No but going into a relationship as a child and coming out as an adult is a literal whirlwind. Not something you can truly understand until you experience it. One of life’s bigger challenges but it’s also one of the most rewarding feelings once you find yourself and embrace the challenge of it all! Coffee shops and book shops became an every day staple for me during my healing period. Just going and sitting alone for hours felt so powerful. You’re doing AMAZING! You’ll look back one day and be grateful for the way life forced you to find parts of yourself you never knew existed. Thank you for your words ♥️
Ah man reading this brought back some emotions. I was in my first relationship from 18 til when I was 23 and since I was a kid when getting into it, I had no real foundation of who I was as a singular person. Wasn’t much “rediscovering” as it was simply discovering myself. Toughest thing I’ve ever gone through. But if anyone is reading this and is in a similar situation, I’ve become the most confident I have ever been, in every way, shape and form. Don’t ever put someone else first, you’ll lose sight of the person you want to become.
Totally agreed. My first relationship started when I was 18 years old. We went through all the big changes. I was freshman in college, and we moved in together. The relationship lasted throughout my 5 years in college. We grew together, but as a pair of sorts. She moved to another country, and after 7 months of long distance, we ended the relationship. I didn't give myself much time after that. About 5-7 months later, I was in a second relationship that lasted 2 and a half years. When that one ended, I really focused on myself. I like to say that it was like my system was downloading updates on the background during those almost 8 years, but until I restarted the system, they wouldn't apply (I don't know if this is clear enough). I had two years single, embracing myself and getting to know my adult version, learning to be alone and not be a part of something. Those years were when my real growth showed, when I learned to be comfortable and love myself. Even though the beginning was bumpy as hell because I had no idea who I was and what to do, and as Soph did, I always was a "friends first" kind of gal. But during those years, I realized that even though that was my mindset, I didn't always act like it. So, I deliberately started to prioritize myself and my friends. It was a hard journey with a lot of crying, but man, it was worth it 100%. When I see these videos of Soph in her healing era, I really relate a lot because I was her age when it happened to me. And once you see the other side, it's gratifying to learn that you can do it, that you'll thrive, and that life has its ups and downs. But if you choose your constants wisely, they'll make the journey easier.
Congrats on almost hitting 100k soph!! I’m so proud of you and all your hard work 🎉🎉 you’ve come so far and I can’t wait to see what else the future has in store for you 😊
I definitely went through the stage of "diabetes isn't a big deal," but I've found it healing in the past year or so to admit "yes, it is a big deal, and this a big part of my life." It's definitely a struggle when the people who are closest to you cannot come close to understanding how much it impacts your life. Anyway, I think connecting to other t1d's is really great and I love watching your content to feel like there are people who understand
friendships were massive for me! going out and socialising and creating good connections with friends makes so much of a difference! and therapy too. just to work through things with someone who will just listen without any fear of burdening them, its great.
Soph, you are one of, if not the kindest, down to earth influencers on TH-cam. You make everyone feel like a personal friend and I appreciate that about you. I don’t know what it’s like for you behind the scenes obviously, but you appear to handle things with such grace and dignity. Thanks for being you. Congrats in advance for hitting 100k. This video will push it over the edge
You are by far my comfort TH-camr. Thank you for sharing a little bit about your life with us and taking us on your journey. You have truly inspired me as a person and watching your videos brings me joy. You are so close to 100K omg so proud of you!
you have really helped me find myself again. for the past few years i’ve felt like i’m losing myself and living for others and now watching your videos and your healing journey has actually helped me a lot. you’re my comfort influencer for sure
your chart actually represents you really well. your love and attachment to calmness and stability and routines are such earthy traits and the aura of confidence and being carefree and a bad bitch is the fire taking over outwards. ure still an air sign and crave alot of alone and recharging time and love to be in ur own space. drop the rest of the chart lol. ily 🫶🏼
soph gives the best advice for like everything. she totally changed my perspective on t1d and breakups and how some things have energy from the relationship. also, sooo close to 100k!!!
My almost 2 year relationship recently ended.. it really is the little things! I’m currently on the hunt for a new hobby to invest my time in. It’s kinda nice in the sense that I get to re-find myself. It’s sad but it’s nice too, I feel like I’m healing a long side you and you don’t even know me 😂
This was a great video Soph, I really think you should do more sit down videos at least once a week to do fan interactions and stuff like that… you’re doing absolutely wonderful and we’re all proud of you 🤍
As an Aries sun, you being an Aries rising makes so much sense. Your rising sign is how you act outwardly and Aries qualities are loving to be busy, have assertive communication, love to lead, are straight forward, super outgoing and social with friends....etc
Watching your journey and your growth is so inspiring to me! You’re only a few months older than me (wild), but honestly seeing you live on your own and experience life is so comforting. I just moved to LA all by myself and it feels so lonely sometimes, I even adopted a puppy lol, but remembering to do the little things that bring my soul happiness is so important. Feeling is such a beautiful reminder that we are humans and experiencing life! 💜☀️
You’re such a blessings soph and such an amazing soul ! consistently praying on your healing , you deserve the best and i hope that you know you make so many people happy through your content and you inspire many ! ❤️ i also think your journey has been one of the best ive ever seen, i believe that everything you went through was for the better because you’re glowing more and more everyday even if it doesn’t always seem that way.
I really related to your coming out story. It took me a lot longer to figure out, but I enjoyed hearing yours so thank you for sharing. Maybe one day you could do another Q and A!
Bro congratulations on 2.3mil on ticktock soph u deserve bro love this kind of video honestly feels like we're getting to know a you more bro this glow keeps getting better and better love ya queen 👑❤️🔥🔥💯
Thanks for answering my question! I’m sorry you had so much internalized homophobia….I did too when I first came out 21 years ago! Things were a lot different then but we unfortunately still deal with many of the same things. Best of luck in your healing journey. ❤️
Your such an amazing person. Your really helping me getting trough everything. Your absolutely glowing🥰 I’m really proud of you. Your such an inspiration.
i never knew you struggled with disordered eating. i also struggled with an ED for 2 years and i’m finally on the road to recovery. i now have a lot of stomach issues and blood sugar problems and they are looking more into T1D. so just wanna say i’m proud of you, cause i get how hard it is. your positive attitude really inspires me.. just wanted to say that🤍
It always been obvious these past couple years that you were the more mature of the two. This Q&A video just knocked it out of the park. You are a wise young woman. I kinda wish I was this mature 9 years ago when I turned 23. A bright future is waiting for you, just you wait and see. ✌🏻
I’m also wondering if your opinion on things carrying energy, also applies to pictures. I feel like keeping pictures or texts in your phone from past relationships or friendships also holds an energy that prevents healing.
I hear what you are saying about living in NH. I was born and raised here but moved away for a while and I’m glad I did because I learned so much but I’m ‘wicked’ happy to be back and raising my kids here
Just thought it was cool that one of your dream jobs was interior designer and that mine, I’m going to college for it also. Also we’re both from nh, your literally my role model 😍
Love this! How do you get out of the negative mindset with health anxiety? I have it and it's taking over my life. Do you do anything to cope or something to get you to realize its just anxiety?
Life coach! Yes I see that. You naturally want to help people. I wish I had you when I was younger…instead I had the military to raise me…not the same lol.
No but going into a relationship as a child and coming out as an adult is a literal whirlwind. Not something you can truly understand until you experience it. One of life’s bigger challenges but it’s also one of the most rewarding feelings once you find yourself and embrace the challenge of it all! Coffee shops and book shops became an every day staple for me during my healing period. Just going and sitting alone for hours felt so powerful. You’re doing AMAZING! You’ll look back one day and be grateful for the way life forced you to find parts of yourself you never knew existed. Thank you for your words ♥️
This is so true!
Ah man reading this brought back some emotions. I was in my first relationship from 18 til when I was 23 and since I was a kid when getting into it, I had no real foundation of who I was as a singular person. Wasn’t much “rediscovering” as it was simply discovering myself. Toughest thing I’ve ever gone through. But if anyone is reading this and is in a similar situation, I’ve become the most confident I have ever been, in every way, shape and form. Don’t ever put someone else first, you’ll lose sight of the person you want to become.
Totally agreed. My first relationship started when I was 18 years old. We went through all the big changes. I was freshman in college, and we moved in together. The relationship lasted throughout my 5 years in college. We grew together, but as a pair of sorts. She moved to another country, and after 7 months of long distance, we ended the relationship. I didn't give myself much time after that. About 5-7 months later, I was in a second relationship that lasted 2 and a half years. When that one ended, I really focused on myself. I like to say that it was like my system was downloading updates on the background during those almost 8 years, but until I restarted the system, they wouldn't apply (I don't know if this is clear enough).
I had two years single, embracing myself and getting to know my adult version, learning to be alone and not be a part of something. Those years were when my real growth showed, when I learned to be comfortable and love myself. Even though the beginning was bumpy as hell because I had no idea who I was and what to do, and as Soph did, I always was a "friends first" kind of gal. But during those years, I realized that even though that was my mindset, I didn't always act like it. So, I deliberately started to prioritize myself and my friends. It was a hard journey with a lot of crying, but man, it was worth it 100%. When I see these videos of Soph in her healing era, I really relate a lot because I was her age when it happened to me. And once you see the other side, it's gratifying to learn that you can do it, that you'll thrive, and that life has its ups and downs. But if you choose your constants wisely, they'll make the journey easier.
"I'm healing parts of me that I didn't even know were broken" this. I needed this
“Healing parts of me I didn’t even know were broken” girl same 😭😭
i discovered you through all the drama and stuff but you’re such an interesting well spoken person and now i’m genuinely obsessed with you haha
Congrats on almost hitting 100k soph!! I’m so proud of you and all your hard work 🎉🎉 you’ve come so far and I can’t wait to see what else the future has in store for you 😊
I can’t believe how close you are to 100k! I’m so proud of you Soph!
I definitely went through the stage of "diabetes isn't a big deal," but I've found it healing in the past year or so to admit "yes, it is a big deal, and this a big part of my life." It's definitely a struggle when the people who are closest to you cannot come close to understanding how much it impacts your life. Anyway, I think connecting to other t1d's is really great and I love watching your content to feel like there are people who understand
Absolutely a big deal. She’s just trying to make it more manageable 😊 hope yours is as manageable as hers
The "do I want to be her or do I want her" is a mood. It can be really hard to distinguish
I don’t think you realize how inspirational you are. You’re a true gem on this earth. Sending all the love & good energy your way! ❤️
friendships were massive for me! going out and socialising and creating good connections with friends makes so much of a difference! and therapy too. just to work through things with someone who will just listen without any fear of burdening them, its great.
Soph, you are one of, if not the kindest, down to earth influencers on TH-cam. You make everyone feel like a personal friend and I appreciate that about you. I don’t know what it’s like for you behind the scenes obviously, but you appear to handle things with such grace and dignity. Thanks for being you. Congrats in advance for hitting 100k. This video will push it over the edge
You are by far my comfort TH-camr. Thank you for sharing a little bit about your life with us and taking us on your journey. You have truly inspired me as a person and watching your videos brings me joy. You are so close to 100K omg so proud of you!
you have really helped me find myself again. for the past few years i’ve felt like i’m losing myself and living for others and now watching your videos and your healing journey has actually helped me a lot. you’re my comfort influencer for sure
you truly are such an inspiration. i love you and i’m so proud of you, for everything 🤍
The fact that you can sit there and be so real is so amazing! Love the video! Can't wait for you to hit 100K you deserve it more than anyone!!!
Thank you so much for being you. you're litterally my comfort influencer. 💕
I totally see you as a life coach! Your vlogs inspire me so much 😭
“How is your hear feeling”❤️🥺that is the cutest way to ask someone how they’re feeing! Thats gonna be my new phrase😩
your chart actually represents you really well. your love and attachment to calmness and stability and routines are such earthy traits and the aura of confidence and being carefree and a bad bitch is the fire taking over outwards. ure still an air sign and crave alot of alone and recharging time and love to be in ur own space. drop the rest of the chart lol. ily 🫶🏼
soph gives the best advice for like everything. she totally changed my perspective on t1d and breakups and how some things have energy from the relationship. also, sooo close to 100k!!!
Your nearly getting close through 100k soph you deserve it because you are amazing Supporter
My almost 2 year relationship recently ended.. it really is the little things! I’m currently on the hunt for a new hobby to invest my time in. It’s kinda nice in the sense that I get to re-find myself. It’s sad but it’s nice too, I feel like I’m healing a long side you and you don’t even know me 😂
Your videos save my life
Feeling and loving yourself is the best thing in this whole wide world. Love you soph🤗
you are so close to 100k !! loved this video! i love your vlogs but u also really enjoy sit down videos! ❤️
Sophhh😍😍😍congrats on 2.3 mil on tiktok and soon 100K youtube! You’re on fire girl🔥🔥
I honestly respect you so much , you deserve to be happy and deserve to be loved the same way you love , i’m so proud of you and i love you
Girrrrl it is not “too late” to become an interior designer! You can make that switch ten years from now if you want to 💕
This was a great video Soph, I really think you should do more sit down videos at least once a week to do fan interactions and stuff like that… you’re doing absolutely wonderful and we’re all proud of you 🤍
As an Aries sun, you being an Aries rising makes so much sense. Your rising sign is how you act outwardly and Aries qualities are loving to be busy, have assertive communication, love to lead, are straight forward, super outgoing and social with friends....etc
hello soph lately you look radiant with great energy🥺✨💕
Wow so close to 100k, congrats in advance 🤍
She's sooo down to earth🥺🧡
Soph, I’m so proud of you ❤ you’ve come so far. Just keep working on you.
Smiled so big when I got your video notification! Best part of my day. Another great video. Keep it up girl. So close to 100k!!!! ❤
can’t wait watch. ily soph! so proud of u 🤍
Watching your journey and your growth is so inspiring to me! You’re only a few months older than me (wild), but honestly seeing you live on your own and experience life is so comforting. I just moved to LA all by myself and it feels so lonely sometimes, I even adopted a puppy lol, but remembering to do the little things that bring my soul happiness is so important. Feeling is such a beautiful reminder that we are humans and experiencing life! 💜☀️
You’re such a blessings soph and such an amazing soul ! consistently praying on your healing , you deserve the best and i hope that you know you make so many people happy through your content and you inspire many ! ❤️ i also think your journey has been one of the best ive ever seen, i believe that everything you went through was for the better because you’re glowing more and more everyday even if it doesn’t always seem that way.
My fav channel honestly! You are my comfort place and I watch your vids before sleep! 🫶🏻
I really related to your coming out story. It took me a lot longer to figure out, but I enjoyed hearing yours so thank you for sharing. Maybe one day you could do another Q and A!
you have helped me through my break up so much. i appreciate you and love you sm
It’s not too late for interior design! It’s never too late ❤
That’s crazy as someone who is moving from Boston to LA. Boston is beautiful and I’ll miss it but LA has always had my heart ❤️
Soph is so witty and so smooth speaker
Bro congratulations on 2.3mil on ticktock soph u deserve bro love this kind of video honestly feels like we're getting to know a you more bro this glow keeps getting better and better love ya queen 👑❤️🔥🔥💯
Proud of u. Be strong. Love urself. We love u. Sending love❤️
You’re just so cute 🥰 you inspire so many people without even knowing. Keep being you babe
This literally made my day .Thank you n love you Soph always
Thanks for answering my question! I’m sorry you had so much internalized homophobia….I did too when I first came out 21 years ago! Things were a lot different then but we unfortunately still deal with many of the same things.
Best of luck in your healing journey. ❤️
Your such an amazing person. Your really helping me getting trough everything. Your absolutely glowing🥰 I’m really proud of you. Your such an inspiration.
ALMOST 100k were so proud soph :)
You made my day, and we are almost hitting 100k ,congrats
your videos keep me sane , thank you ❤️
i never knew you struggled with disordered eating. i also struggled with an ED for 2 years and i’m finally on the road to recovery. i now have a lot of stomach issues and blood sugar problems and they are looking more into T1D. so just wanna say i’m proud of you, cause i get how hard it is. your positive attitude really inspires me.. just wanted to say that🤍
It always been obvious these past couple years that you were the more mature of the two. This Q&A video just knocked it out of the park. You are a wise young woman. I kinda wish I was this mature 9 years ago when I turned 23. A bright future is waiting for you, just you wait and see. ✌🏻
Why compare?
can't wait to watch
You’re a star and deserve everything that’s coming your way. You’re doing great , sending so much love your way🫶🏼❤️
Almost at 100k! Congrats!
I love you vlogs! You inspire me so much Soph, keep going, your are doing great. Sending hugs xx
I love you Soph, and I’m so proud of you and how powerful and inspiring you are ❤️
Period. You said it. Love that
Well done.Keep up the positivity !!
HAPPY 100K SUBS SOPH!! WE LOVE YOU SM♥️💯😆
I love you soph and want the best for you. You’re doing great love!
YOIRE my favorite TH-camr!!
I love your sit down videos so much❤❤
You’re so gorgeously inspiring Soph! ❤️
Awwww soph I am excited to watch this! Love youuu ❤
we love u soph!
you make my day everyday soph!
i can't wait till u hit 100k!!! love you so much soph ❤
You're wicked beautiful, and it's amazing how much you share your life can help others. ❤️
Hey soph you’re amazing and I am so proud of you and listening to your podcast helps me to keep pushing forward 🧡
Yay you answered my question! I love u so much 💖
Nothing beats fall in New England. I feel like experiencing all four seasons is good for the soul
I’m also wondering if your opinion on things carrying energy, also applies to pictures. I feel like keeping pictures or texts in your phone from past relationships or friendships also holds an energy that prevents healing.
I loved your coming out story,I recently came out on a trip to toyko Japan to my friend.
I would 100% buy “boys do lie” merch 👀
Soon 100k , congratulations 🎉🎈 in advance
I hear what you are saying about living in NH. I was born and raised here but moved away for a while and I’m glad I did because I learned so much but I’m ‘wicked’ happy to be back and raising my kids here
yo i’m literally an aires rising too!! that’s so dope
Please do some outside vlog soph, like traveling to Asian maybe especially Bali, do you ever heard bout it?
You are such an inspirational person!! I always check your TH-cam channel to see if you have any new videos!! ❤️❤️ keep it going! ❤
Thank you for been you and know that I Love You❤ and am proud of you💪❤❤❤
You are such an amazing person ❤️ so so so much love for you 🫶🏼
You are so cutee😍 , I love your energy , It transmits me peace just listening to you .
Great video! Full of great advice. ❤
Omg I am a Gemini as well, AND my moon is Capricorn! But my rising is cancer.. still cool that we have two of the same out of the three!!
I really love this kind of vlog
I’m so happy ❤
we love you so much soph ❤❤ u seem so sweet
Best ever. Thanks for sharing. ❤
Hello beautiful...💜. Just wanna say, you're an inspiration. Btw love the way you talk...love your voice😉
Very proud of you 😊
She is so fucking beautiful
love u soph
Just thought it was cool that one of your dream jobs was interior designer and that mine, I’m going to college for it also. Also we’re both from nh, your literally my role model 😍
YOU ARE SOOOOO PRECIOUS WE LOVE U SO MUCH SOPH🥹🥹🥹🥹
Love this! How do you get out of the negative mindset with health anxiety? I have it and it's taking over my life. Do you do anything to cope or something to get you to realize its just anxiety?
Life coach! Yes I see that. You naturally want to help people. I wish I had you when I was younger…instead I had the military to raise me…not the same lol.
1:20 I'M GOOOOIIINGGG THROUGH CHAAAANGEEES