔥🔥
Yes its true...its a sad day we live in.
🎯
A segment of men and women enjoy the "fruits" of pleasure(s) ---children not so much.
I've told every guy who is about to get married and seems naive to leave something undone. Maybe don't do the laundry. Something tangible that she can complain about. Because she has to complain about something and if you do everything perfectly, she may find something to complain about that you can't change - like she suddenly doesn't like your nose.
She aint guarded when RayRay n Tbone comes thru
😂😂😂 Not Tbone!lol😂
Tbone 😂
😆🤣
🎯🎯🎯
And thugnificent
I can tell you from experience being a good man to a woman gets you no where if they are not used to being treated good they will never appreciate it make her happy and treat her like shit like every other she’s been with
Thats crazy work
That's difficult for many men though
@ yes it us but every man has to go thru this in order to be a better man
Women want all that stuff but just from the guy they want it from... If you are not THAT guy you are wasting your time...
True
Whooop! There it is!!
All day
Women never get the man they want… they always settle… so what are you really sayin
Scorpion 🦂 and the frog 🐸
The Farmer and the snake!
👍🏾
“It’s in my nature “
THIS, IYKYK.
Don't get married... just enjoy a women for a period of time and keep it moving.
If you have a kid, the kid needs to be raised with you, the man, not the woman.
I don't Believe in marriage so it is what it is
Facts Baby Boy always wins when they’re at their best. The Simp with all the stipulations got to pay for all that down the line
I dont even wanna date anymore... I'm sick of the bullshit
🧢
@@graham5761yeah, I agree.
Women don’t like that. He’s too nice.
They need that chaos just to have sum'n to talk about 🎯 we ALL KNOW women loveeeee to talk
JR, it's "The Scorpion and the Frog", but that's not the one you meant. It's the other one you referred to, "The Farmer and the Viper" by Aesop. In that one, the farmer picks up an almost frozen/dead viper and puts it in his coat to warm it up. When it warms up and recovers, it strikes and kills the farmer, who realizes his mistake. The moral of the story is kindness shown to evil will always be met with betrayal. Sure sounds like modern relationships to me (don't be the farmer, let the viper freeze to death).
The first dude is right; however, there are still a decent amount of women in the world who genuinely want a good man, and vice versa.
I can confirm this.
Decent? Like 1%? 😅
I think it's the minority not the majority. Most want drama and chaos, that's what their used to. A man who brings a peaceful environment to his woman is considered lame or boring. It just is what it is. Or you gotta deal with the ones who will tell you how damaged they are from previous relationships with more than likely the hood dudes and thugs, now u have to deal with someone that always has their guard up, and whatever u do isn't good enough. This is just the reality of what the majority of "good men" have to deal with.
Most only want a good man to come along and fix her life after it's in turmoil. Good is seen as "weak" to most women. Very few women in the West are worthy of marriage.
Instead of being a good man to women why not just be a good man to YOURSELF? 🤔
A Woman don’t want a Man who loves Her, She wants the Man who She loves, & the Man who She loves, He loves Himself. I learned this the hard way.
Something seems different about you, bro. You used to smile a lot more. I’m going to put you in my prayers. Keep up the good work.
I was thinking the same his eyes seems yellow
He almost quit about a month ago
I mean a lot of women admit they say that want it but don’t really want it 🤷🏾♂️
4:44 mann this, relationships is about trust if you cant even let yo guard down enough to trust me then why am I wasting my time putting mine down while you do me as dirty as yo dude did you because of what you been through.
Facts
Whatever they say they want it's the opposite 🔄
Women don’t want to be in love; women just want to have fun.
I love a good strong hardworking man. I love to do my duties as a wife by cooking, cleaning, being very supportive and pleasing him sometimes, I do those things for my husband. I'm the opposite of those modern women, when I love, I love very hard. I love being feminine and he be the masculine person. Thank you Mr. JR Wisdom. I love long-term relationships.
🧢
Yeah no f that. I already did that and held down a fulltime job. She still wasn’t happy and burned my house down. So now I don’t trust any of them and ain’t doing a goddamn thing for them.
I give them 100% of nothing, let them go work for Daddy government.
The parable was the frog and the scorpion
Agreed! And their chaos make it hard for the real women!!! That’s not the story some just want a man they can move heaven and earth with and for!!!
I don't think the average chick respects dudes like that......trust i been there
You guys have to remember that many of your generation were born to young single mothers who had no idea how life works and what they should have taught the women that you are trying to date. Thank you for this channel so that you can teach your generation how relationships should work. There should be more channels like this. We are living in a different world.
This world nowadays are full of opportunist men & women💯🤷...
Preach 💯
So I gotta pay because you let the wrong dudes put miles on you. Keep it moving, bish!!!
When she gets up and shovel snow , cut grass, replaces water heater, reno bathroom, yatta, I'll help out.
Or I'll live in my house alone.
Wisdom dropping jewels💯⁉️
Dont care about her, more than you care about yourself.
Thats how you win.
I've learned that most women DON'T want the responsibility that comes with a healthy relationship, becasue that require accountability to themselves ot the man. The women that do have not problem with being accountable are mature emotionally, do not waste their time on troubled men and know that a healthy relationship requires grace and effort.
ur speaking Facts bruh...💯...the frog, and the scorpion
Ayyye, that's Chavel Bro fem love and Hip Hop. He Had me dyin 😆💀
I thought Lil Wayne cut his dreads 😮
😂I knew I wasn't the only one who saw that
Is this true?
It's rare on both sides. 💯 The good ones are homebodies.
I create peace, you help keep the peace, and then we can get to the business 👏🏾.
People just be careful out here.
Waves of Olympic gold medals ---hitched 2 emotions coupled to the instability of a Category 3 Hurricane
bro just don't be a simp thats just it
Think because it comes off as if he’s trying to prove himself. I feel bro though. I believe in putting that woman to work
That’s not true! They meet plenty of good dudes they don’t want it until they get out the 304 phase
I think those women shouldnt chose those men because they are good. Because you cant negotiate genuine désire. I say women should have free will to chose what they want. Good or bad
Facts
The 304 phase never ends as long as she is healthy. She just becomes more subtle with her actions. Cats never bark and dogs never meow. A 304 is a permanent state of being.
I was here for baby in red 😂
They so used to what's comfortable and not real
It depends on the woman, I would appreciate that.
You have to get to the level the way you and her staying together for her even see that if she just met you and she already moved you in I don't think I want to be involved with that woman
Dude looks like a dreadless Lil Wayne 🤣🤣 and the parable was the scorpion and the frog
The scorpion and the frog
No chore Play 😂
No it's not rare good men are all around they are just desired until she gets older and is trying to secure his bag
I've seen this all too often. And to the man, it makes no logical sense, especially the man who's trying to legit make things work. To the knucklehead, it makes perfect sense because he's used to her being and doing everything, all for the sake of his nothingness.
Real talk ☑
If he is doing all that. What is she doing
The problem is that they're choosing the wrong ones.... this must be a GEN Z THING or Millennials. Because I promise you the older generations aren't like that. And to be honest the younger generations are not on that level. They are not putting forth that much effort.
Look up grey divorce. Boomers and Gen X's are definitely like that. I think most of the bs going on today was either inspired by or encouraged by Gen X smdh. Look are your Gen X relatives and see how many of them are in healthy or happy relationships long term
I personally beg to differ. Those women need to Keep choosing those types that they like, so all parties will be happy éven at her own detriment.
I honestly think certain people Belong with each other
Older woman to I'm 42 been threw it
At 3:32 he says its very RARE to find a man who's NOT going to beat you up, curse you out, belittle you etc and yet the discussion is about women?!?! Uhmmmm its seems like there's a bigger issue at play.
You think most men will beat you up??? You’re crazy and lost.
Has that been your experience or are you just deflecting?
Imma keep it a buck - some of yall don’t want actual relationships and you’re just looking for “service” providers. People come with trauma. People come with hang ups. People come with all types of things that are part of their lived experiences. If you don’t want to be there for that, just leave it be. Also, women aren’t vending machines that, if you give enough money or do enough things for will lead to them having sex with you. Do things because you want to do them and stop always expecting that you’re going to get something out of doing enough or giving enough. Unless you have some sort of agreement already established - if I give you x,y, and z you’ll do x, y, and z for me - you’re not entitled to anything. Some of yall be so bitter because you have expectations in your head of giving enough or doing enough is going to lead to some outcome that you have and it doesn’t work that way. If you’re doing something to get an outcome, make that known ahead of time so that the other person knows and can let you know if that’s even possible. Otherwise, do things because you want to with no expectations.
Chemo Lil Wayne..😅
Facts
Talk.
Been there
💯
❤❤
Provision, kindness, respect, acts of service etc. These things are good for a relationship. But have NOTHING to do with actual attraction.
This is why it seems women dont want these things. They do want them, but from a guy they actually desire. Other wise they'll either reject, or worse. Take advantage of a guy that does this.
What he should say is good women wants good men, bad women wants bad men. Stop mixing this thing up
One thing I disagree is knowing what type of man we're getting until it's a little too late. There's some great male chameleon out there. 🦎
Stop it. You know everything you need to see in the first 3 months sis. This goes for men or women. We just gotta tighten up as a group of people. Let me help you out. If man ain’t offering to pray over you and your kids or with you when you get distressed, it’s already looking bad. If he can love, respect, and serve Christ he can do it for you. Just have your act together so you can pray and bless him back, ain’t no other trait in a woman more attractive. You’re welcome🤣.
@robgoins3672 Maybe for you, but this does not apply to everyone, but whatever 🤷♀️
All I gotta say is "Women can't get over on me".
@@ms.temne-sierraleone6230🤦
Yall are so corny. Its no wonder no onne really likkes blk wooooomeen. Yall steal our talking points, sayings and slang. Wommmmennn are knoown for being chammeleons, now yall want to call us chammeleons. Gtfoh
What is he talking about? 0:53
Scorpion and the frog @J.R. wisdom
Reason why some women love chaos is to find a reason to cheat🫡
Facts