She about that paper better believe that. She has a forgiving nature but she knows she getting paid to be around her lol child support gotta come in some how 😂 she’s a great woman ! I’m glad Gary went for what was best for Leah !!!
She is such a difficult person.. everyone has to walk on thin ice around her. She interprets everything as a personal attack. This isn't intensity it's narcissism! Great job to Gary and his wife for learning to work around her.
@@Amandabrown83 you literally see only a couple scenes.... 15min tops out of the whole show. Plus it's scripted so half of it is fake. How do you know she's not as crazy as amber if not more?😂
Yes!! She literally acts like a 10 year old. She's always on the verge of an actual tantrum. I have a family member similar to Amber and both of her children want nothing to do with her. The father has custody of one of them since she's a minor and he lets her make the choice of whether she sees her mom. She chooses not to. It's really very sad.
How dare she put all that crap on HER daughter!! How about she act like an adult for Leah, but I think that ship has sailed! Thank goodness Leah has Kristina & Gary ❤❤❤
Honestly when I first started watching this show all those years ago, I thought Gary was a loser, but this guy matured so much and stepped up for his kid. He is an amazing Dad, Leah is lucky to have him.
Same and I'd hope once she saw how great of a dad she has for her daughter she'd get herself together before it was too late, or before too much/more damage was done.
I don't see how you ever thought that but Gary has ofc matured from the beginner filming days but 1 thing for certain from the beginning he was giving his all as a father and didn't let amber push him out his daughter life
I haven’t watched the show in years only keep up through Grace Report and all the things I hear about Amber isn’t shocking at all however I felt disgusted watching this clip telling Leah not to chime in like wow that’s so rude and telling her not to start like excuse me she’s so rude you might have given birth to Leah but doesn’t give you the right to speak to her like that definitely not her mother at all that’s all Kristina how do her and Gary put up with this BS.
the way amber speaks to her daughter is so.... uncomfortable to watch. "you're gonna make me feel really bad" when does she ever consider that the things she does makes her daughter feel bad🤔
I was gonna say. When sormoen expresses how what you did made them feel, you need to put your feelings aside, listen, and take accountability. Instead she ignores their feelings, makes it about herself, and blames them for making her feel some type of way. You can't have a good relationship with people like her. It's always about them. I'm positive this is the biggest factor in most of her strained relationships.
Did she really ask Gary how hard it is to co-parent with someone? Like does she really not think before she speaks🤦🏻♀️ I can’t believe how amazing Gary is and how supportive he is. Amber use to beat the shit out of Gary flash forward 12 years later Gary is giving her some support when it comes to James.
Cause she knows it was difficult on both their ends in the past more obviously ambers fault but gary did provoke her sometimes hes changed but he was not a saint back then either. Shes owned her mistakes yall. Grow up
Why does you guys not remember when Gary was a hard time to Amber and did'nt want to co-parenting? She kept beging for having Leah and he said no. No wonder theor relationsship is hard. It not only Ambers fault!
@@carol-annesomerville7880 Honestly you're right. I always feel like their whole bit on TV is only about her life and Leah. It's never about Gary, Kristina or Emily (I think that's their daughters name) which omg she ISSS Kristinas twin but does look like Leah. Gary does make gorgeous little gals.
I remember wanting my mom even though she was perfectly fine without me. I always had to not hurt her feelings, even though mine were crushed. I see that look in Leah’s eyes as her dad speaks for her. Gary and Christina are the bomb.
I always feel for Leah when amber talks about James in front of her. Even though Gary is a great dad, and Christina is a an amazing mother figure her and she's been better off being with them, it's still gotta hurt to hear Amber wanting to be so involved with James when she's been so flaky with Leah
@@carol-annesomerville7880 exactly. She ~said~ the same thing when Leah was younger but her actions never aligned with her words. It’s all talk. And it’s particularly said because Amber still has the support and love of Gary, Leah and Christina. Not matter how poorly she treats them, they’ll always welcome her.
I know the audacity 😒. Leah is uncomfortable around her you can tell she really doesn't like to be around her because she's afraid she will say the wrong thing
You can see the resentment and anger on ambers daughters face as she’s talking about missing her baby brother like “oh you miss him but you didn’t miss me enough to even come visit me” poor Lea just poor girl and you can see how uncomfortable she really is around amber
Eventually when Leah gets older she will probably go off on her mom and it probably won't be pretty cause we know Amber and her temper... But Amber does deserve it.
No it's more like, Leah has been down that path and wants a better mother for her brother, something she didn't get herself and is still trying.. but Leah and Amber are almost like siblings.
@@carol-annesomerville7880 no I’m not joking, and no have you seen how Ashley acts? Come on…. So what some people bring out the ugly in people. I can be super nice too and be a mean biiotch all in one. Im sure If you had a camera recording you at all times I’m sure we wouldn’t like you either.
Did Leah give her plate to Amber? The side eye toward her is iffy also. Laughed when all Gary could do is smirk about her complaining about co-parenting like they haven't been fighting Amber to step up for years now.
@@carol-annesomerville7880 I was reading the comments more so than listening to the video. Amber is a toxic mom though I don't like her. I get she's trying but she kinda reminds me of my mom. And my mom is nice and loves me but she's definitely toxic
Amber still has several selfish tendencies. However, I admire the relationship Gary, Christina and Amber have. That environment is so much healthier for the kids when everyone gets along :)
If Amber lived in the real world she would know Andrew is not going to put up with her crap. It's going to take a loooong time to put all that behind them. Just cause she wants to play nice doesn't mean people are going to roll over. I think her not calling Leah to speak with James is going to put their relationship way back. Leah knows what is going on. It's always about Amber. Me, me, me!
@@carol-annesomerville7880 well, for starters, I was responding to Lil ebb bc they don’t believe that Andrew is a narcissist just bc he has custody of James. I was just pointing out that they’re not mutually exclusive, they can both happen at the same time. You can be a narcissist while being a primary caretaker. It wasn’t about Amber at all. With that said, do you see the way Andrew kept his home? I’m not sure how much better it is with him. I also don’t think it’s bc he’s a man, I think it’s bc he’s just as suspect as Amber as a parent. I have a feeling he went for custody purely to spite Amber.
@@ElketjeableI never said anything about him being a narcissist or not. BUT He just happened to catch machete Amber going crazy.😂😂 He is worse than her? She has him beat by a mile in EVERY bad way. Believe what you want.😉
Just a guess but maybe Andrew's still not over you chasing him and his son down with a machete to the point he had to hide in a closet while you stabbed the door with the machete ? Not to mention he ran like that after recently having surgery on his ankle. OR maybe he's still not over the fact of you calling his son it the whole time while you were screaming about how bad you hated it and how he needed to get it away from you right now your not f'in kidding get it the f away from you take it! Not one time but many times... now he is being made to have his son around you still after all the hate you spewed for so long towards him. He was severely abused by you amber so was his son. Yeah I don't think he'd want to be all peaches and cream with you. It's annoying how she acts so shocked, and is acting as if Andrew is just so mean to her. She said she thought it was going to be like they used to be, like us. Like he should miss her by now and want to be with her again. Like what??? Good for Andrew!
Yeah I know from being abused and having to be in the same room with your abuser it Is hard. I would just stare off into space than have to make conversation with them. She acts like he is just suppose to be ok with it and get over it.......just like my abuser did.
I remember many times of staring off into space while having to be near my abuser. Just cause amber is over with what she did and wants to move on doesnt mean Andrew can. You dont have to be friends to co parent. If you get bare minimum communication then that's what your actions caused. Nobody has to go out their way for their abuser.
To be fair, Leah gave a smart-ass comment at first. She said “it’s a plate” when amber was just asking about the food. The second time was just a question Leah had so yeah
@@angiebri "If you start with me, I swear to God" sounds kinda rough to say to your kid when it's just about a plate. Plus, you're right, Leah just asked a question, and yet her mother was about to go in on her. You can even tell by Gary's comment and Amber's sudden "Oh, sorry!" that everyone was uncomfortable w her comment or tone.
@@amandaprichard3242 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Exactly. You can't expect this child to respect her, especially after everything's she's done and neglected to do for the child, including simple visits and FaceTimes.
Agree to the first statement, 2nd statement though; Although it's still her responsability in the end how SHE behaved (which she acknowledges); Andrew, who was a cameraman on teen mom that groomed amber, provoked and triggered her to make her relapse to make the worst come out of her again, when she was doing much better!!! And by the way who has a machete in the house when your partner has a history of DV who has another postpartum depression?!?!?! With a baby in the house.. Unless you're planning something.. Combined with camera's everywhere.. And then use the baby as a shield on your hip when your ex comes at you with a machete.. If she wanted to she could've killed him easily, especially after he drove her mad on purpose and terrorized her for God knows how long!!!! But she didn't want to accidentally hurt her son!!! And andrew the narcisist knew that, that's why he used his son as a SHIELD, just like he uses their son now to keep haunting her!!! It's the reason he picked her as well!!! Because she is the perfect victim!!! No one would believe her and people would all believe him, because of her past!!! All he had to do is trap her into having a child and after that mentally abuse her to a state of relapse, which was peace of cake because she had another postpartum depression and then keep his real behaviour OFF camera and her behaviour and his own faking being "innocent" ON camera!!! That's why, although everything was filmed by him, for over a month, NOT EVEN the context footage, the "before" of the machete incident was complete.. That's why it was short and parts were shopped up!!! Andrew wouldn't want anyone to see andrew in action!!!!!! Yet seeing the state the house was in, when she visited the house again, with Gary & Christina, confirmed on top of all this, that he is a manipulative, dangerous narcisist!!!! That's why, after the incident, he went on that crystal ball gossip show to bad mouth her and play innocent victim, while REFUSING to film with mtv!!!!! Amber is no angel, but people really need to start seeing the inconsistencies and red flags and pieces of evidence and put it all together when it comes to this andrew character!!!! Because he's a predator and he saw in her the perfect prey, because of her past!!!
Your daughter is sitting right next to you thinking ..What about me!? I'm sitting right next to you and we barely have a relationship. And now Amber has to spend all this money to even see her son and travel to another state and leave her daughter behind and I'm sure when Amber's in the same state as her daughter she does the bare minimum. I see more of a connection between Leah and her stepmom Leah has the mannerisms of her ST- Mom, you can tell who raised her
So Leah isn't allowed to mention her brother James cause Amber feelings 🙄 Amber really need to get over herself she still selfish and only thinks about how she feels
Nova’s “I love my baby” gets me everytime. Tyler and Cate has raised the most intelligent, caring little girl. She loves all her sisters unconditionally and she’s just so pure and innocent. Little nova ❤
I am so proud of Gary to step up to the plate and be a constant parent for Leah. She needs atleast one grounded parent. I feel Amber..but she made her own bed. Now she's sleeping in it ... Still love Amber... Just very so greatful for Gary 🙏🙏
Oh my goodness! Leah is grown! Such a beautiful young lady! She was blessed with Gary's calmness - cause we all watched him just stand there and get punched - while Amber just has rage issues.... From the time we met her on 16 and pregnant until now - just really thankful Leah has her father and Kristina to support her!
Amber has some nerve being invited over for dinner , something that Gary and his VERY kind and understanding wife certainly do NOT have to do, and giving her daughter and Gary attitude.., it’s actually uncomfortable to watch. I really hope some day Amber can be woman enough to sit Kristina and Gary down and SINCERELY thank them for absolutely everything they have done. It won’t happen, but it should.
Good ole Gary bless his heart having to deal with amber 😂 y'all give this man a raise and take amber off the air after getting his ass beat online he endured enough
Years later and Amber is still whining about things that are happening to her instead of taking the steps necessary to better her life. I can’t believe that she’s well into adulthood and she still acts like a kid. She doesn’t learn from her terrible choices and she makes everyone around her miserable. Look at how fed up Christina looks while Gary has a look of “here we go again.” I’m second hand embarrassed for Amber. She’s probably the only person I feel is worst than Janelle. Amber had years to get her life straight so I don’t think anyone should be feeling sorry for her. I just hope at some point she stops being so intrusive into Gary’s family life, she had her chance with him and she messed it up.
I feel for Leah, imagine hearing your mom snapping at you for making a comment. You're already being raised by your dad and 2nd mom and you have to hear your mom say not having your sibling is hard and she really misses him.. like dude you didn't and don't have the one in the same room as you! And you said nothing about that!
She didn’t call or FaceTime with her daughter while she had her son, she’s obviously to her daughters feelings. She probably wanted Andrew to pay attention to her, yuck!
I’m going to say something positive! I love the fact they are all trying to get along. It’s been a long hard road. I’m glad she gets to see her daughter! What would your life look like if you had a camera on your every move and mistake! I pray Amber keeps moving forward and keeps working to get better! No one has it all together
I like the positive vibe. But unfortunately you can tell by Leah's face expression and body language shes uncomfortable around amber because what ever leah says amber is going to snap at her. If my mother was like that I would of cut her off my life completely because she doesn't even try & is all about her. But in my case is not my mom is my father his like amber & cut him off my life I don't need that drama in my life
I feel bad to Leah and Amber need to treat Leah better cause Leah trying to be there for her as daughter way, I'm glad that Gary watching how amber treat Leah
It’s so sad when a child feels like they’re more mature than a parent. We grow up feeling so unprotected. Luckily for Leah, Gary and his wife are amazing
I know this is off topic, but the whole time I was wondering did Leah already eat before Amber got there, did she give her plate of food to Amber, and Amber didn't even take a second to notice Leah wasn't eating anything or if it was Leah's food she was eating, or maybe Leah doesn't like to eat on camera idk lol. But I've had times on and off cheering for Amber, but honestly you had all that time with James and you didn't think to call Leah to let her talk to him or facetime him for even a few minutes? Amber's trying I get that, but at the same time, as hard as she's trying she's got to remember she can not afford to have a one track mind, she has two children, so therefore her thoughts need to be on them both, and making sure their relationship as siblings also continues, because that is also her responsibility as their mother. I felt bad for Leah, you could tell a mile away it bothered her not being able to have anytime with James, let alone a short facetime or phone call.
Personally I wouldn’t allow her near Leah. Your first job as a parent is to protect your children, though I admire their calmness ‘walking around eggshells’ shouldn’t be the normal in any child’s life.
I love that Leah is feeling able to interact and speak her feelings with Amber, and that Amber is acknowledging Leah's feelings and responding to them.
The way her BPD speaks volumes in the saddest way possible when it comes to the babies she brought into this world. Gary is quite possibly the most patient dad ever. Leah is is blessed to have him and his wife. ❤️
The patience Gary's wife has. Bless her heart
Lmaooo that’s what I said too. Amber is too much.
She about that paper better believe that. She has a forgiving nature but she knows she getting paid to be around her lol child support gotta come in some how 😂 she’s a great woman ! I’m glad Gary went for what was best for Leah !!!
Her name is Kristina
💯
The things that must being going through Kristina's head while listening 2 Amber.........God bless that women 🙏 🙌 ❤️
Gary's like: why yes Amber I DO know how it is to try to co-parent with someone who doesn't want to 🙄
Right 😅🤣
😂😂😂
Right lol it's like she is so close to being self-aware but isn't quite there yet.
His smile said it all
Garey wasn’t always easy to co parent with at a point in time either…but he definitely grew up faster then Amber did!
She is such a difficult person.. everyone has to walk on thin ice around her. She interprets everything as a personal attack. This isn't intensity it's narcissism! Great job to Gary and his wife for learning to work around her.
It’s BPD.
@@thelanguageofthebirds seriously. She is so BPD. Even her trying to stop Leah from saying she missed her brother because it would make HER feel bad.
BPD isn’t an excuse for her actions.
I see that.
Exactly my thoughts
Man, kristina really was the best thing that happend to gary AND leah. Glad she has a good female roll model in her life. ❤
Amen!
Bro you don't even know her irl😂 you don't know how she is behind cameras...
@@TheDelucaBishop it obviously shows 🙄
Agree. She's been awesome for Amber as well. It's nice to see them getting along like this.
@@Amandabrown83 you literally see only a couple scenes.... 15min tops out of the whole show. Plus it's scripted so half of it is fake. How do you know she's not as crazy as amber if not more?😂
“You’re gonna make me feel bad.” Amber, it’s not your daughter’s responsibility to emotionally regulate for you. 🙄
Yes!! She literally acts like a 10 year old. She's always on the verge of an actual tantrum. I have a family member similar to Amber and both of her children want nothing to do with her. The father has custody of one of them since she's a minor and he lets her make the choice of whether she sees her mom. She chooses not to. It's really very sad.
….. she is a woman with a mental state of a 11 year old. Excuses and delusion.
she will never get it because she doesn't want to
Exactly!
How dare she put all that crap on HER daughter!! How about she act like an adult for Leah, but I think that ship has sailed! Thank goodness Leah has Kristina & Gary ❤❤❤
Honestly when I first started watching this show all those years ago, I thought Gary was a loser, but this guy matured so much and stepped up for his kid. He is an amazing Dad, Leah is lucky to have him.
I thought the same
Same … he’s great! He’s made some mistakes but it’s admirable how quickly he turned it around!
Same
Same and I'd hope once she saw how great of a dad she has for her daughter she'd get herself together before it was too late, or before too much/more damage was done.
I don't see how you ever thought that but Gary has ofc matured from the beginner filming days but 1 thing for certain from the beginning he was giving his all as a father and didn't let amber push him out his daughter life
The fact that Amber went to see James and didn’t FaceTime Leah says so much without saying anything.
I said that too I was like dang why she didn't mention Leah you can see the pain on her face 😢😢😢
Absolutely. She cares nothing about Leah.
Poor Leah. She wanted to see her brother. How hard would it have been to FaceTime her? Geez, Amber is still so incredibly self centered!
Ya and then she tells her not to chime in like are you serious?? She is a terrible mother and human being! So selfish and mean
@@jennifersmith1333took the words right out of my mouth
I haven’t watched the show in years only keep up through Grace Report and all the things I hear about Amber isn’t shocking at all however I felt disgusted watching this clip telling Leah not to chime in like wow that’s so rude and telling her not to start like excuse me she’s so rude you might have given birth to Leah but doesn’t give you the right to speak to her like that definitely not her mother at all that’s all Kristina how do her and Gary put up with this BS.
She's never been a mother to her
Yep. Both of her exes are better parents then she ever was.
She’s so confrontational, she’s such an intense person.
Probably why she doesn’t have any friends. It’s all self with her. Period
Eggshells with her
Intense?! I would say more like aggressive and problematic
To me she seems so fragile. I really hope things turn around for her. I'm glad Gary and Christina are so supportive.
@@autumnskai6383 Tomato Tamoto
the way amber speaks to her daughter is so.... uncomfortable to watch. "you're gonna make me feel really bad" when does she ever consider that the things she does makes her daughter feel bad🤔
Always about how amber feels
She probably has undiagnosed post pardom where the moths rejects and despises their child.
Shes a narcissistic only her feelings matter. All shall meet Amber needs
I definitely cringed at that part
I was gonna say. When sormoen expresses how what you did made them feel, you need to put your feelings aside, listen, and take accountability. Instead she ignores their feelings, makes it about herself, and blames them for making her feel some type of way. You can't have a good relationship with people like her. It's always about them. I'm positive this is the biggest factor in most of her strained relationships.
Did she really ask Gary how hard it is to co-parent with someone? Like does she really not think before she speaks🤦🏻♀️ I can’t believe how amazing Gary is and how supportive he is. Amber use to beat the shit out of Gary flash forward 12 years later Gary is giving her some support when it comes to James.
She doesn’t see herself as the problem at all. She doesn’t believe she was the difficult one in the relationship.
She was probably just wanting his opinion on it. With co-parenting with her.
Cause she knows it was difficult on both their ends in the past more obviously ambers fault but gary did provoke her sometimes hes changed but he was not a saint back then either. Shes owned her mistakes yall. Grow up
Why does you guys not remember when Gary was a hard time to Amber and did'nt want to co-parenting? She kept beging for having Leah and he said no. No wonder theor relationsship is hard. It not only Ambers fault!
Not only Gary but look at the way she has treated Kristina. Boy, she only thinks about herself.
“You’re gonna make me seriously feel really bad.” ME ME ME ME ME ME! How hard is it to pickup a phone? That’s her brother..
You beat me to it!!! She really gets under my skin!!
She is such a toxic narcissist
@@mercury7762 “James misses you BTW I showed him pictures” But never ONCE thought of FaceTiming her?? 🤦🏻♀️
We dont know the whole story. what if the father doesn't allow the child to be filmed like Carly?
@@s.r6331 It doesn’t have to be filmed in order for her to call her other daughter so she can see her brother 🤷🏻♀️
Breaks my heart for Leah 😔😔
Leah is scared of her you can tell
@@carol-annesomerville7880 Honestly you're right. I always feel like their whole bit on TV is only about her life and Leah. It's never about Gary, Kristina or Emily (I think that's their daughters name) which omg she ISSS Kristinas twin but does look like Leah. Gary does make gorgeous little gals.
I remember wanting my mom even though she was perfectly fine without me. I always had to not hurt her feelings, even though mine were crushed. I see that look in Leah’s eyes as her dad speaks for her. Gary and Christina are the bomb.
You can tell Leah is a little anxious when Amber talks about her brother.
Anxious and hurt. Poor kid.
I always feel for Leah when amber talks about James in front of her. Even though Gary is a great dad, and Christina is a an amazing mother figure her and she's been better off being with them, it's still gotta hurt to hear Amber wanting to be so involved with James when she's been so flaky with Leah
@@carol-annesomerville7880 exactly. She ~said~ the same thing when Leah was younger but her actions never aligned with her words. It’s all talk.
And it’s particularly said because Amber still has the support and love of Gary, Leah and Christina. Not matter how poorly she treats them, they’ll always welcome her.
Right. But I hope Leah realizes it's all talk. If not she could take it to heart.
Gary worked hard to get his family where it is today. Good job to the whole family.
He reaction to Leah saying she didn’t call 😡 girl, I swear!
I know the audacity 😒. Leah is uncomfortable around her you can tell she really doesn't like to be around her because she's afraid she will say the wrong thing
@@carol-annesomerville7880 so true!
@@purplefreax it’s really sad
You can see the resentment and anger on ambers daughters face as she’s talking about missing her baby brother like “oh you miss him but you didn’t miss me enough to even come visit me” poor Lea just poor girl and you can see how uncomfortable she really is around amber
Eventually when Leah gets older she will probably go off on her mom and it probably won't be pretty cause we know Amber and her temper... But Amber does deserve it.
No it's more like, Leah has been down that path and wants a better mother for her brother, something she didn't get herself and is still trying.. but Leah and Amber are almost like siblings.
that’s her twin
She chased him with a machete and wants to talk about him being hard to co parent with, and acting surprised that he didnt wanna talk to her. 🤣
Gary is a wonderful father. Amber should be worshipping the ground he walks on.
He has put up with alot from her over the years. She so ungrateful.
I guess it’s Amber’s world and we’re all just living in it. Poor Leah.
she has BPD
She is human she has feelings to stop trynna put her down ‼️
Haven’t watched the show in years, but it looks like amber hasn’t changed much lol 😂
She hasn't. 😁
She definitely has… her whole attitude and controlling her anger
@@carol-annesomerville7880 no I’m not joking, and no have you seen how Ashley acts? Come on…. So what some people bring out the ugly in people. I can be super nice too and be a mean biiotch all in one. Im sure If you had a camera recording you at all times I’m sure we wouldn’t like you either.
She never will she is the same ignorant selfish person
@@shawnab8484 She's still selfish and ignorant and only thinks about herself and what benefits her
Kristina is such a good person. She puts the needs of Leah ahead of her own personal feelings. Gary is a lucky man.
Did Leah give her plate to Amber? The side eye toward her is iffy also. Laughed when all Gary could do is smirk about her complaining about co-parenting like they haven't been fighting Amber to step up for years now.
Thought the same thing, and the comment around 00:40...
@@carol-annesomerville7880 Leah went to the counter grabbed the plate and then handed it to amber
@@carol-annesomerville7880 I was reading the comments more so than listening to the video. Amber is a toxic mom though I don't like her. I get she's trying but she kinda reminds me of my mom. And my mom is nice and loves me but she's definitely toxic
@@carol-annesomerville7880maybe she ate already or wasn’t hungry? Who know or cares this much, besides you of course lol
Amber still has several selfish tendencies. However, I admire the relationship Gary, Christina and Amber have. That environment is so much healthier for the kids when everyone gets along :)
Gary is genuinely sad to not see James. In another video he said “Leah wants to see James, I want to see James” he’s a good dude.
Kristina is such an amazing person
Gary as well
She needs to seriously stop. No one is out to attack her. Stop being so confrontational!
If Amber lived in the real world she would know Andrew is not going to put up with her crap. It's going to take a loooong time to put all that behind them. Just cause she wants to play nice doesn't mean people are going to roll over. I think her not calling Leah to speak with James is going to put their relationship way back. Leah knows what is going on. It's always about Amber. Me, me, me!
Oh andrew is a narcisist himself, he's worse than her, he just hides it better and most people fall fot it!!
Yes, that's why he has custody. Right?
@@lilebb1657 you can be a narcissist and still have custody. He just happened to have to caught Amber going crazy.
@@carol-annesomerville7880 well, for starters, I was responding to Lil ebb bc they don’t believe that Andrew is a narcissist just bc he has custody of James. I was just pointing out that they’re not mutually exclusive, they can both happen at the same time. You can be a narcissist while being a primary caretaker. It wasn’t about Amber at all.
With that said, do you see the way Andrew kept his home? I’m not sure how much better it is with him. I also don’t think it’s bc he’s a man, I think it’s bc he’s just as suspect as Amber as a parent. I have a feeling he went for custody purely to spite Amber.
@@ElketjeableI never said anything about him being a narcissist or not. BUT He just happened to catch machete Amber going crazy.😂😂 He is worse than her? She has him beat by a mile in EVERY bad way. Believe what you want.😉
Gary is the real MVP here
Leah isn’t allowed to have feelings because Ambers are more important.
Just a guess but maybe Andrew's still not over you chasing him and his son down with a machete to the point he had to hide in a closet while you stabbed the door with the machete ? Not to mention he ran like that after recently having surgery on his ankle. OR maybe he's still not over the fact of you calling his son it the whole time while you were screaming about how bad you hated it and how he needed to get it away from you right now your not f'in kidding get it the f away from you take it! Not one time but many times... now he is being made to have his son around you still after all the hate you spewed for so long towards him. He was severely abused by you amber so was his son. Yeah I don't think he'd want to be all peaches and cream with you.
It's annoying how she acts so shocked, and is acting as if Andrew is just so mean to her. She said she thought it was going to be like they used to be, like us. Like he should miss her by now and want to be with her again. Like what??? Good for Andrew!
Andrew in a nasty person! She just happen to meet her match
Yeah I know from being abused and having to be in the same room with your abuser it Is hard. I would just stare off into space than have to make conversation with them. She acts like he is just suppose to be ok with it and get over it.......just like my abuser did.
Leah is never going to speak to her mom again when she grows up. Gary’s family is so emotionally mature.
Yup
Lmao Gary looking at Cristina like “ yeah she’s tasting her own waters now “ lmao
I remember many times of staring off into space while having to be near my abuser. Just cause amber is over with what she did and wants to move on doesnt mean Andrew can. You dont have to be friends to co parent. If you get bare minimum communication then that's what your actions caused. Nobody has to go out their way for their abuser.
Right. I shut down around people who even argue with me. I don't talk to people I can't trust.
Not even 40 seconds in and Amber has given Leah the skink eye twice.... 🤨😒😒
To be fair, Leah gave a smart-ass comment at first. She said “it’s a plate” when amber was just asking about the food. The second time was just a question Leah had so yeah
@@angiebri "If you start with me, I swear to God" sounds kinda rough to say to your kid when it's just about a plate. Plus, you're right, Leah just asked a question, and yet her mother was about to go in on her. You can even tell by Gary's comment and Amber's sudden "Oh, sorry!" that everyone was uncomfortable w her comment or tone.
@@angiebri honestly if I was Leah I would be a bitch every chance I got to my "mom"
@@amandaprichard3242 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Exactly. You can't expect this child to respect her, especially after everything's she's done and neglected to do for the child, including simple visits and FaceTimes.
@@angiebri shes also a child...ambrs an adult
She is SO hostile. I would have full blown anxiety being around here if I were them. She takes offense to any and everything.
Gary is so awesome. He's such a wonderful father.
Amber acts like the eldest teenage daughter of Gary and Kristina. Like a sister to Leah but def NOT LIKE LEAHS MOM
They are all tip toeing around amber tryna not make her mad but she needs to be called out.
Leah will one day soon it’s coming
Exactly I visited my child? Sorry that’s not a mother
Gary is a stand up guy he truly is a good father and so compassionate
Damn I feel for the daughter 😢like she’s not invisible 🫥…
I really really respect Kristina she really is a great person
& this is why you don’t have unprotected sex with a man you just met.. let alone threaten people with machetes. I always feel bad for the kids.
I agree. Shes a physcopath. If that was my mom I would of cut her off my life completely
Agree to the first statement,
2nd statement though;
Although it's still her responsability in the end how SHE behaved (which she acknowledges);
Andrew, who was a cameraman on teen mom that groomed amber, provoked and triggered her to make her relapse to make the worst come out of her again, when she was doing much better!!! And by the way who has a machete in the house when your partner has a history of DV who has another postpartum depression?!?!?! With a baby in the house.. Unless you're planning something..
Combined with camera's everywhere.. And then use the baby as a shield on your hip when your ex comes at you with a machete.. If she wanted to she could've killed him easily, especially after he drove her mad on purpose and terrorized her for God knows how long!!!! But she didn't want to accidentally hurt her son!!! And andrew the narcisist knew that, that's why he used his son as a SHIELD, just like he uses their son now to keep haunting her!!! It's the reason he picked her as well!!! Because she is the perfect victim!!! No one would believe her and people would all believe him, because of her past!!! All he had to do is trap her into having a child and after that mentally abuse her to a state of relapse, which was peace of cake because she had another postpartum depression and then keep his real behaviour OFF camera and her behaviour and his own faking being "innocent" ON camera!!! That's why, although everything was filmed by him, for over a month, NOT EVEN the context footage, the "before" of the machete incident was complete.. That's why it was short and parts were shopped up!!! Andrew wouldn't want anyone to see andrew in action!!!!!! Yet seeing the state the house was in, when she visited the house again, with Gary & Christina, confirmed on top of all this, that he is a manipulative, dangerous narcisist!!!! That's why, after the incident, he went on that crystal ball gossip show to bad mouth her and play innocent victim, while REFUSING to film with mtv!!!!!
Amber is no angel, but people really need to start seeing the inconsistencies and red flags and pieces of evidence and put it all together when it comes to this andrew character!!!! Because he's a predator and he saw in her the perfect prey, because of her past!!!
She's constantly snapping at Leah
Your daughter is sitting right next to you thinking ..What about me!? I'm sitting right next to you and we barely have a relationship. And now Amber has to spend all this money to even see her son and travel to another state and leave her daughter behind and I'm sure when Amber's in the same state as her daughter she does the bare minimum. I see more of a connection between Leah and her stepmom Leah has the mannerisms of her ST- Mom, you can tell who raised her
Amber walks in as if she owns the home lmao. Damn his wife got patience lol. She put up with a lot from Amber.
I think all parents should put the children first. Make sure they are happy and know the family's. It sad what these poor children go through in life.
I’m so happy that Gary found a good woman. He definitely deserves it after the way Amber treated him. I wish Gary and his wife nothing but the best🥳🥳🥳
Everything is always about Amber
You can tell that Gary puts Leah before his own feelings and that’s what a great parent does. So proud of him
So Leah isn't allowed to mention her brother James cause Amber feelings 🙄 Amber really need to get over herself she still selfish and only thinks about how she feels
Leah - she is an amazing kid to grow up with a mother who is not super stable in her life. Her dad and step mum are a godsend ❤
I think Amber is jealous of Kristina cause she is more stable and better influence on her daughter if I was Kristina I wouldn't touch Amber at all
I feel so Bad for her Daughter 🥺
So happy Leah had Gary ♡
And Kristina 😊🥰💕
how can amber sit there in front of leah saying its hard not having james? what about leah? is that not hard for leah? amber is a terrible mom.
“Do you know what it’s like to co parent with someone who doesn’t want to?” Did that really come out of her mouth 😂😂😂
Nova’s “I love my baby” gets me everytime. Tyler and Cate has raised the most intelligent, caring little girl. She loves all her sisters unconditionally and she’s just so pure and innocent. Little nova ❤
Wow her vibe through the screen is intense I can’t imagine in person.. yikes 😬
I am so proud of Gary to step up to the plate and be a constant parent for Leah. She needs atleast one grounded parent.
I feel Amber..but she made her own bed. Now she's sleeping in it ...
Still love Amber... Just very so greatful for Gary 🙏🙏
Oh my goodness! Leah is grown! Such a beautiful young lady! She was blessed with Gary's calmness - cause we all watched him just stand there and get punched - while Amber just has rage issues.... From the time we met her on 16 and pregnant until now - just really thankful Leah has her father and Kristina to support her!
She loves not having her kids she's living her best life 🙄
Leah hates being around her. Poor girl can’t even eat
I loooooove Christina! She is so mature and puts up a lot. She and Gary are amazing parents and role models. Amber should kiss the ground they walk on
Amber has some nerve being invited over for dinner , something that Gary and his VERY kind and understanding wife certainly do NOT have to do, and giving her daughter and Gary attitude.., it’s actually uncomfortable to watch. I really hope some day Amber can be woman enough to sit Kristina and Gary down and SINCERELY thank them for absolutely everything they have done. It won’t happen, but it should.
Exactly Imagine sat with your husband and having to put up with his baby mom whining about her life
2:02 the irony lol. And both Gary and Kristina’s facial expressions show they were thinking the exact same thing….
I feel for both her kids
Good ole Gary bless his heart having to deal with amber 😂 y'all give this man a raise and take amber off the air after getting his ass beat online he endured enough
Years later and Amber is still whining about things that are happening to her instead of taking the steps necessary to better her life. I can’t believe that she’s well into adulthood and she still acts like a kid. She doesn’t learn from her terrible choices and she makes everyone around her miserable. Look at how fed up Christina looks while Gary has a look of “here we go again.” I’m second hand embarrassed for Amber. She’s probably the only person I feel is worst than Janelle. Amber had years to get her life straight so I don’t think anyone should be feeling sorry for her. I just hope at some point she stops being so intrusive into Gary’s family life, she had her chance with him and she messed it up.
I feel for Leah, imagine hearing your mom snapping at you for making a comment. You're already being raised by your dad and 2nd mom and you have to hear your mom say not having your sibling is hard and she really misses him.. like dude you didn't and don't have the one in the same room as you! And you said nothing about that!
I love Gary and his comments 😂
I feel so bad for her daughter sitting there listening to how difficult she is
I can't even watch this without balling my fist. Poor Leah.
Kristen needs to be given more credit she amazing!
She didn’t call or FaceTime with her daughter while she had her son, she’s obviously to her daughters feelings. She probably wanted Andrew to pay attention to her, yuck!
Im so glad leah has kristina in her life ....
She's always been all about her self ever since the first time she aired she's trouble... Gary and his family are beautiful people...
"Not having James, like, it's just hard" - while you're sitting next to the daughter you abandoned for most of her growing up years? Poor kid.
I love the relationship between amber and Garry now that he has Kristina. You can see the love and respect they all have for each other.
She feels bad because she should. I’m glad Gary’s daughter has another mother figure because Amber is not one.
I’m going to say something positive! I love the fact they are all trying to get along. It’s been a long hard road. I’m glad she gets to see her daughter! What would your life look like if you had a camera on your every move and mistake! I pray Amber keeps moving forward and keeps working to get better! No one has it all together
I like the positive vibe. But unfortunately you can tell by Leah's face expression and body language shes uncomfortable around amber because what ever leah says amber is going to snap at her. If my mother was like that I would of cut her off my life completely because she doesn't even try & is all about her.
But in my case is not my mom is my father his like amber & cut him off my life I don't need that drama in my life
Amber has a choice, she isn't forced to have her life on camera.
Love the positivity. Amber will never be perfect, she's had too much trauma and been who she is for way too long. But she IS actively trying.
@@bear6699 yes, positive comments are little to none when it comes to Amber. I'm here for POSITIVE COMMENTS.
I just saw the video of Amber pregnant and Gary bought a 500$ gaming unit. This is a world away from that. 😂
I can't believe how grown up Leah is, man I feel old!
I absolutely looooove where their atl at now!!! Kudos!!
Amber will never change for the better
I feel bad to Leah and Amber need to treat Leah better cause Leah trying to be there for her as daughter way, I'm glad that Gary watching how amber treat Leah
So incredibly sad for James. He needs prayers that he’s well cared for, loved and safe.
It’s so sad when a child feels like they’re more mature than a parent. We grow up feeling so unprotected.
Luckily for Leah, Gary and his wife are amazing
I was the exact same with my mother
It’s so awkward to watch.
Amber is a perpetual child. It’s like Gary and Kristina are her parents at this point.
I know people that are like amber that constantly talk about themselves and their problems not caring about others life's my partner's mum is the same
Emilee is huge now🥺
For reals 🙂🥺🥺💞💞.I remember when she was a baby 😍🍼
I know this is off topic, but the whole time I was wondering did Leah already eat before Amber got there, did she give her plate of food to Amber, and Amber didn't even take a second to notice Leah wasn't eating anything or if it was Leah's food she was eating, or maybe Leah doesn't like to eat on camera idk lol. But I've had times on and off cheering for Amber, but honestly you had all that time with James and you didn't think to call Leah to let her talk to him or facetime him for even a few minutes? Amber's trying I get that, but at the same time, as hard as she's trying she's got to remember she can not afford to have a one track mind, she has two children, so therefore her thoughts need to be on them both, and making sure their relationship as siblings also continues, because that is also her responsibility as their mother. I felt bad for Leah, you could tell a mile away it bothered her not being able to have anytime with James, let alone a short facetime or phone call.
Right
The plate Leah gave to amber was for Amber.And I feel bad for Leah .She's not gonna have that bond with her baby brother
Personally I wouldn’t allow her near Leah. Your first job as a parent is to protect your children, though I admire their calmness ‘walking around eggshells’ shouldn’t be the normal in any child’s life.
She is always on the defense. She doesn’t help herself at all.
Gary is a awesome Dad and Kristina is very nice lady
This is brillant that they are being civil for the sake of thier children which is important because children need a mum and dad
I love that Leah is feeling able to interact and speak her feelings with Amber, and that Amber is acknowledging Leah's feelings and responding to them.
The way her BPD speaks volumes in the saddest way possible when it comes to the babies she brought into this world. Gary is quite possibly the most patient dad ever. Leah is is blessed to have him and his wife. ❤️