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  • @CoupleMoore
    @CoupleMoore 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    I understand why you’re nervous about anesthesia. She’s so little bitty! But if she’s getting ear tubes, you won’t regret it. Her ear infections will pretty much come to a halt, and even her speech will likely develop better. (That’s how it worked for my niece, anyway.) You and she will both be so much happier. Just be sure to get her good fitting ear plugs if you let her go swimming.

    • @wendoxia
      @wendoxia 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I was so panicked about my grandson getting ear tubes because he was born with some serious health issues and had some major surgeries but the two thing was like nothing. He was barely sedated for barely 5 minutes.

    • @kend4427
      @kend4427 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      My son needed tube's as well, tons of ear infections. I was against it at first for these reasons but in the end it was the best decision.

    • @elianafreeman9891
      @elianafreeman9891 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @Couplemoore @wendoxia @kend4427 Just curious, were any of your children in daycare? Or their older siblings in school?

  • @Swm2020
    @Swm2020 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +147

    That run out the grandparents door at the end, yelling “bye” with the biggest smile…I felt that. Lol

    • @the_solodad
      @the_solodad  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      Couldn’t run away fast enough lol

    • @Scope951
      @Scope951 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Definitely deserve a break eh! Props to you I don’t even have kids, you can handle so much….

    • @AliceLynnBeautyandMore
      @AliceLynnBeautyandMore 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Me too!

    • @LisaRM72
      @LisaRM72 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I’m exhausted just watching him! Did u go home and nap😂😂😂

    • @dancikn
      @dancikn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Come to write the same xD

  • @Haidyn_toooocool
    @Haidyn_toooocool 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    You are such a great dad❤

    • @the_solodad
      @the_solodad  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Thank you!

  • @littlebug1026
    @littlebug1026 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    you're such a great dad! don't worry your baby girl will be just fine!!! omg lol you're free!!!!! for a hot sec!

  • @Hfdbha
    @Hfdbha 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Man I remember those days and my kids are grown. I get tired just watching you. Glad to say I made it through but am still catching up on my sleep 10 years later

  • @brandeyhowell-xu1oj
    @brandeyhowell-xu1oj 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I understand not wanting the surgery but...both of my kids had so many ear infections, ruptured ear drums then finally surgery..not an ear infection since..that was decades ago. Blessings 🙌

  • @cindiallain8542
    @cindiallain8542 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Don’t put their shoes on till you get to wherever you are going. My son was 14 months old when he had tubes. Then at 3 he had his tonsils and adenoids removed. He is 34 and hasn’t been sick since. I personally feel the procedure is worth it.

    • @elianafreeman9891
      @elianafreeman9891 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Was he in daycare? Or his older siblings in school?

  • @LindaPhillips-nl9zl
    @LindaPhillips-nl9zl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    You are amazing. You will be rewarded as they get older and older. Love your dedication!🤗

  • @Deb57272
    @Deb57272 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    If the water from the refrigerator taste moldy, you need to have the filter on the waterline on the refrigerator changed.. moody tasting water is not a good sign. It could make you all sick.😢

  • @lyndabell7402
    @lyndabell7402 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Make lists. Write out a standard step-by-step checklist of routine activities, such as "leaving the house", "getting kiddos to bed", etc. Then write down your "must-do" tomorrow, things like doctors appt, school or school activities and church, etc. Keep the lists where you can see them. Pinned to the wall near the door you use to leave the house, or kitchen, family room or bathroom and use them. This season is going to last for a minute, and this is great tool to help you eliminate a few of the issues that can create stress for you and the children.

    • @janice5218
      @janice5218 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Comments on post with suggestions promote this channel that’s the way it works. Yes having children any number at any age is a daily challenge. When I tell people I had twins at 40 people gasp…well my dad was the youngest of 14 93yrs ago. I wish my granny would have shown us all how it was done. Suck it up, buttercup.

  • @kathybrown8026
    @kathybrown8026 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    If you even think brown recluse then get your home sprayed! Now about the huge smile on your face when you got a little break from the kids! Keep that for sure!!

  • @stmnMcdn
    @stmnMcdn 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I'm so impressed you cam film in all this...

  • @beekind6267
    @beekind6267 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    My child was 2 when she had her ear tube surgery. I was also concerned about the anesthesia but the alternative was prophylactic antibiotics and break thru infections indefinitely. She had the surgery and never had another infection since. She's 33. ❤

    • @elianafreeman9891
      @elianafreeman9891 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Was she in daycare? Were any of her siblings in school? Just curious

  • @chrissyl4948
    @chrissyl4948 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love watching your videos. You are a great father. And very patient

  • @intuitivefire
    @intuitivefire 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Add cereal to the babies milk... It's on the kids aisle with the milk it says cereal it looks like weighltless oats.. she will begin sleeping all night.. also put cod liver oil in her bottle and give the other little girl cod liver oil...Im a black woman and im holistic i hope you trust me with this information the cod liver oil will stop all ear infections going forward

  • @Jacckeyy
    @Jacckeyy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It is hard to describe my admiration for you. All my problems now seem microscopic but I still struggle to carry on... You sir are great at what you do and thank you for showing it to the world!

  • @n8iv386
    @n8iv386 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Maybe letting the kids load into the van without their shoes on would save you an extra 5mins for something else. I mean, how dirty could their feet actually get, going from home to vehicle?

  • @patbennett7776
    @patbennett7776 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You do an amazing job!!!

  • @Ytt774
    @Ytt774 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    You are doing such a great job. You got this!💪🏻 Mylicon helped my son with colic for the first year.

  • @scuyematsu
    @scuyematsu 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This is the definition of chaotic good 😂

  • @mister_mayhem6117
    @mister_mayhem6117 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    When i was younger I had way too many ear infections the doctors were concerned that I would possibly go deaf and need surgery, i started wearing earplugs while showering and or swimming or really anywhere near water, and not kidding I legit didn't use earbuds or headphones for a long while, and guess what. Im perfectly fine still pretty susceptible to ear infections but i didn't need surgery and I'm not deaf if really, I have too good of hearing.
    It's normal for ear infections when younger as ears sometimes develop rather erratically. No worries you're doing amazing remember to take some dad time too.

    • @mister_mayhem6117
      @mister_mayhem6117 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Occasionally the inner part of your ears will swell causing moisture and or water to get trapped causing infections.

    • @mister_mayhem6117
      @mister_mayhem6117 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sorrry about all the reply's lol, but don't stress Im sure that your youngest will be just swell. But my best wishes and hopes are out to you!

  • @snodge100
    @snodge100 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Fantastic father xxxx

  • @pinecone1321
    @pinecone1321 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm from Texas and hearing I have a problem with brown recluse makes me want to stay in Michigan.
    Once brown recluses are inside good luck

  • @pocketgreetings6450
    @pocketgreetings6450 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are doing a fantastic job dad! You should be proud of yourself. The kids all love you and they all get along & mind very well. You’re very dedicated and just plain awesome keep up the good work. We all love watching you and remember those days when all of our kids were really little. ❤❤❤❤

  • @fudge9262
    @fudge9262 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's obvious that your anxious but think how much this will help her making her life better and in turn yours, as a parent that's how I look at it even though mine are adults now, x❤

  • @livelovenow8862
    @livelovenow8862 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Looks like such a FUN day!!!!!!!

  • @gfkenya9926
    @gfkenya9926 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    ✅✅✅ I hope you see this.
    I had a girl and a boy. My husband hated to take our daughter into the men’s restroom because how nasty he said it was. He had options with me. You do not.
    This is what I did: I purchased a portable potty, and kept it in the back of my vehicle. Keep small trashcan liners (you can pick up some from the dollar tree) to encapsulate the bowl of the potty in the bag. For urine I would throw paper towels in to help absorb the liquid and could have a bowel movement on top of that.
    Since you have a minivan, I would even encourage getting a diaper genie and keep it in the back. (strap it down with the bungee cord to the sidewall). That way you don’t have to get out to go find somewhere to go. I kept a spray bottle of alcohol and wiped l the potty down after they used it, and put that in the bag with the other material.
    I cannot tell you how much peace of mind because we never had to worry about that. In public spaces in which you have to take your daughter, please be sure to have a spray bottle of alcohol for ready grab. I also layered so much tissue around the toilet seat that it was barely anything left for next person. Lol. Protecting the girl.

    • @michellecarlos1207
      @michellecarlos1207 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      In the 70's my Dad put a home depot bucket in the back of the van. Bags and paper towels....actually, probably newspapers. You do what you've got to do with little ones.

  • @syedaaskari7456
    @syedaaskari7456 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are doing great don’t worry about mistakes ? No one is perfect ! We are in our 50 and still learning. Just keep learning it’s a part of life experience ?

  • @lindapawson3445
    @lindapawson3445 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love how he runs out the door at grandparents house🙌❤️

  • @w.i.t.financialservices691
    @w.i.t.financialservices691 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Buy a portable potty for the back of your car! Such a life saver!

  • @dianadaniel3441
    @dianadaniel3441 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Darling family. You are wonderful!

  • @MichelleCordova-l2i
    @MichelleCordova-l2i 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Same boat with my toddle.. I’m trying my best to not have surgery.. keep her nose clear as soon as you see mucus.. it’s helping my toodle not to get infections. She’s also taking allergie meds (Flonase, centrizine)

  • @suzizuki
    @suzizuki 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    osage orange trees have commonly referred to " monkey balls" they are green wrinkled balls from the tree..when dry they emit an odor that is offensive to almost all bugs..and they are non toxic. i hope you read this..theres plenty of them usually in the country.. too messy for a yard tree. good luck, i lived in the woods for years..also get large plastic or glass containers or coffee cans cuz the mice wont be far behind.

  • @DazzlingDianaGlimmer
    @DazzlingDianaGlimmer หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're an amazing dad!

  • @VickyWarren-g5q
    @VickyWarren-g5q หลายเดือนก่อน

    God bless you and those precious babies! You hang tough!!!❤❤❤

  • @time2pray777
    @time2pray777 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank God for grandpas help!

  • @annettegeorge209
    @annettegeorge209 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Your doing a great job.

  • @Danielle0709
    @Danielle0709 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Same here with brown recluse!!! In TN its hard with them!! Definitely looks like one!

    • @susanbashynski1373
      @susanbashynski1373 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @Danielle, well, TN was on my list of places to retire until I read your post. I HATE spiders - especially ones that hide in shoes and can cause bodily damage if they bite you. 😬

  • @KodylynnRyba
    @KodylynnRyba 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I don't have children sadly, u are an amazing daddy xo

  • @jeorgyboop5063
    @jeorgyboop5063 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    What is the back story....anyone know?😮

    • @Ms.Kayblack
      @Ms.Kayblack 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      That's what I have been asking... And No one knows I guess

    • @texasoutlook60
      @texasoutlook60 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I would like to know too!!

    • @trustinJesus_only-_
      @trustinJesus_only-_ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      He's married they work opposite shifts.

    • @dianawardrip5171
      @dianawardrip5171 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@texasoutlook60I am beginning to wonder about this!!!

    • @rachellet9235
      @rachellet9235 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      How do you know?

  • @DMK48906
    @DMK48906 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When my oldest was born he had ear infections for the 1st 7 months of his life. At 7 months he had tubes put in which eneded the infections. He has been great until a few months ago and has to have another tube put in. Hes 31 btw. Your baby girl will be just fine.

    • @elianafreeman9891
      @elianafreeman9891 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Was he in daycare? Were any of his siblings in school? Just curious

  • @daisy1022
    @daisy1022 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    No dairy with sinus and/or ear infections. That will only make it worse.😮

  • @Godblessed2
    @Godblessed2 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Use a spoon to dig out the formula scoop.

  • @Fiery154
    @Fiery154 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    My son likes coffee (3 years old) so I give him coffee to induce poops if it has been a couple days.
    My great aunt used to give her babies suppositories so they would poop before church and not AT church.
    So I really don’t feel bad about giving the coffee.

    • @CocoChanel-r2b
      @CocoChanel-r2b 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There are other natural more healthy ways to do that. Coffee at 3 is completely unnecessary and also very addicting but ur kid, ur choice🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @missdire
    @missdire 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not sure if you have the same fridge, but if you do then you need to get new lines for it. The reason it tastes like mold is probably because it has mold and mildew in the lines. Suuuuper unhealthy.

  • @TracieCarnes
    @TracieCarnes 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My daughter had 7 ear infections in 12 months. We had tubes put in and then she was a whole new kid! Anastasia was scary to me also. No fun when they are coming out, but a few hours later she was happy and eating like nothing happened. So much better in the long run than antibiotics every six weeks! Please let us know how it all works out.

    • @elianafreeman9891
      @elianafreeman9891 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Was she in daycare? Were any of her siblings in school? Just curious

  • @JKMA818
    @JKMA818 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That's fantastic run 👏

  • @BirdBrainFarter
    @BirdBrainFarter หลายเดือนก่อน

    That joy! 😊

  • @christykaderman6484
    @christykaderman6484 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tell your kids to use the restroom as your getting ready . Less bathroom breaks out

  • @Hillr2249
    @Hillr2249 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your a GREAT dad

  • @maryhaney1273
    @maryhaney1273 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Well going thru the comments ur married 😅
    I was thinking how u were doing all this by urself 😅 now i know!!!!

  • @Teri_Head
    @Teri_Head 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Restrict milk wheat and corn

  • @conniev3005
    @conniev3005 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My youngest son was 6 months old when he got his first set of ear tubes and had them replaced almost every 6 months until he was maybe 9 and still had to have them replaced once in awhile

  • @Nana_to_four_beauties
    @Nana_to_four_beauties 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have bought two different flavors of bloom and I can’t drink either with out apple juice

  • @cheriemccullough2223
    @cheriemccullough2223 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I haven't watched this guy's videos for long. Curious what his story is

  • @izibear4462
    @izibear4462 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My now adult son had them done twice abd was fine after that. He has never again had earache.

    • @elianafreeman9891
      @elianafreeman9891 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Was he in daycare? Were any of his siblings in school? Just curious

  • @jenniferlowery6277
    @jenniferlowery6277 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My kids do but their 14 and 12 but my 12 year old needs one so I can track her blood sugar

  • @naturallyfree376
    @naturallyfree376 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Where's the mommy?

    • @nuhrisha
      @nuhrisha 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Mommy is holding the camera😄

    • @justhavingfun9798
      @justhavingfun9798 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nuhrisha how do you know?

  • @estelladog1
    @estelladog1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No ear tubes!

    • @elianafreeman9891
      @elianafreeman9891 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why?

    • @estelladog1
      @estelladog1 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@elianafreeman9891 Multiple reasons. 30 years ago I worked for ENT's - nough said.

  • @sharongibson1161
    @sharongibson1161 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You cant just be the "fun Dad " , teaching is a huhe part of parenting, like not taking shoed off in car, pocking up after themselves, etc.. Should parent both ways😊

  • @annemariepratt4480
    @annemariepratt4480 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Who holds the Camera.

    • @nuhrisha
      @nuhrisha 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Mommy of course. The channel’s name in confusing………………he is definitely not a solodad. He only vlogs the moments he has to take care of the bunch. In real life mommy does all the house work and manages the kids.

  • @lisahefti8339
    @lisahefti8339 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where do you live? I live in the desert and they are common here.

  • @denisemyers9622
    @denisemyers9622 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No phones until they are 14 or 24

  • @annepierre-joseph2713
    @annepierre-joseph2713 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where’s manman bear just curious

  • @Pamela-bj3dg
    @Pamela-bj3dg 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Did you rub your gums yet. I'm sure they have where you shop.

  • @GreenEyes39
    @GreenEyes39 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a great dad u r

  • @AnastasiaBurchick
    @AnastasiaBurchick 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No phones 📵 trust me they are soooo bad for the brain development and even as adults my husband and I have to be super cautious about how much we spend on our phones. We are very careful about it, as we have to girls who also have asked for screens and I told my oldest who is 3rd grade when she has a job and needs rides to work then we can talk about getting a phone….

  • @bimbolimbospam
    @bimbolimbospam 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why squash a poor spider for no reason ?!?! 😢

  • @denisemyers9622
    @denisemyers9622 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You deserve the break

  • @gretchentrubee3387
    @gretchentrubee3387 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @tarey05
    @tarey05 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice white teeth!

  • @lorim4327
    @lorim4327 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Spiders like cardboard boxes.

  • @mrsvicente8250
    @mrsvicente8250 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I feel horrible for him. The community should come together and help this dad. His future “burn out” is inevitable! God bless him and his children. 🙏🏽

  • @cutepetscentral
    @cutepetscentral 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💗 🌷

  • @hayleychhetry6325
    @hayleychhetry6325 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are a very good Daddy

  • @cnavarrette8849
    @cnavarrette8849 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤✡️🕎✝️🙏🙏🙏💙

  • @Rachel-ft2bi
    @Rachel-ft2bi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🍫 and 😴😴😴😴😴😴😴💤

  • @dianer4488
    @dianer4488 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Exterminator

  • @michellepodgurski4500
    @michellepodgurski4500 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm exhausted just watcĥing. Hooray, for grandparents.

  • @jackiefontaine
    @jackiefontaine 3 หลายเดือนก่อน