noh they aged up all the characters 'cause Ryles (the abuser) job didn't make sense at the age the author had actually given him in the book. So they got the excuse to fix it
But even in the book they are grown adults, Lily is like 23 yo, she's not just out of high school and it's not her first love. And it's good seeing adults playing adults, for once.
@ yeah I didn’t say she was right out of high school. But in what world does Blake Lively look like a 23 y/o? I’d love to see a movie where adults play their age, unlike here where a 30+ y/o is playing 20 y/o.
@sakinmerc Oh yes, it's certain that she doesn't look 23 at all 🤣 But I don't remember if they tell their age in the movie, so they could be older 🤷🏼♀️
@@sakinmerc yeah but this is what I mean, all the characters have been aged up in the movie. To make up for the mistake CH did with Ryle's (sorry if I don't remember his name properly) age. I definitely don't think she's a good casting mostly because of the lack of her acting rage. But appearance-wise they were all meant to be in their 30s in the film
the best part of this movie was the flower shop and the only reason that it didn't suck is because flowers come from nature not the producers of this movie
Ok but the red flags Ryle (the main guy) was showing in just the first scene alone…. taking his anger out on furniture (a sign of anger issues), wanted to have sex after like a five minute conversation and was so dead serious and the way he asked “is that funny?” like yikes girlie I would NOT have entertained a conversation with that guy for much longer.
You know what, if you read the book based on which this movie was made on, you will feel that the Ryle portrayed in the movie is far better and more realistic. People who like the kind of stories the author Colleen Hoover writes will find him charming because in all her other books, the male lead shows these same (or sometimes even worse) red flag behaviours and they're shown in a loving and romantic light. You can replace Ryle with any other male lead in her books and vice versa, and there won't be a big change.
I thought the point of the movie was that the household Lily grew up in made her miss the huge red flags, but... I did not and will not read the book...
Just some random guy on the streets that I shared no connection with whatsoever. 😂 I didn't read the book, or watch the film, and that's how it came across to me when hearing about it. I literally imagined a troubled girl in some dirty tent city, with a nice homeless guy. You'd think that a writer would be able to convey a little more depth to her characters.
Thank you. I thought I was the only one who noticed how unhealthy her hair looks😭 it’s kinda a mess. Balke would look so much better with a different hair do
Unfortunately she has no talent, just looks. I say this from observation. She seems empty headed and just acts as she is told. Her acting feels so forced, not at all genuine. I don't hate her or anything tho
Idc what anyone says, that scene where she laughs at his job and he goes “is that funny?” Makes me so uncomfortable that man WAS MAD. He was about to abuse her right there
Wouldn't you be mad if you went out of a serious surgery where patient, a child, died and some weird girl laughs at you right in your face? Not to defend him, he indeed became a bit scary - but many people would be at least annoyed by her weird reaction
Fr I read hopeless as my first book from her and I had NO IDEA what I was in for. What made it worse was I ended up relating sm to the main character but she was the way she was bc she was REALLL messed up
1:25 im sorry but what was wrong with her, like he’s saying a little boy died during surgery, and he probably blames himself and she says this? Like girl 💀
Blake Lively is the same character in every show or movie. Flirty girl, who doesn’t know she is super hot, and “oh my, you actually like me? How crazy!”
Lmfaooo to me it’s the same character.. but she thinks she’s super hot and fishes for compliments and tries to be mysterious but just looks like a weirdo lmfao… literally Serena Vanderwoodson/ herself. Narcissistic pretending to be coy.
i hate the roof top scene the most- would have really liked to see Baldoni's version. How ungrateful can you be to get cast in a movie, because someone wants to spread domestic awareness & generational trauma awareness, only to take it over yourself
@ I’m not applying a real life situation to a fictional character, first off. I’m saying that’s what she “LOOKS” like. If I had thought of what I described, she would be the person I pictured. Just like the person in the original comment… Second, even if I was applying to a fictional character, why does it matter? Isn’t that literally the point? People can be so dense.
The divorce scene gets me everytime and i didnt even watch the film 😂 no way its gonna worke with an abuser like that. You want a divorce in a dv situation? You flee with nothing but your clothes and get to a safehouse and put a restraining order with the police.
I didn’t think it was romantic at all. I don’t even mind toxic romance books but the toxicity was even boring. It was hard for me to stay interested in reading it.
Okay so I hate Colleen Hoover books and toxic romance books in general but I actually like this one. Wasn’t it more about domestic violence and how hard it to get out a situation like that rather than romance? May I ask why ppl don’t like this book?
I love that in movies and on hgtv they always have jobs where it’s like “I sell bracelets made out of trash, I make $50k a month” like who owns a “trendy” flower shop and is at all somewhat successful? I know they exist but idk……. Seems like a “I have rich parents” job
Purportedly, when Blake forced them to rebuy a whole new stage wardrobe for her character, she argued that Lily "would have money, and would own $5,000 shoes." She thought her young florist who put all her money into a new store would be walking around work all day in $5k shoes. Blake is that out of touch with what a person will wear while standing nine hours a day at work, and how successful a no-named person opening a brand new store would be in their first few years.
So her revenge on her abusive father was to spend his money on 5k shoes? She has hard time understanding her mother stayed with him, but using his money all good, thank you daddy, love ya! Like the resentment would not translate into hating everything about her father, his money including. Wtf 😂 make it make sense
this reminds me of her other movie Age of Adelaide-- I went with a huge group of friends for my besties bday. Everyone in that theater except my bestie could not stop cackling at the cringe!!!! I think its just her thing
@@Siwah612same i choose my book from booktok but after doing some personal info latter since i ended up with it ends with and had slam the book shut soon after
This part of the script ruined the entire movie immediately for me & how I knew immediately it was Ryan… If anyone read the books (still not a fan of those either) that part of the book is crucial to the plot. Made the entire thing ten times cornier and just b a d lmao
The way they made it seem like ending a relationship with an abuser is so calm and like they’ll let it happen that easily, as if she’s just telling him what she wants for dinner. Like that whole part is not even realistic for a regular deteriorating marriage, let alone one involving someone who is abusive.
@@chelsye4929 Right?!?! And yet this book got published and I've read comments people claiming to be SA survivors saying it's a realistic betrayal of DV.
@@Uilani-g4mThe movie isn’t, however the book is better at portraying toxic relationships and how manipulative Ryle is. The overall message was beautiful and it was shown pretty well.
Blake Lively RUINED this movie. Justin Baldoni’s version was so much better. His version elevated a terrible book to an art piece. She butchered his vision.
as someone who has not, and never will, read the book or watched the movie-- the casting for younger blake lively is perfecttt and that's maybe the only good thing to come out of the coho universe.
She was terrible in gossip girl, and terrible here. She's just not a good actress. I always felt like her acting in gossip girl made the main character so boring and generic. I mean, that was supposed to be the lead character. Come on, she sucked from the beginning. I couldn't even get past season 1 because of her.
@@itshyeonjindae i think their mom wants love like lily and atlas, not lily and ryle. either way though, i don't think anything colleen hoover related is ideal for a relationship. that woman needs therapy and somebody needs to take away her microsoft word.
My mom LOVED the book. She was so excited to watch the movie. I thought it make the perfect birthday gift to take her to go see it at a movie tavern. After seeing reviews and clips she's never been so disappointed in a movie she been looking forward to since the live action Lion King came out
No, the message isn't to forgive your abusers. The message is that the domestic abuse Lily experienced would end with her marraige. Essentially, she would never allow her daughter to ever enter a marriage like the one she experienced. And people are saying that the book is better and what-not, but I personally just don't want to see the movie or read the book.
@ehs35 honestly this book was the only coho book I liked it showcased DV really nicely and also how lily ended the abusing with her marriage of ryle but like honestly the movie was shitty asf like we all knew the movie was supposed to be bad thanks to blake lively but this bad I'm so shooked...
@@HoBi_wAter_fOr_3DoLLArs I guess it was actually the story of her mom. (Supposedly) all of this was how her mom got free from the cycle with a few edits. All of her other stories (supposedly) are from CoHo's time as a social worker but then she romanticised them....
Short answer? No, it technically isn't. Long answer? It's complicated. Reading the other Colleen Hoover books can give some insight into how the author views men and women. She has a thing for the "troubled bad boy who acts like that because he's actually hurting inside" and the "quirky girl who is strong and brave enough to fix him" archetype. Most of her main characters fall into that archetype in some way. Comparatively, It End with Us is one of her better books because it actually calls our Ryle's behaviour. On the other hand, Colleen Hoover, quote, "fell in love" with Ryle while writing him. Also, the stuff about Lily's parents is based off Hoover's true experiences, which complicates things. Hoover reportedly had a good relationship with her Dad (possibly trauma bonding) but her Dad @bused her mum. This book is clearly Hoover trying to work out her own stuff through these characters.
all of colleen hoover's male love interests act like this - ryle's just the only one to be acknowledged by the text as an abuser. practically all of them r*pe the female protagonists or exhibit minor bouts of physical abuse (like bodyblocking, and dragging the women around aggressively; not to downplay the effects of these abusive behaviours), one sets the protagonist's home on fire and leaves her permanently disfigured (also ruining her career in the process, as she was an actress), one holds his traumatised girlfriend hostage while cheating on her in full-view of her, one cheats on his dying, paralysed wife in front of her and then murders her over (what is implied to be) a misunderstanding... this barely even touches the surface of the nightmares that are coho love interests. likewise, it doesnt even "end with us" because the book's epilogue features lily explaining that she gave ryle partial custody; the story literally ends with her allowing this incredibly-abusive person full and unmonitored access to their daughter 2 days a week, all under the guise of children "needing" their father in their lives no matter what. people love to dump on the film (rightfully so) but then - in the same vein - gas up the book... which is insane to me because this is an insanely faithful adaptation. coho *wanted* to write a cautionary tale on domestic abuse, however she lacks the knowledge, empathy and self-awareness of the toxicities of her own fantasies to do so constructively
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Book Lily is a pick-me but god movie lily going like - 'i'm the kind of girl you take home to mama' wtf girl, chill down. I hate the book but the rooftop scene was GOOD!!!! They fucking ruined it in the movies!!!
The movie is about domestic violence. And the only one who portrayed it as that was the guy. He was abusive, not normal, and had major anger issues, and the actor, who is also the director of the movie portrayed it just like that. It wasn't a movie made for entertainment, it was about raising awareness about domestic violence and every other form of abuse out there. Whereas Blake described the whole thing as a freaking floral garden full of roses and petunias. She absolutely served nothing in the movie as much as she was supposed to, or was expected to.
Your editing is top tier! 😂😂😂 Never watched this movie but I've seen enough reviews and reactions to get the main idea and feel like I don't have to now 😂
It makes sense why this movie was so bad knowing Blake lively took over everything in this movie💀 I just know if we saw Justin’s cut of the movie it would have been a much better experience
I've never read the book and don't plan to. I read the summary of the book and immediately put it back. Why do people think these kinds of books are romantic??? Oh, because she EVENTUALLY gets out of the abusive relationship? WTF...
This blasphemy is NOT acting, I can’t believe we used to think she was a good actress as Serena Vanderwoodson in Gossip Girl… lmfao turns out she just plays the same character in everything, herself, a narcissist lmao.
Justin really wanted ppl to see this as a movie abt a DV survivor and things from her perspective and Blake is out here being like "florals sunshine rainbowss!!".... 😐
I REFUSED to watch the movie with my bestfriend. Ive unfortunately read the book, at THIRTEEN no less. Her books are in MIDDLE SCHOOLS FFS. They are marketed toward young women when all theyre about is glorifying DV and SA. She has a book called “Too Late” thats in my highschool and i read it (at FOURTEEN) and she just glorified and went into so much detail about r@pe and abuse. Emotional,sexual, physical even FINANCIAL abuse. Her book november 9 is so trashy. Basicaly Falon(Main C) was a child actress and a fire broke out in her dads house while she spent the night with him ( divorced parents) and she was so badly burned her face was scarred and her career ended. Anyway fast foreward shes eating with her dad at a resturant (she blames him for forgetting she was in the house) and she bumbs into a guy and he just falls head over heels for her and calls her “so fucking beautiful” anyway, they hit it off start talking yada yada. Idk how this happens but they agree to meet only ONCE a year. On november 9 (i read the book years ago) and its revealed that he -started the fire that burned her bcz his mom k*lled herself becz the man she was having an affair with left her (thats falon’s dad) -he wanted revenge and accidentally set the WHOLE house on fire -he stalked her and found oit shed be at the restaurant and approached her -he only came up to her to ease his own guilty conscience -he figured she was insecure about the scars and complemented them always -he got almost violent with her when she accidentaly overheard his brother say “did you tell her? Does she know? That YOURE the one who started the fire that ended her career?” -his brother dies (cant remeber how) but he cheats on her with his dead brothers WIFE -Sa’s her And she STILL ended up with him colleen also defended her son from Sa charges/accusations
OMFG! Just what is wrong with Hoover?! She needs one hell of a long therapy… And what kind of people allow such books to be available for kids?! I’d be infuriated if it was in my kid’s school. And I’m not even a parent yet.
They honestly don't. For 30 years Ryan has played the exact same character in every movie and Blake only has a career because her parents bought it for her.
The way I preferred all the younger Atlas and Lily scenes over the rest of the movie, I actually enjoyed watching those two, they could act and encompassed young first love so accurately
This movie is something I would never watch. As a woman with plenty of life experience, it looks absolutely annoying and stupid. And why is Blake so full of herself? What a weirdo.
I think that the worst part of this movie is that it's meant to expose domestic violence so people can identify it but, Justin Baldoni is suffering abuse due to Blake Lively and nothing happens because she's a woman. This is wrong
Justin was playing a creepy guy part and I think that's what she was doing was getting confused about his character. I've never watched the movie and can tell with these snippets his character has issues and is creepy but she likes him b/c he's a doctor and she ignores the red flags.
I refuse to read a book or watch a movie with a main character named Lily Blossom Bloom. Can we be serious.
Lmaooooo I didnt know that Im dyin rn
Sounds like a kids show main character name 💀
Trust me ur not missing anything 😔🤓
im ded
help i read the book and i didnt even realize that was her middle name
you telling me this grown ass woman was supposed to portray a young girl in her 20s falling in love for the first time after high school? lmao
noh they aged up all the characters 'cause Ryles (the abuser) job didn't make sense at the age the author had actually given him in the book. So they got the excuse to fix it
But even in the book they are grown adults, Lily is like 23 yo, she's not just out of high school and it's not her first love. And it's good seeing adults playing adults, for once.
@ yeah I didn’t say she was right out of high school. But in what world does Blake Lively look like a 23 y/o? I’d love to see a movie where adults play their age, unlike here where a 30+ y/o is playing 20 y/o.
@sakinmerc Oh yes, it's certain that she doesn't look 23 at all 🤣
But I don't remember if they tell their age in the movie, so they could be older 🤷🏼♀️
@@sakinmerc yeah but this is what I mean, all the characters have been aged up in the movie. To make up for the mistake CH did with Ryle's (sorry if I don't remember his name properly) age.
I definitely don't think she's a good casting mostly because of the lack of her acting rage. But appearance-wise they were all meant to be in their 30s in the film
why is she laughing at everything? MAN THEY DIDN'T EVEN TRY
The gentle slaps when she asks for a divorce too?? 😭✋ Blake Lively needs to stop
I swear I thought they accidentally put bloopers into the movie😭😭
@@Revol.T and the fact that she thinks it's such a great performance is next level crazy
@@SesemeSaysYouNeedTherapy-e7m it was a movie we thought we needed but we didn't 😭😭😭
@ 😭😭😭
the best part of this movie was the flower shop and the only reason that it didn't suck is because flowers come from nature not the producers of this movie
LMAO😭
😂😂😂
Thats the best comment I read phew
😂😂😂
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As someone who has neither watched the movie nor read the book, the only thing that came out of my mouth was "What?"
I agree, won't watch or read, lol. Just weird even for me btw
The book is good, not the best story of all times, but for me, it formed an emotional connection, which this movie completely ruined.
same girl same.
it's a horrible excuse for a dv book
REAL, i didnt understand shit about the plot fro this video itself
THIS is the movie we were supposed to grab our friends and wear our florals to go and see??
🤣
Yes, this is the movie
😅😅😅😂
Bruh my older sister tried to get me to watch this 😩
😂😂😂
So motivational. Seeing this book be made into a movie made me realize that no matter how shitty I think my writing is, there is always hope.
I'm sure it would be way better than hers anyway.
True ^^
Never give up keep grinding and maybe one day you can write something like this and make money off it.
This was the comment I was looking for, TY 🌸
Stephanie Meyer walked so that E.L. James could run, so that Colleen Hoover could fly 😜
"im gonna have to break your record"
Proceeds to not break his record 😭
Ends up breaking her jaw
Ends up marrying him
Ends up birthing his child
Y'all are too funny lmaooo
Ends up marrying him😂
Ok but the red flags Ryle (the main guy) was showing in just the first scene alone…. taking his anger out on furniture (a sign of anger issues), wanted to have sex after like a five minute conversation and was so dead serious and the way he asked “is that funny?” like yikes girlie I would NOT have entertained a conversation with that guy for much longer.
Right 😂
exactly! like all signs point to abuse, i'd get away so fast. too bad lily doesn't have common sense smh
You know what, if you read the book based on which this movie was made on, you will feel that the Ryle portrayed in the movie is far better and more realistic. People who like the kind of stories the author Colleen Hoover writes will find him charming because in all her other books, the male lead shows these same (or sometimes even worse) red flag behaviours and they're shown in a loving and romantic light. You can replace Ryle with any other male lead in her books and vice versa, and there won't be a big change.
I thought the point of the movie was that the household Lily grew up in made her miss the huge red flags, but... I did not and will not read the book...
@ I think you’re right I was just pointing out how from the beginning he was a red flag
Got mad pissed when she told “i slept with a homeless guy” referring to her sweet ex boyfriend
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Just some random guy on the streets that I shared no connection with whatsoever. 😂 I didn't read the book, or watch the film, and that's how it came across to me when hearing about it. I literally imagined a troubled girl in some dirty tent city, with a nice homeless guy. You'd think that a writer would be able to convey a little more depth to her characters.
Real, she down played it so much and then was surprised when Ryle shouted at the guy that he's the one she wasted her virginity with 😂😂😂
She was clearly trying to one up him and made it sound embarrassing just to get pity from him 🤦🏻♀️
her hair makes me wanna cry
The fact that she was promoting her hair care brand at the same time 😭😭😭 even the pics of her hair on the advertisement was frizzy af💀
@@kayleedesroches6318 she was?? oh dear
YES! THANK YOU. And they say Halle Berry's wigs in her films are bad
exactly! it looks like a wig and the length + thickness isn't really flattering, it kinda pull her down
Thank you. I thought I was the only one who noticed how unhealthy her hair looks😭 it’s kinda a mess. Balke would look so much better with a different hair do
I thought Blake Lively was supposed to be a GOOD actress? she's serving absolutely nothing this whole movie wtf
you didn’t watch gossip girl? she gave us nothing the whole time.
@@cryspbacon Yaaas gurl, give us absolutely nothing! Except some cringe, maybe, because I’m in pain from the acting. 😭😭😭
Makes me wonder if she secretly hated the role or if she actually enjoys acting jobs such as this one
Unfortunately she has no talent, just looks. I say this from observation. She seems empty headed and just acts as she is told. Her acting feels so forced, not at all genuine. I don't hate her or anything tho
She gives the most neutral, mid, uninteresting performance ever. Barely mediocre, mostly boring.
Idc what anyone says, that scene where she laughs at his job and he goes “is that funny?” Makes me so uncomfortable that man WAS MAD. He was about to abuse her right there
Well, if he indeed watched a little boy die with his job, someone mocking my work would also piss me off.
No normal person would say the things she said. Id be mad too if i had to talk to this nutcase.
Time stamp
Wouldn't you be mad if you went out of a serious surgery where patient, a child, died and some weird girl laughs at you right in your face? Not to defend him, he indeed became a bit scary - but many people would be at least annoyed by her weird reaction
@@shikha7711 1:01
It’s giving wattpad 😂
All Coleen hoover books do
In all the worst ways
They make not just the wattpad like stories but the wattpad like movies these days 😂
I never read wattpad, but I trust you on this.
Actually wattpad has better plot and dialogue than this... Not all but few
The marketing for this movie was crazy too 💀
oh my gosh why would anyone market this
Im surprized that it was even made into a movie , the book is absolutely horrendous like i couldnt continue reading it
She was just marketing her husband's liquor brand instead of that movie. So that kind of blows
movie, press run, and lawsuit went crazy LITERALLY
Thank you. I HATE Colleen Hoover books
Fr I read hopeless as my first book from her and I had NO IDEA what I was in for. What made it worse was I ended up relating sm to the main character but she was the way she was bc she was REALLL messed up
Slammed is good. 'It ends with us' is also good and the makers spoiled the book. Other books are not worth it
lol this is why i don't read any booktok recs
Books???? You mean he/she has more trash written !!!
Love one another
I have no idea what this movie is about , this did not help
Abuse
I think Blake Lively doesn't have idea either
@@jessicam7447 best comment 😂😂
A terrible book, made into a terrible movie, with the less deep than this video, and way less entretaining,
Abuse. I didn’t see it but from my understanding it did not have an accurate portrayal
1:25 im sorry but what was wrong with her, like he’s saying a little boy died during surgery, and he probably blames himself and she says this? Like girl 💀
FR AND WHY DID SHE LAUGH FOR WHEN HE SAID HE WAS A NEURO SURGEON😭😭
@yashvitareddy Tommy Wiseau school of acting.
@@taracarroll4218 please don't insult our Tommy like that
In the movie there is convo in between the statements. The dialogue is awful, but not THAT awful
@@PeopleSureCanBeDumb Just referencing the "Ha ha ha, what a story Mark." But at least The Room is entertaining.
Blake Lively is the same character in every show or movie. Flirty girl, who doesn’t know she is super hot, and “oh my, you actually like me? How crazy!”
Im really not tryna sound mean but is she super hot? She is beautiful, Idk she gives girl next door vibes more than it girl.
Super hot lmao
Lmfaooo to me it’s the same character.. but she thinks she’s super hot and fishes for compliments and tries to be mysterious but just looks like a weirdo lmfao… literally Serena Vanderwoodson/ herself. Narcissistic pretending to be coy.
Always the "pick me" girl character
Super hot is crazy
The fact that ryan renolds wrote the rooftop scene is crazy gosh i hate this movie so much
i hate the roof top scene the most- would have really liked to see Baldoni's version. How ungrateful can you be to get cast in a movie, because someone wants to spread domestic awareness & generational trauma awareness, only to take it over yourself
We got the Snyder cut, where's the Baldoni cut? Maybe that version actually makes sense. The rooftop scene sure as hell didn't.
She’s literally the character trope of “ I’m not like other girls” 😭😭😭
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She looks 40, unemployed and is about to call the manager bfr girl 😭😭
I’d say 35, unemployed, hopeless romantic because she’s getting old and she may not be married BY 40 settled with a family.
@@kaylandcash1467you know this a movie right.
@@bettedaviseyes9947 Yes, why are you telling me this?
@@kaylandcash1467 because you are applying a real -life situation to a fictional character.
@ I’m not applying a real life situation to a fictional character, first off. I’m saying that’s what she “LOOKS” like. If I had thought of what I described, she would be the person I pictured. Just like the person in the original comment… Second, even if I was applying to a fictional character, why does it matter? Isn’t that literally the point? People can be so dense.
The ick factor he gave me the entire video 😭😭😭 the heck is the movie even about
Domestic violence
BRO MY MOM LOVED IT AND SHE LIKED ATLAS A LOT AND SHE DONT WANNA HEAR NUN AGAINST IT but ofc shes like abusers get rekt
domestic abuse. like no joke.
Do I want to know what the book was about 😭😭😭
@@Winter_Symphony lol it's the exact same thing tbh but the movie is cringier, which says a lot because the book is already pretty cringy
The divorce scene gets me everytime and i didnt even watch the film 😂 no way its gonna worke with an abuser like that. You want a divorce in a dv situation? You flee with nothing but your clothes and get to a safehouse and put a restraining order with the police.
"I want a divorce" *pats his face* bffr 😂
Even with doing all that the abuser can still come back. They don't make it easy to leave
Yup.100%!
And then pray
fr like what the hell was that lmao, just telling your abuser im leaving you and patting his face?? yeah cos its that easy irl
I mean even the book was shitty. Can't believe they actually made this movie
So true... Why is this even a movie... I was really so done with the book
Exactly who were so high to make this into a movie?
I didn’t think it was romantic at all. I don’t even mind toxic romance books but the toxicity was even boring. It was hard for me to stay interested in reading it.
Okay so I hate Colleen Hoover books and toxic romance books in general but I actually like this one. Wasn’t it more about domestic violence and how hard it to get out a situation like that rather than romance? May I ask why ppl don’t like this book?
Fr it was still fine as a book I mean collen hoover wrote it for her mother and it was great and shit but the movie just- 💀
I love that in movies and on hgtv they always have jobs where it’s like “I sell bracelets made out of trash, I make $50k a month” like who owns a “trendy” flower shop and is at all somewhat successful? I know they exist but idk……. Seems like a “I have rich parents” job
Movies are not realistic i mean i dont live in the US but I know for a fact that the economy there is not that good
Purportedly, when Blake forced them to rebuy a whole new stage wardrobe for her character, she argued that Lily "would have money, and would own $5,000 shoes." She thought her young florist who put all her money into a new store would be walking around work all day in $5k shoes. Blake is that out of touch with what a person will wear while standing nine hours a day at work, and how successful a no-named person opening a brand new store would be in their first few years.
she does- her dad was the mayor of the town she grew up in 😅
Yeah exactly
So her revenge on her abusive father was to spend his money on 5k shoes? She has hard time understanding her mother stayed with him, but using his money all good, thank you daddy, love ya! Like the resentment would not translate into hating everything about her father, his money including. Wtf 😂 make it make sense
I genuinely feel bad for how passionate Justin Baldoni was about this, to end up with this mess😭
frrr
Fr I wanna see the Baldoni cut honestly 😭
I remember the whole theater laughing at the cringiness of this movie
when the lights came on in my theater, there was an aura of confusion. like nobody got up right away, we all just kinda sat there like “huh?”
this reminds me of her other movie Age of Adelaide-- I went with a huge group of friends for my besties bday. Everyone in that theater except my bestie could not stop cackling at the cringe!!!! I think its just her thing
@@rdsubplotomg Age of Adaline is like sooo long????😂 how can you stay and sit watching that
Insane fact: half of my class full of girls presented Collen Hoover books in our book reports.
Ain’t no way
I don't understand why girls in my school love Collen Hoover books😭😭
i would walk out of the class and start a gofundme to get those girls some therapy😭
HELP
Whooooo tf is doing Colleen hoover for book reports, my teachers had a ban list. I would die before I submitted that
3:42 "Is that for a girrrllll?"
What the heck were the writers smoking...
👁👄👁
It's written by Collen Hoover. She's hated a lot in the book community 😭
@Ayeshabfr not hated by Booktok tho 😭
@@Siwah612 I'm one of the booktok person girl most of us do 😭
Deff is collen hoover.
@@Siwah612same i choose my book from booktok but after doing some personal info latter since i ended up with it ends with and had slam the book shut soon after
Wow. Well, now knowing that Ryan wrote the rooftop scene “crypto bro” insult makes more sense.
yeah right, i dont know anyone who says that outside of movies, and it really didnt fit. the whole scene felt weird to me as well
This part of the script ruined the entire movie immediately for me & how I knew immediately it was Ryan… If anyone read the books (still not a fan of those either) that part of the book is crucial to the plot. Made the entire thing ten times cornier and just b a d lmao
He juwt wanted to insult him.
“I want a divorce” the look on Ryle’s face is wild bro
The way they made it seem like ending a relationship with an abuser is so calm and like they’ll let it happen that easily, as if she’s just telling him what she wants for dinner. Like that whole part is not even realistic for a regular deteriorating marriage, let alone one involving someone who is abusive.
@@chelsye4929 Right?!?! And yet this book got published and I've read comments people claiming to be SA survivors saying it's a realistic betrayal of DV.
tear drop tap tap lol😂
@@Uilani-g4mThe movie isn’t, however the book is better at portraying toxic relationships and how manipulative Ryle is. The overall message was beautiful and it was shown pretty well.
The way you could tell Ryan wrote that rooftop scene.
I tHoUgHt yOu WeRe sOmE kInD oF CrYpToBrO
why tf is he so straight forward? 😭😭 im actually so concerned about this movie-
He's an abusive man... Lol nothing about him is good ig
He’s the abuser in the movie so it kinda makes sense
@ true.
Because a woman wrote him.
I would love to see Justin's cut of the film since apparently it scored significantly higher with audiences.
The way I HOLLERED when the FBI busted in. LMAO
I thought it was actually part of the scene till they busted through the door 😂
"I watched someone die tonight" well i slept w a homeless person.... um cool flex brah
Blake Lively RUINED this movie. Justin Baldoni’s version was so much better. His version elevated a terrible book to an art piece. She butchered his vision.
The book was shit, the movie is shit, the acting is shit…Colleen Hoover is a terrible author. There was no saving this movie.
@@kiairagreen eeeexactly. but casting BLAKE LIVELY? that made it entirely hopeless.
@thesimpcardd Colleen Hoover wanted something for herself, not something for the book itself
if you don't mind me asking, is there a place i can find out what justin was going to do with it? i didn't know they had produced different versions
So turns out they’re both assholes apparently
as someone who has not, and never will, read the book or watched the movie-- the casting for younger blake lively is perfecttt and that's maybe the only good thing to come out of the coho universe.
The only thing beautiful in this movie was the flower shop.
I didn't even think it was that nice. It gave funeral vibes. I've seen people have floral tea shops that look better
She is laughing at everything like she is very lively.
(pun intended maybe)
This literally looks like outtakes or something 😭😭 omg im dying 😂
All that drama for the movie to end up like this is CRAZY
She was terrible in gossip girl, and terrible here. She's just not a good actress. I always felt like her acting in gossip girl made the main character so boring and generic. I mean, that was supposed to be the lead character. Come on, she sucked from the beginning. I couldn't even get past season 1 because of her.
Blake has never been able to act her way out of a paper bag.
bru my mom watched this and she complained about how much she hated it bc she couldn’t find love like dis 😭
Oh, oh no. I expected people to hate this movie for any number of reasons. Except THAT one.😬😳
@ was it THAT bad lol?
@@iyuizi it's ab domestic abuse so ig they're shocked your mom wants a relationship like that
WHAT?
@@itshyeonjindae i think their mom wants love like lily and atlas, not lily and ryle. either way though, i don't think anything colleen hoover related is ideal for a relationship. that woman needs therapy and somebody needs to take away her microsoft word.
My mom LOVED the book. She was so excited to watch the movie. I thought it make the perfect birthday gift to take her to go see it at a movie tavern. After seeing reviews and clips she's never been so disappointed in a movie she been looking forward to since the live action Lion King came out
Aww manm
No offense, but your mom needs better taste in books
Obama's not amused is the best subtitle I've read in a while
I knew it was bad when they casted Blake to play a girl in her 20s 😂😂😂
it was hoover who insisted on casting her
@@skyblueflowergrassTHIS Blake was NOT Justin's first or second choice he wasn't even going to star in it he only did because the author insisted.
She’s too grown for this role. Isn’t she supposed to be in her early 20s? Even the leading man looks younger.
Correct if am wrong but is the message of the movie forgive your abusers? Because wtf was the book like this?
No, the message isn't to forgive your abusers. The message is that the domestic abuse Lily experienced would end with her marraige. Essentially, she would never allow her daughter to ever enter a marriage like the one she experienced. And people are saying that the book is better and what-not, but I personally just don't want to see the movie or read the book.
@ehs35 honestly this book was the only coho book I liked it showcased DV really nicely and also how lily ended the abusing with her marriage of ryle but like honestly the movie was shitty asf like we all knew the movie was supposed to be bad thanks to blake lively but this bad I'm so shooked...
@@HoBi_wAter_fOr_3DoLLArs I guess it was actually the story of her mom. (Supposedly) all of this was how her mom got free from the cycle with a few edits. All of her other stories (supposedly) are from CoHo's time as a social worker but then she romanticised them....
Short answer? No, it technically isn't. Long answer? It's complicated.
Reading the other Colleen Hoover books can give some insight into how the author views men and women. She has a thing for the "troubled bad boy who acts like that because he's actually hurting inside" and the "quirky girl who is strong and brave enough to fix him" archetype. Most of her main characters fall into that archetype in some way. Comparatively, It End with Us is one of her better books because it actually calls our Ryle's behaviour. On the other hand, Colleen Hoover, quote, "fell in love" with Ryle while writing him. Also, the stuff about Lily's parents is based off Hoover's true experiences, which complicates things. Hoover reportedly had a good relationship with her Dad (possibly trauma bonding) but her Dad @bused her mum. This book is clearly Hoover trying to work out her own stuff through these characters.
all of colleen hoover's male love interests act like this - ryle's just the only one to be acknowledged by the text as an abuser.
practically all of them r*pe the female protagonists or exhibit minor bouts of physical abuse (like bodyblocking, and dragging the women around aggressively; not to downplay the effects of these abusive behaviours), one sets the protagonist's home on fire and leaves her permanently disfigured (also ruining her career in the process, as she was an actress), one holds his traumatised girlfriend hostage while cheating on her in full-view of her, one cheats on his dying, paralysed wife in front of her and then murders her over (what is implied to be) a misunderstanding... this barely even touches the surface of the nightmares that are coho love interests.
likewise, it doesnt even "end with us" because the book's epilogue features lily explaining that she gave ryle partial custody; the story literally ends with her allowing this incredibly-abusive person full and unmonitored access to their daughter 2 days a week, all under the guise of children "needing" their father in their lives no matter what.
people love to dump on the film (rightfully so) but then - in the same vein - gas up the book... which is insane to me because this is an insanely faithful adaptation. coho *wanted* to write a cautionary tale on domestic abuse, however she lacks the knowledge, empathy and self-awareness of the toxicities of her own fantasies to do so constructively
That was literally THE WORST ACTING I've ever had the misfortune of witnessing in my life
Clearly you have not seen Gal Gadot
Here’s some video suggestions, since I have nothing to say about this movie or show
Sharpay Evans being a drama queen
Heathers being the original Mean Girls
the Ocean from Moana being an underrated character
The super Mario bros being an iconic duo
Bowser being downbad for Princess Peach
Buck Cluck being one of the worst Disney parents
Manny, Sid, and Diego being a chaotic group
Lego Batman being a chaotic mess
The Lorax being a chaotic mess
WE NEED SHARPAY
Sharpay Evans is my queen and 100% the best part of High School Musical. There I said it
sharpay my queen fr
Book Lily is a pick-me but god movie lily going like - 'i'm the kind of girl you take home to mama' wtf girl, chill down.
I hate the book but the rooftop scene was GOOD!!!! They fucking ruined it in the movies!!!
Maybe because her husband wrote that particular scene
@@theviolet6190 He did? I had no idea. Guess that makes sense.
@@navyaphobicyes, and everyone only found out after BL told a reporter during premier.
The movie is about domestic violence. And the only one who portrayed it as that was the guy. He was abusive, not normal, and had major anger issues, and the actor, who is also the director of the movie portrayed it just like that. It wasn't a movie made for entertainment, it was about raising awareness about domestic violence and every other form of abuse out there. Whereas Blake described the whole thing as a freaking floral garden full of roses and petunias. She absolutely served nothing in the movie as much as she was supposed to, or was expected to.
It ends with us : Midlife crisis edition
i can't freaking believe someone really thought it was a good idea to make a movie out of a COLLEEN HOOVER'S book
bro like honestly wtf
Yep.
BL looked like a middle-aged woman, frazzled by having 4 kids.
She did not look like a young 23 year old.
Somebody get that woman a hair stylist PLEASE
Oh no she wanted that look idk why
this movie is missing dragons, where are the dragons?
Your editing is top tier! 😂😂😂 Never watched this movie but I've seen enough reviews and reactions to get the main idea and feel like I don't have to now 😂
It makes sense why this movie was so bad knowing Blake lively took over everything in this movie💀 I just know if we saw Justin’s cut of the movie it would have been a much better experience
She’s a walking Hallmark™️ channel after school special at best. This scandal will be the most interesting thing that she’ll ever get to produce.
THE QUEEN HAS POSTED
Obama got me. 😂 1:53
I have been wheezing in a corner for a minute straight. I’m not exaggerating
I've never read the book and don't plan to. I read the summary of the book and immediately put it back. Why do people think these kinds of books are romantic??? Oh, because she EVENTUALLY gets out of the abusive relationship? WTF...
"what an.. empty woman" i thought to myself when i was watching in a theatre😂😂
ABOUT THE ACTRESS LOL
My mom watched it on Netflix and Praised how good the movie was 😂😂😂
My mom had a better movie Taste in the 90s and 2000s
This blasphemy is NOT acting, I can’t believe we used to think she was a good actress as Serena Vanderwoodson in Gossip Girl… lmfao turns out she just plays the same character in everything, herself, a narcissist lmao.
Justin really wanted ppl to see this as a movie abt a DV survivor and things from her perspective and Blake is out here being like "florals sunshine rainbowss!!".... 😐
I want whatever the writers were smoking because that shit must be strong af
Wonder how Baldoni’s edit would have been like…
I REFUSED to watch the movie with my bestfriend. Ive unfortunately read the book, at THIRTEEN no less. Her books are in MIDDLE SCHOOLS FFS. They are marketed toward young women when all theyre about is glorifying DV and SA. She has a book called “Too Late” thats in my highschool and i read it (at FOURTEEN) and she just glorified and went into so much detail about r@pe and abuse. Emotional,sexual, physical even FINANCIAL abuse.
Her book november 9 is so trashy.
Basicaly Falon(Main C) was a child actress and a fire broke out in her dads house while she spent the night with him ( divorced parents) and she was so badly burned her face was scarred and her career ended. Anyway fast foreward shes eating with her dad at a resturant (she blames him for forgetting she was in the house) and she bumbs into a guy and he just falls head over heels for her and calls her “so fucking beautiful” anyway, they hit it off start talking yada yada. Idk how this happens but they agree to meet only ONCE a year. On november 9 (i read the book years ago) and its revealed that he
-started the fire that burned her bcz his mom k*lled herself becz the man she was having an affair with left her (thats falon’s dad)
-he wanted revenge and accidentally set the WHOLE house on fire
-he stalked her and found oit shed be at the restaurant and approached her
-he only came up to her to ease his own guilty conscience
-he figured she was insecure about the scars and complemented them always
-he got almost violent with her when she accidentaly overheard his brother say “did you tell her? Does she know? That YOURE the one who started the fire that ended her career?”
-his brother dies (cant remeber how) but he cheats on her with his dead brothers WIFE
-Sa’s her
And she STILL ended up with him
colleen also defended her son from
Sa charges/accusations
😳😳😳😳😳
@ my reaction EXACTLY
OMFG! Just what is wrong with Hoover?! She needs one hell of a long therapy…
And what kind of people allow such books to be available for kids?! I’d be infuriated if it was in my kid’s school. And I’m not even a parent yet.
my 1st book of Colleen was “It ends with us.”. And after that I never ever touched her books again.. Not a single one..(proudly)
@ GOOD ON YOU🙌🙌🙌
4:34 im sorry this killed me 😭😭😭 (just like how it killed her in that moment 💀)
Same I died laughing🤣🤣😭😭
I just died watching that
Why'd he grab that hot ass thing straight from the oven omg
The delivery of “I want a divorce” sent me 💀💀😂
The hermoine type hair is a whole character on its own.
The way I’ve been giggling from the start of this video, I love it!! Amazing editing🤌🏾☺️✨😂
The reason why green lantern failed was both blake and ryan has no acting range
They honestly don't. For 30 years Ryan has played the exact same character in every movie and Blake only has a career because her parents bought it for her.
you're editing is hilarious thanks for the laughsss lol
*your
This editing is EVERYTHING, SLAY
She is the embodiment of rich lady laughs at salad.
Why is this middle aged woman acting like she's freshly 18
Lily is supposed to be young.
@ashcruz904 yeah I got that now.. why'd they cast such an old actress for her though lol it's so odd
who agrees that the girl who played 'young' lily SHOULD HAVE BEEN LILY
I was told this movie is empowering to survivors. As a victim, it is not. My sides went into orbit when she brought that blank-ass paper on stage.
4:06 lmaooooooooo the singing😂 and the hands😂😂😂😂
0:30 she could've at least written stuff and crossed it out. How can she not remember that she didn't write anything? Diabolical.
Dude its the or8ginal.. like in the novel
@falgunigupta4517 yeah i read it but it still doesn't make sense to me
The way I preferred all the younger Atlas and Lily scenes over the rest of the movie, I actually enjoyed watching those two, they could act and encompassed young first love so accurately
"It's a strong chair "...😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Might’ve actually watch the movie if you edited it bc this is hysterical 😂❤
Nah it ends with us... In the court
That's the scene Ryan wrote and Taylor gassed up...come on now!
This movie is something I would never watch. As a woman with plenty of life experience, it looks absolutely annoying and stupid. And why is Blake so full of herself? What a weirdo.
everytime i see this rooftop scene, i think of the room.
it's so bad it might have been a reference
I think that the worst part of this movie is that it's meant to expose domestic violence so people can identify it but, Justin Baldoni is suffering abuse due to Blake Lively and nothing happens because she's a woman. This is wrong
Me and my sister was watching and we all bet that the man was the bad and we were right😌🖐️
Everyone knew this would be a movie about domestic abuse, this was only logical to assume that her husband would be the abuser
ryles entrance was a FULL RED FLAG
The laughing and lip bites are over the top 😭
Justin was playing a creepy guy part and I think that's what she was doing was getting confused about his character. I've never watched the movie and can tell with these snippets his character has issues and is creepy but she likes him b/c he's a doctor and she ignores the red flags.
Blake Lively lives her dream to recreate the outfits from Shake it Up on Disney Channel
A huge gap from high school to buying the shop and reuniting with the " homeless" guy.