Sadly in these cases, pump and dump; one, two or three times maybe if you’re lucky but that’s it. Don’t get attached please, I’m saving you a heart ache
This ☝️ Even if her ex has moved on with someone else, she is more than likely to still harbour feelings for him and just using you as the new guy to make him jelous. Not a position you want to be in as some “bandaid bf”.
My guy!! That's facts.. Been there done that.. Back in a similar situation.. Even if she knows your the better choice, if she's still stuck on the ex better ealk away 😅 do not endulge the drama or try to be the one. Do your thing a d Dip. When she realises it's too late and believe she'll probably end uo alone or in another toxic relationship
This cuts both ways for men *and* women. If someone isn't over their ex yet, then there's no point in pursuing that person. Period. They need room and time to process their emotions and the last place you want to be is in a "rebound relationship." Those never end well (unless you take it for what it is...revenge sex...and you avoid the temptation to get emotionally invested in what is for all intents and purposes a fling). Bottom line, if there's a lot of talk about the ex (good, bad or indifferent) then start making plans to move on ASAP.
When your just someone’s rebound your only a distraction for their pain for being hurt by the person they really want. So in the end your just being used.
I’ve been on both sides of this equation. I’ve been the ex in the background and I’ve been the dumb ass trying to compete with the ex. Trust me, that ex is one text and coffee date away from crushing your soul. If she’s still into her ex just move on. It’s probably not even worth a pump and dump because you’re probably getting sloppy seconds.
Happened to me. Found out about the ex 3 months into the relationship and that they'd been in touch a few times and even met up and had sex. Burst out in anger but she asked for a second chance as she said she wanted to be with me and would do anything and everything for me to forgiver her. Couldn't forget couldn't forgive. Wanted revenge. Stayed on with her for another 4 months and acted nice so to get her become attached to me, shagged her almost everyday. Got bored and hated even seeing her. Dumped that b*tch in the bin and she went mad contacting me on all of my socials and even turning up at my place as I was ignoring her. I promise you bro revenge tasted sweeter knowing that she became attached to me. Wouldn't recommend this though, you're better off just dumping her. But this one deserved this.
Life saving tip: don't ever get emotionally attached to any woman. Don't let your relationship or marriage turn you into a wimp. Be the king and let her be your servant.
I don't understand pursuing a girl who's not interested in you. You go into the relationship knowing someone else is in her head. The thought of it will make me loose attraction instantly. Men are too desperate
How do you deal with a girl you’re dating that’s still obsessed with someone she dated 10 years ago but clearly had a profound affect on her? Dudes name STILL comes up out the blue and just kills me inside ..
You just have to move on. I'm in this same situation. Guy cheated on her and is married now, she still keeps him around. She will always choose the ex over you.
Let her be with him and walk away,one day she might come crying and begging to you, that time you choose your new gf over her and give the taste of her own medicine
Hello friend, need help on getting back your ex partner, broken marriage specific person (SP) fix broken relationships, get rid of third parties and attracting love for better and permanent. I will suggest you get help from him now and it works within 48hours.💯❤️
This is why after making this mistake 3 times throughout my life I decided to have a cut off period for dating a new woman and being single of 2years minimum was the rule.
Hey anyone help me I have an issue that my gf ex sent marriage invitation of his marriage to my gf. And she is ready to give a gift to her ex bf, So what shall i do? Do i have to allow her or do i ask her not to give a gift to her ex bf. Please anyone good advice or suggestion regarding my issue.
Sadly in these cases, pump and dump; one, two or three times maybe if you’re lucky but that’s it. Don’t get attached please, I’m saving you a heart ache
I'd say don't make the mistake of trying to pump and dump, just run and never look back. It's not worth it and you'll probably get burned.
@@DjArie09STDs?
This ☝️ Even if her ex has moved on with someone else, she is more than likely to still harbour feelings for him and just using you as the new guy to make him jelous. Not a position you want to be in as some “bandaid bf”.
My guy!! That's facts.. Been there done that.. Back in a similar situation.. Even if she knows your the better choice, if she's still stuck on the ex better ealk away 😅 do not endulge the drama or try to be the one. Do your thing a d Dip. When she realises it's too late and believe she'll probably end uo alone or in another toxic relationship
You guys don’t know how to get her to stop thinking about her ex? Y’all are losing 😅😅😅😅
This cuts both ways for men *and* women. If someone isn't over their ex yet, then there's no point in pursuing that person. Period. They need room and time to process their emotions and the last place you want to be is in a "rebound relationship." Those never end well (unless you take it for what it is...revenge sex...and you avoid the temptation to get emotionally invested in what is for all intents and purposes a fling). Bottom line, if there's a lot of talk about the ex (good, bad or indifferent) then start making plans to move on ASAP.
When your just someone’s rebound your only a distraction for their pain for being hurt by the person they really want. So in the end your just being used.
Live with an abundance mentality as there are 4 billion women in this world. Thanks Chris.
And all those women are someone else's ex too
I’ve been on both sides of this equation. I’ve been the ex in the background and I’ve been the dumb ass trying to compete with the ex. Trust me, that ex is one text and coffee date away from crushing your soul. If she’s still into her ex just move on. It’s probably not even worth a pump and dump because you’re probably getting sloppy seconds.
Not a serious option.... trust me.
What do you mean by that
@@_noname2032 You can't take them seriously.
@@paulmckeown8378 you mean the women?
Totally agree with you
@@joshsaundh4851 how is she your girlfriend if you didn't see her in 3 months?
Walk away! she will always be stuck on the ex.
Find a new gf. Why be a second option
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Run!!!! That's a huge red flag 🚩move on!!!!!!!!! I had that experience and trust me it did not end well.
Happened to me. Found out about the ex 3 months into the relationship and that they'd been in touch a few times and even met up and had sex. Burst out in anger but she asked for a second chance as she said she wanted to be with me and would do anything and everything for me to forgiver her. Couldn't forget couldn't forgive. Wanted revenge. Stayed on with her for another 4 months and acted nice so to get her become attached to me, shagged her almost everyday. Got bored and hated even seeing her. Dumped that b*tch in the bin and she went mad contacting me on all of my socials and even turning up at my place as I was ignoring her. I promise you bro revenge tasted sweeter knowing that she became attached to me. Wouldn't recommend this though, you're better off just dumping her. But this one deserved this.
How did you find out?
Chris never disappoints
Life saving tip: don't ever get emotionally attached to any woman. Don't let your relationship or marriage turn you into a wimp. Be the king and let her be your servant.
I don't understand pursuing a girl who's not interested in you. You go into the relationship knowing someone else is in her head. The thought of it will make me loose attraction instantly.
Men are too desperate
Run away and don't waste your time is the easiest way to solve this issue
How do you deal with a girl you’re dating that’s still obsessed with someone she dated 10 years ago but clearly had a profound affect on her?
Dudes name STILL comes up out the blue and just kills me inside ..
You just have to move on. I'm in this same situation. Guy cheated on her and is married now, she still keeps him around. She will always choose the ex over you.
Let her be with him and walk away,one day she might come crying and begging to you, that time you choose your new gf over her and give the taste of her own medicine
Fellas, why make things hard for yourself, SMASH AND DASH ONLY
Always friend zone her first in fact friend zone all woman your interested in and promote accordingly once they earn it.
Best thing to do is leave she either comeback or stay with him
Hello friend, need help on getting back your ex
partner, broken marriage specific person (SP) fix
broken relationships, get rid of third parties and
attracting love for better and permanent. I will
suggest you get help from him now and it works
within 48hours.💯❤️
This is why after making this mistake 3 times throughout my life I decided to have a cut off period for dating a new woman and being single of 2years minimum was the rule.
friend= no attraction. Your acting like a girly man!...
Great video as always
An alpha widow is always an alpha widow. Treat her the way she deserves. Pump and dump the way he did....
There is only 1 thing - men don't need women frends as frend. Men have many men frends.
Let her come to you and never contact her first
Hi Chris, Could you do a slightly more elaborate video on this topic?
Bro had to release that at th 2:13 😂😂
Hi Chris, how are you and what did you have for breakfast today?
I’m good. I had a hotel breakfast today. Salad and fruit, french toast, coffee, and water.
Chris you’re Looking like you’re putting on some healthy size brother!💪🏻
Facts
Walk away.
Hey anyone help me
I have an issue that my gf ex sent marriage invitation of his marriage to my gf. And she is ready to give a gift to her ex bf, So what shall i do? Do i have to allow her or do i ask her not to give a gift to her ex bf. Please anyone good advice or suggestion regarding my issue.
For me once we're break up i don't have the interest to get my ex back
Hi Chris, what do you think about this motto ? Talking about relationship is censorship.
You can talk about relationship. But ONLY if SHE brings it up.
She’ll just cheat on you if you try that lol.
Any chick that is not over her ex and tells you that? Steer clear boys lol
Exactly right!
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You gotta not give 2 sh**s about girls if she wanna be friends you shouldn't care , at all, talk to other girls just like her talking to others guys
What does it mean if she started to send me random snaps? Should I just ignore it, or should I send random snaps back?
She tryna get your attention she wants to know what u getting up to
Advice if u healed enough and ready to answer so be it but don’t be brain washed by whatever she says
Keep her as second option find a new one😂
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