Ep4 NJAMBI TRHK BREAKS THE SILENCE ON HER MARRIAGE

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  • Ep4 NJAMBI TRHK BREAKS THE SILENCE ON HER MARRIAGE
    Njambi TRHK opens up and shares on what transpired between her and her baby daddy!

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  • @ShiiKabaya
    @ShiiKabaya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    This other girl 🤦🤦 it's not your story mamii...it's not about you 🤦🤦🤦
    Njambi, it is well. Sending you love and light 💛💛💛💛

    • @rachelmaina2680
      @rachelmaina2680 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      👍

    • @gracengari3547
      @gracengari3547 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is what bestie mean

    • @mariemarie6545
      @mariemarie6545 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No it's not but she is her rock.
      Every girl needs a best friend like that... the one you can laugh at life with.

    • @PaulaKoky
      @PaulaKoky ปีที่แล้ว

      A true bestie indeed❤️❤️

  • @jennyjano3485
    @jennyjano3485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Mama Dede anaongea sana hadi hata Haacht Njambi time ya kuongea..mngepea mama Dede part yake na Njambi part yake..sorry aki Njambi that you had to go thru all that😭😭you have peace now and God will give you a right person at the right time ❤️

  • @mercymulandi5102
    @mercymulandi5102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Lynn ngugi please come for our girl.. she need space to pour her heart out... Cry n laugh Lynn will do this better..Njambi 😭😭😭 please do its a healing process...

    • @SeraphineOkumu
      @SeraphineOkumu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lynn will definitely do justice to her story and open avenues to seek counseling that she really needs

    • @jacquelyn_mwende254
      @jacquelyn_mwende254 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Let's tag Lynn

    • @africangirl189
      @africangirl189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She doesn't need Lynn she already has her channel and she's also influential.

    • @mercymulandi5102
      @mercymulandi5102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@africangirl189 i know.... But she needs somebody to listen to her.

    • @louisawambui4475
      @louisawambui4475 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@mercymulandi5102 she has friends and family that have been there for her and will continue being there for her.

  • @preetypreetydoll1788
    @preetypreetydoll1788 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Kindly this is njambi story but I felt like her friend took the show she explained everything for her😏

    • @estherwauji1598
      @estherwauji1598 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aki yeye ndo alikua ana bonga sana

  • @evewanjiku9289
    @evewanjiku9289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Mama Dede this is not your time surely..nyamaza kiasi let the girl talk it out!!!!

    • @joannemarley9925
      @joannemarley9925 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Aqy anaongea sana 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @janewambui8681
      @janewambui8681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Anaogea Sana aki ata anaboo

    • @charitykamum3191
      @charitykamum3191 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I dont think this is an interview its a conversation between friends is just that its on camera coz in reality mki discuss an incident mkiwa na friends its normal mkiongea wote...aki Kenyans mnakuwanga petty.this is not Mungai eve's or Lyn ngugi's interview mcheeeew!

    • @ambitiousqueen2545
      @ambitiousqueen2545 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂ata the interviewer haongeii juu hapati time ya kuuliza maswalii😂😂😂😂

    • @eve4053
      @eve4053 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      true she is talk over her ‘ next do better

  • @lilynelly4419
    @lilynelly4419 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I can feel your pain Behind that Laughter Njambi. Honestly, let's not even laugh about it.! I have been there and I know how DEEPLY hurtful this is..Glad you walked away, God will turn all that Pain into Happiness 💞💞

  • @teshmasii5441
    @teshmasii5441 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I wish njambii could narrate the story herself

  • @mumbijess6458
    @mumbijess6458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    As bizarre as it may sounds....when you're in it, even though you feel something is wrong and you've been neglected, taken for granted, ignored, invalidated, manipulated, and unheard constantly, you DO NOT realise that is EMOTIONAL ABUSE. Bravo!! I commend your courage and strength to voice what so many of us secretly would love to do…expose the person who gets pleasure from dimming our light and making us question who we are.

  • @nkathamwirigi5546
    @nkathamwirigi5546 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It's hard to follow up this story juu best friend anaongea Sana.

  • @esthergichobe2658
    @esthergichobe2658 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Ukirudi soko uende Syd ya apples...May God c u thru...u made a brave move...thnx for stayin alive for tha kids...

  • @peterwangare6036
    @peterwangare6036 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    And a kind request....to all those watching and you've not subscribed please do, let's support her and make her feel loved 💗 ndio pia aweze kutaftia tutoi...

  • @petersakit5185
    @petersakit5185 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Please let Njambi pour her heart out! It would be better without endless interceptions! Mimi ningependa kiskia Njambi pekee

  • @letscookeasyrecipes2370
    @letscookeasyrecipes2370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Thanks mama Dede for being there for Njambi...you are a rare friend. .but please take several seats somewhere and let Njambi tell her story.tutakuita tukitaka kuskia your side( which i doubt we Will)
    Njambi you are a strong woman..You will be alright. Trust the process

    • @ireanriyaitah9319
      @ireanriyaitah9319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @maryannenjagi4914
      @maryannenjagi4914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They went about this all wrong,njambi needs encouraging words,as a friend apa unafaa uangalie na macho and support her in her decision

    • @nancywangare5907
      @nancywangare5907 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Kweli anaongea sana

    • @annieann0012
      @annieann0012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣💔💔💔

    • @Sherryjay974
      @Sherryjay974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She's talking too much nkt

  • @conniejepchumba7953
    @conniejepchumba7953 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Someone give Njambi a platform to pour out.. It is as if the story is about the friend, hampei chance 😉

  • @lucymunyaomedia4335
    @lucymunyaomedia4335 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Cograts Njambi for moving on, you couldn't never go anywhere with such a person.

  • @that_truth_teller001
    @that_truth_teller001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Narcissism is pretty common nowadays, lets kindly educate ourselves on that topic to avoid falling prey to their traps. They do not have a perfect partner, their motive is that of the satan, to steal your joy, kill you or your spirit and destroy one completely.
    Follow Benjamin Zulu he has great insights on that, also Njambi therapy would really do you good, you will be able to know what made you a target or you might keeping attracting them.
    I for example had poor boundaries, but i am now working on them.
    I love that you came out with this story because you are going to save so many people by raising awareness.
    Power to you bossbabe.

  • @lucyoneah4032
    @lucyoneah4032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    If am not wrong, they started living together after just 1 week of knowing each other...I now believe it's important to know someone very well first

    • @praizesjovial209
      @praizesjovial209 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah

    • @cyruskiiru2961
      @cyruskiiru2961 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You may know each other for 5yrs and end up kupigana for me i only dated my husband for 6days and am 4yrs in marriage and we're happy

    • @maryaika9645
      @maryaika9645 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don’t be full of yourself
      No one knows the other person better
      But since your judge and jury
      Mimi nafunika KOMBE mwanaharamu apite

  • @miriamsichei8765
    @miriamsichei8765 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Lynn Ngugi can handle this better someone to tag her 🙏

    • @Ahejanapictures1939
      @Ahejanapictures1939 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I second you

    • @bettynthembwa760
      @bettynthembwa760 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Couldn't agree more...I hope she finds Njambi and interviews her

    • @shirondungu4412
      @shirondungu4412 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      U are right miriam

    • @cindyjoy2422
      @cindyjoy2422 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Lyn Ngugi

    • @lilynelly4419
      @lilynelly4419 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      True. Njambi is masking a lot of pain behind that Laughter. Lynn does come with a councilor sometimes that can help the victim overcome what she's been through

  • @princessdee9796
    @princessdee9796 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I thought i'm the only person going through hell. Same thing happened to me. May God give us strength as women because we really go through alot.

    • @missmoraa4160
      @missmoraa4160 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pole mum

    • @princessdee9796
      @princessdee9796 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@missmoraa4160 asante dear

    • @naomionyancha388
      @naomionyancha388 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@missmoraa4160 gwa you are my name sake as in Moraa Onyancha..

    • @rodahmuriu782
      @rodahmuriu782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      More power to you girl

  • @mourinemanyasi2275
    @mourinemanyasi2275 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lynn Ngungu kindly reach out to Njambi so that she can talk about her story.

  • @HM-cw3qo
    @HM-cw3qo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    As a person who works in the criminal justice field I have to say that once you have left please do not go back. Unfortunately the consequences of going back could be fatal. Statistics show that the period of time when a woman leaves an abusive relationship can be a very dangerous time due to the person wanting retaliation. Please be mindful and keep yourself and family safe. Thank you for being so transparent and open. If possible please seek therapy in order to start healing.

    • @kangese
      @kangese 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      great advice

  • @nancychege5002
    @nancychege5002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Woiye it's great you moved on, that is the 1st step to healing. Self love comes first always

  • @robertgichuhi7874
    @robertgichuhi7874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    As you guys said if you experience any form of abuse whether physical, mental even spiritual..please see yourself out. There’s no giving any second chance!!

  • @misssergon
    @misssergon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wueh I feel you Njambi... My experience too, alafu mnaulizia why single motherhood is rising. Marriage nowdaiz isn't easy😭. Congratulations for stepping out

  • @bettiesedafia5323
    @bettiesedafia5323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This other woman anaongea sana let Njambi share her story in peace ,you keep interrupting her

  • @marykioko8427
    @marykioko8427 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    What is the purpose of this other woman? She keeps interrupting Njambi!

    • @maryannnjoki2318
      @maryannnjoki2318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Anashinda "my man" "my man"

    • @annieann0012
      @annieann0012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      heri hangekuwa hapo hii story ingenice

    • @SO-xi6vm
      @SO-xi6vm 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel like she was her support system all through the way ....njambi asked her to be there amsaidie kuongea ...

  • @staceypearson12
    @staceypearson12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'm 21 and this is so Heartbreaking I swear 😭😭💔Literally shed a tear Receive Virtual Hugs Bernice♥️

  • @reginanm8671
    @reginanm8671 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Njambi, pole for what you have been through! You are beautiful 🥰 u deserve the best
    Meanwhile I don't want my best friend to be this MOUTHEDD, even if I have opened up to you, leave me to tell my story when I get a chance to!

    • @estherjapheth7234
      @estherjapheth7234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True, it's not in your place as my friend to tell my story in any way

    • @jesengelkirwa
      @jesengelkirwa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I came here to say the exact thing!She's doing too much!Like let her tell HER story!It's like for every sentence Njambi puts it,madam has to one up her!

    • @carolinewanja8799
      @carolinewanja8799 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Waah i felt so! she is even talking like story ni yake... mpaka mwenye story hana time ya kuongea!

    • @nettyad
      @nettyad 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree

  • @maureennish6436
    @maureennish6436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I feel for Darell i hope the father will allow him to come stay with you 💔

  • @nancyrivera8201
    @nancyrivera8201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Domestic violence is never ok, it’s good you walked away. Mama Dede will lead you astray what works for her will not necessarily work for you. Njambi moving forward punguza sherehe wacha pombe mingi cigarettes and weed. Your mind will be so clear and you will make better decisions. Good luck to you.

    • @franknetm
      @franknetm 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes let's call it as it is, huyu mama dede ni very very bad influencer pombe na kilabu is her favorite hobby, njambi wacha pombe na huyu rafiki kimbia kabisa.

  • @virginiamuthoni6726
    @virginiamuthoni6726 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thanks for sharing your story.
    Moral lesson:Lets date the right person and take time to know someone very well before marrying them.

  • @priscaooko4626
    @priscaooko4626 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You guys wachaneni na dede. Thats her talking nature.they are both narrating their experiences..

  • @judy_nganga
    @judy_nganga 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Cry the sad tears away and create room for happy tears....

  • @faithdee2546
    @faithdee2546 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    True friendship... just love their vibe 😂😂😂

  • @cynthiaKaninu
    @cynthiaKaninu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I feel this was supposed to be Njambi's story .....it's about her life but Mama Dede took over intercepting all the time...
    It's wrong

    • @nzisamutua6062
      @nzisamutua6062 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I almost thought it’s her story🙄

    • @moshiwamboi1266
      @moshiwamboi1266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Umeona I don't think she is a true friend

    • @chelsycarol
      @chelsycarol 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know right 🙄

    • @ciccoann2311
      @ciccoann2311 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@moshiwamboi1266 huyu si rafiki,,ati nilikutumia pesa ya stima,,

  • @perisnjokichege1579
    @perisnjokichege1579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Now I understand why Sonia left... But we got you girl, God got you.. You shall never lack

    • @_Andrea
      @_Andrea 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Is Sonia his previous girlfriend

    • @perisnjokichege1579
      @perisnjokichege1579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sonia ni Mama Darren

    • @irenebrian5084
      @irenebrian5084 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@perisnjokichege1579 alikuwa wife wake pia if yes si amefurahi bcz that brukenge hawezi keep a woman

    • @perisnjokichege1579
      @perisnjokichege1579 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@irenebrian5084 lazima

  • @Kate_Janet_Ogalo
    @Kate_Janet_Ogalo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I used to see the red flags in this marriage from the day you introduced him here....I never liked that guy 🙄🙄🙄..the way he used to treat you hata on TH-cam pthoo...thank God you left

    • @bettynthembwa760
      @bettynthembwa760 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Plus,he had two kids from the previous marriage...She never investigated more about his previous marriage.

    • @Sungujuliet.
      @Sungujuliet. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same I didn't like him..too ghetto

  • @Herhealingtouch6683
    @Herhealingtouch6683 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I thought this was Njambi story to tell , Mama Dede talks too much ....

  • @glorysihugo9815
    @glorysihugo9815 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Mama Dede uko na kiherehere mbaya .....it's not your time to talk .....jamby it shall well sending you hugs and love

  • @KK-yv9fl
    @KK-yv9fl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Mama dede unaongea sana....it's not your story

  • @annejoyce7494
    @annejoyce7494 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Perpetrators never change, that is why homicide happens to victims. Mama dede or whoever you call yourself, stop advocating for victims to return to their abusers because the abuser loves a stepchild. Please read on domestic violence and the theories behind it before you take the role of an advisor 😐

    • @Dnt4kwtm
      @Dnt4kwtm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

    • @franknetm
      @franknetm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This mama dede is bad character, hawa ni bad infuencers.

    • @paulinewairimu2347
      @paulinewairimu2347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mama Dede is protection her friend, don't know why you have a problem with her.

    • @teshmasii5441
      @teshmasii5441 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel anachocha stori saaana.

    • @nyambekispalace1407
      @nyambekispalace1407 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@teshmasii5441 hujui

  • @peterwangare6036
    @peterwangare6036 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Naa....si muache Njambi ajiongee cause it will help with healing... anyways Njambi it's not,what you've gone through and it's gonna be okay someday soon.....I love you personally,juu olyou one strong woman I know....be strong,hang in there.....but therapy will do you some good @ Lynn
    Ngugi find Njambi and have a conversation with her cause she holding a lot inside

  • @orandobenson6023
    @orandobenson6023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We need an independent interview ya Njambi she needs space to tell her story well that will also help another disturbed soul somewhere, wishing you the best Njambi

  • @annengei2814
    @annengei2814 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Jamby your story and mine are same,I got the courage to leave this person and if I tell u today 8years down the line my life has changed drastically and I am a single mum smiling, independent and living my life.Wacha marriage ikae kwanza

    • @sylfiailavonga9867
      @sylfiailavonga9867 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My sister your happiness matters alot. Go go go girl 👌💃💃💃

  • @gracenyaboke8483
    @gracenyaboke8483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This interview could have gone even well with Njambi n the gentleman.Ive struggled to follow thru.

  • @annengei2814
    @annengei2814 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love her courage, your very strong mama keep pushing, all will be well. Just keep focus God will be with u

  • @EBN-Trendings-
    @EBN-Trendings- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mama dede is a true friend,without her in the show Njamby angejitoa inje sana

  • @bleasedannec744
    @bleasedannec744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Went through the same in marriage once I got strength to leave he denied his daughter. She's 16 now God is good.

  • @faithsangale2482
    @faithsangale2482 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Whoa!,I just recalled such an abusive relationship I was in it took me time to heal but I moved on weuh pole

  • @marywanjiru6446
    @marywanjiru6446 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I want to listen to Njambi’s story bila uyo bffs aki because wanaharibu mbaya…….LYNN NGUGI upon wapi?

  • @SharonNgina33
    @SharonNgina33 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Take 2 with Njambi and the gentleman.let Njambi tell her story then the friend to tell his side ikue a part 2 story.Iam struggling to shikanisha.

  • @sarahgoretty2103
    @sarahgoretty2103 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How come every time a relationship is not working every body always sees the cracks except the one inside. Right from young blended family it was clear you are the one who was in love and you are the only one who wanted that marriage to work

  • @nitflexx8745
    @nitflexx8745 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was perusing through the comments before watching.... And now i can't watch Cz of Soo many complaints of the other lady... Someone pliz summarize for me

  • @derrickwanambisi2438
    @derrickwanambisi2438 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Am truly sorry for the ordeal that you went through! I also comend you on the bold and very wise decision of walking out of that abusive, controlling and toxic relationship. I hope God heals you and open ways for you to move on comfortably with your kids. One personal advice I would give you for free is, never look back!! People of your exs character never change. Excessively possessive and physically violent people never change their character. He might come back and promise to change and never to lay a finger on you but that will only for a short while. And I can guarantee when he starts doing it again he will kill you. Someone who truely loves and cares for you wouldnt hurt you especially physicaly! Stay af far away from that man as possible. Focuss on bettering yourself, your art, and a source of income. Be arround people who love you like your friends and family. Get a job, get busy and never for a single minute sit down and sulk or blame yourself for anything. Your saftey and well being and those of your kids come first. Another thing dont lock things in, talk about it , let it out, cry , cry, and cry some more. Its all part of the healing process. Give yourself time to heal ....... you are still a young , beautiful lady. The right man will come your way and this sad past will all be a dream.
    Ohhh lastly never ever ,ever ever sit down and think of taking your own life so many people love you, your friends, relarives , kids , even strangers like us. Let not one person drive you to that very selfish act. And as I have mentioned above we all love you so much and pray you heal from this dark ordeal.

  • @rachelmwangi6408
    @rachelmwangi6408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Mama Dede learn how to give the other person chance to talk!!

  • @ekwenyeakisa5327
    @ekwenyeakisa5327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You will find love one time your still young people get married even when you not expect

  • @monicawanjiru8268
    @monicawanjiru8268 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Njambi? I can tell how much u are trying not to cry, but I so much understand how u r feeling bcoz av gone through it,but God brought u into my dreams today towards the morning of 26th of August 2022 n the story was about ur marriage n how u r really feeling.so just know God is with u n he is fighting for u.n he has heard ur secret cry.just know that somewhere in this Kenya someone is praying for you.

  • @sharontasha3947
    @sharontasha3947 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sorry njambi for what you've gone through, Usijali mamaa it's now a past you are now in a better place, All will be well mummy, much love ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @nyashu6464
    @nyashu6464 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    A friend puts her phone on silent while her 'best friend' is getting beat up...ati so that her friend's issues don't trigger hers aiii how is that a friend ...

    • @louisawambui4475
      @louisawambui4475 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You would have to get to that point to understand. You cant be the shoulder to cry on every time and live in fear that your friend will die because she/he doesn't want to leave. It will start damaging you.

  • @kamaafaye1264
    @kamaafaye1264 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Please the friend keep quiet tafuta Lynn so that we can get the full story. We love you Njambi

  • @irenebrian5084
    @irenebrian5084 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Beste anatomboa Hadi za ndani

    • @teshmasii5441
      @teshmasii5441 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      A very bad friend.

    • @teshmasii5441
      @teshmasii5441 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I noted

    • @irenebrian5084
      @irenebrian5084 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@teshmasii5441 haki Njambi anajaribu kuficha some and she's like unakumbuka venye alikupiga ...woi

  • @rodahmuriu782
    @rodahmuriu782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    14 mins in and I thank God I just left my last relationship.
    I'm sorry Njambi, you gonna be well

  • @catemiss..
    @catemiss.. ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Njambis laughter is a cry for help. I hope she gets through this. Praying for Darrell too 💕💕

  • @nash5973
    @nash5973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am Soo sorry njambi. Nakutambua,and I Know God will guide you. Please be a prayerful mother and claim your marriage back. Pray for him he'll change and heal. Hakuna kisicho msinda mungu. Do it for the sake of your children.

  • @blessedpiece9319
    @blessedpiece9319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am so sure alot of pple are also facing the same thing God gave you the grace

  • @ruthkiriba8419
    @ruthkiriba8419 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I disagree with you njambi going back to him just shake I dust and step on it

  • @marykimanda5784
    @marykimanda5784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Akh hio part ya Darren kukuliiza akh uliniacha nayo nimelia😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @ngareeve
    @ngareeve 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Pretty Njambi. May God see you through this moment, give you wisdom and guide your path. I know what this feels like. God bless you forever. On the other hand Sasa Kim😊

  • @yvonnekabiru5814
    @yvonnekabiru5814 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Comments pia zimenimbamba sana its all about the other lady amezuiya tupewe chai yote 😂😂😂

  • @mercynjenga1780
    @mercynjenga1780 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This lady should allow njambi to talk

  • @lilliankaranja306
    @lilliankaranja306 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel her friend wanting to narrate....when your best friend is in pain you feel like you have been in the pain together

  • @myexpatlife9179
    @myexpatlife9179 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Huyu mama mwingine ni nani. Me nimekuja kuskiza Njambi lakini huyu naye anaongea mob aki

  • @dorcasnimoh3581
    @dorcasnimoh3581 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    this si so sad,,, just concentrate on giving us content,,we are here to support you.don't give up.

  • @Fenicvibes
    @Fenicvibes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Mama Dede talks a lot.. She should learn communication etiquette, stop cutting people off

  • @happysoul3573
    @happysoul3573 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have learnt a lot from this,much love from 🇶🇦

  • @ticktoktrendsofficial8691
    @ticktoktrendsofficial8691 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Mama Dede peana space ya kuongea

  • @andrewntabo2457
    @andrewntabo2457 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dear Mama Dede,
    Having a friend like you is dangerous in many ways! Too much talk and noise mob!
    Njambi, I love this part of you the real deal!
    Hopefully by now you are okay!

  • @favournganga4258
    @favournganga4258 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's not easy to leave,coz you already have soul ties with each other cemented by the words you say to each other.may God give you strength and rest.

  • @lydiamuriithi2602
    @lydiamuriithi2602 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please don't ever go back. I pray you heal and get loved the way you deserve.

  • @jennyheart08
    @jennyheart08 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Stop taking shit to mama dede she their as a friend ,,,Mama dede good job for standing with njambi 🥰❤️

  • @clementineonami
    @clementineonami 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It's hard to narrate of the experience with a narcissist without tearing up. Njambi take time, heal, acknowledge your part in all this too. \

  • @charitykamum3191
    @charitykamum3191 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    YAANI UNASKIA BESHTE ANACHAPWA OVER THE PHONE AND CANT HELP ATA KAMA SI WEWE UTAENDA KUSAIDIA YOU COULD ASK FOR HELP?!!

  • @u.acollins4730
    @u.acollins4730 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Times heals all wounds. Take it easy all will be well.

  • @leahnjambi9336
    @leahnjambi9336 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Atakuua njambi... don't go back to him please...

  • @lizzwangare433
    @lizzwangare433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mama dede si uwache njambi atuambie story...eeeish

  • @vivianakinyi6592
    @vivianakinyi6592 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    But why can't the friend let her narrate her story ...na Sasa wakirudiana ataeka wapi kichwa?

  • @simplykai95
    @simplykai95 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Njambi you did the right thing ,Itauma But take one day at a time . Let go and Let God 🙏🏻

  • @mizzcatt7691
    @mizzcatt7691 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was with mama dede until she suggested that Njambi considers taking that man back coz he loves her daughter..like really???what type of reasoning is that??are you really her friend??a man that openly threatens to harm and finish your friend you advice her to take him back ati ""watu hurudiana""worst advice ever

  • @sharleenjj8548
    @sharleenjj8548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hio part ya njambi amesema the guy was jealous, have met such type...they dont want your success,ukiupgrade masomo shida,biashara iki expand shida,yaani chali hataki your success

    • @norahyrron
      @norahyrron 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same WhatsApp group!! Sijui mbona wanaume wengine wako hivi

  • @Faith-re2rh
    @Faith-re2rh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This other lady talks ALOT .This was Njambis story nit yours nkt

  • @starmarie9621
    @starmarie9621 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Njambi arudie hii story bila huyu shosho anaitwa mama dede🙄🙄she talks too much na story ni ya njambi🤮🤮😏😏

    • @justdoit710
      @justdoit710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bana ! She should do her story with a professional like Lyn na huyu kiherehere asiwe

    • @annieann0012
      @annieann0012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      anaongea n ka story n yake nkt

    • @susanirungu1376
      @susanirungu1376 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂

    • @patriciakariuki4693
      @patriciakariuki4693 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣

  • @kemei28
    @kemei28 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is so sad😢Am glad you are okay now 🥰

  • @margaretwaiki1220
    @margaretwaiki1220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kwani unapeana stori yangu aki... especially hiyo part ya ukimshow umepata gig haiwezi go through🤦🤦.I was once there but today am happy,you too will be happy ❤️

  • @yvonnekabiru5814
    @yvonnekabiru5814 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    U both my fellow wemen..u should be hosted na Lynn.. but kila mtu na time yake ya kuongea... since the other lady has a lot to say... kwa story ya wenyewe. Yani she can't even let mwenye story aongee 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

    • @nancyotieno1510
      @nancyotieno1510 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shes so annoying, am doubting if she is genuinely for her friend

    • @pollymwas2911
      @pollymwas2911 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣 true

  • @lilaktv
    @lilaktv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I commend you for the courage you had to come out and give your story.. glad you making some of us get the courage to walk out of the abusive relationship we have been stuck in for a while.. sending hugs your way mamie❣️

  • @WorldStagee
    @WorldStagee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Njambi you have a good friend.I want such a friend

  • @mohanrohan7
    @mohanrohan7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Mama Dede..ur talking to much the story is not yours...njambi all will be well

    • @winnyshiro4166
      @winnyshiro4166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very true....she needs to calm diwn down and let Njambi tell her story at her own pace.

    • @staceywaithaka5743
      @staceywaithaka5743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aki anabooo

    • @judyjoyce8138
      @judyjoyce8138 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very true,anabooo vibaya

  • @arodiboyi
    @arodiboyi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We need a conversation on this idea especially among men and young couples that when a man provides that's what should define a relationship, can this be used as a barometer to gauge how relationships are to survive ?

  • @debrashiko2739
    @debrashiko2739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I am crying watching ,,,this is me now I dnt even love me anymore am drained not even once I have suicidal thoughts..... We dnt stay because we want to it's really hard

    • @maryannenjagi4914
      @maryannenjagi4914 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hugs mama ♥️

    • @kemmyKenya
      @kemmyKenya 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Get out of their,the hard part ni kupark na kutoka because God provides every other thing somehow

    • @peterwangare6036
      @peterwangare6036 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      But it would be better if you'd leave and continue living your life....

    • @rayfrancis8334
      @rayfrancis8334 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hugs mamaa

    • @zainabisa2748
      @zainabisa2748 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are loved, you are strong and God is with you, don't lose hope

  • @virginiamuthoni6726
    @virginiamuthoni6726 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    There is a time Njambi on your YT video you said that he was not there for you when you had a miscarriage.I knew that's not a good guy,Ata heri you could have left that time but finally you have left.I hope you find the guy who truly values you.