LET'S DRINK & TALK ABOUT BREAKUPS | LIFE UPDATE Q&A

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  • @styledbysamvay
    @styledbysamvay  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @sassyiggy9539
    @sassyiggy9539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    That fact that you deliberately chose to acknowledge and answer a question from someone who actively trolls you speaks volumes about your incredible character. You are diplomatic AF and that is so mature and refreshing to see. Thank you for that.
    You are a peach! Maybe you should try moving to Georgia next. Lol

  • @theechinacee
    @theechinacee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Sam, you are a vybeee, okay?! I’m sure we all can agree she’s an extended virtual friend. So authentic 💕✨

  • @KissAndMakeup621
    @KissAndMakeup621 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Your videos inspired me to cosmetology school at 31 and im halfway done now ☺️

  • @Callieforniiaa
    @Callieforniiaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Going through something right now. My boyfriend of 2 years told me we need a break. I was confused because we were happy and never fought. Plus we just had our 2 year anniversary date a few weeks ago and he spent allot of money on me. It’s a weird situation and would love to work it out with him but it’s not my place to try anymore. It wasn’t my fault or choice. It’s up to him

    • @cyrene869
      @cyrene869 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Girly. I know it’s easier said than done. I’m not trying to put things in ur head so first focus on you because YOU matter. YOU are more important. Since he did that so randomly I’m gonna assume bc it rlly seems like he’s hiding something. There’s missing pieces to this. You deserve better and I hope u get it🤎

  • @maveline
    @maveline 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ugh I love my clients, i have one that's very nice to me but she constantly brings herself down and points out all her little flaws and I have to constantly reassure her and talk her up that by the end of the appointment I feel so drained 😴

  • @aniovakimyan3258
    @aniovakimyan3258 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I can’t believe how negative people are! Girl I love you!

  • @Stewrodent
    @Stewrodent 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I used to have customers at my last job that were super nice but made me feel like I needed to take a nap after working with them. Totally get it.

    • @sunshine-bs2jx
      @sunshine-bs2jx 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes I know that feeling

    • @570foodie
      @570foodie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You should buy crystals to protect you self from energy vampires 🧛‍♀️ you might be a empath !

    • @sunshine-bs2jx
      @sunshine-bs2jx 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@570foodie great idea yes I think a lot of hairdressers are empaths xx good wishes from Ireland xx 🇮🇪

    • @570foodie
      @570foodie 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sunshine-bs2jx Yes I thinks so too !

  • @livingoffgritpodcast
    @livingoffgritpodcast 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As someone who was a Makeup Artist for 20yrs... I got burnt out at the same time that I felt my career came full circle. Do you as you so choose!!! It's ok to move on from something you may no longer be interested in. Kudos on getting a part time job!!!

  • @VeggiesbyEos
    @VeggiesbyEos 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I still remember when I Instagram messaged you for advice on getting over a breakup back in 2019. I've been watching your videos every since, love your videos!!

  • @mariebone2745
    @mariebone2745 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ugh, I love ya, Sam. You are so relatable and real. Thank you for sharing with us. I’ve been loving getting this side of you on the podcast too ✨💙

  • @Girasoles
    @Girasoles 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey sam! Can you do a girl chat video? Like subscribers submit their questions/confessions and have a conversation about it?

  • @ScreamShoutCheer
    @ScreamShoutCheer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    In regards to the person who trolls you on Instagram…
    You have worked very hard to get to where you are on TH-cam, so the fact that they’re saying you “don’t have to work” is a lie. You’ve actually worked very hard, and that’s how you’ve been able to get away from the typically 9-5 sort of job AND you don’t owe an explanation to anyone. I think this person is jealous because deep down they’re probably unhappy doing a regular 9-5 job and wish they had the flexibility that an internet job offers. I’m sorry you get comments like this but just know your followers recognize your amazing work ethic. Anyway, I don’t mean to focus on the negative, but just wanted to reinforce the fact that being a TH-camr does not mean you don’t have to work hard! Hope this was uplifting for you to read today! 🤍
    Love you, Sam! Keep doing what you’re doing! 🤍

  • @morganveller2114
    @morganveller2114 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So true what you say about it being hard to let go! I was in a relationship for almost 9 years and when it ended I just had no clue how to do life without him so we stayed in contact and tried to be friends for almost 2 years after the breakup happened. We almost got back together multiple times. Last May I finally cut it off cold turkey and it was a trained effort to get myself not to reach out when I missed him. I had to distract myself and tell myself the why for when I was lonely. Over a year now without having spoken to him once and I don’t even miss it anymore

  • @DoveDaniels
    @DoveDaniels 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Every introvert understand you so well. I leave the house 3 days a month. I don't miss the salon atmosphere working with others. It's draining and that's why I am applying of a retail associate job at CVS.

    • @lisaryherd4593
      @lisaryherd4593 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good for you Dove Daniels, good luck on your new job search!!

    • @DoveDaniels
      @DoveDaniels 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lisaryherd4593 thanks a million my dear. I currently just got 2 jobs with less contact with people and then I do my hair clients house calls on my off hours. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽.

  • @PixieFan900
    @PixieFan900 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Omg, , I was just crying because I got dumped and this video pops up ... Love you Sam!

    • @nukhbaguloter
      @nukhbaguloter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I just got dumped too and haven’t stopped crying! We’re all in this together & not feeling the pain alone ♥️ I know you’ll be okay girly

    • @PixieFan900
      @PixieFan900 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nukhbaguloter omg this means so much! Sending you all the love x Check out lumma aziz's videos too they really help me out :)

  • @marthagarcia-castillo9096
    @marthagarcia-castillo9096 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sam, I think you’re doing amazing!! 💗

  • @brightcellarswine
    @brightcellarswine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This feels like the wine night we needed 😊

  • @heidi5452
    @heidi5452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love when you do Q&A's! Keep shining girl❤

  • @amberstevenson7505
    @amberstevenson7505 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, such an honest video. So refreshing. I used to work in the food industry, got SLAPPED by my boss, and quit. So I took a break from that and it's been great. Do you boo!!❤️

  • @gabyd7364
    @gabyd7364 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    “i worked hard for this and i deserve it” YES.

  • @danielhubley3335
    @danielhubley3335 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Okay it was Benny getting more and more aggravated with you and then eventually just getting up and leaving completely for me 🤣🤣🤣 that little boi is hilarious 🤪🥰 love you Sam!!

  • @e.n.3316
    @e.n.3316 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think this had to be the most honest Q & A I've heard about the emotions after a break up. Thank you for sharing. It helped knowing I'm not the only one who felt that way. Realizing now there always might be some sadness when I think about that person and that time in my life.

  • @leighakayleen123
    @leighakayleen123 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This Q&A came at the exact time I needed it. Thank you Sam!!

  • @roseycheeks34
    @roseycheeks34 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mine cheated on me with men. 4 months no contact! I am doing way better and am proud of myself for never giving in and just leaving him blocked.

  • @karlaamador8187
    @karlaamador8187 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Getting my coffee and cookies ready , This is is my mommy time!! Love you sam 💓🫶🏻 P.S I’ve been blonde for 10 years and your hair change motivated me to change it up I’m back to my natural hair after so long , I kind of love it 😭

  • @sarahcoan5400
    @sarahcoan5400 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved this video! ❤️ you’re amazing , don’t forget it !

  • @jazmincortez1297
    @jazmincortez1297 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this video, ur killing it ! ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @foreverbellaMua
    @foreverbellaMua 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You've grown so much on YT and you deserve to live how ever you want and work for youtube or a salon

  • @jacquelinevillarreal657
    @jacquelinevillarreal657 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Looking 🔥🔥🔥

  • @JennyStone
    @JennyStone 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Even though I don't drink . . . I'm here for all the Q&A's (and support)! So excited for the next vlog! I enjoy them so much! ♥ Jenny

  • @angelines7409
    @angelines7409 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yesss I love happy hour! 😄🥂✨

  • @heather3313
    @heather3313 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love watching your videos , so relatable xxx

  • @apresdavis
    @apresdavis 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💕💕💕I got super emotional about your break up!...🍷 always makes things better!!!

  • @wendywillams
    @wendywillams 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sam you are winning! Pay them trolls dust. You have a successful youtube channel, you're a licensed cosmetologist, you have a podcast and sell merch all while still being humble and relatable. The negative people on here are jealous and could never monetize a youtube channel or get a sponsorship. That takes a lot of work. Keep going and don't dull your shine for no one. ✨️

  • @dchelsea2011
    @dchelsea2011 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this 💕

  • @jacklynolson9131
    @jacklynolson9131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel that last question, a lot of my friends are married with kid(s) and I’m only 24 lol. My clients are always asking me “do you have any children” or when am I? I think most people understand how insensitive that is nowadays though because some people want kids desperately and can’t have them at the moment. Glad you’re doing better and happier 🫶🏻🍷

  • @kristijones4236
    @kristijones4236 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been waiting all week for a vlog! This is good too, tho!

  • @lexvirgilio
    @lexvirgilio 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sam you and your channel have been such a calm and comforting space for me to turn to in all the crazy and heavy things I’ve been dealing with especially in the past few years. Thank you so so much for bringing light to my dark days over these years of you being on TH-cam. I can’t even count how many times you’ve made me feel less alone or have made me laugh when I’ve needed it most . The world is lucky to have you. Thank you for all you do, your impact on peoples lives is truly a blessing. ❤️

  • @hannahplane9528
    @hannahplane9528 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thinking about it it’s crazy how you been in NC for almost 1 year. Time flies

  • @sunshine-bs2jx
    @sunshine-bs2jx 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Sam thanks for the video x love from Ireland xx 🇮🇪🇮🇪❤️ good wishes to u always

  • @christinamartinez8132
    @christinamartinez8132 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Benny is so chill. My German Short Hair Pointer is so hyper and he's four years old. I just started Good Girls series on Netflix.

  • @kyla2182
    @kyla2182 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve been seeing a lot of high school acquaintances tie the knot on fb. I’m like how did you know to take that step with that person? Did they think that they wouldn’t meet someone else who could’ve been a better match?
    I don’t feel dragged down by their posts because I don’t expect the ring and baby carriage to be coming soon. I just finished
    school and am waiting to get my license to start working. I really want to build myself and my network and get new friends. I’m also a believer so if god wants a husband and baby to enter my play it’s gonna come :)
    I really don’t want to rush and make mistakes. I’ve also distanced myself from people in my past on Instagram. Idk I just feel like I have the opportunity to make new changes in my life and I want the consequence of those changes to impact the permanent choices like marriage and picking a place to live, etc.
    Sam your making great choices! I’d love to see videos on sober versions of your fav cocktails :)

  • @JackieBfly
    @JackieBfly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girl, if you loved Laguna Beach or The Hills or The City, you should go check out Whitney Port's youtube channel! Her and her husband Timmy did reaction videos on ALL of those old series and this is what sparked Kristin and what's his name to even do theirs!! Her husband Timmy is hilarious too! You'll love their videos they did!! 🥳

  • @alexgebhardt5925
    @alexgebhardt5925 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're the best!xoxox

  • @moonlit3836
    @moonlit3836 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    perfect video i’d want to see today! haters are so weird. i missed you!!

  • @Ashleyiza
    @Ashleyiza 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @kelly1992C
    @kelly1992C 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why did you move to NC?

  • @michaelvega3669
    @michaelvega3669 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey what would you have done if your ex asked you out while you guys were talking again?

  • @570foodie
    @570foodie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Sam love you Q&A I think you are a empath that why you feel like some people drain you ! I’m the same way buy crystal to protect you from energy Vampires 🧛‍♀️

  • @savvybsaving
    @savvybsaving 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yay first comment!!!

  • @isabelmart3774
    @isabelmart3774 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Totally off top but my hair stylist did a bolder chunky money piece is there anyway I can fix it or is my only hope is to color my hair darker

    • @styledbysamvay
      @styledbysamvay  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would just go back and ask if the stylist can make it a little thinner, and bring some inspiration photos to show what you want. Much easier than trying to fix it yourself, and as long as you go back within a few days, they should fix it for free.

  • @tania_yt
    @tania_yt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Would you ever be friends with your subscribers? You seem so chill and relatable 🥰 but at the same time everything can be so dangerous out there so idek 🤔

  • @esmeraldamartinez6304
    @esmeraldamartinez6304 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Have you looked into doggy day care for Benny? Or a dog walker? 🙂

  • @TheLs485
    @TheLs485 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    im confused, I feel like I watched this last week? Did she reupload it?

  • @sammirose7605
    @sammirose7605 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    meanwhile im drinking a baja blast freeze

  • @authormdluna
    @authormdluna ปีที่แล้ว

    “Excuse my appearance.” *Looks hot as fuck*

  • @Jess2Farr
    @Jess2Farr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Saaammmm stop it you are so hot. lol ❤️ love you!