If you absorb other people's energy watch this IMMEDIATELY
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- People who absorb other people's energies tend to attract manipulators, narcissists, and energy vampires, leaving them feeling weighed down. Unless they learn what I am about to share in this video it will put them on a path of a lot of pain. Join the High Vibe Tribe: aarondoughty.c...
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Thank you, Aaron. Keep up the good works.
Is this what you were talking about the beta testing for?
Yesss🎉❤ joined. Excited to meet new people & new possibilities ✨️ ❤
as someone who has already walked a long path of pain referenced here... -
this video is coming off as a weird kind of nonsense. so there's that.
i like the idea that absorbing energy is some kind of conscious choice that is made. because what?
@@JeniferXO I joined too! but when I downloaded the app it would t let me log in and said I didn’t exist even tho I logged in through a browser fine. Maybe I’m confused lol 😂
"It's not that you don't want to absorb other people's energy, you just don't want to absorb toxic people's energies."
It would be even better to feel good within your own frame and body, and be able to perceive other people's energy but not needing to absorb it!That's my conclusion of what Aaron has just explained!
I dont agree w/ it is important to keep ur own energy
That is toxic what you write. Because nobody is toxic. And aborbing other people's energy has nothing to do with that. You can only act a particular way which can feel intense or harmful. It's on you how to deal with people. Blaming others to be toxic is toxic.
@@mirafilipovic5162Absorbing others isn't a choice. That only happens to those who are open and receptive by nature. Absorbing energy has nothing to do with toxic or not toxic. This guy from this post has no idea about empath or how empath navigate. He has basically no clue about anything. He just try all kinds of stuff and sell them in his own understanding without any sense and without having the ability to understand information. He uses you all to get fame and money.
@@aydansadig7684you can't lose your energy. What the fuck!
"Other people's energy is not your responsibility." 😎I have to bear in mind this statement for holding my energy.✨ Thanks Aaron💖 Blessing to all people here. 🙏🏻
Felt so comforting while reading this comment.
No Aaron as an empath growing up around narcissists and angry controlling people I was battered, I was in fear most of the time and I hid my authenticity so that I could belong and feel safe. Now I look on that period as an initiation that my soul chose. And now I've gone no contact with my family of origin so that I can practice being authentically me and have healthy relationships . And it's definitely working. I no longer feel defensive and afraid
Edit And Aaron you could call us all manipulators because we are manipulating matter we are creators.
On a human leve howeverl it's not helpful to call empaths / highly sensitive people( HSP) manipulative because they've had enough shaming from the other 80% of the population. The tables are turning and the empaths are stepping into their power now and taking the lead
I love this so much!
The more I have practiced understanding myself over the past few years the more resistance I feel from those around me who still need me to be the weight carrier and always the guy on the other end of the phone, biggest smile in the room etc. I am currently struggling with knowing where...... "Am I feeling guilt and pain for being selfish now and choosing myself, at what point is it selfish?" or "Am I just tuned into the pain they are feeling as I sense their disruption and hear their desperate arguments now their carrier is no longer under them?"
TOUGH initiation. Especially in a romantic relationship 🤣 I do know for certain my soul has yearned seeking and finding since my earliest memories. Your first few lines resonated so much with my own upbringing so wanted to express myself.
He has said that did you watch the video. Hiding ourselves in front of the narcissistic is a protection mechanism that is the pay off, it feels like shit but being authentic there are worse consequences
He didn’t mean to hurt you
If you feel defensive to this word, it just means that you are triggered by it. The intention behind what he was saying is everything. Also there's nothing wrong with you that you're triggered by it. Manipulator is a pretty harsh word.
This video was spot on for me as I am an empath. When it’s your own family that is gaslighting you it’s hard to disconnect. Thanks 🙏
If you can possibly leave the area I would. If I could tell my past self to leave sooner before they ruined everything I’d do it in a heartbeat. Ask yourself why they are doing that? What’s the end goal? ❤❤
Getting out of dodge physically and going no contact is the only option else you will fall into the traps due to your own blind spots and nothing to do with them.
Don't know how to get away from family narcissists who tricked me, and control me financially. I want soo much to be free of them. Its suffocating and I now have an anxiety disorder.
@@beewaserewow, blaming and shaming others is toxic behaviour.
You don't appear as an empath at all. Blaming and shaming literally your family online isn't empathic and compassionate behaviour. Nobody has a hold on you nor can tell you what to do. It's your own choice.
Other peoples energy is not your responsibility well said❤
Only lesson I have to realize -
some people can’t get light from god they need light from you!
DO THIS:
“you keep your energy and I’ll keep mine, don’t you ever take my energy again, do you understand me”
(didn’t talk I just projected the thought to them)
I literally heard the vampire woman growl so loud I almost fell out of my chair.
I feel people 😮 just like kids or animals.
I can feel and I project the thought “keep your energy and I keep mine”
Put on the breast plate of god!
When I’m in the airport or mall I imagine a crystal cylinder around me to protect me from negative vampire suckers!
This works, I know myself I don’t need mental gymnastics
That will be 150.00
Thankyou
“You don’t want to NEED their energy.”
Just what I needed.
😌🙏🏼🖤
The Beautiful Beings of Gaia would like to thank Aaron Doughty for his service. We are forever grateful.
8:56 great example for this:
I used to be a binger, consumer and an energy addict because I never had it within me.
Nowadays, I make my own energy , my own content and maybe (just like this video) if I come across something aligning with my purpose I’ll give attention to it . I clicked on this video because I generated an energy within myself during my allignment of self , which this video coincidentally came across.
In overall interpretation, you consume because you lack energy. Instead become it. 🙏🏾 hope this helps people.
In overall interpretation.... Spot-on! Mucho gratias amigo
Great explanation
I honestly just don't know how....
Honestly. I know it's pathetic. But it's true. I try. Hard! I just don't know how to do this for some reason.
Remember you don’t “owe” anyone anything!
You don’t owe them to care, visit, call, respond.
that's true if you don't really like someone. but if that's the case, don't allow them to care, visit, call, or respond for you either.
I actually took a photo of this and put it in my phone. I'm going through this right now. I thought I was doing better at recognizing this dynamic and not getting in toxic relationships. But, here I am trying to micromanage the health of a friend who uses "weaponized helplessness!" My roll in childhood was being my dad's emotional wife and caretaker.
Trying to fix people, is a thing and half the time they don't want the help and it comes across as over bearing, focus on your own energy!! great video
Aaron It took me a long time to realize that what you were saying is true. I'd get negative people and I thought it's my luck. I didn't have boundaries.
I should have exited when people were negative, but I just kept taking it and getting
depressed. Yes, I always wanted to please my dad when I was a child. I loved him but I had to be me but I compromised who I was to get liked. Finally I freed myself. I'm
Focusing on my needs. 😊😅
You have to work on child hood wounding to feel safe in your on body When you don't it's because you're searching for a feeling too feel safe inside meditating creates a bubble around me mentally and physically Because when we meditate It's our highest self we feel love on such a deep level When we meditate, we feel safe seen and accepted for exactly who we are Meditating is such a natural high that last all day Meditating is getting to know yourself on the deepest levels It's being at one with yourself it's self acceptance and Self love Meditating is the most beautiful thing It stops you from absorbing other people's energy ❤
😮😮vvvvvvv😊
Trusting in God lasts y9u a lifetime. I keep getting stronger and stronger. No need for daily practices to balance anymore. God bless
Thank you Aaron! I uprooted myself from my family and their toxicity. I moved 800 miles to align myself with what resonated with my well-being. That energy continued through phone calls, etc...I had to let that go too. It was hard to let go, but I was able to break away, and how amazing I feel now. I finally have a sense of peace that I have never experienced before. I moved 3 years ago, and with a fresh start, I am very picky with who I bring into my space. I appreciate your videos being an empath 💛
I'm attempting to do this, family is the main reason. The closer I am to them and the area where I grew up it prevents me from thriving. They want you to be an info dump for their lackluster life.
The narcissist/empath dynamic lesson is one of my favorite messages for guidance you’ve provided. No fault, no shame, just looking into the wisdom from the experience to learn and grow from it. Good stuff.
I do not tolerate toxic energy! I feel safe inside my own body 😊 Thank you for sharing, very helpful!
This is exactly what I needed to hear because everything is resonating with what I’ve been trying to put into words. It’s me that have accepted and even entertained these toxic energies. I’m so grateful that I can receive these answers through self awareness. I love everything about my journey🥰
Aaron! Thank you for being authentic, I started watching your videos about 5 years ago. They helped me grow so much personally. I could never thank you enough, your free meditations changed my life. I’m back now and I love how you speak from the heart. I definitely needed to hear this today. Thank you! 💖
Exactly. You are right. There is a pay off. I have absolutely no confidence and always feel the answer is out there. Its not.
I stand on the shoulders and in the shadows of ten thousand teachers
Thank you Aaron 💚
I have let go of my narcisist mom's energy. Now my baby sisters has taken over what I used to do make mom happy by doing her manipulating ways. I feel letting go of absorbing other people's energy.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.
Such a coincidence I’m going through the same thing;
Narcissistic mom, letting go of people pleasing , little brother taking over what I used to do.
Anyways, I’m glad you have solved this problem I hope better days happen for you.
😮 thank you!!!
It’s the first time empath advice has made any sense and actually seems like something I can take control of.
You have to identify and know the enemy before you can conquer and triumph over it.
Finally it seems easy. Because this is real!
I’m excited to put this knowledge to practice and attract more spiritually evolved experiences into my future and stop wasting my energy dragging around under evolved energy vampires trying to feed themselves with my light.
Buh… bye!!!
Onward and upward! Thanks for the knowledge understanding and articulation Aaron
🙌🏻
The tapping at your veins 😂😂😂😂omg !!! 🤪❤️✨💫
Hi Aaron! Amazing! An empath looking for certainty from a narcissist is spot on! Thank you. 😊
U r right Aaron. Don't apologise. Empath need the validation of the narcissist. They're not victims. They collude. This is freeing. Thank you
Another important point you mentioned that makes sense, I was adopted and went through a few foster homes, which taught me at an early age that survival meant attuning to everything around me. Unfortunately, these experiences also contributed to me attracting energy, vampires, and being in abusive relationships (including the ones with family). So, everything you're saying in this video makes perfect sense to me. 👪💔😔
Man you escaped the matrix 🎉🎉 i just love how authentic you are. With guides of your teaching I am feeling and also practicing to feel more safe in my own body as being an empath for years I finaly escaped of old persona.
Aaron thank you for putting these videos out there still. I've had some emotional vampires too. I'm telling you it sucks.
Absolutely. So true. My Dad was a narcissist. I'm an empath. Yes I agree I get validation from it but realised the hard way that we can't get validation from others. Then people are so used to you being like it its uncomfortable to change.
I've cut off from a few people off and doing without the validation. It's really helping. I like being on my own anyway. Some therapists in the past have told me it's not good to be on your own too much
Rubbish if that's what you are like then that's what you are like.
Man people are drawn to me like magnets and they always drain me. Even my husband and kids can suck me dry of energy. It can be so rough at times. There are some days it’s even hard to get out of bed. I’ve always been the responsible one in every single relationship I’ve had starting with my family life as a kid with my parents and siblings. On top of it I’ve had a job since I was 11 and was an overachiever in school and I’m really exhausted from it all 😩
High vib tribe ,come on ,yes!
Thank you Aaron✨🌷🌸✨✨
OMG, yes I am constantly knocking narcissisy's all the time. They hate when I will not flow with them and yeah they are very boring in their drama talk
This video is a God send. You described me to a T! I am the people pleaser and my sister the narcissist. It's been a life of HELL dealing with these emotions. I am so glad I came across your channel. Thank you!
You just explained my situation to the point! I needed an explanation why I’m not attracted to drama free potential partners. This is gold!!
Coming over from the High Vibe Tribe⚡️
Aaron- I've been following you for a few years now, since my initial awakening began. But lately, I've started diving deeper into your teachings and resources (hence my joining HighVibeTribe⚡️), and I keep noticing the things you are delving into are things I am actively starting to dip my toes into - before I hear it from you 👁 Watching and listening to you recently is like confirmation for me, that's how it feels. My actions feel very very sturdy right now and I am so grateful. I am so honored to be in this existence with you, Aaron, and to have opportunities to learn from you! Thank you!! 🤗🤗🤗🥰🙏
Yes.. i am Empath and i can really say, that in fact i have no idea often what is my own energy ! When i am alone , i try to get attention in to my body and the feeling which i have often is, that i am like a vessel which have no her own needs , just waiting for command .. i have no fucking idea who am I ! I feel the best in nature, or surrounded by people which are optimistic, but cannot stand negativity- killing me. So.. need to find my own filing so to say
Highly relatable
Watch bashar
Maybe you need to look inward instead of outward. Are the absolute best human you can be? I'd guess if the answer is no, then you are not. Be better.
I don’t have an answer for you but just know, you’re not alone and I struggle with the same thing… Hope you find your light 💫
Maybe you could look up your design at Human Design? Since I find out I am having a projectoraura, eveeyrhing fell into place.
I would always tune to others energy. If someone was unhappy I would try to make them feel happy and always be nicer when they huffed and puffed. Learnt so much and don’t do this anymore
I really want to take a moment to tell you thank you. I never really understood why I'm in the relationships I'm in (being an empath and going through a lifetime of abuse). All of this makes so much sense and the tactic you mentioned is literally exactly what happens to me quite often (attack, victim, etc.). It's very much like another form of gas lighting. I've gone through this since I was about 5 years old, or at least as early as I can remember, so this is something that ended up basically becoming me. I'm now seeing all of this as if a veil has been lifted and when these things occur, I now know exactly what it is. Thank you for putting all of this together and getting the message out there. I am confident. I am strong. I can get through every battle. Thank you.
1 minute in and you described all my life relationships. Im a magnet for all narcissist/energy vamps/manipulators. Im a empath..its rough. But im learning
Normalising giving your energy away like a buffet where everyone can help themselves. Wow! You are incredible!
I love the knowledge you share. I believe when you know who you are as an empath then any energy you absorb you can heal without blaming who it came from. Know yourself to know what's right for your path. Love and light ❤
Thank you for making this so perfectly clear... Yes, wow. And as I heal this in myself it is healing in the collective
Thank you Aaron, its taken me a lifetime to understand I am empathetic. Yes, I can walk into a room of strangers and feel the atmosphere immediately! Mainstream News is avoided as is a lot of Social Media. I am picky about You Tube.. Follow only the right folks like yourself. Blessings from UK.
Healing my child self has freed me from absorbing others' energy in a toxic way. Being so young, I was hardwired to be empathic for safety. It's been hard work to pause and take a different path, but it was so worth it. The peace is bliss.
The first time you explained the frame technique it was like a flashlight went off. This time it literally turned the light on in the whole room. Thank you for what you do!! I appreciate you
Thank you times 1 million!!!! I needed to hear this so bad for someone that has severe executive dysfunction, Other peoples energy has been thrown at me via others calling me out for so long that I tried to resolve the criticism by molding myself into somebody that would be accepted and I had little to no boundaries which caused me to fall in love with a highly manipulative person with no remorse for how his actions affected me and others for 15 years now and I'm now lost and don't know who I am anymore.
I THANK YOU SOOOOO MUCH! I have been victimized by narcissisytic men, but I learned my lesson! I am alone and healing!
I left drama and have been feeling 100 times better ❤❤❤❤
You're singing because I sing in all my videos and I'm watching you very closely so you're feeling my energies LOL
I love your vibe, dude! What you’re saying makes so much SENSE! It is so extremely helpful that I don’t even know how to express my gratitude for being able to watch your content 🙏
I love that Aaron is one of the few not romantisizing an empath.
Sure some people are being born more sensitive than others but it makes way more sense that empaths are being made as part of a survival mechanism.
It's so true, they are not saints but covert vampires. I can relate so much, feel seen and being called out.
Thank you for helping me to get better. ❤
I needed that, I absorb too much energy and at times I can't handle it of how overwhelming it is. Love and blessings to you from Canada 🍁
Definitely there is no shame. We are all as we are. It's not right or wrong it's just you.
I really needed to hear this today. Thanks 😊🤙 It finally clicked. I have this relationship with my mother, who uses me to validate herself, and I let her. No more! I don't need this anymore
Omg! Aaron you are so right! It’s boring dealing with normal people! Journaling is getting in touch with yourself, you go inward.
I have experienced this all my life absorbing other peoples energy most of the time it's bad energy and I'm 65 yrs old. Had a bad childhood. I would like to learn how to feel/see the person's toxic energy before it's too late. The manipulators that have been in my life are such good actors giving me all this positive energies, they get what they want from me and drop me. This is why i don't have a lot of people in my life. I have suffered so much that I would rather be by myself. Man and woman relationships hurt the bigest. Thank you Aaron for always being there to assist and remind me what needs to be done.
I’m so glad I found your videos! I’d already been thinking of strengthening boundaries, but didn’t have a lot of info! You’re energetic, professional, and so intelligent on this subject.
This is fantastic, even those hard truths about ourselves!!! Thank you so very much❤
I just discovered that I'm a covert energy vampire. Wow, and here I thought I was the victim. Thanks for waking me up to the reality of life!
I love this I was never a victim like they say empathetic people are… I did need to learn a lesson & thought I was “non the builder” fixing ppl. I put all my effort into fixing myself
Thank you so much for this video. Space boundaries and all that good stuff.
It's been a while, brother. I'm glad you're still on the path towards growth. The beach boy look suits you.
Otherwise, I agree. I take full responsibility for my actions. I have unknowingly gave in to the energy of others in the past, thinking that reason could change something. After realizing that it is not my responsibility to burden myself with that energy, and that it is my responsibility to let it go and move on, I've been doing that since a while. It has been years, steadily clearing away my energy regarding specific topics, taking my control back, feeling free and more authentic, and It's a daily process.
No one should ever give up on themselves. I won't.
Feel great hearing your message as I am on my path ✨
I love you, Aaron. I appreciate you sharing who you are and your wisdom. You have just added to changing my life for the better. 💗
I appreciate just seeing you on camera. Your composure is calming and infectious. It’s helpful just to see how you approach things. Thank you for sharing
I love your humor ❤ yes my mind exploded when you correlated familiar & family 😅
THANK YOU! From the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU! Every single word you uttered hit home, and is about to make a life changing difference.
Spot on! Empath here. Learned the hard way. Thank you. :)
I'm a huge fan of shadow work! you seem very genuine, and transparency, is something I highly respect. Your brutal honesty and truth, combined with compassion and understanding, is refreshing. It takes a lot of courage to talk about these deep issues and create such valuable content. There are so many people like me who truly need it. I just want you to know that you are making an impact. 🌟🙌✨
Thank you again for creating this amazing content and for allowing me to express my gratitude and curiosity. You're making a significant impact on so many lives, mine included. Keep shining your light and remember that you have a supportive community here. 💖🌟🙏
Don't understand it all, but glad your making videos again.
Absolutely the Darvo! It's so brill to aware of all this. It's so freeing.
Thank you for truthfully explaining and exposing the dark side of empathy
Presence is everything....if you do not own your space, others will take it from you.
You always articulate subjects so well.
Beautiful home and man.
Thank you Aaron. ❤
This is absolutely powerful Aaron! Thank you ❤
This is an excellent message! Lots of wisdom and insight here! You took your suffering as a child and turned it around for good, by helping other people! So happy for you and your success! Thank you for sharing this important info, it is so true! People need to hear this! God bless you!!! 😊💯💯💯
I have been following you for years your growth is beautiful to watch my friend 🧡
Yesss!! Congratulations!!HV101,today programme too,have a great Super high vibes this time!!so good vid,thank youuuuu,❤😮
Like how do you let it go!! Omgg that’s my life! DARVO
I'm 51 and I still let issues from my childhood (teen years) affect me. Somethings I just can't let go and I don't have a clue why.
I had an engraved ring made a few months ago that I wear, that simply says “Have a ZETO Day.”
ZETO is an acronym which means “Zero energy towards others”.
It reminds me as an empath to stop giving energy to others in the form of people pleasing.
I now choose myself first and foremost, which has been a game changer, even though some do not like it and miss the old people pleasing me.
Your acronym is incredible! Definitely will be using it. Thanks! 🙏🏽
This is all really good Aaron
Thank You
Hey Aaron I was recently abused by my exes family. His mom verbally and then his step dad.... I always avoided them u til they were threatening and mocking me to my face on the day my ex let them break us up. I have been attracting nothing but narcissists since and had to delete some social media because harassment. I've been watching your video for years.. thanks for making them 🥰
I have to say this is a very eloquent articulation of childhood abandonment and trauma resulting in needing drama 🎭 especially around parenting with alcoholism there’s always drama then u look for that in your life because that’s what is familiar 😢
2:06:2:42 Really spoke with me. Huge chunks of my teenager and recent years have just been absorbing other peoples emotions , afraid of the consequences of saying the wrong thing or accidentally hurting people because you don't want them to experience that same injustice you felt in your youth.
That line of "is it safe?" Speaking directly of the possibility that you can express yourself without the intense need to feel like you need to help everyone. To not feel guilty everytime you wanna retreat and be alone for awhile. To provide your own boundaries that you already give to others.
I hope everyone here that feels they constantly absorb everyone's existence but lose your own, PLEASE take care of yourself. Remember that fighting for your right to live is just as important as everyone else's. ❤
Ya know, you rip the illusion away and the truth underneath is wonderful. TY!!
Facts as always. Side note, dang Aaron looking goooooddd!
The world's evolving brother, can we get an updated how to destroy energy vampires
I travel, mainly homeless. 33 life path. Saggitarius aquarius. wind up stuck in heavily addicted small towns in New England often. A system I attack and update. I know it's levels to it, but I think one level I'm teaching ancient knowledge and perspective. Even if it's by having that energy cultivated stolen
"Empaths are covert energy vampires" - LOVE THAT 😍 so true tho 😂
Yeah it is😂 On a mission
what about narcissists that make believe they're empaths ? 😵 lol
@@surfandlearn oh hell yes! 👍🏻 Think he did say something about that as well. We all do play a part.
Makes sense. My ex claimed she was an empath but couldnt tell that making me her personal therapist during some of my lowest moments in life was draining. In hindsight, definitely Energy Vampire behavior.
Your right there here to teach us to be strong
Thank you, this has been enlightening and most helpful. You are are inspirational.
You are soooo on point it’s disturbing.😮
It feels like theres a twist of side here.Ive met a few of these scary people in my own life .They are determined to come out ontop regardless who looses what
This is million dollar info! Thank you!
Thank you so much for this video, Aaron. I was actually struggling and looking for guidance on this subject today. I got into a toxic relationship around 8 years ago which has been on again and off again. Since my spiritual awakening, I’m not attracted to the toxic dynamic anymore. I am working on my spiritual growth, but struggle to let go of my partner with narcissistic tendencies. Thank you for the insight on how to deal with this !! ❤
I loooove your videos, your smile and laugh ❤ Thank You, for your passion and insights, guidience and inspiration 🙏
Thank you very much for going through it. You are a true messenger!
You are so good, and helpful! THANK YOU for sharing!!!
You sir are a king , you have changed my life and I can't thank you enough!
This video might have saved me from wasting more years on an ex who treated me poorly. I kept trying to fix things and blamed myself entirely, especially since she always put the blame on me too. Hopefully, I can now listen, let go, and realize that the real change needs to happen within me, not through seeking validation from a toxic person. Thank you Aaron