"No one is a burden at my parties, except for the people who don't show up!" I love that Kristin gets to act like an exaggerated version of her own type! 😂
Nah, I wouldn't want to be a part of it. The fact that I wouldn't be invited would be a great thing, since it saves the time that would had otherwise gone to reject it.
As an INTJ, I'd rather you say "Hey, I'm having this party and you're welcome to come if you want. Do not feel obligated at all. Just know you're welcome." I absolutely will not come if not invited, but I would like to have the option if it's available.
Same same. As an INTP. It's nice to be invited. It's wonderful to be not pressured. That's all the social affirmation I need. (If course I'm not going! Good grief 😏)
Same as an INFJ. Except if some people broke up recently or are suppressing wounds and are foolishly coming to a party expecting to run away from their problems just to realize mid-party after enough alcohol and vomiting 3 times that's not actually working and it's just too much to bear. I will gladly come even when not invited, will install a couch in the least noisy room for an express therapy session and hypnotize some of them just in case for future use. Oh and playing the taxi when serious stuff inevitably come back and nobody stayed sober. Darn, parties are so fun !
dunno which type i am but i generally find it annoying to be invited to things someone knows i just don't enjoy and then have to suffer the pain of declining. it's like, if they know then why ask? just keep the invitations to stuff you know im usually up for. A hiking trip? Anytime. A giant party? Pass
As an ENTP, I laughed so hard at the "ENTPs and I have a mutual agreement to keep it surface level" part. ENTPs are drawn to ESFPs because ENTPs are naturally drawn to chaos, but when ENTPs and ESFPs get to know each other, we realise that deep down we are too different.
Don't speak for all ENTPs, I avoid ESFPs (too loud, annoying, attention-hoarding and overbearing, sometimes even pushy and dangerous, from experience) or laugh at them from a distance. Nothing to attract me there.
If you're actually friends with an INTJ, please invite them to things (especially if its a murder mystery party, most INTJs would love that). Our stereotypical misanthropy only gets reinforced when we feel like we don't matter to the people who matter to us (our Fi exists and it is very sensitive even if you don't see it). However, if you're just an INTJ's work colleage/classmate/some other superficial contact....yeah, don't bother, we're not coming
@@EresirThe1st personally I like to release my Se demon with dancing (after activating her with plenty of booze), but even if it's something I absolutely wouldn't be interested in, it's still nice to be invited just to know you haven't been forgotten/excluded
@@psychsephone9832 - I'm always a little conflicted as to whether I'd rather go Se inferior / dancing and drinking mode or quiet conversations with a good "social puzzle". If you get me drunk I am highly likely to unleash my Shadow ENTP and encourage shenanigans.
Describing INFPs as sidekicks and enablers at parties is so crazy accurate. I love pushing people into doing crazy stuff but not doing that stuff myself. The enjoyment I get from watching someone make fools of themselves while I take videos is unparalleled 👌
This INFJ would be perfectly happy in the "not invited" spot. Diving into conspiracy theories with (also not invited) INTJ for hours or watching the night sky and talking about multi-dimensional beings with ENFP (after they have left the party) seems a tad more intriguing. ✨
I was excited by the "watching the night sky" part and I could say that I'd rather be in this kind of a party than a "party" party. I'd also love to hear people's thoughts and know them deeper. Do invite me :) - ISFP
As a fellow INTJ I must say the party will be amazing just make sure to pregame with your favorite booze or and or substance 😂 you’ll transform into an ESFP. I know I do😂
fun fact: if an INTP comes to your party even though you've made it abundantly clear that they are not obliged to go, it's not because they think they'll hurt your feelings; they're just too embarrassed to say no and then too embarrassed to flake because they didn't say no.
ISFP and ESFP make great friends because the way they think is so similar and they're usually not interested in interrupting the other's vibes at all. ESFP loves a sidekick they can ditch when they find a new activity and ISFP loves to be a sidekick so they can wander away when they're no longer interested in an activity. It works perfectly at parties lol
@@TylenOneal239 As a fellow ISFP, it's true that being ditched around strangers sucks but I can't imagine most ISFPs agreeing to be in such a situation in the first place haha We're more likely to just leave if no one's talking to us.
Another ISFP here My best friend is an ESFP, I would consider even marrying an ESFP one day, what can be better - both understand each other, support, respect and push to be better :)
@@TylenOneal239well obviously depends on the person 💀 every person has their own likes and stuff, i mean my mom’s best friend is an esfp and she dances to whatever music they play, and my mom is an isfp and they get along so well its cute to watch
@@TylenOneal239That fs isn't true I'm an ESFP and I LOVE Dubstep, metal, anything ravey or alternative with a lot of energy instead of tiktok audios anyday for me 😞 and I don't think taking walks at night is creepy... You must have met some really immature esfps not even I like people like that
As an ISTP, I'm always looking for an opportunity to slip out of a large party once all formalities are over. Love your content, Kristen! You're giving Frank James a run for his money!
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Haha. Make me think on a INFJ-friend. She can play so many differnt characters in a RPG. She´s doing a great job. It's hard to believe that there is only one person behind it. However, she probably needs a lot of energy for this, she is absent again for a longer period of time afterwards.
@@dearkristinJesus loves you ❤️ please turn to him and repent before it's too late. The end times described in the Bible are already happening in the world.
ENTJ one is SO true! I often go to a party with a goal or a focus! One time i focused on practicing listening skills after reading some articles. Another time it was forcing myself to make more jokes and have an open posture. Or i could have becoming better friends with somebody as a goal, etc. I take parties as "practices", practicing social skills or testing my personality and developing it while having tons of fun! This is literally my favorite way of socializing because you learn so much in the process!! Its exciting, like mini social experiments!
Interesting. I get what you mean but can’t help but think that would not feel like a party to me. Well actually I guess I mean that would not feel like me! (I’m an ENTP, that one letter makes a lot of difference ;))
Can’t wait for an ENTP one. Everyone will be at the bottom tier with perfect arguments as to why they belong there and then all moved to the top tier with perfect arguments as to why they belong there 😂 This video is so good on many levels. My son is an esfp and even though it’s satire it’s still accurate.
As a isfp with esfp friends, I would put esfp in “party bully” category, because I have seen my esfp friends giving traumatizing social experiences to sweeet innocent polite shy intps in parties😂
"A general rule of thumb that I find is that if they have no feelings, they're great for bants. Oh, except INTP, but we'll get to that." I just about fell out of my chair laughing at that line. 🤣 Basing the entire ranking on how well a type fits in at an ESFP-style party is on point, certainly. When I noticed INTPs were saved for last, I was expecting at least a mild roasting from Kristin. I'm once again surprised INTPs ranked has high as we did... -- INTP EDIT: There seems to be a recurring theme on various MBTI channels that INTPs are devoid of feelings. I find this baffling and somewhat troubling, as we most definitely DO have feelings. They're just more of an unfortunate inconvenience for us most of the time than something we tend to celebrate.
Our reputation is not entirely unwarranted if you look at how we (normally) make decisions and the things we choose to express when we open our mouths. Most INTPs I've met (including myself) don't often wear our hearts on our sleeves, and our feelings (that do exist) require some amount of external help or prompting to come out, and even when they do come out, they'll be bundled with nuances, qualifications, and other non-sentimental information, which can sometimes - mistakenly - come across as apathetic or half-hearted.
The numerous immature thinkers pretending they don't have feelings surely don't help. Especially when they're trying to explain to you that feelings are not real because it's just chemicals (already seen from INTPs). Even then so what? That doesn't make any difference in actuality because you have to deal with it as a sentient being. No matter how you look at it humans are factually normally created with the ability to feel.
@kyurei4478 Yep! 100% Cognitive psychology tells us that the brains of all animals - human included - basically function on emotion. Not the same thing, quite, as the Jungian concept of Feeling as a judging function, but even so, if someone denies that they have emotions or make judgements based on feeling, it's simply denial. Which, ironically, some people can get quite ... erm ... emotional about 🤭🤭🤭 [INTP... with a psych degree]
Love this video; this one is gold!!! I lost it at: "If there is an Fe user in the crowd it leads to a search party" 🤣 Thanks for the laughs! This new series is amazing.
As an INFJ there is truth in my desire to monopolize the time of one person in a corner, usually an INFP or INTP, but I have learned if I just focus on my inferior Se I can have an amazing time at a party. I just need 7 to 10 business days to recover afterwards. ;)
Make an INTJ your +1. You'll have a dedicated conversationalist for the entire party. We're good at being as alone as we want to be in any situation. - INTJ
At the end of a party INFPs are always the ones to whom you say: “They always have to exaggerate.” Because they're drunk as hell. For example, I no longer get invited to weddings. We start off quiet and shy and the next day we can't answer the following questions: "Dude, what was wrong with you yesterday? You really can't remember? That was so insane. You were making out with my friend's grandma! I was very ashamed of you." 
A significant number of INTPs are closet ENTPs. So an INTP that shows up to a party and sits in a corner may actually be looking for a social event, but unsure how to navigate it (especially given a tendency to infodump, overshare, or otherwise stick our feet in our mouths when we do open them).
INTP being the last one and "respectfully a burden" being empty made me prepare for INTP to be placed there. Pleasant surprise that it wasn't the case. Despite the stereotype, INTP's are bit of a softie if you poke at our inf Fe
So if the only burdens are the ones who don't show up, and the INTJs are the only ones who never show up because they are never invited, that would mean that INTJs are the burdens. It's just logical. :) --an INTJ
INTJ may be invited out of a sense of obligation but won't attend...but they're probably not invited. I say this as an INTJ who literally was not invited when all my friends were having an orgy down the hall MULTIPLE TIMES 🤣🤣🤣🤣
My mom is an ESFP and my dad is an INTJ. They've been married for over 40 years now. They had 8 children (all adults now), so there was always plenty of party to be had. It surprises me that so many people think the personality types don't get along very well. They actually compliment each other, like a glove that fits. When they do accept each other and are willing to work together... they become a powerful, unstoppable force! Thank you, Kristin for your never ending fun! And for saying that no one is a burden at your parties. Not even an INTJ! They just need someone around that they can have deep, serious conversation with. My mom always keeps things fun and my dad always keeps things interesting. A recipe for the best kind of party, in my opinion 😜 Please keep inviting INTJ's to your parties LOL😂 ~INFJ
What is this crazy twist? I was hoping to be put into the burden tier but I'll accept not being invited. Please update this as soon as possible so that others don't get the wrong idea and believe there still is a chance. - INTP
"In fact, the only burdens are people who don't show up." nailed the coffin of paradoxes for me. Even though she retracted that rule, given that retraction was mostly for practical purposes of not excluding ExxPs, the dilemma remains :')
You know ESFPs usually drive my absolutely insane but Kristin has restored my faith in ESFPs. You guys like ENFPs are a lot smarter than you get credit for
That INTP feeling when a positive statement is followed by "except for INTP's". Oh well.. I'll say, though, you had me for the last one. I genuinely thought we'd be put in the "burden" category and now I don't know what to think.
I'd ask "Is it really the kind of tier list u want to participate or be highly regarded for?" U should ask urself this because these satirical tier lists are so intentionally poorly designed and superficial, particularly this one. For the ESFP, do u want to be party guy or be considered a mere sidekick or a burden as per the ESFP? It's a lose-lose situation in all possible ways because this satirical ESFP's superficial and skewed perspective doesnt even align with yours. If u score low, ur "undervalued" but its not like u wanted to be invited anyway. U score high but u reluctantly go to these parties by being guilt-tripped unless a hobby of interest enters the chat. Then ofc, there is the feeling u want to belong somewhere in some kind of community. So imo, just take it with a grain of salt, laugh it off and enjoy the satire.
Once again, ENFP praise I can't wait for some of the other types to really put ENFPs near the bottom, i swear were either at the top or bottom, and i love it
Ahhhh this is perfect! The energy, the vibe, the setting, just everything! Also, as soon as Kristin showed the sidekick tier, I knew that it was made for ISFJs :D (I'm also one btw).
"INFJ are usually picking someone to go and hibernate in the corner of the room with for the entierety of the night" - oh no, I've already quit the room to rest a long time ago. Very funny video! I have the feeling that Lauren should have added a rank between "great bants" and "sidekicks" (and by the way suppress the "burden") but it'ld be not fun to redo the ranking. And she had brillant ideas to exploit others' strenghts at their best.
Given my experience I believe it actually depends on two things : - Are we enjoying the current mood of the party? - Are we going to possibly offend some people by quitting early on? But yeah usually it ends up : - By, like Lauren perfectly described, talking to that one person we click with in a corner and, depending on many factors such as how drunk he or she is, we tend to either talk about stuff we are interested in or curious about (no matter how deep the subject is) or become improvised psychologists where the person unleashes his/her whole life-story despite us not having asked anything, - By telling a very small number of people that we are leaving early (in order to not stress anyone) and then retreat to our comfort zone to either chill or sleep in calm and peace. Overall I tolerate going to big parties but only with people I know and only 2 or 3 times a year for important events like birthdays, because these social events with a lot of people drain my energy gauge faster than the gloom in Zelda TOTK :')
Its always funny the INTPs described in the vid can always walk out the door any given moment but dont. Sometimes, it isnt even a Fe inferior problem, sometimes its the dreaded Ne curiousity out of boredom where it becomes a sort of like FOMO once ur interest has peak to go (even if u think the party will be a flop, but u may have expected 1 odd thing to happen). Thankfully, once u "see enough" and understand the picture after analysis, the super tight boundaries are formed. The reason and evidence is crystal clear and I disregard using Fe and go straight to Te-Ni apathy. The crappy Fi demon is extremely useful in these situations as well. Just stay away from these types of people or events. U know dang well like the INTJ u dont wanna go, so dont! Great vid Kristin.
sooo... i got this feature in my wireless soundbar which is called the "lip-sync" and it just broke while watching this video. thank you, kristin. /infj
It’s an undeniable fact…. We ENFPs are THE BEST at partying. And you probably can hand us anything whilst we monologue. I’m looking forward to the ENFP version of this. I think every personality type will be in one row called SO AWESOME!
Loved this one, I like how these videos are more thematic, elaborate versions #nuance of Through the Eyes and how they allow your creative genius in writing consistently hilarious monologues to shine through Nice wordplay as well Also, can't wait for other ESFPs to put your tips to good use at their next parties
Lol you got me, I refused to go to a drag show that all my friends were going to (bachelorette thing), it’s just so loud and I am not into the mania that the audience is supposed to exhibit. But a game night, you better believe I’ll be there! -an INTP
Drag shows are, at their best, beauty pageants for people who would normally say they have a problem with pageants, you know, objectifying women and all that. Besides that, I don't think I'd like the atmosphere either as an ESTJ.
@dearkristin we all know that the key to getting an INTJ to go to your party (if invited of course) is to “pregame” enough to transform them in an ESFP. 2 shots of tequila should do the trick and POOF! karaoke and dancing all night!
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The fact that this entire tier list is predicated on who you would or wouldn't like to invite to a party is so stereotypically ESFP it hurts. But as much as I wish I could refute your points, they're pretty damn accurate in my case. Though it has been quite some time I've been to a social gathering where I haven't felt like I'm "hiding in plain sight" to some degree, so it would be amazing to have an actual small group of people I can properly connect with rather than feel like I have to play some kind of expected social role. I kind of miss that. - INFP
ENFP that monologuing with an object is so true x.x It attaches to my character model and I end up wandering around with it without remembering why it's there or...that it's there. Omgaaawr I woulda shown up to the party gurl but I forgorrr 💀 I accidentally double booked and then cancelled both just in case of mutuals and went dancing alone across town! 😅
Hehe, while I get overwhelmed a lot of times with parties (helpful to have a nice ESFJ there as social shepherd), it’s very true that INFPs secretly enjoy watching mayhem as long as 1) others are doing it and 2) no one gets hurt. 😂
I WAS WAITING FOR AN UPDATE FOR THIS SERIES. I pray to god that you remember to do all 16 this time as this series is just godly. Love you, keep it up!
I think she's saving the "Through the eyes of the esfp" for 16 personalities in a musical, when she gets enough Patrons. I think she did all the others for that series.
ISTP who would be quite happy at the board game party with the INTP as long as the rules weren't utterly stupid. Count me out on the really loud parties though. An ESFP in *LOUD NOISES* mode is terrifying.
@@L17_8I every generation since the crucifixion there have been plenty of people who thought it was the end times for plenty of reasons. You are nothing new.
Look as an ISFJ, I respectfully knew we were going to be placed as sidekicks. That being said, I'm starting to wonder if maybe I'm an ESFJ because I'm usually the one planning the parties, picking the settings, cooking the food, inviting the people, hosting the parties...but then I remember that I have inf Ne lmao. So a sociable ISFJ it is!! Speaking of parties, I'm throwing a retro horror themed Halloween party this year, and I'm really really excited for it.
Introverts can be pretty sociable, especially those with significant Fe like ISFJ and INFJ, I've found. Also, some people have social anxiety, which they may confuse with introversion. You likely don't have social anxiety. For example, I knew an 'INFP' who was almost certainly an ENFP with social anxiety. Hated crowds, shied away from any kind of public speaking, avoided being the centre of attention, but still super energetic, talkative, expressive, hilarious to be around (and also a stunning amount of oversharing lol).
No no you don't understand... my Se wants so badly to relax and party but everyone singles me out as the one to trauma dump on and I'm like please no you're a stranger, I'm drunk, and my favorite song is playing 😭 I'm a therapist by day and partier by night - enfj Can confirm ESTJs are awesome for parties and will gladly plan everything for you.. just hope nothing goes wrong
YES!!! We might not have gotten an ESFP-o-vision video, but we got THIS! 2:10 doesn't come near the craziest shit I did, completely sober, OUTSIDE of a party. Wouldn't it be a great party hack to sic the ENFP at the INFJ & INTP? Okay, which type did the ESFP warn that it's not about them as a person?
As an INTP I do feel uncomfortable and look like a fish out of water at parties but once I'm in the mood I can become the life of the party very quickly.
As an INTP, there is that side of me who wants to enjoy the party when I'm attending a party(I use present progressive but I haven't been to a party in years except for my aunt's wedding last year but you can't have much fun around your relatives am I right?) but I always get bored, I need activities like a pool/ping pong table, a board game, a video game(especially mario kart wii my favorite game ever) etc... Dancing when there is a large crowd and bad music is as reasonable as dancing in a crowded train
We INTPs may have inferior Fe but that doesn't mean we're unaware of what others would feel about our actions. If anything, it just makes us hyperaware of it and we overanalyse our decisions if it does hurt our friends
If it makes you feel better, as an ENFJ, I’m too busy psychoanalyzing myself and overthinking my behavior and how everyone sees me to bother with psychoanalyzing others… much XD
[Sees the tier list.] Yep, the INFXs and ISFXs are all going in the "Sidekick" tier... Admittedly, I was super surprised that ISFP made the "Great Bants" level. Also, from my experience; ESFPs and ENFPs were notorious for spotting any introverts (especially any INXXs) within a five mile (10-ish Kilometer) radius and drag them from their hidey-holes and into some sort of existential horror that they will refer to as an "adventure." Especially during college years where Introverts haven't quite developed their "get a group together for some exciting quiet activities time" skills yet. Ni doms always seem to be exceptionally vulnerable to this... The chance to collect data for their inherent need to internally piece together patterns and build models of the Universe is just too great of a vulnerability for them to be able to resist it. They just need to know!
"So I speak for all ESFPs when I say that I officially release all INTPs from their self-inflicted obligation to attend our parties." Whew. Thank you. *a moment later* "In fact, the only burdens are people who don't show up." Well, that was short lived. Kristin, you don't need me tell you that that's a contradiction. You will break the social brain of the INTP with such dilemmas.
Well she did say the P types could be flaky, also she's playing a caricature of her type. But I agree with what she said that INTPs like playing games at parties, as an ESTJ I'd rather play games than just talk even though I'm bad at strategy games.
Brilliant Kristin! Loved how fast you talked as the ESFP, closed captions were my friends. I was worried I'd end up in the burden category (INTP) but you nailed it with the wee party!
I'm very INTJ and I am in fact a legendary partier. My friends still tell stories about Vegas trips we went decades after they happened because of shenanigans I got up to. I'm invited to everything and I try to go. The only thing I don't really like is clubbing because I don't like dancing. I'm more a house party/Superbowl party/Backyard BBQ type guy. It just takes a level of alcohol that would kill a horse.
I am an INFJ-A type 4 (4-8-5), and personally I just want to say that I like party music, and dance music especially highly vigorous music that can stimulate me. And I want to express these feelings in a spontaneous way, while I also enjoy seeing others in their spontaneous way, and have bonding with them through it because of the connection of flow. if I don't feel comfortable in the atmosphere, maybe I'll just watch from the sidelines.
My most memorable partymoment with an ESFP was at a masquerade, another girl was dressed as Rey (Star Wars) and someone commented "Oh yea, the Jedi" I impulsively jumped in with "Well shes not really a Jedi, she's just force sensitive" The girl in Rey costume began to laugh and called me the biggest nerd (in a positive way)...... aaand the ESFP threw herself into the conversation with "I'M THE BIGGEST NERD!!!😮😮" Then tried to spark up a competition.... (It didn't work) Ohhh the ESFP.... bless their hearts 🥲 And btw, put an INTP in costume and pour some liquid courage down our throats (sometimes we just need to be really tired) and we can be the life of the party 😏 ...at least for an hour or two //INTP
i was initially conflicted with the placement of the INTJ... for myself, as well as other INTJs i know, do let Se come out to play on occasion. karaoke and all. but on further self-reflection, this live-in-the-moment-phenomenon has never been inspired at an ESFP-level-party, which likely involves 1) half a million people 2) strangers 3) brain-throbbing levels of sound 4) no pre-set objective ...so, fair placement lol
I gotta say it all depends on how many people are there, if my social battery is full or empty and if I know someone. If my social battery is empty and I don't know anyone I might not go or I'll just sit somewhere, drink and watch everyone but if my social battery is full and I know someone you'll catch me on the dance floor shaking my b00ty and staying there until the end. -INTJ
"No one is a burden at my parties, except for the people who don't show up!" I love that Kristin gets to act like an exaggerated version of her own type! 😂
Jesus loves you ❤️ please turn to him and repent before it's too late. The end times described in the Bible are already happening in the world.
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@@L17_8 I guess you might be the burden of the party.
Eyy that's true. My esfp friend is so hurt when one of our friends don't show up in the party.
As an INTJ I feel like Maleficent - I hate parties and don't wanna come, but YOU DARE NOT TO INVITE ME? That calls for an evil spell
She didn't hate parties, she threw a party after capturing the prince
lollll fair
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@@SistoActivitatemAtmI remember that part after that she foolishly lock him up in a dungeon so that he can escape.
Nah, I wouldn't want to be a part of it. The fact that I wouldn't be invited would be a great thing, since it saves the time that would had otherwise gone to reject it.
As an INTJ, I'd rather you say "Hey, I'm having this party and you're welcome to come if you want. Do not feel obligated at all. Just know you're welcome."
I absolutely will not come if not invited, but I would like to have the option if it's available.
My friend (who is probably an ENFP) does it for me often and I greatly appreciate the option and the freedom of choice without being offended. -INTJ
Same same. As an INTP.
It's nice to be invited.
It's wonderful to be not pressured.
That's all the social affirmation I need.
(If course I'm not going! Good grief 😏)
Same as an INFJ. Except if some people broke up recently or are suppressing wounds and are foolishly coming to a party expecting to run away from their problems just to realize mid-party after enough alcohol and vomiting 3 times that's not actually working and it's just too much to bear. I will gladly come even when not invited, will install a couch in the least noisy room for an express therapy session and hypnotize some of them just in case for future use. Oh and playing the taxi when serious stuff inevitably come back and nobody stayed sober. Darn, parties are so fun !
You just described my lifelong rule to these kinds of events.
dunno which type i am but i generally find it annoying to be invited to things someone knows i just don't enjoy and then have to suffer the pain of declining. it's like, if they know then why ask? just keep the invitations to stuff you know im usually up for. A hiking trip? Anytime. A giant party? Pass
If you go to a party in Australia and end up in another country, you are truly a legendary ESFP 🌠
Hahaha VALID
@@dearkristin Your eyeshadow is just gorgeous in this video! (And the various somewhat-matching nail colors were a nice touch.)
I love when MBTI youtubers just run wild with their own types in sketches. lol
As an ENTP, I laughed so hard at the "ENTPs and I have a mutual agreement to keep it surface level" part. ENTPs are drawn to ESFPs because ENTPs are naturally drawn to chaos, but when ENTPs and ESFPs get to know each other, we realise that deep down we are too different.
Don't speak for all ENTPs, I avoid ESFPs (too loud, annoying, attention-hoarding and overbearing, sometimes even pushy and dangerous, from experience) or laugh at them from a distance. Nothing to attract me there.
@@UrWeid I see what you mean, the unhealthy ESFPs can get very bossy when they are angry
Ok as an ISFP….why do you actively type people in real life and avoid them because of their pseudoscience type?
@UrWeid
no one:
absolutely no one:
Kristin: tuh-*RUST* ME
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If you're actually friends with an INTJ, please invite them to things (especially if its a murder mystery party, most INTJs would love that). Our stereotypical misanthropy only gets reinforced when we feel like we don't matter to the people who matter to us (our Fi exists and it is very sensitive even if you don't see it).
However, if you're just an INTJ's work colleage/classmate/some other superficial contact....yeah, don't bother, we're not coming
That is very sad 😞
As an INTJ I can confirm that this is true
Yeah but with the caveat that it’s a good environment for conversation. If it’s just loud music and dancing I’d be miserable.
@@EresirThe1st personally I like to release my Se demon with dancing (after activating her with plenty of booze), but even if it's something I absolutely wouldn't be interested in, it's still nice to be invited just to know you haven't been forgotten/excluded
@@psychsephone9832 - I'm always a little conflicted as to whether I'd rather go Se inferior / dancing and drinking mode or quiet conversations with a good "social puzzle".
If you get me drunk I am highly likely to unleash my Shadow ENTP and encourage shenanigans.
Describing INFPs as sidekicks and enablers at parties is so crazy accurate. I love pushing people into doing crazy stuff but not doing that stuff myself. The enjoyment I get from watching someone make fools of themselves while I take videos is unparalleled 👌
This INFJ would be perfectly happy in the "not invited" spot. Diving into conspiracy theories with (also not invited) INTJ for hours or watching the night sky and talking about multi-dimensional beings with ENFP (after they have left the party) seems a tad more intriguing. ✨
Am INTJ. That sounds way better than any party.
But you can’t meet each other without going you know. (ENTP)
@@migsmethinks5801 I agree 👍- INFJ
I was excited by the "watching the night sky" part and I could say that I'd rather be in this kind of a party than a "party" party. I'd also love to hear people's thoughts and know them deeper. Do invite me :) - ISFP
Totally agree 👍 [infj]
Thank you ESFP for not inviting me, it is most appreciated.
- sincerely, INTJ
And, if I’m an INTJ, yes, that vein in my forehead does bulge often
My husband refers to those bulging forehead veins as my devil horns.
Seconded.
As a fellow INTJ I must say the party will be amazing just make sure to pregame with your favorite booze or and or substance 😂 you’ll transform into an ESFP. I know I do😂
fun fact: if an INTP comes to your party even though you've made it abundantly clear that they are not obliged to go, it's not because they think they'll hurt your feelings; they're just too embarrassed to say no and then too embarrassed to flake because they didn't say no.
1:41 ENFP
2:24 ESFJ
2:56 INTJ
3:23 ISFP
3:44 ENTP
4:23 ISTJ
4:50 ESTP
5:39 INFP
6:17 ESTJ
7:19 ISTP
8:23 INFJ
9:25 ENTJ
10:05 ISFJ
10:20 ENFJ
10:56 ESFP
11:20 INTP
im an ENFP and my best friend since high school is a ESFP. there's never been a dull moment
ISFP and ESFP make great friends because the way they think is so similar and they're usually not interested in interrupting the other's vibes at all. ESFP loves a sidekick they can ditch when they find a new activity and ISFP loves to be a sidekick so they can wander away when they're no longer interested in an activity. It works perfectly at parties lol
@@TylenOneal239 As a fellow ISFP, it's true that being ditched around strangers sucks but I can't imagine most ISFPs agreeing to be in such a situation in the first place haha We're more likely to just leave if no one's talking to us.
Another ISFP here
My best friend is an ESFP, I would consider even marrying an ESFP one day, what can be better - both understand each other, support, respect and push to be better :)
@@TylenOneal239well obviously depends on the person 💀 every person has their own likes and stuff, i mean my mom’s best friend is an esfp and she dances to whatever music they play, and my mom is an isfp and they get along so well its cute to watch
@pescuezoee Yeah exactly, personality type doesn't tell us what someone's taste or interests will be at all! Just how they interact with them.
@@TylenOneal239That fs isn't true I'm an ESFP and I LOVE Dubstep, metal, anything ravey or alternative with a lot of energy instead of tiktok audios anyday for me 😞 and I don't think taking walks at night is creepy... You must have met some really immature esfps not even I like people like that
As an ISTP, I'm always looking for an opportunity to slip out of a large party once all formalities are over.
Love your content, Kristen! You're giving Frank James a run for his money!
Kristin's Exorcist: How many demons --- er, personalities are inside you, child?
Dear Kristin: Sixteen, maybe more, for we are Legion.
I'm in a Halloweeny mood!
Haha. Make me think on a INFJ-friend. She can play so many differnt characters in a RPG. She´s doing a great job.
It's hard to believe that there is only one person behind it. However, she probably needs a lot of energy for this, she is absent again for a longer period of time afterwards.
Thank you and please continue not inviting us. Sincerely, all INTJs.
Copy.
Jesus loves you ❤️ please turn to him and repent before it's too late. The end times described in the Bible are already happening in the world.
@@dearkristinJesus loves you ❤️ please turn to him and repent before it's too late. The end times described in the Bible are already happening in the world.
Speak for yourselves. I'd like an invite even if I'm probably going to turn it down 😂. - INTJ
You have great acting skills 💖✨ To go from an INFJ character to an ESFP character so quickly, bravo!
ENTJ one is SO true! I often go to a party with a goal or a focus! One time i focused on practicing listening skills after reading some articles. Another time it was forcing myself to make more jokes and have an open posture. Or i could have becoming better friends with somebody as a goal, etc. I take parties as "practices", practicing social skills or testing my personality and developing it while having tons of fun! This is literally my favorite way of socializing because you learn so much in the process!! Its exciting, like mini social experiments!
Interesting. I get what you mean but can’t help but think that would not feel like a party to me. Well actually I guess I mean that would not feel like me! (I’m an ENTP, that one letter makes a lot of difference ;))
Mini social experiments nonstop though - that part does feel like me😁
"They're actions. They don't mean anything"
My NiFe brain: NO
Exactly. It doesn't matter if they dedicate their lives to convince us to take things less intensely, we will be maniacs till the grave.
Can’t wait for an ENTP one. Everyone will be at the bottom tier with perfect arguments as to why they belong there and then all moved to the top tier with perfect arguments as to why they belong there 😂
This video is so good on many levels. My son is an esfp and even though it’s satire it’s still accurate.
As a isfp with esfp friends, I would put esfp in “party bully” category, because I have seen my esfp friends giving traumatizing social experiences to sweeet innocent polite shy intps in parties😂
HAHA me
@@dearkristinim the sweet polite shy intp she’s talking about 😂
As an ESFP I hope I haven’t bullied anyone at a party 🥳 or other. I could never do that to an INTP. I just love throwing a party 😊
As an INFJ, I admire the energy ESFPs bring to any situation. It is truly out of my comfort zone and I only wish to become as spontaneous as ESFPS.
"A general rule of thumb that I find is that if they have no feelings, they're great for bants. Oh, except INTP, but we'll get to that."
I just about fell out of my chair laughing at that line. 🤣
Basing the entire ranking on how well a type fits in at an ESFP-style party is on point, certainly. When I noticed INTPs were saved for last, I was expecting at least a mild roasting from Kristin. I'm once again surprised INTPs ranked has high as we did... -- INTP
EDIT: There seems to be a recurring theme on various MBTI channels that INTPs are devoid of feelings. I find this baffling and somewhat troubling, as we most definitely DO have feelings. They're just more of an unfortunate inconvenience for us most of the time than something we tend to celebrate.
nah you ti doms are intimidatingly nice as an enfp with an istp brother
@@Pinkywinkykinky where Ti goes, Fe will surely follow, poking us and reminding us to be nice.
Our reputation is not entirely unwarranted if you look at how we (normally) make decisions and the things we choose to express when we open our mouths. Most INTPs I've met (including myself) don't often wear our hearts on our sleeves, and our feelings (that do exist) require some amount of external help or prompting to come out, and even when they do come out, they'll be bundled with nuances, qualifications, and other non-sentimental information, which can sometimes - mistakenly - come across as apathetic or half-hearted.
The numerous immature thinkers pretending they don't have feelings surely don't help. Especially when they're trying to explain to you that feelings are not real because it's just chemicals (already seen from INTPs). Even then so what? That doesn't make any difference in actuality because you have to deal with it as a sentient being. No matter how you look at it humans are factually normally created with the ability to feel.
@kyurei4478 Yep! 100%
Cognitive psychology tells us that the brains of all animals - human included - basically function on emotion. Not the same thing, quite, as the Jungian concept of Feeling as a judging function, but even so, if someone denies that they have emotions or make judgements based on feeling, it's simply denial. Which, ironically, some people can get quite ... erm ... emotional about 🤭🤭🤭
[INTP... with a psych degree]
Love this video; this one is gold!!! I lost it at: "If there is an Fe user in the crowd it leads to a search party" 🤣 Thanks for the laughs! This new series is amazing.
Also, during the last minutes I increasingly thought INTP was going to be a burden. Definitely not complaining about being a sidekick!
This was SO MUCH fun to watch! Your ESFP seemed to be very happy to hold the spotlight for a whole 13 and a half minutes
As an INFJ there is truth in my desire to monopolize the time of one person in a corner, usually an INFP or INTP, but I have learned if I just focus on my inferior Se I can have an amazing time at a party. I just need 7 to 10 business days to recover afterwards. ;)
This INTP enjoys being monopolized. It is so much easier to only have to talk to one person! :D
@@macklyn I agree. Also why is it always the INFPs and INTPs for me as well that I end up talking to in a party. - INFJ
As an INFP i would be quite happy with that!
Make an INTJ your +1. You'll have a dedicated conversationalist for the entire party. We're good at being as alone as we want to be in any situation. - INTJ
INFJ here and I can confirm that. :D
At the end of a party INFPs are always the ones to whom you say: “They always have to exaggerate.” Because they're drunk as hell. For example, I no longer get invited to weddings.
We start off quiet and shy and the next day we can't answer the following questions: "Dude, what was wrong with you yesterday? You really can't remember? That was so insane. You were making out with my friend's grandma! I was very ashamed of you."

A significant number of INTPs are closet ENTPs. So an INTP that shows up to a party and sits in a corner may actually be looking for a social event, but unsure how to navigate it (especially given a tendency to infodump, overshare, or otherwise stick our feet in our mouths when we do open them).
INTP being the last one and "respectfully a burden" being empty made me prepare for INTP to be placed there. Pleasant surprise that it wasn't the case. Despite the stereotype, INTP's are bit of a softie if you poke at our inf Fe
1:27 "Some people are just more introverted or 'social flops', if you will" 😂
So if the only burdens are the ones who don't show up, and the INTJs are the only ones who never show up because they are never invited, that would mean that INTJs are the burdens. It's just logical. :) --an INTJ
INTJ may be invited out of a sense of obligation but won't attend...but they're probably not invited. I say this as an INTJ who literally was not invited when all my friends were having an orgy down the hall MULTIPLE TIMES 🤣🤣🤣🤣
My mom is an ESFP and my dad is an INTJ. They've been married for over 40 years now. They had 8 children (all adults now), so there was always plenty of party to be had. It surprises me that so many people think the personality types don't get along very well. They actually compliment each other, like a glove that fits. When they do accept each other and are willing to work together... they become a powerful, unstoppable force!
Thank you, Kristin for your never ending fun! And for saying that no one is a burden at your parties. Not even an INTJ! They just need someone around that they can have deep, serious conversation with. My mom always keeps things fun and my dad always keeps things interesting. A recipe for the best kind of party, in my opinion 😜
Please keep inviting INTJ's to your parties LOL😂
~INFJ
What is this crazy twist? I was hoping to be put into the burden tier but I'll accept not being invited. Please update this as soon as possible so that others don't get the wrong idea and believe there still is a chance. - INTP
"In fact, the only burdens are people who don't show up." nailed the coffin of paradoxes for me. Even though she retracted that rule, given that retraction was mostly for practical purposes of not excluding ExxPs, the dilemma remains :')
2nd
16P Through the Eyes of the ESFP: _am I a joke to you_
Hopefully she'll get the chance to finish that series, though technically, ALL of these videos are through the eyes of an ESFP.
You know ESFPs usually drive my absolutely insane but Kristin has restored my faith in ESFPs. You guys like ENFPs are a lot smarter than you get credit for
Yeah my Irish goodbye is fairly common but also shenanigans. - ISTP
Thank you so much for mentioning video game parties and dnd parties for INTPs
That INTP feeling when a positive statement is followed by "except for INTP's". Oh well.. I'll say, though, you had me for the last one. I genuinely thought we'd be put in the "burden" category and now I don't know what to think.
I'd ask "Is it really the kind of tier list u want to participate or be highly regarded for?" U should ask urself this because these satirical tier lists are so intentionally poorly designed and superficial, particularly this one.
For the ESFP, do u want to be party guy or be considered a mere sidekick or a burden as per the ESFP? It's a lose-lose situation in all possible ways because this satirical ESFP's superficial and skewed perspective doesnt even align with yours.
If u score low, ur "undervalued" but its not like u wanted to be invited anyway. U score high but u reluctantly go to these parties by being guilt-tripped unless a hobby of interest enters the chat. Then ofc, there is the feeling u want to belong somewhere in some kind of community.
So imo, just take it with a grain of salt, laugh it off and enjoy the satire.
Once again, ENFP praise
I can't wait for some of the other types to really put ENFPs near the bottom, i swear were either at the top or bottom, and i love it
We just make too big a splash, you can't ignore us 😂
Hehe I think every good person deserves a healthy ENFP in their life.
Thank you guys for existing 😚
your ranking vids are very well written and delivered
Heres some free validation from your regular INFP. I love this series you do a great job. The jokes and insights are fresh.
As an INTJ, thank you.
Ahhhh this is perfect! The energy, the vibe, the setting, just everything!
Also, as soon as Kristin showed the sidekick tier, I knew that it was made for ISFJs :D (I'm also one btw).
"INFJ are usually picking someone to go and hibernate in the corner of the room with for the entierety of the night" - oh no, I've already quit the room to rest a long time ago.
Very funny video!
I have the feeling that Lauren should have added a rank between "great bants" and "sidekicks" (and by the way suppress the "burden") but it'ld be not fun to redo the ranking. And she had brillant ideas to exploit others' strenghts at their best.
Given my experience I believe it actually depends on two things :
- Are we enjoying the current mood of the party?
- Are we going to possibly offend some people by quitting early on?
But yeah usually it ends up :
- By, like Lauren perfectly described, talking to that one person we click with in a corner and, depending on many factors such as how drunk he or she is, we tend to either talk about stuff we are interested in or curious about (no matter how deep the subject is) or become improvised psychologists where the person unleashes his/her whole life-story despite us not having asked anything,
- By telling a very small number of people that we are leaving early (in order to not stress anyone) and then retreat to our comfort zone to either chill or sleep in calm and peace.
Overall I tolerate going to big parties but only with people I know and only 2 or 3 times a year for important events like birthdays, because these social events with a lot of people drain my energy gauge faster than the gloom in Zelda TOTK :')
ESTJs and ISFPs are great; absolutely loved that you gave them the tier-ranking that you did!
Okey this was a fun video ! Love to see more of these ESFP satire sketches!
The candy pastel aesthetic is just wonderful.
Thank you for noticing 😁
Its always funny the INTPs described in the vid can always walk out the door any given moment but dont. Sometimes, it isnt even a Fe inferior problem, sometimes its the dreaded Ne curiousity out of boredom where it becomes a sort of like FOMO once ur interest has peak to go (even if u think the party will be a flop, but u may have expected 1 odd thing to happen). Thankfully, once u "see enough" and understand the picture after analysis, the super tight boundaries are formed. The reason and evidence is crystal clear and I disregard using Fe and go straight to Te-Ni apathy. The crappy Fi demon is extremely useful in these situations as well. Just stay away from these types of people or events. U know dang well like the INTJ u dont wanna go, so dont! Great vid Kristin.
Being stuck in a room with 6-or-more of these people is my personal idea of hell.
Add 20 more people, a bunch of stressful situations, everyone judging you and also sometimes having to talk in front of them and you get school :D
I'm 7 drinks away from becoming an ESTP, not even necessarily at a party - ISTP
sooo... i got this feature in my wireless soundbar which is called the "lip-sync" and it just broke while watching this video. thank you, kristin. /infj
It’s an undeniable fact…. We ENFPs are THE BEST at partying. And you probably can hand us anything whilst we monologue.
I’m looking forward to the ENFP version of this. I think every personality type will be in one row called SO AWESOME!
I’m an ENFP with an ESFP bestie. I feel this video in my soul 💗
I'm actually a bit disappointed that I'm not a burden at parties.
~ INFJ
These videos are great! The acting..the entertainment...her expressions and how she can act as almost any type...cant wait for the enfp version ✨🩷
Loved this one, I like how these videos are more thematic, elaborate versions #nuance of Through the Eyes and how they allow your creative genius in writing consistently hilarious monologues to shine through
Nice wordplay as well
Also, can't wait for other ESFPs to put your tips to good use at their next parties
Lol you got me, I refused to go to a drag show that all my friends were going to (bachelorette thing), it’s just so loud and I am not into the mania that the audience is supposed to exhibit. But a game night, you better believe I’ll be there!
-an INTP
Drag shows are, at their best, beauty pageants for people who would normally say they have a problem with pageants, you know, objectifying women and all that. Besides that, I don't think I'd like the atmosphere either as an ESTJ.
@dearkristin we all know that the key to getting an INTJ to go to your party (if invited of course) is to “pregame” enough to transform them in an ESFP. 2 shots of tequila should do the trick and POOF! karaoke and dancing all night!
INTJ (and INFJ for that matter) in Se grip is an experience nobody will forget, for sure. Least of all those Ni-Doms themselves. ^^
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@@migsmethinks5801 we have an INTJ/ESFP transformation scenario! Immediate action required!
The fact that this entire tier list is predicated on who you would or wouldn't like to invite to a party is so stereotypically ESFP it hurts. But as much as I wish I could refute your points, they're pretty damn accurate in my case. Though it has been quite some time I've been to a social gathering where I haven't felt like I'm "hiding in plain sight" to some degree, so it would be amazing to have an actual small group of people I can properly connect with rather than feel like I have to play some kind of expected social role. I kind of miss that.
- INFP
As an INFP...Id love to experience a small gathering of just INFPs and maybe a couple of ENFPs could attend too 😁
And an INFJ also.
I love how all the EXXP types are all in the social synchronisation, this just proves our love to each other - Enfp :)
I thought I was the only one who noticed 😂
I love that list too, as an ENFP who was once an ESTP lol
Kristin: "and so I come to the last type..."
* Burden tier still empty *
INTPs: * *_Sweating Profusely_* *
I would *love* to watch a video with Jenna reacting to that ENFP section... so she could tell us of her experience with her ESFP sister! :D
Hahahaha it would be 3 hours long!!
ENFP that monologuing with an object is so true x.x
It attaches to my character model and I end up wandering around with it without remembering why it's there or...that it's there.
Omgaaawr I woulda shown up to the party gurl but I forgorrr 💀 I accidentally double booked and then cancelled both just in case of mutuals and went dancing alone across town! 😅
Sidekick is definitely my place and i like it. Also, sorry but there's at max 50% chance that i'm going to your party.
-ISFJ
I am surprised and grateful at the amount of TJs higher up in the tier list.
As an ISFP, I do not want to be invited to the party, but I will absolutely sing the male part in Love Is An Open Door.
Hehe, while I get overwhelmed a lot of times with parties (helpful to have a nice ESFJ there as social shepherd), it’s very true that INFPs secretly enjoy watching mayhem as long as 1) others are doing it and 2) no one gets hurt. 😂
ENFP love. Always great to be appreciated. You're amazing
I WAS WAITING FOR AN UPDATE FOR THIS SERIES. I pray to god that you remember to do all 16 this time as this series is just godly. Love you, keep it up!
I think she's saving the "Through the eyes of the esfp" for 16 personalities in a musical, when she gets enough Patrons. I think she did all the others for that series.
ISTP who would be quite happy at the board game party with the INTP as long as the rules weren't utterly stupid.
Count me out on the really loud parties though. An ESFP in *LOUD NOISES* mode is terrifying.
You guys should really wash your hands after using the bathroom like seriously
-An ISTJ
If you keep your hands in your pockets the entire time then they'll never get dirty 🧠
As an INFJ, I want to be offended... but at the same time, I really can't deny anything she said about us 😅🥲
Jesus loves you ❤️ please turn to him and repent before it's too late. The end times described in the Bible are already happening in the world.
@@L17_8I agree its true
@@L17_8I every generation since the crucifixion there have been plenty of people who thought it was the end times for plenty of reasons. You are nothing new.
@@L17_8 I guess you also need to eat his body... you know... from behind.
hey don't worry as an ENFP I'd scoop you up and carry you to a corner to fuse with the walls as that one person you cling to
Your eyeshadow is so pretty omg
Look as an ISFJ, I respectfully knew we were going to be placed as sidekicks. That being said, I'm starting to wonder if maybe I'm an ESFJ because I'm usually the one planning the parties, picking the settings, cooking the food, inviting the people, hosting the parties...but then I remember that I have inf Ne lmao. So a sociable ISFJ it is!! Speaking of parties, I'm throwing a retro horror themed Halloween party this year, and I'm really really excited for it.
And we’re all invited?! Yay!😅
Introverts can be pretty sociable, especially those with significant Fe like ISFJ and INFJ, I've found.
Also, some people have social anxiety, which they may confuse with introversion. You likely don't have social anxiety.
For example, I knew an 'INFP' who was almost certainly an ENFP with social anxiety. Hated crowds, shied away from any kind of public speaking, avoided being the centre of attention, but still super energetic, talkative, expressive, hilarious to be around (and also a stunning amount of oversharing lol).
How do you know you have an inferior Ne? Could you give me an example? I'm trying to figure out if I'm an INFJ or ISFJ. Thank you in advance. :)
No no you don't understand... my Se wants so badly to relax and party but everyone singles me out as the one to trauma dump on and I'm like please no you're a stranger, I'm drunk, and my favorite song is playing 😭 I'm a therapist by day and partier by night
- enfj
Can confirm ESTJs are awesome for parties and will gladly plan everything for you.. just hope nothing goes wrong
I'm going to respectfully disagree with the estimation of the INFJ. I do not need someone to hibernate in the corner with. I can do that on my own.
YES!!! We might not have gotten an ESFP-o-vision video, but we got THIS!
2:10 doesn't come near the craziest shit I did, completely sober, OUTSIDE of a party. Wouldn't it be a great party hack to sic the ENFP at the INFJ & INTP?
Okay, which type did the ESFP warn that it's not about them as a person?
These are a genuine riot!!! Love this series!!!
As an INTP I do feel uncomfortable and look like a fish out of water at parties but once I'm in the mood I can become the life of the party very quickly.
I am living for an ENFP version of this.....
As an INTP, there is that side of me who wants to enjoy the party when I'm attending a party(I use present progressive but I haven't been to a party in years except for my aunt's wedding last year but you can't have much fun around your relatives am I right?) but I always get bored, I need activities like a pool/ping pong table, a board game, a video game(especially mario kart wii my favorite game ever) etc... Dancing when there is a large crowd and bad music is as reasonable as dancing in a crowded train
I don’t have a problem with karaoke if a) the acoustics of the room aren’t horrific and b) at LEAST one person can sing.
-a possible INTP
I totally agree with you.. I actually love singing. Sounding good is more important to me than having fun during karaoke. 😅
- INTP
We INTPs may have inferior Fe but that doesn't mean we're unaware of what others would feel about our actions. If anything, it just makes us hyperaware of it and we overanalyse our decisions if it does hurt our friends
If it makes you feel better, as an ENFJ, I’m too busy psychoanalyzing myself and overthinking my behavior and how everyone sees me to bother with psychoanalyzing others… much XD
[Sees the tier list.] Yep, the INFXs and ISFXs are all going in the "Sidekick" tier... Admittedly, I was super surprised that ISFP made the "Great Bants" level.
Also, from my experience; ESFPs and ENFPs were notorious for spotting any introverts (especially any INXXs) within a five mile (10-ish Kilometer) radius and drag them from their hidey-holes and into some sort of existential horror that they will refer to as an "adventure." Especially during college years where Introverts haven't quite developed their "get a group together for some exciting quiet activities time" skills yet. Ni doms always seem to be exceptionally vulnerable to this... The chance to collect data for their inherent need to internally piece together patterns and build models of the Universe is just too great of a vulnerability for them to be able to resist it. They just need to know!
"So I speak for all ESFPs when I say that I officially release all INTPs from their self-inflicted obligation to attend our parties."
Whew. Thank you.
*a moment later*
"In fact, the only burdens are people who don't show up."
Well, that was short lived.
Kristin, you don't need me tell you that that's a contradiction. You will break the social brain of the INTP with such dilemmas.
Well she did say the P types could be flaky, also she's playing a caricature of her type.
But I agree with what she said that INTPs like playing games at parties, as an ESTJ I'd rather play games than just talk even though I'm bad at strategy games.
Brilliant Kristin! Loved how fast you talked as the ESFP, closed captions were my friends. I was worried I'd end up in the burden category (INTP) but you nailed it with the wee party!
I'm very INTJ and I am in fact a legendary partier. My friends still tell stories about Vegas trips we went decades after they happened because of shenanigans I got up to. I'm invited to everything and I try to go. The only thing I don't really like is clubbing because I don't like dancing. I'm more a house party/Superbowl party/Backyard BBQ type guy.
It just takes a level of alcohol that would kill a horse.
I am an INFJ-A type 4 (4-8-5), and personally I just want to say that I like party music, and dance music especially highly vigorous music that can stimulate me. And I want to express these feelings in a spontaneous way, while I also enjoy seeing others in their spontaneous way, and have bonding with them through it because of the connection of flow.
if I don't feel comfortable in the atmosphere, maybe I'll just watch from the sidelines.
The ENTJ bit is pure poetry
The benefit of inviting the INTP and INFJ to the same party is that they'll generally occupy each other if they're miserable.
My most memorable partymoment with an ESFP was at a masquerade, another girl was dressed as Rey (Star Wars) and someone commented "Oh yea, the Jedi"
I impulsively jumped in with "Well shes not really a Jedi, she's just force sensitive"
The girl in Rey costume began to laugh and called me the biggest nerd (in a positive way)...... aaand the ESFP threw herself into the conversation with "I'M THE BIGGEST NERD!!!😮😮"
Then tried to spark up a competition.... (It didn't work)
Ohhh the ESFP.... bless their hearts 🥲
And btw, put an INTP in costume and pour some liquid courage down our throats (sometimes we just need to be really tired) and we can be the life of the party 😏
...at least for an hour or two
//INTP
i was initially conflicted with the placement of the INTJ... for myself, as well as other INTJs i know, do let Se come out to play on occasion. karaoke and all. but on further self-reflection, this live-in-the-moment-phenomenon has never been inspired at an ESFP-level-party, which likely involves 1) half a million people 2) strangers 3) brain-throbbing levels of sound 4) no pre-set objective ...so, fair placement lol
I find it hilarious that ENFP and ENTP are considered great party buddies!
...when they don't flake. Which is often. 🤣
I LOVE YOU KRISTIN!!! How in the world could someone be this creative! I am patiently awaiting your ENFJ and ENFP versions. love youuuuu!!!!!
Lmao my best friends type only calling me a sidekick
I gotta say it all depends on how many people are there, if my social battery is full or empty and if I know someone. If my social battery is empty and I don't know anyone I might not go or I'll just sit somewhere, drink and watch everyone but if my social battery is full and I know someone you'll catch me on the dance floor shaking my b00ty and staying there until the end. -INTJ