I buried my Dad today. I have been strong for my family. This song realy hits home for me. Im torn to pieces inside. I hope my dad knows how much I loved him. I hope I will be half the man he wanted me to be.
Don’t you ever worry about them knowing, they are not dead. Even the evil ones don’t die! I promise you if you’re a good person and good spirit you’ll be fine and see him again!
Tolkien wrote a line in the Lord of The Rings that really speaks across the ages...and as a trench combat veteran of the First World War, I'm sure he took to heart, himself: "I will not say, 'do not weep', for not all tears are an evil." Gandalf says it to the Hobbits as Frodo is about to get on the ship leave Middlearth, but Tolkien is *truly* saying it to us. Cry, friend. Have the release. There's no shame in it.
My dad passed in 2020. I hope I'm the man he wanted me to be. I love him so much. He was my best friend. Im 42 and it doesn't matter how old u get it hurts.
This song really hits close to home for me right now. June 7th 2020 I lost my wife after being married 25 years she passed away the day before my birthday. I love her and I miss her terribly she was my soulmate I love you Julie
My condolences to you for the loss of your wife 😥 I am so sorry. Sending you much love hugs and positive energy for your grieving journey. 💜 💫Until You two meet again in another time and place. One step at a time, one breath at a time, one day at a time. 💜💫
I've lost my daughter. 2nd wife over 10 other people recently, each one has a amazing amount of memories that flood my brain it's overwhelming at times ,I'm old and lived a very fast life ,death has almost got me many times. I was told by doctors to put my affairs in order and lay on the table , I was kept asleep for a week and they woke me up to the most pain I've ever felt. Somehow I moved on and I'm still here.
This was one of my sons favorite songs... We had it playing at his viewing and funeral this past week... My son passed away on New Years Eve after a hard fought battle from an antibiotic causing his body to go into toxic shock and shutting down his organs .. he was just 26years old. MISS YOU 💔 Brandon!
Theresa Vogel I'm so very sorry for your loss 💔 . . . He will ALWAYS be with you because you carry him in your 💓. My dad passed away 22 years ago. I still cry at times especially when Ionging for his hug or to look into his eyes then I remembere he is right here with me in my 💓 and this world, this life is only temporary and one day soon we will meet again. 🤗 Look for the subtle signs & the dreams to come your way and know it's your son trying to get a message through that he made it and he is free now... 🙏🕯️
Youth and stupidity go hand and hand! With age and as time passes, we realize like you said it was there in front of us all along! I know what you mean bro
Hi Frank, even though your father is not physically with you, he will always be with you in your heart. Just a comforting statement. God bless you and your family.
My dad died in 2000 and I carried guilt over his passing for many years. He died alone in a rented apartment and was there for several days before being discovered by the police in a wellness check by his neighbor. I was married with a young family and missed many opportunities to connect with him over the final years of his life. This song was the first time I shed tears over his death around 17-18 years after he was gone. I don't know if my psyche was protecting me with denial over my involvement in our growing apart, but I finally took responsibility for my end of things. I hope no one else would make the mistake that I did but unfortunately I think it's actually quite common. Now I have grown children moving on with their lives and I sometimes wonder if the cycle will repeat itself with me.
my father passed away in 2015 and i really thought over time that maybe it would get better.. but it never does. He haunts my dreams as much as i hated him. I now see how hard he tried, I didnt consider much when I was a child, I didnt realize how this world has a way of destroying us all. Nobody is special.
I lost my dad after his battle with diabetes infections and liver problems august 9th 2023 let the light shine and remember all the good time u had together i love you dad
11/05/21 was the day my father passed away luckily my son was able to say goodbye in the hospital and when he said opa I am going to take your hat we were at the hospital the only motion he did the whole time we were there was reach up to give my son a hug I broke down crying my eyes out right after he did that him and my son had a close bond
They say time heals all wounds but some wounds cut deeper and hurt more than others, for me, I lost my dad 4 years ago (it'll be 4 years in March). I was 17 then and 21 now, it still hasn't gotten easier and some days are tougher than others. But hope you're doing well bro, thanks for the positive words.
@@brandonfurtado2 I can only imagine how you feel brother. 😔 Stay strong ❤ Just this morning my roomate found out his father passed away. I feel terribly sad for him. He lives half a world away so there was nothing he could do. Everyone had their time bro. You are not alone. God bless
@@waterproof4403 thanks bro, and I can imagine how your roommate feels. Its one of the most tragic and emotionally numbing experiences to go through. But we all gotta do our best to hang in there. Sending sympathy and positivity to your roommate and you too bro. Stay strong 🙏💪
We may have all been though rough patches in life but if everyone would come together life would be better so we can help each other through rough times.
My father passed away 2 months ago.... I miss you dad...Im lost with out you our family is torn to pieces. I hope your where you belived ..i love you, now a month later my wife also has passed.......its worse....
I grew up listening to what is now called "classic rock". I was worried the next generation couldnt produce rock music worthy of listening. Pop Evil has done something that gives me hope. They made/make music that is worthy. Thank You from a 70's child.
I'm an addict,I love my sweet children with all my heart,I'm a functioning addict,just enough to do life😔we never stop loving our babies though.your one thing we think of 24/7.Im sorry,pray for the addicts that remain,find whatany may need for help.God help us addicts and the families we hurt,amen❤
Stephanie, I completely understand.. The same happened to me, I haven't seen my son in over 3 yrs.. I literally fought end stage cancer and his mom just up and left state with my son without saying anything to me or my family and there was nothing I could do... My heart gets torn apart every time I talk to him on the phone.... I miss my son so much it literally hurts me.. ❤My heart goes out to you. ❤I hope you can see your baby again!
It's funny how life throws us all such unexpected curveballs. When I'd first hear this song in November of 2014, it hit hard and I didn't even know the meaning of suffering. Now, two and half years later, I've lost my grandmother, and four close friends, all of which were like my own flesh and blood. My own brothers. The biggest thing I want to say to anyone who feels the need to read this is this; No matter how hard your struggles become, now matter what they are, no matter how high your barriers may seem, you can rise above it. You can overcome it. For anyone who has contemplated or attempted suicide, please don't. I beg of you. The crater that you'll create in your loved one's souls will be forever unchangeable. I believe in you.
Colton, Harper - I feel your pain brothers, every ounce of it.. In the 35 years I have walked this Earth, I have lost six people I loved like family to suicide and almost as many to cancer.. Two very close to me took their lives just recently.. It never gets easier and the grief it leaves behind in the world afterwards is soul shattering.. It's taught me two things.. Never take a day with someone you love for granted and if you see someone is depressed, be there for them. A hug or a quiet word to just let them know you care before it's too late..
I love it when a person hears a song like this one and I can't help but get chocked up because my wife was murdered and her death took such a toll on my son and he passed away as well when he turned to drugs and ever since I've been so lost without them it's so beautiful to have a song like this one to touch ones soul especially around the holidays when they at times can be so overwhelming 💔
My father just passed away tonight. We live in separate countries and I never got to say goodbye. He had been battling auto immune diseases for years. Had multiple strokes and a heart attack. I knew he wasn't going to live forever, but it hurts so much. I can't fly over and say goodbye due to corona restrictions. Fly high dad, I love you forever and will always be thinking about you. 🖤🖤🖤🖤
I'm deeply sorry I also lost my father pretty resently 9/15/2020 he had a heart attack he was 47. Nobody knew until it was too late. I have just been trying to do the best I can to get through each day.
I lost my wife yesterday afternoon 6 days before our 16th anniversary. I'm in 1000 pieces. She was my best friend and the love of my life I miss you so much Crystal 💔
When I first heard this song, I thought it was good. When my sister died, and then my mother a year later, this song became my refuge. I absolutely love the second verse because that's exactly how I felt for the longest time. I would be going along just fine, not necessarily happy but fine, then all the sudden I'd sink and have to fight back tears. The pain never truly goes away
What a beautiful way to honor a fathers spirit..I also see my dads face everyday.he passed away in 1995 and i have been lost since he left me.. This song really makes me think of him..POP EVIL ROCKS!!
Sleep well brother knowing he still watches over you. My father does since 1998, him and my mother watch over me & my kids. Great tribute song from a son who knows how much his father did for him.
My wife and I are going through a divorce after 25 years of marriage and 3 amazing kids. We've both moved on and have found happiness but i hear this song and it makes me wish I/we made better decisions to make it work. I know we are done but I'll always love her and only wish happiness for her future.
My wife and I are on our second year. Its so tough right now. huge transition out of the military; out of our stability. Our newborn born last December, another on the way. We moved twice to find a good foothold. Struggling to find a meaningful and beneficial job to support us. We've been struggling all year with our relationship and at times I just cant take the fighting anymore. She moved back to her parents and took our son because we were / are so bad right now. There's so much I regret and some things I will have to move past. Sometimes I just wish it was over, and I hate myself for it. "Half the man you wanted me to be" hits me hard in feeling like nothing I do is good enough. I find solace in the fact that either way this plays out we will be better off. I just wish to be as a family with our kids to be the result. But this road is hard, harder than any challenge I've faced yet; and I feel like I'm unraveling at both ends. Your comment resonated with me for wishing for our happiness and love, but the outcomes can very. Hopefully we can get the outcome you sometimes wish for. But at the end I am just glad we will be better off.
@@samuelrogers8498 Come to Goshen Indiana Brother. If you still got your knees there's good money up here right now in building RVs and Boats... Keystone RV is probably the best paying right now. I make $1,500 Gross most weeks and only work 30-35 hours a week. We're paid by production Rate... More units we put out the more money we make ... It's fast paced work and the money is good... but what's better is getting off by noon and having the rest of the day with family.. My plant starts at 4:30 and most days I'm clocking out at 11:30... Anyway, If you can make it here there's money to be made.. Nice neighborhoods and Great K-12 schools.... No matter what you do don't you fucking give up... We gotta live for our brothers that didn't come back... We're out here, We got your 6
This song reminds me of my father. He was diagnosed with 2 different cancers a month and a half ago and he's been fighting for his life in the hospital. I love you dad and I hope you get to come back home to us. ❤
I lost my dad in January 2020 , and I feel the pain every day , I'm really sorry to hear about the passing of your father , I know exactly what you are going through
Its been 4yrs since my father has passed from cancer on my birthday.. I miss you pop aka Chef-O I'm still carrying the torch for you and keeping your legacy alive. Love you always.........
Cancer took my Father from us as well 2 years ago and I aint been right since the song isnt what reminds me or has got me thinking of my Dad That'd be you and David I miss my dad Thanks Bro and Hey I am sorry y'all lost yerv Dads too it took 46 years for that man to say I love you son He also told nme he was proud of me So My Dad was 72
CycoDawg Sorry for your loss as well me and my father didn't get along for awhile bc he wasn't in my life growing up, But we just started back over hanging out and meeting my other brothers. When they told me he had cancer then passed the following week. I was overwhelmed with grief nobody knew until it was to late. But I'm glad i set things right with my father before all that happened.
Speaking as a father, this song speaks to me in the way that I interact with my child. I have a daughter, and I am getting older, she has a family of her own now and we can't hang out as much as we used to. I make sure that she knows how much I love her and respect her so that when I am gone she won't have these questions.
james smith Makes me think of my now 11 year old son in a way. Me and his mom divorced when he was 4...I still see him but not everyday like I want to. But his mom married a guy that is good to him also...so I can't complain about him having another person in his life that cares about him as well. I won't ever get the time back I missed with him but all I can do is be the best for him when I can.
Jay Jay, What a beautiful, generous attitude, that you love your son enough to be happy that he has a good step father. The more people to love a child, the better off he is. Your son will always have a special place in his heart for you. You are a great dad!!
"Torn To Pieces" Here I sit all alone like an airplane On the edge of a sky full of solid gray Staring at the ceiling, tell me that I’m dreaming Oh, I wish you were here today All these days that I know I’ll never get back All the words that I always wish you would’ve said All these dreams that we had now fade to black Try to wash it away I’m torn to pieces, I’m broken down I still see your face when you’re not around I sit here in misery wondering if I’ll ever be Half the man you wanted me to be Here I float through the air like a waterfall Then I sink to the bottom like a cannonball Having trouble breathing, suddenly I’m screaming, "Why wasn’t I good enough?" Even though I know you’re not gonna come back I can’t wash it away I’m torn to pieces, I’m broken down I still see your face when you’re not around I sit here in misery wondering if I’ll ever be Half the man you wanted me to be I’m torn to pieces, I’m broken down I still see your face when you’re not around I sit here in misery wondering if I’ll ever be Half the man you wanted me to be It’s tearing me to pieces Tearing me to pieces It’s tearing me to pieces Tearing me to pieces Even though I know you’re not gonna come back I can’t wash it away I’m torn to pieces, I’m broken down I still see your face when you’re not around I sit here in misery wondering if I’ll ever be Half the man you wanted me to be I’m torn to pieces, I’m broken down (I’m torn to pieces) I still see your face when you’re not around (I’m torn to pieces) I sit here in misery wondering if I’ll ever be Half the man you wanted me to be
Here I sit all alone like an airplane On the edge of a sky full of solid gray Staring at the ceiling, tell me that I’m dreaming Oh, I wish you were here today All these days I know I’ll never get back All these words I know I wish I should’ve said All these dreams that we had now fade to black Try to wash it away I’m torn to pieces, I’m broken down I still see your face when you’re not around I sit here in misery wondering if I’ll ever be Half the man you wanted me to be Here I float through the air like a waterfall Than I sink to the bottom like a cannonball Having trouble breathing, suddenly I’m screaming Why wasn’t I good enough Even though I know you’re not gonna come back I can’t wash it away I’m torn to pieces, I’m broken down I still see your face when you’re not around I sit here in misery wondering if I’ll ever be Half the man you wanted me to be I’m torn to pieces, I’m broken down I still see your face when you’re not around I sit here in misery wondering if I’ll ever be Half the man you wanted me to be It’s tearing me to pieces Tearing me to pieces It’s tearing me to pieces Tearing me to pieces Even though I know you’re not gonna come back I can’t wash it away I’m torn to pieces, I’m broken down I still see your face when you’re not around I sit here in misery wondering if I’ll ever be Half the man you wanted me to be I’m torn to pieces, I’m broken down (I’m torn to pieces) I still see your face when you’re not around (I’m torn to pieces) I sit here in misery wondering if I’ll ever be Half the man you wanted me to be
My mom passed away due to cancer April 26th 2018. I was much older than 17, but I know exactly what you are going through. The pain is always there. Stay strong and may God five you comfort.
My dad passed away last Wednesday, I was leaving work on my way to see him when my wife called and said he passed away ten minutes ago, I lost it!!! I wasn't able to say goodbye. This song really does help thank you Pop Evil I needed something to relate to. They told my my dad had 6 months, he died 3 weeks later, never take anything for granted it'll be gone in a blink of an eye.
I got a call from my mom that my dad wasn't doing well, she was in the hospital with him. I heard him in good spirits in the background and thought everything was fine. The next call was a call for help from my mom. By the time I got there, they had already sedated him and had a tube down his throat. They told us he was stable, went out to dinner with my mom and little brother. That night he coded twice. Watched my dad die on the hospital table. Never got to say goodbye. I feel you. Legit.
I lost my dad too. He was battling some issues and took his life. It's pretty nice to know that someone else can take comfort in this song for the same reason I do. Sometimes I just crank it and let out a good cry. Always makes me feel better. Sending love to you and yours Jeremiah.
I now know the meaning of suffering, after 21 years of marriage my wife at 41 years old passed away from Cancer of the bone marrow. This song really slapped me in the back of the brain and reached into my heart. So many things I have been feeling and thinking over the past 2 plus months have been put to words for me, thank you for putting those emotions to words for us all!
Hang in there sweetie..Never give in and if you do, just know that it is only one step back! Know that, take a deep breath, don' t give up! Take it from a woman who has been there! Forgive yourself, keep going!
My grandpa just passed away yesterday, and listening to this song finally let my tears out. He had a heart attack while driving. It's amazing how quick that stuff happens. I miss you grandpa. I'll remember you always.
lost my dad to a heart attack he was cleaning the yard and doing outside work on a real hot summer day in 1996 he came in and had a heart attack and died in the house i couldn't save him
This song showed up shortly after my Dad died in August of 2014. This song helped me through the grieving. Thanks Pop Evil! You are 1 of my favorite bands!
Love This Song... To All The Mothers, Brothers & Sisters, Aunties, Uncles ...That Hold A True Place In All Our Hearts, We Love You!, Rock On Forever \m/\m/
found this while playing games at midnight. this song made me listen again and it broke me. tears were flowing down while i called my dad. knowing one day he'll be gone is....indescribable. My heart just hurts hearing this song.
I know how you feel bro. Unfortunately my father ran out on my mom before I was ever born and my mother raised my little brother and I all by herself and her and I have such an indescribable kind of bond and connection, and I honestly fear the day I will lose her. She’s now 65 this year and I worry about her a lot. So I try to spend the time as wisely as I can with her.
I lost my mother a couple of weeks ago. I heard this song on the radio and fought back tears. Last time I saw her was I took her for a big dinner on her birthday and we had an awesome time...I was supposed to take her to a big metal concert this year. RIP mum.
The starkness of the opening outdoor scene is unique and very palpable. The song and video match so well I'm compelled to watch this over and over. Sometimes art portrays reality but other times it creates it.
this song has taken me through a lot of hard times growning up, i've always loved pop evil, revisiting this song and realizing the song was about his father passing hit me terribly hard, i lost my grandmother, father and uncle this year, within a month of each other, and this song is just echoing how empty i've been feeling since
Tears come to my eyes every time... My dad was taken way too soon and was such a good man. I only wish he could see I have straightened out my life addressed my addiction and am in recovery. It hurts me that I showed him my worst self up until he passed. I so wish he could see me now and be proud. Just something I have to live with. I hope I can carry on his loving and generous spirit and touch other lives like he touched and molded mine. I love you dad
Loss is difficult, especially someone close... I lost my son and I have never in all my life felt so fucking helpless or lost. This song brings tears to my eyes, but it also captures the way I feel when I think of my Son... Love you William Rivera... RIP
Robert Rivera i feel ya my pastor and great uncle died fron different causes but i am torn apart with no friends and douchebags that will joke around about this stuff but losing a son is tough
I'm not sure if this is the same bobby Rivera I knew he was one off the best people I ever meet and we had a great friendship he was always there when I needed him I wish I could have been there for him
The first time i heard this song i knew my dad was going. And i told my husband this is dad's song. So every time i hear your song it makes my remember him. Thank you❤
One of the most raw lyrics a man can express without ascending to the next realm. You all hit it at home, time after time.... and do it all over again, thank you...
I've loved this song ever since it came out. It's hard to listen to sometimes now, because my husband died at the end of 2023. Torn is part of the playlist from his funeral. This song hits home, and says so much about the emotions of losing him.
This music video and song is so relatable in so many ways if you ever have someone pass away your so close to you and are used to seeing everyday know how he feels. I know I do..
I just heard this song, this band a few days ago. I can't stop listening to it. So good!!! Very talented men! 🎵 I can feel the hurt as he sings. ! I believe his Dad is proud of him!
To all the fathers who were an important part of your sons lives, and we're taken away so unexpectedly, we miss you no matter how many years have passed, and we feel that sting every day. We miss you, we love and most importantly we will NEVER forget you.😅😳❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ R.I.P. Dad 10/23/10
Lost mom and dad and several friends/brothers. This song is awesome. Always leaves me in tears. But a great release of bottled emotions. Thankful for this moment.
The intro alone is so hauntingly sad and amazing I could listen to it on loop, the whole song just cuts right through to the soul. He has a great voice
This makes me think of my great great aunt who was like my mom to me. She always called me baby boy every time she saw me. And I remember I told my mom every time we left her place in New Orleans to head back to Alabama, I told my mom I didn’t wanna leave her because I didn’t know if that’d be the last time ever. Well it wasn’t thank god but on May 29th 2017 I lost this special person. After being by her side during hospice, my mom gave her cpr while I had to stand there and watch to see if she could get my great great aunt back, and she was rushed to the hospital and then that moment hit me, she’s gone. Doctors came into this private room and told us they couldn’t get her back. Oh I miss you Aunt Rita soar high for me everyday❤️
Lost my dad several years ago. This Father's Day has been hard. Miss his wisdom. Torn to Pieces and Dax's To Be a Man remix has brought this old vet to tears daily.
I lost my mom June 2020.. she fought 8 years with cancer I miss her everyday especially our phone calls .. I didn't get to make it back to illinois to see her but I spent a good week end of may with her I miss u mom
it's been a couple years since you've gone dad, im crying while i type this but i need to. i turned 24 today dad i dont know why its hurting so much right now, but i miss you so incredibly badly dad. mom is doing alright and so are my siblings. im trying to navigate life but its so hard, i wish you were here to teach me more things, if i could only hear you say you love me one more time . . . thats all id want for my birthday today. if anyone reads this im sure youve heard this a million times but dont take your time with your loved ones for granted. for better or worse its all you get. I love you dad -R.I.P Randy April 12th 2022
I'm so sorry for your loss. 😢💔 It's not easy losing a parent... I lost my mom in 2020 to breast cancer.. and there are times a song a will come on that she used to love and I can still hear her singing it and it tears me up... We never realize how much the others were right when they said we would miss them when they were gone until they were really gone...🥺 People used to always tell me, love your mom, be good to your mom, because you only get one and when she's gone- she's gone. I never paid them attention because I always thought we had more time...... And now.. I'm like you, telling people to appreciate and love their parents (loved ones) because you never know when they'll be gone ... 😢 I would give anything to have another minute with my mom.. if that's all I could get to hug her and tell her I love her and I'm so sorry I wasn't there for her more.... I miss her so much... And my grandma.❤ RIP Yogi and Mami 🙏🏼 I hope you're doing better now... And you are able to navigate through life in all the ways you know are making your dad proud.💖 Because he is still with you. They'll always be with us.🙏🏼💝
This will always bring me back to the time when my mom passed away, I still get flashbacks of being at the hospital... I can't believe it's been 3 years since then... I miss you every day mama. I love you.
As I sit here scrolling through all the comments I say to myself it can always be worse. Someone out there is always going through tougher times than you. Never take things for granted cus you never know what’s right around the corner.
I absolutely love this song. Lost my dad 2-22-2010 to suicide. Miss this man so much and it does tear me to pieces. Love the lyrics and sound so much. Leigh Kakaty writes amazing and such heartfelt music. The whole experience in their music from lyrics to drums, bass & guitar are flawless.
+clovergirl36 I lost a brother to suicide around 30 years ago, and I still can't wrap my head around that. I can't even imagine losing a dad to suicide. That makes my post seem happy. I am so sorry for you having to go through that ordeal. You are a survivor and also have great tastes in music. :)
+Pzzadude2 Thank you so much. I am so sorry to hear you lost your brother this way also. It's hard to lose a loved one no matter how it happens but suicide hurts even more. Take care. ♡
Not a lot of songs can remind me of the pass but you guys hit it spot on lost a lot loved ones that kept me goin now its just me thanks guys for keeping them alive
I lost my dad may 27th 2021… my friend showed me this band and found this song when I learned he was diagnosed with liver failure. He was a hard alcoholic and it got the best of him… I listen to this song and the song my parents danced to the night they met and it gives me such emotion. I know it’s different from what he talks about being half the man he wanted him to be but I relate more to the words of being torn to pieces and broken down.. seeing him when he’s not around and wishing I said thing and he said things he never said. I’m missing him lots right now and forever will miss him. Love you dad, rip🌹💕💕
This song has so much meaning to me.......... Not in the sence of someone passing away but from ....... Letting someone go from my life that meant everything to me but wasn't good for me at all and I will never be the same from it again.,,.......
Please dont....life is hard... it does get better .thats not what you want to hear. People love u and care for you. Dont spread the pain ..learn from it.
I first heard this song on my way to my moms house to meet everyone after she passed away in 2014, I balled the whole way there. I was there when she passed, broke my heart into a million pieces. Every time I hear this song I always think of her, she was my best friend, we were very close. She suffered from pancreatic cancer. She was a fighter all the way till the end . Mom I love you and miss you even more.
i lost my father when i was 17, ended up in his shoes to take care of my family, ended up addicted to drugs, and lost everything, now graduating school and raising a little girl with the help of my girlfriend, and clean!... This song expresses exactly what I wonder
My father wasn't ever really there. My grandfather was however, and I lost him a few years back. He's the person I hope is looking down on me with a smile on his face. He was my best friend and shared a lot of wisdom with me. He's the man who made me who I am today. Yea, I was addicted to drugs as well, I partied like a rock star, and just thoroughly didn't give a shit about my life. I coulda died and probably should have a couple of times. Today, 5 years later, I have a 4 year old little girl, with hardly anyone to turn to. I've been doing it myself for a long time, and it's been a struggle the whole way. Though, as rough as it's been, I would have to say I am successful. I own my own photography business, have a wife, a decent car, and am close to beginning a career that I love without a lick of schooling. As rough as it has been, I've always kept my head up, I have always moved forward some way, some how. Keep your head up bro.. life is a motherfucker but you do it for that little girl.
Thanks man, that's really great and I appreciate you sharing your story with me, congratulations on all your successes it's stories like that, that give me hope
This song couldn't speak truer words. I lost my dad unexpectedly just a couple of months after I turned 16. That was almost 20 years ago. Almost every day I wonder if I have become who he would have wanted me to become.
This really rips my heart out. My father died of cancer at 43, I watched him suffer and die. Really makes think about him. I miss him so bad and can’t stop thinking about everything he wasn’t there for
This reminds me of my father that passed in 1989. Breaks my heart.......beautiful memories though that will always stay in my heart and soul. Thank you for writing this.......I always thought I was a disappointment of the youngest daughter. 3 elder brothers...2 left barely. Do your best you can!
I can relate to this way too much. My dad passed on the 20th of june 2013 and i will never stop being haunted by the memory of what I saw that day.. The tattoo on my leg holds the memories of my childhood with my dad..
This song always hits my heart strings. Cry every time. Lost my brother to suicide years ago. Seems like yesterday. A day that changed my life forever. 💔
I lost my second youngest brother and 2 friends to a DUI driver in 1998. I feel your pain and am sure that he would want the best for you. I'll pray for you. Have a good day.
Lost my Father to suicide back in 2006 right after my high school graduation. I ended up becoming addicted to opiates (as was my father, it heavily contributed to his death) soon after and it wasn't until I truly needed him for the first time in my life and he wasn't there I think about how different my life path would have been if he has been alive but mostly if I had received proper counseling/therapy for the loss. Now I know my life would of been completely different, not even close to where im at today utterly alone and full of pain and agony of my terrible life choices after his passing my life went into a twister and it started at age of 18 and I'm now 34 years old (My father was 44 at time of his death) meaning he will most likely have lived nearly 10 years longer then his son did.
Lost my mom too man. This song came on the radio when I was crying wishing my mom was with my family that came on vacation. All I could think is it's awesome my family is finally here. And all I felt was the void my mom wasn't here too.
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I buried my Dad today. I have been strong for my family. This song realy hits home for me. Im torn to pieces inside. I hope my dad knows how much I loved him. I hope I will be half the man he wanted me to be.
Don’t you ever worry about them knowing, they are not dead. Even the evil ones don’t die! I promise you if you’re a good person and good spirit you’ll be fine and see him again!
We can't always be strong when we want to be but we can be there so we can show up and you did
Tolkien wrote a line in the Lord of The Rings that really speaks across the ages...and as a trench combat veteran of the First World War, I'm sure he took to heart, himself:
"I will not say, 'do not weep', for not all tears are an evil."
Gandalf says it to the Hobbits as Frodo is about to get on the ship leave Middlearth, but Tolkien is *truly* saying it to us.
Cry, friend. Have the release. There's no shame in it.
My dad passed in 2020. I hope I'm the man he wanted me to be. I love him so much. He was my best friend. Im 42 and it doesn't matter how old u get it hurts.
Good song. My dad passed in 2020. 59 yrs old. Died young. I think about him everyday. And I hope I'm the man he wanted me to be
This song hits you to your core. It reminds you of the raw pain you feel when you lose someone you care for and love.
Yup
I broke down today while painting a wall just thinking about my son I lost to God 9 years ago
Yes we miss all that have passed
This song really hits close to home for me right now. June 7th 2020 I lost my wife after being married 25 years she passed away the day before my birthday. I love her and I miss her terribly she was my soulmate I love you Julie
Prayers , hugs xoxo sympathies
Keep your head up she's still with you until you meet again she'll be watching and loving you still
My condolences to you for the loss of your wife 😥 I am so sorry. Sending you much love hugs and positive energy for your grieving journey. 💜 💫Until You two meet again in another time and place. One step at a time, one breath at a time, one day at a time. 💜💫
Keep your head up brother have a blessed one but always remember keep your head up trust me ik it’s hard
i feel your pain... i was forced to watch mine die alone on the side of the highway while i was locked in a police car.
I'm leaving this comment here so that everytime someone likes it, I'll come back and listen one more time.
I've lost both my parents. My sister to ovarian cancer. Most days I'm not right, but I push on, hoping for a better day. Tomorrow
I've lost my daughter. 2nd wife over 10 other people recently, each one has a amazing amount of memories that flood my brain it's overwhelming at times ,I'm old and lived a very fast life ,death has almost got me many times. I was told by doctors to put my affairs in order and lay on the table , I was kept asleep for a week and they woke me up to the most pain I've ever felt. Somehow I moved on and I'm still here.
I'm broken i so broken
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I'll add that like today. Come listen
This was one of my sons favorite songs... We had it playing at his viewing and funeral this past week... My son passed away on New Years Eve after a hard fought battle from an antibiotic causing his body to go into toxic shock and shutting down his organs .. he was just 26years old. MISS YOU 💔 Brandon!
Theresa Vogel I'm so very sorry for your loss 💔 . . . He will ALWAYS be with you because you carry him in your 💓. My dad passed away 22 years ago. I still cry at times especially when Ionging for his hug or to look into his eyes then I remembere he is right here with me in my 💓 and this world, this life is only temporary and one day soon we will meet again. 🤗 Look for the subtle signs & the dreams to come your way and know it's your son trying to get a message through that he made it and he is free now... 🙏🕯️
I'm so very sorry. :(
Sorry for your loss💖
I'm sorry
I'm so sorry to hear that. Having two boys I can't even imagine.
When you're young you spend so much time worrying about fun when really the best friend you could ask for was always right there.
Yeah IKR...I'm so broken down..
Truly spoken, to bad that the people u have, dont always stick by ur side. Why act like something ur not and just be able to be "you"?!
True words man you ain’t the only one...
Youth and stupidity go hand and hand! With age and as time passes, we realize like you said it was there in front of us all along! I know what you mean bro
Yup....n it breaks your heart BC they gone!!! 😂😂😂
'I sit here in misery wondering if I'll ever be
Half the man you wanted me to be..' this hits deep into the soul.
Hell yeah it does
Yeah
I sit here in misery wondering if ill ever be half the you wanted me to be.
Deep down there's no father that isnt proud of their children. All of them are
@@tallulah_b.1368 only thing I'd ever want from any of my kids is to be a little bit better then me.. miss my dad 😪
Everytime I hear this song I think of my father. He passed in 99 still hurts to this day. Love you 😢
You've got his love brother
Hi Frank, even though your father is not physically with you, he will always be with you in your heart. Just a comforting statement. God bless you and your family.
I feel you lost both my parents in 2013 when I was 20. Been a decade and feels like yesterday.
My dad died in 2000 and I carried guilt over his passing for many years. He died alone in a rented apartment and was there for several days before being discovered by the police in a wellness check by his neighbor. I was married with a young family and missed many opportunities to connect with him over the final years of his life. This song was the first time I shed tears over his death around 17-18 years after he was gone. I don't know if my psyche was protecting me with denial over my involvement in our growing apart, but I finally took responsibility for my end of things. I hope no one else would make the mistake that I did but unfortunately I think it's actually quite common. Now I have grown children moving on with their lives and I sometimes wonder if the cycle will repeat itself with me.
my father passed away in 2015 and i really thought over time that maybe it would get better.. but it never does. He haunts my dreams as much as i hated him. I now see how hard he tried, I didnt consider much when I was a child, I didnt realize how this world has a way of destroying us all. Nobody is special.
I miss you so much dad....this life just doesn't feel right without you.
I know the feeling my deepest sympathies
I hear ya and feel it also , my dad been gone since 1996 .
I’m sorry for your loss. I couldn’t imagine 💔
As hard as it may sound....
Life will go on....
Make him proud....
Lost my father when I was 13....
Wish you strength with your loss ♡
I lost my dad last week, not the same I'm alone in our apartment 😢
I lost my dad after his battle with diabetes infections and liver problems august 9th 2023 let the light shine and remember all the good time u had together i love you dad
Dec13 2022 for mine
I lost my dad quite a while ago, but this song and video still really hit my heart really hard
So sorry for that that I've felt so alone after my dad passed my best friend
11/05/21 was the day my father passed away luckily my son was able to say goodbye in the hospital and when he said opa I am going to take your hat we were at the hospital the only motion he did the whole time we were there was reach up to give my son a hug I broke down crying my eyes out right after he did that him and my son had a close bond
Unreal how this song touches me! I have replayed this song at least 100 times in the last two weekz
2023 very few songs have a lot of meaning now a days but this one stands out
So true... my dad passed away June 1st 2023
Oh God the comments section is so hard to read. To everyone who lost a loved one.. Im incredibly sorry 😞
May God bless their souls ❤🙏
They say time heals all wounds but some wounds cut deeper and hurt more than others, for me, I lost my dad 4 years ago (it'll be 4 years in March). I was 17 then and 21 now, it still hasn't gotten easier and some days are tougher than others. But hope you're doing well bro, thanks for the positive words.
@@brandonfurtado2 I can only imagine how you feel brother. 😔
Stay strong ❤
Just this morning my roomate found out his father passed away. I feel terribly sad for him. He lives half a world away so there was nothing he could do. Everyone had their time bro. You are not alone. God bless
@@waterproof4403 thanks bro, and I can imagine how your roommate feels. Its one of the most tragic and emotionally numbing experiences to go through. But we all gotta do our best to hang in there. Sending sympathy and positivity to your roommate and you too bro. Stay strong 🙏💪
We may have all been though rough patches in life but if everyone would come together life would be better so we can help each other through rough times.
@@Alex_Awaken1997 I couldn't agree more brother 💚
My father passed away 2 months ago.... I miss you dad...Im lost with out you our family is torn to pieces. I hope your where you belived ..i love you, now a month later my wife also has passed.......its worse....
Loss of someone we love. The most painful of emotions. Thank you for the raw, honest words many of us can relate to.
100%
One of the BEST...DEEP... EMOTIONAL songs... I've EVER HEARD!!!!
100% facts
@@MarkMoseman-be5fwagreed
this song kills me every time
I grew up listening to what is now called "classic rock". I was worried the next generation couldnt produce rock music worthy of listening. Pop Evil has done something that gives me hope. They made/make music that is worthy. Thank You from a 70's child.
Lost my mother at 20 to drug overdose. Still can't listen to this without thinking about her. Miss you mom.
I'm really sorry to hear that that happened ❤
I'm very sorry to hear about your loss . Keep your head up and keep on keeping on! God bless you
So sorry.. God bless you
I'm sorry, she's absolutely proud of you
I'm an addict,I love my sweet children with all my heart,I'm a functioning addict,just enough to do life😔we never stop loving our babies though.your one thing we think of 24/7.Im sorry,pray for the addicts that remain,find whatany may need for help.God help us addicts and the families we hurt,amen❤
This is a beautiful moment in Rock and roll history. It reminds me of losing custody of my only child in 2017.
Thank you for writing this song. 😢❤
Stephanie, I completely understand.. The same happened to me, I haven't seen my son in over 3 yrs.. I literally fought end stage cancer and his mom just up and left state with my son without saying anything to me or my family and there was nothing I could do... My heart gets torn apart every time I talk to him on the phone.... I miss my son so much it literally hurts me..
❤My heart goes out to you. ❤I hope you can see your baby again!
Meth much?
Can't believe this song is 10 years old now.. Such a great song.
It's funny how life throws us all such unexpected curveballs.
When I'd first hear this song in November of 2014, it hit hard and I didn't even know the meaning of suffering.
Now, two and half years later, I've lost my grandmother, and four close friends, all of which were like my own flesh and blood. My own brothers.
The biggest thing I want to say to anyone who feels the need to read this is this;
No matter how hard your struggles become, now matter what they are, no matter how high your barriers may seem, you can rise above it. You can overcome it.
For anyone who has contemplated or attempted suicide, please don't. I beg of you. The crater that you'll create in your loved one's souls will be forever unchangeable.
I believe in you.
I love your comments my friend I've never met. I'm going thru the same thing at this moment for the second time in the second year. Fuck cancer!
thank u
After i made this post, July 29th my dad lost his battle with cancer.
I'm glad he's not suffering anymore.
+Harper14Racing god damn I don't even know you but that made me tear up a little. May he rest in piece, and I am sorry this happened to you.
Colton, Harper - I feel your pain brothers, every ounce of it.. In the 35 years I have walked this Earth, I have lost six people I loved like family to suicide and almost as many to cancer.. Two very close to me took their lives just recently.. It never gets easier and the grief it leaves behind in the world afterwards is soul shattering.. It's taught me two things.. Never take a day with someone you love for granted and if you see someone is depressed, be there for them. A hug or a quiet word to just let them know you care before it's too late..
I love it when a person hears a song like this one and I can't help but get chocked up because my wife was murdered and her death took such a toll on my son and he passed away as well when he turned to drugs and ever since I've been so lost without them it's so beautiful to have a song like this one to touch ones soul especially around the holidays when they at times can be so overwhelming 💔
Damn. You've been through it. Know I love you.
@@alexismcglaughlin7811 who are you
@@alexismcglaughlin7811 thank you for your comment your so very kind
Wow sorry man. Did you ever get revenge for them messing up your life?
@@savage3114 no I haven't and if something happened to him they would come looking for me as there first suspect
My father just passed away tonight. We live in separate countries and I never got to say goodbye. He had been battling auto immune diseases for years. Had multiple strokes and a heart attack. I knew he wasn't going to live forever, but it hurts so much. I can't fly over and say goodbye due to corona restrictions. Fly high dad, I love you forever and will always be thinking about you. 🖤🖤🖤🖤
I'm deeply sorry I also lost my father pretty resently 9/15/2020 he had a heart attack he was 47. Nobody knew until it was too late. I have just been trying to do the best I can to get through each day.
@@justhere824 I'm really sorry to hear that. Life really is short. I hope you are doing well. Stay strong
I lost my dad 2 years ago December19 three days before my birthday
I hate this time of year now 👿
I'm sorry for you loss
It's been a year since I lost my dad 😭
I lost my wife yesterday afternoon 6 days before our 16th anniversary. I'm in 1000 pieces. She was my best friend and the love of my life I miss you so much Crystal 💔
Sorry for your loss. I can't imagine....
When I first heard this song, I thought it was good. When my sister died, and then my mother a year later, this song became my refuge. I absolutely love the second verse because that's exactly how I felt for the longest time. I would be going along just fine, not necessarily happy but fine, then all the sudden I'd sink and have to fight back tears. The pain never truly goes away
Stay strong bro
No the pain will never go away we just learn to live with it....God bless you and yours
Amen! Lost my daughter over 7 years ago now. (She was 21) And as I sit here writing this, I’m in tears.
No it doesn't it's always there we just learned how to deal with it
@davelee3335 how fo u I can't it'd ruin my life all these years with out my parents
What a beautiful way to honor a fathers spirit..I also see my dads face everyday.he passed away in 1995 and i have been lost since he left me.. This song really makes me think of him..POP EVIL ROCKS!!
Sleep well brother knowing he still watches over you. My father does since 1998, him and my mother watch over me & my kids. Great tribute song from a son who knows how much his father did for him.
1995 took my dad too
Robert Walls "Great tribute song from a son who knows how much his father did for him" sooo true man.
My wife and I are going through a divorce after 25 years of marriage and 3 amazing kids. We've both moved on and have found happiness but i hear this song and it makes me wish I/we made better decisions to make it work. I know we are done but I'll always love her and only wish happiness for her future.
Do you still feel the same way today?
Stay strong
I feel the same…
My wife and I are on our second year. Its so tough right now. huge transition out of the military; out of our stability. Our newborn born last December, another on the way. We moved twice to find a good foothold. Struggling to find a meaningful and beneficial job to support us. We've been struggling all year with our relationship and at times I just cant take the fighting anymore. She moved back to her parents and took our son because we were / are so bad right now. There's so much I regret and some things I will have to move past. Sometimes I just wish it was over, and I hate myself for it. "Half the man you wanted me to be" hits me hard in feeling like nothing I do is good enough. I find solace in the fact that either way this plays out we will be better off. I just wish to be as a family with our kids to be the result. But this road is hard, harder than any challenge I've faced yet; and I feel like I'm unraveling at both ends. Your comment resonated with me for wishing for our happiness and love, but the outcomes can very. Hopefully we can get the outcome you sometimes wish for. But at the end I am just glad we will be better off.
@@samuelrogers8498 Come to Goshen Indiana Brother. If you still got your knees there's good money up here right now in building RVs and Boats... Keystone RV is probably the best paying right now. I make $1,500 Gross most weeks and only work 30-35 hours a week. We're paid by production Rate... More units we put out the more money we make ... It's fast paced work and the money is good... but what's better is getting off by noon and having the rest of the day with family.. My plant starts at 4:30 and most days I'm clocking out at 11:30... Anyway, If you can make it here there's money to be made.. Nice neighborhoods and Great K-12 schools.... No matter what you do don't you fucking give up... We gotta live for our brothers that didn't come back... We're out here, We got your 6
This song reminds me of my father. He was diagnosed with 2 different cancers a month and a half ago and he's been fighting for his life in the hospital. I love you dad and I hope you get to come back home to us. ❤
I lost my dad in January 2020 , and I feel the pain every day , I'm really sorry to hear about the passing of your father , I know exactly what you are going through
we need an update
@hunnilove4153 Any update did he make it?
Its been 4yrs since my father has passed from cancer on my birthday.. I miss you pop aka Chef-O I'm still carrying the torch for you and keeping your legacy alive. Love you always.........
Legendary SuperSavage This song also reminds me of my dad who passed.
David E Garcia I'm truly sorry for your loss. Just my father I know he meant everything to you. And wish he was still here.
Cancer took my Father from us as well 2 years ago and I aint been right since the song isnt what reminds me or has got me thinking of my Dad That'd be you and David I miss my dad Thanks Bro and Hey I am sorry y'all lost yerv Dads too it took 46 years for that man to say I love you son He also told nme he was proud of me So My Dad was 72
CycoDawg Sorry for your loss as well me and my father didn't get along for awhile bc he wasn't in my life growing up, But we just started back over hanging out and meeting my other brothers. When they told me he had cancer then passed the following week. I was overwhelmed with grief nobody knew until it was to late. But I'm glad i set things right with my father before all that happened.
down the road
Speaking as a father, this song speaks to me in the way that I interact with my child. I have a daughter, and I am getting older, she has a family of her own now and we can't hang out as much as we used to. I make sure that she knows how much I love her and respect her so that when I am gone she won't have these questions.
james smith Makes me think of my now 11 year old son in a way. Me and his mom divorced when he was 4...I still see him but not everyday like I want to. But his mom married a guy that is good to him also...so I can't complain about him having another person in his life that cares about him as well. I won't ever get the time back I missed with him but all I can do is be the best for him when I can.
Jay Jay, What a beautiful, generous attitude, that you love your son enough to be happy that he has a good step father. The more people to love a child, the better off he is. Your son will always have a special place in his heart for you. You are a great dad!!
Very rarely does a TH-cam comment make me cry, respects to you and your way of thinking!
@@smokeyjoetx4361 amen brother...we need to do this with everyone we care about. Leave no words unsaid
"Torn To Pieces"
Here I sit all alone like an airplane
On the edge of a sky full of solid gray
Staring at the ceiling, tell me that I’m dreaming
Oh, I wish you were here today
All these days that I know I’ll never get back
All the words that I always wish you would’ve said
All these dreams that we had now fade to black
Try to wash it away
I’m torn to pieces, I’m broken down
I still see your face when you’re not around
I sit here in misery wondering if I’ll ever be
Half the man you wanted me to be
Here I float through the air like a waterfall
Then I sink to the bottom like a cannonball
Having trouble breathing, suddenly I’m screaming,
"Why wasn’t I good enough?"
Even though I know you’re not gonna come back
I can’t wash it away
I’m torn to pieces, I’m broken down
I still see your face when you’re not around
I sit here in misery wondering if I’ll ever be
Half the man you wanted me to be
I’m torn to pieces, I’m broken down
I still see your face when you’re not around
I sit here in misery wondering if I’ll ever be
Half the man you wanted me to be
It’s tearing me to pieces
Tearing me to pieces
It’s tearing me to pieces
Tearing me to pieces
Even though I know you’re not gonna come back
I can’t wash it away
I’m torn to pieces, I’m broken down
I still see your face when you’re not around
I sit here in misery wondering if I’ll ever be
Half the man you wanted me to be
I’m torn to pieces, I’m broken down
(I’m torn to pieces)
I still see your face when you’re not around
(I’m torn to pieces)
I sit here in misery wondering if I’ll ever be
Half the man you wanted me to be
i found the lyrics of the next song in here
.... 3 years later ...
Thanks 👍
Who isn’t torn to pieces - about losing a loved one, or questioning ones life’s trials! amazing group!!!
I miss my beautiful daughter Lois Lavita Bowman 💔 (01-16-93/04-38-23) 💔♥️😢 Gone But Never Forgotten ♥️♥️
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sunnycute100 AMEN!
+sunnycute100 Especially if they are as good as this oooooone
Oxiidia - YES :) haha
+sunnycute100 i discovered ONE DIRECTION, and i am regretting it now...........
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Here I sit all alone like an airplane
On the edge of a sky full of solid gray
Staring at the ceiling, tell me that I’m dreaming
Oh, I wish you were here today
All these days I know I’ll never get back
All these words I know I wish I should’ve said
All these dreams that we had now fade to black
Try to wash it away
I’m torn to pieces, I’m broken down
I still see your face when you’re not around
I sit here in misery wondering if I’ll ever be
Half the man you wanted me to be
Here I float through the air like a waterfall
Than I sink to the bottom like a cannonball
Having trouble breathing, suddenly I’m screaming
Why wasn’t I good enough
Even though I know you’re not gonna come back
I can’t wash it away
I’m torn to pieces, I’m broken down
I still see your face when you’re not around
I sit here in misery wondering if I’ll ever be
Half the man you wanted me to be
I’m torn to pieces, I’m broken down
I still see your face when you’re not around
I sit here in misery wondering if I’ll ever be
Half the man you wanted me to be
It’s tearing me to pieces
Tearing me to pieces
It’s tearing me to pieces
Tearing me to pieces
Even though I know you’re not gonna come back
I can’t wash it away
I’m torn to pieces, I’m broken down
I still see your face when you’re not around
I sit here in misery wondering if I’ll ever be
Half the man you wanted me to be
I’m torn to pieces, I’m broken down
(I’m torn to pieces)
I still see your face when you’re not around
(I’m torn to pieces)
I sit here in misery wondering if I’ll ever be
Half the man you wanted me to be
H
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You to be one of my absolute fav.songs I'm my lifetime. And yell from muskegon my home town yo u ll holidays coming up
I lost my mom in 2018 when I was 17 due to Cancer. Still hurts and this song hits very close to home
My mom passed away due to cancer April 26th 2018. I was much older than 17, but I know exactly what you are going through. The pain is always there. Stay strong and may God five you comfort.
My dad passed away last Wednesday, I was leaving work on my way to see him when my wife called and said he passed away ten minutes ago, I lost it!!! I wasn't able to say goodbye. This song really does help thank you Pop Evil I needed something to relate to. They told my my dad had 6 months, he died 3 weeks later, never take anything for granted it'll be gone in a blink of an eye.
Wish i had a dad
I got a call from my mom that my dad wasn't doing well, she was in the hospital with him. I heard him in good spirits in the background and thought everything was fine. The next call was a call for help from my mom. By the time I got there, they had already sedated him and had a tube down his throat. They told us he was stable, went out to dinner with my mom and little brother. That night he coded twice. Watched my dad die on the hospital table. Never got to say goodbye. I feel you. Legit.
I lost my dad too. He was battling some issues and took his life. It's pretty nice to know that someone else can take comfort in this song for the same reason I do. Sometimes I just crank it and let out a good cry. Always makes me feel better. Sending love to you and yours Jeremiah.
❤️
Same here. I remember leaving for work when two cops showed up to my driveway and blocked my vehicle. That's when they told me my dad passed away...
I now know the meaning of suffering, after 21 years of marriage my wife at 41 years old passed away from Cancer of the bone marrow. This song really slapped me in the back of the brain and reached into my heart. So many things I have been feeling and thinking over the past 2 plus months have been put to words for me, thank you for putting those emotions to words for us all!
Hang in there sweetie..Never give in and if you do, just know that it is only one step back! Know that, take a deep breath, don' t give up! Take it from a woman who has been there! Forgive yourself, keep going!
My grandpa just passed away yesterday, and listening to this song finally let my tears out. He had a heart attack while driving. It's amazing how quick that stuff happens. I miss you grandpa. I'll remember you always.
thedeadpilot my dad has heart failure and had a triple bypass surgery this has not been there couldn't get all the blockages out of him
thedeadpilot my grandpa Brown died the same way. he had a heart attack driving his semi down in Kentucky.
lost my dad to a heart attack he was cleaning the yard and doing outside work on a real hot summer day in 1996 he came in and had a heart attack and died in the house i couldn't save him
I love this song,lost my dad last sept,2023 the lyrics really hit me deep in my heart. Thanks for posting!!
This song showed up shortly after my Dad died in August of 2014. This song helped me through the grieving. Thanks Pop Evil! You are 1 of my favorite bands!
Love This Song... To All The Mothers, Brothers & Sisters, Aunties, Uncles ...That Hold A True Place In All Our Hearts, We Love You!, Rock On Forever \m/\m/
This song goes out to cousin,we list him over 20yrs ago. and we miss u I miss u bro.until we meet again, to Tony s.
found this while playing games at midnight. this song made me listen again and it broke me. tears were flowing down while i called my dad. knowing one day he'll be gone is....indescribable. My heart just hurts hearing this song.
😂
i know exactly how you feel man...
Take the time and spend it wisely. I wish I would have. Now I gotta live with it. You cant replace him.
So glad you have a chance and you're taking it❤️🙏
I know how you feel bro. Unfortunately my father ran out on my mom before I was ever born and my mother raised my little brother and I all by herself and her and I have such an indescribable kind of bond and connection, and I honestly fear the day I will lose her. She’s now 65 this year and I worry about her a lot. So I try to spend the time as wisely as I can with her.
I lost my mother a couple of weeks ago. I heard this song on the radio and fought back tears. Last time I saw her was I took her for a big dinner on her birthday and we had an awesome time...I was supposed to take her to a big metal concert this year. RIP mum.
God damn does this shit hit home for so many people.
hell yea
Just proper amazing song just how I'm feeling
The starkness of the opening outdoor scene is unique and very palpable. The song and video match so well I'm compelled to watch this over and over. Sometimes art portrays reality but other times it creates it.
Even tho y’all are nothing but memories and pictures I will never forget you both. I miss you grandma and grandpa I hope I’m making you proud.
this song has taken me through a lot of hard times growning up, i've always loved pop evil, revisiting this song and realizing the song was about his father passing hit me terribly hard, i lost my grandmother, father and uncle this year, within a month of each other, and this song is just echoing how empty i've been feeling since
Thank you thank you thank you for doing this song at Rocklahoma. My dad passed away in December 2003, there are days I still feel this way.
Tears come to my eyes every time... My dad was taken way too soon and was such a good man. I only wish he could see I have straightened out my life addressed my addiction and am in recovery. It hurts me that I showed him my worst self up until he passed. I so wish he could see me now and be proud. Just something I have to live with. I hope I can carry on his loving and generous spirit and touch other lives like he touched and molded mine. I love you dad
Loss is difficult, especially someone close... I lost my son and I have never in all my life felt so fucking helpless or lost. This song brings tears to my eyes, but it also captures the way I feel when I think of my Son... Love you William Rivera... RIP
Robert Rivera i feel ya my pastor and great uncle died fron different causes but i am torn apart with no friends and douchebags that will joke around about this stuff but losing a son is tough
Robert Rivera I'm so sorry. I can't imagine losing my son.
Think of the good times pal, its hard I know but the memories!!
Sorry brother
I'm not sure if this is the same bobby Rivera I knew he was one off the best people I ever meet and we had a great friendship he was always there when I needed him I wish I could have been there for him
I could listen/watch this video over & over.
same
Same
*”HUZZAH!! Shout out to Grand Rapids / Muskegon, West Michigan” - MELL DUNEY 616*
The first time i heard this song i knew my dad was going. And i told my husband this is dad's song. So every time i hear your song it makes my remember him. Thank you❤
One of the most raw lyrics a man can express without ascending to the next realm. You all hit it at home, time after time.... and do it all over again, thank you...
Such a great song. I'm new to the Pop Evil band but after I listened to this song for the first time, I've started listening to them more and more.
I've loved this song ever since it came out. It's hard to listen to sometimes now, because my husband died at the end of 2023. Torn is part of the playlist from his funeral. This song hits home, and says so much about the emotions of losing him.
Very sorry for your loss ❤🕊️
This music video and song is so relatable in so many ways if you ever have someone pass away your so close to you and are used to seeing everyday know how he feels. I know I do..
I just heard this song, this band a few days ago. I can't stop listening to it. So good!!! Very talented men! 🎵 I can feel the hurt as he sings. ! I believe his Dad is proud of him!
To all the fathers who were an important part of your sons lives, and we're taken away so unexpectedly, we miss you no matter how many years have passed, and we feel that sting every day. We miss you, we love and most importantly we will NEVER forget you.😅😳❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
R.I.P. Dad 10/23/10
Thank you for this true and deep hitting Words 🖤 RIP Dad 05/11/2007 and still it hurts like yesterday.
01/16/21 only blessing was he died in his own bed while taking a nap. No signs or symptoms, he was dad to the end.
Lost mom and dad and several friends/brothers. This song is awesome. Always leaves me in tears. But a great release of bottled emotions. Thankful for this moment.
The intro alone is so hauntingly sad and amazing I could listen to it on loop, the whole song just cuts right through to the soul. He has a great voice
This makes me think of my great great aunt who was like my mom to me. She always called me baby boy every time she saw me. And I remember I told my mom every time we left her place in New Orleans to head back to Alabama, I told my mom I didn’t wanna leave her because I didn’t know if that’d be the last time ever. Well it wasn’t thank god but on May 29th 2017 I lost this special person. After being by her side during hospice, my mom gave her cpr while I had to stand there and watch to see if she could get my great great aunt back, and she was rushed to the hospital and then that moment hit me, she’s gone. Doctors came into this private room and told us they couldn’t get her back. Oh I miss you Aunt Rita soar high for me everyday❤️
Lost my dad several years ago. This Father's Day has been hard. Miss his wisdom. Torn to Pieces and Dax's To Be a Man remix has brought this old vet to tears daily.
I lost my mom June 2020.. she fought 8 years with cancer I miss her everyday especially our phone calls .. I didn't get to make it back to illinois to see her but I spent a good week end of may with her I miss u mom
This is a great song, very comforting. Just lost my nephew tragically and it was rough. Thanks Pop Evil! ♥️🌹♥️
Tomorrow is the first Thanksgiving without you Dad. I love and miss you. I hope you are proud of the woman I am becoming. I do it for you
Jessica Kimberly I am going through the same thing only it's my mom
Jonny Grawburg i am dealing with the lose of my mother and sister as well much love and respect
Jessica Kimberly sorry to hear that :'(
Jonny Grawburg I am so sorry honey it hurts I know
Jessica Kimberly good songs.
It’s been 6 years, this song never fails to touch my soul in the deepest way.. Thank you for this song💗
This is my third and final favorite Pop Evil song.
Reminds me of my dad who passed 3 years ago. Wish I would have had more time with him but I am the man he made me today. RIP Dion
+Lance M I lost my father 3 years ago too.. I feel the exact same.
It'll be 3 three years for me this July. Worst part of it all....Dad's birthday is just a few days before.
Ah!
My dad's birthday just passed and the 3 year anniversary is in a few days..
sorry for your losses, my dad passed away 2 days before christmas. Talk about dark times
Ty Lacey
it's been a couple years since you've gone dad, im crying while i type this but i need to. i turned 24 today dad i dont know why its hurting so much right now, but i miss you so incredibly badly dad. mom is doing alright and so are my siblings. im trying to navigate life but its so hard, i wish you were here to teach me more things, if i could only hear you say you love me one more time . . . thats all id want for my birthday today. if anyone reads this im sure youve heard this a million times but dont take your time with your loved ones for granted. for better or worse its all you get. I love you dad -R.I.P Randy April 12th 2022
I'm so sorry for your loss. 😢💔 It's not easy losing a parent... I lost my mom in 2020 to breast cancer.. and there are times a song a will come on that she used to love and I can still hear her singing it and it tears me up... We never realize how much the others were right when they said we would miss them when they were gone until they were really gone...🥺 People used to always tell me, love your mom, be good to your mom, because you only get one and when she's gone- she's gone.
I never paid them attention because I always thought we had more time......
And now.. I'm like you, telling people to appreciate and love their parents (loved ones) because you never know when they'll be gone ... 😢
I would give anything to have another minute with my mom.. if that's all I could get to hug her and tell her I love her and I'm so sorry I wasn't there for her more....
I miss her so much... And my grandma.❤ RIP Yogi and Mami 🙏🏼
I hope you're doing better now... And you are able to navigate through life in all the ways you know are making your dad proud.💖 Because he is still with you. They'll always be with us.🙏🏼💝
I always thought this was a beautiful song when I thought it was about a girl, but knowing it's about his Dad passing just made it tear worthy.
he wrote this song about his father, but the beautiful thing about music is that it can be about anything that touches your heart.
+A.L. Stoots You're so right.
It's even worse when you can relate.
James Wood Sad!!
+A.L. Stoots well said and exactly right. It drives me nuts when ppl argue about a songs meaning
I love how it ends with three generations sharing a moment. Would have loved to have my dad on media but before his time. Great song and video!
This will always bring me back to the time when my mom passed away, I still get flashbacks of being at the hospital... I can't believe it's been 3 years since then... I miss you every day mama. I love you.
I feel your pain best you can do is make her proud ❤❤
Keeping your love ones will always make you a better and stronger person... keep your head up
As I sit here scrolling through all the comments I say to myself it can always be worse. Someone out there is always going through tougher times than you. Never take things for granted cus you never know what’s right around the corner.
Hey i know how you feel im dealing with major depression lately but it can always be worse. I dont have many to turn too but i always have music.
Listen ur not alone but I ife is hard no matter what is told to u
There is someone always worse off!
Joshua Roberg always
Thanks for following me and thanks for being a fan of mine.
Thanks for the likes and your comment over my post, thanks for being a fan of mine.
I absolutely love this song. Lost my dad 2-22-2010 to suicide. Miss this man so much and it does tear me to pieces. Love the lyrics and sound so much. Leigh Kakaty writes amazing and such heartfelt music. The whole experience in their music from lyrics to drums, bass & guitar are flawless.
+clovergirl36 I lost a brother to suicide around 30 years ago, and I still can't wrap my head around that. I can't even imagine losing a dad to suicide. That makes my post seem happy. I am so sorry for you having to go through that ordeal. You are a survivor and also have great tastes in music. :)
+Pzzadude2 Thank you so much. I am so sorry to hear you lost your brother this way also. It's hard to lose a loved one no matter how it happens but suicide hurts even more. Take care. ♡
I lost my dad in 02. He would have been 65 today.
Thanks for following me and thanks for being a fan of mine.
Thanks for the likes and your comment over my post, thanks for being a fan of mine.
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Not a lot of songs can remind me of the pass but you guys hit it spot on lost a lot loved ones that kept me goin now its just me thanks guys for keeping them alive
I lost my dad may 27th 2021… my friend showed me this band and found this song when I learned he was diagnosed with liver failure. He was a hard alcoholic and it got the best of him… I listen to this song and the song my parents danced to the night they met and it gives me such emotion. I know it’s different from what he talks about being half the man he wanted him to be but I relate more to the words of being torn to pieces and broken down.. seeing him when he’s not around and wishing I said thing and he said things he never said. I’m missing him lots right now and forever will miss him. Love you dad, rip🌹💕💕
If your here in 2024 your a legend 🔥
Always
My dad died in 2005 and this song nails it , love you dad , miss you daily
This song has so much meaning to me.......... Not in the sence of someone passing away but from
....... Letting someone go from my life that meant everything to me but wasn't good for me at all and I will never be the same from it again.,,.......
I don't know who needs to hear this but, don't do it. You have meaning.
I know I'm a year late on your comment, But thank you for saying it.
Please dont....life is hard... it does get better .thats not what you want to hear. People love u and care for you. Dont spread the pain ..learn from it.
Been 4 years since my dad passed. A hurt that never goes away and lingers everyday. Love and miss you forever dad!
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Dam I wish it would go away I don't want to hurt any more
Been 6 years and this song still haunts me.....😢
I miss my dad every day, been 10 years now, but I think about him almost daily. This song really reminds me of the good times.
I first heard this song on my way to my moms house to meet everyone after she passed away in 2014, I balled the whole way there. I was there when she passed, broke my heart into a million pieces. Every time I hear this song I always think of her, she was my best friend, we were very close. She suffered from pancreatic cancer. She was a fighter all the way till the end . Mom I love you and miss you even more.
i lost my father when i was 17, ended up in his shoes to take care of my family, ended up addicted to drugs, and lost everything, now graduating school and raising a little girl with the help of my girlfriend, and clean!... This song expresses exactly what I wonder
Good luck Levi, but I've done it so you. But you have to really want it.
My father wasn't ever really there. My grandfather was however, and I lost him a few years back. He's the person I hope is looking down on me with a smile on his face. He was my best friend and shared a lot of wisdom with me. He's the man who made me who I am today. Yea, I was addicted to drugs as well, I partied like a rock star, and just thoroughly didn't give a shit about my life. I coulda died and probably should have a couple of times. Today, 5 years later, I have a 4 year old little girl, with hardly anyone to turn to. I've been doing it myself for a long time, and it's been a struggle the whole way. Though, as rough as it's been, I would have to say I am successful. I own my own photography business, have a wife, a decent car, and am close to beginning a career that I love without a lick of schooling. As rough as it has been, I've always kept my head up, I have always moved forward some way, some how. Keep your head up bro.. life is a motherfucker but you do it for that little girl.
Thanks man, that's really great and I appreciate you sharing your story with me, congratulations on all your successes it's stories like that, that give me hope
I'm proud of you. People like you deserve to be happy =)
Lost mine at the age of 12...I hear ya. God bless you buddy....hang tough.
Just lost my dad this past November 2023 it hurts so much and Idk how to function without him or his guidance. I will always love and miss you pa.😢
My friend, you know who you are. I will see you again down the road. This is not the end. Rest easy.
Man that's drop to me for some reason. Guess the mystery of your comment. Keep ya head up bro
Ment deep
Dam this song is full of raw emotion and I feel every bit of it great song!
I feel your pain Leigh. Also loving Dave's smile in here.
#PopEvil rocks!!!!!
Yes me to
my dad loved this song and it hurts to listen to it since he passed away a few days ago. Funny this song fits me now.
Vearon so sorry for your loss!
This song couldn't speak truer words. I lost my dad unexpectedly just a couple of months after I turned 16. That was almost 20 years ago. Almost every day I wonder if I have become who he would have wanted me to become.
This really rips my heart out. My father died of cancer at 43, I watched him suffer and die. Really makes think about him. I miss him so bad and can’t stop thinking about everything he wasn’t there for
This reminds me of my father that passed in 1989. Breaks my heart.......beautiful memories though that will always stay in my heart and soul. Thank you for writing this.......I always thought I was a disappointment of the youngest daughter. 3 elder brothers...2 left barely. Do your best you can!
I can relate to this way too much. My dad passed on the 20th of june 2013 and i will never stop being haunted by the memory of what I saw that day.. The tattoo on my leg holds the memories of my childhood with my dad..
This song always hits my heart strings. Cry every time. Lost my brother to suicide years ago. Seems like yesterday. A day that changed my life forever. 💔
I lost my second youngest brother and 2 friends to a DUI driver in 1998. I feel your pain and am sure that he would want the best for you. I'll pray for you. Have a good day.
Lost my Father to suicide back in 2006 right after my high school graduation. I ended up becoming addicted to opiates (as was my father, it heavily contributed to his death) soon after and it wasn't until I truly needed him for the first time in my life and he wasn't there I think about how different my life path would have been if he has been alive but mostly if I had received proper counseling/therapy for the loss. Now I know my life would of been completely different, not even close to where im at today utterly alone and full of pain and agony of my terrible life choices after his passing my life went into a twister and it started at age of 18 and I'm now 34 years old (My father was 44 at time of his death) meaning he will most likely have lived nearly 10 years longer then his son did.
A week and a half ago you left this world mom. You finished your fight with cancer and now at peace..but man does it hurt. I'm absolutely torn
I’m really sorry for your loss. Stay as strong and she would’ve wanted you to be!
Lost my mom too man. This song came on the radio when I was crying wishing my mom was with my family that came on vacation. All I could think is it's awesome my family is finally here. And all I felt was the void my mom wasn't here too.
@@timothy468 Im so sorry for your loss..its so sad.. Keep your chin up. I can't say it'll get fully better but I promise it gets..easier
Lost my dad February 14th 2021 to stomach cancer this song hits me hard every time i listen... miss my dad