Ordering Chinese Takeout Then Tipping $5,000 to Struggling Restaurants

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 ก.พ. 2021
  • The first 1000 people to click the link will get a free trial of Skillshare’s Premium Membership: skl.sh/xiaomanyc11201 So this week I tipped $5,000 at some of my absolute favorite Chinese takeout spots in New York City. The whole restaurant industry in New York City has been devastated by COVID and Chinese restaurants have been particularly hard-hit. So I wanted to give them a nice tip to show them how much we love and support them here at Xiaomanyc! Especially because it's Chinese New Year and it's a perfect time to give these restaurants some nice red envelopes. If you would like to get out there and support these NYC restaurants yourself, here are links to their pages on Yelp. Most are located in NYC’s Manhattan Chinatown. They are all awesome and highly recommended!
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  • @xiaomanyc
    @xiaomanyc  3 ปีที่แล้ว +12291

    Thank you to these awesome restaurants & of course Skillshare for making the vid possible. And if you want to learn Chinese with check out: www.streetsmartlanguages.com/chinese

    • @gdepa741
      @gdepa741 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      So wholesome!

    • @conorbergan4843
      @conorbergan4843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Next headline “Man forces woman to take his money”

    • @knightsofaltier9628
      @knightsofaltier9628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Keep up the great work man! Your videos are truly inspirational and I've really enjoyed watching your channel. You got a sub from me! I'll keep practicing and maybe one day I'll speak as well as you. Thanks again and happy Chinese new year.

    • @eliperlov9713
      @eliperlov9713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      thats so fax this has to be one of the best vids on the channel so far

    • @zhefeng2266
      @zhefeng2266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Awesome!!!

  • @AxerionxX
    @AxerionxX 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26332

    Damm she told him that business is not going well and next thing she packing extra stuff and candy's omg that's how you know she does this with her heart. She deserves everything

    • @cagnazzo82
      @cagnazzo82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1597

      And she's fighting to give the money back. That's how you know she really deserves it.

    • @antimono
      @antimono 3 ปีที่แล้ว +205

      And $15 in China is actually $3 in Aussie dollars your know, like $2 in US bucks (btw i am saying that USD is worth more than AUD)

    • @cagnazzo82
      @cagnazzo82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +318

      @@antimono It's actually kind of in reverse. USD is worth more than AUSD, but I think I get what you mean.

    • @ComfyChaos
      @ComfyChaos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +348

      For real! I cried when she said she couldn't accept the money. The amount of love and humility in her heart...if I lived in NYC, I'd be going to her restaurant every day just to support her. ♥

    • @StudiosUntold
      @StudiosUntold 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@antimono They’re in NYC lol

  • @DerekFizzey
    @DerekFizzey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96250

    The First Lady deserves every single customer in the world.

    • @sethj7071
      @sethj7071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3714

      She was super sweet and kind

    • @Acxelly
      @Acxelly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +572

      Customer*

    • @johnmorpheus120
      @johnmorpheus120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2625

      God blessed that woman with a beautiful heart of gold that she freely gives to everyone she meets. May she be even more prosperous in the coming years of her life and she receive the honor she deserves.

    • @Bladeofwar94
      @Bladeofwar94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +495

      @@Acxelly Yes spelling is VERY important. Gotta slip it in real quick.

    • @Grahmps
      @Grahmps 3 ปีที่แล้ว +830

      It almost put a tear to my eye while also making me laugh at the same time for the fight as to them wanting to give back the money with xiaoma insisting they keep it. I lived in China for 10 years and it’s so wholesome.

  • @litebrite8993
    @litebrite8993 ปีที่แล้ว +3982

    The fact that the last guy didn't think he was really giving him the money "ok you got your footage you can take the money back" was really heart breaking. So sad to think that there are people out there doing fake 'give aways' so sad, glad our guy is the real deal, a gentleman through and through

    • @mjisurdad
      @mjisurdad ปีที่แล้ว +258

      It’s cause that’s what a lot of influencers do. They offer them 20 bucks to pretend to get 10k or some absurd amount of money. Glad he was able to actually help them.

    • @VincentGroenewold
      @VincentGroenewold ปีที่แล้ว +48

      It's because he's right about it. I'm totally not a fan of just handing out money for YT content, also not in this case. 5000 is ofcourse great, but it doesn't cover much in a business. Ergo, it's for the content.

    • @hariranormal5584
      @hariranormal5584 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      People like Mr beast are exactly like this and one day the truth will be revealed

    • @trekkiejunk
      @trekkiejunk ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Well, most are not fake, i don't think. Still, that doesn't mean they don't do it for the views. Xiaoman could have just donated without the camera on at all, and never tell us. He could have just shown footage of the restaurant, and encouraged people to patronize them while they struggled during the pandemic, while giving money off-camera. But he chose to record it. The last guy was on to something. While Xiaoman gave a real donation, he also did it for the views, and the tea guy was well aware of this. They all do it for the views. If they didn't, they wouldn't record it.

    • @typhlosionproductions5970
      @typhlosionproductions5970 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      @@VincentGroenewold a thousand dollars does cover a decent amount. It covers 1000$. If your running a restaurant struggling to get customers that could be a week of sales

  • @haxonprime1243
    @haxonprime1243 ปีที่แล้ว +1610

    My wife and I did this a few years back at a small mom and pop Chinese restaurant. It was around Christmas and we wanted to do something nice for them as they work harder then most restaurants in the area and their food is always amazing, so my wife suggested we make their holiday a wonderful one. I went to the bank before we headed to the restaurant, withdrew $4000 and we gifted it to them after we finished our meal. They tried to give it back as most of these wonderful people did, but we explained that it was for them and their many years of kindness and amazing food. They eventually accepted the money. Come spring time, they used the money to re paint the front of their restaurant, and they had an artist hand paint their businesses name in Chinese with a beautiful Koi fish right under the name. They still to this day express their gratefulness every time we enter through those doors. We are happy we made them happy. I wish more people spread this kind of love and joy for people like them.

    • @justagrrl1981
      @justagrrl1981 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Bless you and your wife

    • @rudytheduck4776
      @rudytheduck4776 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      That is so heartwarming! Great kindness from you and your wife to help them, I'm sure they are very happy!

    • @MKultraInstinct
      @MKultraInstinct 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Damn ok Mr Beast 👏🤣

    • @ryanolsen294
      @ryanolsen294 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      you are so kind ,love what you do

    • @msdustismith8919
      @msdustismith8919 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You and your wife are absolutely wonderful.

  • @MusicforMe123
    @MusicforMe123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10191

    The first lady broke my heart, she stated that she cannot cover her expenses but still took the time to give extras to her customers, which in itself says a lot about her as a person. I encourage everyone who lives close by to support businesses like hers through the tough times so that they can continue to serve the community. Save the businesses who care about customers over profit and we will all win as a result of that. This pandemic brought out not only the worst but the best in people and it is clear this lady deserves a fighting chance. Kindness is also infectious, pay it forward. Life is good, share it with good people!

    • @LukeSmithXD
      @LukeSmithXD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +176

      I agree! Here in the UK I've been avoiding the big food chains and focusing on smaller business, firstly out of personal preferences but also to help out. Let's just say I'm addicted to one cake shop 😊😭

    • @sunpacplussoftware5948
      @sunpacplussoftware5948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Totally agree, that lady has an exceptionally generous heart!

    • @thepowerofyourvoicepodcast
      @thepowerofyourvoicepodcast 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      I completely agree, many times these restaurant owners do things that the locals are not aware of. While staying in San Diego I was looking for restaurants that would donate food for the homeless and met a gentleman who owns a Chinese restaurant, he and his family make meals (large soup, rice, protein, vegs, and drink) and feed about 50 people 5 times a week. I have no idea how they do it, but they do, and just thought that was incredible. What incredible people with such a huge heart.

    • @MikePhoTravelVlogs
      @MikePhoTravelVlogs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Awesome Video 📸 Keep it up 💯💯

    • @weldog71
      @weldog71 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Please visit her!!

  • @andrewcarr2023
    @andrewcarr2023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6736

    The first woman is making me cry honestly. She's so upbeat and generous, offering him the complimentary tea and new-years candies, making conversation with him. She admits she is struggling, but tries to refuse the gift before she even knows how much it is, and then even more once she sees the amount.

    • @RedIce202
      @RedIce202 2 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      She is very humble and hard working

    • @cashkhang5705
      @cashkhang5705 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Hard working Asians don't take handouts.

    • @Naturaleza000
      @Naturaleza000 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      She talk about her husband it’s gonna kill her because some Chinese people are very strict with their wife and families and abusive

    • @ZoeMuller80
      @ZoeMuller80 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I think 99% of people would refuse the gift but give away almost everything they have to others

    • @actionfigureshi
      @actionfigureshi ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Reminds me of my friends mom Mrs. Chen. Thank you for all the food you cooked for us Mrs. Emy Chen!

  • @AR_119
    @AR_119 ปีที่แล้ว +2507

    In all honesty you most likely saved more than one business/ family from disaster here. This is a perfect example of why I love watching your channel. It's about spreading love and connecting with people.

    • @dot1703
      @dot1703 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      1k is nothing

    • @AR_119
      @AR_119 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      @@dot1703 he gave them each $5k. That's a lot. Even $1k is a lot. To a struggling business, it would help a ton.

    • @dot1703
      @dot1703 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      1k bro and its nothing compared to 2 years of bad earnings

    • @AR_119
      @AR_119 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dot1703 well if he gave them nothing it wouldn't do anything. Stop being an ass and just piss off. It was a good deed and helped a lot of people.

    • @dot1703
      @dot1703 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@AR_119 i just dont agree with the "helped a lot of people" thing. He atleast earned double the money, that he gave away, with his video. He should be in shame giving only 1k each

  • @dawgfacesoldier
    @dawgfacesoldier ปีที่แล้ว +897

    I'm a grown ass man (52 y/o), but I almost shed a couple of tears when the first lady tried to put the money into his bag. I love genuine people and she's one of them.

    • @kendraabbatoy5935
      @kendraabbatoy5935 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ok boomer

    • @Sofi_5staar
      @Sofi_5staar ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@kendraabbatoy5935HEY 😡

    • @SMFH999
      @SMFH999 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ok boomer

    • @Sofi_5staar
      @Sofi_5staar ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@SMFH999 hey, not nice 😡

    • @gottlicherhammer
      @gottlicherhammer ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@kendraabbatoy5935 There's another word that starts with B that suits you perfectly.

  • @Chidra217
    @Chidra217 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5824

    The way she didn't answer when he asked if she had a chance to rest, just told him to sit and drink the tea. What an amazing, humble, hardworking lady.

    • @singingwolf3929
      @singingwolf3929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      That was a cut in the video. Willing to bet her response was that she never rests. Either that or, because of the pandemic, she had the time to take a long rest. (This is no judgement on her. I took nearly a month off when the first lockdowns happened). The only other thing possible, is that the conversation Either got too personal or not interesting for viewers.

    • @ahmadnajmiroslan
      @ahmadnajmiroslan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Nah,you can see that she shaking her head that's mean no rest before the cut

    • @soul4real620
      @soul4real620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amazing work my friend 👏👏👏

    • @janeames1513
      @janeames1513 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      the thing i have noticed is in this country so many immigrants struggle to make it then get hate when they finally do make it...this is the land of the free and the melding pot of the world ..let's all try to boost our neighbors and support local shops..as for her getting rest?..nah you can see it in her face that she is busting her ass to barely keep her shop open..sad what this country has come to with the whole covid thing..so many businesses closing and families going bankrupt

    • @1996Pinocchio
      @1996Pinocchio 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She shook her head for a split second.

  • @MMASulu
    @MMASulu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6252

    You can tell the food truck guy is a traditional dad how he hides his emotions. We all know he was crying on the inside

    • @nicolgarcia4379
      @nicolgarcia4379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +151

      😭😢you're so right ❤️

    • @Sexybabe629
      @Sexybabe629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      Definitely a hard working man 👍🏼

    • @nicolgarcia4379
      @nicolgarcia4379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@Sexybabe629 👏👏👏💪💪💪💪

    • @HardSprinkle
      @HardSprinkle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +372

      I knew he was a dad when he texted Xiaoma “get your ass back here and take this money back” 😂

    • @nicolgarcia4379
      @nicolgarcia4379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@HardSprinkle hahahahahhahaha

  • @lttlejordan23
    @lttlejordan23 ปีที่แล้ว +408

    That first woman deserves a million more red envelopes! She was genuinely happy to see one customer walk through the doors and even though she said business hasn't been good, she still packed extra stuff in the bag. Doing it all with a smile. I hope this video brought some business her way. All of them really, but especially her. I just appreciate genuinely kind people.

  • @deviousbread
    @deviousbread ปีที่แล้ว +982

    Went to spicy village, it was so damn good! Saw the person you gave the $5000 too, she was such a hard worker, the place is packed, business is still booming. Came here from Hawaii, I don’t regret it, we don’t have “real” Chinese food. I love the culture in New York. Thanks for not being biased, and when I was done I went to a couple local places, told them where i ate, they said that was an amazing place and great choice. Thanks 🙏 would of never found this place without you. Also the soup dumplings are so good.

    • @epicfail1060
      @epicfail1060 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      thanks for the update on Wendy. i was verry curious on how shes been doin. Nice to hear shes doin good!

    • @scappel
      @scappel ปีที่แล้ว

      thanks for the update! i wish them all well in free america! never again a fake news pandemic to ruin lives of these hard working folks!

    • @Anonnermoose
      @Anonnermoose ปีที่แล้ว +26

      It was 1K not 5K

    • @mjisurdad
      @mjisurdad ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Anonnermoose 🤡

    • @Anonnermoose
      @Anonnermoose ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mjisurdad learn to count

  • @naomiburn8386
    @naomiburn8386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7358

    This man is living proof of the idea: learning a language opens whole worlds to you.

    • @barefootbooks69
      @barefootbooks69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Absolutely.

    • @helexable
      @helexable 3 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      Definitely, i started learning Spanish to better connect with people at work and even after just a week of learning you its a while new world. i can understand about 80% of whats being said if i have context and it makes it so much easier to communicate and truly understand people

    • @dustsans9859
      @dustsans9859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      I learned English, that gave me huge new opportunity, very cool

    • @progamertom7878
      @progamertom7878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@dustsans9859 (learnt*) there you go. One more slice of English you have learnt :)

    • @Alex-vk3mu
      @Alex-vk3mu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This comment is 100% true

  • @HorizonMelt
    @HorizonMelt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7751

    Wendy is talking about how she's worried about covering expenses and things are looking bleak, and yet her more driving force was to make sure you had hot tea and special things to take home to your wife. Love this. She's proof that we don't need to look to Hollywood, professional sports or Washington DC for role models on how to treat each other.

    • @ProcesareVideo
      @ProcesareVideo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Do you see in marxist government in US some role model?

    • @JustS0meK1dd
      @JustS0meK1dd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      @@ProcesareVideo What does this even mean?....

    • @jenkins5265
      @jenkins5265 2 ปีที่แล้ว +181

      @@ProcesareVideo it's a sad day when Americans see a small business owner being kind and say that's marxist. I wonder if you even understand the definition of marxist...maybe go back to school, if you ever went in the first place to be putting this kind of filth out on the internet.

    • @TheOriginalBijamist
      @TheOriginalBijamist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jenkins5265 He is talking about the US government

    • @quasarkid
      @quasarkid 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@TheOriginalBijamist the very NON marxist US government lmao, moderate social policies are called communism over here, marxism would go over very poorly

  • @itiscujo
    @itiscujo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    The fact that EVERY SINGLE ONE of the people you gave money to adamantly denied the money you gave them at first humbles me more than I can describe.😊

    • @nsebast
      @nsebast 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      As Chinese we were taught as children never to accept free things that we didnt work for.

  • @GIGroundNPound
    @GIGroundNPound ปีที่แล้ว +319

    Ooof, Wendy and her business are precious and an AWESOME example of the INCREDIBLE everyday hardworking American. That food looks amazing.....

    • @6digitzz
      @6digitzz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      american ?

    • @coughsyrupconnoisseur
      @coughsyrupconnoisseur 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@6digitzzshe’s an american citizen ain’t she? lol

  • @Oswald_Thatendswald
    @Oswald_Thatendswald 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1956

    That first lady is TOO nice. Over there struggling to survive and giving out jugs of tea and a bunch of candies lol The world doesn't deserve a soul as sweet as her.

    • @tonyswe9463
      @tonyswe9463 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Sweet lady

    • @vecspace
      @vecspace 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Chinese restaurant tend to do that for their regular customer, notwithstanding she is definitely a very nice ans genuine lady.

    • @hajinata
      @hajinata 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      YAAA SHES SO CUTE

    • @dennisbergkamp640
      @dennisbergkamp640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      There’s lots of people like her

    • @MotoFishingAdventurer
      @MotoFishingAdventurer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We need more sweat souls like here! This will make the world a better place!

  • @iBeSupicious
    @iBeSupicious 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2712

    My dude walks into the second spot and they already know what he wants. THAT is fucking precious. My corner store does that shit every day and I love them for it.

    • @allyma3
      @allyma3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      Thats when u know that they value u alot, like they probably get so many customers but they remember you. I lovr it too bcuz it shows that they actually acknowledge that you care about them too

    • @callboxib1661
      @callboxib1661 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      That's what happens when you go somewhere daily and they remember exactly what they want. I work at a grocery store and we sell cigarettes. There's this guy that comes in everyday and he always comes through my line because he knows that I know what kind he wants. And I don't even have to ask him if he needs them.

    • @amaloliesque
      @amaloliesque 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s the place he went to for the video with the best Chinese food in NYC! Love how he still goes back and is on a first name basis with owner now

    • @928musket
      @928musket 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My local chinese buisiness used to do this, they went out of business recently though.

    • @jadd.9355
      @jadd.9355 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Probably the best feelings you can get in the world

  • @sallydope6743
    @sallydope6743 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    The $1000 is cool, but free advertising on Xiaoma's channel is definitely better! I hope these restaurants/owners are doing well.

  • @kodij
    @kodij ปีที่แล้ว +178

    The enjoyment of this video is the fact that all of these people are so honorable that they don’t want to take the money because they believe they don’t deserve. Be grateful be a human and love each other.

  • @pluto587
    @pluto587 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2745

    It's amazing to see people who are struggling always willing to give. She just kept wanting to give you extra items and didn't want to even accept the money. You can tell she is a good person

    • @kiaderham
      @kiaderham 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      I wish she would have gotten the whole $5000. So sweet ❤

    • @ayuubabdirahman5275
      @ayuubabdirahman5275 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      She was soo humble and nice

    • @whome6415
      @whome6415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Glad to see the coronavirus people reaching out to each other!

    • @SM-ge7ee
      @SM-ge7ee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol my parents are like this when my aunt gives me 100 dollars when we meet after a long time

    • @channelpolitica1364
      @channelpolitica1364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      This is normal asian culture. Its called a “polite fight”.

  • @trwwn3804
    @trwwn3804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3845

    They re hurting financially but honor and humbleness prevails.
    Can't put a dollar value on that.

    • @shanti888
      @shanti888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Values over cash !

    • @FuzzyWuzzyBear89
      @FuzzyWuzzyBear89 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I wish more people would do this. There are many that can afford to. Is there any better feeling than helping someone (or some animal) in need?!?

    • @shanti888
      @shanti888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@FuzzyWuzzyBear89- that’s a very lovely comment. Even your wish to benefit others is noble and will bear fruit.

    • @wildeasage
      @wildeasage 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Pro tip - “humbleness” gets the idea across, but there is a word for that: humility! Try it out.

    • @jamilitary07
      @jamilitary07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I believe the word you were looking for is ‘humility.’ But I feel what you’re saying though.👍🏾

  • @AFAskygoddess
    @AFAskygoddess ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I was a US flight attendant who flew the Beijing route. One Thanksgiving, years ago, I was on a layover and we decided to go to a restaurant whose specialty was Peking duck. It was NOT in an area tourists went to. We tried to leave a tip. The waitress wouldn't take it. We hid the tip money under a plate and ran for the door. She chased us down the street and returned it. Happy memories in China.

    • @zoetayloor7774
      @zoetayloor7774 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Where’d you go? Cuz I actually need peking duck restaurant recommendations

  • @vaybor
    @vaybor ปีที่แล้ว +26

    i love how every single person immediately said 'nope, too much, cannot accept this,' just further proves how deserving they really are. incredibly hard working, these folks are clearly not used to taking any kind of hand outs. makes my heart swell to know some of these businesses may be able to continue just because of your kindness.

  • @comeandspeak408
    @comeandspeak408 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1829

    The first woman was just so humble. The last guy seemed so defeated by the economy because of the pandemic... he was probably waiting the "gotcha" moment - as if it were a prank.

    • @phajeb001
      @phajeb001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      I like it that he was willing to give the money back to him after he took the footage.

    • @sparkymularkey6970
      @sparkymularkey6970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      I got that feeling, too. It was almost like he has PTSD, like he was just completely shutting down. He is grateful, relieved, ecstatic, and can't believe his luck, but it was like it was all trapped inside from the months and months of stress and trauma and struggle. I hope he and all these other business owners are doing well.

    • @jonestasha901
      @jonestasha901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Wow milk tea in NYC China Town is cheap unlike here in California where boba or milk tea starts at 3.50

    • @iSenbon
      @iSenbon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@jonestasha901 yeah they have to be with so many tea shops on a very small area, you have to be competitive with pricing especially since business is slow as well :/

    • @robvasquez5628
      @robvasquez5628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Support every small business. Otherwise, when the dust finally settles from coronavirus... we'll all be homeless.

  • @SlyFrostPaw
    @SlyFrostPaw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4117

    what really hits me is how clear it is just how much these people mean to you, it wasnt just a random restaraunt. you were directly giving back to your local community. thats beautiful

    • @Civerius
      @Civerius 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Supposively that's what everyone should be doing in general lol

    • @Cris-em9tn
      @Cris-em9tn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@Civerius It really surprised me too though, because I go to one restaurant. I've tried them all but stuck with the same one for 8 years now. (If I want true Chinese, I have only one restaurant for that too and it's an hour away.) So I think it's mainly just that he frequents all these places so regularly that they know him personally, down to the one guy having given him a red envelope a few days earlier.

    • @adambent9574
      @adambent9574 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      100% agree. Giving this to your friends that you know personally just makes this hit differently for me. Not to say that I don’t also the anonymous ones as well, just in a different way. Keep spreading the good vibes, we need it

    • @jeffl1484
      @jeffl1484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly this.

    • @djaiko7268
      @djaiko7268 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Civerius supposedly*

  • @EdgarLopezInk
    @EdgarLopezInk 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Damn 36 yr old Mexican you got me in tears i can't believe your kindness god bless you brother

  • @bobp4
    @bobp4 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Wendy in the first video (and the others) show how good and hard working people around the world deserve our respect. The way she tried to give it back and then we have billionaires who would put the envelope away so fast the camera wouldn't catch it even in slo mo.

  • @HonestCoach-us1ed
    @HonestCoach-us1ed 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3907

    The fact that all of them expressed they could not take the money just shows how humble and amazing these people that own these businesses are

    • @weatherstationlytovchenko4794
      @weatherstationlytovchenko4794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So this means no one took a cent, how refreshing.

    • @HonestCoach-us1ed
      @HonestCoach-us1ed 2 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      @@mikesmithey4882 never mentioned race, the fact you did says everything 🤷‍♂️

    • @eggmanyes8024
      @eggmanyes8024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@mikesmithey4882 Where did you get that from? They were just mentioning how kind these people were.

    • @grok8211
      @grok8211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not sure what you mean. It is a very common reaction.

    • @maxalmonte14
      @maxalmonte14 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      That's the way Asian people are educated.

  • @jordangroff8978
    @jordangroff8978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3852

    I'm not Asian, but I can tell from this video that in the Asian culture people are taught that they need to work for their money and not expect it to be given to them. Respect that for sure.

    • @YourUserNameSucksx10
      @YourUserNameSucksx10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +225

      That's true brother
      Being Asian that's one of the earliest thing I could remember my mother and father teaching me. Don't take things that don't belong to you and work for what you got.

    • @Jennifer-jv3rg
      @Jennifer-jv3rg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      A lot of cultures are like that I’ve seen . It’s awesome

    • @chronocross85
      @chronocross85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +140

      Not just asian culture but alot of immigrants have that mindset when they come to America

    • @Rachelsyy
      @Rachelsyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      This is Chinese culture.

    • @thecourageousorange
      @thecourageousorange 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      and they are good at feeding guests. my bf's family is asian and they feed me well when I stay there.

  • @friedpicklezzz
    @friedpicklezzz ปีที่แล้ว +18

    The first woman is so kind and so caring. People like her, businesses like hers, are incredibly important cultural and societal pillars, and they should get all the support they deserve.

  • @CaymenLeP
    @CaymenLeP ปีที่แล้ว +12

    “Ya know, since you have the footage, you can just take the money back.”
    Legitimately humble people bring a tear to my eye

  • @Yamikuri
    @Yamikuri 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3010

    I cried when the first lady was saying she couldn't accept the money, she was obviously so taken aback by your generosity, she deserves every penny, hug, and customer

    • @theLoveInUrEyes
      @theLoveInUrEyes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yes and she said her husband will kill her lol. She is so sweet. To be honest Asian people ( I am one of them) very friendly but some of the Chinese ladies I love so much and there are a couple of them are so rude and short when doing restaurant business. I would go to that lady's restaurant in New York city and tip her handsomely and the guy on the street. Can I have their address or locations.

    • @ev1677
      @ev1677 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Made me teary too and I haven't cried in years.

    • @441meatloaf
      @441meatloaf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Chinese people that work and humble don't wanna take so much red pocket money because they have to regift some day and they don't know how to give back the pleasure. So yes from a cultural stand point, we try to avoid big tips like this because the person receiving it feels like they will owe you.

    • @zacharylortie2786
      @zacharylortie2786 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same here, breaks my heart seeing someone so nice and humble have to struggle. It’s not like she’s taking it easy either, she has to work hard everyday. Wish these people the best

    • @jstone9462
      @jstone9462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I cried too

  • @BalefireBombshell
    @BalefireBombshell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4543

    In case anyone was wondering, all the restaurants appear to still be up and operating according to Yelp as of November 16th, 2021.

    • @bigazTV
      @bigazTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @Gonçalo Gomes they are

    • @lostcause7072
      @lostcause7072 2 ปีที่แล้ว +258

      Business better be booming for Wendy.

    • @RunRistaStudios
      @RunRistaStudios 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Thanks, I had that thought midway!

    • @fatnesstofitnessthereandback
      @fatnesstofitnessthereandback 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Let’s keep them alive!!

    • @ondank
      @ondank 2 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      I did not expect to feel such relief about the fortunes of 5 small business on another continent, and yet that felt like a weight off my chest.

  • @Howling-Mad-Murdock
    @Howling-Mad-Murdock ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Beautiful. That First Lady made me cry. Such a nice person, I hope her business is thriving.

  • @cptwojciech6396
    @cptwojciech6396 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    7:00 lady just started flexing the money, LOL😭😂😂😂

  • @MK-11111
    @MK-11111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3545

    The last one broke me.. "You already have the footage, so you can take it back". It speaks to how you can get so accustom to being abused, taken advantage of, and hurt that you cannot even believe a genuine act of kindness. That amount of pain and hurt is unbearable. Thank you for sending that support and kindness

    • @mqegg
      @mqegg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Nah, they just feel bad for taking money.

    • @WaywardVector
      @WaywardVector 3 ปีที่แล้ว +187

      That’s not what it’s about HAHAHA! You are so ignorant! Let me educate you. When I was 10 my Asian mother did her Asian friend a favor, and said friend tried for 15 minutes to pay my mother back, throwing money at each other saying “no no, it’s unnecessary!” There’s no abuse. It’s just culture. Chill.

    • @JohnSmith-li6mn
      @JohnSmith-li6mn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @@WaywardVector i mean getting footage for "giving" away 5$ isn't a favor though. I agree the original comment is very enthusiastic about the video but in Nyc i bet they've seen a lot of shit and think that they might not understand fully how much it helps. As he said you have the footage so you can leave now and take it back meaning someone has done that before i wouldn't call it abuse but definitely ignorant

    • @_ryanc
      @_ryanc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      @@WaywardVector that would be the case if it was only “you can take it back”; the comment about footage suggests they’re disillusioned by or have encountered “influencers” who give away money for internet points rather than out of kindness and they suspect him of being the same.

    • @Qopa
      @Qopa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      From what Ive heard from a lot of Asians, even on the news, some people in America are actively looking for Asians to harrass for covid daily. There was even recently a black women who attacked 2 Asian women with a hammer, telling them to take off their mask and all. Then we got people harrassing koreans and saying shit like "fucking chinese" in their faces. The blaming culture is real.

  • @Jixxor
    @Jixxor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3518

    10:58 "You've already got the footage, you can take the money back" it's sad how many people do exactly that. Absolutely crazy how the guy suggests it himself tho, as if he wouldn't even be mad if someone pulled that shit on him. Very nice gesture, I hope it helped them all stay afloat.

    • @solala1312
      @solala1312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +382

      I was in shock when he said that. it must happen more than we are aware of. I was so happy to see the worker got the money for real!

    • @tanah6962
      @tanah6962 2 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      @@solala1312 yeah I know! My jaw dropped like I always knew those types of videos must be fake like where did all that money come from.and the millions of views?? Damn!

    • @Rorther
      @Rorther 2 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      And let's be honest. No one goes around giving this much money if they are not filming. Broke my heart

    • @NikkiKNuvo
      @NikkiKNuvo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      No way someone would be able to take money back from me after giving it to me on camera. They'll have to file a civil lawsuit lol

    • @Rezzmari
      @Rezzmari 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Damn, that's sad. Some people will do anything for views unfortunately.

  • @radekplodzien263
    @radekplodzien263 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    You are awesome. You have built your channel purely based on your talent and hard work, no stupid pranks, no controversy. World needs more people like you. Keep up good work!

  • @MrHotshot1995
    @MrHotshot1995 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    honestly warms my heart seeing this and them not wanting to take it shows genuine people dont want handouts but thats so kind of you dude

  • @shahana_style
    @shahana_style 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1995

    I'm smiling so hard with that first lady she's so extra extra sweet it hurts my cheeks. And she only kept it once she realized she could give it away. THAT'S the kind of person she is. It's just so wholesome.

    • @GeraltOfNvidia
      @GeraltOfNvidia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Same here, it really makes my ass cheeks hurt

    • @marker52
      @marker52 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@GeraltOfNvidia ok then

    • @BatGear.
      @BatGear. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@GeraltOfNvidia it truly does give us the clap

    • @Essence02
      @Essence02 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GeraltOfNvidia 🙃

    • @datageekz8446
      @datageekz8446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      She is just a typical Chinese lady. They are sweet. You always need to fight to give money to Chinese lol

  • @DarrellC.
    @DarrellC. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3891

    It’s crazy how every single one of them wanted to give it back. Great people, great culture.

    • @IrenaDeacon
      @IrenaDeacon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      It truly is a great culture

    • @rylangston
      @rylangston 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      @MilkyAsks those are sad people who don't know any chinese. Chinese folks are the most humble in the world

    • @ww7271
      @ww7271 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@rylangston and they are hard workers too

    • @marc615
      @marc615 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      They are just scared that someday he'll come to ask for a big favor,like employing a friend. Their (modern) culture is based on bribery, that is what communists brought to Chinese people.

    • @c.o.r.n.
      @c.o.r.n. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Culture is amazing

  • @Lacheddar1990
    @Lacheddar1990 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    generosity is a virtue. Seeing others as human beings is a virtue.

  • @alexavila1825
    @alexavila1825 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I seen this video two years ago when it had aired and sometimes I think about just watching them again because it makes me feel so humble and so happy that you’re able to spread your love and appreciation to them when I am states away and I can’t… they work so hard and they all deserve it💕

  • @pigstick132
    @pigstick132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2874

    I love how unselfish they are, if they didn’t earn it they don’t want it.

    • @xLatinAssazzin
      @xLatinAssazzin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No there stupid I would have taken it free money

    • @whatsupguys1670
      @whatsupguys1670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +433

      @@xLatinAssazzin they aren’t stupid they just have common human decency

    • @jaimegonzalez7286
      @jaimegonzalez7286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +225

      @@xLatinAssazzin you're ridiculous. That's the problem, we dont understand or respect echothers cultures.

    • @nattan119
      @nattan119 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      Culturally I would say its a feeling of shame. To be given handouts. like a feeling that there viewed as poor. Which they offset that by pride of working hard for what they earn

    • @zero604
      @zero604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      @@xLatinAssazzin that's because there are honest hard working decent people, then there's you

  • @xJabro
    @xJabro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4450

    My god Wendy is the nicest human ever she even said she made that tea FOR him and her giggles while she's packing every little gift is adorable.

    • @daisysummer514
      @daisysummer514 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I love her!! 😁♥️💗

    • @itspop4real272
      @itspop4real272 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @Lydia Fraz wtf

    • @theextracrispycolonel9504
      @theextracrispycolonel9504 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Literally fought tooth and nail to return the money xD

    • @Ltjngkhh
      @Ltjngkhh ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Lydia Frazier ayo?

    • @cleetus_
      @cleetus_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Lydia Frazier 💀💀

  • @fluidexpressions6856
    @fluidexpressions6856 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    this video brings me to tears ! thank you so much for being so generous for the business that work so hard and received so much loss in business during the pandemic

  • @shajalynvelendriin3403
    @shajalynvelendriin3403 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Her giggle at 3:50 is so heartwarming. Shows what kind-hearted person she is.

  • @beomgyungi
    @beomgyungi ปีที่แล้ว +3669

    THE LAST GUY OH MY GOSH 😭
    I wish the best for him he's probably so thankful for it I find it so sad how he thought you were going to take it back that just shows how horrible some influencers are and what a impact they make

    • @sage2500
      @sage2500 ปีที่แล้ว +288

      I know right. It makes me think that someone has done that very thing to him before

    • @fmjkevlar
      @fmjkevlar ปีที่แล้ว +53

      its an awful world we live in sometimes 😣

    • @joshz3788
      @joshz3788 ปีที่แล้ว

      It is not about influencers. It is not in the Asian culture to accept hand outs, like it is so readily in the West. Do you see Asian Beggers on the street? They don't beg, they work for their money. Whether or not you think that's a good thing, that is the Asian Culture.

    • @ijustreallylikeramenokay7626
      @ijustreallylikeramenokay7626 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      heh, being Chinese, I am reading it as that's just how they assume influencers work because we're all cynical as hell (and to be fair, I'm sure it is how a lot of influencers are)

    • @derplololol9717
      @derplololol9717 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Assuming makes an ass out of U and I. So we're both an ass cuz I think that's how most of them are rn haha.

  • @RichSmithson
    @RichSmithson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2174

    We employ a Chinese guy sometimes to do work for us and when he finishes a job and I give him a little extra money he refuses to take it. I have to spend 10 minutes begging him to take it before he does and even then he doesn’t want too.
    Really humble people. It makes me want to learn Mandarin.

    • @laardhavemercy807
      @laardhavemercy807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      Even if you learned just a little bit, I bet you would make that guys day 👊🏼

    • @thestainless6289
      @thestainless6289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Why do you want to give him him extra money?

    • @yotacharapone5341
      @yotacharapone5341 2 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      @@thestainless6289 he might’ve done a really good job

    • @DarkSithBarbie
      @DarkSithBarbie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I love the Chinese culture in that you are taught that humility is the greatest attribute. Accepting gifts, compliments, and speaking about yourself is always from the perspective that others are greater than yourself.

    • @GATOxNORTE
      @GATOxNORTE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cantonese*

  • @tupacalypse88
    @tupacalypse88 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this made me cry. Kindness like you realize regardless what TV shows it's still a beautiful world

  • @Akgn_
    @Akgn_ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This is what true philanthropy is. Intrigrating yourself into a community and respecting them as people then ultimately giving back into that community. Not just giving out money for views for more gain like some certain content creators on this site (when was the last time you saw a video on youtube of someone going to this much effort for others as a genuine human being?)

  • @etherealeuphoria111
    @etherealeuphoria111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1937

    someone should set up a gofundme or something for the first restaurant, she was so selfless and whole. i wish i could donate to her business :(

    • @elizabethlizziemcelheney6821
      @elizabethlizziemcelheney6821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Me too!!

    • @chriseckhoff3273
      @chriseckhoff3273 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Create a Venmo account and link it in a comment! No need for a gofundme

    • @AT-ks2fw
      @AT-ks2fw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I would too!

    • @EternalResonance
      @EternalResonance 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      what happened in the video after 10:00 ? the video cuts off. did he get mad he was being filmed and given a gift?

    • @freshair9133
      @freshair9133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Exactly mrbeast should go to China and do this. All his reactions are bland and he dropping big money so imagine mrbeast giving her like 10k

  • @williamnahed575
    @williamnahed575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +881

    That last dude deserves respect 😂😂 he actually told him u got the footage now get the money back😂😂😂 I’m dead

    • @daniellee6912
      @daniellee6912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      That kinda hurt to watch

    • @puffinonbooties
      @puffinonbooties 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@daniellee6912 yea like he expected that he want gonna get the money, happy that he did get it tho,xiaoma such a good person

  • @nfapeng187
    @nfapeng187 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happy to see this, struggling is tough. I been in this cycle myself for the last year! Beyond thankful for pll like yourself doing these hard-working Chinese Americans what they truly deserve!

  • @alanmacvean2053
    @alanmacvean2053 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My favorite video , just the hard work and dignity of these people , trying so hard and not wanting anything for it , truly a wonderful thing you've shared , thank you !

  • @seanvarian4578
    @seanvarian4578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1391

    I honestly nearly started crying with that First Lady. Please if you are in the area give her a visit and help her out. She is truly a beautiful soul. And the fact she didn’t even know she was being filmed

    • @thestradman2926
      @thestradman2926 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks for watching and comments, We're always available for questions, guidance and support at any time . Just DM
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    • @jackthecommenter2768
      @jackthecommenter2768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@thestradman2926 YOOO is it really you?

    • @TheSammoness
      @TheSammoness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@jackthecommenter2768 click on his profile and you'll see its a fake account

    • @jessbacchi
      @jessbacchi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@thestradman2926 shut up

    • @gaaraman312
      @gaaraman312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I literally did cry from that. It was so beautiful!

  • @ericahuang7189
    @ericahuang7189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1566

    something to point out is that usually we don’t usually open red envelopes in front of other people so that’s why he asks them to

    • @emmawang2224
      @emmawang2224 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      true, but the guy with the food cart by the street didnt open it up on the spot

    • @ShinsekaiAcademy
      @ShinsekaiAcademy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      if you want my opinion, it would have been more polite to leave and get their reaction at another day/time/video

    • @itmejac6945
      @itmejac6945 2 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      @@ShinsekaiAcademy to be fair when he’s giving them $1000 each, he doesn’t need to be super polite 🤣

    • @peterbradley4916
      @peterbradley4916 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes , that makes sense! Thanks for your comment!

    • @ZiyandoingVids
      @ZiyandoingVids 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea

  • @PandaUser-by3qj
    @PandaUser-by3qj 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    its been 2 years and everytime this comes up on my youtube timeline i still shed a tear and cry a little, i dunno just nice seeing these people saying no to big gifts but Xiamonyc still gives it and pushed to give it God bless you man

  • @yuxiang3147
    @yuxiang3147 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Such a great moving video, especially the first lady, she's such a nice warm-hearted person despite having a difficult time, I almost cried...

    • @jawsstech
      @jawsstech 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      UH. yeah. I ALMOST cried, too. Grown men don't cry.

  • @jessejames6157
    @jessejames6157 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2335

    good lord.... that first lady just up lifted me out a 3 month depression..... god bless her soul. really just got me feeling good again from spending so much time in the dark. Thanks to you too for uploading this big dog.... great vibes my guy

    • @briansaleemberry2686
      @briansaleemberry2686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Life isn't easy. I'm there now. Keep pushing on.we got this

    • @3RACHASUPREMACY
      @3RACHASUPREMACY 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      this was so sweet! I hope you keep moving forward! Currently on the low end now but seeing stuff like this definitely helps me feel better about the world and the human experience ❤️

    • @cel.este933
      @cel.este933 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Someone said if you rearrange the letters in "depression" you get "I pressed on". Never give up even if you have to crawl! You haven't seen the best day of your life yet. Sending positive energy your way ❤

    • @adis1709
      @adis1709 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey Jesse, hope you're doing well.

    • @FabiolaPugliese
      @FabiolaPugliese 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know what you mean, she made my month!!

  • @12HitCombo
    @12HitCombo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2163

    I want to buy a ticket to New York just to go to Wendy's restaurant. That was the sweetest most humble lady ever, and deserves more customers

    • @KickingAssDaily
      @KickingAssDaily 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      But there weren't any Old Fashioned Hamburgers in this video.

    • @seanm660
      @seanm660 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@KickingAssDaily that took me a second 🤣🤣

    • @paulngo4946
      @paulngo4946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      lol. I read that fast and for a second, I was like, do you not have a Wendy's fast food in your state?

    • @fiercecloud3871
      @fiercecloud3871 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @HorizonMelt
      @HorizonMelt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Seriously.. I feel the exact same way. I realized that about four minutes in that my heart was breaking a little because these are the wonderful people who need to thrive. The covid Hysteria has claimed so many victims.

  • @solitudeguard5688
    @solitudeguard5688 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dude you are unbelievably generous and cultured, I wish more people were like you. What a truly wonderful human being you are. I hope we can give you back the kindness and love that you give by supporting you on your TH-cam journey for many more years to come.

  • @MainelyCannabis
    @MainelyCannabis ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You'r doing Gods work my brother. These are people who are really trying to do their best, but it's just hard to push past and pay bills. They work their fingers to the bone to feed their loved ones. You give them, and many around their community, hope. Not just hope for success, but hope for humanity.

  • @keithepstein2812
    @keithepstein2812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6871

    Xiaoma, please go back to these restaurants and let us know how they're doing a year later. I'm not sure why, but I found this video quite moving and re-watch it often.

    • @aprilvillada1707
      @aprilvillada1707 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      I hope he goes back ☹️

    • @topofthecircle
      @topofthecircle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +129

      Yes! I hope they all are doing OK, especially the mobile carts.

    • @zbychulatara
      @zbychulatara 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Year ago he said covid will end soon. And its even worse. I hope one day people stop care about it and live like before

    • @maximuslongrod6361
      @maximuslongrod6361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@zbychulatara many countries are, Canada is fighting for it right now.

    • @adrianegley8551
      @adrianegley8551 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      totally agreed lets hope he sees your comment and does a video

  • @ivy8606
    @ivy8606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1889

    i cant express how heartwarming this gesture is for asians especially. for me, it’s typical to give gifts and not receive them (well, not without a quarrel or two). i bet each one of them went home that day and cried just because of your kindness.

    • @ItsBlu0
      @ItsBlu0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      True :)

    • @benvasilinda1540
      @benvasilinda1540 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I was lucky growing up in a pretty well to do family in the nicest areas in Florida. I had neighbors who were Asian and they were the best neighbors, they were very respectful of American Christian holidays and they even joined in stuff like Halloween and Easter egg hunts. I shocked my family by joining the military and it's caused a horrible friction between them and I for many years. Mostly because of my privileges afforded to me growing up but it was something that was meaningful to me because I felt I owed my country my service because of what our country offers us. I served with several Asian guys that I even went to combat with. Those guys were as patriotic as the best of us and I still stay in contact with one of them to this day. I play a game on my iPad called Boom Beach and I'm even in an all Chinese clan and I've been with them for about a year now and I've been playing for about 4 years total. I learn so much from them about their culture and what it's like over there. It's a 50 person clan so we're all pretty active. With all the talk about racism and slavery that we had here in the US, people never mention the slavery that the Asians went through here in our country when they were first here. They were forced into mining, building railroads and agricultural. They have risen up from those days and have been loyal Americans ever since and I'm happy to have been lucky my enough to called some of them my friend.

    • @ItsBlu0
      @ItsBlu0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@benvasilinda1540 is this true?

    • @fractilians7
      @fractilians7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true!!

    • @MrJuanport
      @MrJuanport 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ItsBlu0 yes! So after internment camps the government didn't know what to do with the citizens they were illegally detaining so they decided to pick "key cities" in helping reintroduce these citizens. Amarillo Texas funny enough is one of them, they have a vast and great Asian community there that thrives and prospers...at least BC. Haven't been in years and lost touch with some friends dont know how they doing.

  • @mattvanvleck1272
    @mattvanvleck1272 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is amazing and I love how they all say they can’t accept it. Thanks so much for spreading joy and helping these businesses in such a time of need. This is so heart warming. He even said you already got the video at the end and tried to give it back. You are such an awesome person.

  • @fit_pharmd4830
    @fit_pharmd4830 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2802

    Bc of the first lady’s generosity caught candidly on camera, I guarantee her business not only survived but thrived during the pandemic. Remember what you give comes back to you 3-fold.

    • @brandyhernandez61
      @brandyhernandez61 2 ปีที่แล้ว +128

      I know right, I find myself wanting to dine in her resturant once I get the chance to go to NY for New Years.

    • @markekar6021
      @markekar6021 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      i wish that last statement were true

    • @fit_pharmd4830
      @fit_pharmd4830 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@markekar6021 She's still around right?

    • @KF22TV
      @KF22TV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@markekar6021 ?

    • @mariotheundying
      @mariotheundying 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The guy saying something about that last sentence he's probably talking about himself guys

  • @bigsexybear
    @bigsexybear 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5667

    So humble. Means a lot to them and it clearly shows. Wish more people were so humble and thankful.

    • @elusivelectron
      @elusivelectron 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I love this video. Selfish people suck.

    • @dipstickjamming5532
      @dipstickjamming5532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      Because they know hardships and appreciate being in America, land of opportunity. I came to USA with my parents in 1988, we were refugees if still Soviet then Latvia. We slept on floor and only furniture we had was stuff my Stepdad and I found in trash drop offs on curb in Brooklyn. Now my parents have traveled the world and live in a nice condo in New Jersey. All from working hard and striving for better life in Freedoms this country offers. Many born here dont know how fortunate they are. I made sure to teach my children that so now as teenagers they know that they can be anything their hearts desire.

    • @lafondawilliams
      @lafondawilliams 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yup love the video guy tapes a bunch of money to him and tells people to take what they need and rich people steal it all

    • @riri_rmrz
      @riri_rmrz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@dipstickjamming5532 Same my mom and grandma came from communist Vietnam

    • @spirit_shadow9590
      @spirit_shadow9590 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I went to my local chinese buffet on their new year and wished them a happy new year in their language. I love them so much

  • @sagewarren8431
    @sagewarren8431 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The first woman made me tear up. She's so humble and lovely

  • @michaelyaaaaskings3172
    @michaelyaaaaskings3172 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    all the people in this video so hardworking and humble, all trying to give the money back, amazing. and the first lady is a sweetheart.

  • @ungratefulbastard3816
    @ungratefulbastard3816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2008

    At this rate, Xiaoma has become a true family to the Chinese people in his neighborhood

  • @errickflesch5565
    @errickflesch5565 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The level of self respect trying to not take the money.......is admirable and honorable. There is no victim card to a person that has integrity at this level. She is the very type person who deserves this type gift. She is a breath of fresh air.

  • @kman5475
    @kman5475 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Surprise generosity is the best "prank" ever! I was giggling like a little kid watching the genuine care and relationship between Xiaoma and Wendy (her favorite tea for him, and extra-large so his wife can have some? AND the candies? Amazing person!).
    And then he gives her an unexpected gift in return.
    Instead of "haha, I tricked you!" it's "haha, I love you!"
    This is the way people should treat each other.

  • @erickandrewp
    @erickandrewp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +832

    My first impression with the first lady was honestly, she had that mother aura around her. She's like what a concerned and caring mom would do to her son who just visited her for a moment.

    • @littleripper312
      @littleripper312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      She was so sweet.

    • @adilbaccus6562
      @adilbaccus6562 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Most heart-warming comment on TH-cam fr.

  • @patrickmurphy9186
    @patrickmurphy9186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +727

    The first woman has a heart of gold....You can tell that she’s really a good person.

    • @sequoia3711
      @sequoia3711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Second woman just ..

    • @jonchal5561
      @jonchal5561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Chinese people are beautiful people

    • @blepmeme2496
      @blepmeme2496 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@PassportBro_ it’s not a competition no need to compare.

    • @PassportBro_
      @PassportBro_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@blepmeme2496 your right. I deleted my comment.

    • @Rin_Nya762
      @Rin_Nya762 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ikr, melted my heart

  • @nickywilks7928
    @nickywilks7928 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What an amazing genuine kind lady.

  • @cc967
    @cc967 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    These people are so humble and so deserving of the tip.

  • @jisooya7878
    @jisooya7878 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3271

    The last guy telling "If you've already got the footage, you can just take the money back" had me laughing...xD

    • @craigcrissman4651
      @craigcrissman4651 2 ปีที่แล้ว +233

      Not gonna lie that would have really hurt

    • @jadea.558
      @jadea.558 2 ปีที่แล้ว +449

      I do understand him though, it can come across as doing something for views as a lot of people do these days. I dont think he wanted to hurt him but he was maybe just not 100% trustful because of how everyone does things for the internet and popularity these days.

    • @thunderfire741
      @thunderfire741 2 ปีที่แล้ว +168

      It's a harsh reality that there exist videos on the internet based around it being just for the recording

    • @generalsociety9607
      @generalsociety9607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@thunderfire741 Well, I don't really think it's all that harsh since you are indeed giving away money and helping them regardless of whether it's being filmed or not. Yes, it's not 100% altruism, but does it really need to be?
      It's only truly selfish when these videos are staged or faked (like the last restauranteur thought it would be.)

    • @urgae9125
      @urgae9125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@generalsociety9607
      That's what they were talking about. People faking it for the views.

  • @OftenAlwaysFresh
    @OftenAlwaysFresh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2763

    As a Chinese Canadian, whose uncle had to close his restaurant because of the times. Thank you for appreciating the underappreciated. Our community just raised 50$k for them this last month and he'll likely be able to restart in a couple months

    • @voton.w.b.8584
      @voton.w.b.8584 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      That’s amazing, much Love from Latin America...

    • @maehwa9746
      @maehwa9746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That’s amazing, much love from northeast America!

    • @bettynewberry1
      @bettynewberry1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Tell him to come to Texas. No state taxes. Friendly folks and Texans love Chinese food.

    • @damon6126
      @damon6126 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@bettynewberry1 I can confirm this. Texan my whole life and it's my favorite food. 🙂

    • @tradesmith_yt
      @tradesmith_yt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What a blessing! Wish him a happy new year for me! He will be back and better than ever! Bless you guys. Stay strong.

  • @litebrite8993
    @litebrite8993 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Out of all the video's you've done, this one is one of my fav's! tysm for being such a good human being and for bringing light and positive attention to all these wonderful shops. Keep up the amazing work!!

  • @DripGxd_Cam
    @DripGxd_Cam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1143

    The First Lady giving him the tea warmed my heart so much. Yea there’s a lot of really crappy people in the world. But part of me likes to believe that most of us are really kind at heart and really mean well and that maybe humanity isn’t a lost cause after all.

    • @playingmonkey3929
      @playingmonkey3929 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes man ur correct. Lots of love to the first lady ❤💕

    • @DripGxd_Cam
      @DripGxd_Cam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mquiroz90 no. Where do you get that idea from?

    • @sniff.........................
      @sniff......................... 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Most Chinese people are good like most people from any other country, the CCP is the main problem.

    • @sniff.........................
      @sniff......................... 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mquiroz90 I bet you believe humans are the cause of climate change too huh, I bet you also believe the climate is warming when it clearly is getting colder.

    • @DripGxd_Cam
      @DripGxd_Cam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sniff......................... i mean i didn’t really think it was a race thing, i just like seeing people being kind to one another. But i see what you mean i guess.

  • @howiewang9034
    @howiewang9034 3 ปีที่แล้ว +637

    Bro your Chinese is so good you even nailed the “no no no, you must accept accept the money” quarrel our parents do. Never seen a white guy do that so well.

    • @Cruelty-Torture
      @Cruelty-Torture 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Good to know. I would never have caught that detail without your comment. :)

    • @sayajinmamuang
      @sayajinmamuang 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Well hes studied at Beijing what do you expect? Most white guys from nyc probably cant speak like a university student.

    • @variable57
      @variable57 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Reminds me Seinfeld of “just take the pen!”

    • @Gary109
      @Gary109 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Quite a few white guys have assaulted Asians recently in the states and no correlation was made since that doesn't play into the mainstream media narrative.

    • @Fumble469
      @Fumble469 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He speaks to them regularly just like family

  • @sydneycarpenter5916
    @sydneycarpenter5916 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They’re also kind of love it. Thank you for making the days and maybe the world.

  • @Kitana1599
    @Kitana1599 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This made me cry, first lady... I hope all of these restaurants are running well now and that they thrive 💞

  • @JonSudano
    @JonSudano 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3647

    Watch this video for +10 serotonin

    • @brandons348
      @brandons348 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      We got a living legend in this comment section, fancy seeing you here Jon

    • @brishawnsanders5873
      @brishawnsanders5873 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@yeahbuddy7598 imagine not even effectively trolling someone as your name implies. 🤣

    • @SkinnyMuscles69
      @SkinnyMuscles69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@yeahbuddy7598 goddamn it would of been funny without the useless shit part. How do you fuck that up?

    • @jamesnielsen5899
      @jamesnielsen5899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg I havent seen you on YT forever, music is killer

    • @leeroysaenz1774
      @leeroysaenz1774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This comment gave me +10 cringe

  • @Deagle-lj7tv
    @Deagle-lj7tv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +748

    "If you've allready got the footage, you can just take the money back" Wow, what a guy!

    • @cheekybangtan5083
      @cheekybangtan5083 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      agree...now I wonder if thats how other’s fo it for views..I hope not..

    • @321MjC
      @321MjC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@cheekybangtan5083 wouldn't put it past the people who only care about "likes" && "views" SMH🤮🤦‍♀️ People are getting killed because they are pretending to be robbers, dressed in all black, fake weapons, etc. Bothering old people in grocery stores, etc. MY POINT IS: some will do anything for the camera SMH !!!!!

    • @Nikeel_A.W
      @Nikeel_A.W 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      He is in the big brain game. 🤣

    • @tashacathey8967
      @tashacathey8967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I spit my drink out hilarious!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @diplosoriano9898
      @diplosoriano9898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was going to say many people do it for the views

  • @sir_i.p.freely3757
    @sir_i.p.freely3757 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wendy is such a sweet humble woman there aren’t that many genuine people like that in the world anymore sending love from the west side to her and all the families struggling to get by ❤

  • @Ryuty_
    @Ryuty_ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    After 2 years and a few months I wanna know how these restaurants are going, mostly the first one! that lady deserves all the love and costumers she can get

  • @BabyBlondie311
    @BabyBlondie311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +421

    "If you've already got the footage, you can just take it back." That's seriously so heartbreaking, like how many people actually do this just for likes?

    • @david.jr.
      @david.jr. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      It almost made me cry. It was like he was used to it.

    • @noon6708
      @noon6708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That’s sad some people only do it for likes and not from the heart

    • @SalmanAlghazali
      @SalmanAlghazali 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @UC1mMZM-jwL66-6cRu2eQJtg well that's not what she meant

    • @bandaqueenlove9134
      @bandaqueenlove9134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thats so sad :(

  • @DJMilez
    @DJMilez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +417

    That older woman in the first scenario almost broke me. What a heart of gold thank you for changing her life and her staff's life a bit during this financial hardships Xiaomanyc

    • @Crusadxr
      @Crusadxr 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      funny seeing you here lmao

  • @onmylastnerve282
    @onmylastnerve282 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This was the best thing I've seen in such a long time. What a generous thing to do for such wonderful people!

  • @ScenicEarth365
    @ScenicEarth365 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I watched this video 3 years ago, and watching it again today. Thank you Xiaomanyc for your kindness to those folks. They work so hard to earn a living and provide outstanding food. It warms my heart to see them being recognized. Thank you Sir.

  • @CantoMando
    @CantoMando 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6807

    ahhh this made me smile :) love it
    auntie trying to return the money reminds me of parents fighting for the bill. This is so sweet

    • @Isutaki
      @Isutaki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      agreed

    • @ianmontgomery7534
      @ianmontgomery7534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @@Isutaki It is very much the Chinese way. I used to have to go to the toilet and then pay the bill on the way back so that I actually got to pay the bill -my girlfriend often called me Mr Sneaky but really Chinese often did it that way too. This ha[[ened even when it was obvious to all that I had the greater capacity to pay and was quite prepared to pay. I think it great. Every now and then I would let them pay.

    • @fbi397
      @fbi397 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@ianmontgomery7534 you had to pay a toilet bill?

    • @serbaserbi6004
      @serbaserbi6004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wew cantomando

    • @JayCee2020
      @JayCee2020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Can cantomando do a Chinese speaking challenge with xiaoma 😂

  • @2800boy
    @2800boy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +685

    That first Lady is just oozing humility. Was so adamant about not taking that whole tip lol. Such a beautiful human being. Thanks for this video Xiaoma.

  • @Woainibaby
    @Woainibaby ปีที่แล้ว

    Lot of restaurants really are struggling. Thank you for being so kind.

  • @temes5901
    @temes5901 ปีที่แล้ว

    When a video delivers tears of joy, you know you just watched something real and thats not guaranteed at all these days. Bless🙏

  • @jesusisc0mings00n3
    @jesusisc0mings00n3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2992

    This is why the Asian culture is so great. So much respect, so much hard work, so much honesty. America needs more Asian culture.

    • @watdafak666
      @watdafak666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      @Pepito that may be true at the micro level but from a macro perspective some races have better cultures than others

    • @skylarkesselring6075
      @skylarkesselring6075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      There is no asian culture

    • @skylarkesselring6075
      @skylarkesselring6075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@watdafak666 that's literally impossible to measure

    • @watdafak666
      @watdafak666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@skylarkesselring6075 Of course its not impossible. In the United States, home of the Diversity and Inclusion(TM), you have statistics, based on race that directly correlate to how good someone's culture is, what drives success, etc. For example, Asians are a very small minority, yet statistically are one of the top earning races in the US. Meanwhile, some other races score a lot lower in all kinds of metrics. Many white liberals love to make excuses for these races shortcomings but anyone willing to see past their politically correct lense can see its culture based. Just look at youtube trending lmao, literally the epicenter of pop culture is represented there, and you can see the cultural divide by race very clearly.

    • @jesusisc0mings00n3
      @jesusisc0mings00n3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@skylarkesselring6075 There are many cultures within the Asian community. Probably one of the dumbest comments I've read today.

  • @blackvelvet1350
    @blackvelvet1350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2568

    The last guy, "If you've already got your footage you can just take it back now" 🥺 I wonder how many TH-cam or other so called influencers have, actually, done that to him...thanks for being awesome...

    • @mohamed_khoudjatelli9349
      @mohamed_khoudjatelli9349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +154

      I don't thing that he had similar experiences that made him say that, he just wanted to return the money so bad that he has no problem if he's giving him the money just to promote himself.

    • @capnfoo
      @capnfoo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      When you record your good deeds it's impossible for others to tell whether you are doing it out of generosity or just to convince people you're generous and build up a channel.

    • @EduardoHernandez-di8kl
      @EduardoHernandez-di8kl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Wow 😳 you got a point 😐🤔😏 at least our guy is the real deal 🤩🥳😏 much respect for him ✊✌️peace!

    • @shirosflower
      @shirosflower 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      capnfoo exactly

    • @SerDunk
      @SerDunk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah..he said it as a joke...