ASMR | Getting YOU Ready for Pride!! | He/Him Pronouns + Binder Fitting

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  • @GibiASMR
    @GibiASMR  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1324

    HELLO! I’ll be posting all 6 videos as they are uploaded to TH-cam! :)
    OPEN ME, AND READ DESCRIPTION WOO!
    I couldn’t fit it all in the description!
    This video series is meant for anyone who would like to watch and enjoy. Whether you are confident or questioning, unlabeled or defined.
    If you feel safe to do so, please feel free to share about yourself and your own journey in the comment section. I will be instantaneously YEETING out rude people, so please be sure to be accepting and supportive of others in the comment section!
    Please do be sure to protect your identity and personal information when posting, and stay safe!!!!!
    A few related videos I really enjoyed watching myself:
    The ASMR Prince th-cam.com/video/IcTNsryde6E/w-d-xo.html
    Twilight Time ASMR th-cam.com/video/7P-OwgM6Kow/w-d-xo.html
    Angelica th-cam.com/video/_7MygQN54dw/w-d-xo.html

  • @smayn2534
    @smayn2534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +454

    the fact that gibi just casually throws out three 1hr vids back to back is fkn ridiculous lol she deserves all her success

    • @nightsky4145
      @nightsky4145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Not only that, she edited it as well so the videos may have been longer :0

  • @Eddie-fi2eb
    @Eddie-fi2eb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2238

    "Ben and I are gonna be with you the entire time" "We will take care of you." This is legit making me emotional as someone who went to Pride alone and didn't have much of a support system. Thank you so much for these videos

    • @mountainbikingwithlogan6163
      @mountainbikingwithlogan6163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Aw I’m sorry. It sucks that I can’t go to pride🥲

    • @mountainbikingwithlogan6163
      @mountainbikingwithlogan6163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@insertfunnyname5844 y?

    • @bricegrimes5053
      @bricegrimes5053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Well this asmr community always has your back

    • @watermelonsugar6016
      @watermelonsugar6016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@insertfunnyname5844 bro how?

    • @davidlarkin1040
      @davidlarkin1040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@watermelonsugar6016 they're a homophobe just trying to spread negatively. Don't make contact and wait for their ban.

  • @No-if9ow
    @No-if9ow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2128

    If someone just bought me a binder out of nowhere I would probably cry.

    • @kirkkek
      @kirkkek 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Wouldn't we all?

    • @MSGaming78-o1t
      @MSGaming78-o1t 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      My best friend did today and gave it to me on the last day of summer school today. I did end up crying :)

    • @Smoky_ghoul
      @Smoky_ghoul 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @@MSGaming78-o1t you have an awesome friend apparently

    • @BoredGhostInk
      @BoredGhostInk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Same here, especially as a closeted trans guy I’d be wreck if that ever happened

    • @wolfgangamadeusmozart1532
      @wolfgangamadeusmozart1532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Right same :) im closeted so :0

  • @ethansiltala8486
    @ethansiltala8486 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1189

    Oh god just.. hearing someone say he/him without needed to desperately explain my whole situation is just… so nice. It got me all teary honestly. My whole imposter syndrome and just gender dysphoria has been kinda bad lately, and while it doesn’t quite soothe the way I want to rip out of my skin, it feels so nice not to have my pronouns totally abused.
    Thank you Gibi, from the bottom of my heart.

    • @diavolosteddy7594
      @diavolosteddy7594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      imposter syndrome? that’s where ur like “i’m lying i’m not really trans” right? i have that too T-T

    • @ethansiltala8486
      @ethansiltala8486 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@diavolosteddy7594 Yep. It’s a cursed thing, because while I know that I am truly a man, and the fact that I have wanted to even self harm due to the dysphoria, there was still a corner in my brain saying that It was all in my head and I’m faking it for attention.

    • @de-void1872
      @de-void1872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ethansiltala8486 yeah I relate personally it's gone past the point of wanted to and I've thought about cutting my tits off myself before. I'm quite feminine even though I hate my body and being called femine terms. It gets really bad feeling like I'm fakinh it because I like wearing crop tops and skirts

    • @floatifyy3118
      @floatifyy3118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sorry bro

    • @gamerf1uid
      @gamerf1uid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Holy crap that’s horrible :(

  • @ChrisPhenomon
    @ChrisPhenomon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    this may seem like a dumb thing to say, but one of the most touching parts of this video is seeing an asmrtist i love not only being confident and open about queerness, but also openly addressing imperfect skin stuff. for me, one of the most important parts of pride was wanting to wear certain clothing i felt i could never wear because for all of my life my skin has been rash-y, or i've had bad acne, or some other skin issue. it means a lot to see somebody whom i consider kind, beautiful, and proud, to be proud not only for queerness but in terms of skin type too. makes me feel better about wearing whatever i want no matter what my skin does, too.
    thanks so much for making all of these videos, and being so conscientious about the whole process.

    • @bow_and_aero1210
      @bow_and_aero1210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hell yeah! Be confident in who you are and what you look like!! I 1000% get the whole clothing thing. At the last pride event I went to I finally felt safe enough to just wear my binder and overall shorts! I have always been scared to wear those shorts because they could be considered "women's clothes" but at pride I knew people would be respectful and ask preferred pronouns! Dont forget that your skin is beautiful and keep showing your pride

  • @kevinmandrile5074
    @kevinmandrile5074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1785

    The fact you made all these videos, all these different versions for everyone, writing the scripts interacting with the community, taking suggestions and advices, all in such little time, is truly amazing Gibi, thank you, well done 😊.

    • @Juddcordy08
      @Juddcordy08 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I’m a straight man can still watch this

    • @absolutegarbage2200
      @absolutegarbage2200 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What does binder fitting mean? Genuine question

    • @Juddcordy08
      @Juddcordy08 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@absolutegarbage2200 idk sorry mam dude or person

    • @absolutegarbage2200
      @absolutegarbage2200 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Juddcordy08 it's alright! Already got the answer from another comment. Apparently binder is something trans people wear on their chest and binder fitting means taking the measurements for binder.

    • @mountainbikingwithlogan6163
      @mountainbikingwithlogan6163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@absolutegarbage2200 a binder is to cover up yo boobs, sometimes you need to get them fitted, you can buy them online

  • @secretxo111
    @secretxo111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1305

    Ok can we appreciate the fact that Gibi did 6 videos with different scenarios and pronouns? She’s a real queen

    • @bookcreator
      @bookcreator 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      I know I feel like it probably would have made more sense to just refilm the parts where pronouns were used and take out or add the binder bit where relevant. This is going above and beyond to create a custom experience for everyone

    • @hawkkye5409
      @hawkkye5409 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      "they" is a real queen

    • @watermelonsugar6016
      @watermelonsugar6016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@secretxo111 she said she was fine with any

    • @secretxo111
      @secretxo111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@watermelonsugar6016 ohhh yeah I’m so dumb I forgot about the vid haha

    • @watermelonsugar6016
      @watermelonsugar6016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@secretxo111 you’re not dumb but yeah haha

  • @stephenm8542
    @stephenm8542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +621

    "Ben and I, we can shield you"
    Thanks Mom and Dad :')

  • @ArticulateDesignASMR
    @ArticulateDesignASMR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +342

    You're amazing :D I let this and the other 3 play through in their entirety and just wanted to leave a quick note to say I support you and feel enormously proud to share and be part of a community that you're also in :D

    • @gagatoes2940
      @gagatoes2940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      wait the legend Articulate is part of our community too??

    • @vibz3644
      @vibz3644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      W moment

  • @mythicpossumm
    @mythicpossumm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +740

    As a he/they who loves more feminine clothes, this makes me so happy she shows all Types if clothes and not just masculine clothes. It makes me feel really loved especially with a family who misgenders me if I dress femininely, even though they know my pronouns.

    • @risaster857
      @risaster857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Yes exactly!! I'm also a he/they who likes feminine clothes and I love gibi being inclusive about it

    • @thatoneplant
      @thatoneplant 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Wait I also use He/They pronouns (I main They/Them) and love wearing feminine clothes

    • @risaster857
      @risaster857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@thatoneplant "i main they/them" just makes me think of a character select screen but it's pronouns haha also denki is amazing am glad people appreciate him

    • @potato9619
      @potato9619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      What does he/they mean? That you prefer both? 🥰

    • @risaster857
      @risaster857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@potato9619 Hi! Yes, it means that both he/him and they/them pronouns are allowed to be used for us some people prefer one over the other and some people have no preference but yeah its basically just you can use either of those sets of pronouns for us

  • @luisserrass
    @luisserrass 3 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    when she pulled out the binder to give to us i completely broke down (/pos) because i had to save up for *months* to get my first binder and order it in secret for my safety so when she gave us the binder it genuinely felt like a friend giving us a gift.

    • @imsorrythankyouplease7613
      @imsorrythankyouplease7613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Name names. I’ll muster the cancel culture brigade.

    • @gaspshichat
      @gaspshichat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      give the gays a time and a place, we'll take care of whatever it is
      - alex (he/they/it/neos/ask)

  • @Cansoupy
    @Cansoupy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +907

    AS A PERSON WHO USES ALL PRONOUNS ALL OF THOSE VIDEOS ARE **chef's kiss**

    • @VeronikaShick
      @VeronikaShick 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Ikr HAPPY PRIDE

    • @Sun_beetle
      @Sun_beetle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@jaxonneven6367 my guess is that they’re gender fluid, not going to assume though

    • @creativename1072
      @creativename1072 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How

    • @LUNARTEMPEST
      @LUNARTEMPEST 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yass

    • @ellad1444
      @ellad1444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Victor Masson same 😎

  • @jacdeath8917
    @jacdeath8917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    Also the fact that you specifically included Reggie's story and talked so openly about the acceptance of he/him lesbians and pronouns not equalling gender is something that immediately made me tear up. It made me feel so valid and accepted and I just aaaa!!! I honestly cannot thank you enough for this series, such a wonderful way to end pride :))

    • @dajaunkata
      @dajaunkata 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ur a dude how are u lesbian

    • @ginoiminoi
      @ginoiminoi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@dajaunkata someone’s pronouns are not the same as their gender-a person could identify as female in gender, but go by they/them or he/him pronouns, and this is true for all other configurations as well! therefore if you identify as a woman and like other women, you could consider yourself a lesbian and still go by he/him pronouns. (and really, gender and all of that is a social construct so people can just choose the titles/terms that they are most comfortable with) -i hope that helped:)

    • @3ll3llyyy
      @3ll3llyyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@dajaunkata pronouns dont equal gender, theyre just words that people use to refer to themselves. he/him may be mostly used by english speaking males, but it also can be used by nonbinary people, females, and ofc other languages (would that be neopronouns ig? cool to think about)

    • @some__kid
      @some__kid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Pronouns do equal gender

    • @3ll3llyyy
      @3ll3llyyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@some__kid not exactly, though i can see why youd think that

  • @ImSpiderManIRL
    @ImSpiderManIRL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2480

    How does a non binary Samurai kill people
    *THEY/THEM*

    • @yamas4799
      @yamas4799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @bubblebuttbaby
      @bubblebuttbaby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      lol thats a good joke took a bit to understand but its very funny

    • @CarmelAndCrosby
      @CarmelAndCrosby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Hot dog that’s a knee slapper

    • @whittymora3826
      @whittymora3826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg 😆 mind if I use this

    • @thatoneplant
      @thatoneplant 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love this omfg 😭🤣

  • @juliuselias2010
    @juliuselias2010 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I nearly cried during this. I am a trans boy going through female puberty and starting to have realy realy bad gender dysphoria and am not out to any one yet. This was fantastic. Having you be there to support me, getting me a binder, using my preferred pronouns, this was one of the best experiences I’ve had. Thank you.

    • @alyxleaf
      @alyxleaf 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Hey dude, from one transmasc teenager to another, I hope you're doing ok and I'm proud of you. I know I'm just a rando on the internet but I wish you the very best of luck in your transition :3

    • @RavenSutcliffe
      @RavenSutcliffe 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hey, I know I'm some random person on the internet, but I'm enby and I had to go through the wrong puberty. One of my close friends is a trans man who also had to fully go through it. If you're not in a safe space to transition right now, I want you to know this: it'll work out. It'll be a little slower, a little harder, not going to lie, but transition and looking the way you know you should *will* still happen even if you transition as an adult. HRT is magic. Don't give up. Hang in there. You will be who you're meant to be. Have hope 💜

    • @rolandpereira4161
      @rolandpereira4161 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      YWNBAM

    • @RavenSutcliffe
      @RavenSutcliffe 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rolandpereira4161 get tf out of this thread and this channel

  • @audenssupersecretaltaccoun9520
    @audenssupersecretaltaccoun9520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1962

    Gibi: he-
    Me: *begins violently sobbing bc gender euphoria*

    • @sarahc2491
      @sarahc2491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      YEAG

    • @bricegrimes5053
      @bricegrimes5053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Well this community is great and is with you the whole way

    • @filmtomlif
      @filmtomlif 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      LITERALLY

    • @zstvvr
      @zstvvr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      YES

    • @CrissCorner
      @CrissCorner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      DUDE SAME

  • @SKRWildfire
    @SKRWildfire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2039

    Me: wait what she is bi, how did i not know.
    Gibi: i even talked about it in some videos.
    Me:.... damn
    Gibi: but you probably were sleeping.
    Me: yeahh good point xD

    • @inferno7289
      @inferno7289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      she's pan

    • @lanceelliott2504
      @lanceelliott2504 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @@inferno7289 she said she likes both labels ☺️

    • @lanceelliott2504
      @lanceelliott2504 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Jessica Alford yeah I meant she likes both labels

    • @SKRWildfire
      @SKRWildfire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Katherine Jordan nah that is pretty much what it is. You explained it good.

    • @SKRWildfire
      @SKRWildfire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@inferno7289 .....

  • @littleotis1355
    @littleotis1355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1131

    Okay so I'm am a cis man and straight and my pronouns are he/him. But my best friend is lesbian. Actually she made my pfp lol. I love the LGBTQ community and how caring they can be!! Happy pride

    • @ottobuco
      @ottobuco 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      thx for being awesome

    • @aaron_ftm8146
      @aaron_ftm8146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      We appreciate people like you too!

    • @99Mateoo
      @99Mateoo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      HAPPY PRIDE!!

    • @UNT1TL3D.
      @UNT1TL3D. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      You're awesome

    • @starpop3737
      @starpop3737 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Happy pride bro, you seem really cool :]

  • @BloodthirstyMerc2500
    @BloodthirstyMerc2500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    "Couldn't decide, so I did both... Classic"
    I'm howling bye
    Also as someone who has never been able to attend a pride event this got me really hyped for the day I finally can.

    • @violethues5182
      @violethues5182 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      aaa me too i wanted to last year and this year but covid prevented it ;-;

    • @BoredGhostInk
      @BoredGhostInk 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same honestly

    • @Lyssabooo
      @Lyssabooo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This year they were delayed where I live and the pride festival is gonna be in 10 days and I’m really hoping I can go with my friends 😁

  • @ssiennnaa
    @ssiennnaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    I swear I literally started crying when Gibi/Gina used He/Him pronouns on me..I've never felt this happy in years so thank you. We all love and support u! Everyday is pride and you deserve equality and love! Don't forget that!

    • @ethernal_willow
      @ethernal_willow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    • @ssiennnaa
      @ssiennnaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ethernal_willow Thank you, you are very kind

    • @ssiennnaa
      @ssiennnaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@ivyp944 I didn't mean it like that I meant that people that are apart of LGBTQIA+ should be happy of who they are everyday doesn't matter if it's pride month or not.

    • @ivyp944
      @ivyp944 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ssiennnaa that's fair

    • @derpyrat5713
      @derpyrat5713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same bro most people are like why your a girl but I really like he/him or they/them

  • @mjayyy7
    @mjayyy7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +331

    Can we just appreciate that gibi cares about everyone and she’s such a great person even on social media

  • @ReapersRoses
    @ReapersRoses 3 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    My partners call me he/him, but something about a outside person making eye contact and just. Flawlessly saying he/him without the whole look up and down, stutter and faulter in confusion, ask me to repeat my name just instantly brought me to tears. Thank you, Gibi. Love wins. 💕

    • @imsorrythankyouplease7613
      @imsorrythankyouplease7613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      People just call me “you” 😔

    • @Nervous-Wreck
      @Nervous-Wreck 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You mean partner, right?

    • @wsg_p1u7o
      @wsg_p1u7o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Nervous-Wreck why does it matter?/gen

    • @brook8897
      @brook8897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Nervous-Wreck (I know this is a late reply sorry😅) the person who commented this could have 1+ partners not that it matters though

  • @xarvist0
    @xarvist0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I was feeling dysphoric so I decided to watch this and I didn’t know she was bisexual/pansexual! So glad to know they’re comfortable putting this info with her viewers! Keep up the good work Gibi

    • @michaelmells6080
      @michaelmells6080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OMG I AM ALSO A GAY TRANS PERSON??? :] how are you???

  • @ramandraws0861
    @ramandraws0861 2 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    I'm a trans kid ( he/they) starting grade 8, and I'm terrified. I've been identifying as trans since the 6 grade but I'm closeted only out to family and friends. My school isn't known for being accepting and I don't want to come out but the thought of being called she everyday makes me cry. I've been sobbing for the last hour the only thing really calming me down is this being called he and getting a binder soothed my mind. So thank you for making this video gibi. And to anyone reading this thank you for reading though my rambling and Goodnight I'm going to try and get some sleep :)

    • @Alex-wu2yx
      @Alex-wu2yx ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You're amazing dude. I'm trans too, and I think we might be in the same grade, idk though. But I am so proud of you for owning the fact that you are trans and not letting people tear you down.

    • @quaileggs1974
      @quaileggs1974 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Hey man, hope this year turned out better than you thought. I’m a trans male too (he/him) and also struggle going to a pretty homophobic and transphobic high school. This upcoming year is my first year being fully out in public and I’m scared down to hell but I promise it gets better. If you haven’t already, email your upcoming teachers in high school if you’re comfortable and tell them your preferred name and pronouns (if you can’t change them on your transcript which you can do!). Don’t over bind, please please please, I’m a massive hypocrite but be safe. People will surprise you and while it feels like the world is on fire (especially if you’re in the US) not only do you have your supportive friends and family but all of us. Sending love my man everything will be ok

    • @ramandraws0861
      @ramandraws0861 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@quaileggs1974 I never even thought of email my high school teachers before my first day thats smart. thank you

    • @tobi_van5541
      @tobi_van5541 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Transmasc he/him user here,it definitely is a struggle to not have others know who you are. What you lack in those around you,you have on here an plenty of other people that accept you as you are regardless if you are out or not. While a very small margin of people are trans even 1% of america alone is 1.6 billion people. Not everyone will accept you but that doesn't make you any less of a person,or the person you know you are. You deserve the best,have a great day/night

    • @slowdiveshinji
      @slowdiveshinji ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i hope 8th grade went well for you! i assume you’re starting high school soon so good luck! im also a trans man and am about to enter my junior year and i found the most helpful thing for me throughout my highschool years was immediately emailing my teachers before school started my preferred name and pronouns. also, whenever there are substitute teachers and they call out your deadname for attendance, don’t say “here” or anything, just go up to the substitute after attendance and tell them that you didn’t hear them and that you’re actually there. that way your deadname doesn’t get exposed to classmates. P.E. can be somewhat difficult but what i did was tell my P.E. teacher that i was trans and she let me change in the bathrooms instead of the locker room. i also have plenty of trans friends that just straight up changed in the boys locker room too (although i don’t recommend this bc mens locker rooms are DISGUSTING)!! i’m sorry about how long this rant was but i hope you find some of this info useful! i wish you the best of luck starting 9th grade!

  • @alyxleaf
    @alyxleaf 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    When i tell you i CRIED at the binder fitting. I know its such a silly thing to cry over but when she pulled it out i began to tear up

  • @sea3275
    @sea3275 3 ปีที่แล้ว +581

    Gibi asmr = life in the asmr community

    • @Dayfade9099
      @Dayfade9099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ah hello Zero two, the Akatsuki member

    • @wijuc242
      @wijuc242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      your mother

  • @Kai-zm3pr
    @Kai-zm3pr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +538

    I’m gonna cry. I’m a transboy and I recently came out to my parents and brother. They don’t use my pronouns and they don’t use my name either, this made me feel so much better about everything. Thank you Gibi.

    • @noshisan0947
      @noshisan0947 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Hey just wanted to let you know you're not alone! Same thing happened to me recently.

    • @vicky_thegiantpossum
      @vicky_thegiantpossum ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I not good with words but ʕ⁠っ⁠•⁠ᴥ⁠•⁠ʔ⁠っ💕♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ for both of you :)

    • @Dark_Vekx
      @Dark_Vekx ปีที่แล้ว

      Quit whining little boy. Nobody cares about your pronouns. Maybe it's a small amount of people, but most people in the world don't care. To be honest. If I saw pronouns in your resume, I would not hire you

    • @datemrzeadatisedive6291
      @datemrzeadatisedive6291 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Kai you are loved ❣

    • @urfavpooks.daniii
      @urfavpooks.daniii ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Well I will use your pronouns and name.

  • @robby3371
    @robby3371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I have lived my life as a mostly straight guy but a few recent experiences have led me to question my sexuality. I am leaning towards pan with female preference but I am scared to tell anyone about it but the comments are so so supportive I just thought I would share with the community that raised me.

    • @alexandrabozoova3357
      @alexandrabozoova3357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You are very valid and loved 💖

    • @floatifyy3118
      @floatifyy3118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah before i used to be anti niggasexualballs but now I am just niggasexual because I have learned about me

    • @floatifyy3118
      @floatifyy3118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so proud of myself

    • @user-lj7su2fo4o
      @user-lj7su2fo4o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      doesnt pansexual mean that you like all genders without a preference?? wouldnt that be omnisexual,??

    • @skylarlily6289
      @skylarlily6289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you’re valid!

  • @themaster22dude39
    @themaster22dude39 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    As s straight dude myself I can’t relate to being apart of this wonderful community but I have a few friends that are apart of the community and they are some of the coolest and nicest friends I have ever had! I’m actually taking one to see MCR for my birthday next year!

    • @ashofc2649
      @ashofc2649 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      We need more people like you in the world. Enjoy MCR (very jealous of that lol)

  • @demon_angel3796
    @demon_angel3796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +274

    As a genderfluid that never got called by he pronouns but that wish I would've, I felt really happy honestly thank you so much for the support and all ^^

    • @SkittyDangerzne
      @SkittyDangerzne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same 😔

    • @floshmsc
      @floshmsc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I love that comment, the person who posted this like- i love him, he’s the best

    • @vacios.
      @vacios. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      same

    • @serenakroon1759
      @serenakroon1759 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same 😔

  • @jayfeathersstick
    @jayfeathersstick ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is why (and many other reasons obviously) you are my favorite ASMRtist. THIS. MADE. MY. DAY. thank you!

  • @N.atalia.-
    @N.atalia.- 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Time stamps: first 30 min
    (Warning: I don't speak English well)
    9:33 if you want to skip intro
    9:34 talking about the event
    12:31- compliments
    13:41- saying that she will be with you whole time at the event
    15:04- Gibi drinks coffee
    15:20- Gibi and Ben will be your bodyguards
    16:44 gives you white top
    17:54 measure you:
    18:25 measure your back
    19:45 chest measure
    21:29 Gibi is happy she bought you white top in right size
    21:53 Gibi reacts how well you are
    looking in white top.
    22:38 sport props
    23:02 Gibi with transparent bag
    24:11 Gibi with pink bag
    24:16 Gibi with black bag with white stars
    25:30 transparent bag unboxing
    25:40 markers
    26:05 Gibi makes sure you are hydrated and put sun cream
    26:20 shoes
    27:13 Gibi drinks coffee
    27:38 drinks
    28:11 snacks
    29:04 paycard
    29:12 masks
    30:02 suncream

    • @natalieeware
      @natalieeware 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks so much! This is great!

    • @TheSpellKaster
      @TheSpellKaster 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ty ❤️
      (btw the white top is called a "binder")

  • @D4ng3r_D4ys
    @D4ng3r_D4ys 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    As a trans guy, thank you, I’ve been out for almost a year now and I haven’t actually been able to go to pride yet, I’m really hoping I can go next year, and I also haven’t been able to get a binder yet so this was genuinely really comforting, thank you

  • @amazinc754
    @amazinc754 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    As a cis male I feel so silly for not knowing what a binder was at first in the title. You've educated me today 😂

  • @therealaceofspades
    @therealaceofspades 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This really does help boost my confidence, with being trans myself (ftm), Gibi using he/him pronouns really makes me happy because not a lot of my friends use my preferred pronouns and my name. LOVE YOU GIBI ❤❤

  • @just4_athenaannaandkei
    @just4_athenaannaandkei 3 ปีที่แล้ว +310

    Me watching all of these
    Sleep: GO TO SLEEP
    Me: staying up the whole time still

    • @willieseybold3170
      @willieseybold3170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yea its like I'm on the verge of falling asleep but i feel like I need to stay up and listen

    • @connor-q2f
      @connor-q2f 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wooooo nobody gives a shit

    • @ssiennnaa
      @ssiennnaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@connor-q2f stfu, if you dont give a shit then why'd you take your time to comment that crap? U
      couldve just ignored the comment and went on with ur day instead of commenting negative crap. Don't reply to me unless you have something good to use as an excuse.

    • @milo2305
      @milo2305 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yo we have the same pfp

    • @janyanoble9513
      @janyanoble9513 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      True dat❤️🖤

  • @bradleyisarat482
    @bradleyisarat482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    As someone who's family always pushes me into things without asking, Gibi saying that they will take thing slow and and how she has our back, made me cry. Thank you so much for making these videos Gibi. I speak for everyone when I say we all love you and how much work you put in to keep us happy.

  • @norinickerson1027
    @norinickerson1027 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    the fact that you are talking about binder safety while i’m falling asleep in mine feels like a call out

  • @brody1216
    @brody1216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    The older sibling I didn't know I needed. This video feels like a good hug.

  • @Xavier.699
    @Xavier.699 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Literally the first time they said ‘He’ I felt like crying. I love this so much.

  • @rat_the_possum
    @rat_the_possum 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    " we will meet u by the water fountain"
    My brain: 🎶 she told me that she loved me by the water fountain 🎶
    Also gib is just the mom friend, who takes care of everyone, and it suits her so much. I love gibi so much ngl. :3

  • @justyouraverageweirdo
    @justyouraverageweirdo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    The funny part to me is that I am also an asexual named Rowan, and have made some of my own pride pins before.

    • @rowanmeklemburg6260
      @rowanmeklemburg6260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      A he/they asexual Rowan here 😎 we should start a band lmao

    • @rowanvandongen1630
      @rowanvandongen1630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      He/him bisexual Rowan here, when's the band meet?

    • @mrbeanyboi9659
      @mrbeanyboi9659 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@rowanvandongen1630 remember me when you all get famous

    • @plant_12
      @plant_12 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Give me a shout-out when y'all get famous pls (/s incoming) i have 15 subscribers (/s over). edit: i thought i had 12.

    • @Lucifersfursona
      @Lucifersfursona 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Now I need to figure out which one of you knows my friend

  • @soappistunes6041
    @soappistunes6041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    As someone who lives in a _very_ homophobic/transphobic state and environment, this makes me so happy. I'm not completely sure of my identity anymore and it hurts me to talk about it, but this makes me feel safe. Thank you so much :))

  • @anoun5760
    @anoun5760 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The way my brain instantly sang "Blinded by the thighs~" when Gibi pulled out those jeweled fishnet socks

    • @erickarteaga3786
      @erickarteaga3786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Revved up like a deuce, another runner in the night?

  • @glam535
    @glam535 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    when she pulled out the binder, i hugged the screen out of happiness

  • @sophiaf4863
    @sophiaf4863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    I will say this for everyone, we all thank you for being so inclusive and really taking the time to give each and every one of us the attention and respect we need. I appreciate how much time you take just to show that we all deserve to be loved equally. I love you and you are such an amazing person Gibi I hope you know that ❤️❤️ thank you

    • @khj8695
      @khj8695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@MRios1128 it’s probably more about how annoying you are

    • @bye1551
      @bye1551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@MRios1128 because generally conservatives are exclusive of the LGBTQ+ community. A community doesn't have to accept you if you want to discriminate against them, and saying that people not wanting to be insulted for being born a certain way is in anyway hypocritical of inclusiveness is stupid, immature and a major reason you're being excluded from the community probably. Bigots aren't owed inclusion; it's a choice to be discriminatory.

    • @frozerus
      @frozerus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bye1551 you put it perfectly 👌

    • @Lucifersfursona
      @Lucifersfursona 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MRios1128 darling a tantrum isn’t a protest

    • @sophiaf4863
      @sophiaf4863 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bye1551 thank you

  • @luvadrien
    @luvadrien 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    i teared up when she gave us the binder and talked about how diying it is dangerous bcuz i literally am trying to diy it omg i love you

  • @horseknees5543
    @horseknees5543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    It is so kind of him to put so much work into this!!!!!

    • @Raspberrize
      @Raspberrize 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @JALEN JULIUS Gibi mentions in the intro she doesn't mind which pronouns are used! :)

    • @watermelonsugar6016
      @watermelonsugar6016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Raspberrize exactly

  • @onewiththeslugs8928
    @onewiththeslugs8928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I have never felt more comfortable and safe within a video. I feel like you’re talking right to me. I don’t know my pronouns if I’m being honest, but I definitely dress more masculine and identify more with he/him pronouns but I’ve never told anyone that before. I always wanted a binder, regardless of my pronouns. To most Im just a tomboy. And maybe I am. But I really thank you for this, I hope I get to go to a pride event in the future. I look forward to living now :)

  • @Strawberri_gvts
    @Strawberri_gvts 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am actually crying. As an FTM this means so much to me. Thank you❤❤❤

  • @ghostii716
    @ghostii716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    me: yeah gibi and gina are really close it’s cool
    gina: **says her name in the intro**
    me: **surprised pikachu face**
    also yayyy hi fellow bicon!

    • @yeetmaster2658
      @yeetmaster2658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why are you Dr Phil's sugar baby?

    • @thatoneplant
      @thatoneplant 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Because they are

  • @MirageSplit
    @MirageSplit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Thank you for this. My s/o has been asking if he prefers he/him as a lesbian and has been questioning his identity a lot. Seeing this video made him feel super comfortable and like it was made for him. Some don’t feel as comfortable or fitted into their feminine side and this was just so cozy to watch, being told we’re not alone is so uplifting. Thank you so much for considering every pronoun!!! What a way to end pride month ❤️

  • @kingsdisguise
    @kingsdisguise 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    closeted demiboy in a heavily transphobic household. i want to thank you so much for this video, because it’s most likely the closest thing i will ever get to wearing a binder before i turn 18

  • @kylethedragon6411
    @kylethedragon6411 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    gibi,
    i actually can’t explain how much these videos mean to me and i don’t know if you’ll see this but on the off chance that you do, i just wanted to let you know.
    i’ve been struggling a lot with my gender identity lately and feeling like i don’t present well enough and i’ve been trying to find safe spaces online to make me feel better and distract myself from my own head, and this was my savior.
    you’ve been one of my favorite creators for a long time, i’ve been watching your channel to help me sleep for almost two years now, and the fact that you put so much time and effort into this is so heartwarming and amazing.
    i always end up being very invested in and mildly dependent on the creators that i involve myself with and that can sometimes end badly for me, but you haven’t let me down even once. the fact that someone i look up to so much cares so deeply about my community and people like me is so meaningful.
    i truly appreciate everything you’ve done. you’ve educated people and encouraged people and validated people. so thank you.
    sincerely,
    kyle, transgender

    • @neyocrayo5792
      @neyocrayo5792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i'm so happy for u kyle!! i'm also very happy she put this much effort into it !! makes me so happy :) - an enby

    • @floatifyy3118
      @floatifyy3118 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe you should get closer to Jesus and he could guide u and help u with your little situation

    • @_Jesper_
      @_Jesper_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@floatifyy3118 Whats Jesus gonna do?

    • @3ll3llyyy
      @3ll3llyyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@floatifyy3118 i mean jesus is a bottom so like i dont think well be getting together anytime soon

    • @datemrzeadatisedive6291
      @datemrzeadatisedive6291 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@floatifyy3118 Where did Kyle mention not being close to Jesus?

  • @S0urLemonz
    @S0urLemonz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    I know this was made a year ago but I have been struggling with being a trans male lately and an entire way of gender dysphoria and depression washed over me and I decided I needed some asmr for distract me so I don’t go insane, thank you gibi :]
    Edit: hiii!! 3 months later and I found out I was a non-binary lesbian! My girlfriend supports me and I’ve lost some friends along the way but I’m being comfortable in my own self!

    • @mrjousefmrjousef512
      @mrjousefmrjousef512 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Can you go back to be a man?

    • @S0urLemonz
      @S0urLemonz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@mrjousefmrjousef512 excuse me-? I couldn’t understand anything of what you just said-?

    • @gaywatermelon272
      @gaywatermelon272 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@S0urLemonz hello fellow trans man I can understand you cuz I have having major gender dysphoria and sadness but I hope we get through this together

    • @S0urLemonz
      @S0urLemonz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@gaywatermelon272 Thank you Gay watermelon! I hope you have an amazing day ^^

    • @gaywatermelon272
      @gaywatermelon272 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@S0urLemonz you too ^ ^

  • @blufox1964
    @blufox1964 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    “Why fit in when you were born to stand out” - Dr. Seuss

    • @474yx
      @474yx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Wasn’t he racist? 💀

    • @You-rw6ht
      @You-rw6ht 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Good quote bad person

    • @edwater.3
      @edwater.3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@You-rw6ht yup, loved his books tho

    • @Gimlo_Goblin
      @Gimlo_Goblin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The words I live by, mon ami 😉💫

    • @blufox1964
      @blufox1964 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Gimlo_Goblin AOYAMA AYYY

  • @saintlarfleeze3551
    @saintlarfleeze3551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Never thought I’d see the ace flag in a Gibi video. Love to see it and all the other flags!

  • @barbarahelstowski4162
    @barbarahelstowski4162 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    My granddaughter was nervous about bringing her wife to a family reunion but she was keeping cool and her wife Jewel was treated with the most respect from everyone her wife was so happy to meet everyone in my granddaughter's family.

  • @booletric
    @booletric ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ik it’s been two years BUT IM GOING TO PRIDE TOMORROW AND IM SO EXCITED

    • @booletric
      @booletric 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Pride year 2 baby

  • @TheoSoot
    @TheoSoot 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    if someone actually cared this much and bought me a binder i would break down sobbing. that would mean the world to me

  • @doyoulikemyhat1404
    @doyoulikemyhat1404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    Hey Gibi, it’s Quinn :D
    I’m positive you don’t remember me from the emails, but even so it makes me so happy that you listened to your viewers. These roleplays truly mean a lot to me. (I’ll be watching them all probably, considering I use all pronouns and the profits go to charity)
    Also you’re telling me you filmed for 4 hours yesterday?!? You better have had a lot of water between filming >:(
    Alright, time for me to watch the video. Good night!

    • @remyquinn4461
      @remyquinn4461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ngl, Quinn is a pretty kool name

    • @doyoulikemyhat1404
      @doyoulikemyhat1404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@remyquinn4461 Thanks, I chose it myself :)

    • @remyquinn4461
      @remyquinn4461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@doyoulikemyhat1404 touchè

    • @snailbert147
      @snailbert147 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Quinn sounds like the name of someone who would have their own private jet. Love that name.

    • @remyquinn4461
      @remyquinn4461 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@snailbert147 what does the name Rye sound like to you then

  • @s1llybunny008
    @s1llybunny008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Gibi, from a trans man. Thank you! This already makes me very happy! I’m glad you’re comfortable talking to everyone about your sexuality during pride and all the time! Thank you again!

    • @khaliallewis5644
      @khaliallewis5644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aye no hate but what made u wanna change ur gender

    • @s1llybunny008
      @s1llybunny008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@khaliallewis5644 I was always a guy, I was just born into the wrong body. I never liked girly things or long hair or a large chest.

    • @antthebugboy6546
      @antthebugboy6546 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      :D!!! A fellow transmale!

    • @khaliallewis5644
      @khaliallewis5644 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@s1llybunny008 ohhh alr alr

    • @floatifyy3118
      @floatifyy3118 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hope u guys can support me

  • @gayboi8282
    @gayboi8282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I watched this right before my first pride event when I was scared about going and this helped a lot! This made me feel less alone! :)

    • @Berlina08482
      @Berlina08482 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      burn

    • @Berlina08482
      @Berlina08482 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      in

    • @Berlina08482
      @Berlina08482 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      hell

    • @nspectorr
      @nspectorr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Berlina08482 hell's not real

    • @Zephyr_in_trees.
      @Zephyr_in_trees. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Berlina08482 ur mum's in hell
      Also I'm guessing your dad is also there seeing as I don't see him coming back anytime soon

  • @cptprice129
    @cptprice129 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Im not LGBTQ and I identify as a straight cis male but damn this is interesting and enjoyable to watch. Happy pride! :)

    • @esmusc1
      @esmusc1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I also identify as a cis female, but this was very informative and enjoyable ❤️ Happy Pride to all!! I have always believed in the importance of inclusiveness. Gibi is the best 🙂

    • @codywilcox214
      @codywilcox214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Thanks for being an ally. Lot of people aren't, and it makes me wonder why. We're just being who we are. Thank you for accepting us and letting us be ourselves.

    • @BlasterzHD
      @BlasterzHD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m a bi-curious cis male, so I’m either straight or bi. Still, I’m a supporter of LGBTQ

    • @Coolixon
      @Coolixon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What's a cis?

    • @BlasterzHD
      @BlasterzHD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Coolixon Cisgender is the gender you are born with.

  • @Italian_Wall_Lizard-666
    @Italian_Wall_Lizard-666 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank youuuuuuu! I recently came out as genderfluid (masc leaning) to my dad, and he doesn’t really care but he doesn’t use my preferred pronouns. Stuff like this makes me feel so much better, so thank you!
    (Edit: genuinely felt so many emotions being called he/ him without questions. Thank you so much)

  • @error_pixel
    @error_pixel ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Im sitting in the bathroom with period right now, I have so mutch disphoria right now, i almost started crying at the first "he", thank you, realy❤❤

  • @grimm8827
    @grimm8827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I saw the she/her one and I fricken new a he/him one was gonna come out ty ty gibi 🥺

    • @cassidy7285
      @cassidy7285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      knew*

    • @ali_thesleepywolf3082
      @ali_thesleepywolf3082 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I watched the she/her but im non binary lol

    • @raechatraw06
      @raechatraw06 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Now we're just waiting for they/them🤞🤞

    • @grimm8827
      @grimm8827 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ali_thesleepywolf3082 and there’s no problem with that ^^

    • @ali_thesleepywolf3082
      @ali_thesleepywolf3082 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@grimm8827 ik im also surprised that Gibi is making multiple videos

  • @andrewm3613
    @andrewm3613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Thank you for this. I’m a trans man with long hair and I get misgendered left and right in public. It’s nice to have support and kindness.
    Happy pride!

    • @davidlarkin1040
      @davidlarkin1040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Happy pride!

    • @andrewm3613
      @andrewm3613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@aswery1031 be quiet, cishet.

    • @logvoid1559
      @logvoid1559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ok

    • @andrewm3613
      @andrewm3613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@logvoid1559 you too, be quiet.

    • @logvoid1559
      @logvoid1559 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@andrewm3613 how about you too join the 41%

  • @RodrickHeffley47
    @RodrickHeffley47 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m a trans boy (he/him) and I came out over the summer between 6th and 7th grade. I have a wonderful supportive family who tries to respect my pronouns and use my name. I live in a place where it’s not safe for LGBTQIA+ people. Some stores have gotten bomb threats for having pride displays. I wish I could go to a pride even irl but it wouldn’t be safe for me so I like to watch videos of them online. I love your content and I love that your making videos like this that are inclusive and informational. Where I live it’s also illegal for minors to have access to gender affirming healthcare because it’s considered child abuse.

    • @kazooharmony8935
      @kazooharmony8935 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sucks that kids so young of this generation are being brainwashed so early, it’s horrible to see

  • @-b0r1ng-58
    @-b0r1ng-58 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    i literally started crying at the binder part (/srs) thank you so much gibi, your support means a lot to me and other people in the community as well, and you being so open about your identity as well is amazing! thank you thank you thank you! you're awesome gibi!
    - a very euphoric transmasc person

  • @pyxistucker9116
    @pyxistucker9116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    i saw this notif and almost started crying, as a trans guy this means SO much to me

    • @will5904
      @will5904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      omg ikr, it made me so happy
      btw i really love your pfp^^

    • @pyxistucker9116
      @pyxistucker9116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@will5904 thank you so much !! i love yours too :D

    • @RenaissanceRockerBoy
      @RenaissanceRockerBoy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m enby and masc-leaning, but I’m thinking of going by they/he :o Do you have any tips for figuring out if I’m just masc-leaning, or actually a trans guy?

    • @TheSpellKaster
      @TheSpellKaster 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RenaissanceRockerBoy who cares about labels? just be yourself!

    • @kathrynsipe3399
      @kathrynsipe3399 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My best friends came together and bought me one a few months ago. They gave it to me in school and I cried for like an hour

  • @zoomair91
    @zoomair91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    As a father of a bi-sexual daughter, thank you for posting! #HappyPride

    • @watermelonsugar6016
      @watermelonsugar6016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @JALEN JULIUS how?

    • @watermelonsugar6016
      @watermelonsugar6016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @JALEN JULIUS again how? Elaborate dude how somebody also liking the same gender is wrong. Also if it bothers you so much why are you spending so much time on a pride video? Are you curious? 😏

    • @davidlarkin1040
      @davidlarkin1040 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @JALEN JULIUS they didn't at all.

    • @percythepumpkin297
      @percythepumpkin297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      supportive dads, the best kind.

    • @Kleines89
      @Kleines89 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @JALEN JULIUS u failed as a human....

  • @matthewthomas1304
    @matthewthomas1304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    You know what would be stupid. If ppl unfollowed cuz they just found our Queen Gibi is Pansexual And Bisexual.

    • @matthewthomas1304
      @matthewthomas1304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Blue Ice Frostyy yea🤣

    • @maca76
      @maca76 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      its literally in her name tho she is Gi-Bisexual

    • @MidnightEkaki
      @MidnightEkaki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      If they want to leave just because of this then they should no one will miss them lol

    • @watermelonsugar6016
      @watermelonsugar6016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@mirii7 oh boo hoo if it’s what she identifies as then who cares let her live her life

    • @MidnightEkaki
      @MidnightEkaki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@mirii7 I use both and the reason I do that is because both fit my preferences, I'm not saying they're the same thing. Bisexual= attracted to both sides of gender spectrum (which can include nonbinary people) pansexual = attracted to people of all genders. I can use either and they fit me.

  • @shaunfirebird
    @shaunfirebird ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As someone who recently realized i am AroAce after all these years of confusion this video is one of my all time favorites 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @shilOMG
    @shilOMG ปีที่แล้ว +2

    it's so comforting to know that I'm not the only one who identifies with both bi and pan, though I've been using bi+ as the label for it bc it's the umbrella term and all ;;

    • @Random_idiocy13
      @Random_idiocy13 ปีที่แล้ว

      I actually didn't know that being bi and pan at the same time was possible but it makes sense :)

  • @kungfutyla
    @kungfutyla 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I love that she made specially catered videos for everyone's pronouns, fucking awesome.

  • @muffinrimuru1212
    @muffinrimuru1212 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I know this was like 3 years ago but whatever lol I’m trans and sometimes just hearing someone call me he/him makes me so happy and this video was just awesome, I’m going to come out to my friends somepoint this week since only a few people know anyway I loved this video!!!!! 💚💚

  • @urfavpooks.daniii
    @urfavpooks.daniii ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love this. I’m Genderfluid and I mostly use he/him pronouns. I really want a binder to help myself feel better about my body. I just love Gibi.

    • @booletric
      @booletric ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same bro ur not alone ❤

  • @yesnt6428
    @yesnt6428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    yall have no idea how good this made me feel. and when they called me handsome i started freaking out because yummy compliments jsuhaudsijuasjiasj

  • @tvBoyo
    @tvBoyo ปีที่แล้ว +2

    THANK YOU GIBI I SERIOUSLY NEEDED THIS

  • @kohin1779
    @kohin1779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Gibi you're literally a genius, there's a lot of lgbtqia+ informations and a really good asmr, good job

    • @ryanlee6268
      @ryanlee6268 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tf does I mean

    • @3ll3llyyy
      @3ll3llyyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ryanlee6268 i think intersex

  • @marsupialsofmars3886
    @marsupialsofmars3886 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Waiting for the they/them I will cry. I love how it's six I assume that's for each rainbow color :) this is such a sweet project

  • @peppercherrybomb
    @peppercherrybomb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    David Rose's explanation of pansexuality on Schitt's Creek is the best ever. 🍷

    • @marsbar105
      @marsbar105 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      omg schitts creek is amazing

  • @lividlaughlove
    @lividlaughlove ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i’m gonna cry this is the sweetest thing EVER. you’re the best gibi

  • @frustraceann
    @frustraceann ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i'm a trans man (pre t and surgery), but i usually dress pretty feminine and most people veiw me as a girl, so i almost never get just... casually gendered correctly, or viewed as male. made me a bit emotional right as the roleplay started lol. thank you so much for this video.

  • @olliebranch_
    @olliebranch_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Aww Gibi thank you so much for making a pride month video
    Its always the best feeling in the world to find out that someone you watch supports you. I hope you have a wonderful day 💞

  • @lark7655
    @lark7655 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    1:13:23 made me so flipping happy cause I also use a wheelchair on occassion and so it made me happy to just hear it casually represnted and like,, idk, it made this fictional pride feel more accessible and like,,, feasible for me to have as a reality one day :")

  • @JDubs1464
    @JDubs1464 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ASMRists are the only people who pride themselves on making people sleep when they talk and I can't get over that

  • @Idieddead_13
    @Idieddead_13 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I've been questioning if I'm a demiboy (he/they) lately. I know she couldn't get these pronouns in the series but this was still super comforting. Thank you gibi ❤️

  • @maxmoonpie
    @maxmoonpie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    as someone starting to explore he/him pronouns and a more masculine presentation, this really felt comforting and affirming . thank you for making me feel so much more comfortable

  • @obsessedswiftie13
    @obsessedswiftie13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As a trans man who came out yesterday, this is so refreshing. Hearing the pronouns I want to be called by used for me. (: love you gibi

  • @firewolf7108
    @firewolf7108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi Gina... Since you said that in the description, I wanted to say, I used to identify as bi and pan too but there is actually a label for it under the bi umbrella :) It doesnt matter if it doesnt resonate with you, but this is how I identify - omnisexual - attracted to all genders (so, like pan, BUT), gender plays a part less or more in the attraction to someone, we are not genderblind, like pansexuals.
    There is also a term Abrosexual, which means that your sexuality changes over time :D
    This video is literally life saving.... Thank you so much, you are such a wonderful person, we need more people like you in this world 😭❤🙏

  • @lonewolfgamingplus379
    @lonewolfgamingplus379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    As He/Him and a straight guy, as a advocate supporter of the community, I love this.

  • @leinycat
    @leinycat 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    revisiting this video again.. thank you gibi.. i am ftm.. this makes me feel so comforted.

  • @jason007smith
    @jason007smith 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ben and Gibi, the real MVPs

  • @olivia-uu4ib
    @olivia-uu4ib 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I found Gibi from their Hange asmr, I remember I was at my dads house at listened to you for the first time I fell asleep at 7pm and woke up at 10pm. That night you also helped me sleep, a few months has passed now and i’m crying to you. I feel so safe here, all I can imagine is if I ever come out to my mom her taking me to pride. I’ve been listening to this and playing genshin relaxing for hours, it’s 3:30am. I could sleep if i laid now , but having this in the background is the best thing ever. Thank you Gibi

  • @goldfire2417
    @goldfire2417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I as a straight 15 year old with all do respect to LGBTQ+ i think people apart of LGBTQ+ are always wholesome and amazing friends and people

    • @4phis
      @4phis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What about all the flags, churches, bibles that these “wholesome people” burnt, and the not respecting people’s religion and the fact that their religion doesn’t allow them to respect it?

    • @saamo1423
      @saamo1423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@4phis So you wanna talk about how many people the church has slaughtered throughout history, or does that not fit your little narrative?

    • @HannibaILecter
      @HannibaILecter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@4phis what about the camps that the churches put LGBTQ+ ppl in?

    • @zagxc
      @zagxc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@4phis gay people burning down churches? i can have a hard time with religion with the way i was treated growing up, but no gay person in their right mind will ever do that or has ever done that. if you’re talking the sacramento church, a homophobe burned the flag hanging on the church, resulting in the church burning. acts of protest (what you said about burning flags/bibles, which gay people don’t do exclusively, and any that you see many of us don’t even agree with) because we’ve experienced horrible things may seem like horrible acts to you, but you have to understand we are people just as you are. get your facts straight, dude, don’t just be hateful for the sake if hating people.

    • @imsorrythankyouplease7613
      @imsorrythankyouplease7613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@4phis disrespect?.. Really?
      Who cares?
      Kevin Spacey exists.
      There are evil people in every group. No need to get worked up about the things that the media wants you to focus on. That’s giving them control over you.

  • @hotchners-lover
    @hotchners-lover 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    as someone who uses all pronouns, i have taken the liberty to watch all of the ‘getting you ready for pride’ series 😂❤️🏳️‍🌈

  • @char_xolotl
    @char_xolotl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I didn’t know I’d be so emotional when you gave me the binder; well the people watching but can I have a virtual hug thank you so much for making this