7 THINGS Men Notice FIRST In A Woman
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7 THINGS Men Notice FIRST In A Woman... When you understand the things men notice first in a woman, you gain insights into how to present yourself effectively and make a solid initial impression. It's essential to know what men notice first in a woman, from her appearance to her body language, because these factors play a crucial role in making a strong first impression. Take heed to this dating advice and be sure to watch the full video and learn things men notice first in women.
The things men first notice in a woman may include her overall appearance, grooming, body language, confidence, and energy or vibe. The things men notice first in a woman can leave a lasting impression and often shape a man's initial attraction toward a woman. Understanding what men notice first in a woman and what draws men's attention can help women enhance their presence and positively impact both social and dating settings.
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Dressing how you want goes against The Most High’s will. There is a way The Most High says we as women should dress. You are teaching Do As You Will doctrine. And because you are teaching this. You will be JUDGED for it. We at the end…REPENT
Burning question can you do a video about men dating women with a child. Does a high value man even want that.?
Hi Stephan! I have followed the link above that you provided to sign up to your text club messages. I have done so on the 26 of March and I yet to receive any response from you. Can you please let me know what is happening. Thank you 🙏🏽💚
Men and women that jump to conclusions shows how intelligent they are! 😂 weeds them out
There is a line with sexy clothing!!! I agree!
I was told as a child that you can not smile at every man that you see. So I do not smile often. However, the man that I am seeing always makes me smile even when I don't want to.
Exactly 💯😂😊🙌
Great advice! But no, Not every man, maybe just the man that I may be interested in too😊
Some men mistake a smile with flirtation when most times as smile is simply a smile.
@@malissa1134yeah I HATE this so I really cant be bothered to smile cause then I really get disgusted when they mistake my smile so I am always just professional and to the point!
Yep @@marciabrandon2423
"You only get one chance to make a first impression" ❤❤very true
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I already have that statement forever stamped in my head 🤣.. BUT I met One of the Most Amazing Men; ; without a smile and the bond and connection !!! 💗💋 ) Not the case for everyone..So definitely not recommended... I'm just sharing a tiniest crumb...😏👋 Never give up 🤫♥️🫶💖🥰
I just met a 63 year old nicely dressed, widowed lady with the biggest smile and personality to match. I was in awe last evening at the softness of her skin. Her smile never goes away!!!
Smiling is easy when you are at peace within......👌💯🙌♥️
Most definitely!
Really & seriously, "smiling is easy when you are at peace within or, (from within), really & seriously!?????????????????????????????????????????????????????🤔🤔🤔🙏🙏🙏🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
Amen!!! My soul is rocking 24/7😂😂❤❤🙏🙏
Facts 100%
I just started dating a man and he always marvels at how nice my skin is. You’re on to something!
True. I havent smile for most of my life. Though childhood. Though relationships. Single parenthood. NOW, for the last 6 years, after I ended hard life, I said "Goodbye" to all my worries I smile like crazy!
I just had a man who told me he appreciated how I present myself. He complimented me on my my nails, hair, and clothing. Saying he appreciated me looking well and putting in effort to look well for him specifically. And it occurred to me that men actuality look at all these things. And mind you, I always try to present well when im out and about and especially my job forces me to look professional and well groomed. I just thought most women carry themselves this way as well. But apparently not, and i wasnt even trying to really look my very best yet. But it felt good to have a man complementing me in a very respectful manner without sexualizing me in any way. And i was fully dressed in a respectful outfit i felt good in. But it just made me mindful that men can actually be nuanced in the things that they notice in a woman. And im currently striving to be in my feminine energy, and i can say, men pick up on that energy, and the right kind of man, actually appreciates that without realizing it initially. And ive been masculine for a very long time because i had to be, due to difficulties in my childhood. Stefan, you are a gem among men, and i hope that both men and women take your advice because there's truth in everything you share with the world. Keep on doing the Lord's work. ❤
My smile attracted a man that I actually wanted to attract this time lol. He noticed me smiling before I even saw him.
Hello 🤗 how're you doing?
That's beautiful girl... I hope it went somewhere
how's u both now?
hope u both are together now
Guy told me yesterday: "Excuse me, Ion know if u know it or not but you have reeallly good energy.. just wanted to tell u that."
Thats the best compliment
The skin aspect is 100% TRUE! I’ve had men comment on my skin/ ask me for my skincare routine after dates. They notice!
Once I started smiling I got approached a whole lot more by good quality men. I force myself to smile because I did not want to look like I was walking around angry.
Holding a gaze is powerful!
Stephan this is a great video. Smiling definitely helps and growing up and into my adult years I would always have breakouts but I learned that eliminating citrus fruits, milk, eggs and SUGAR helped tremendously also learned that we have to know and listen to our bodies and focus more on the inside than outside, everything starts from the inside. Also the eyes are the windows to the soul and my hair is my crown. ❤
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts. I appreciate that!
Hello 🤗 how're you doing?
I've discovered that stress is a real thing. While in a very stressful toxic relationship, I developed a severe case of hives. Once I ended the relationship and moved to a different state, miraculously the hives disappeared!
I agree about the skin and hair. They actually go hand in hand. I've taken care of my skin, but I was wearing braids and wigs which didnt suit me. I have my signature pixie back and I feel AMAZING. And the pixie shows off my beautiful skin. 🥰
❤️ 🙂 thank you for sharing I appreciate thay!
Hello 🤗
How're you doing?
❤🎉 beautiful sister, I love the pixie style
how many times have I smiled at people, not just men, but people in general, only for them to stare at me like a cold fish? A smile given Warren a reciprocal smile unless there’s something really terrible going on at the moment I love your videos and advice, butmen also need to take accountability in their behaviors towards a woman😮
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
Hello 🤗 how're you doing?
I totally agree with uuuuu!!!
I smile, someone said my “approachableness” makes men who don’t have a chance, think they do”😒 I don’t control “thoughts”
I fkn hate this.
YESSSSSS
😂😂😂😂@@Lucid-1111
My entire life….
I smile at most women. I have learned with men however, I smile at only a select few….
I don't know if you had problems with your skin, Stephan. But from my own experience, the whole issue is not as simple as you present it. There is certainly a connection between the psyche and diseases, but sometimes I feel that there is something behind it that we cannot influence (for an extreme case - children who die of incurable diseases did not cause it themselves either...). I don't want to completely compare it with acne, etc., but my point is that even though I work on my psyche, meditate, do sports, eat healthy, I've followed different diets, I've been to the dermatologist, but my skin never looks nice and healthy. The advice mentioned above is definitely beneficial, but sometimes it doesn't solve the problem completely. I think your comment may have hurt many women. It affected me a lot, lowered my self-esteem even more.
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Don’t let anyone affect your self esteem. Sounds like a personal problem mam’
As long as your taking care of it that’s all that matters, no need of perfection.
honestly his doing deservice to those struggling with their skins...he needs to reconsider..no one likes a bad skin people try but all in vain.
Please don’t take his opinions personally! I hear again and again that men like smiles, and it used to bum me out because I smiling is physically and mentally uncomfortable for me. I hate my lips and teeth. Smiling is just awkward, always. YET… knowing that it matters is helpful. The right man will like my smile, and the right man will find your skin perfect!
I came here to say the very same thing. I’ve been single MY WHOLE life knowing full well, it’s because my acne and acne scars that have turned men off. I have everything else in spades: personality, a great spirit, kind heart, loving and intelligent with a fantastic sense of humor. I work out and take care of my body but I’ll be dammed if that’s not enough. Now I’m expected to have “nice skin”. Men do judge a book by its cover and let’s not pretend that that’s that’s the truth. If I had a million dollars, I’d get my scars removed ☹️
Love listening to you. You’re always on point. Thank you!
I appreciate that ❤ 🙏
Stefan, I rarely write comments under videos I watch, but since I started listening your content, I started dreaming a man like you.
Thank you for all your time and work to make videos, cause you always present really helpful and important information!
❤ Greetings from your biggest fan from Bulgaria 🇧🇬! 🍀🙏🏻😘
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching and sharing. I appreciate hearing from you!
Men definitely notice your energy. I walked into a lids store and spoke. The guy said, "Hey, I love the energy." I was a little taken a back but I assume he may not get kind and friendly greetings often.
Genetics also play a role when it comes to hair texture and skin type. But a healthy lifestyle is always advised. You are right on point with this video
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Yes, but all these women you see on TH-cam with great hair, really take care of it too...
Even tho it's not genetics.... but RBF can be inherited. By inherited I mean picked up from the adults around u in childhood. I think that I have it b.cuz my mom does. I promise I'm friendly & talkative!
Men have told me I don’t look approachable, they say I look mean, I don’t complain that men don’t approach because I don’t think I’m ready
You are right!! Smiling does matter!! ❤️ 😍 💖
Absolutely!
Thank you Stephan. Always on point. Happy Monday 🤩👑🙏🏾
❤ 🙂 Thank you and have a happy Monday as well!
What helped me in my journey on top of all the things you also mentioned was getting brain scans done through Amen clinic it helped me sooooo much not only identifying toxicity and opening up my voice to being authentic but the biggest thing is going over my scans with neurologist understanding exactly what type of counseling I need what type of supplement are beneficial and meds and learning difference between neurodiverse and neurotypical relationships ...
Smiling does genuinely help imo. I sometimes smile at strangers in public for kindness. And for the body part, some men PREFER a women with bigger chest and bigger booty.
This morning while I was waiting for the checkout at a grocery store, this guy who was in his late 30s- early 40s, he genuinely smiled at me, I smiled back and he said “hi how are doing”, he asked how my day was and we had an odd quick talk, yes he was married but he was a complete stranger to me.
Stephan I just want to say I appreciate you so much. We as women can be neurotic and defensive, and you go out of you way do deliver the truth is such a gentle way. Facts are facts, and we have to get out of our own way sometimes. I’m not sure if you’ve ever done a video about this, but I think us ladies could really benefit from a video on what healthy masculinity (in a man) looks like.
As a man, I notice and love women's arms from elbow to shoulder. I'm not sure why or if I'm the only one.
Thank you for sharing!
As a woman , I sometimes look at mens forearms.😅
I love that mindset.
I know you're not the only one, my son, my middle grown son, told me one time that 'he always loved my arms" so I'm sure that it is something that everyone notices not just men.
I remember seeing a older woman in her 60s that had beautiful arms and I knew that she worked out, and I appreciated how nice her arms looked.🎉❤😊
Everybody loves something odd about others,, that captures our attention.. Our we find sexy
Saving this video.
I dont have the money for best products, or to dress how I wish, but I take care of my face skin, hair, etc all natural and homemade. Exercise at home, It works. Im not going to look as good as the ones who can buy certain things, but it is how it is😄. Thanks for this video😊💜
Girl I'm sure you look amazing! The ones that will notice will. Be you boo ❤
❤ I hear you.😢
I GUESS….. just get a sensitive Dove facial cleansing bar, and boom.
Some cerave moisturizer or even better Aveeno oatmeal gentle green cap moisturizing lotion….. and some consistent sunscreen.
And drink organic moringa powder, one teaspoon…. With additional ingredients hot cup and a half of water…. Sage, cilantro, parsley, lemon juice, cilantro, cloves, and peppermint herb…. And BOOM, amazement before your eyes.
@@yonnaagape9484 thanks for your Beauty recommendations. I like all natural products is good for overall health too. Moringa powder seems really good!💜 That drink is full of great ingr, love it!
You have a warming heart ! Thank you so much for your advice! God Bless You
❤ 🙂 Thank you and may God bless you as well!
Thanks!
Certainly the guy that needs to see all these specific aesthetics best be producing the same!
So true. A smile says a lot. Even for a moment.
Thank you Stephen for sharing your helpful tips and for your words of wisdom.
God Bless you for all that you do.
I agree with your TV choices! 😅I have exercised most of my life and even martial arts. The “cool down” is very important, so do that before leaving the gym, dojo or wherever you’re at Stephan.(just a suggestion)😊
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Great advice and thank you for treading lightly on 'our hair' (smile). I can appreciate your insight to just look good on what you are rockin'!
Good and needed informational integrated into the topic at hand. Long time watcher. First time commenter.
Smile, so true get told a lot beautiful smile comforting, energy, told by a guy interested strong, loving, caring, peaceful, stress, 46 told a lot look 28, 27, twenties take it as a compliment. Don't stress ladies. 🙂💯💯
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Stephan, I've watched your videos for a long time and I've seen a big difference in you skin. I do agree the foods consummed that align with your blood type makes a difference in your overall health.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Thank you so much Stephan! my daughter is now 20 going on 21 and it’s starting to date and I told her to listen to your videos because I really feel comfortable with the advice that you’re giving. And that’s rare cause I’m funny about my babies lol
Thank you! This was very Helpful! I will pay more attention to each one of these points more fully. Keep it coming!! 🤗😊
Thank you for your light. Your spirit came through beautifully. I appreciate your advice. Yes! Skin care says a lot about yourself. 🪷💎✨️🌀💚🙏🏾🧘🏾♀️
Hello 🤗 how're you doing?
Stephan, I absolutely love your insights. You keep it real.I really appreciate all your tips and views on topics.❤
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Eating for your blood type is a new concept for me. Thanks for the tip!
Hello 🤗 how're you doing?
Hello 🤗
How're you doing?
In terms of healthy eating. I say go with what feels good while and after you’ve eaten it.
Does it deplete your energy level or raise it? Are your eyes clear? Etc. I live in northern Europe and have a Jamaican dad. The Jamaican foods: loads of different fresh fruits and cooked veggies are great for me. But I don’t have that experience in Europe and I think it’s a combination of lack of fresh organic foods and a small selection of them but I also suspect genetics play a part. According to my blood type I’m supposed to eat lots of protein from animals and seafish and that’s not right for my body, only a little bit sometimes.
You had me go back through old pics. 🤣🙏🏾 Health is wealth! ✨
Great video, lots of spot-on topics .
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
@ Stephan - Enjoyed the video- I have to make an effort to smile so when I go the gym I listen to one of your videos because you always have me laughing…true facts
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I wish your videos were shorter and more condensed. I find it hard to find the time to get through the entire video, I’m like give me the cliff notes please! lol.
Same for me: much to lengthy
I loved loved the video 👍 👍 thank you you so much. I love you 😘 good advice
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great video! deep thoughts, great coaching Stephan, thank you 😊
My pleasure ❤️
I stopped paying for cable service in 2020. Best decision ever. I do watch Netflix occasionally when I’m in the mood for comedic relief too. ❤ keep smiling.
@sandiscalmanini8096 Who needs cable when we have Stephan? 😂
Hello. Thank you for the 7. It would be great to see an array of visuals with the 7 [e.g. fashion examples with edgy sexy, conservative nice, or rather what is absolutely unacceptable].
i’ve always loved smiling. i noticed problematic people try to take the smile so my mom said shine on. what you saying puts the cherry on top. blessings
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Profound video❣️ Thank you ❤️🔥❤️🔥🙌🏾🙏🏽🌟
My pleasure ❤️
That was a lovely video Stephan,👏🏾👏🏾 you are hilarious! come on ladies! Stop looking so difficult out there!!😂😂🙏🏽💚💚🙌🏾
Thank you. Great tips as always ❤❤❤
Thank you Labossiere for putting us on sir from the smile to the hair. We heard and we will apply. Keep on pouring in and keep on loving us. We need and appreciate it🥰💜.
😂 The subject of hair appeared to be a challenge for you to talk about. 😂😂 In regards to femininity, I think masculine energy from a woman may be an unconscious defense mechanism. For me I was afraid of being hurt again. When I stopped thinking about that, my feminine energy became more dominant, therefore, I am approachable now.
Hi Stephan, I am very happy and at peace that I'm always smiling😊😁😃😅 and laughing. I've gotten many compliments on my smile. The men at the gym call me sunshine 🌞 and people always say your always smiling and have good energy. Thank you for sharing sending Love and Positive Vibes to you and all the beautiful souls out there. ❤️💥🩷💥💜💥🫶
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Same!! That’s my nickname at work Sunshine
My smile and my voice was what attracted my guy . He said he likes the softness of my voice. I’ve always been a feminine woman and he’s very masculine ❤
Nothing to be proud in being feminine/masculine. Just be a human.
Enjoyed this video. Very helpful, and I'm going to make changes to improve me. Thank you ❤👍👏
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
I just came across this video by chance it just popped up!!! Why the F didn’t I know about you sooner!!! Great video & I agree with a lot of your points!!! Especially about good skin I spend lots of money on skincare because I know it’s very important because I want my skin to be at its best!!! Cheap skincare don’t work for me!!! I have subscribed to your channel & I’m about to spend my evening binge watching your videos!!! ❤️❤️
Welcome aboard and don't forget to click on the notification bell to be notified whenever I release a new video ❤ 🙏
This is my first video I’m watching full… you gave helpful and accurate information & advice. 💗
Stephan come onnnnnnn after each video i tell my self "okay that's enough. Enough with this content" and 0.1 second later my thumb automatically clicks your next video!!
I once dated a girl and found out she thought she was feminine but have not come to self awareness that she is giving off masculine energy but she married a feminine man now
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Balance is key.... and she found it. May their relationship be lasting, functional, beneficial & positive
This is soo so true!! ❤💯
great topic and good points
These are very accurate and I had a guy mention every one of these to me. He was infatuated as he said. We were old college mates.
Great video!!! I’m loving it💓👏🏼💯
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
People are judgmental. I'm not interested in "judgmental." I'm interested in taking my time and using my experience with a person to gauge my opinion and level of involvement over time.
Stress kills!!
Great & positive information! 🥰👍
Thank you for sharing. Good content
I like your hair. Love love love your beard 👍
This was a great video and great advice! What if the woman has a skin condition, how flexible would a man be on this?
Thank You So Much! Great Information!♥️🙏🏽😇
Thank you for another great educational video 💕
My pleasure ❤️
Great video. Thanks 🙏🏾
My pleasure ❤️
Only a professional can master this
Stephan this was rather sensitive topics
But you addressed them as though u were walking on thin Ice
FANTASTIC !
Ladies don,t stress yourselves ,no one possesses all the fine attributes
Recognise what you have and flaunt with CONFIDENCE 😅
Interesting video..... with extremely powerful insights!🙏
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
This was such a great talk. I laughed and found the information to be so true. Most men comment on my smile, young or old that is what they notice. 🌿🙏🏼
Thank you so much for this. I always tell me friends to smile and be positive. It is contagious and men like for their women to be happy. When they see you happy the want to keep you that way. I am an Esthetician (skin care expert) and the part about the skin is so true. If you have skin problems and you do not work on the inside it is impossible to have healthy, vibrant skin. They think I can work miracles but it takes more effort on their part, working on their attitude, stress and using skin care consistently!!
My brother my friend this is spectacular wonderful coaching for the people ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yes I was called a beautiful African queen with a beautiful smile. Thank you Stephan you are always on point
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
Thanx Bro... Great video..❤❤😂
Thank you ! I’m Listening ❤
Healthy skin shows not only self care, but VITALITY. Who wants to be with someone unhealthy and have to take care of if they aren’t taking care of themselves?
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This one I feel personally is so unfair. For some people their skin is not great but are very healthy. I've spent $1000s on skin care products and nothing works, whereas I know my own family members who don't wash their face every day, eat junk food and have clear skin. It shouldn't be a defining feature but sadly it is and not always reflective of the real character of a person.
@@amyitis
Very much agreed✨❤️
@amyitis my skin isn't perfect, and anyone who doesn't accept it can scadaddle. I don't want any man who isn't into me.
@@amyitisyes because some overall HEALTHY people suffer with skin disorders such as eczema, psoriasis, rosacea, etc. It’s inconsiderate how people only go off their reality without considering others. 💔 You’re beautiful sweetheart please believe it!❤
Was blessed with a resting face indeed but I don't care, at the end of the day when I smile, I genuinely smile, i can't do no fake smile it isn't real...
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🤗🤗😂i will definitely join and
Share your awesome podcast
With many others Stephan I'm
Glad there is you !!! 🙏 🌳 🎶 🎼💋
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Your hair looks amazing
I have noticed that when I wear my natural hair it makes different types of men approach me. Personally I like my braids lol less maintenance and I’ve never had a wig, But you are right a hairstyle can make all the difference.(I did listen to the whole video btw 😂)
But Stephan, I seen u in person at the Java center, and even on stage u seem so serious. But I still have luv for you ❤ur one of my favorite go to relationships coach.
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He’s a man, and many men are more attractive when they look in control… decisive… and that might mean when they’re not smiling
The RBF has totally been me most of my 30s lol. But since I’ve been feeling better - i wasn’t just bitchy I was depressed- I do seem to get more attention. Of course I’m also taking better care of myself overall.
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I make it a point to get facials at a local beauty school. It's the same thing as a local salon at a quarter of the price. Massages, also. Get pampered. It will show
great message ❤
My whole family same
My dad dued wuth a sweet smile on his sweet , handsime face!
❤Smiling is contagious❤
Absolutely!