You love him 10 he only love you 1 not 5....I'm glad you finally love yourself and left him. You divorced him. So proud of you for putting yourself first. Even more that you have found a man that treats you good and love you in returned.
Thats why I don't do shit for my husband. Whatever I do for my husband, he doesn't appreciate it. The littlest present, he tells me he doesn't like it. Why did I even buy it. I throw a party, he says, "thats it"? So I stopped buying him stuff and doing stuff for him a long, long time ago. No more birthday parties. Not even Tis Npe Laus. No doing ua neeb. NOTHING! No Christmas presents. No valentine's gift. Even no birthday gifts. We're coming up on our 30th anniversary and he'll be 50 next year. Aint gonna be no parties. Thats for sure. Some people just don't deserve anything.
Sister kuv xa tias ntshe lub neej zoo ko ces kuv tib leeg thiaj ntshib xwb no. Es koj lub neej zoo li kuv lub thiab. Koj tseem hluas ces tsis tau li rau koj
Mloog cess koj yog ib tug poj niam ku ke heev thiab ua niam txiv koj ua ib yam tag rau koj tus txiv koj suav ntshoov kom luag tshuav koj nqi neb sib yuav tau 30 tawm xyoo es koj twb tsis paub koj tus txiv ces txob tuaj nroo7 peb txiv neej hlub poj muaj li no : 1 nyiaj tso rau nej tuav 2 tseb tshiab cia rau nej 3 hauj lwm tom txaj 4 hauj lwm nyav peb ua tag Peb tso nej ywj siab vim tseeg nej xwb koj tso nws lawm yuav tshav koj tuj sai ntag
Muab mloog lawm neb lub neej twb tsis tau tsim nyog sib nrauj kiag li os tus me niam tsev aw...qhov tseeb tiag koj tus txiv yeej hlub koj tab sis nws tsis txawj hlub koj koj mam xav rau kuv nqe lus no seb puas yog nawb..lub neej niaj hnub no qhov uv tsis taus mas yog txiv ua loj leeb tham hluas nkauj thiab niam tham hluas nraug mas thiaj li yog qhov mob tshaj tseem hlub los thiaj li yuav tsis taus lawm xwb mog tus me niam tsev koj tsis ntseeg tab sis lwm tus txiv zoo tag txhua yam tab sis tshuav ib yam lawv yeej ua tsis tau li koj tus txiv ua tiag thiab tseem muaj ntau khub niam txiv tseem phem tshaj neb lawm ntau npaug muaj coob heev li os
Chase your own interest love yourself appreciated yourself for being a good kind heart to you yourself best of all stand for yourself. Hmong men are selfish and only a few are selflessness kind heart. So I'm glad you're stood tall at the end and find your happiness
I think you did the right thing by divorcing your husband. In a relationship there are both ways. You can’t just gives and gives and nothing in return. Good luck to your new future hopefully it will be better days.
Oyo koj niag txiv ko mas zoo li kuv niag qub txiv tiag lau!! Kuv tus txiv tshiab no mas hlub kuv heev! Kuv nrog koj zoo siab uas koj ua tau siab tawv qhawv tsis rov mus lawm os! Txij no mus luag hlub yus li cas ces yus hlub luag li ntawv es txhob hlub tshaj tshaj li yav tag koj thiaj tsis mob mob siab mog txuag koj lub zog os nawb..
Viv ncau hlub koj tu kheej os mog luag hlub yus li ca ce yu tsua lhub luag li ntaw xwb nws tsi yog koj xwb os kuv lo kuj ib yam thiab kojhlub2 koj cov me nyuam muab koj txoj sia khi rau cov me nyuam koj ma tseem muaj niam muaj txiv tau mus pws ib hmog zoo li kuv twb tsi tau kev mus qhov twg tsuav yog ob hlee koom ib pob nyiaj thiab nws tsi ua hlua ce kav liam muaj tej tu txiv neej zoo li ntawm txhob tus siab mog kuv ces twb tsi muaj plig kua muag li lawm os yus xav tia ib txwm nws yeej zoo li ntaw no mog
Mloog zaj neej neeg no ces zoo li kuv mloog txog kuv lub neej qub nrog kuv tus X thiab os...kuv ntshai 2 cov txiv siab phem siab coob ces kuv tseem nyob seem2 ua pog nrauj single nyob nrog kuv tej me myuam xwb os...thanks for sharing os
Thaum yus tseem nrog nws nyob ces yus txawm ua zoo npaum cas los lawv yeej tsis pom yus zoo li os mog yog uv taus ces uv twj ywm txhob tos lawv yuav hlub yus os mog nws coj tus cwj pwm li cas rau yus ces nws yeej yuav ua li ntaw mus txog hnub tuag li xwb os mog 1 hnub twg tsis muaj yus lawm ces nws mus tau lwm tus nws mam pauv nws tus cwj pwm ntaw xwb os mog
That’s normal for most of our Hmong women’s. We do a lot for our men but they never see. It’s okay you should only do what you can for him don’t over do it.
Koj thiab kuv ces ntshe Xav ib Yam li os thaum yus ntse ces twb lig dhau lawm 60 xyoo dhaum lawm ces ntshe yuav UV mus Kom kawg los xyov yuav muab lawb li tiag chim siab tshaj li os peb cov poj niam siab zoo no naj
Good that you left a man who don’t love you. Every good woman wants a man who loves you when you’re sick. Idk about anyone else but for me, I know if I marry my man he is my only one and my world. I left my family to be with him. Even with all my kids born with him. We can only raise them and cant make them love us when we older. American children mindset are different. It is your spouse who is the one that should love and understand you even though year’s change. A person who was with you from start to end heart doesn’t change. 😢 I feel sad for what happen to you sister but I am happy you made the choice u did and become better. ❤
kv lub niag neej lo zoo li no thiab ma tutu siab kawg 😞😞😞ob leeg nyob hauv tsev lo lawv yeej tsi nrog yu tham lus mu qhov twg theej a this lo lawv yeej tsi hu ib tsab xov tooj rau yus
Sister you are over reacting on issues. Because you overreacted and make him irritated so stop doing too much. Give and love him the same way he loves you, no more and no less. This is what I told my husband
You have too much of an expectation. Watch you're still in the honey moon phase with the new husband... Give it time you'll start complaining that he doesn't love you like he did his dead wife
I'm going to play the devil's advocate here because to me you sounds very insecure and controlling and he's sick and tired of you. When you left to your parents house he was peacefully that's why he didn't follow up on your whereabouts. He already know you will be returning because you show him you can not live without him. I am glad you found a new love. I like to hear his version.
Ua txij nkawm nyob thawm koj muaj mob tsis taus koj thiaj mam paub tias koj tus txij nkawm hlub koj lo tsis hlub. Peb ua neeg nyob hlub koj tus txij nkawm li nws hlub koj xwb koj thiaj tsis tu siab. Qhov no yog ib qhov kev kawm rau cov poj niam lo yog txiv neej uas nej hlub nej tus txij kawm tshaj nws hlub nej lawm.
well woman you brought this upon yourself...so even if he doesnt love you just be happy you get to do what you want to do for him...unless you change he will never love you or see your value.
Don’t compare your life with someone else. You don’t know their life. Your marriage was good. Your husband loved you. Your mind was not in the right place. He gave you freedom and trusted you, but you took these things negatively. If you chose to treat him good, then do it freely.
Your love expectation is different from him. You're more affectioness vs him. You both are not compatible. When you were ill spiritual you probably had depression. I'm glad you chose yourself and love yourself.
Txhob tus siab os koj twb yuav los tau 30 xyoo lawm ces siab ntev mas. Peb tej txiv mas khib khib mus qhov twg los yeej yuav tsum tau tsos cai. Ho pab pab peb thiab.
Koj ces yeej meem thov kom lub ntuj pab kom koj tus txiv tshiab no noj qab nyob zoo xwb tsam nws sawv kev hnub twg ces koj kawg tau ua qab ke luag xwb koj ma tshuav kev npam loj tus niam tais aw kuv los lu no nyob rawv saum koj hauv pliaj txog hnub kawg
Tus viv ncaus maiv zeb koj nrauj tau ces zoo rau koj lem os nyob li kuv ces nthe tu siab mus taj ib tiam txaj chaw los twb tsis koom los ntev lem yus hlub luag xwb luag tsis hlub yus😢❤
Sister, I HAVE HEARD OF A TROPHY WIFE. THIS THE FIRST ONE I HAVE HEARD OF A TROPHY HUSBAND. you are overly loving to him and catered to his every needs and wants. You forgot all about loving yourself. He has no respect, and he's selfish and self-centered. He only loves himself and his needs and wants the only importance to him. He's a shrud....there isn't any romantic or love in him. It's a good thing he doesn't abuse you physically or mentally. Stop listening to those busy bodies and gossiping women. You are not married to them, they are not paying your bills nor feeding you nor fukn you. Remember, when your days are full of misery and darkness they'll not be there. When all hell break lose they'll turned on you. Fake friends only give you bad advice. You made yourself sick. You made yourself depressed and allowed yourself to fall apart. Now your husband doesn't care about all the things you've done for him. He's gonna abandoned you and go find someone else abd younger. He's gonna take all your hard earned money to wine and dine abd spend it all on his new girlfriend.
Koj yog ib tug pojniam nim ua kom tus txiv qhua222 tabsi tus txiv tsi qhua ces ho npaus taw koj ces ntxim tau ib niag txiv khoo koj tuag nthi tawm tsi tau mus qhov twg li xb txiv neej ces txhb hlub tas2 txhb k tas2 thj tsi ua neeg vwm li koj
Ua cas es tej tus neeg siab zoo2 hlub2 poj niam no es ho tsis tau ib tug poj niam hlub yus li koj li os hmoob tus me poj niam aw cas peb cov no es hlub2 poj niam los ho mus tau tus me poj niam ho tsis hlub yus li os me poj hmoob.
That why I don't celebrate men/birthday success it a complete waste of money and cooking..men that don't give you effection don't deserve anything... .learn to put yourself first..love yourself before him,,,do what makes you happy...this kind of life you either live with it or leave,,it won't matter. Don't expect anything from this kind of men sis,,the best you can do is love yourself and your kids,move on.. Put money on the side, and buy stuff for you when he can not give you..self love is very important in your situation
Kuv yog ib tug poj niam thiab tab sis kuv tsis nyiam kom tus txiv khon 2kuv nas thiab tsis nyiam kom tus txiv pheej ntau xov tooj tuaj nhoog kuv nas,je veux être libre comme l'air, mais ça veux pas dire que je trompe mon mari.
Thank goodness you met your second husband. who loves you more than your ex-husband. He didn’t deserved your love, especially with what he put you through.
Tus mi vincaus aw sim neej no es yus yog 1tug poj niam es sim neej no es ntshe yus yog tus es uv ntau tshaj li xwb os mog kuv es twb zoo 1yam li koj thiab os mog luag pom yus zoo ces yog thaum yus tsis sib yuav lawm xwb os mog nws mus tau lwm tus los muab nws tsim es nws mam nco txog yus xwb os
Wow.. can’t believe you you divorced your husband. There are some guys like him. He didn’t cheat on you or hit you. He came back for you. You will get irritates if someone buds you every time.
Most men only do the minimum and call it love. My husband is exactly like yours, but I don’t care because I love him the same way he loves me- 40/40. After 20 years, I only see my marriage as a financial partnership. I have invested too much time and money so it is hard to just leave. I am not an affectionate person anyways so I am fine as long as my bills are paid, I can travel, and my kids have what they need.
Tus niam tsev aw koj tus txiv mas zoo kiag li kuv tus niam hluas tus txiv thiab. Puam chawj nawb koj tus txiv txawj coj phem li ko los txhob tus siab os. Tsuav nws tsis cem tsis ntau koj tsis tham hluas nkauj xwb. Siab ntev puam chawj kuv tus niam hluas nrauj txiv hluas vim txiv hluas ho tham tham nkauj mos ab. Nim no ces nws tsis muaj txiv li nawb.
OMG…..ain’t that the truth for majority of all Hmong men. They always said they love their wife but not, and think that they’re better and no one wants us. We are their slaves and servant, not their wife and no respects. We need to be strong and leave these high egos men, self entitled men. Mloog MAs koj hlub koj tus txiv dhaus lawm es nws cias li tsis pom koj txoj kev hlub lawm. Cov neeg zoo oi ntawv MAs txob hlub nws zoo dua. Zoo kawg ua koj muab nws nrauj kiag mus lawm os!!!
Koj Yog ib tug poj Niam siab tawv tiag tiag li koj tus txiv tsuas tsis txawj hlub koj xwb es koj tso tau nws kiag li. Ua neej nyob tsuas hlub luag li luag hlub yus xwb cas koj yuav ruam ua luaj es yuav ntshai nws tuag ua luaj es yuav hlub nws cuag li hlub tus me ab mos li. Nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb mas
Koj tus txiv tsis yog tus zoo zoo mas, tab sis kuj tsis yog tus phem phem kom tsim nyog nrauj. Lub neej twb laus lawm, menyuam twb loj tag. Qhov nyob yuav zoo ntau dua qhov mus. Txij nkawm thawj tug, laus uake luag thiaj tsis tib koj. Lub neej tom ntej koj tsis pom, koj txhob maub tsam yuam kev ces tig tsis tau rov qab los. Laus lawm txhob phov tsam tsis muaj chaw tuag. Koj tias koj hlub koj tus txiv kawg kiag 100% tab sis tej yam me xwb koj cia li muab nws nrauj pov tseg. Koj tus txiv tsis tau phem txog qib yuav nrauj. Kuv ntshai tsam tom ntej no koj khuv xim xwb. You moved on so fast, you might make another mistakes. Men this day they so good at acting and pretending, and they are not very serious and committing.
You love him 10 he only love you 1 not 5....I'm glad you finally love yourself and left him. You divorced him. So proud of you for putting yourself first. Even more that you have found a man that treats you good and love you in returned.
Koj hais raug peb tshaj os viv ncaus Aw..
Hlub koj tus kheej...txhob tos nws kev hlub
Tu siab heev li os 🥺 Yam nkaus li koj muab peb ib txhia lub neej los tham. 💔
Tus ntsuag kub Mas ceeb laj nrhiav tau os hmoob aw !!!
Kuv zoo siab uas koj khiav dim lub neej lwj siab mog !
Wow you are good a good wife. Wish everyone woman has your attitude and your love. Keep up your good attitude and your love.
Glad you found who is ment to be yours. 😊
Zoo siab koj mus tau tus txiv hlub hlub koj lawm os.
OMG this story hit me right in the heart. I thought it was my story
Sister, your husband love you 5 you should love him 5 too. He doesn't deserve your love more then 5
Thats why I don't do shit for my husband. Whatever I do for my husband, he doesn't appreciate it. The littlest present, he tells me he doesn't like it. Why did I even buy it. I throw a party, he says, "thats it"? So I stopped buying him stuff and doing stuff for him a long, long time ago.
No more birthday parties. Not even Tis Npe Laus. No doing ua neeb. NOTHING! No Christmas presents. No valentine's gift. Even no birthday gifts.
We're coming up on our 30th anniversary and he'll be 50 next year. Aint gonna be no parties. Thats for sure. Some people just don't deserve anything.
I agree with you, too. I simply had enough has as well. 😔
Wow sister koj siab ntev kawg li thiab
Sister kuv xa tias ntshe lub neej zoo ko ces kuv tib leeg thiaj ntshib xwb no. Es koj lub neej zoo li kuv lub thiab. Koj tseem hluas ces tsis tau li rau koj
Damn sounds like you two don't even wanna be together.
It’s sad. Some men just don’t know how to appreciate. They don’t deserve anything at all.
Mloog cess koj yog ib tug poj niam ku ke heev thiab ua niam txiv koj ua ib yam tag rau koj tus txiv koj suav ntshoov kom luag tshuav koj nqi neb sib yuav tau 30 tawm xyoo es koj twb tsis paub koj tus txiv ces txob tuaj nroo7 peb txiv neej hlub poj muaj li no :
1 nyiaj tso rau nej tuav
2 tseb tshiab cia rau nej
3 hauj lwm tom txaj
4 hauj lwm nyav peb ua tag
Peb tso nej ywj siab vim tseeg nej xwb koj tso nws lawm yuav tshav koj tuj sai ntag
Muab mloog lawm neb lub neej twb tsis tau tsim nyog sib nrauj kiag li os tus me niam tsev aw...qhov tseeb tiag koj tus txiv yeej hlub koj tab sis nws tsis txawj hlub koj koj mam xav rau kuv nqe lus no seb puas yog nawb..lub neej niaj hnub no qhov uv tsis taus mas yog txiv ua loj leeb tham hluas nkauj thiab niam tham hluas nraug mas thiaj li yog qhov mob tshaj tseem hlub los thiaj li yuav tsis taus lawm xwb mog tus me niam tsev koj tsis ntseeg tab sis lwm tus txiv zoo tag txhua yam tab sis tshuav ib yam lawv yeej ua tsis tau li koj tus txiv ua tiag thiab tseem muaj ntau khub niam txiv tseem phem tshaj neb lawm ntau npaug muaj coob heev li os
Zoo siab koj ua tau lawm peb cov ua tsis tau ces lam ua cav lwj sib ib os
Don’t make someone your priority when you are only an option.
Chase your own interest love yourself appreciated yourself for being a good kind heart to you yourself best of all stand for yourself. Hmong men are selfish and only a few are selflessness kind heart. So I'm glad you're stood tall at the end and find your happiness
Lady, you know what... you overcare and overlove your husband. That's why he took you for granted. You need to love yourself first.
I think you did the right thing by divorcing your husband. In a relationship there are both ways. You can’t just gives and gives and nothing in return. Good luck to your new future hopefully it will be better days.
I hope you were smart enough to change your life insurance and beneficiary to your children.
Oyo koj niag txiv ko mas zoo li kuv niag qub txiv tiag lau!! Kuv tus txiv tshiab no mas hlub kuv heev! Kuv nrog koj zoo siab uas koj ua tau siab tawv qhawv tsis rov mus lawm os! Txij no mus luag hlub yus li cas ces yus hlub luag li ntawv es txhob hlub tshaj tshaj li yav tag koj thiaj tsis mob mob siab mog txuag koj lub zog os nawb..
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txhob tu siab o zoo li koj nyiam nws xwb nws twb tsis nyiam koj nws thiaj tsis khes koj txoj kev hlub.
Zaj neej neeg no mas, yog kuv lub neej kiag li os.
That’s why you never love them too much
story of my life as well. sad.
Viv ncau hlub koj tu kheej os mog luag hlub yus li ca ce yu tsua lhub luag li ntaw xwb nws tsi yog koj xwb os kuv lo kuj ib yam thiab kojhlub2 koj cov me nyuam muab koj txoj sia khi rau cov me nyuam koj ma tseem muaj niam muaj txiv tau mus pws ib hmog zoo li kuv twb tsi tau kev mus qhov twg tsuav yog ob hlee koom ib pob nyiaj thiab nws tsi ua hlua ce kav liam muaj tej tu txiv neej zoo li ntawm txhob tus siab mog kuv ces twb tsi muaj plig kua muag li lawm os yus xav tia ib txwm nws yeej zoo li ntaw no mog
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Niam laus aw koj tus txiv ko ces yog kiag kuv tus li os
Koj piav ces koj yog tus hlub nws heev xwb ho yog koj tus txiv tuaj piav koj tus txiv qhov nws hlub koj txhaj 200@% lawm thiab os
Mloog zaj neej neeg no ces zoo li kuv mloog txog kuv lub neej qub nrog kuv tus X thiab os...kuv ntshai 2 cov txiv siab phem siab coob ces kuv tseem nyob seem2 ua pog nrauj single nyob nrog kuv tej me myuam xwb os...thanks for sharing os
I love her mom!!! We need more moms like her!
Txiv neej tsi nyiam niam ntsev quag, txiv neej ntshaw niam dev nyob lub bed!
Thaum yus tseem nrog nws nyob ces yus txawm ua zoo npaum cas los lawv yeej tsis pom yus zoo li os mog yog uv taus ces uv twj ywm txhob tos lawv yuav hlub yus os mog nws coj tus cwj pwm li cas rau yus ces nws yeej yuav ua li ntaw mus txog hnub tuag li xwb os mog 1 hnub twg tsis muaj yus lawm ces nws mus tau lwm tus nws mam pauv nws tus cwj pwm ntaw xwb os mog
Love you sister. You will be okay! All of us sisters will be okay!
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Hmong woman just don't know when to let go and move on...
We love 10 they only love us .5 xwb 😪😪
That’s normal for most of our Hmong women’s. We do a lot for our men but they never see. It’s okay you should only do what you can for him don’t over do it.
Tus neeg ntawd nws tsis yog txiv neej yawg, nws yog tsiaj xwb nws thiaj tsis paub hlub poj niam, tais po aub hwm nws tus niam tsev, tsis paub appreciate nws tus niam tsev.
Koj thiab kuv ces ntshe Xav ib Yam li os thaum yus ntse ces twb lig dhau lawm 60 xyoo dhaum lawm ces ntshe yuav UV mus Kom kawg los xyov yuav muab lawb li tiag chim siab tshaj li os peb cov poj niam siab zoo no naj
Good that you left a man who don’t love you.
Every good woman wants a man who loves you when you’re sick.
Idk about anyone else but for me, I know if I marry my man he is my only one and my world. I left my family to be with him. Even with all my kids born with him. We can only raise them and cant make them love us when we older. American children mindset are different. It is your spouse who is the one that should love and understand you even though year’s change. A person who was with you from start to end heart doesn’t change. 😢
I feel sad for what happen to you sister but I am happy you made the choice u did and become better. ❤
Koj hais koj zaj no kom neeg tuaj qhuas los yog xav km neeg tuaj nkaug na
Yog lawm,tus neeg tsis hlub kuv, kuv yuav tsis hlub nws tshaj. Nws hlub kuv txij li cas kuv hlub nws li nws hlub kuv xwb.
Tus txiv zoo koj niag txiv tsis txhob hlub2 thiab os
kv lub niag neej lo zoo li no thiab ma tutu siab kawg 😞😞😞ob leeg nyob hauv tsev lo lawv yeej tsi nrog yu tham lus mu qhov twg theej a this lo lawv yeej tsi hu ib tsab xov tooj rau yus
Sister you are over reacting on issues. Because you overreacted and make him irritated so stop doing too much. Give and love him the same way he loves you, no more and no less. This is what I told my husband
If i want something nice for myself, i just go and buy. I don’t need his love. Our job is not to serve men like kings.
Kuv twb tau tus txiv zoo li es kuv twb nrauj ntxov lawm os kuv xum los nyob ua poj nrauj os😊
You have too much of an expectation. Watch you're still in the honey moon phase with the new husband... Give it time you'll start complaining that he doesn't love you like he did his dead wife
Ntuj aws sister aws.....feem coob txiv neej Hmoob ces yeej coj thiab zoo li ntau xwb os. Txhob tu siab. Peb yuav tsum hlub peb tus kheeb xwb txhob tos lawv txoj kev hlub li. Yog lawv mus ua hawjlwm lawm ces lawv yeej tsis kam ua lwm yam lawm thiab. 😅😅😅
Txiv neej hmoob ces yeej zoo li koj tus no coob xwb os...
I'm going to play the devil's advocate here because to me you sounds very insecure and controlling and he's sick and tired of you. When you left to your parents house he was peacefully that's why he didn't follow up on your whereabouts. He already know you will be returning because you show him you can not live without him.
I am glad you found a new love.
I like to hear his version.
All men in general are not the same! I’m glad you loved yourself enough to leave him!
Ua txij nkawm nyob thawm koj muaj mob tsis taus koj thiaj mam paub tias koj tus txij nkawm hlub koj lo tsis hlub. Peb ua neeg nyob hlub koj tus txij nkawm li nws hlub koj xwb koj thiaj tsis tu siab. Qhov no yog ib qhov kev kawm rau cov poj niam lo yog txiv neej uas nej hlub nej tus txij kawm tshaj nws hlub nej lawm.
Nowadays the younger generation need to talk about compatibility. We need to love each other with our love languages and reciprocate effort.
well woman you brought this upon yourself...so even if he doesnt love you just be happy you get to do what you want to do for him...unless you change he will never love you or see your value.
Don’t compare your life with someone else. You don’t know their life. Your marriage was good. Your husband loved you. Your mind was not in the right place. He gave you freedom and trusted you, but you took these things negatively.
If you chose to treat him good, then do it freely.
Tsuav nws tsis tham hluas nkauj ces zoo lawm.txiv neej hmoob ces zoo li no.txhob tu siab
Your love expectation is different from him. You're more affectioness vs him. You both are not compatible. When you were ill spiritual you probably had depression. I'm glad you chose yourself and love yourself.
Pab nrog koj zoo siab tus niam tsev
Koj hlub nws tshaj nws hlub koj xwb o.
U overdue for him
Koj hlub koj tus txiv 1000 ho nws hlub koj .00001 xwb os.
Txhob tus siab os koj twb yuav los tau 30 xyoo lawm ces siab ntev mas. Peb tej txiv mas khib khib mus qhov twg los yeej yuav tsum tau tsos cai. Ho pab pab peb thiab.
Koj ces yeej meem thov kom lub ntuj pab kom koj tus txiv tshiab no noj qab nyob zoo xwb tsam nws sawv kev hnub twg ces koj kawg tau ua qab ke luag xwb koj ma tshuav kev npam loj tus niam tais aw kuv los lu no nyob rawv saum koj hauv pliaj txog hnub kawg
Tus viv ncaus maiv zeb koj nrauj tau ces zoo rau koj lem os nyob li kuv ces nthe tu siab mus taj ib tiam txaj chaw los twb tsis koom los ntev lem yus hlub luag xwb luag tsis hlub yus😢❤
Ua cas peb cov txiv no tsis paub xav li yom?
Sister, I HAVE HEARD OF A TROPHY WIFE. THIS THE FIRST ONE I HAVE HEARD OF A TROPHY HUSBAND. you are overly loving to him and catered to his every needs and wants. You forgot all about loving yourself. He has no respect, and he's selfish and self-centered. He only loves himself and his needs and wants the only importance to him. He's a shrud....there isn't any romantic or love in him.
It's a good thing he doesn't abuse you physically or mentally. Stop listening to those busy bodies and gossiping women. You are not married to them, they are not paying your bills nor feeding you nor fukn you. Remember, when your days are full of misery and darkness they'll not be there. When all hell break lose they'll turned on you. Fake friends only give you bad advice.
You made yourself sick. You made yourself depressed and allowed yourself to fall apart. Now your husband doesn't care about all the things you've done for him. He's gonna abandoned you and go find someone else abd younger. He's gonna take all your hard earned money to wine and dine abd spend it all on his new girlfriend.
No need it period
Koj yog ib tug pojniam nim ua kom tus txiv qhua222 tabsi tus txiv tsi qhua ces ho npaus taw koj ces ntxim tau ib niag txiv khoo koj tuag nthi tawm tsi tau mus qhov twg li xb txiv neej ces txhb hlub tas2 txhb k tas2 thj tsi ua neeg vwm li koj
Don’t rest your time to love someone like that sister ❤❤❤
Maiv zeb
Cas koj tus txiv yuav zoo nkaus li kuv niag poj niam thiab li os Maiv zeb aw
Tus siab kawg li os Maiv zeb aw
Brother es muaj poj niam ua li no thiab los. Kuv xav tias Ntshe muaj txiv neej xwb no 😂
You seek affection. He was not giving you that.
Koj yeej ua zoo lawm tab sis yog koj txoj kev hlub yog tiag txawm zoo li cas los koj yeej yuav tsum hlub. Koj tsis hlub 10 li koj hais koj thiaj muab koj tus txiv ua nw tsis paub hlub koj ntauwv tso mug lawm.
Lub neej 30 tawm xyoo tsuas pom kuv yuav khoom Christmas, birthday present rau nws xwb , kuv tsis tau nws ib yam luaj txoj plaub hau ces Kuv Xav tias kuv tsum vim kuv qaug zog lawm los kuv tseem tsum tsis tau tabsis kuv yuav tsum sai2 no☹️
Cov txivneej uas yus mus twg los tsis noog yus moo thiab tsis khib yus ces nws twb muaj nws ib tug zoo zoo lawm os. Kuv yeej ntsib tus neeg siab phem li no los lawm kuv paub zoo heev.
I think the wife was too generous with her rating of 5. It's more like a 3.5
Men does not deserve a good wife and good life. In life you can not love someone too much or he/she will not appreciate and will walk all over you.
How about you loving yourself a 10. And anybody else, less than that.
Ua cas es tej tus neeg siab zoo2 hlub2 poj niam no es ho tsis tau ib tug poj niam hlub yus li koj li os hmoob tus me poj niam aw cas peb cov no es hlub2 poj niam los ho mus tau tus me poj niam ho tsis hlub yus li os me poj hmoob.
Wow it took u 30 years! I would have left him after 5 years. Good for u that u finally decided to leave him.
That why I don't celebrate men/birthday success it a complete waste of money and cooking..men that don't give you effection don't deserve anything... .learn to put yourself first..love yourself before him,,,do what makes you happy...this kind of life you either live with it or leave,,it won't matter.
Don't expect anything from this kind of men sis,,the best you can do is love yourself and your kids,move on..
Put money on the side, and buy stuff for you when he can not give you..self love is very important in your situation
Wow! Ua cas nej niam yuav hlub nej tej txiv ua luaj. Yuav ua rau kuv ntshaw nej tej kev hlub ua luaj.
Txiv dev
Kuv yog ib tug poj niam thiab tab sis kuv tsis nyiam kom tus txiv khon 2kuv nas thiab tsis nyiam kom tus txiv pheej ntau xov tooj tuaj nhoog kuv nas,je veux être libre comme l'air, mais ça veux pas dire que je trompe mon mari.
Thank goodness you met your second husband. who loves you more than your ex-husband. He didn’t deserved your love, especially with what he put you through.
Marriage life is danger in this modern society. Life is not the same as our parents and grandparents generations ago.
Koj hlub thaub dhau lawm. koj nyiam thaub tshaj qhov nws nyiam koj es nws thiaj saib koj tsis rau nqi. Ib tug txiv neej hlub yus tsis coj tsis hais lus phem li ntawd rau koj. Nws tsis hlub koj os koj ruam dhau lawm es koj ua txhua yam rau nws tiamsi nws twb tsis khe txog koj li. Koj tsis txawj tusiab los. Peb tej txiv peb tsis tiam cuag tiam nom li koj tiam koj tus txiv. Peb tej txiv nws tsis xaj tsis khoo yus ua nws qhev li koj niag txiv. Yus txib li cas nws yeej ua li ntawd tsis cem yus li. Coj li no mas thiaj yog tus txiv neej hlub yus. Tsis yog kuv khav theeb nawb tsua yog hais qhov tseeb txog qhov phem qhov zoo xwb.
I Know How You Feel! Been There With Someone Like That! No One Checks Up On You & Ask Where You Are!? It's Sad, He Don't Need You!!
Sister you and me are the same when I find the courage I will leave my husband too
Tus mi vincaus aw sim neej no es yus yog 1tug poj niam es sim neej no es ntshe yus yog tus es uv ntau tshaj li xwb os mog kuv es twb zoo 1yam li koj thiab os mog luag pom yus zoo ces yog thaum yus tsis sib yuav lawm xwb os mog nws mus tau lwm tus los muab nws tsim es nws mam nco txog yus xwb os
Wow.. can’t believe you you divorced your husband. There are some guys like him. He didn’t cheat on you or hit you. He came back for you. You will get irritates if someone buds you every time.
Most men only do the minimum and call it love. My husband is exactly like yours, but I don’t care because I love him the same way he loves me- 40/40. After 20 years, I only see my marriage as a financial partnership. I have invested too much time and money so it is hard to just leave. I am not an affectionate person anyways so I am fine as long as my bills are paid, I can travel, and my kids have what they need.
Tus niam tsev aw koj tus txiv mas zoo kiag li kuv tus niam hluas tus txiv thiab. Puam chawj nawb koj tus txiv txawj coj phem li ko los txhob tus siab os. Tsuav nws tsis cem tsis ntau koj tsis tham hluas nkauj xwb. Siab ntev puam chawj kuv tus niam hluas nrauj txiv hluas vim txiv hluas ho tham tham nkauj mos ab. Nim no ces nws tsis muaj txiv li nawb.
OMG…..ain’t that the truth for majority of all Hmong men. They always said they love their wife but not, and think that they’re better and no one wants us. We are their slaves and servant, not their wife and no respects. We need to be strong and leave these high egos men, self entitled men. Mloog MAs koj hlub koj tus txiv dhaus lawm es nws cias li tsis pom koj txoj kev hlub lawm. Cov neeg zoo oi ntawv MAs txob hlub nws zoo dua. Zoo kawg ua koj muab nws nrauj kiag mus lawm os!!!
I feel like there is more to the story. Like she already found someone before she left.
This Hmong wife over concerned and over loved her ungrateful hmong husband who took advantages of her love and concern.
Koj Yog ib tug poj Niam siab tawv tiag tiag li koj tus txiv tsuas tsis txawj hlub koj xwb es koj tso tau nws kiag li. Ua neej nyob tsuas hlub luag li luag hlub yus xwb cas koj yuav ruam ua luaj es yuav ntshai nws tuag ua luaj es yuav hlub nws cuag li hlub tus me ab mos li. Nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb mas
Tsi & teev luj tsis tau “hlub”. Qhov hlub 10 & hlub 5 lam hais kom lub siab nqig xwb-
One side of the story only.
Koj tus txiv tsis yog tus zoo zoo mas, tab sis kuj tsis yog tus phem phem kom tsim nyog nrauj. Lub neej twb laus lawm, menyuam twb loj tag. Qhov nyob yuav zoo ntau dua qhov mus. Txij nkawm thawj tug, laus uake luag thiaj tsis tib koj.
Lub neej tom ntej koj tsis pom, koj txhob maub tsam yuam kev ces tig tsis tau rov qab los. Laus lawm txhob phov tsam tsis muaj chaw tuag. Koj tias koj hlub koj tus txiv kawg kiag 100% tab sis tej yam me xwb koj cia li muab nws nrauj pov tseg.
Koj tus txiv tsis tau phem txog qib yuav nrauj. Kuv ntshai tsam tom ntej no koj khuv xim xwb.
You moved on so fast, you might make another mistakes. Men this day they so good at acting and pretending, and they are not very serious and committing.
Kuv tu kuj coj li koj tu kos thiab ma
Tab sis Tam sim no kuv tsi K lawm os
Ua zoo los g muaj nqes kuv tij rov los K kuv lawm xwb qas