dont worry bro life never ends.. i got selected for in my fiest nda ssb 151 course i gor selected AIR 359 went to the academy..stayed their for 4 months but suffered a hip fracture injury .. and here i am back to the start !
I had cried super hard after my last ssb(for cds 1 2021). Kapurthala se CO hone k baad bus ki kidki waali seat pr baitha soch raha tha sb tabaah hogya bc. Upar se earphones mein aspirants web series ka ending part wala gaana chal gya. Bahar khet hi khet, kheto mein simta hua sannaata, toote sapno ka bojh aur future ki chinta! Subak subak kr 5-10 min tk rona hi nahi ruka, aur roya b aas pass k logo se mooh chhupaakar. Fir dimaag mein aaya k mai na toh pehla bnda hu last attempt mein bahar hone waala, aur naa hi aakhri. I also got failed in my final attempt for capf ac. Maybe it was meant to be. Shayad mujhme hi kami rahi hogi kuchh na kuchh. But in the end you move on somehow… To all my aspirant brothers, keep working hard till your last breath!! Jai hind ❤ 🇮🇳
written k liye jitni mehanat maine final year ki placement chhodke kri thi na, utna hi casual mai written k result aur ssb k beech hogya. I'll regret it forever..
Don't worry brother!! Life is full of unexpected turns and your experience will help you to excel not just your career but LIFE!! And kudos to your efforts! Many give up but your determination is full on, man 💪! And, one more thing, I have been screened out in both of my grad entries this year. I couldn't even speak in GD of ppdt. I am learning and improving...... and I put this as a reminder for me that I am going to be an GC next year!
As your former ssb batchmate I would say don't get disheartened buddy, dhakke milte rahenge sambhalte hue hume aage badhte rehna h, you still have chances for Airforce go for that vrna tera civil profile badiya... You'll do great there. ✨ Vrna paramilitary main aaja yahi milunga tujhe😂😂
I got my dream when I was in the 9th class.... That was to pass out from NDA ..I used to think about NDA cadets all the time. The same story happened to me I gave 5 attempts didn't even clear the exams. I am okay at maths and English but I lack the gs part. I was in the rock bottom at that time and got admission in an govt. Engineering clg and currently persuing computer science. I always admire my patience because I used to think that I have failed enough....but u know what sir, when I listened to your struggles .... I realised that it was nothing .you have seen way beyond than me . I m in my 2nd year now ... I will go for cds . No drama no nothing .... I will try my best to achieve my dream and will live like the person I want to be when I was 17 . I am sure that in upcoming years , I would hear your name as a great person. Stay strong sir. You just earned my respect.
Brother i am not gonna say the "don't give up" type of stuff ,it is totally up to you whether you want to go further in this or not . Sometimes we have to let go of things and i am sure that you will do something beautiful in your life . And one last thing , i am sure aware of this but just a reminder that those 7 years were not in vain you have gained something that is far better and greater than this transient failure.Your childhood wasn't mundane for you carry your identity and memories in it and this fact alone makes it colorfull. Give it your best shot at the afcat .Be happy my friend , rejoice .
I appreciate that even after not clearing nda 5 times and CDs afcat you don't lose hope and always give attempt back to back you are really a solider .❤❤❤may lord Shiva bless you brother
In this society where everyone tells their struggle after success and create anxiety among youths, people of your kind are really amazing 👏. Because that takes me out of that anxiety for success and make me feel i m not alone. Respect for you brother 🫡
Brother, I’ve watched countless videos about SSB recommendations, but I haven’t seen any that truly emphasize the power of your last attempt. This is your chance to show courage. Put yourself in the shoes of an officer in your situation; how would they react? You have the support you need, so don't fixate on the results. Concentrate on giving it your all. No matter the outcome, if you strive for excellence, you’ll leave with pride knowing you did your best. Remember, even if this attempt doesn’t go as planned, something great awaits you in the future. Best of luck!
i don't know if you're gonna read it or not but bhaiya you are truly an inspiration I'm currently in 11th and trust me i can't even grab enough courage to tell my parents what I want to do in my life as I'm afraid of failure so much but looking at your dedication and will to do what you wanted to I feel very strong . Believe it or not I'm very much influenced and motivated by you. And you know there's always something which you can do the world doesn't come to end if things don't go as per you. Look at the fact how you got plenty of views on your first ever video in just 11 days I wish you luck for the future and I'm sure you'll reach heights one day!! lastly, pahadi hain aap obv naam roshan to karoge hi apni community kaaa
Listen closely, my friend. I don’t usually step in to say something, but I feel compelled to speak to you now. A few years ago, in 2021, I stood exactly where you are today-unsure, struggling, and wondering if the path I was on would lead anywhere. Our journeys are remarkably alike, and I see a reflection of my past in you. Let me tell you this with absolute certainty: the future holds more for you than you could ever imagine. Opportunities and achievements beyond your wildest dreams are waiting, but they require your persistence and belief in yourself. I can’t reveal who I am at this moment, but know that I’ve reached a place where I’m truly thriving, living a life that balances ambition and fulfillment. The same awaits you if you keep going. Don’t let doubt or fear slow you down-keep working, keep learning, and keep growing. When that moment comes, when you’ve conquered your challenges and built the life you dream of, remember these words. Come back and reflect on this comment, not as someone seeking advice, but as someone who has realised their potential. The turn to prosperity is nearer than you think-don’t stop before you reach it.
good one bro same feel in my last NDA attempt !!!! just don't loose hope never give up on that mindset and thanks for giving me a realisation buddy . Godspeed brother
Aap se maine aaj sikha ki haar nahi manni chahiye, this story needs to reach out to more and more people. This video is supposed to be a little depressing but I don't know how it has given me hopes , to not give up . I can't thank you enough, you have me a reality check brother . My mother always says ki mehnat kabhi bekar nahi jaati , kabhi na kabhi dekhna aap vo zarur kamiyab banayegi aapko .Hope you get what you are destined for. More power to you.
Failure cannot decide your future.. you should try hard just for the last time for your AfSB.. kya pta ho jaye.. and we don't know what the future holds.. you have struggled a lot and it's a part of great success.. i know you'll achieve something big.. you have our support.. just keep trying.. Isaan jaab puri terha gir jaata hai to uske pass wapas uthne ke siva koi chara nhi hota.. you can rise up.. these downfalls cannot decrease your dedication..👍
When something is not good then something even better is about to happen.... Be honest towards your work...faliures are just stepping stones towards success😢
I can guarantee.....this man right here is gonna achieve something very exceptional ❤❤....we need more people like him...he is mentally so strong....he is a great person.... brother have given me so much inspiration... Thanks alot ❤🙏🏻🙏🏻
After watching the video i have only one thing to say "YOU ARE A MAN " the way you stopped your emotion while making the video takes a lot . I cannot belive how you are so postive ,Good luck bro i hope you will achieve greater heights in your life ❤❤
best video i have ever seen till the date about ssb experiences , the pain of losing army in your voice was obvious , thanks hero for sharing your journey ..
A recall a star trek quote "It's possible to commit no mistake and still lose. That is not weakness. That is life." Bro you're a really lively individual and I'm sure there are much more brighter things that'll come in life for you. A quote by Rumi "He who has lead you this far will guide you further." I share the same love for defence forces aur mujhe lagta hai very true defence aspirant is defence aspirant for life we'll continue to have the same values and the same mentality so fauj mein ho ya na ho rahenge fauji hi. Gulzar sahab ka ek sher hai "Kyun dare jindagi mein kya hoga kuch nahi hoga toh tazurba hoga" and with that i wish you best of luck. Aur TA entry toh hai hi kabhi na kabhi fauj jaroor bulaegi.
Bhai 🫡 it takes lot of courage to tell about own failures to the world , never loose hope sir. Ho skta hai god has planned something better for you. Failure can't stop you sir. Sir you gave me the motivation and i can feel the feeling of regret 🥺. Keep smiling sir 😊 great things take time 🫡 jai hind jai bharat 🫡
How can someone not fall for you.. you're so gentle and nice.. and you talk charmingly soft.. you already won in life buddy! 💖✨🧿 Don't lose hope.. cause great things are awaiting you.. all the best for your great future ahead!🙌💝
That's it? No. You can't let the remaining attempts go. It's so difficult to see that you've come all yhe way till here and now thinking about letting it go. Please don't give up. It's easier said than done, i assure you the guilt that you will go through in future for not trying for the remaining attempts is not going to be worth it. This is coming from someone who's been there. I could relate with the 1st half, i moved to Bhopal for NDA coaching but it didn't happen, i couldn't get through the written exam and failed to understand the areas which needed to be worked upon. I got into an engineering college, somehow managing to like the degree in order to pass, took ncc to stay in touch with the defense part. Currently in my 5th semester (3rd year), started preparing for cds. I do get overwhelmed by the vast syllabus but then i look at people like you, and it brings back the josh. I know that there is a bit more to your story, yet to be discovered. That'd only happen if you don't give up. You might consider sitting down w people who can be honest with you and help you find the areas that need to be worked upon. Do it for yourself, for your younger self, who didn't stop after nda. All the best, can't wait for another video titled as "beginning of a new dream, finally cracked it!" All the best, Jai Hind.
I know it's hard bhai, but self belief humesha rakhna. I liked when you said that there are other dreams to pursue, go for it. You seem like a very honest and genuine guy, I hope you do amazing in life and serve the nation in whichever way you choose !
Bhai you're made for something bigger and better in life. Armed forces is a great organization to be a part of but aap shayad kisi aur badi cheez ke liye bane ho to hosla mat khona.
I dont comment on YT but your story is an example of resilience and it made me write this. Its not easy to restart after failure. I got merit out recently and I can relate to the last line you said. Even i feel that bht saare log merit out hote hai merit in hote h, mene kya galti ki that i have to be an example of merit out candidate. I feel the pain when you said I AM SORRY FOR MYSELF. You did great, you dont have to sorry for anything. some hustles never die.
you fought till last attempt for your dream, this has build a character in you, this fighting spirit which you have developed during these past years will help you in your life ahead. So don't feel much bad young man.
bro solidarity to you! i can resonate with your journey and the pursuit. The part about not fitting in their set criteria due to the past life it tough, but we now have to move on to places that dont have that prerequisite. Take care man and keep posting, Hope we find direction and fulfilment in our carries till our late 20s. March on bro, i an cheering you from the sideline. Also about the end of the vid, you wanted to say something right? It deserves to be heard, so never hesitate to speak your departing thoughts going ahead, because in them lies the true essence of our emotions and learnings. I am stepping to find direction in my life after i post this comment. May we get crowned with our true purpose, that lies in oncoming destiny. Ill see you.
Hi, i saw your video till the end. Your video appeared on my home page. I was once a defence aspirant just like you. The goal was to clear CDS-OTA and get commissioned as an officer in the forces. For medical reasons, my dream was shattered too, I was heartbroken. I can relate to each and every word you spoke. Please don't be disheartened, trust me everything will soon get better for the best that is yet to come. Have hope that there are many great things waiting for you on the road ahead. If you have any of your defence attempts left, just give your all for one last time, you never know. I'm an ARTS Graduate too and there are many government exams i'm appearing for, you can too. Please never think of you being any less than everybody. Nobody can be YOU and that is what your SUPERPOWER is. Sending you all the positive vibes, you will make it to something great, I know you will. We're are here to support you & cheer you on. Looking forward to the next video. Hope it brings us some tremendously great & positive news.
You are gem Brother,, you accept your failure Infront of many people besides crying in a room and without being zone out.... Bholenath has Better plans for you Bhai..😊😊
brother keep that beautiful smile , and keep going , i was too a die heart army fan , got medically out from 12 ssb bhopal , and my army dream shattered , then after grad i started cat preparation cleared it after 3 attempts , now studying in one of the top IIMS , kudos to you many even don;t make it to ssbs .
'कृष्णं सदा सहायते' 🌸🌸buddy i can feel your painfull eyes because in my life i have failed many places but still confident that i will achieve my dream one day. now i m preparing for CDS i m afraid but let's see where this journey takes me.........................
I really admire how you're able to keep a smile on your face despite your dream falling apart. I hope you find happiness in whatever you do moving forward.
hats off to your dedication brother and all the guts you have you are really a pure soul , but don't lose hope , a soldier fights till his last breathe , don't give up buddy 👍💖
don't think too much brother, i myself in my very first attempt of nda that was for the course 152 got recommended i had a dream of being a naval officer but at last i was medically unfit on 21st march from my amb from base hospital, i was feeling the same but don't be so sad it's just a matter of time and i think god has definitely some better plans for you and you surely do something better than what you were thinking of achieving...
brother if you have any single attempt then give yourself a last chance because dont forgot that Captain vikram batra ( pvc ) was recommend in his 13th attempt and we all know what a great leader he was may be it is a test of god you should thought about it JAI HIND
I will like to say one thing to all A soldier is not who is in uniform, soldering are set of values,who inculcate these values he is soldier by heart.❤❤❤❤
I am going to give my first ever defence exam as a teenager about 5 month's from now in 2025 (April). I know the path we choose as a defence aspirant is really tough and could be heart breaking sometimes too! I know failing is a part of life though I haven't really experienced it yet! But as an aspirant I would say it doesn't really matter If we make it or not what really matters is we never give up and always live our life with the teachings and experience we have got through our journey! I am ready to work hard till the end and ready to confront the failures too! My condolences to u my brother hope u will find ur destination soon ❤ Wish me luck 🤞🏻
My story is same as of urs brother, Came from a Small town Dreamed of being in army but got multiple failures (be its written or SSBs) nd there's a point came in my life few yrs back where i felt exact the same as u right now. It was very sad moment for me to go away from my dream. That time I turned towards plan B. Bcz in life u didn't get always what u dream. Everything happens for a cause it was made for. Hope these experiences make u a better person in life. Wish u luck in future 🎉
bhai you yourself an officer for going till the ssb stage which not many people go and you are able to handle it well that you were not selected I wish you all the best for shaping your future
Bhaiya you are a very well spoken man..bhot accha laga aapko sunke and def. there will be something better coming your way Im Sparsh Negi and meri first ssb h Nda Allahbaad on 17th jan.. I'll enjoy my time over there Thank you so much bhaiya is video ke liye 🌸
Never feel regret never feel sorrow... It's ok brother trust in God. Maybe God has some other plans for you which you never dreamt of. So keep your head up and look up. Like you said you had less social interactions you can still improve on that.
Bro I appreciate the way you talk in pain ...I also fail in my recent exam but yesterday I saw video of major khushbu patani and I recommend it all the aspirants 🌼
Your resilience will take u far brother mark my words just never give up attitude as they say what doesn't breaks u makes you so come on champ so us the rest of your journey and u will make it happen ur big brother
Brother, never seen a strong man like you, keep up your courage brother, surely God has a better plan for you. There are around 300 posts and there are lakhs of aspirants. Except those 300, everyone has to be out, this is the truth. But you are an inspiration for all those aspirants who are not able to succeed. Whatever happens in life, one should not give up and should always try to be happy. If one path is closed, then a person should find other ways. Thank you for giving strength to all of us unsuccessful candidates. I will pray to Lord Ram to bless you and make you successful in life. Jai Shree Ram 🙏🚩
More Power to you buddy. sometimes Our IDEAS , Our Goals, Our Dreams die instead of us in order to give birth to a new self. You have fallen to rise again. More Power to you Strength and Honor.
Bro, listen you did not get selected in an exam this does not mean that you are a looser it's all about your mind set, even APJ Abdul kalam were also got rejected from NDA so keep doing your best, success is waiting for you... NEVER GIVE UP!!
Koi na bhai ! I'm also a 16 times repeater! Last OTA attempt me exceptional performance ke bawjud screenout hua 🙃! Its alright jo attempt hain AFSB ke 2 wo dete hain bki back up dekhte hain ! Sbki life me ups and down aate hain ! Its just we have to take it and move on ! All the best for future endeavours
Maine ek bhi second miss out nhin kiya,,aapki saari baton ko bhot dil se aur dhyan se suni,,mujhe pta h kai baar zindagi me kuch cheezen hamaare haq me nahin hoti,,aur jo hoti hai,,wo ho kar rehty hai,, maine 2022 me 12th complete Kiya with an avarage % fir BA me graduation le li,,1saal ,,and then drop out ho gai abhi,,pw se maine bhi Defence academy k liye taiyyari kr rhi hoon man lga kr,, Ab mujhe khed nhin hoga agr mai paas na ho paai,,kiuki duniya me aap jaise bhi log hai,,aapki baton se mujhe bhot sahara mila,,Apna khyal rkhen khush rahen.. Aneeqa
Brother you are a fighter. You gave your best, that's all that matters. One day you will achieve greatness, and when you will look back, all those tough times will be worth it. Stay Strong !
Life me sabkuch ke piche kuch na kuch karan hota ha. Believe in yourself and dekhna you will be successful in your life eventually. Himmat mat harna. Tum to wyse bhi defense aspirant ho , himmat ki kami nai hoga tumme. Life abhi bhi bohot lambi ha , keep working hard brother.
kuch nahi hota bhai, dreams never come to an end buddy, sapne dekhoge to hi aage badh paoge, if not army aur bohot kuch hai, service organisation ke bahar rehkar bhi ho sakti hai, app hume guide kar rahe ho ye bhi ek service hi hai, good luck bhai sab acha hoga
hey buddy its totally fine. Yes it hurts and it will hurt for few more days but always remember that there exists a reason behind everything and maybe it wasn;t meant to happen so it didn't. The best for u is still yet to come so just have faith in god and in ur ability and cherish this phase as well. God bless u buddy and wish u all the best.
This is boy. He never tell about pain. He never cry. He become strong. Bhai me Tere sath hu ye same to same story meri hai bhai
Bhai hm bhi aap k sath hai
dont worry bro life never ends.. i got selected for in my fiest nda ssb 151 course i gor selected AIR 359 went to the academy..stayed their for 4 months but suffered a hip fracture injury .. and here i am back to the start !
Bro why u got out for hip injury ??? 😢
@@pluto5hi179Because his hip told him I'll take risk and here he is 😂
Bhai ssb process is biased 😮
Day 3 of crying for strangers
Same bro .
Re bhai TA Army mai officer ban jaavo,,,,,, cgl crack kr inspector ban ja 30 + 3 age relaxation ke sath fir TA mai chale ja, mera dost hai TA mai
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Cry for me
Congratulations You NEVER be to Army
brother is holding their pain of 7 years of struggle with a cute smile 😁 at the end he give their best 😇
I had cried super hard after my last ssb(for cds 1 2021). Kapurthala se CO hone k baad bus ki kidki waali seat pr baitha soch raha tha sb tabaah hogya bc. Upar se earphones mein aspirants web series ka ending part wala gaana chal gya. Bahar khet hi khet, kheto mein simta hua sannaata, toote sapno ka bojh aur future ki chinta! Subak subak kr 5-10 min tk rona hi nahi ruka, aur roya b aas pass k logo se mooh chhupaakar. Fir dimaag mein aaya k mai na toh pehla bnda hu last attempt mein bahar hone waala, aur naa hi aakhri. I also got failed in my final attempt for capf ac. Maybe it was meant to be. Shayad mujhme hi kami rahi hogi kuchh na kuchh. But in the end you move on somehow…
To all my aspirant brothers, keep working hard till your last breath!! Jai hind ❤ 🇮🇳
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Salute brother 🫡
@@pratikpanigrahi4964 no salute brother. i didn't work hard. i took it all casually. warna mai b aaj maroon beret pehne hue hota
written k liye jitni mehanat maine final year ki placement chhodke kri thi na, utna hi casual mai written k result aur ssb k beech hogya. I'll regret it forever..
Don't worry brother!! Life is full of unexpected turns and your experience will help you to excel not just your career but LIFE!!
And kudos to your efforts! Many give up but your determination is full on, man 💪!
And, one more thing,
I have been screened out in both of my grad entries this year. I couldn't even speak in GD of ppdt. I am learning and improving......
and I put this as a reminder for me that I am going to be an GC next year!
practice and work upon speaking skills
ssb is mostly speaking
As your former ssb batchmate I would say don't get disheartened buddy, dhakke milte rahenge sambhalte hue hume aage badhte rehna h, you still have chances for Airforce go for that vrna tera civil profile badiya... You'll do great there. ✨ Vrna paramilitary main aaja yahi milunga tujhe😂😂
The pain in his voice 😢
Brother your dedication is great not in army but you will excell in other fields
I got my dream when I was in the 9th class.... That was to pass out from NDA ..I used to think about NDA cadets all the time. The same story happened to me I gave 5 attempts didn't even clear the exams. I am okay at maths and English but I lack the gs part. I was in the rock bottom at that time and got admission in an govt. Engineering clg and currently persuing computer science. I always admire my patience because I used to think that I have failed enough....but u know what sir, when I listened to your struggles .... I realised that it was nothing .you have seen way beyond than me . I m in my 2nd year now ... I will go for cds . No drama no nothing .... I will try my best to achieve my dream and will live like the person I want to be when I was 17 . I am sure that in upcoming years , I would hear your name as a great person. Stay strong sir. You just earned my respect.
Hello brother me too I'm 17 I'm in 12 th currently bro you will do it stay hard😊
Brother i am not gonna say the "don't give up" type of stuff ,it is totally up to you whether you want to go further in this or not . Sometimes we have to let go of things and i am sure that you will do something beautiful in your life . And one last thing , i am sure aware of this but just a reminder that those 7 years were not in vain you have gained something that is far better and greater than this transient failure.Your childhood wasn't mundane for you carry your identity and memories in it and this fact alone makes it colorfull. Give it your best shot at the afcat .Be happy my friend , rejoice .
Remember one thing all heroes don't wear cap make your life and step towards nation betterment
Jai hind.
Respect from POWERPHILIC
Right sir ❤️🔥
It's not the end. Maybe something bigger is waiting for you. Rooting for you ❤.
True
I appreciate that even after not clearing nda 5 times and CDs afcat you don't lose hope and always give attempt back to back you are really a solider .❤❤❤may lord Shiva bless you brother
Your dream never dies,a soldier never cry.
You will face many ups and downs passing by.
In this society where everyone tells their struggle after success and create anxiety among youths, people of your kind are really amazing 👏. Because that takes me out of that anxiety for success and make me feel i m not alone.
Respect for you brother 🫡
Brother, I’ve watched countless videos about SSB recommendations, but I haven’t seen any that truly emphasize the power of your last attempt. This is your chance to show courage. Put yourself in the shoes of an officer in your situation; how would they react? You have the support you need, so don't fixate on the results. Concentrate on giving it your all. No matter the outcome, if you strive for excellence, you’ll leave with pride knowing you did your best. Remember, even if this attempt doesn’t go as planned, something great awaits you in the future. Best of luck!
i don't know if you're gonna read it or not but bhaiya you are truly an inspiration I'm currently in 11th and trust me i can't even grab enough courage to tell my parents what I want to do in my life as I'm afraid of failure so much but looking at your dedication and will to do what you wanted to I feel very strong . Believe it or not I'm very much influenced and motivated by you. And you know there's always something which you can do the world doesn't come to end if things don't go as per you.
Look at the fact how you got plenty of views on your first ever video in just 11 days I wish you luck for the future and I'm sure you'll reach heights one day!!
lastly, pahadi hain aap obv naam roshan to karoge hi apni community kaaa
The spark in his eyes says it all. All the best brother. Jai Hind!
You are a great person that you understand what is life
U earned my respect brother ❤
Listen closely, my friend. I don’t usually step in to say something, but I feel compelled to speak to you now. A few years ago, in 2021, I stood exactly where you are today-unsure, struggling, and wondering if the path I was on would lead anywhere. Our journeys are remarkably alike, and I see a reflection of my past in you.
Let me tell you this with absolute certainty: the future holds more for you than you could ever imagine. Opportunities and achievements beyond your wildest dreams are waiting, but they require your persistence and belief in yourself.
I can’t reveal who I am at this moment, but know that I’ve reached a place where I’m truly thriving, living a life that balances ambition and fulfillment. The same awaits you if you keep going. Don’t let doubt or fear slow you down-keep working, keep learning, and keep growing.
When that moment comes, when you’ve conquered your challenges and built the life you dream of, remember these words. Come back and reflect on this comment, not as someone seeking advice, but as someone who has realised their potential. The turn to prosperity is nearer than you think-don’t stop before you reach it.
Video dekh pr pta lg jaana h usse kon hai tu
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@@Garima_Sharmaa smart move !!! lol
Atleast you have patience of 7 years of struggle,you are soldier 🪖 by heart
'मन का हो तो अच्छा, ना हो तो और भी अच्छा' और मेहनत कभी बेकार नहीं जाती तो निराश मत होना तुम्हारा शुभचिन्तक
17:07 it's me
Abhay Guleria from Palampur ,hp .
Thankyou so much for mentioning me shubham !❤
good one bro same feel in my last NDA attempt !!!! just don't loose hope never give up on that mindset and thanks for giving me a realisation buddy . Godspeed brother
Bro don't get disheartened, surely god have other great plans for you.
Bro ,never out of the fight till death.
~Col S.P. Kanwar.
Aap se maine aaj sikha ki haar nahi manni chahiye, this story needs to reach out to more and more people. This video is supposed to be a little depressing but I don't know how it has given me hopes , to not give up . I can't thank you enough, you have me a reality check brother . My mother always says ki mehnat kabhi bekar nahi jaati , kabhi na kabhi dekhna aap vo zarur kamiyab banayegi aapko .Hope you get what you are destined for. More power to you.
Failure cannot decide your future.. you should try hard just for the last time for your AfSB.. kya pta ho jaye.. and we don't know what the future holds.. you have struggled a lot and it's a part of great success.. i know you'll achieve something big.. you have our support.. just keep trying..
Isaan jaab puri terha gir jaata hai to uske pass wapas uthne ke siva koi chara nhi hota.. you can rise up.. these downfalls cannot decrease your dedication..👍
When something is not good then something even better is about to happen....
Be honest towards your work...faliures are just stepping stones towards success😢
You cleared some of the toughest examinations in India, bro. Keep your hopes high maybe you're destined to excel somewhere else. All the best!
I can guarantee.....this man right here is gonna achieve something very exceptional ❤❤....we need more people like him...he is mentally so strong....he is a great person.... brother have given me so much inspiration... Thanks alot ❤🙏🏻🙏🏻
After watching the video i have only one thing to say "YOU ARE A MAN " the way you stopped your emotion while making the video takes a lot . I cannot belive how you are so postive ,Good luck bro i hope you will achieve greater heights in your life ❤❤
Bro finally i am came out from my imagination world and seeing where can i go....
thank you brother
😇
7 years journey salute h soldier bhai ❤❤
best video i have ever seen till the date about ssb experiences , the pain of losing army in your voice was obvious , thanks hero for sharing your journey ..
Some goals are so worthy that it's glorious even to fail .
--CAPTAIN MANOJ PANDEY 🇮🇳
A recall a star trek quote "It's possible to commit no mistake and still lose. That is not weakness. That is life." Bro you're a really lively individual and I'm sure there are much more brighter things that'll come in life for you. A quote by Rumi "He who has lead you this far will guide you further." I share the same love for defence forces aur mujhe lagta hai very true defence aspirant is defence aspirant for life we'll continue to have the same values and the same mentality so fauj mein ho ya na ho rahenge fauji hi. Gulzar sahab ka ek sher hai "Kyun dare jindagi mein kya hoga kuch nahi hoga toh tazurba hoga" and with that i wish you best of luck. Aur TA entry toh hai hi kabhi na kabhi fauj jaroor bulaegi.
I really appreciate these kind words and specially the quotes... truly inspirational. Thanks for sharing...
I'm sure you are a good human being, i could see innocence and honesty in his eyes
Go for TA Now
Don’t lose hope i want
We want to see you in that uniform
Go for it brother 👍
Koini nhi bhai, it is all right,
something else is decided for you. You have inspired me❤
Brother! You are the strongest person that i have ever seen. Love you very much.
Bhai 🫡 it takes lot of courage to tell about own failures to the world , never loose hope sir. Ho skta hai god has planned something better for you. Failure can't stop you sir. Sir you gave me the motivation and i can feel the feeling of regret 🥺. Keep smiling sir 😊 great things take time 🫡 jai hind jai bharat 🫡
Guts to except the failure be strong I know u will inspire lots of students brother
How can someone not fall for you.. you're so gentle and nice.. and you talk charmingly soft.. you already won in life buddy! 💖✨🧿 Don't lose hope.. cause great things are awaiting you.. all the best for your great future ahead!🙌💝
That's it? No. You can't let the remaining attempts go. It's so difficult to see that you've come all yhe way till here and now thinking about letting it go. Please don't give up. It's easier said than done, i assure you the guilt that you will go through in future for not trying for the remaining attempts is not going to be worth it. This is coming from someone who's been there. I could relate with the 1st half, i moved to Bhopal for NDA coaching but it didn't happen, i couldn't get through the written exam and failed to understand the areas which needed to be worked upon.
I got into an engineering college, somehow managing to like the degree in order to pass, took ncc to stay in touch with the defense part. Currently in my 5th semester (3rd year), started preparing for cds. I do get overwhelmed by the vast syllabus but then i look at people like you, and it brings back the josh. I know that there is a bit more to your story, yet to be discovered. That'd only happen if you don't give up. You might consider sitting down w people who can be honest with you and help you find the areas that need to be worked upon.
Do it for yourself, for your younger self, who didn't stop after nda.
All the best, can't wait for another video titled as "beginning of a new dream, finally cracked it!"
All the best, Jai Hind.
Don't loose hope buddy there's many more thing in life !!! I myself got recommended in my 2 last attempt!! Give your best
I know it's hard bhai, but self belief humesha rakhna. I liked when you said that there are other dreams to pursue, go for it. You seem like a very honest and genuine guy, I hope you do amazing in life and serve the nation in whichever way you choose !
Bhai you're made for something bigger and better in life. Armed forces is a great organization to be a part of but aap shayad kisi aur badi cheez ke liye bane ho to hosla mat khona.
Long way to go maire bhai. We met in this lovely journey.keep going
Aw. Finally you got the video 😃
Found it in my feed literally you are so strong bro I don't give up till last may be God has some better plan for you stay blessed ❤❤
I dont comment on YT but your story is an example of resilience and it made me write this. Its not easy to restart after failure. I got merit out recently and I can relate to the last line you said. Even i feel that bht saare log merit out hote hai merit in hote h, mene kya galti ki that i have to be an example of merit out candidate. I feel the pain when you said I AM SORRY FOR MYSELF. You did great, you dont have to sorry for anything. some hustles never die.
I think my words can't do justice to what your going through I'm so sorry, my greatest strength is with you ❤may you do wonders in your life
Don't get sad my man...may be you were born to do something even better...believe it or not there is a greater plan ❤
More power to you bhaiya. Something bigger is waiting for you ahead. Be strong🙌
Hazaron mushkilein saamne,koshishein behisaab
Issi ka naam hai zindagi,chalte rahiye janab✨
you fought till last attempt for your dream, this has build a character in you, this fighting spirit which you have developed during these past years will help you in your life ahead.
So don't feel much bad young man.
Takes lots of guts and courage to talk about your failures and dreams with such a hearty smile on your face❤❤
Stay strong like you are bhai🤝❤️💪
bro solidarity to you! i can resonate with your journey and the pursuit. The part about not fitting in their set criteria due to the past life it tough, but we now have to move on to places that dont have that prerequisite. Take care man and keep posting, Hope we find direction and fulfilment in our carries till our late 20s. March on bro, i an cheering you from the sideline. Also about the end of the vid, you wanted to say something right? It deserves to be heard, so never hesitate to speak your departing thoughts going ahead, because in them lies the true essence of our emotions and learnings. I am stepping to find direction in my life after i post this comment. May we get crowned with our true purpose, that lies in oncoming destiny. Ill see you.
Hi, i saw your video till the end. Your video appeared on my home page. I was once a defence aspirant just like you. The goal was to clear CDS-OTA and get commissioned as an officer in the forces. For medical reasons, my dream was shattered too, I was heartbroken. I can relate to each and every word you spoke. Please don't be disheartened, trust me everything will soon get better for the best that is yet to come. Have hope that there are many great things waiting for you on the road ahead. If you have any of your defence attempts left, just give your all for one last time, you never know. I'm an ARTS Graduate too and there are many government exams i'm appearing for, you can too. Please never think of you being any less than everybody. Nobody can be YOU and that is what your SUPERPOWER is. Sending you all the positive vibes, you will make it to something great, I know you will. We're are here to support you & cheer you on. Looking forward to the next video. Hope it brings us some tremendously great & positive news.
You are gem Brother,, you accept your failure Infront of many people besides crying in a room and without being zone out.... Bholenath has Better plans for you Bhai..😊😊
brother keep that beautiful smile , and keep going , i was too a die heart army fan , got medically out from 12 ssb bhopal , and my army dream shattered , then after grad i started cat preparation cleared it after 3 attempts , now studying in one of the top IIMS , kudos to you many even don;t make it to ssbs .
Pakka God ne eske leye kuch bda he socha hoga ❤101 parsent
Brother don't loose hope you still have 2 or 3 attempts of AFCAT. Believe in yourself ❤❤
He want to join army.not airforce😐
Koi nhi bro hojayega
'कृष्णं सदा सहायते' 🌸🌸buddy
i can feel your painfull eyes because in my life i have failed many places but still confident that i will achieve my dream one day.
now i m preparing for CDS
i m afraid but let's see where this journey takes me.........................
I really admire how you're able to keep a smile on your face despite your dream falling apart. I hope you find happiness in whatever you do moving forward.
hats off to your dedication brother and all the guts you have you are really a pure soul , but don't lose hope , a soldier fights till his last breathe , don't give up buddy 👍💖
Hats off bro everyone talking about his success but hove something else . Best of luck for your bright future.
You have not lost your dreams, you have lived your dreams. Jai Hind 🇮🇳 Soldier 🪖
don't think too much brother, i myself in my very first attempt of nda that was for the course 152 got recommended i had a dream of being a naval officer but at last i was medically unfit on 21st march from my amb from base hospital, i was feeling the same but don't be so sad it's just a matter of time and i think god has definitely some better plans for you and you surely do something better than what you were thinking of achieving...
brother if you have any single attempt then give yourself a last chance because dont forgot that Captain vikram batra ( pvc ) was recommend in his 13th attempt and we all know what a great leader he was may be it is a test of god
you should thought about it
JAI HIND
DONT WORRY BRO YOU CAN SERVE YOUR MOTHERLAND IN ANY OTHER WAY
KEEP IT UP SOLDIER!!!!!!!!!! ❤❤❤❤
I will like to say one thing to all
A soldier is not who is in uniform, soldering are set of values,who inculcate these values he is soldier by heart.❤❤❤❤
I am going to give my first ever defence exam as a teenager about 5 month's from now in 2025 (April). I know the path we choose as a defence aspirant is really tough and could be heart breaking sometimes too! I know failing is a part of life though I haven't really experienced it yet! But as an aspirant I would say it doesn't really matter If we make it or not what really matters is we never give up and always live our life with the teachings and experience we have got through our journey!
I am ready to work hard till the end and ready to confront the failures too!
My condolences to u my brother hope u will find ur destination soon ❤
Wish me luck 🤞🏻
Best of luck brother
dont worry buddy god has a better plan and purpose for u...
more power to you brother, you have the spirit of a warrior. do not stop bro you will achieve something greater in life.
My story is same as of urs brother,
Came from a Small town
Dreamed of being in army but got multiple failures (be its written or SSBs) nd there's a point came in my life few yrs back where i felt exact the same as u right now. It was very sad moment for me to go away from my dream. That time I turned towards plan B.
Bcz in life u didn't get always what u dream. Everything happens for a cause it was made for.
Hope these experiences make u a better person in life.
Wish u luck in future 🎉
Buddy You have do it one more last time for the childhood dream .
Go for it
And be prepare hard this time ....
bhai you yourself an officer for going till the ssb stage which not many people go and you are able to handle it well that you were not selected
I wish you all the best for shaping your future
Bhaiya you are a very well spoken man..bhot accha laga aapko sunke and def. there will be something better coming your way
Im Sparsh Negi and meri first ssb h Nda Allahbaad on 17th jan..
I'll enjoy my time over there
Thank you so much bhaiya is video ke liye 🌸
Best wishes
@@small-town-guyplease guide for ssb
Aapka aura bahut positive hai...hope so mai bhi life mai itni positive person bann sakuu✨️
Your never give up quality is a true gem. You will be doing great in life ❤
Proud of you 👏..
Life will have something for you in future.. Hope you will get..
Best wishes buddy 🫶🫂..
Never feel regret never feel sorrow...
It's ok brother trust in God. Maybe God has some other plans for you which you never dreamt of. So keep your head up and look up. Like you said you had less social interactions you can still improve on that.
Something more important is waiting for you in your life , you were doing great
Bro I appreciate the way you talk in pain ...I also fail in my recent exam but yesterday I saw video of major khushbu patani and I recommend it all the aspirants 🌼
Your resilience will take u far brother mark my words just never give up attitude as they say what doesn't breaks u makes you so come on champ so us the rest of your journey and u will make it happen ur big brother
End of a dream but many more to come, keep the spirit of an officer and carry that bright smile always😊
Brother, never seen a strong man like you, keep up your courage brother, surely God has a better plan for you. There are around 300 posts and there are lakhs of aspirants. Except those 300, everyone has to be out, this is the truth. But you are an inspiration for all those aspirants who are not able to succeed. Whatever happens in life, one should not give up and should always try to be happy. If one path is closed, then a person should find other ways. Thank you for giving strength to all of us unsuccessful candidates. I will pray to Lord Ram to bless you and make you successful in life. Jai Shree Ram 🙏🚩
More Power to you buddy. sometimes Our IDEAS , Our Goals, Our Dreams die instead of us in order to give birth to a new self. You have fallen to rise again.
More Power to you
Strength and Honor.
Bro, listen you did not get selected in an exam this does not mean that you are a looser it's all about your mind set, even APJ Abdul kalam were also got rejected from NDA so keep doing your best, success is waiting for you...
NEVER GIVE UP!!
Koi na bhai !
I'm also a 16 times repeater! Last OTA attempt me exceptional performance ke bawjud screenout hua 🙃! Its alright jo attempt hain AFSB ke 2 wo dete hain bki back up dekhte hain !
Sbki life me ups and down aate hain ! Its just we have to take it and move on !
All the best for future endeavours
Maine ek bhi second miss out nhin kiya,,aapki saari baton ko bhot dil se aur dhyan se suni,,mujhe pta h kai baar zindagi me kuch cheezen hamaare haq me nahin hoti,,aur jo hoti hai,,wo ho kar rehty hai,, maine 2022 me 12th complete Kiya with an avarage % fir BA me graduation le li,,1saal ,,and then drop out ho gai abhi,,pw se maine bhi Defence academy k liye taiyyari kr rhi hoon man lga kr,,
Ab mujhe khed nhin hoga agr mai paas na ho paai,,kiuki duniya me aap jaise bhi log hai,,aapki baton se mujhe bhot sahara mila,,Apna khyal rkhen khush rahen..
Aneeqa
Brother you are a fighter. You gave your best, that's all that matters. One day you will achieve greatness, and when you will look back, all those tough times will be worth it.
Stay Strong !
Life me sabkuch ke piche kuch na kuch karan hota ha. Believe in yourself and dekhna you will be successful in your life eventually. Himmat mat harna. Tum to wyse bhi defense aspirant ho , himmat ki kami nai hoga tumme. Life abhi bhi bohot lambi ha , keep working hard brother.
kuch nahi hota bhai, dreams never come to an end buddy, sapne dekhoge to hi aage badh paoge, if not army aur bohot kuch hai, service organisation ke bahar rehkar bhi ho sakti hai, app hume guide kar rahe ho ye bhi ek service hi hai, good luck bhai sab acha hoga
Stay strong brother , chase something else. A man great cause he gets through life when it gets tough.
Your smile says everthing bro 😭
You are the personification of the value of perseverance.you are an inspiration. I wish you only best for the future.
I feel you buddy. I am literally get disheartened when i get to know that i am color blind. Koi ni buddy hope loose nhi krni. All will be well❤
hey buddy its totally fine. Yes it hurts and it will hurt for few more days but always remember that there exists a reason behind everything and maybe it wasn;t meant to happen so it didn't. The best for u is still yet to come so just have faith in god and in ur ability and cherish this phase as well. God bless u buddy and wish u all the best.