My husband started riding within a few months of losing our 21-year old son to suicide in 2018 at the recommendation of a friend who rode and had lost his daughter. He said it helped with his grief. I later joined my husband as a passenger, then getting my own endorsement and bike in the summer of 2020. I can tell you without a doubt, our motorcycles saved us, healed us and still do every time we ride, along with our deep faith in God 🙏
So sorry about your loss. I am so glad you have a deep faith in God and this is our only way out from grief. So nice to see that you were able to use Bike riding to help in the healing process. God bless you guys.
BEEN RIDING SINCE 13 YEARS OLD. EXACTLY AT 50 WENT THROUGH A SEVERE HEART ATTACK. 56 NOW. STILL RIDING... EVERY DAY... COLD OR HOT. MY HEART WORKS MUCH BETTER ON MY BMW S1000XR. WAITING IN 3 MONTHS FOR THE NEW M ONE. STILL RIDING... ENJOY LIFE GUYS. EVERY DAY. AGE IS JUST A NUMBER. ❤
@@stibblebar WOW. WHAT A DAUGHTER. WHICH PROBABLY MEANS YOU RAISED HER WELL MY FRIEND. I WISH YOU THE BEST ENJOY YOUR BIKE AND YOUR FAMILY. STAY HEALTHY. AND DON'T FORGET 72 IS JUST A NUMBER👏😊🏍️
In my 20s, I owned a motorcycle and cherished every ride. Although I sold it years ago, I've always yearned to own another. Last month, my best friend, partner, and husband passed away unexpectedly. In an effort to heal, I recently bought a new motorcycle and have been riding through the desert. The grieving process is incredibly challenging, but I find that getting on the bike and immersing myself in nature provides some solace. Thank you very much for creating this video.
This hit a raw nerve with me. We men are brought up to be the rock. But, as solid as we think we are, we do crack. My wife died 15 years ago and with her passing, my reason for living died too. Riding does help to clear away the fog of despair for a time but I still have to return to an empty quiet house. What is the answer? I don't know. I'm still looking. Yes, there is professional help out there, if you can afford it. But, it still comes back to that issue, you are the man, you are the problem solver. We are caught between a rock and a hard place. I do have a few solid male friends, but their line of thinking is the same as mine. I do think that deep down they CAN relate to the way I am feeling, but, like me they have no answers either. I am my father's son. I realise now that my dad was suffering the same emotions I am now, but I was not aware of it, so I made no effort to help him. It's too late now, he's gone. I'm sorry dad. To all you blokes out there feeling the same as me, stay strong and ride.
I empathize for you and I send my condolences. Just know that the healing is out there and is closer than you think. Our Creator offers all of the remedies and answers to your questions in the glorious Quran. If you haven't read it, please do. I myself read it for the first time 5 years ago and it changed my entire perspective on my life purpose. "God never burdens a soul with more than it can bear." 2:286 "With every hardship comes ease." 94:5 Take care my brother.
Thanks for sharing, Sorry for your loss. The other guy should have rearranged the letters of God to Dog. Dogs will save you, not his imaginary friend in the sky. Take care.
I have been on that same road for 21 years now since losing my wife. Returning to riding bicycles and motorcycles has been a large part of the recovery process. It's part of returning to the world of the living again. Welcome back. Come alive.
My brother took his life two years ago at the end of this month. He left behind a couple of motorcycles, I started riding them and it’s been a gift. RIP my brother.
I rode while in the Army thirty years ago. I was afraid to start again after such a long time. My brother, who rode kept asking me to ride. He passed away four years ago. I started riding again in memory of him. Sometimes I place his ashes in my saddle bags so we can ride together. Beautiful moments with my brother where we "talk" and I find peace and forgiveness.
@@billyjones3062 Thank you for your service. Every time I ride his bike I feel closer to him and that he’s with me. Best thing I ever did was to get my license, I think they’ll always be that feeling every time I get on the bike and that’s a real comfort.
I started riding in 67 and i still ride today. I've lost my Parents, my sister, two good friends , my dog and lastly my wife. Loosing my wife was by far the worst. In the end a cup of pain is still a cup of pain . Reach out to others keep riding and believe in God. Best
Started riding in 2021, at the age of 35. Since then, I ended a toxic relationship, lost my dad, and now we are dealing with another health issue in our family. But I also left a terrible job and started new ones where I feel recognized and happy. Today, I have my own business, and a beautiful wife. Riding helped to face my fears and encouraged to pursue my happiness. Can’t imagine my life without riding, hot or cold, dry or wet. Keep riding guys.
This shouldn’t have made me tear up, but here we are. Due to a rare genetic condition called Fabry Disease, I’ve had a kidney transplant, a stent in my heart that failed, and a double bypass, and I should be dead. Instead, I’ll be 50 in a few short months. But with incredible medical science, and unyielding support from my wife and best mates, I’m still on the mountain bike. I’m still on the dirt bike. I’m still on the ADV bike. I’m still backpacking. I hope anyone who sees my comment here can internalize one thing: you’re not done here. You’re still in the fight. Make every fucking day count. ♥️
MY FRIEND EVEN IF I DON'T KNOW YOU YOU'RE MY FRIEND. I TOTALLY FEEL YOU. BEEN THROUGH A HEART ATTACK AND A STENT BACK IN 2017. SO I SEE YOU'RE RIDING REAL BIKES😂. I WISH YOU ENJOY EVERY MOMENT WITH THEM AND PEOPLE WHO LOVE YOU. AND IF YOU EVER VISIT GREECE WELL DON'T WORRY A BIKE IS WAITING FOR YOU. TAKE CARE AND GOD BLESS YOU. 🙏👏🏍️😊
Thank you . I needed this as motivation. I've been going through a lot of shit lately. I've been struggling, but nowhere near as hard as you. I've contemplated suicide. My motorcycle is the only thing keeping me holding on by a thread. Your story is inspirational. Thank you for sharing and I hope for the best for you brother.
@@tylerdoop GOODAY. DON'T FORGET. LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL AND SMALL SIMPLE THINGS MAKE US HAPPY. LIKE A RIDE BY A SEASIDE ROAD OR PUTTING YOUR KNEE DOWN UP AT THE MOUNTAINS. WHATEVER YOU DO ENJOY IT. EVERY MOMENT. AND DON'T FORGET THAT YOU'RE A UNIQUE SPECIAL PERSON. ALL OF US ARE... TAKE CARE. GOD BLESS YOU... 😊
@@tylerdoop I’ve been on that ledge too, buddy, and more than once. I’m on the other side of those feelings now, and just know the results of the act will impact the people who love you far worse than anything you’re dealing with right now. Things ALWAYS change; we just have to dig deep and fight, and do it again and again. Hang in, brother.
I am 67 years old, I'll be 68 this March. I'm dealing with a Blood Disorder that will go into Bone Marrow Leukemia and Blood Leukemia if I don't take my medication daily which causes me nausea. I've owned a motorcycle since I was 11 years old, I now own a 2021 Honda CRF300LAM and it is the Best Therapy for Me ever! LOVE IT!
Riding a bike has kelp me alive when I had no reason to go on. When I have to stop riding my life will be over. I am 72 and I plan to ride for a long time. Great video.
This actually works, 15 years ago i broke up with my girlfriend, she cheated on me 😢. Sold my car and bought a ducati monster and i ride everywhere around the country meeting new people and friends it was the best feeling ever😊
Thank you for this. I'm 26 and feeling very lonely. I finally got my license two months ago and just to two finger greeting whenever I meet another biker on the road makes me feel part of something. I get exited every time. I couldn't stop crying after 1:51 it hit something deep, thank you.
That two finger wave is powerful. That was the most exciting part of riding when I first started, to feel a connection, a brotherhood with other bikers along my adventures. You’re not alone, keep riding ❤
you are not alone my friend. Remember that there is someone very real who always knows what you are going through. He is watching your every move and understands your struggles and pain. If you take the time he will also take the time to show you how special and amazing you are. My brother-in-law once told me when I was going through a tough time in life and walking as a Christian, he said "You are a beautiful man" when I thought I was the worst of persons. You are a beautiful person. Just know that the Lord is never too far. He is right there and he wants you to know.
I'm a 33yr retired ex first responder, I suffer PTSD, anxiety and depression. I live alone, with my dog. I have no partner, I'm too broken. But when I am on my bike, the world makes sense to me, it heals my soul, my heart is filled with joy as my eyes, mind and body embrace the freedom of riding. I feel alive and I want to live. Ps. I recognised the road in the video, Pt Cook RAAF base corner,Aviation Rd.
At 41 Accidently bought the first Bike my Enfield...its love❤ Been able to connect with a wonderful Riding community in NCR. Riding is meditative. It Heals, gives you a new tangent. You ride outside and inside. Still far from where i would want myself to be in the inside..but whenever in on the roll, I am more Alive! Ride with responsibility, Ride with soul, Discover places while you are able to discover your self... Love!!❤
A good example of riding to heal is Rush's drummer Neal Peart who lost his daughter in an accident and then wife to cancer in 1997, 1998. Read the book Ghost Rider where he rides 55,000 miles to come to terms with what happened in his life. Neal really had some struggles in his life.
I worked with a guy who lost both of his daughters to two identical accidents one year apart, just before Christmas. They were even sitting in the same seat of the same model car. Their friends still visit him and his wife.
And here's the song Neil -- one of the 20th Century's greatest poets -- wrote about all that riding he did to help heal from his massive losses: th-cam.com/video/JIhnt4nG4yA/w-d-xo.htmlsi=urVwJtfTZcU6oiNg
I know this was for MEN,...but as a 44 year old single woman, I need this!!! I've been studying and I am taking the MSF course in less than 2 weeks. This video hit home and I'm hoping the experience of riding will bring me joy, learning, appreciation, new friends, and more!
As a mental health professional, and someone whom lost their pup late October this year… this hit hard, but also gave me a sense of healing. Thank you, Mojo, for giving a voice to grief, and for bringing to attention something dear to me and something I’m passionate about. Mental health. Much love to you man!
When my father was diagnosed with cancer, he asked me and my sister to buy motorcycle so he could ride with his childrens. We agreed and at 40 years old i started riding. I never wanted to ride i was kinda scared how i would behave on a bike. I dont regret it, last summer we went on many bike ride. He past away in march. I will always be gratefull that he pushed me toward motorcycle, I'll always be riding with him on my mind. Rip C.
Dude, I'm in my late 30s and started struggling with mental health problems 3 years ago. I've had panic attacks, severe anxiety, and all kinds of shit and the one thing that helps me forget about that is when I'm on my bike. Thank you for this video.
As a war veteran, i ride to find peace in life. Seen much shit and hoping bike brothers will find me as the ones on this short. Great film. Made me cheer up.❤
I feel your pain, We had a dog named Scooby many years ago and she had to be put down. My biggest regret was not being there with her while she was put to sleep. I couldn't bear seeing her laying there as she slowly slipped away forever. That was the biggest mistake I ever made in my life and I will NEVER EVER make that mistake again. Even today there is not a day that goes by that I don't think about her. I love her and miss her dearly and always will miss her. Just typing this comment now I am tearing up. THEY ARE FAMILY. God bless.
@@kjvbiblebelievertal7431 Hey, there is no shame in not being able to watch your companion's very short final moment. We must try to remember and treasure all the joys, happiness, bonding, companionship, and loving moments we had with them. We must know and remember our dogs had their complete full life filled with all our love. The unconditional love we and our dogs felt for each other will forever be beyond that one very short final moment where we very bravely ended a best friend's suffering.
We lost our 13 year old mini dachshund Gabby on New Years eve. She was the best dog. She loved going on rides on our Goldwing. We only took her on low speed limit residential roads while my wife held her on the back seat. It's been a hard couple of months and I sure do miss her.
My mom died five years ago due to cancer. I wasn't able to see her or attend the funeral because of the COVID-19 lockdown. The last words she said to me were, "You're a grown-up son, do what is right even if no one else is doing it. We will never see each other again." That hits hard. It's one of the reasons I ride. I can cry, shout out loud, and feel free. That same year I Iost my job, broke up with my girlfriend, plus the pandemic. But there's this friend who never gave up on me. He helped me put myself together. Still riding. Thank God! Ride safe.
Bruh... there's NO WAY to keep a dry eye if you both lost a beloved 4-legged friend/partner AND ride motorcycles. I've had/have both, and the associations on both of these levels was so profound that this video touched a spot within me that's only been done a handful of times in my life. Thank you for this video. Thank you!
I'm in my 60's been riding since I was 10. Riding has been my solace and therapy for my whole adult life. I can relate to this video on a deep level to cope with loses in my life whether a beloved pet, parents, siblings and finally my marriage unexpectedly. Now I am single dad teaching my son to ride. I hope it does for him what it had done for me. This video should have millions of views!
I am 71, been riding since I was 11(early 60s Black Honda 50. Age 13 Briggs and Stratton mini bike, age 16 Cushman Super Eagle. Age 17 Honda 305 Super Hawk, Age 19 1959 Harley Davidson pan head. It was stolen in about 1 year. Met my future wife. Got married when I was 20. Wrecked a Yamaha RD 360 when I was 27 (broke my femur) have a steel rod in my left leg back in 1980. Since that time I owned 2 more Harleys, a 78 750 Triumph Bonneville, 4 Gold Wings, Yamaha Road Star 1600 that I put over 100k miles on before I sold it. I currently ride an 07 Kawasaki Vulcan 1500. I am still married to the same girl I met in 1972. The bikes helped my marriage and helped me keep my sanity.
@@dwRS1Loved reading the progression of bikes through out your life. Froze when I read that u crashed an RD 360. In india the one we dreamt of as kids was the Yamaha RD 350. It is so good to read a story of a man married at 20 and still married :) I only hear regrets about marrying young. I do believe in what you say about your bikes in the end :) Cheers, Sir! And beautifully done video, gentlemen! 🤝
I'm a riding instructor in Ohio. Motorcycling elicits powerful emotions; our sport is widely known as a tool for personal growth, but it's also an important tool for healing. The bond between riders is strong, and if you are lonely, I encourage you to sign up for riding courses and make friends. Look for a class that matches your skill level, or a level that you want to achieve! Many organizations offer scholarships to help with the cost if needed. I'd be remiss if I didn't remind everyone that intense and/or confusing emotions, such as grief, *can* be a distraction when riding (as we saw in the film) so please be certain that you are able to focus on the ride. We don't want anyone hurt. And we certainly don't want to lose you. Mojobike's characters demonstrated that a rider who is less comfortable and less capable, for ANY reason, should be the leader. Thank you for showing us that in your film, Mojobike! Subbed.
I've been riding 63 years and at 76 still ride thousands of miles a year. It keeps me sane in this crazy world. I lost my beloved Aussie a few years ago and when I saw what the rider was sad about I could really relate. It damn near killed me. Lost one of me best friends and riding buddies to covid 2 years ago and my 97 year old Mom last May. Another good friend and riding buddy is in the hospital now because a 21 year old turned left into him. He lives to ride and is going to quit. Its breaking my heart. Only thing I can do to re-leave the hurt is go for a ride. Fortunately I live in So. Cal. and can ride year round. So, I think I'll go jump on the bike and head up the mountain.
I am 62 and have not been on a bike since I sold my Harley 17 years ago. Since then I have become disabled with terrible anxiety & depression to the point t I was close to ending it and I still occasionally think about it. I plan on getting my first dog next month (a rescue) and also get back on two wheels and pick up another Harley. I love dogs so much and spend a lot of time watching dog videos on YT. And I clearly remember back in the day as soon as I got home from my corp job I would get on my bike as and all the stress from work quickly melted away. This is one of the very best videos on YT along with so many profound comments and was a sign from God that getting both a dog and bike is what I need to heal from so much trauma. God bless everyone who took the time to comment. You have helped me so much and humbled by everyone’s stories. Safe travels my friends🙏
Motorcycling has truly been a blessing in my life. For many years, I struggled with depression and had thoughts of ending it all. Then, two years ago, inspired by a buddy who often shared tales of his many roadtrips, I decided to try it. I saved up a few thousand bucks over the span of 6 months, passed my motorcycle license, and bought my first bike, a Honda NC700s. From the moment I started riding, it felt like I had grown wings. The freedom, the joy, the connection with the road and nature, and the adrenaline rush have brought color back into my life. Now, I'm considering buying a second bike next year :)
The road is the only place where I feel free. Free from my thoughts. Free from the stress. Free of anxiety and depression. Free of the Thoughts about the past and the people that hurt me. I think my motorcycle saved me. And I am very thankful for that. One day it will all be over but until my heart stops beating I will be riding.
My wife was diagnosed with cancer three years ago now, riding my motorcycles saved me from falling into depression, she continues to fight, and I continue riding my motorcycles and looking to the future with hope.
We all understand what this film means. I've started riding less than a year from now, and every time I get out with my bike it just heals the smallest and biggest cracks there are inside of me. I wish many more people would give riding a chance because it's liberating!
This video brought me to tears. My miniature Yorkie, Princeton, had just turned 11 this past July 2023. While out chasing a squirrel, as he'd done many times, he apparently hit something in his chest area. I ran to get him, picked him up and carried him to the porch. He seemed okay at the time, just a little shaken up, then suddenly went into a seizure and never recovered. It happened so quick. His last breath was one of mine, as I was trying all I could think of to revive him. He's buried under a Mimosa tree, within sight of the front porch. I've missed him each and every day since, he was always by my side, ever since he was 8 weeks old. Prince Princeton aka Tidbit 🐾 July 12 2012-August 4 2023 He brought so much joy and shared so much love, and he was loved and had a good life. He even loved riding on my motorcycle too! Special memories I'll have to the day I depart this world. Thank you for sharing this video. We all need someone to lean on. Blessings from Georgia 🙏 Golden Eagle 🪶
I just wanted to say how much I appreciate you making this. Too often we deal with grief by shutting it out. Broke up with a significant other, delete all the photos. Lost a good friend, stop thinking about them. All of us, we need to deal with emotions, process them and let go. It feels so good to let go. And you know the best part, letting go doesn't mean you forget. Letting go means opening your heart and feeling everything. Opening your heart to let life continue. Motorcycles never saved my life. Even though I expected it to change a lot of things. I saved my life. And I'll tell you what, motorcycles helped me live a little more. Here's to love, life and feeling everything. Here's to living.
I was in depression and was introvert staying at home a lot due to all the corporate ups & downs. Thats when i decided to give myself birthday gift a new bike (RE Himalayan 450) and registered for a local RE club. Trust me, all those feelings, emotions & depression have feded away. I travel to and from office, record myself, post it on youtube (beginer). The drive to and back from office give me relaxation and self containment and whatever goes on in office, its all negated. Its awesome feeling whcih cannot be described and nobody but you and your close ones understand that. YOU lovely articulated in 4:30 mins video. Thanks a lot for sharing. Take Care and may GOD bless you and keep you always safe.
Stay strong! We are men’s solid like a diamond and honest with ourselves. People call us shady, but only because we hide our feelings so we won’t hurt the ones we love. Stay strong my guys!
I've lost a great dog 2 years ago and after that, riding had a different importance for me. So I can totally relate to that short. For all the riders out there that ride to heal, hope u find solace.
This is how I feel like. Im in Toronto and in the middle of winter the blues hit me hard like a punch in the stomach. If I didnt have my sweet little 4 legged creature Harley Davidson by my side I would be real mess. Shout out to all the fellow brothers who feel this way we can make it through this. 🙏
Bro I feel this. I live in Washington State, so winter is the longest, worst season for me as a rider too. We sit and wait for the warm weather, but every year it comes to bring us freedom and joy on our 2 wheel mental health counselor. Stay strong brother, the riding season is nearly here!
I'm going through the separation nearly 1.5yrs now from my wife and 7yr old son.. I soak in tears of loneliness every night.. go broken in the middle of work and conversation even around my friends sometimes.I bought a bike in the hopes that I can ride, heal and repair me faster🤞🏾.. This well made short film is on spot and the comments section thumbs up'smy decision is right🙏🏾🙏🏾 and worked for many.. No matter what Men should heal themselves❤ even faster with hopes in God n prayers
My dad let go of his ancient little dog in 2005 or '10. He was devastated, and couldn't bring himself to open the tiny postal box its ashes were delivered in and it sat on his fireplace. He said when it's time, he wanted to be buried with his best friend. October '22, I finally opened the box, put it in his, and he was. I've struggled with mental health most of my life, and I suspect he did, too. He suffered for decades. I learned to ride motorcycles at 35, about 9yrs ago. It changed my life and saved it. Started seeing a therapist, taking care of "me" better. A long ways to go, but I'd rather be sober to ride whenever I can and ride safe enough to ride again tomorrow. You're not alone out there, lads. I'm happy to meet anyone for a friendly ear, and if you're in the DC-area, meet anyone for lunch. Cheers. Good video, y'all.
Thank you for sharing that and I'm sorry to hear about your Dad. May he always be watching over you when you ride! I'm up in the Northeast (CT/NY) but if I was closer I would definitely take you up on your offer to go ride! I actually used to live in Richmond, VA for 3 years back from '05-'08. I do occasionally pass through DC-area to go to VA, NC, and FL so I'll message you if/when in the future, thanks! Ride safe brother! 🏍🏍🏍
Touching. Touching and emotional. I never lost a dog but I can feel the pain. But you know what I had? I had a motorcycle, I know that feeling of freedom and what that feeling can do to you. Unfortunately my bike got stolen many years ago when I was a student at Jerusalem university. I liked that bike. For some reason I never got back, you know, got graduated, found a job, started a family and so on...and this movie of yours made me wanna recreate that feeling of freedom. I am going to buy a bike.
I initially responded in a commenters reply section but moving it here to the main thread. I completely understand the grief of loosing a dog. I get the despair and loss and emptiness it can bring. I too got back on a bike this past summer after 10 years off, and with those rides I always return feeling better than the moments I had before I set out. Appreciate the short film, I for some reason knew as you revealed the photo of your dog that is what might be there. Always honor them by keeping their memory in view! Al
I always ride with strangers and I have heard a lot of stories that they've never told to someone who they're familiar with. I've also gained knowledge, advices, confidence in improving life not just when riding motorcycles. Those strangers I've met, rode with, and ate food somewhere down the road are now my friends along side the community.
This is so good. Thank you. I was at a small motorcycle shop where they do general repair and maintenance on bikes. They aren’t a dealer and the guys are just regular enthusiasts who love motorcycling and the people who ride. I was hanging out and talking about nothing when an older gentleman came it, wondered around and said nothing. After a while, he was asked if he needed anything and the guy replied, “I’m lost, not physically, just looking for something…anything with meaning.” All of us were kinda shocked but quickly felt the reality of life this man was experiencing. Just hearing that motorcycling brings people together and that he WILL find camaraderie if he looks for it. People are hurting all around us and just being open to seeing it, observing, listening, is sometimes all a person needs. This man left there that day with tears and a smile. He said, “I’ll be back and thank you all for true interest and conversation.”
It's winter and riding has been weeks between. I've been struggling mentally and this video actually broke me. Thank you for reminding me to reach out and speak to those around me. I cannot wait to be back on two wheels, clearing my head of the stress and strain of daily life. Everyone ride safe and remember to care for yourself too.
Reading so many inspiring comments here and glad this came into my feed...we all know that how much we love to ride a motorcycle and that's why I'm wishing for you all out there to ride thousands and thousands of miles safely because it's the thing that helps...kudos to the makers✨
Since everyone else shared, I guess I will too. Lost both sides of my family in the past 3 years. 42 yr old single child. Took care of both parents during the hardest times. Cancer is gnarly. The government taking inheritance and charging for debts after death is out of control. Now dealing with manic depression and suicidal tendencies. Shameful how much it hurts my wife who can’t help. I built a KLR 650 to ride up canyons and find streams to fish in just after my car accident to heal my mind. So far it’s been one of the few things that lessen some pain, even for a few minutes is welcome. RIP to everyone whose life ended painfully or because of pain. We can all only hope for a peaceful passing and to be remembered fondly. Ride on.
Riding to heal, motorcycling as a therapy, talking and opening to someone, sharing the pain and the inner griefs (as we do easily on happy moments), enjoying the help and support of friends and family … your film sums it all up ✌️
I'm still suffering from a mental breakdown since a few years. The doctor told me to go do nice things for myself. Since a already liked riding my moped, I took driving lessons and I'm a biker for about two years now. I may never get back to 100% anymore, but at least I now have a great hobby. A few biker wisdoms: "When life gets you down, remember: It's only 1 down, the rest is up." "Googled my symptoms. Turns out, I just need to ride." Take care people and seek help when needed! ❤
Oh god. This hit close to home. I recently lost my dog, a golden retriever. And I just bought a Trident 660. I can't ride it yet because of the snow and ice- but come spring I'll probably live on the back of the bike. This video was masterfully shot. The videography and the music was just absolutely perfect. It makes me sad and happy all at once. We men need to learn that it's not a weakness to talk about our struggles. Stay safe everyone. ❤
I was in a motorcycle accident in my mid 20s that will stay with me for the rest of my life (permanently damaged my foot). I haven't driven since then, almost 10 years. However, that left such an emptiness in me and took away an essential part of my life. I've been riding motorcycle again since last summer and there's nothing that keeps me more grounded than just hitting the road without a plan for a few hours. Riding a motorbike clears your mind. So yeah riding heals.
There’s something cathartic about riding motorcycles. Sometimes I struggle to find the motivation to ride, often I can’t find anyone to wants to accompany me.. but when I do go out, I feel a mental shift but not right away; it takes 2 hours just to get out of the city.. but once the traffic thins out and the hiway starts to open up… it starts to feel like some kind of meditation.
Like finding a needle in the haystack, your experiences closely mirrors my own. Most of the time, I don't find company to ride with and sometimes I don't ride out cos of no company. Sometimes I have to push myself to put on my gear and go out but when I do, it is so soothing. My head clears up and there's a sense of calm. Of course we all have to come back to our lives but for those few hours I'm on my motorcycle, I feel free.
@@Whatreally123 what are the chances you live nearby… slim to none I’m guessing… but yes. We’re both on the same page. My old bike currently isn’t running, but I’m going to have this problem rectified next month. I’m chomping at the bit… Happy riding to you 👋🏻🖖🏻✌🏻
@@caryd67 if you love motorcycles, do make a trip to India. It's insane in the cities and mesmerising and beautiful in the high mountains of the Himalayas. 👍
Beautiful, beautiful film. I've only been a rider since October 2023. In that time I also, sadly, lost both my mum and my dog within a week of each other. I was, and still am, devastated. Riding my bike on my own, focusing on learning my road craft, plus the freedom it brings, is definitely helping with my healing process. Thank you...
dude... I started Crying almost from the get go.. this is flipping heart touching like no ones business..... And so true. Riding has a element of Wellness to it people who do not ride bikes wont truly understand... It's to do with nature I think, we are out there... in nature... no cage.... we feel our reason for existing subconsciously and it can really free us from pain .... Thanks for this video it was AMAZING
Great film. Im a psych, been riding for over 30 years, and the concentration needed to ride safely always sees my concerns drift into the background. Riding = therapy
I’m a fireman with PTSD. We work a lot and don’t have much time off. It’s hard to decompress. I am in the process of saving up to get a bike, so I can take shorts rides around home to help cope with the symptoms. Thank you for this video.
Yeah I am okay. Thanks for raising me. Wonderful masterpiece. Edited: How my 2023 went! Lost someone i love, had to quit my job, too many expenses and too less savings, two major accidents, poor mental health, anger issues, self doubt, over thinking, over loving someone, lost many near ones because i was not helpful to them anymore, i am just hoping this year will be good.
Profound. Thank you. 59 years old. Got my first bike on my 16th birthday. Rode till age 30, then started again in 2019, at 55 years old. Had an accident 5 days after getting my license and my new bike. I didn't know how to ride a "big bike". I spent 4 months healing and watching 100's of hours of TH-cam videos, then I got on the bike again and practiced, as Motojitsu and others say one should do. First in my local area. And then wider afield. And last year, I completed a Bucket List item, 2 weeks with 12 people riding 2,500 km around part of my country.
Lost my job, countless rejection replies but riding helped keep those dark thoughts building. Riding does much more than people would first believe. Thanks for posting this video. God bless you mate.
Cant help myself, i burst into tears by just watching this video. Feeling so sad. Used to had a bike riding buddy like this, a really good friend of mine, ride everywhere & anytime together with our bikes. Helping each other when down or difficulties. But now he is nowhere to be found. He is gone forever because of heart attack. May you have peace over there my good old friend🥺
Best prescription in the world 🌎 is a motorcycle 🏍 not only does it take away sadness depression or pain 😢 it creates a brotherhood and sisterhood bond that is unbreakable and that bond keeps expanding as every riding season passes.
Me and my uncle used to ride. I still watch our ride videos carving up the backroads. He took his life after our last ride when I was at work the next day. Listen for the undertones even when your friends smile... you never know what they're going through.
Bro, this is just amazing. I can only imagine the work to put all that together. Goosebumps from start to finish! You are the G.O.A.T as they say, but i prefer the long version, the Greatest Of All Time.
"The course of life wraps everything up, life is like this: it heats up and cools down, tightens and then loosens, calms down and then becomes restless. What she wants from us is courage." (ROSA, João Guimarães. Grande Sertão)
Thank you for this, I too went through a dark period not too long ago. Through a good friend, I picked myself up, took on diving and eventually riding. Both of which have helped me tremendously in my healing hence why I started my YT channel to share these reflections and thoughts with everyone interested
Thank you thank you thank you. This hit me hard. My dad passed a year ago today and he was a biker his whole life. Took my first ever ride on his bike with him, we never got to ride together and it’s the one thing I wish I could change is that we could ride together… Now when I ride I think of him and his love of bikes and it makes me smile t remember the good times we had. Makes me tear up a little too wishing I could see him one more time and share that love of riding he passed on to me… To all the riders out there, stay strong and if you can’t stay strong just know the biking brotherhood (and sisterhood) is always there for you… Thank you for this video.
Your rough times will get smoother like a freshly paved roadway, I promise…hang in, (Indian 1200 ftr) giving you a wave…I’m glad you cherished the time with him.
@@mkbull123 Thanks man.. yeah things will get easier… It’s my mum im more worried about… (nice bike by the way. I’m on a Ducati Multistrada 1200 s)… thanks for your reply. Ride safe man
My stepdad is like that. He's been biking for over 50 years. Now he's got health issues, and there are things he isn't happy about, but he wants to ride as long as he can and I totally respect that. Even if he wants me to lead 😅
Lost my little guy a little over a year ago, followed by my long time partner separating with me. This past year has been the darkest ever in my life, this one hits so very close to home. Spent a lot of time working on me, working on my life, therapy, and thankfully - more hours on the bike than the two previous years put together. Thankful for the rides, with a good friend, and even the solo ones.
riding a motorcycle is amazing. it puts me on edge, always aware of surroundings, always fear of crash, always ready for anything. but that has the benefit of disabling my emotion (except fear of death), allows me to focus on what I am doing, trains me to respect other people, and constantly force my brain to problem solve. this mostly applies to long range riding, with less traffic stops. in the city, it can sometimes get to the point where reckless riders/drivers make me angry😂
This hit close too. Lost my wife and I’s 8 month old kitty only a few weeks ago to an unfortunate illness he couldn’t beat. It’s been a tough few weeks. Make sure to look out for your fellow brothers, and pray for them when they struggle to open up💙
Throttle therapy there's nothing in the world like it when you need to clear your head... For myself it's probably when I talk to God the most and just as sure as the sun will rise the next day He does answer... not always right away but He does in His time and always at the right time. Great video... 👍👍👍👍
I am in the 60th and buried my seventh dog in my garden 8 weeks ago. Digging the graves and let some flowers go with them is very hard every time. But i hope, to see them all again, when my time has come. But i hope, not so soon, i found another 4 legged compagnion, lost on the street. She jumped in my car and decided, to keep on my side. My old dog accepted her and the young one learned much from her. Now the older is gone and we both missed her. And yes, i am riding bikes for more than 40 years.... i like this video.
I was so moved by this film, and I can relate to this 100% as I have been there….Thank you for raising such an important issue in a way most of us bikers can relate to. Keep talking fellas
This is a beautiful short film. Currently learning to ride because of all the challenges and losses I’ve had in my life and also my babies who are now young adults has brought out a lot of emotions. When I started backpacking with others is when I felt the freedom and lifting of all the heaviness I’ve held for years. I’m excited for the journey to learning and becoming a rider and next year going for a ride in Hawaii with my 18 year old. It’s going to be the best healing I’ll ever receive.
The first 30 years of my life was apocalyptic, then I brought a motor bike and met so many decent people. The feeling of carving corners is a wonderful thing.
It really worked for me after I was left alone by my gf as she was not feeling it. I went out for a ride and got the love that was lacking within myself. I love my bike #n160 Single but complete now.
Two weeks ago, I played this late at night and paused at the start. Decided to watch in morning. Lost my baby dog who had turned a year old days ago that morning. Sudden, unknown reasons. Later at night, I thought I'll distract myself and this video was waiting for me. Bawled my eyes out. A week later an old biker buddy calls, he was in town, rode out, talked, felt better. Thank you! It meant a lot :)
I need this back in my life. I have so many problems right now. I come from a generation where we don't talk about our problems. But getting back in the saddle would really help.
Powerful! As a longtime rider, dog owner, and son who lost both parents within 10 months, this one struck a nerve. 99 percent of my miles are ridden alone so I got some issues like we all do. Keep up the good work! We need more meaningful content. Nicely done. ✌🏿🙏🏿👏🏿❤
I just lost my 11 year old doberman Werner. Ive found myself riding and just daydreaming of the good times. Its surely a healing process and I appreciate you sharing this video with us!
I bought a bike a couple of weeks after my mother has been passed away due to cancer, and riding everyday made me realize that she always wanted me to be free and live my life without fear, maybe that's why she never toldm e she was sick until it was too late, to not worry me. May god rest her soul, I gotta ride and keep going foward.
Absolutely beautiful man. So well shot, every angle captured the emotion and feeling. Truly talented to tell this story with no voice. The body language was so heavy and you can’t help but feel the weight of it all. I hope to be half this talented one day so. Keep riding and keep story telling. 🤙
Watching this in bed with our sick dog… made me cry like a baby… sometimes you have to cry and let it out, this is life, we come, stay for far too little, and go…. Be strong brothers, ride responsibly..
This movie had me in tears. i feel you. Nothing is better to ride your bike when you need, nothing is worse than not asking for help when you need. We can be bikers, but sure we are humans.❤
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Hope you liked the film. This one's close to my heart ❤️ On a lighter note, I also wanted to ride in the front 😂
Loved it mate
Good one.. felt good..
If you aint first, your last - Ricky Bobby
What ruck Sack is that please
@chriswatts6161 it's the Langly Camera backpack: amzn.to/3T2FMru the link is also in the description 😉
My husband started riding within a few months of losing our 21-year old son to suicide in 2018 at the recommendation of a friend who rode and had lost his daughter. He said it helped with his grief. I later joined my husband as a passenger, then getting my own endorsement and bike in the summer of 2020. I can tell you without a doubt, our motorcycles saved us, healed us and still do every time we ride, along with our deep faith in God 🙏
I am very sorry for your loss and hope you continue to heal through the miles together.
I'm sorry for your loss
God Bless You🙏💕
Sorry for the loss, but also thanks for sharing that.
So sorry about your loss. I am so glad you have a deep faith in God and this is our only way out from grief. So nice to see that you were able to use Bike riding to help in the healing process. God bless you guys.
A BIG SHOUT OUT TO THAT FRIEND WHO GETS YOU OUT OF DARK PLACES!!!
BEEN RIDING SINCE 13 YEARS OLD. EXACTLY AT 50 WENT THROUGH A SEVERE HEART ATTACK. 56 NOW. STILL RIDING... EVERY DAY... COLD OR HOT. MY HEART WORKS MUCH BETTER ON MY BMW S1000XR. WAITING IN 3 MONTHS FOR THE NEW M ONE. STILL RIDING... ENJOY LIFE GUYS. EVERY DAY. AGE IS JUST A NUMBER. ❤
I wish you many more miles
@@austin1489 THANK YOU MY FRIEND. ENJOY RIDING TOO. STAY HEALTHY 👏
Ride eternal my friend! Shiny and chrome.
72 and riding again! My daughter bought me an immaculate Suzuki Bandit 1200 for Father's Day three years ago.
@@stibblebar WOW. WHAT A DAUGHTER. WHICH PROBABLY MEANS YOU RAISED HER WELL MY FRIEND. I WISH YOU THE BEST ENJOY YOUR BIKE AND YOUR FAMILY. STAY HEALTHY. AND DON'T FORGET 72 IS JUST A NUMBER👏😊🏍️
In my 20s, I owned a motorcycle and cherished every ride. Although I sold it years ago, I've always yearned to own another. Last month, my best friend, partner, and husband passed away unexpectedly. In an effort to heal, I recently bought a new motorcycle and have been riding through the desert. The grieving process is incredibly challenging, but I find that getting on the bike and immersing myself in nature provides some solace.
Thank you very much for creating this video.
This hit a raw nerve with me. We men are brought up to be the rock. But, as solid as we think we are, we do crack. My wife died 15 years ago and with her passing, my reason for living died too. Riding does help to clear away the fog of despair for a time but I still have to return to an empty quiet house. What is the answer? I don't know. I'm still looking. Yes, there is professional help out there, if you can afford it. But, it still comes back to that issue, you are the man, you are the problem solver. We are caught between a rock and a hard place. I do have a few solid male friends, but their line of thinking is the same as mine. I do think that deep down they CAN relate to the way I am feeling, but, like me they have no answers either. I am my father's son. I realise now that my dad was suffering the same emotions I am now, but I was not aware of it, so I made no effort to help him. It's too late now, he's gone. I'm sorry dad. To all you blokes out there feeling the same as me, stay strong and ride.
I empathize for you and I send my condolences. Just know that the healing is out there and is closer than you think. Our Creator offers all of the remedies and answers to your questions in the glorious Quran. If you haven't read it, please do. I myself read it for the first time 5 years ago and it changed my entire perspective on my life purpose. "God never burdens a soul with more than it can bear." 2:286
"With every hardship comes ease." 94:5
Take care my brother.
Thanks for sharing, Sorry for your loss.
The other guy should have rearranged the letters of God to Dog. Dogs will save you, not his imaginary friend in the sky.
Take care.
I have been on that same road for 21 years now since losing my wife. Returning to riding bicycles and motorcycles has been a large part of the recovery process. It's part of returning to the world of the living again. Welcome back. Come alive.
My brother took his life two years ago at the end of this month. He left behind a couple of motorcycles, I started riding them and it’s been a gift. RIP my brother.
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Damn.. I can't imagine the pain that caused. I hope you ride free ❤
I rode while in the Army thirty years ago. I was afraid to start again after such a long time. My brother, who rode kept asking me to ride. He passed away four years ago. I started riding again in memory of him. Sometimes I place his ashes in my saddle bags so we can ride together. Beautiful moments with my brother where we "talk" and I find peace and forgiveness.
@@billyjones3062 Thank you for your service. Every time I ride his bike I feel closer to him and that he’s with me. Best thing I ever did was to get my license, I think they’ll always be that feeling every time I get on the bike and that’s a real comfort.
May his soul rest in peace
I started riding in 67 and i still ride today.
I've lost my Parents, my sister, two good friends , my dog and lastly my wife. Loosing my wife was by far the worst.
In the end a cup of pain is still a cup of pain . Reach out to others keep riding and believe in God.
Best
Thank you for sharing, wonderfully said...
Wow. Much sadness. 😞 But He is with you brother
Your amazing. Your not alone God get you. Stay strong ❤
You inspired so many by typing this, keep riding, godspeed!!
u are a strong man🎉
Started riding in 2021, at the age of 35. Since then, I ended a toxic relationship, lost my dad, and now we are dealing with another health issue in our family. But I also left a terrible job and started new ones where I feel recognized and happy. Today, I have my own business, and a beautiful wife. Riding helped to face my fears and encouraged to pursue my happiness. Can’t imagine my life without riding, hot or cold, dry or wet.
Keep riding guys.
This is exactly why I ride!
🙏🙏🙏🙏
Started riding last June. I tell all my bros who are struggling to get on a bike and ride! It truly helps!
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YES BROIII❤
Stopped riding in 2015 after my accident. Just got the bug back couple of weeks ago. Can’t wait to get my next bike
This was a masterpiece. No dialogues, no weird angles. Just minimal sound of bike and a soothing track. I feel the need to ride now. ❤ loved it!
This shouldn’t have made me tear up, but here we are. Due to a rare genetic condition called Fabry Disease, I’ve had a kidney transplant, a stent in my heart that failed, and a double bypass, and I should be dead. Instead, I’ll be 50 in a few short months. But with incredible medical science, and unyielding support from my wife and best mates, I’m still on the mountain bike. I’m still on the dirt bike. I’m still on the ADV bike. I’m still backpacking. I hope anyone who sees my comment here can internalize one thing: you’re not done here. You’re still in the fight. Make every fucking day count. ♥️
MY FRIEND EVEN IF I DON'T KNOW YOU YOU'RE MY FRIEND. I TOTALLY FEEL YOU. BEEN THROUGH A HEART ATTACK AND A STENT BACK IN 2017. SO I SEE YOU'RE RIDING REAL BIKES😂. I WISH YOU ENJOY EVERY MOMENT WITH THEM AND PEOPLE WHO LOVE YOU. AND IF YOU EVER VISIT GREECE WELL DON'T WORRY A BIKE IS WAITING FOR YOU. TAKE CARE AND GOD BLESS YOU. 🙏👏🏍️😊
Thank you . I needed this as motivation. I've been going through a lot of shit lately. I've been struggling, but nowhere near as hard as you. I've contemplated suicide. My motorcycle is the only thing keeping me holding on by a thread. Your story is inspirational. Thank you for sharing and I hope for the best for you brother.
@@tylerdoop GOODAY. DON'T FORGET. LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL AND SMALL SIMPLE THINGS MAKE US HAPPY. LIKE A RIDE BY A SEASIDE ROAD OR PUTTING YOUR KNEE DOWN UP AT THE MOUNTAINS. WHATEVER YOU DO ENJOY IT. EVERY MOMENT. AND DON'T FORGET THAT YOU'RE A UNIQUE SPECIAL PERSON. ALL OF US ARE... TAKE CARE. GOD BLESS YOU... 😊
@@tylerdoop I’ve been on that ledge too, buddy, and more than once. I’m on the other side of those feelings now, and just know the results of the act will impact the people who love you far worse than anything you’re dealing with right now. Things ALWAYS change; we just have to dig deep and fight, and do it again and again. Hang in, brother.
@@roadrunner6199 Bro, I love Greece, and I’d love to come back soon! ♥️
I am 67 years old, I'll be 68 this March. I'm dealing with a Blood Disorder that will go into Bone Marrow Leukemia and Blood Leukemia if I don't take my medication daily which causes me nausea. I've owned a motorcycle since I was 11 years old, I now own a 2021 Honda CRF300LAM and it is the Best Therapy for Me ever! LOVE IT!
Riding a bike has kelp me alive when I had no reason to go on. When I have to stop riding my life will be over. I am 72 and I plan to ride for a long time. Great video.
This actually works, 15 years ago i broke up with my girlfriend, she cheated on me 😢. Sold my car and bought a ducati monster and i ride everywhere around the country meeting new people and friends it was the best feeling ever😊
I got into riding after something similar in 2022. Made some amazing friends along the way!
Thank you for this. I'm 26 and feeling very lonely. I finally got my license two months ago and just to two finger greeting whenever I meet another biker on the road makes me feel part of something. I get exited every time. I couldn't stop crying after 1:51 it hit something deep, thank you.
Started crying at the same time. I feel with you, bro! Don't give up! You are not alone!
The riding community is special, we know the road can heal. Ride well rested with little on your mind, focus on the joy and the path ahead.
That two finger wave is powerful. That was the most exciting part of riding when I first started, to feel a connection, a brotherhood with other bikers along my adventures. You’re not alone, keep riding ❤
Hang in there bro.
you are not alone my friend. Remember that there is someone very real who always knows what you are going through. He is watching your every move and understands your struggles and pain. If you take the time he will also take the time to show you how special and amazing you are. My brother-in-law once told me when I was going through a tough time in life and walking as a Christian, he said "You are a beautiful man" when I thought I was the worst of persons. You are a beautiful person. Just know that the Lord is never too far. He is right there and he wants you to know.
I'm a 58 year old man shedding tears in his office. Thank you. RIP sweet Watson.
I'm a 33yr retired ex first responder, I suffer PTSD, anxiety and depression. I live alone, with my dog. I have no partner, I'm too broken.
But when I am on my bike, the world makes sense to me, it heals my soul, my heart is filled with joy as my eyes, mind and body embrace the freedom of riding. I feel alive and I want to live.
Ps. I recognised the road in the video, Pt Cook RAAF base corner,Aviation Rd.
We get it
Peace be with you.
Cheers from South Africa
What about your parents?
Me, too. My dog is my copilot in life.
At 41 Accidently bought the first Bike my Enfield...its love❤ Been able to connect with a wonderful Riding community in NCR. Riding is meditative. It Heals, gives you a new tangent. You ride outside and inside.
Still far from where i would want myself to be in the inside..but whenever in on the roll, I am more Alive!
Ride with responsibility, Ride with soul, Discover places while you are able to discover your self... Love!!❤
A good example of riding to heal is Rush's drummer Neal Peart who lost his daughter in an accident and then wife to cancer in 1997, 1998. Read the book Ghost Rider where he rides 55,000 miles to come to terms with what happened in his life. Neal really had some struggles in his life.
I worked with a guy who lost both of his daughters to two identical accidents one year apart, just before Christmas. They were even sitting in the same seat of the same model car.
Their friends still visit him and his wife.
And here's the song Neil -- one of the 20th Century's greatest poets -- wrote about all that riding he did to help heal from his massive losses: th-cam.com/video/JIhnt4nG4yA/w-d-xo.htmlsi=urVwJtfTZcU6oiNg
I was also going to recommend Ghost Rider.
I know this was for MEN,...but as a 44 year old single woman, I need this!!! I've been studying and I am taking the MSF course in less than 2 weeks. This video hit home and I'm hoping the experience of riding will bring me joy, learning, appreciation, new friends, and more!
I just registered to participate in riding classes for the license. The riders culture is growing on me ,
women's mental health is important too! i am 44 as well and been riding for 20 years now! you will enjoy every bit of it :)
Dutch by any chance? I also just started XD
I hope you're finding the new, rewarding passion I found.
As a mental health professional, and someone whom lost their pup late October this year… this hit hard, but also gave me a sense of healing. Thank you, Mojo, for giving a voice to grief, and for bringing to attention something dear to me and something I’m passionate about. Mental health. Much love to you man!
Thanks for your support and kind words, I hope you're doing well now 🫶
When my father was diagnosed with cancer, he asked me and my sister to buy motorcycle so he could ride with his childrens. We agreed and at 40 years old i started riding. I never wanted to ride i was kinda scared how i would behave on a bike. I dont regret it, last summer we went on many bike ride. He past away in march. I will always be gratefull that he pushed me toward motorcycle, I'll always be riding with him on my mind. Rip C.
Dude, I'm in my late 30s and started struggling with mental health problems 3 years ago. I've had panic attacks, severe anxiety, and all kinds of shit and the one thing that helps me forget about that is when I'm on my bike. Thank you for this video.
As a war veteran, i ride to find peace in life. Seen much shit and hoping bike brothers will find me as the ones on this short. Great film. Made me cheer up.❤
Losing a dog is like losing a best friend, I still think about my dog sometimes even after 20 years, I miss that pooch
I feel for you
I feel your pain, We had a dog named Scooby many years ago and she had to be put down. My biggest regret was not being there with her while she was put to sleep. I couldn't bear seeing her laying there as she slowly slipped away forever. That was the biggest mistake I ever made in my life and I will NEVER EVER make that mistake again. Even today there is not a day that goes by that I don't think about her. I love her and miss her dearly and always will miss her. Just typing this comment now I am tearing up. THEY ARE FAMILY. God bless.
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Bless you, I fully understand and feel for you ❤️
@@kjvbiblebelievertal7431 Hey, there is no shame in not being able to watch your companion's very short final moment. We must try to remember and treasure all the joys, happiness, bonding, companionship, and loving moments we had with them. We must know and remember our dogs had their complete full life filled with all our love. The unconditional love we and our dogs felt for each other will forever be beyond that one very short final moment where we very bravely ended a best friend's suffering.
We lost our 13 year old mini dachshund Gabby on New Years eve. She was the best dog. She loved going on rides on our Goldwing. We only took her on low speed limit residential roads while my wife held her on the back seat. It's been a hard couple of months and I sure do miss her.
My mom died five years ago due to cancer. I wasn't able to see her or attend the funeral because of the COVID-19 lockdown. The last words she said to me were, "You're a grown-up son, do what is right even if no one else is doing it. We will never see each other again." That hits hard. It's one of the reasons I ride. I can cry, shout out loud, and feel free. That same year I Iost my job, broke up with my girlfriend, plus the pandemic. But there's this friend who never gave up on me. He helped me put myself together. Still riding. Thank God!
Ride safe.
Bruh... there's NO WAY to keep a dry eye if you both lost a beloved 4-legged friend/partner AND ride motorcycles. I've had/have both, and the associations on both of these levels was so profound that this video touched a spot within me that's only been done a handful of times in my life. Thank you for this video. Thank you!
I'm in my 60's been riding since I was 10. Riding has been my solace and therapy for my whole adult life. I can relate to this video on a deep level to cope with loses in my life whether a beloved pet, parents, siblings and finally my marriage unexpectedly. Now I am single dad teaching my son to ride. I hope it does for him what it had done for me. This video should have millions of views!
I am 71, been riding since I was 11(early 60s Black Honda 50. Age 13 Briggs and Stratton mini bike, age 16 Cushman Super Eagle. Age 17 Honda 305 Super Hawk, Age 19 1959 Harley Davidson pan head. It was stolen in about 1 year. Met my future wife. Got married when I was 20. Wrecked a Yamaha RD 360 when I was 27 (broke my femur) have a steel rod in my left leg back in 1980. Since that time I owned 2 more Harleys, a 78 750 Triumph Bonneville, 4 Gold Wings, Yamaha Road Star 1600 that I put over 100k miles on before I sold it. I currently ride an 07 Kawasaki Vulcan 1500. I am still married to the same girl I met in 1972. The bikes helped my marriage and helped me keep my sanity.
@@dwRS1Loved reading the progression of bikes through out your life. Froze when I read that u crashed an RD 360. In india the one we dreamt of as kids was the Yamaha RD 350.
It is so good to read a story of a man married at 20 and still married :) I only hear regrets about marrying young. I do believe in what you say about your bikes in the end :)
Cheers, Sir!
And beautifully done video, gentlemen! 🤝
I'm a riding instructor in Ohio.
Motorcycling elicits powerful emotions; our sport is widely known as a tool for personal growth, but it's also an important tool for healing.
The bond between riders is strong, and if you are lonely, I encourage you to sign up for riding courses and make friends. Look for a class that matches your skill level, or a level that you want to achieve! Many organizations offer scholarships to help with the cost if needed.
I'd be remiss if I didn't remind everyone that intense and/or confusing emotions, such as grief, *can* be a distraction when riding (as we saw in the film) so please be certain that you are able to focus on the ride. We don't want anyone hurt.
And we certainly don't want to lose you.
Mojobike's characters demonstrated that a rider who is less comfortable and less capable, for ANY reason, should be the leader. Thank you for showing us that in your film, Mojobike! Subbed.
I've been riding 63 years and at 76 still ride thousands of miles a year. It keeps me sane in this crazy world. I lost my beloved Aussie a few years ago and when I saw what the rider was sad about I could really relate. It damn near killed me. Lost one of me best friends and riding buddies to covid 2 years ago and my 97 year old Mom last May. Another good friend and riding buddy is in the hospital now because a 21 year old turned left into him. He lives to ride and is going to quit. Its breaking my heart. Only thing I can do to re-leave the hurt is go for a ride. Fortunately I live in So. Cal. and can ride year round. So, I think I'll go jump on the bike and head up the mountain.
I am 62 and have not been on a bike since I sold my Harley 17 years ago. Since then I have become disabled with terrible anxiety & depression to the point t
I was close to ending it and I still occasionally think about it. I plan on getting my first dog next month (a rescue) and also get back on two wheels and pick up another Harley. I love dogs so much and spend a lot of time watching dog videos on YT. And I clearly remember back in the day as soon as I got home from my corp job I would get on my bike as and all the stress from work quickly melted away. This is one of the very best videos on YT along with so many profound comments and was a sign from God that getting both a dog and bike is what I need to heal from so much trauma. God bless everyone who took the time to comment. You have helped me so much and humbled by everyone’s stories. Safe travels my friends🙏
Motorcycling has truly been a blessing in my life. For many years, I struggled with depression and had thoughts of ending it all. Then, two years ago, inspired by a buddy who often shared tales of his many roadtrips, I decided to try it. I saved up a few thousand bucks over the span of 6 months, passed my motorcycle license, and bought my first bike, a Honda NC700s. From the moment I started riding, it felt like I had grown wings. The freedom, the joy, the connection with the road and nature, and the adrenaline rush have brought color back into my life.
Now, I'm considering buying a second bike next year :)
The road is the only place where I feel free. Free from my thoughts. Free from the stress. Free of anxiety and depression. Free of the Thoughts about the past and the people that hurt me. I think my motorcycle saved me. And I am very thankful for that. One day it will all be over but until my heart stops beating I will be riding.
Man this is amazing. Such an amazing message with no words spoken. The power of story telling through video. Loved every second of it
Thanks bro, appreciate the kind words. Cant wait to create more like this.
My wife was diagnosed with cancer three years ago now, riding my motorcycles saved me from falling into depression, she continues to fight, and I continue riding my motorcycles and looking to the future with hope.
We all understand what this film means. I've started riding less than a year from now, and every time I get out with my bike it just heals the smallest and biggest cracks there are inside of me. I wish many more people would give riding a chance because it's liberating!
This video brought me to tears. My miniature Yorkie, Princeton, had just turned 11 this past July 2023. While out chasing a squirrel, as he'd done many times, he apparently hit something in his chest area. I ran to get him, picked him up and carried him to the porch. He seemed okay at the time, just a little shaken up, then suddenly went into a seizure and never recovered. It happened so quick. His last breath was one of mine, as I was trying all I could think of to revive him. He's buried under a Mimosa tree, within sight of the front porch. I've missed him each and every day since, he was always by my side, ever since he was 8 weeks old.
Prince Princeton aka Tidbit 🐾
July 12 2012-August 4 2023
He brought so much joy and shared so much love, and he was loved and had a good life. He even loved riding on my motorcycle too! Special memories I'll have to the day I depart this world.
Thank you for sharing this video. We all need someone to lean on.
Blessings from Georgia 🙏
Golden Eagle 🪶
Thanks! I lost a good friend this year on a ride. It’s been rough but I can’t stop riding. It’s been part of my life for over 50 years
I just wanted to say how much I appreciate you making this. Too often we deal with grief by shutting it out. Broke up with a significant other, delete all the photos. Lost a good friend, stop thinking about them. All of us, we need to deal with emotions, process them and let go. It feels so good to let go. And you know the best part, letting go doesn't mean you forget. Letting go means opening your heart and feeling everything. Opening your heart to let life continue.
Motorcycles never saved my life. Even though I expected it to change a lot of things. I saved my life. And I'll tell you what, motorcycles helped me live a little more. Here's to love, life and feeling everything. Here's to living.
I was in depression and was introvert staying at home a lot due to all the corporate ups & downs. Thats when i decided to give myself birthday gift a new bike (RE Himalayan 450) and registered for a local RE club. Trust me, all those feelings, emotions & depression have feded away. I travel to and from office, record myself, post it on youtube (beginer). The drive to and back from office give me relaxation and self containment and whatever goes on in office, its all negated. Its awesome feeling whcih cannot be described and nobody but you and your close ones understand that. YOU lovely articulated in 4:30 mins video. Thanks a lot for sharing. Take Care and may GOD bless you and keep you always safe.
Stay strong! We are men’s solid like a diamond and honest with ourselves. People call us shady, but only because we hide our feelings so we won’t hurt the ones we love. Stay strong my guys!
I've lost a great dog 2 years ago and after that, riding had a different importance for me. So I can totally relate to that short. For all the riders out there that ride to heal, hope u find solace.
You said so much, without actually saying a word. This was the epitome of a picture being worth a thousand words.
This is how I feel like. Im in Toronto and in the middle of winter the blues hit me hard like a punch in the stomach. If I didnt have my sweet little 4 legged creature Harley Davidson by my side I would be real mess. Shout out to all the fellow brothers who feel this way we can make it through this. 🙏
You can, and you must. We need you out here on the highways. See you in the spring.
Bro I feel this. I live in Washington State, so winter is the longest, worst season for me as a rider too. We sit and wait for the warm weather, but every year it comes to bring us freedom and joy on our 2 wheel mental health counselor. Stay strong brother, the riding season is nearly here!
I'm going through the separation nearly 1.5yrs now from my wife and 7yr old son.. I soak in tears of loneliness every night.. go broken in the middle of work and conversation even around my friends sometimes.I bought a bike in the hopes that I can ride, heal and repair me faster🤞🏾.. This well made short film is on spot and the comments section thumbs up'smy decision is right🙏🏾🙏🏾 and worked for many..
No matter what Men should heal themselves❤ even faster with hopes in God n prayers
Thank you for sharing, it takes time to heal but its better to talk to someone, someday.
My dad let go of his ancient little dog in 2005 or '10. He was devastated, and couldn't bring himself to open the tiny postal box its ashes were delivered in and it sat on his fireplace. He said when it's time, he wanted to be buried with his best friend. October '22, I finally opened the box, put it in his, and he was. I've struggled with mental health most of my life, and I suspect he did, too. He suffered for decades. I learned to ride motorcycles at 35, about 9yrs ago. It changed my life and saved it. Started seeing a therapist, taking care of "me" better. A long ways to go, but I'd rather be sober to ride whenever I can and ride safe enough to ride again tomorrow. You're not alone out there, lads. I'm happy to meet anyone for a friendly ear, and if you're in the DC-area, meet anyone for lunch. Cheers. Good video, y'all.
Thank you for sharing that and I'm sorry to hear about your Dad. May he always be watching over you when you ride! I'm up in the Northeast (CT/NY) but if I was closer I would definitely take you up on your offer to go ride! I actually used to live in Richmond, VA for 3 years back from '05-'08. I do occasionally pass through DC-area to go to VA, NC, and FL so I'll message you if/when in the future, thanks! Ride safe brother! 🏍🏍🏍
Touching. Touching and emotional. I never lost a dog but I can feel the pain. But you know what I had? I had a motorcycle, I know that feeling of freedom and what that feeling can do to you. Unfortunately my bike got stolen many years ago when I was a student at Jerusalem university. I liked that bike. For some reason I never got back, you know, got graduated, found a job, started a family and so on...and this movie of yours made me wanna recreate that feeling of freedom. I am going to buy a bike.
Whenever i sad... depressed... angry....i just go out..a solo ride fills my heart with peace ❤....n this video is a masterpiece to watch ❤
I initially responded in a commenters reply section but moving it here to the main thread.
I completely understand the grief of loosing a dog. I get the despair and loss and emptiness it can bring. I too got back on a bike this past summer after 10 years off, and with those rides I always return feeling better than the moments I had before I set out. Appreciate the short film, I for some reason knew as you revealed the photo of your dog that is what might be there. Always honor them by keeping their memory in view!
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I always ride with strangers and I have heard a lot of stories that they've never told to someone who they're familiar with.
I've also gained knowledge, advices, confidence in improving life not just when riding motorcycles.
Those strangers I've met, rode with, and ate food somewhere down the road are now my friends along side the community.
This is so good. Thank you. I was at a small motorcycle shop where they do general repair and maintenance on bikes. They aren’t a dealer and the guys are just regular enthusiasts who love motorcycling and the people who ride. I was hanging out and talking about nothing when an older gentleman came it, wondered around and said nothing. After a while, he was asked if he needed anything and the guy replied, “I’m lost, not physically, just looking for something…anything with meaning.” All of us were kinda shocked but quickly felt the reality of life this man was experiencing. Just hearing that motorcycling brings people together and that he WILL find camaraderie if he looks for it. People are hurting all around us and just being open to seeing it, observing, listening, is sometimes all a person needs. This man left there that day with tears and a smile. He said, “I’ll be back and thank you all for true interest and conversation.”
It's winter and riding has been weeks between. I've been struggling mentally and this video actually broke me. Thank you for reminding me to reach out and speak to those around me. I cannot wait to be back on two wheels, clearing my head of the stress and strain of daily life. Everyone ride safe and remember to care for yourself too.
I’m 67 and began riding again after a 30 year break. It’s the best thing I do for myself. Live to ride. Ride to live.
Reading so many inspiring comments here and glad this came into my feed...we all know that how much we love to ride a motorcycle and that's why I'm wishing for you all out there to ride thousands and thousands of miles safely because it's the thing that helps...kudos to the makers✨
Since everyone else shared, I guess I will too. Lost both sides of my family in the past 3 years. 42 yr old single child. Took care of both parents during the hardest times. Cancer is gnarly. The government taking inheritance and charging for debts after death is out of control. Now dealing with manic depression and suicidal tendencies. Shameful how much it hurts my wife who can’t help. I built a KLR 650 to ride up canyons and find streams to fish in just after my car accident to heal my mind. So far it’s been one of the few things that lessen some pain, even for a few minutes is welcome. RIP to everyone whose life ended painfully or because of pain. We can all only hope for a peaceful passing and to be remembered fondly. Ride on.
Riding to heal, motorcycling as a therapy, talking and opening to someone, sharing the pain and the inner griefs (as we do easily on happy moments), enjoying the help and support of friends and family … your film sums it all up ✌️
I'm still suffering from a mental breakdown since a few years.
The doctor told me to go do nice things for myself. Since a already liked riding my moped, I took driving lessons and I'm a biker for about two years now.
I may never get back to 100% anymore, but at least I now have a great hobby.
A few biker wisdoms:
"When life gets you down, remember: It's only 1 down, the rest is up."
"Googled my symptoms. Turns out, I just need to ride."
Take care people and seek help when needed! ❤
Oh god. This hit close to home.
I recently lost my dog, a golden retriever. And I just bought a Trident 660. I can't ride it yet because of the snow and ice- but come spring I'll probably live on the back of the bike.
This video was masterfully shot. The videography and the music was just absolutely perfect. It makes me sad and happy all at once.
We men need to learn that it's not a weakness to talk about our struggles. Stay safe everyone. ❤
🙏👍🙏👍
I feel for you ❤
I’m sorry for your loss and I hope I see you out there on the road once the weather is better.
I was in a motorcycle accident in my mid 20s that will stay with me for the rest of my life (permanently damaged my foot). I haven't driven since then, almost 10 years. However, that left such an emptiness in me and took away an essential part of my life. I've been riding motorcycle again since last summer and there's nothing that keeps me more grounded than just hitting the road without a plan for a few hours. Riding a motorbike clears your mind. So yeah riding heals.
Riding is the magical method to healing from the inside. Heals mind and soul.
There’s something cathartic about riding motorcycles. Sometimes I struggle to find the motivation to ride, often I can’t find anyone to wants to accompany me.. but when I do go out, I feel a mental shift but not right away; it takes 2 hours just to get out of the city.. but once the traffic thins out and the hiway starts to open up… it starts to feel like some kind of meditation.
Like finding a needle in the haystack, your experiences closely mirrors my own. Most of the time, I don't find company to ride with and sometimes I don't ride out cos of no company. Sometimes I have to push myself to put on my gear and go out but when I do, it is so soothing. My head clears up and there's a sense of calm. Of course we all have to come back to our lives but for those few hours I'm on my motorcycle, I feel free.
@@Whatreally123 what are the chances you live nearby… slim to none I’m guessing… but yes. We’re both on the same page. My old bike currently isn’t running, but I’m going to have this problem rectified next month. I’m chomping at the bit… Happy riding to you 👋🏻🖖🏻✌🏻
@@caryd67 chances are none. I'm from India. 😀
Good luck with getting your bike fixed and your next rides. 👍
@@Whatreally123 India! Wow, that would definitely be quite an interesting road trip! Thank you for your comment ✌🏻🫶🏻
@@caryd67 if you love motorcycles, do make a trip to India. It's insane in the cities and mesmerising and beautiful in the high mountains of the Himalayas. 👍
Beautiful, beautiful film. I've only been a rider since October 2023. In that time I also, sadly, lost both my mum and my dog within a week of each other. I was, and still am, devastated. Riding my bike on my own, focusing on learning my road craft, plus the freedom it brings, is definitely helping with my healing process. Thank you...
dude... I started Crying almost from the get go.. this is flipping heart touching like no ones business..... And so true. Riding has a element of Wellness to it people who do not ride bikes wont truly understand... It's to do with nature I think, we are out there... in nature... no cage.... we feel our reason for existing subconsciously and it can really free us from pain ....
Thanks for this video it was AMAZING
Great film. Im a psych, been riding for over 30 years, and the concentration needed to ride safely always sees my concerns drift into the background. Riding = therapy
I’m a fireman with PTSD. We work a lot and don’t have much time off. It’s hard to decompress. I am in the process of saving up to get a bike, so I can take shorts rides around home to help cope with the symptoms. Thank you for this video.
Yeah I am okay. Thanks for raising me. Wonderful masterpiece.
Edited: How my 2023 went!
Lost someone i love, had to quit my job, too many expenses and too less savings, two major accidents, poor mental health, anger issues, self doubt, over thinking, over loving someone, lost many near ones because i was not helpful to them anymore, i am just hoping this year will be good.
Profound. Thank you. 59 years old. Got my first bike on my 16th birthday. Rode till age 30, then started again in 2019, at 55 years old. Had an accident 5 days after getting my license and my new bike. I didn't know how to ride a "big bike". I spent 4 months healing and watching 100's of hours of TH-cam videos, then I got on the bike again and practiced, as Motojitsu and others say one should do. First in my local area. And then wider afield. And last year, I completed a Bucket List item, 2 weeks with 12 people riding 2,500 km around part of my country.
Nothing more therapeutic than taking my bike out for a long ride and deliberately getting lost and seeing where i end up.
Lost my job, countless rejection replies but riding helped keep those dark thoughts building. Riding does much more than people would first believe. Thanks for posting this video. God bless you mate.
Hang in there, it'll get better..
To all riders out there, I wish you all good health and hope you ride for a long time. Ride safe y’all ❤
Cant help myself, i burst into tears by just watching this video. Feeling so sad. Used to had a bike riding buddy like this, a really good friend of mine, ride everywhere & anytime together with our bikes. Helping each other when down or difficulties. But now he is nowhere to be found. He is gone forever because of heart attack. May you have peace over there my good old friend🥺
Best prescription in the world 🌎 is a motorcycle 🏍 not only does it take away sadness depression or pain 😢 it creates a brotherhood and sisterhood bond that is unbreakable and that bond keeps expanding as every riding season passes.
Me and my uncle used to ride. I still watch our ride videos carving up the backroads. He took his life after our last ride when I was at work the next day. Listen for the undertones even when your friends smile... you never know what they're going through.
Bro, this is just amazing. I can only imagine the work to put all that together. Goosebumps from start to finish! You are the G.O.A.T as they say, but i prefer the long version, the Greatest Of All Time.
Thanks Hakeem for your encouragement. Comments like this will go a long way for me!
"The course of life wraps everything up, life is like this: it heats up and cools down, tightens and then loosens, calms down and then becomes restless. What she wants from us is courage." (ROSA, João Guimarães. Grande Sertão)
Let's ride together, not just to reach a destination, but to discover healing along the way. Absolutely beautiful work Bro 👊
Thank you for this, I too went through a dark period not too long ago. Through a good friend, I picked myself up, took on diving and eventually riding. Both of which have helped me tremendously in my healing hence why I started my YT channel to share these reflections and thoughts with everyone interested
Thank you thank you thank you. This hit me hard. My dad passed a year ago today and he was a biker his whole life. Took my first ever ride on his bike with him, we never got to ride together and it’s the one thing I wish I could change is that we could ride together… Now when I ride I think of him and his love of bikes and it makes me smile t remember the good times we had. Makes me tear up a little too wishing I could see him one more time and share that love of riding he passed on to me… To all the riders out there, stay strong and if you can’t stay strong just know the biking brotherhood (and sisterhood) is always there for you… Thank you for this video.
I am amazed and touched by your comments. Thank you all for your support 🥹🙏
Your rough times will get smoother like a freshly paved roadway, I promise…hang in, (Indian 1200 ftr) giving you a wave…I’m glad you cherished the time with him.
@@mkbull123 Thanks man.. yeah things will get easier… It’s my mum im more worried about… (nice bike by the way. I’m on a Ducati Multistrada 1200 s)… thanks for your reply. Ride safe man
Ride safe & live a good life that’ll be your tribute to him…some don’t even have those memories so cherish them bro!!
My stepdad is like that. He's been biking for over 50 years. Now he's got health issues, and there are things he isn't happy about, but he wants to ride as long as he can and I totally respect that. Even if he wants me to lead 😅
Lost my little guy a little over a year ago, followed by my long time partner separating with me. This past year has been the darkest ever in my life, this one hits so very close to home. Spent a lot of time working on me, working on my life, therapy, and thankfully - more hours on the bike than the two previous years put together. Thankful for the rides, with a good friend, and even the solo ones.
riding a motorcycle is amazing.
it puts me on edge, always aware of surroundings, always fear of crash, always ready for anything.
but that has the benefit of disabling my emotion (except fear of death), allows me to focus on what I am doing, trains me to respect other people, and constantly force my brain to problem solve.
this mostly applies to long range riding, with less traffic stops. in the city, it can sometimes get to the point where reckless riders/drivers make me angry😂
This hit close too. Lost my wife and I’s 8 month old kitty only a few weeks ago to an unfortunate illness he couldn’t beat. It’s been a tough few weeks. Make sure to look out for your fellow brothers, and pray for them when they struggle to open up💙
Throttle therapy there's nothing in the world like it when you need to clear your head... For myself it's probably when I talk to God the most and just as sure as the sun will rise the next day He does answer... not always right away but He does in His time and always at the right time. Great video... 👍👍👍👍
I am in the 60th and buried my seventh dog in my garden 8 weeks ago. Digging the graves and let some flowers go with them is very hard every time. But i hope, to see them all again, when my time has come. But i hope, not so soon, i found another 4 legged compagnion, lost on the street. She jumped in my car and decided, to keep on my side. My old dog accepted her and the young one learned much from her. Now the older is gone and we both missed her.
And yes, i am riding bikes for more than 40 years.... i like this video.
I was so moved by this film, and I can relate to this 100% as I have been there….Thank you for raising such an important issue in a way most of us bikers can relate to. Keep talking fellas
This is a beautiful short film. Currently learning to ride because of all the challenges and losses I’ve had in my life and also my babies who are now young adults has brought out a lot of emotions. When I started backpacking with others is when I felt the freedom and lifting of all the heaviness I’ve held for years. I’m excited for the journey to learning and becoming a rider and next year going for a ride in Hawaii with my 18 year old. It’s going to be the best healing I’ll ever receive.
This is a wonderful gift to men in need. There's a need for this message to be heard. Kudos.
The first 30 years of my life was apocalyptic, then I brought a motor bike and met so many decent people. The feeling of carving corners is a wonderful thing.
It really worked for me after I was left alone by my gf as she was not feeling it. I went out for a ride and got the love that was lacking within myself. I love my bike #n160
Single but complete now.
Two weeks ago, I played this late at night and paused at the start. Decided to watch in morning.
Lost my baby dog who had turned a year old days ago that morning. Sudden, unknown reasons.
Later at night, I thought I'll distract myself and this video was waiting for me. Bawled my eyes out.
A week later an old biker buddy calls, he was in town, rode out, talked, felt better.
Thank you! It meant a lot :)
There are so many of us out there, been suffering from anxiety problems for years and this short film hit a nerve. I congratulate the film maker.
I need this back in my life. I have so many problems right now. I come from a generation where we don't talk about our problems. But getting back in the saddle would really help.
Powerful! As a longtime rider, dog owner, and son who lost both parents within 10 months, this one struck a nerve. 99 percent of my miles are ridden alone so I got some issues like we all do.
Keep up the good work! We need more meaningful content.
Nicely done.
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I just lost my 11 year old doberman Werner. Ive found myself riding and just daydreaming of the good times. Its surely a healing process and I appreciate you sharing this video with us!
I don't know what sweet spot you hit inside of me, but it it hit hard. This truly made me sob like little child. Thank you for this masterpiece.
I bought a bike a couple of weeks after my mother has been passed away due to cancer, and riding everyday made me realize that she always wanted me to be free and live my life without fear, maybe that's why she never toldm e she was sick until it was too late, to not worry me.
May god rest her soul, I gotta ride and keep going foward.
Absolutely beautiful man. So well shot, every angle captured the emotion and feeling. Truly talented to tell this story with no voice. The body language was so heavy and you can’t help but feel the weight of it all. I hope to be half this talented one day so. Keep riding and keep story telling. 🤙
Mate, comments like this keep me motivated to create more. Thank you 🙏
Watching this in bed with our sick dog… made me cry like a baby… sometimes you have to cry and let it out, this is life, we come, stay for far too little, and go….
Be strong brothers, ride responsibly..
I am a fellow rider who lost someone 7 years ago, and you can't imagine how this film touched my soul.
This movie had me in tears. i feel you. Nothing is better to ride your bike when you need, nothing is worse than not asking for help when you need. We can be bikers, but sure we are humans.❤