Lets learn to celebrate our friends achievements and blessings. I don't care what I'm going through at that moment but I'm not gonna dim your shine. I'll be there, you know why? Because I've always wanted my friend to win, whether it's buying a house, getting married, getting a job, or having a baby. I've always wished you well so when you finally get there, it feels like an answered prayer. Best believe I'm celebrating with you.
It happens a lot more that you think. Old friends just drop off once u get married nami I lost most of friends after my wedding now your friend is your husband gal.
We are strangers enjoying ur lavish lifestyle you gorgeous and beautiful home and husband. You bieng on the public eye enemies I'm sure are the first viewers on every upload.
And sometimes we expect our friends to call us first if there are big things happening in their lives other than sending invites just like everyone, maybe the friend is just hurt. This could've been resolved, but ke isikwisocial media already
True, personally if I find out from friends and family about the event before you tell me or you tell me last minute. I wouldn't come because I would feel like an after thought
Wow that's another angle but even so, she's wrong for it.she still had a duty to congratulate her friend and she could address her hurt later.I think it's one of those people who don't want others to be happy and she's just miserable.please checkout my video where I address this very same issue(Thembisa's safe space)title jealousy makes you nasty
The fact that she was mocking her venue shows that she already knew, the invite was only a formality so she can be able to enter the venue. Their wedding venue looked like those where you need proof of invitation to enter.
She is not a real friend. I had a friend who suffered a miscarriage a two weeks before my wedding and through that she helped organise my bridal shower and come to my wedding. Or if your going through the most why not deliver flowers and a congrats card bathong. Or be honest "chomi Im so happy for you, congrats please dont mind the silence Im going through a lot right now but rest assured Im going through a lot right now.
Some people could have more than u & still be jealous of ur little achievements. Its just who they are. She had more than enough time to come back to u if she was going through something. Guess u r not who u think u r to her anymore & good riddance coz these kinds of friends drag u down
Wenzenton uchomie? 🤷🏾♀️ Or it's what she didn't do, u mustn't hv expectations though....it seems like what disappointed her us that she didn't say more.....nbif it was a friend u tell before send invite not tell same time as wonke wonke, friends n fam first, unless it's just a friend nje, n futhi ubezakuba yi bridesmaid okusho ukuthi ichommie yakge iyi 3rd circle friend category, but chommie yakge ibizixelela ukuba iyi first circle friends, atleast uyithole ne invite, mna my sister showed me wedding photo zomyntu abengithi yichomie yam n that how I knew useyi mrs
The friend is burning and extremely envious of her. It happens that sometimes some people have things and they don't want them for others. Why is she still even calling her friend?
You have a right to be hurt but please know this is not a good friend.weite her off..she is jealous and remember jealousy has nothing to do with you and what you have it has more to do about her heart
I hope Sinegugu sees this comment. Jealous people don’t really want something you have, they just don’t want you to have it
wise words
And how you know this, is that you
Wabona, baby showers, weddings, bridal shower etc those things will break or end friendships.
Say this again. Wish wid just leave these things to white people. Because wow siyohluleka
Umona 😮 she didn’t want that for you she wanted to be higher than you always
There's a bad spirit amongst SA women friendships😒
jonga and i've seen it myself shem its tough
Sis😣 maybe it’s a post covid thing cause wow! These kind of situations are so prevalent lately.
Lets learn to celebrate our friends achievements and blessings. I don't care what I'm going through at that moment but I'm not gonna dim your shine. I'll be there, you know why? Because I've always wanted my friend to win, whether it's buying a house, getting married, getting a job, or having a baby. I've always wished you well so when you finally get there, it feels like an answered prayer. Best believe I'm celebrating with you.
It happens a lot more that you think. Old friends just drop off once u get married nami I lost most of friends after my wedding now your friend is your husband gal.
Friendships have become just like umjolo
Yazi, it’s exhausting
Even a simple “Happy birthday” does break a friendship. We can’t be friends for 8+ years and you still forget my birthday?😂 We aren’t friends at all.
Aaah my own mother doesn't say anything on my birthday
We are strangers enjoying ur lavish lifestyle you gorgeous and beautiful home and husband. You bieng on the public eye enemies I'm sure are the first viewers on every upload.
Is either she wants to shine alone or she is selfish… maybe jealous 😅the whole thing is written satan all over it. Congrats wena girl 🎉
Maybe she's not happy in her marriage 🤷
And sometimes we expect our friends to call us first if there are big things happening in their lives other than sending invites just like everyone, maybe the friend is just hurt. This could've been resolved, but ke isikwisocial media already
True
True, personally if I find out from friends and family about the event before you tell me or you tell me last minute. I wouldn't come because I would feel like an after thought
@@CafeNoxie true friend would have been a bigger person and told Sinegugu what she is bothering her
Wow that's another angle but even so, she's wrong for it.she still had a duty to congratulate her friend and she could address her hurt later.I think it's one of those people who don't want others to be happy and she's just miserable.please checkout my video where I address this very same issue(Thembisa's safe space)title jealousy makes you nasty
The fact that she was mocking her venue shows that she already knew, the invite was only a formality so she can be able to enter the venue. Their wedding venue looked like those where you need proof of invitation to enter.
Smell the coffe girl...let her go.And don't count wht u did for me,it ws from ur good heart,dnt hv too much expectations from ppl.
Period
or maybe she just wanted her to be her hype women forever like she must watch good thing happen for her while she watches on the sideline
Guys ?? We are going through a lot as people hl ayy! Even if we are friends, we have a lot sometimes atleast she acknowledged it.🥺😭
Or maybe she didnt even know she was getting married and just got an invite. I got that once. Atleast I did say Congratulations. 😅
She is not a real friend. I had a friend who suffered a miscarriage a two weeks before my wedding and through that she helped organise my bridal shower and come to my wedding. Or if your going through the most why not deliver flowers and a congrats card bathong. Or be honest "chomi Im so happy for you, congrats please dont mind the silence Im going through a lot right now but rest assured Im going through a lot right now.
@@Izooo78Love it. ❤️😊
@@rebotilemogadime4169 Marr bathong ? We different as people,what if eena the marriage was rocky ?
Yoh aah.ah 😭🥺
@@rebotilemogadime4169 Exactly! 👌🏽
😢what I know mna,alikho ichiza lomona sisifo nje esinganyangeki en umntu waso unezimbo ,ngeze umgqibe ....Wena chomam GuGu owakho umngane nguhubby wakho suwara ngamaphepha njeeee wabantu ❤❤❤❤
Ke jealous, people like that they don't want to see you happy o succeed whether u have what they have or not how can u not congratulate ur friend
That's friends for you.
Good afternoon Gugu, how are you gorgeous? Please may you help with where do i buy the head doek you have on?
Some people could have more than u & still be jealous of ur little achievements. Its just who they are. She had more than enough time to come back to u if she was going through something. Guess u r not who u think u r to her anymore & good riddance coz these kinds of friends drag u down
Let it.....they always come back apologizing
Jealous dear, she wants to be the one only who want to be happy
She's jealous... She must be the only one that should be married according to her
Wenzenton uchomie? 🤷🏾♀️ Or it's what she didn't do, u mustn't hv expectations though....it seems like what disappointed her us that she didn't say more.....nbif it was a friend u tell before send invite not tell same time as wonke wonke, friends n fam first, unless it's just a friend nje, n futhi ubezakuba yi bridesmaid okusho ukuthi ichommie yakge iyi 3rd circle friend category, but chommie yakge ibizixelela ukuba iyi first circle friends, atleast uyithole ne invite, mna my sister showed me wedding photo zomyntu abengithi yichomie yam n that how I knew useyi mrs
Jealous Jealous Jealous!!! She wants everything for herself. Cut that friendship period..
Maybe she's going through a rough patch in her life too.... You should have spoken to her first before going on TH-cam.
The friend is burning and extremely envious of her. It happens that sometimes some people have things and they don't want them for others. Why is she still even calling her friend?
You have a right to be hurt but please know this is not a good friend.weite her off..she is jealous and remember jealousy has nothing to do with you and what you have it has more to do about her heart
Sine it's not really frnd your wedding beautiful you happy with you life makathi go life wakho she is a snake