She's a great example of a woman who everyone says is dumb but is super smart, is genuinely a good person who's been through some really messed up stuff and also just so happens to be very comfortable with her sexuality, and I'm all about it! 😍
I am ashamed I stereotyped her all these years because I believed the BS of the press. She is a bright, sharp, intelligent, kind, honest & let’s face it, GORGEOUS, woman. Love her & love this interview. And remember to be kind to animals everyone ❤️❤️❤️
@@TWORARETWOSPARE isn't Lola the cutest?? I don't mean that in any patronizing or condescending way. I instantly have nothing but mad respect for Lola. I LOVE that name & I love SAYING that name. so I'll start with: #1) Her NAME: Lola! ❤. Whether it was given, or she changed it to Lola, that's entirely irrelevant to me. She gets major props for having the name "LOLA!" 👏 #2) The HAT! That particular hat she's wearing in her thumbnail is FABULOUS!. 3rd: She still calls it: "The Press" 🥰❤ (That one really requires ZERO explanation. That word use, which gives away her senior QUEEN status, speaks for itself). I bet she almost always has warm cookies she made from scratch, fresh out of the oven, eager to serve anyone & everyone. AAAND I double/Triple bet that she has NEVER said an unkind word to, or about, ANYONE in her entire life! You can just tell., right? 🤗
She said it well, "it's common sense". That was what I was thinking when all that came out. It was a question of how far did they want to go to further their career. All those actresses knew what kind of men those were. I'm glad they stopped it, because women shouldn't have to lay with a man to get a job. Pamela didn't give in and her career didn't go far. But she has self respect and that to me is better than money. And everyone still knows her so she did good regardless.
Yes, her judgment of situations and men over the last 4 decades has just been impeccable. Get real. I actually really like, if not love, Pamela Anderson, but her laughing at the thought of doing things other women may have regretfully done, and with an air of superiority in speaking about what is "common sense" to do or refuse to do to make good decisions when interacting with men, was Pam low-key, if not high-key, victim shaming, and I'm sorry, but shame on Pam for that. Of all women, Pamela Anderson is not one to have firm standing in the arena of even coming close to shaming other women for making poor decisions regarding men, and to even try to justify using an incredulous tone and sarcastic laugh when speaking of women who have failed to exercise "common sense" with regard to poor choices involving men??? Her??? Pamela Anderson???? Come on. Honestly, please... Pam doing so is actually more laughable than any possible poor decision any victim of sexual abuse or assault in Hollywood may have made. Talk about pushing the envelope, which Pam loves to do of course, but why Pam would rightfully lose credibility on such topics when she has so rightfully earned credibility regarding so many others. That is not "common sense" to me at least. Js...
She has a preference for musicians not movie execs. Although that speaks volumes that she was more afraid of movie execs than musicians. Seems there’s more stories coming out about Hollywood sexûäl abuse than in the music industry.
I absolutely adore her. She is a true animal lover that stands behind her convictions. The fact that she won't do a film or show that includes animals because she knows how they are mistreated is commendable. She is as beautiful on the inside as is she is on the outside.
Lol, the snowflakes are strong here. Yea the rodeo really mistreats their animals huh and also Hollywood as well. Amazing but she needed a platform to get beyond her past and she found it within a certain group.
I met her a number of years ago via a dog rescue I was involved with. I dint know much about her before then but she was super nice. We talked for several minutes. I respect her,esp of course her animal stuff. When we talked she was saying how bad dog shows were with the bad breeding etc We also got into talking about places like sea world and how people should never go to those places and thats it not a good way for kids to learn about animals. She's really pretty in person too and I'm a straight woman. She's cool I have respect for her
Honestly way smarter than I gave her credit for which is sad on my part on how I had used my prejudice to typecast her based on her looks. Glad I watched this interview.
She was judged just because she has always been very attractive. And unfortunately our society judge women by their appearance and in a modern society there is a belief that an attractive woman cannot be smart, intelligent and sweet
She herself has been abused, I don't think she's diminishing anybody's experience. she's using her own experience to talk about how not to be in that position in the first place.Good for her!
@@chloemiranz As a victim myself (I was 6, he was a terminally ill family member) I 100% agree with you. No one will be there to protect you at all times but yourself. Sadly I learned this the hard way, but at least it's helped me dodge a few bullets ever since. Common sense is key! and knowing that people are capable of things we'd like to think they they aren't. (Because of my experiences I-) Don't fully trust people, watch out and take care.
I was sexually abused from 8- 9 years old and sodomized by a classmate's uncle while she held my arms above my head. I had carried that shame from more than 35 years until I had finally talked to a professional about it and finally I feel so free of the shame and the fear. I truly applaud Pamela for sharing her story about her own painful experiences.
I'm so sorry that happened to you Rebel! Omg, that is so evil. What a scary and sick family they must be from. That was never your shame to carry and I'm so glad you are finally free of that shame. You are a strong woman! All the best to you!
I like her a lot and find her very level-headed, honest and intelligent. But she did choose to make her career off parts of her anatomy. In that way, she diminished herself because she could have done so much more like becoming a veterinarian. The thing I like is that calls it what it was and owns it. That takes wisdom and courage. We don't have to be perfect in every way to be a decent person.
@@TheJosip1000 Exactly..the only thing that brought her fame was her good looks and good body... Btw... I bet she wasn't even in the country legally at the time she started off in Hollywood... She is Canadian.. but no one gave a SH#T cause she is Blonde, White and good looking!!! FU!!
interesting how a woman that many other female celebrities have looked down on her as a bimbo has more self respect, decency, common sense and brains than all of them combined!!!
As a survivor of childhood sexual abuse....I applaud her.....she is damaged ....as am I ....it is as if is.....abusers should be held responsible.....they are predators....
I think this goes a long way to explain why poor Pam has struggled so badly in relationships, even up to this present day. I've always had a soft spot for her because I believe she is truly a kind, loving soul. She probably just attracts narcissists who see her as a bit of a fuelling tank.
Crappy.Childhood fairy video she explains how are brain is traumatized when we have bad experiences they call it ACE adverse childhood experiences in her videos she explains how she brought up by alcoholic how you so grateful for attention settle for terrible friendships and marriages to abusive people
There's little natural about Pam. She's caked in make up and has had plenty of work done on her, well aside from her chest. This is a great interview by her though, dropping mass truth bombs.
I cam over from The Daily Beast, who posted this with a story. They call this a "cringe-worthy interview", when it's nothing of the sort. Pam is just telling the truth. Screw The Daily Beast.
You would be so surprised how many people has suffered this and made a life for themselves without hanging all the dirty washing on the line. These days it's all poor me everywhere you look. I don't believe it's any worse now than it was 70 years ago or even 3000 thousandyears ago. 🤔
I absolutely adore her. Glad to see her being transparent/vulnerable about her Childhood Sexual abuse. This really hits home 🏡 as a Sexual Abuse survivor myself as well as Physical I can definitely relate to her… No matter what stage you’re at in life if you go thru trauma like that it changes you . I’m a firm believer in therapy & Addressing Childhood trauma head on‼️
Talk about being the exact opposite of the stereotypes. She is kind, smart, wise, strong, and she has a beautiful set of values that she lives by. Much love and respect for her.
Thumbs up to Pam for speaking out and giving women some good, common sense advice. She is an intelligent person and has always done great interviews and she looks amazing! Great video!
Common sense advice? Why do we make women responsible for the abuse they endure. I lost respect for her after listening to this interview. Hold the abusers responsible!
After watching “Pam and Tommy” on Hulu (and yes I know it isn’t ‘knowing’ all of what the person is like BUT) I really softened and connected to Pam. She is such a genuine woman. I wanted to hug her.
I relate to her way of thinking. Has someone that has survived an assault I feel like I did things that could have been avoided and people keep telling me that I'm victim blaming myself our victim shaming myself but I'm really not there were things that I should have been smarter about during that situation that I can learn and grow from
That's because no one should expect to be assaulted. It's not an automatic consequence for doing something stupid. This line of thinking takes accountability off the ones who actually do the assaulting. Like yeah maybe a girl shouldn't have gotten drunk around people they don't know but they shouldn't be r*pists more.
Yeah it’s called listening to your gut or instincts something that you can ignore but it ends up being right. It’s easy to blame yourself but ultimately the attacker/abuser is the one who should be punished
Absolutely Miss Anderson. Thank you seriously for what needed to be said. A lot of these issues are frenchin common sense and for anyone to criticize Pamela for being real and sayin what needs to be said then those folks clearly have no common sense.
My own father would drop me off at strange men's apartments at 14 for "photoshoots". He taught me that thinking a man will assault you while alone is misandry. Eventually I thought assault was normal, an unspoken rule of being female. This common sense isn't so common. Of course bad stuff happened. But even in my 20s I'd go up to a strangers apartment to buy weed and realize while there how dangerous it was. Nothing happened as an adult but I still would end up in that situation from time to time because you can't always plan to have someone there and some women are loners.
She has more brains than most in hollywood.......wow. tell them pam.......dont put yourself in a hotel room.....and take your top off.......than cry about what happened.....
She herself has been abused, I don't think she's diminishing anybody's experience. she's using her own experience to talk about how not to be in that position in the first place.
Britt Williams that’s an idiotic reply. There creeps who are men and creeps who are women...in the real world they do exist. The point Pam is making is that we should be cognizant of that fact and do the best we can to protect ourselves by trying our hardest to avoid the asshats that exist in the world.
She is right... if I have any advice for young ladies dealing with Hollywood go with a friend. I had a similar situation and wasn’t even an actress but I went for an interview to be a property manager and assistant to a Hollywood studios in Miami I didn’t have a car and always went with a friend or boyfriend and that saved me once the old creep tried to put the moves on me all I said was my bf is outside and was immediately able to get out of there before anything happened but it was a studio not a hotel still it’s great we are having a dialogue about this to warn women and share advice and wisdom.
Anderson is spot on. Good for her. She's cleary been victimized but doesn't fall into the rut of being a professional victim. She seems very intelligent. Glad she pushed back.
When you have been sexually abused, "owning" your sexuality shows up differently depending on who you are and how you view that. For her, maybe it was posing nude for Playboy over and over. Maybe for someone else it's keeping your body to yourself and not sharing it with the world. Everyone who has been sexually abused (myself included) handles that horror in their own way...the way that feels right for them and makes them feel safe.
I think it also depends where someone was in their development. Personally I was too young to know what was happening and what behavior was appropriate and what wasn't to the point where I swing like a pendulum from one end of the spectrum to the other. And also was always told there was absolutely no way I was ever abused because of that. There's no way one person can judge what another person's trauma response should be.
I have to agree. If a meeting in a hotel room doesn't raise your suspicions, when the door is answered by a man in a robe it doesn't take a genius to walk away. Take responsibility for yourself.
I went through sexual abuse at 4 years old and always blamed myself. I thought that what happened to me was something that no one else had experienced. I felt different and isolated. When other girls told me about there first kiss I had to hide the fact that I had already been molested at a young age. It really stresses you out and makes you view yourself differently. Glad I’m healing now and realizing it’s not my fault and many other women go through the same things. She’s a beautiful soul and I’m happy she’s found her way back home 💜
I'm sure she's got some horror stories to tell about the seedy, nasty side of Hollywood ... Hugh Hefner knew what being on the cover of Playboy will do for a starlet's career, and that didn't come "cheap" ...
If you’re implying that she slept with Hefner to get on the cover of Playboy, that is ludicrous. Being the icon she is, she was helping Playboy’s sales. I’m sure it was a privilege on the part of the magazine to have her on its cover 14 times. That said, Pamela didn’t have to sleep with, or tolerate sexual harassment from Hef or anyone else
Heff never "forced" himself on anyone. He didnt have to he treated his girls with respect ensuring they knew FULL WELL what he was, how he was and what to expect. No shame there is everyone was up for it
JoJo 70 you have no idea what you’re talking about 😂 I’m sure he forced himself plenty of times .. he offered $ to the housemates all the time to sleep with him and have orgies !!
I met her a number of years ago via a dog rescue I was involved with. I didnt know much about her before then but she was super nice. We talked for several minutes. I respect her,esp of course her animal stuff. When we talked she was saying how bad dog shows were with the bad breeding etc We also got into talking about places like sea world and how people should never go to those places and thats it not a good way for kids to learn about animals. She's really pretty in person too and I'm a straight woman. She's cool I have respect for her
As a woman, I am so proud of Pam for stepping up and telling it like it is. People need to take responsibility for their bad decisions and stop blaming others and playing the victim. Enough of the politically correctness BS.
Deer Heart stuff happens when you put yourself in vulnerable situations. Use common sense, know your surroundings and carry protection if you must. It's a mad world out there and really no one is safe.
Just the other day I heard a male show host talk casually about how he had his job interview with a major TV network in a hotel room. It was a perfectly legit interview and landed him a spot on a big time network. I understand Pam's advice and that we all should be careful--at the same time, when you're struggling to make it in the business and a reputable big name calls you for an interview, the instinct would likely be to go. It's kind of like telling a poor, hungry person not to take a night shift at a job because of the number of attacks that take place at night. Then the victim feels so guilty that they don't report, and the perp just finds another victim. I understand her advice, but still--the attack is 100 percent the fault of the assailant
Megan Hussey I agree it’s not the victim’s fault they get sexually assaulted even if they don’t use common sense, but they still should bring a man with them to at least wait outside the door during a hotel interview. I would ask if the interview could take place in a public room not a private hotel retook with a bed, etc.
Love you Pamela, l am sorrt that you suffered so much. You still shine!!! you are getting the help and encouraging others, keep on speaking on it Pam. God bless you sister !
She's a great example of a woman who everyone says is dumb but is super smart, is genuinely a good person who's been through some really messed up stuff and also just so happens to be very comfortable with her sexuality, and I'm all about it! 😍
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@@lopear111 Why are you laughing? You're really rude.
@@sparklingdaisy3169 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Everyone says? What you?! Zip it
Agreed, she has even done works in Africa to help purify water supplies. Amazing woman!
I am ashamed I stereotyped her all these years because I believed the BS of the press. She is a bright, sharp, intelligent, kind, honest & let’s face it, GORGEOUS, woman. Love her & love this interview. And remember to be kind to animals everyone ❤️❤️❤️
Well said, Lola
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@@TWORARETWOSPARE isn't Lola the cutest?? I don't mean that in any patronizing or condescending way. I instantly have nothing but mad respect for Lola. I LOVE that name & I love SAYING that name. so I'll start with:
#1) Her NAME: Lola! ❤.
Whether it was given, or she
changed it to Lola, that's entirely irrelevant to me. She gets major props for having the name "LOLA!" 👏
#2) The HAT! That particular hat she's wearing in her thumbnail is FABULOUS!.
3rd: She still calls it: "The Press"
🥰❤ (That one really requires ZERO explanation. That word use, which gives away her senior QUEEN status, speaks for itself).
I bet she almost always has warm cookies she made from scratch, fresh out of the oven, eager to serve anyone & everyone.
AAAND I double/Triple bet that she has NEVER said an unkind word to, or about, ANYONE in her entire life!
You can just tell., right? 🤗
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Me too. She s such an angel.
I think we see actors as the character they portray.
Pamela Anderson is so wise. I love her honesty, depth & confidence in her truth. Love her protecting animals !!!
Honest lovely Pamela
She was smart enough not to be alone with any Hollywood producers and stood her ground.
She said it well, "it's common sense". That was what I was thinking when all that came out. It was a question of how far did they want to go to further their career. All those actresses knew what kind of men those were. I'm glad they stopped it, because women shouldn't have to lay with a man to get a job. Pamela didn't give in and her career didn't go far. But she has self respect and that to me is better than money. And everyone still knows her so she did good regardless.
She’s also married the wrong men many times
@@elizabethwilk9615 Which is a shame
Yes, her judgment of situations and men over the last 4 decades has just been impeccable. Get real. I actually really like, if not love, Pamela Anderson, but her laughing at the thought of doing things other women may have regretfully done, and with an air of superiority in speaking about what is "common sense" to do or refuse to do to make good decisions when interacting with men, was Pam low-key, if not high-key, victim shaming, and I'm sorry, but shame on Pam for that. Of all women, Pamela Anderson is not one to have firm standing in the arena of even coming close to shaming other women for making poor decisions regarding men, and to even try to justify using an incredulous tone and sarcastic laugh when speaking of women who have failed to exercise "common sense" with regard to poor choices involving men??? Her??? Pamela Anderson???? Come on. Honestly, please... Pam doing so is actually more laughable than any possible poor decision any victim of sexual abuse or assault in Hollywood may have made. Talk about pushing the envelope, which Pam loves to do of course, but why Pam would rightfully lose credibility on such topics when she has so rightfully earned credibility regarding so many others. That is not "common sense" to me at least. Js...
She has a preference for musicians not movie execs. Although that speaks volumes that she was more afraid of movie execs than musicians. Seems there’s more stories coming out about Hollywood sexûäl abuse than in the music industry.
I absolutely adore her. She is a true animal lover that stands behind her convictions. The fact that she won't do a film or show that includes animals because she knows how they are mistreated is commendable. She is as beautiful on the inside as is she is on the outside.
That's why I wouldn't do a film with a woman. We all know how badly they are treated.
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Lol, the snowflakes are strong here. Yea the rodeo really mistreats their animals huh and also Hollywood as well. Amazing but she needed a platform to get beyond her past and she found it within a certain group.
You absolutely adore? You’re such a corny drama queen. I respect her as well but you need to calm down.
I met her a number of years ago via a dog rescue I was involved with. I dint know much about her before then but she was super nice. We talked for several minutes. I respect her,esp of course her animal stuff. When we talked she was saying how bad dog shows were with the bad breeding etc We also got into talking about places like sea world and how people should never go to those places and thats it not a good way for kids to learn about animals. She's really pretty in person too and I'm a straight woman. She's cool I have respect for her
Honestly way smarter than I gave her credit for which is sad on my part on how I had used my prejudice to typecast her based on her looks. Glad I watched this interview.
she's an icon,a pop-culture legend. I wish her the best tbh.
habbogigi Megyn...your show is great...#byehaters
habbogigi Pam is also a great activist
She always been such a beautiful soul. Only small minded people bypass she’s always been a kind, respectful,compassionate human being.
She was judged just because she has always been very attractive. And unfortunately our society judge women by their appearance and in a modern society there is a belief that an attractive woman cannot be smart, intelligent and sweet
@Viktor Mansion I absolutely agree with you! ♥️
She herself has been abused, I don't think she's diminishing anybody's experience. she's using her own experience to talk about how not to be in that position in the first place.Good for her!
Sonja Dawn that’s why she does playboy. Her way of getting fame.
She’s using common sense. Would you go to any man’s hotel room alone?
@@aubreyjames8795 Respectfully- you sound very anti SA survivor with this comment.
@@lennon.likejohn im not anti SA survivor but I also think its a fair comment. Its more about prevention than blaming
@@chloemiranz As a victim myself (I was 6, he was a terminally ill family member) I 100% agree with you.
No one will be there to protect you at all times but yourself. Sadly I learned this the hard way, but at least it's helped me dodge a few bullets ever since.
Common sense is key! and knowing that people are capable of things we'd like to think they they aren't.
(Because of my experiences I-) Don't fully trust people, watch out and take care.
- Wow - I didn't know she was so to the point.
That was really good.
I was sexually abused from 8- 9 years old and sodomized by a classmate's uncle while she held my arms above my head. I had carried that shame from more than 35 years until I had finally talked to a professional about it and finally I feel so free of the shame and the fear. I truly applaud Pamela for sharing her story about her own painful experiences.
God bless. Stay strong. That’s awful.
@@kimberleethomas8010 Thank you, Sunshine! And God bless you and yours, always as well. Continue to stay strong ,too.
I'm so sorry that happened to you Rebel! Omg, that is so evil. What a scary and sick family they must be from. That was never your shame to carry and I'm so glad you are finally free of that shame. You are a strong woman! All the best to you!
@@movingonandup322 THANK YOU FOR YOUR SWEET, CARING REPLY. GOD BLESS YOU NOW AND ALWAYS.
@@rebels42wynn83 Awwww... you're welcome Rebel! 😊
She's not victim shaming she's saying have common sense.
common sense is sexist
Agreed. Seems like common sense isn't common anymore.
agreed.
sweetine777 Agree
sweetine777 totally agree
Pam is amazing, what a shame she was so diminished over all those decades. She's an inspiration
diminished? She's not a good actress, quite the contrary, she's a terrible actress
@@TheJosip1000 Stay mad
I like her a lot and find her very level-headed, honest and intelligent. But she did choose to make her career off parts of her anatomy. In that way, she diminished herself because she could have done so much more like becoming a veterinarian. The thing I like is that calls it what it was and owns it. That takes wisdom and courage. We don't have to be perfect in every way to be a decent person.
Inspirational twit
@@TheJosip1000 Exactly..the only thing that brought her fame was her good looks and good body... Btw... I bet she wasn't even in the country legally at the time she started off in Hollywood... She is Canadian.. but no one gave a SH#T cause she is Blonde, White and good looking!!! FU!!
Pamela is a real one. Cool person.
Sonny Torres That's because she's CANADIAN!!!!!
Sonny Torres wwwxccon
She's very smart and well spoken. Love her
interesting how a woman that many other female celebrities have looked down on her as a bimbo has more self respect, decency, common sense and brains than all of them combined!!!
fortvna66 I know right!
She talks so fast. It sounds on speed up.
Never heard of other females looking down on her? Huh???? When who??? Typical comment trying to pit women against each other. Nope not happening.
I think she's very smart. She's not my favorite person. She should've gone to college. She would've done quite well and had a real career.
I love Pam. Always have, always will. ❤
She’s no dummy, she’s smart and seems genuine.
As a survivor of childhood sexual abuse....I applaud her.....she is damaged ....as am I ....it is as if is.....abusers should be held responsible.....they are predators....
Agreed 🙏👏
Agreed.
And if we have kids of our own it makes us want to protect them more.
@@WanderlustingDunfords You would think that right. Not MY mother. Or ANY adult in my f*cked up family.
Kids need to be informed of the signs of predators even young adult woman.
She surprised me with how well spoken she is and genuine..pleasantly surprised
I appreciate her love of animals and protecting pets. She is a smart beautiful woman. Great interview!
I think this goes a long way to explain why poor Pam has struggled so badly in relationships, even up to this present day. I've always had a soft spot for her because I believe she is truly a kind, loving soul. She probably just attracts narcissists who see her as a bit of a fuelling tank.
Crappy.Childhood fairy video she explains how are brain is traumatized when we have bad experiences they call it ACE adverse childhood experiences in her videos she explains how she brought up by alcoholic how you so grateful for attention settle for terrible friendships and marriages to abusive people
@@laurenpaterson3475 It's desperately sad. Childhood trauma causes unspeakable consequences which is why its so important to love your children
That's because she too is a narcissist. I am not fooled. It's a vicious cycle.
Wow, I can't believe she is 50. She still looks good.
SpiderBurger she's amazing
She looks better! More natural (sort of).
There's little natural about Pam. She's caked in make up and has had plenty of work done on her, well aside from her chest. This is a great interview by her though, dropping mass truth bombs.
SB she looks great but has lotta wrinkles on face.. Jlo has aged betta js :)
Kayla Lara oh no! A woman has wrinkles so we have to compare her to someone else to put her down. 🙄 She's is beautiful and intelligent
I'm proud of her...
Why?
Larry 306 shes a stranger don’t be weird
Because she is all natural?
God tells us to care all people. Not doing so is weird.
she's very bright, composed and well spoken. I appreciate her.
I cam over from The Daily Beast, who posted this with a story. They call this a "cringe-worthy interview", when it's nothing of the sort. Pam is just telling the truth. Screw The Daily Beast.
this is a very enlightening interview. she's frank about the fact that most starlets are essentially prostitutes
Who owns The Daily Beast?
That's so gross. Probably bias against Megyn Kelly. I don't understand it.
@@JennRighter I hope she's against Megyn Kelly
Such an intelligent woman...I hope she doesn't get so much negativity for being frank and honest.
she's an OG
KC Nwokoye u r a dope.
intelligent? Yes, a very smart prostitute
@Crazy Canuck She is the same as Paris Hilton and Kim Kardashian but now "redeemed"...and you honor the name of your avatar CRAZY
@Crazy Canuck i have a feeling ur mother wasnt able to keep ur father in ur life. TELL ME IM WRONG
I love Pam Anderson. Great interview!
Never knew she suffered this. She’s such a beautiful and sweet woman. I liked the person interviewing her.
I never knew that she suffered that either. Good for her for speaking out.
You would be so surprised how many people has suffered this and made a life for themselves without hanging all the dirty washing on the line. These days it's all poor me everywhere you look. I don't believe it's any worse now than it was 70 years ago or even 3000 thousandyears ago. 🤔
I absolutely adore her. Glad to see her being transparent/vulnerable about her Childhood Sexual abuse. This really hits home 🏡 as a Sexual Abuse survivor myself as well as Physical I can definitely relate to her… No matter what stage you’re at in life if you go thru trauma like that it changes you . I’m a firm believer in therapy & Addressing Childhood trauma head on‼️
She’s beautiful inside and out and my respect for a human who protect and defend animals💖
I am sick of people who defend animals and care more about them than about humans.
Talk about being the exact opposite of the stereotypes. She is kind, smart, wise, strong, and she has a beautiful set of values that she lives by.
Much love and respect for her.
Honestly this was an awesome interview to watch
I agree. Very respectful
Thumbs up to Pam for speaking out and giving women some good, common sense advice. She is an intelligent person and has always done great interviews and she looks amazing! Great video!
Common sense advice? Why do we make women responsible for the abuse they endure. I lost respect for her after listening to this interview. Hold the abusers responsible!
Best thing about her she uses her voice to speak up for the animals. Respect.
Wow I like her! I get her.
She can call me splash the rapper if I am that attractive.
@@paoloanacletowong8055 😂😂
Incredibly smart and self possessed woman. What she has been through in this industry and being in the public eye… cant even imagine.
After watching “Pam and Tommy” on Hulu (and yes I know it isn’t ‘knowing’ all of what the person is like BUT) I really softened and connected to Pam. She is such a genuine woman. I wanted to hug her.
Oooooooh I’d loooooove to hug her too!!!!!!
I didn't know she loves animals so much to loose a job. I did the same in the past. God Bless You Pamela. She seems a great, confident and pure woman.
she reminds me of britney spears when she talks
Circus12 nasal
That's what I thought too.so I agree
She's just soft spoken lol some women actually naturally sounds like that
Circus12 why didn’t Britney ever pose for Playboy?
rayva1 because she’s better than that has been dead old magazine
"I form a full sentence. I'm a genius", 😂😂😂 shes amazing and so classy and wise!
The “fluffy bimbo” persona was just a facade for a deep, intelligent, caring, and charming woman.
I relate to her way of thinking. Has someone that has survived an assault I feel like I did things that could have been avoided and people keep telling me that I'm victim blaming myself our victim shaming myself but I'm really not there were things that I should have been smarter about during that situation that I can learn and grow from
I feel the same you .! Thank you for literally putting my feelings into words
That's because no one should expect to be assaulted. It's not an automatic consequence for doing something stupid. This line of thinking takes accountability off the ones who actually do the assaulting. Like yeah maybe a girl shouldn't have gotten drunk around people they don't know but they shouldn't be r*pists more.
Yeah it’s called listening to your gut or instincts something that you can ignore but it ends up being right. It’s easy to blame yourself but ultimately the attacker/abuser is the one who should be punished
Absolutely Miss Anderson. Thank you seriously for what needed to be said. A lot of these issues are frenchin common sense and for anyone to criticize Pamela for being real and sayin what needs to be said then those folks clearly have no common sense.
My own father would drop me off at strange men's apartments at 14 for "photoshoots". He taught me that thinking a man will assault you while alone is misandry. Eventually I thought assault was normal, an unspoken rule of being female. This common sense isn't so common. Of course bad stuff happened. But even in my 20s I'd go up to a strangers apartment to buy weed and realize while there how dangerous it was. Nothing happened as an adult but I still would end up in that situation from time to time because you can't always plan to have someone there and some women are loners.
4:38 I changed my opinion about her - she is GREAT LOL
She spoke the truth!
Met her when she was filming VIP many many years ago. She was genuinely kind and sweet.
I didn't know much about her until I saw that show, as goofy as it was, I loved her in it.
Admire her directness on her experiences. She’s a strong woman. 👏
Bravo Pam! You're smart and beautiful!
She has more brains than most in hollywood.......wow. tell them pam.......dont put yourself in a hotel room.....and take your top off.......than cry about what happened.....
""ohhh I'm a survivor!!! he made me give him a massage!!!"
She herself has been abused, I don't think she's diminishing anybody's experience. she's using her own experience to talk about how not to be in that position in the first place.
Maybe men just shouldn't be creeps.
Britt Williams that’s an idiotic reply. There creeps who are men and creeps who are women...in the real world they do exist. The point Pam is making is that we should be cognizant of that fact and do the best we can to protect ourselves by trying our hardest to avoid the asshats that exist in the world.
Britt Williams We are not women could be as Cree too.
I've always liked Pamela Anderson. She speaks well and appears to be a down to earth person. Good interview.
very sweet and smart woman. I love the fact she was one of the first talking on defense of animals on the 90's.
She is right... if I have any advice for young ladies dealing with Hollywood go with a friend. I had a similar situation and wasn’t even an actress but I went for an interview to be a property manager and assistant to a Hollywood studios in Miami I didn’t have a car and always went with a friend or boyfriend and that saved me once the old creep tried to put the moves on me all I said was my bf is outside and was immediately able to get out of there before anything happened but it was a studio not a hotel still it’s great we are having a dialogue about this to warn women and share advice and wisdom.
Quantum Kitty Sao I never thought it existed in Hollywood.I thought it existed in bollywood only
Of all the things that have never happened this happened the neverest
@@myunfilteredvision8 it exists everywhere not only in movie industries
I like them both Megyn Kelly and Pamela Anderson. Excellent interview.
Anderson is spot on. Good for her. She's cleary been victimized but doesn't fall into the rut of being a professional victim. She seems very intelligent. Glad she pushed back.
She is incredibly intelligent and intuitive. Appreciated this interview so much.
God bless Pamela for coming against the evil of pornography
What a smart, elegant, beautiful woman who came and told her truth! Courageous woman. Much respect Pamela.
Lol, "I form a full sentence, and I'm a genius" love Pam!
When you have been sexually abused, "owning" your sexuality shows up differently depending on who you are and how you view that. For her, maybe it was posing nude for Playboy over and over. Maybe for someone else it's keeping your body to yourself and not sharing it with the world. Everyone who has been sexually abused (myself included) handles that horror in their own way...the way that feels right for them and makes them feel safe.
💯 percent! I took the modest route and it’s how I’m comfortable😀 @Julie
I think it also depends where someone was in their development. Personally I was too young to know what was happening and what behavior was appropriate and what wasn't to the point where I swing like a pendulum from one end of the spectrum to the other. And also was always told there was absolutely no way I was ever abused because of that. There's no way one person can judge what another person's trauma response should be.
I like how Pamela says the truth on how openly known it was about the director's in the industry.
I definitely can say it does make you feel embarrassed or ashamed when someone else violates you as a child.
She is so underrated.
The way a person treats animals speaks volumes about who they are Pamela Anderson is a well-known PETA advocate she’s a queen inside and out
Kudos to Pamela Anderson. No cookie cutter woman there! Love her!
I love her so much. She’s wise and funny and sweet. You can tell she has a lot of empathy. Great energy, great gal, she is a gem.
I have to agree. If a meeting in a hotel room doesn't raise your suspicions, when the door is answered by a man in a robe it doesn't take a genius to walk away. Take responsibility for yourself.
Don’t blame the victims. That’s not cool bro.
4:18 They can’t diminish her!!! Pamela’s answer to that question was truly *everything* 💐👏🏾💯
I feel like a missed the part where she "opens up about her trauma as a victim of childhood sexual abuse"...
She's so refreshingly genuine! Love Pamela!
Love you Pam. Thank you for sharing this. You’re a courageous person 💛
She’s very clever and such a great mother. Great Canadian woman.
What an incredible , witty, kind spirited and intelligent woman.
I went through sexual abuse at 4 years old and always blamed myself. I thought that what happened to me was something that no one else had experienced. I felt different and isolated. When other girls told me about there first kiss I had to hide the fact that I had already been molested at a young age. It really stresses you out and makes you view yourself differently. Glad I’m healing now and realizing it’s not my fault and many other women go through the same things. She’s a beautiful soul and I’m happy she’s found her way back home 💜
I've always respected Pam Anderson. She seems genuine.
Such a smart and genuine woman. Lovely personality too.
Wow...Pamela you go girl!!!! So proud of you 👏...
I like Megyn's questions - they are insightful. And I like Pamela's answers.
I love her !!! She’s just like me, she loves and stands up for all animals 🤍
“Common sense…if someone answers the door in a bathrobe, leave.” THANK YOU! 👏🏼
I love Pam. Always have. Always will.
I’ve always liked her kindness which is so evident 😊
An intelligent conversation, to much for Megan Kelly
I’m glad she was open to speak so openly about her experiences and bring more awareness to such topics.
I'm sure she's got some horror stories to tell about the seedy, nasty side of Hollywood ... Hugh Hefner knew what being on the cover of Playboy will do for a starlet's career, and that didn't come "cheap" ...
classic kool Hugh was the biggest pervert there ever was!
Heather Leigh I think so but after he died he was getting all these alcaldes about how great he was. Barf.
If you’re implying that she slept with Hefner to get on the cover of Playboy, that is ludicrous. Being the icon she is, she was helping Playboy’s sales. I’m sure it was a privilege on the part of the magazine to have her on its cover 14 times. That said, Pamela didn’t have to sleep with, or tolerate sexual harassment from Hef or anyone else
Heff never "forced" himself on anyone. He didnt have to he treated his girls with respect ensuring they knew FULL WELL what he was, how he was and what to expect. No shame there is everyone was up for it
JoJo 70 you have no idea what you’re talking about 😂 I’m sure he forced himself plenty of times .. he offered $ to the housemates all the time to sleep with him and have orgies !!
I love her. She has great strength and the ability to open up about it so if anybody wants to judge her sit back and judge yourself.
Her face at 2:54 is EVERYTHING!
I respect her so much for this interview. Beauty and Brains!
LOVE HER.. MEt her in Malibu years ago and she's lovely and down to earth and kind.
I met her a number of years ago via a dog rescue I was involved with. I didnt know much about her before then but she was super nice. We talked for several minutes. I respect her,esp of course her animal stuff. When we talked she was saying how bad dog shows were with the bad breeding etc We also got into talking about places like sea world and how people should never go to those places and thats it not a good way for kids to learn about animals. She's really pretty in person too and I'm a straight woman. She's cool I have respect for her
As a woman, I am so proud of Pam for stepping up and telling it like it is. People need to take responsibility for their bad decisions and stop blaming others and playing the victim. Enough of the politically correctness BS.
But sometimes stuff happens
Deer Heart stuff happens when you put yourself in vulnerable situations. Use common sense, know your surroundings and carry protection if you must. It's a mad world out there and really no one is safe.
Just the other day I heard a male show host talk casually about how he had his job interview with a major TV network in a hotel room. It was a perfectly legit interview and landed him a spot on a big time network. I understand Pam's advice and that we all should be careful--at the same time, when you're struggling to make it in the business and a reputable big name calls you for an interview, the instinct would likely be to go. It's kind of like telling a poor, hungry person not to take a night shift at a job because of the number of attacks that take place at night. Then the victim feels so guilty that they don't report, and the perp just finds another victim. I understand her advice, but still--the attack is 100 percent the fault of the assailant
Megan Hussey I agree it’s not the victim’s fault they get sexually assaulted even if they don’t use common sense, but they still should bring a man with them to at least wait outside the door during a hotel interview. I would ask if the interview could take place in a public room not a private hotel retook with a bed, etc.
It's a fact & I'm a female myself
Probably the best interview I've seen by Kelly.
She speaks incredibly well seems like a beautiful person. Hollywood takes advantage of women like this absolutely awful
Yes. She speaks so loud - her message is brilliant
Love you Pamela, l am sorrt that you suffered so much. You still shine!!! you are getting the help and encouraging others, keep on speaking on it Pam. God bless you sister !
"And that's not what love looks like" . I understand that from first-hand experience
She seems so mature and like a great parent and more beautiful than ever tbh. So glad she found love.
She tells like it is. Always found her intelligent.
Pam has integrity n more celebrities should learn from her
Wow! Wonderful personality! Lots of common sense you don't seem to see anymore.
Kelly had such a great show . Glad they have clips on TH-cam