Gave my ex a second and a third chance and it burned me both times. I blame myself for those times because I should have known better. Now I know if my partner cheats, that's the end of it, no questions asked.
Only way I could forgive cheating is if my partner was drunk, and immediately afterwards confessed to me. That's a mistake I could forgive... if there's ever an instance of lying and manipulation in I, instant split
@@omalleycaboose5937nah man, you need to get your head together. If she got drunk around other men in a situation that could lead to that, that is completely on her, that is negligence and you never forgive negligence cause it means she doesn't give a f about you. If she got drunk in a "safe" enviroment and someome took advantage of that then that is rape not cheating and she should file it as such. If she doesn't then she basicaly saying she was cheating.
@@omalleycaboose5937 intoxication doesn’t simply make you do bad things and make these kinds of “mistakes”. what intoxication can and has been known to do is make a person more comfortable giving in to the “bad” side of their psyche that they would otherwise hide from the world. if your girl was truly, sincerely loyal, then the mere thought of sleeping with anyone other than you wouldn’t even be entertained in her mind, and most certainly would never be even the most remote of desires. someone who genuinely understands the value of loyalty in a relationship simply wouldn’t have any desire to wander, so even being drunk/high or whatever the case may be, intoxication isn’t just going to reshape your entire psyche, all it does is bind to your dopamine/serotonin/cannabinoid/gaba/opioid receptors, depending on what substance(s) may be involved. if your girl gets drunk and cheats on you, it’s 100% it’s because she actually found the guy attractive, and not just that, but sexually appealing and desirable. whether she’s known him for years or met him that night, if she’s entertained and actively observed a sexual desire for someone else despite being with you, then substances will 1000% give her that small “push” she needs (i use that word very loosely) to act on her darker, selfish desires. and this isn’t just exclusive to cheaters. EVERY human, from the genuinely kind hearted, to the most despicable humanity has to offer, have both virtuous as well as dark parts of our psyche’s. these can be hedonistic desires, a pattern of narcissistic or antisocial behavior, violence, addictions, r*cism, so on and so forth. some of us resist that part of our brains, choosing to be disciplined and try to be the best person possible, while others give in to it most often, but it doesn’t change the fact that we are all capable of amazing things, choosing virtue, love, kindness and generosity, we’re all equally capable of giving in to vice, hatred, violence and manipulative behavior. the only differences are within each individual’s mind, and what their darker traits consist of. you know yours, i know mine, etc etc. all intoxication does is make us FEEL more comfortable with giving in to our personal “dark side”, which is one reason intoxication affects people differently. for some they get angry. others spew hatred. others may lose control and recklessly indulge in harder substances. and some may just go cheat on their partner. these aren’t just random incidents, these are individual, deeply repressed psychological traits that, in part, can shape the person that we carry ourselves as. all of that is to say that if someone has never once tried a “hard” substance and has never felt a desire to do so, they’re not gonna get drunk and be wanting/doing lines 30 minutes later. now we’re all CAPABLE of violence, but for a decent percent, that may not be a defining trait of our darker psyche. if someone has never had a history of violence and has never felt any desire to physically hurt someone, even if that person hurt them, they’re not gonna be starting bar fights when they drink. the same applies with infidelity. all it is, is a subcategory for a much broader range of issues. manipulation, deceit, lust, and even antisocial behavior, sometimes even all of them may be present. but infidelity can fall into any of them. simply put, if your girlfriend made a “mistake” getting drunk and cheating on you, don’t be fooled. she was fantasizing about it long in advance, but that part she never told you. it’s super easy to use intoxication as an excuse for degenerate behavior, but what most dont understand is that it wasnt the intoxication that caused it. what caused it, is the person. that person has vices that they repress, constantly deceiving themselves because they dont wanna acknowledge that they may be sick in the head, or a bad person that just hasn’t yet found a way to excuse or get away with acting on these darker desires. the only role intoxication plays is as a catalyst. it simply eases our mind in to embracing our darker desires, and impairs our judgement which also impairs our ability to understand the consequences that can come after. they weren’t acting out of character, they were giving in to something already present in their mind. giving in to their urge to act on said desire. the scariest thing is that we cant read people’s minds (yet), so there’s no way to know what kind of darker urges lie in the minds of, well, anybody, and that includes our partners. and there’s only 2 ways to find out, which is if they tell you upfront about these things, or they dont, and once you find out, the action has already been taken. for cheating, however, the betrayal has already occurred in either scenario.
Except in this case, she was stupid. She wanted presents instead of exposing the truth (typical teen selfishness), got manipulated, mom talked shit about her dad to her, and then convinced her that the AP was her true bio-dad. Thankfully she realized her mistake and took responsibility for it. If she was smart, she would have exposed the truth immediately and not get manipulated by her Mom.
@@triforceofpowaI would say greedy she wasn’t so stupid she didn’t know wat she was doing was wrong but she was just greedy enough to let it happen and take up for her mom n the dude then came the true manipulation sometime after she has already got a taste for the gifts.
@@triforceofpowaShe knew it was wrong because of her initial reaction. She wasn't manipulated, she was bought. Showed exactly what type of daughter she is. If the law can hold teenagers to account if the severity is there, then so can a parent.
@loganblackwood2922 And "buying" someone isn't manipulative? You do know bribery is a crime for a reason lol. The mother lied to her daughter about her father being a bad guy, and convinced her that the AP was her actual father, and that her father isn't her real bio-dad. That is very manipulative...
Story 2: Definitely something hinky going on. Multiple phone calls and a text saying hospital and she ignores, dismisses, then blocks OP? That's straight up cheater behavior. Just think of how insane it is needing to set a rule that the word hospital is an emergency keyword.
Story 2: as soon as she starts talking about she thought you were being insecure about Guys at the club and all that bullshit, that means she's up to no good, get rid of her The fact that she wasn't taking you serious and even blocked you so you couldn't call her most likely means she was doing something she wasn't suppose to be doing
Gotta love people on the internet expecting adult level maturity and complete immunity to manipulation from literal children. If you were 13 and your dad started bringing around a woman who bought you gifts, and you were told she was your real mother and the woman who takes care of you was just a placeholder you'd be the exact same. Though I guess internet people treating children like adults explains why so many pedophiles are on here.
@@appeljuicesurf that might be true but sometimes it’s a forced marriage, it’s your choice no one is saying who you should marry or not but some people are forced to do it and some don’t know their true colors until they reveal themselves
@@Seren1ty_Streamsunless widowed they are suspect and best. Either they make bad decisions and choose bums or attempt to entrap. Or they are so bad a man will abandon his child to not deal with her…..
S1: 13 is old enough to know better. At 10, if I caught my mom cheating with the bio-dad I didn't know, I'd tell my adopted dad. Period. Daughter's only sad because she lost her private school and ballet lessons. This guy needs to take care of his son... and ONLY his son.
Well said. And when the daughter Lisa turns 18, sees what an evil person her mother is and disowns her, dates/marries a boy who cheats on her, he kicks her out with a baby on the way, and moves another girl in with him, she'll come to OP, and beg him to take her in, but he'll tell her to kick rocks.⚠️
Your decision to divorce seemed premature? She had a six month affair that your stepdaughter knew about! What’s premature with cutting the cancer out of your life?
No way I'd stay with someone who ignored and then blocked me after I told them I needed to go to the hospital. You absolutely need a partner who has your back. She wouldn't even answer a call to see if you were ok. Imagine having to use a code for your partner to actually come help when you ask for help. People have codes to get themselves out of unsafe situations discretely. She is disgusting.
Story 2 his gf was cheating and he can’t accept the fact that he means nothing to her. He is gonna remain the happy simp. And will be posting whining about how bad she treats him.
Story 2: she was getting her back blown out by chad so of course she couldn't let you interrupt her. Seriously, if she's that disrespectful towards you there's a good possibility she's cheating.
Dating single moms is like shopping in the clearance section where they have the goods nobody wants but there's always a dopey simp that thinks he got a great deal 😆
Just sad stories to hear about. To each there own but I really wouldn't keep any relationship with the kid, in the end it's not his maybe the other one is not even his 😂
OP said its unlike her to say she's sorry and own up to it. That alone tells me she is very immature and OP should leave. Her lack of respect for him as a partner I'd ultimately why this happened. No caring partner would ignore their continuous messages of distress like that.
Absolutely crazy that dude in story 2 decided to stay "complicated" with her after he called her and told her he had to go to hospital. Red flag man Prank or not she should have tried to make her way back at least to check on him. The fact she laughed and blocked his number when he tried calling her and tell her he had to go to the hospital is nuts and his comment section has the nerve to try to justify it.
Naw. She didn't care, clearly didn't love him. No amount of 'but muh families' means jack shit because she'll do it again. This dude's clearly got low self-esteem. Oh Jesus Christ 'what did YOU do to her to make her ignore you?' Because God forbid a woman be the bad guy.
S1: It's always funny how cheaters think that they have a side to explain S2: I could understand if OP had a history of this. I remember a story where the husband would feign illness to get out of social situations or to not go anywhere. OP doesn't seem to have a history of this so the gf was out of line and I'd honestly not trust her. It's also kinda suspicious that she kept denying his calls. I mean how hard was it to answer a simple call. Even if he doesn't leave her I think the resentment of her for this will eat away at him to the point that the relationship falls apart. I wouldn't prolong the inevitable.
This is why the good and high value men have the PassPort Bros. We don't need strong and independent woman. We need soft and feminine woman. Woman who know how to be real woman who show Love, Compassion, Empathy, listening skills, and Understanding to those who truely deserve it!
Wf? 13 is old enough o quesion "He's your biodad" "So where he hell has he been all these years? Why is he only back now? Why has he never been in touch?" Mother's lies or whatever, the daughter is more than old enough to know she was acting out of pure greed. I hate the term but she is a true grotch goblin.
On the balls - hospital story. If you need help - leave your house and go pass out on the sidewalk if you live in the city. I'm from the Midwest and id find it hard to not find someone to drive me to the hospital.
Story 1: is making a mistake bc of love and he knows it considering he scared to get a dna test on his son. Story 2: he’s just stupid all around, how u letting ur girl go to a CLUB without u.
In my, most probably unpopular, opinion, if a partner even considers cheating for any amount of time.. even half of a half of a second, it's over. There are literally billions of other people out there, it's almost impossible NOT to meet someone else. Forget cheaters, forgive them for your own sake, but don't waste another moment on them. They DO NOT respect you.
I'd tell the friends that when it happens to them if they want to do that then go right ahead. And the daughter knew what she said. I'm pretty sure she said it with a straight face and no remorse. In Story 2 nobody ever jokes that they need to go to the hospital. She was cruel for what she did and she should have taken what you said more serious but instead she blocked you and made it take longer to get to the hospital.
For the 2nd story, OP was exaggerating. 1. Testicular torsion hurts but doesn’t cause the severity of symptoms that OP was describing. 2. Out of work for several weeks after testicular torsion surgery? C’mon! It’s more like a week or so. I’m speaking from personal experience and also being in the field.
Is it just me or when he asked his wife the question "Have you spoken to AP since our falling out" and her answer was "I have completely cut contact with him" She did not answer the question. She could have cut contact 5 minutes before they met.
"Workout heading her out"? He did great her out... Why does that always seem to mean hear them make excuses that make you forgive them and not the truth?
Second story, clearly she is a narcissist. If you don't leave her then what she does to you from now on will be your fault. She showed you exactly where you stand with her. Her party time is more important than your physical health. And all the conversations that you had with her when you finally came home was rehearsed. That's why she blamed you for not making it more clear to her. Believe me even if you made it more clear to her she would have told you to call an ambulance because she had been drinking and can't drive. Then she would have stayed at the bar with her friends getting drunk than said I will go to the hospital tomorrow because there was nothing she could do about it. This is exactly what narcissistic people do. They will never put someone else's problems above their wants. And when you point out it was an emergency they would still figure out a way to blame you for interfering with their plans. So like I've stated before if you don't leave her now it will be your fault for that she does to you because you can't use the excuse that you didn't know how she is. If a person is an alcoholic can you honestly think if they told you that they wouldn't drink but then end up getting drunk then they are to blame? A narcissistic is a mental problem just like alcoholism is a disease. You can't blame a dog for shedding can you? So what she does to you later will be on you. You don't even want to know what narcissist do when they have a child that they can hold over you. You will never see your child again because they will say you molested the child then turn the child against you and also narcissist love to ch3at and tell their lovers you beat them. You are heading down a road that you have no idea what you are getting yourself into. And because I told you you can't use the excuse "I didn't know!" But go ahead and play with fire because you have feelings for the fire. It will never be a dull moment in your life. Good luck! Oh and now that I listened to more of your video. I see that she said she will do anything to get you back. She isn't doing this because she loves you, she's doing this because she doesn't want you to leave her. But if the shoe was on the other foot she would have no problem in leaving you. It's about getting what they want. It's not about you, it's about you leaving her. She a narcissist will always get what they want that is the most important thing to them. It's not about loosing you, it's about you leaving her! Think very hard about what I'm telling you. Narcissistic people are very clever. They manipulate everything so it looks like it's your fault. If you don't believe me look up about narcissistic people and what they do in relationships. Once you understand them than if you see any traits from a person that looks narcissist then you will run away from them. They have absolutely no remorse in destroying someone's life as long as they get what they want. Their favorite saying if you prove to them they are wrong is look what you made me do! Never forget what I'm telling you. Narcissist are pure evil. They have absolutely no remorse.
Single mothers that I know are nore forward, and kiss your a$$ just to get help for their own survival, stability, and that of their children. They are a team You are the tool. My experience. If you do love her, make her prove it by paying for dates, concerts, and trips. Not moving in with you. Keeping the father away..He cannot call...which is near impossible...So, no.
OP is a major idiot if he decides to stay in that little girls life. Yeah it sucks and its not her fault but keeping her around will do him more harm than it will her good. And what would become of that relationship when cheating wife inevitably gets a new man? Not many ways it can end well and plenty of ways it can turn fucked.
Story 1... hes weak ... story2 it couldn't have been too much of an emergency he declines emergency services jus to depend on his girl . This is your fault my guy
Story 1 Never give a cheater a 2nd chance. She will only cover her tracks better with the next affair...hes a super simp
Gave my ex a second and a third chance and it burned me both times. I blame myself for those times because I should have known better. Now I know if my partner cheats, that's the end of it, no questions asked.
I hate simp stories...
Divorce. No spouse should forgive a spouse who brings their AP to the marital home. That is beyond insulting and disrespectful.
Only way I could forgive cheating is if my partner was drunk, and immediately afterwards confessed to me. That's a mistake I could forgive... if there's ever an instance of lying and manipulation in I, instant split
@@omalleycaboose5937nah man, you need to get your head together.
If she got drunk around other men in a situation that could lead to that, that is completely on her, that is negligence and you never forgive negligence cause it means she doesn't give a f about you.
If she got drunk in a "safe" enviroment and someome took advantage of that then that is rape not cheating and she should file it as such. If she doesn't then she basicaly saying she was cheating.
@@omalleycaboose5937 intoxication doesn’t simply make you do bad things and make these kinds of “mistakes”. what intoxication can and has been known to do is make a person more comfortable giving in to the “bad” side of their psyche that they would otherwise hide from the world. if your girl was truly, sincerely loyal, then the mere thought of sleeping with anyone other than you wouldn’t even be entertained in her mind, and most certainly would never be even the most remote of desires. someone who genuinely understands the value of loyalty in a relationship simply wouldn’t have any desire to wander, so even being drunk/high or whatever the case may be, intoxication isn’t just going to reshape your entire psyche, all it does is bind to your dopamine/serotonin/cannabinoid/gaba/opioid receptors, depending on what substance(s) may be involved. if your girl gets drunk and cheats on you, it’s 100% it’s because she actually found the guy attractive, and not just that, but sexually appealing and desirable. whether she’s known him for years or met him that night, if she’s entertained and actively observed a sexual desire for someone else despite being with you, then substances will 1000% give her that small “push” she needs (i use that word very loosely) to act on her darker, selfish desires. and this isn’t just exclusive to cheaters. EVERY human, from the genuinely kind hearted, to the most despicable humanity has to offer, have both virtuous as well as dark parts of our psyche’s. these can be hedonistic desires, a pattern of narcissistic or antisocial behavior, violence, addictions, r*cism, so on and so forth. some of us resist that part of our brains, choosing to be disciplined and try to be the best person possible, while others give in to it most often, but it doesn’t change the fact that we are all capable of amazing things, choosing virtue, love, kindness and generosity, we’re all equally capable of giving in to vice, hatred, violence and manipulative behavior. the only differences are within each individual’s mind, and what their darker traits consist of. you know yours, i know mine, etc etc. all intoxication does is make us FEEL more comfortable with giving in to our personal “dark side”, which is one reason intoxication affects people differently. for some they get angry. others spew hatred. others may lose control and recklessly indulge in harder substances. and some may just go cheat on their partner. these aren’t just random incidents, these are individual, deeply repressed psychological traits that, in part, can shape the person that we carry ourselves as. all of that is to say that if someone has never once tried a “hard” substance and has never felt a desire to do so, they’re not gonna get drunk and be wanting/doing lines 30 minutes later. now we’re all CAPABLE of violence, but for a decent percent, that may not be a defining trait of our darker psyche. if someone has never had a history of violence and has never felt any desire to physically hurt someone, even if that person hurt them, they’re not gonna be starting bar fights when they drink. the same applies with infidelity. all it is, is a subcategory for a much broader range of issues. manipulation, deceit, lust, and even antisocial behavior, sometimes even all of them may be present. but infidelity can fall into any of them. simply put, if your girlfriend made a “mistake” getting drunk and cheating on you, don’t be fooled. she was fantasizing about it long in advance, but that part she never told you. it’s super easy to use intoxication as an excuse for degenerate behavior, but what most dont understand is that it wasnt the intoxication that caused it. what caused it, is the person. that person has vices that they repress, constantly deceiving themselves because they dont wanna acknowledge that they may be sick in the head, or a bad person that just hasn’t yet found a way to excuse or get away with acting on these darker desires. the only role intoxication plays is as a catalyst. it simply eases our mind in to embracing our darker desires, and impairs our judgement which also impairs our ability to understand the consequences that can come after. they weren’t acting out of character, they were giving in to something already present in their mind. giving in to their urge to act on said desire. the scariest thing is that we cant read people’s minds (yet), so there’s no way to know what kind of darker urges lie in the minds of, well, anybody, and that includes our partners. and there’s only 2 ways to find out, which is if they tell you upfront about these things, or they dont, and once you find out, the action has already been taken. for cheating, however, the betrayal has already occurred in either scenario.
Insulting
Disgusting
Disrespectful
Disloyal
People need to realize teens aren't stupid
Except in this case, she was stupid. She wanted presents instead of exposing the truth (typical teen selfishness), got manipulated, mom talked shit about her dad to her, and then convinced her that the AP was her true bio-dad. Thankfully she realized her mistake and took responsibility for it. If she was smart, she would have exposed the truth immediately and not get manipulated by her Mom.
@@triforceofpowaI would say greedy she wasn’t so stupid she didn’t know wat she was doing was wrong but she was just greedy enough to let it happen and take up for her mom n the dude then came the true manipulation sometime after she has already got a taste for the gifts.
@@triforceofpowaShe knew it was wrong because of her initial reaction. She wasn't manipulated, she was bought. Showed exactly what type of daughter she is. If the law can hold teenagers to account if the severity is there, then so can a parent.
@loganblackwood2922 And "buying" someone isn't manipulative? You do know bribery is a crime for a reason lol. The mother lied to her daughter about her father being a bad guy, and convinced her that the AP was her actual father, and that her father isn't her real bio-dad. That is very manipulative...
@@triforceofpowaHe's her step-dad, not father. He was dumb for adopting her.
Story 2: Definitely something hinky going on. Multiple phone calls and a text saying hospital and she ignores, dismisses, then blocks OP? That's straight up cheater behavior. Just think of how insane it is needing to set a rule that the word hospital is an emergency keyword.
He did use the word hospital.
Dear Men,
don't be a simp. Go all out ballistic, never compromise with your respect (feminist call it male ego)
Story 2: as soon as she starts talking about she thought you were being insecure about Guys at the club and all that bullshit, that means she's up to no good, get rid of her
The fact that she wasn't taking you serious and even blocked you so you couldn't call her most likely means she was doing something she wasn't suppose to be doing
S1: "My daughter. My daughter. My daughter."
She was never your daughter. Doormat.
He raised her
@@HayatHayat-s7h She sure as hell doesn't seem to think of him as her dad.
@@HayatHayat-s7h Yeah. It really showed when "Your not my dad".
Gotta love people on the internet expecting adult level maturity and complete immunity to manipulation from literal children. If you were 13 and your dad started bringing around a woman who bought you gifts, and you were told she was your real mother and the woman who takes care of you was just a placeholder you'd be the exact same. Though I guess internet people treating children like adults explains why so many pedophiles are on here.
@@agx8447 So you're saying all 13yo are stupid.
His first mistake was getting involved with a single mom. They are single for a reason.
Edit: the fact that she hit him is reason enough for divorce.
Not all single mothers are bad, there ones who the fathers leave because they don’t want children or they were just playing with the mothers
@@Seren1ty_Streams that might be true, but guess who picked the man.
The only single mom i would date is one where the father passed.
@@appeljuicesurf that might be true but sometimes it’s a forced marriage, it’s your choice no one is saying who you should marry or not but some people are forced to do it and some don’t know their true colors until they reveal themselves
Still, not worth the trouble @@Seren1ty_Streams
@@Seren1ty_Streamsunless widowed they are suspect and best. Either they make bad decisions and choose bums or attempt to entrap. Or they are so bad a man will abandon his child to not deal with her…..
S2: Sounds like some guy had her attention. You can't expect wife material from a club girl.
S1: 13 is old enough to know better. At 10, if I caught my mom cheating with the bio-dad I didn't know, I'd tell my adopted dad. Period. Daughter's only sad because she lost her private school and ballet lessons. This guy needs to take care of his son... and ONLY his son.
Well said. And when the daughter Lisa turns 18, sees what an evil person her mother is and disowns her, dates/marries a boy who cheats on her, he kicks her out with a baby on the way, and moves another girl in with him, she'll come to OP, and beg him to take her in, but he'll tell her to kick rocks.⚠️
This isn't even a close call. This person is not worthy of being your significant other.
Your decision to divorce seemed premature? She had a six month affair that your stepdaughter knew about! What’s premature with cutting the cancer out of your life?
No way I'd stay with someone who ignored and then blocked me after I told them I needed to go to the hospital. You absolutely need a partner who has your back. She wouldn't even answer a call to see if you were ok.
Imagine having to use a code for your partner to actually come help when you ask for help. People have codes to get themselves out of unsafe situations discretely. She is disgusting.
Story 2 his gf was cheating and he can’t accept the fact that he means nothing to her. He is gonna remain the happy simp. And will be posting whining about how bad she treats him.
When they start calling you insecure, you know they are cheating.
Story 2: she was getting her back blown out by chad so of course she couldn't let you interrupt her. Seriously, if she's that disrespectful towards you there's a good possibility she's cheating.
She aint your daughter, never was young fella. You loved her like a daughter, but she didn't feel the same. You was their ATM buddy
Yep. And after he stopped paying for her private schooling she wanted to be friends with him again!
dating single moms...not even once
story1) divorce
story2) dont get back and leave her
Dating single moms is like shopping in the clearance section where they have the goods nobody wants but there's always a dopey simp that thinks he got a great deal 😆
Good one 🤣
Hahahaha 😂
Youre wrong, it's shopping in the clearance section while paying premium prices for the items.
Girlfriend more interested in having fun than her boyfriend if she had picked up her phone once she would know the seriousness unforgivable
How a woman can respect a man that learns she hid a fact she has a kid for quite a long time and marries her after? Really?
OP needs to have their baby DNA tested. He needs to make sure as wife could be lying.
Story 1: Simpman.
Story one, of course she doesn't respect him. He's the beta provider who swooped in to clean up her mess of a life.
It is AMAZING how many people condone cheating!!!🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater!!!
#Divorce
#Goodbye
Single Mom : Massive Red Flag
Not always
Always bro I have seen two cases my own cousin too so stay away from single mom because as her X - comes you are nothing but Gaslight you@@Mahoraga4
This is incel mindset which is far more of a red flag than being a single mom will ever be.
Following your logic. Single Dad: Massive Red Flag
@@Chuvachoochoo69 Off courses but custody will mostly get to mother 😁
Just sad stories to hear about. To each there own but I really wouldn't keep any relationship with the kid, in the end it's not his maybe the other one is not even his 😂
OP said its unlike her to say she's sorry and own up to it. That alone tells me she is very immature and OP should leave. Her lack of respect for him as a partner I'd ultimately why this happened. No caring partner would ignore their continuous messages of distress like that.
yea...OP#1 is a Simp.
Absolutely crazy that dude in story 2 decided to stay "complicated" with her after he called her and told her he had to go to hospital. Red flag man
Prank or not she should have tried to make her way back at least to check on him. The fact she laughed and blocked his number when he tried calling her and tell her he had to go to the hospital is nuts and his comment section has the nerve to try to justify it.
Story 2. She's cheating.
Naw. She didn't care, clearly didn't love him. No amount of 'but muh families' means jack shit because she'll do it again. This dude's clearly got low self-esteem.
Oh Jesus Christ 'what did YOU do to her to make her ignore you?' Because God forbid a woman be the bad guy.
S1: It's always funny how cheaters think that they have a side to explain
S2: I could understand if OP had a history of this. I remember a story where the husband would feign illness to get out of social situations or to not go anywhere. OP doesn't seem to have a history of this so the gf was out of line and I'd honestly not trust her. It's also kinda suspicious that she kept denying his calls. I mean how hard was it to answer a simple call. Even if he doesn't leave her I think the resentment of her for this will eat away at him to the point that the relationship falls apart. I wouldn't prolong the inevitable.
This is why the good and high value men have the PassPort Bros. We don't need strong and independent woman. We need soft and feminine woman. Woman who know how to be real woman who show Love, Compassion, Empathy, listening skills, and Understanding to those who truely deserve it!
Never ever get relationship with single mom, so many trouble
The second op, you’re a serious whimp
Wf? 13 is old enough o quesion "He's your biodad" "So where he hell has he been all these years? Why is he only back now? Why has he never been in touch?" Mother's lies or whatever, the daughter is more than old enough to know she was acting out of pure greed. I hate the term but she is a true grotch goblin.
She never really cared about you!
On the balls - hospital story. If you need help - leave your house and go pass out on the sidewalk if you live in the city. I'm from the Midwest and id find it hard to not find someone to drive me to the hospital.
There will always be another daniel. OaC,AaC.
Story 2: I wouldn't have told her where I was. And I'd dump her, based on the fact she had no concern form me.
Why carrying other's burden ?? Daughter
An ungrateful step daughter and cheating wife
Story 1: is making a mistake bc of love and he knows it considering he scared to get a dna test on his son.
Story 2: he’s just stupid all around, how u letting ur girl go to a CLUB without u.
In my, most probably unpopular, opinion, if a partner even considers cheating for any amount of time.. even half of a half of a second, it's over. There are literally billions of other people out there, it's almost impossible NOT to meet someone else. Forget cheaters, forgive them for your own sake, but don't waste another moment on them. They DO NOT respect you.
The moral of this story. Follow your first mind. Lol.
First OP is pathetic
Married a single mom and adopted her child yeah you did that to yourself. The rest is typical
I'd tell the friends that when it happens to them if they want to do that then go right ahead. And the daughter knew what she said. I'm pretty sure she said it with a straight face and no remorse.
In Story 2 nobody ever jokes that they need to go to the hospital. She was cruel for what she did and she should have taken what you said more serious but instead she blocked you and made it take longer to get to the hospital.
For the 2nd story, OP was exaggerating. 1. Testicular torsion hurts but doesn’t cause the severity of symptoms that OP was describing. 2. Out of work for several weeks after testicular torsion surgery? C’mon! It’s more like a week or so. I’m speaking from personal experience and also being in the field.
You married a single mother and were justly rewarded.
Story 1 OP is a loser.
story2: Every cheater always answers when asked if they're cheating " I would never do some thing like that".
That's... critically dumb reasoning. What is a non-cheater supposed to say when asked that question? I've never cheated and that would be my answer.
@@goneloko1368 The point is, don't bother asking, cuz it's the same answer.
Is it just me or when he asked his wife the question "Have you spoken to AP since our falling out" and her answer was "I have completely cut contact with him" She did not answer the question. She could have cut contact 5 minutes before they met.
S1, what she told her daughter is even worst. He needs to run for the hills.
No. Make "Daniel" pay for everything now. No more seeking truth from a lying cheater. No reconciliation. The daughter knows better too.
Story two. The insecure comment is suspicious.
Divorce is the only way. You can't believe a cheater cuz they always lie to cover how bad it truly is
"Workout heading her out"? He did great her out... Why does that always seem to mean hear them make excuses that make you forgive them and not the truth?
Who in their rigjt mind dates any girl who does or has done clubbing
Oof that kid is gonna hate her mom more and more as life goes on.
Heard story 2 before, she was definitely cheating on him that night. As she said she wasn't going to let him ruin her night.
Some people just like being abused. Go figure.
Second story, clearly she is a narcissist. If you don't leave her then what she does to you from now on will be your fault. She showed you exactly where you stand with her. Her party time is more important than your physical health. And all the conversations that you had with her when you finally came home was rehearsed. That's why she blamed you for not making it more clear to her. Believe me even if you made it more clear to her she would have told you to call an ambulance because she had been drinking and can't drive. Then she would have stayed at the bar with her friends getting drunk than said I will go to the hospital tomorrow because there was nothing she could do about it. This is exactly what narcissistic people do. They will never put someone else's problems above their wants. And when you point out it was an emergency they would still figure out a way to blame you for interfering with their plans. So like I've stated before if you don't leave her now it will be your fault for that she does to you because you can't use the excuse that you didn't know how she is. If a person is an alcoholic can you honestly think if they told you that they wouldn't drink but then end up getting drunk then they are to blame? A narcissistic is a mental problem just like alcoholism is a disease. You can't blame a dog for shedding can you? So what she does to you later will be on you. You don't even want to know what narcissist do when they have a child that they can hold over you. You will never see your child again because they will say you molested the child then turn the child against you and also narcissist love to ch3at and tell their lovers you beat them. You are heading down a road that you have no idea what you are getting yourself into. And because I told you you can't use the excuse "I didn't know!" But go ahead and play with fire because you have feelings for the fire. It will never be a dull moment in your life. Good luck! Oh and now that I listened to more of your video. I see that she said she will do anything to get you back. She isn't doing this because she loves you, she's doing this because she doesn't want you to leave her. But if the shoe was on the other foot she would have no problem in leaving you. It's about getting what they want. It's not about you, it's about you leaving her. She a narcissist will always get what they want that is the most important thing to them. It's not about loosing you, it's about you leaving her! Think very hard about what I'm telling you. Narcissistic people are very clever. They manipulate everything so it looks like it's your fault. If you don't believe me look up about narcissistic people and what they do in relationships. Once you understand them than if you see any traits from a person that looks narcissist then you will run away from them. They have absolutely no remorse in destroying someone's life as long as they get what they want. Their favorite saying if you prove to them they are wrong is look what you made me do! Never forget what I'm telling you. Narcissist are pure evil. They have absolutely no remorse.
Story 2 you need to drop everything and respond to me but i aint gonna do that for you why you leaving me when i dont care about you
Ahhhh yes another goofy /slash doormat,can’t wait for the update on how she never left the guy alone 😂😂
I am disappointed in both OPs.
never forgive either of the women
Deluxe, pure, unadulterated, simping
Couple reason why some people dont go for single mother. The kid know and knew right from wrong but still cover mom. Would leave to another country
Super simp. The guy is a doormat. They only kicked and screamed when he took away their money.
Damn these make me not want to date a stay single
Is this the example you want your son to follow that if people disrespect you, you just suck it up?
Single mothers that I know are nore forward, and kiss your a$$ just to get help for their own survival, stability, and that of their children. They are a team You are the tool. My experience. If you do love her, make her prove it by paying for dates, concerts, and trips. Not moving in with you. Keeping the father away..He cannot call...which is near impossible...So, no.
In story #1, this guy is DEFINITELY a beta male!
She's not your daughter
DNA test & dump them both! For your own sake!!
OP is a major idiot if he decides to stay in that little girls life. Yeah it sucks and its not her fault but keeping her around will do him more harm than it will her good. And what would become of that relationship when cheating wife inevitably gets a new man? Not many ways it can end well and plenty of ways it can turn fucked.
Why the first thing people do is drink?
Omg he's staying with the cheater
Being a drunken Simp is shameful
Dude scorched earth and divorce is the only way.
The AP could the father of her daughter.
You are a fool if you let them back.
Not sure why you thought it was a good idea to get a drunk person to take u to the hospital
How about single dads.
Story 2 dudeif you need to have a password for her to care maybe........
Not worth listening to.
Dna test for the baby
See men and women cant be friends
f.... Just give me the story you are advertising dont need story 2 and 3 blabla done with this b.s.
Too many simp stories in this Channel..
Story 1... hes weak ... story2 it couldn't have been too much of an emergency he declines emergency services jus to depend on his girl . This is your fault my guy
To be fair. I wouldn't want to pay for an ambulance ride either if I could avoid it. Maybe that's just me being poor.
Story 2, you might keep her as a girlfriend but don't even think about marriage with her. She is not marriage material.