I'm in same situation right now and I just walked away. I'm done disrespecting myself. I'm going to save this video on my phone and watch it every morning and night, every fucking day to remind myself I did the right thing.
Leave. Immediately. You will always be second best no matter what you do, and the more you try to win her heart and prove yourself as equal worth, the worse things will get.
Exactly why i told my ex GF i was seeing someone new after she broke up with me. Take the power back and illicit an emotional reaction that puts me back into her mind again. Pushing the emotional buttons to remind her that she actually still cares about me.
Just dont get girls who just came up from a breakup. she has lots of baggage. even if youre together and she kept telling you youre such a nice guy and she loves you, it appears as if she's still thinking of him and you will even have to always fight for that spot on her heart. doesnt feel good either
Told me a week before our 1 year anniversary together just out of the blue one night “I don’t know why I can’t stop thinking about my ex, I guess I’m not over him.” Two months later that phrase echoes in my head every day. What a waste of a year.
Many women see multiple guys as "the one that got away," most likely the guy dropped her after finding someone more attractive and the girl sort of instinctively tries to fill the void as fast as she can to avoid the massive loss in self esteem and confidence but ultimately only makes the loss that much worse for herself because now she thinks she has to prove to the memory of her ex that she's worth something and that tends to only end up hurting other men, possibly creating more men who will break the spirit of other women and be the reason more of them do the same.
good advice honestly, push the girl away yourself to mimic what the ex did to her to reverse uno the feeings she has for her ex to be deposited to your own account, suddenly your value will be made apparent now that she knows you're having second thoughts, true enough this may lead to her freaking the fuck out and possibly doing something drastic to try and make you stay, but I imagine most of the time it'll become a more clingy sort of deal an you'll have won her over an you can possibly revert some back to your regular self, but always have that little bit of uncertainty to keep her on her toes knowing you wont take shit.
I'm gonna do what you say and deep down get ready if I end up losing her. I love her and I want her to stay but really if her heart's somewhere else I have to let her go, with a heavy heart. I just don't know what I did to deserve this. We're just starting to make memories together.. Edit: she left me. Fuck. I hate myself.
Yep im in the same situation right now, i was amazing to her and now she misses her ex. We were just making memories too and now i have to be ready for her to leave 🥲👈
@@purewater69420 Same thing is happening with me... My girlfriend decided to move on from her crush, whom she loved crazily. All these happened 2 months ago but she really does miss him, gets his dreams and still gets sad that the person she loved has a girlfriend. (Her crush is a playboy bruh... He changes girlfriends like clothes still idk why tf she loves him). I don't know if I've to give her time to move on or let her go...
This girl even visited her ex parents after breaking up for over a year or some. He has a new gf everything. We were 1,5 month into dating. It did not last longer then 2,5 months. No disrespect to me.
damn man. don't even try that. see i fell in love with a girl who said she loved me but recently i came to know the reason she was with me was because she saw her ex boyfriend in me. he was one hell of an abuser and cheated her multiple times still she came to me and ruined me just because she couldn't go back to her ex and she wanted to feel his presence. life tip guys, do not let her close, no matter what, never move in a relation with a girl who hasn't got over her past. because this is only gonna hurt you in the end. i was a lot of videos on youtube no offence, on how to get girlfriend's attention. Man if she loves you, she will give attention to you, if she doesn't just move on. she doesn't deserve you.
I saw the fb messenger of my girlfriend while chatting with other guy friend and I was surprise that in the middle of their conversation she said that she still love her ex bf and if her ex bf fix his attitude, she will come back to her ex and probably leave me. And now its hard for me to communicate to her on text or on face to face knowing that she may leave me one of this days.
Had to deal with this... her ex got in contact when he found we were together. I walked away! Then the ex wasn't actually interested in her after this lol
There's another mistake guy's that make wich is when you push her don't be upset in front of her and make her feel like you have lack of confidence What you can do is tell her that you gonna be friend with her because he she not sure about her felling and turst me that will make her crazy about you
My girlfriend broke up with me just hours ago saying she still loves her ex. She said, sometimes her ex pops out in her head. and she dreamt about her ex twice 2 days straight. that day she said she was happy. But she's unsure if her ex loves her back. She said that she dont care about me no matter what I'll do. after she said "Lets break up". I replied "okay". after that she replied "is that all what you wanna say?" then I ignored her message bur after few minutes she chatted me again "mayoo". after few more minutes she chatted again "sorry for all the things I've said to you." I still ignored her messages. Is that alright?? what does that supposed to mean? Did I do the right thing? need help ya'll 🙌
You move on, bro ! You actually doing yourself a favor ! Believe me in the long run you're defintely going to feel way better ! She was never worth it..
I’m with a girl I have dated 2 other times, and shortly into the relationship she says she starts to miss him when I’m not around and gets cold towards me, she always talks about what they did together and she smiles so much when she talking about it so the relationship doesn’t last because she wants to hangout with him, and I’m afraid she’s cheating on me. Well this time she cheated on him for two with me before she left him, and now she’s missing him again. And I’m on vacation and she’s at his house getting a couple things she left there, and she’s trying to leave on good terms, but I have a bad feeling about it. Any help?
Black Brat She will come back dont lose hope and be strong.. Same situation here. Just be strong.. You are so much better then her ex. If she is with you now and not with him that means you are way better than him. Just be strong.. If she dosent come back to you she dosent deserve you buddy.. But dont lose hope and you wont lose her..
I m having the same problem. But I didn't push her to her ex. I didn't say anything. I just walked away. Its been 2 week. Is it alright..??.or did I made a mistake..?
look my girlfriend brings up her ex to me a lot like will show me request of him on instagram and like messages he sent her then like i look at her followers shes following her ex and her ex is following her to like i wanna break up with her like i dont know if she textin him or something cause i be stressin over it like . Her ex broke up with her btw and then got a new gf and i came along wanting her and thought i swooped a good ass girl but like idk.
i mean she really does like me, we spend a shit ton of time together and we legit have the connection.. but she is not over him and i dont know what should i do? I cant just let her go, hurts like a bitch..
Develop Attraction i don't have enough words to appreciate u great ever guy....here is the words guys please listening to this guy if want to success with women
Black Brat bro. Pls stop beating yourself up over her.I've been through hell and back and here i am still alive and well.I've learned the lesson the hard way.Be a man and stand your ground.The power and strength of pulling away and moving on is real and i did it many times already.Women would always come back once you display indifference towards the situation. Do this instead: cut the booze as alcohol exacerbates the stress hormones that's messing up in your system. Hang out with friends and talk about because that's how our brain heals thus reduces your anxiety.If they are not available, just chill at a coffee shop or shopping malls where you see a lot of people. And never ever ever ever contact her again! Give yourself time to grieve and heal and start talking to other girls when you're ready.Good luck!
Black Brat.....You need to ask yourself why are you handle adversity this way. Just reading your plea for help tell's me why this woman left. You're coming across weak and needy......that is never attractive to any woman!!! This is an opportunity for you to be the best version of yourself! Start by going into your room and cry it out for a whole night if you need to......let all the pain out!!! Then start eating healthy, go to the gym every day, be friendly to everyone who you come into contact with. Hang out with friends and go on dates!! Take a freezing cold shower every morning it is amazing in improving your mood [proven to be more effective than an antidepresan] Improve your wardrobe, focus on your business or work and most importantly start meditating every day for 10 to 12 minutes! Last, remember this if you don't know your self-worth.....you will always be easy to throw away! You came into this world alone, and you will leave this world alone!! Be good to yourself
High value males like me dont just believe where awesome but if she doesn't think I'm awesome keep it moving you want a gurl trying to chase you Like a Celebrity and if she's not all over you Like a Celebrity then she's not for you all the ladys I know or slept with in the pass always said I kept that Spark light keep it at the First impression always dont ever let a girl know that she has you be the guy who doesn't care if she stays or Goes be the guy who doesn't care be the Carefree guy have your own Life and if she wants to Rock with you in your Boat ,plane or Car then let her do as she pleases just live your Life to all my underdogs out there I got you be cool and let her come to you like a Cat and get money baby🤑
I'm in same situation right now and I just walked away. I'm done disrespecting myself. I'm going to save this video on my phone and watch it every morning and night, every fucking day to remind myself I did the right thing.
Good Man 👍🏼
Good Man👍🏼
Same situation
What happend ?
Dude, trust me you did the best
Leave her. Be the high value
Leave. Immediately. You will always be second best no matter what you do, and the more you try to win her heart and prove yourself as equal worth, the worse things will get.
Well said 💯
Sounds like were all in the same boat guys😂
Exactly why i told my ex GF i was seeing someone new after she broke up with me. Take the power back and illicit an emotional reaction that puts me back into her mind again. Pushing the emotional buttons to remind her that she actually still cares about me.
Just dont get girls who just came up from a breakup. she has lots of baggage. even if youre together and she kept telling you youre such a nice guy and she loves you, it appears as if she's still thinking of him and you will even have to always fight for that spot on her heart. doesnt feel good either
So how was it
It's really simple...... walk away ! Mainly because there really is no other option but pain/disappointment that never ends.
Told me a week before our 1 year anniversary together just out of the blue one night “I don’t know why I can’t stop thinking about my ex, I guess I’m not over him.”
Two months later that phrase echoes in my head every day. What a waste of a year.
Chris your the best dating/life coach on the internet period!!
Many women see multiple guys as "the one that got away," most likely the guy dropped her after finding someone more attractive and the girl sort of instinctively tries to fill the void as fast as she can to avoid the massive loss in self esteem and confidence but ultimately only makes the loss that much worse for herself because now she thinks she has to prove to the memory of her ex that she's worth something and that tends to only end up hurting other men, possibly creating more men who will break the spirit of other women and be the reason more of them do the same.
good advice honestly, push the girl away yourself to mimic what the ex did to her to reverse uno the feeings she has for her ex to be deposited to your own account, suddenly your value will be made apparent now that she knows you're having second thoughts, true enough this may lead to her freaking the fuck out and possibly doing something drastic to try and make you stay, but I imagine most of the time it'll become a more clingy sort of deal an you'll have won her over an you can possibly revert some back to your regular self, but always have that little bit of uncertainty to keep her on her toes knowing you wont take shit.
holy shit did not expect this video to describe my recent relationship with a girl word for word.
ayy same lol how did it turn out?
Sameeee
Been going through a similar situation. Just what I needed to hear.
Thanks for the great content, Chris!
Is everything okay now?
@@rangan_dasgupta same question
Bro I am going through the same situation
This is so toxic
Yeah women make no damn sense 😂
31 virgin male here and watching these women whine with their kids and cats
If this doesn’t work tomorow I’m still subscribing
I'm gonna do what you say and deep down get ready if I end up losing her. I love her and I want her to stay but really if her heart's somewhere else I have to let her go, with a heavy heart.
I just don't know what I did to deserve this. We're just starting to make memories together..
Edit: she left me. Fuck. I hate myself.
Find someone else.. you deserve better
Yep im in the same situation right now, i was amazing to her and now she misses her ex. We were just making memories too and now i have to be ready for her to leave 🥲👈
@@purewater69420 Same thing is happening with me... My girlfriend decided to move on from her crush, whom she loved crazily. All these happened 2 months ago but she really does miss him, gets his dreams and still gets sad that the person she loved has a girlfriend. (Her crush is a playboy bruh... He changes girlfriends like clothes still idk why tf she loves him). I don't know if I've to give her time to move on or let her go...
its crazy how relatable it is to my situation
Her ex boyfriend cheat on her ,and yet is still 1 year and she always txt with him...😅...same boat
Lol don't even do it to attract her, just do it because you value yourself and won't stand to be compared to anyone else
Thank you very much for your video.
I applied your advice and it worked.
dude I was on that situation ! except that her ex is dead. that's kinda sad
Same here, in my case turned out even worse because she pedestalized him and worshiped him even more
This was happening to me 3 to 4 weeks back, but I stopped chasing
This girl even visited her ex parents after breaking up for over a year or some. He has a new gf everything. We were 1,5 month into dating. It did not last longer then 2,5 months. No disrespect to me.
She tells me that I am important and she wants to be with me, but cant stop talking to her ex. I didnt like that she talks to him.
damn man. don't even try that. see i fell in love with a girl who said she loved me but recently i came to know the reason she was with me was because she saw her ex boyfriend in me. he was one hell of an abuser and cheated her multiple times still she came to me and ruined me just because she couldn't go back to her ex and she wanted to feel his presence. life tip guys, do not let her close, no matter what, never move in a relation with a girl who hasn't got over her past. because this is only gonna hurt you in the end. i was a lot of videos on youtube no offence, on how to get girlfriend's attention. Man if she loves you, she will give attention to you, if she doesn't just move on. she doesn't deserve you.
I saw the fb messenger of my girlfriend while chatting with other guy friend and I was surprise that in the middle of their conversation she said that she still love her ex bf and if her ex bf fix his attitude, she will come back to her ex and probably leave me. And now its hard for me to communicate to her on text or on face to face knowing that she may leave me one of this days.
Leave her. You don't deserve that dude
Strike first. Strike hard. No mercy! Nuke her ass, bro.
Hahahahahaha..... RUN FOREST RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!
Excellent video Chris!
It's too much work girl keep it forget allat
Had to deal with this... her ex got in contact when he found we were together. I walked away! Then the ex wasn't actually interested in her after this lol
You are the best man,thnx !
There's another mistake guy's that make wich is when you push her don't be upset in front of her and make her feel like you have lack of confidence
What you can do is tell her that you gonna be friend with her because he she not sure about her felling and turst me that will make her crazy about you
salute boss ! these are magical speech
I wonder what most women would do if their boyfriend mentioned missing their ex girlfriend. I guess it would depend on how much she likes him.
Really needed this
My situation right now, but what if after I do this she still goes after her ex instead of going after me?
Then let it be. It's likely her ex won't love her like he used to and cheat on her. Let her suffer with her own actions and miss you like crazy.
Let her go
Let it go bro
I know it's hard but never ever beg for someone else's love and attention
If she does She would’ve still gone after him but you only sped up the process. So you dodged a bullet.
Luv u Chris. ....17k subscribers congrats...
Thank you so much for this video
Great bro ..I got to try this ....
I just already pushed her to her ex. Why I wouldn't watch this video first. Can you guys help me how to fix it???
I have same a problem .my ex she I can't get over her ex but on same time she want me on her life
Go get back but if she got someone move on
I was in the same situation and I left her
My girlfriend broke up with me just hours ago saying she still loves her ex. She said, sometimes her ex pops out in her head. and she dreamt about her ex twice 2 days straight. that day she said she was happy. But she's unsure if her ex loves her back. She said that she dont care about me no matter what I'll do. after she said "Lets break up". I replied "okay".
after that she replied "is that all what you wanna say?" then I ignored her message bur after few minutes she chatted me again "mayoo". after few more minutes she chatted again "sorry for all the things I've said to you." I still ignored her messages. Is that alright?? what does that supposed to mean? Did I do the right thing? need help ya'll 🙌
You did, those are issues she should have dealt with when she got broke up with him, you aren't supposed to deal with that
@@ruthnkhoma971 good news were back together sayin long long apology message. I can see her positive changes
@@mayomartelol what happened now? Still together?
Well he's over you, he's gone!!!!
Im not going to change myself for someone. I would rather change the person instead.
Ugh I just want someone who would never leave
Thanks a lot broo
Thanks mate!
Walked away 🎉
Currently at this exact same shit
what if my girlfriend keep on holding back that she cant be with me anymore?what should I do?
What if my girlfriend leaves his ex? And yet she still love him.
Israel Escoro yeah I have the same issue, I wish I know what could be done in that case
@@abdulrahmanessam144 same boat would love some advice on this
You move on, bro ! You actually doing yourself a favor ! Believe me in the long run you're defintely going to feel way better ! She was never worth it..
@@pavkata678 thank you bro!
@@pavkata678 well said💯
My girlfriend told me he can't forget her ex boyfriend because he left to another country
Sounds like someone I know.
Thank you 🥺
Thank you.
I’m with a girl I have dated 2 other times, and shortly into the relationship she says she starts to miss him when I’m not around and gets cold towards me, she always talks about what they did together and she smiles so much when she talking about it so the relationship doesn’t last because she wants to hangout with him, and I’m afraid she’s cheating on me. Well this time she cheated on him for two with me before she left him, and now she’s missing him again. And I’m on vacation and she’s at his house getting a couple things she left there, and she’s trying to leave on good terms, but I have a bad feeling about it. Any help?
Nathan Franklin dump her you beta male
Yep. Just keep banging your head on the same wall until you knock some damn sense into yourself, or pass out. Or both.
Leave her, she cheated on him with you, what makes you think she’s not gonna cheat on you?
She just said to me that I am so caring so nice to her but she is not able to do a bit for me. So should I block her or what ?
But what if the girl has no standards or has no confidence
Does this video still apply?
Can someone answer please
No woman is worth a counterintelligence operation.
what i do tell me i unable to move on...
I’m trying I’ll never be him
that's very ture
This situation fucking sucks! It's the most annoying and irritable feeling of all. Yeah, I'll gonna push her away, this is too toxic
I love this guy
if i push her towards him,is really my relationship will end
She blocked......
What should i do next....
Please help
Black Brat don’t do anything. She’s just testing you.
Delete her number and move on
Black Brat stay strong
Black Brat
She will come back dont lose hope and be strong.. Same situation here. Just be strong.. You are so much better then her ex. If she is with you now and not with him that means you are way better than him. Just be strong.. If she dosent come back to you she dosent deserve you buddy.. But dont lose hope and you wont lose her..
found someone else
I m having the same problem. But I didn't push her to her ex. I didn't say anything. I just walked away. Its been 2 week. Is it alright..??.or did I made a mistake..?
Wait! Don't do anything. If she doesn't come back. Move on.
Walking away is the ultimate move. That’s the only power a man has. Also you save your dignity. Never beg for a woman. No matter how much you love her
Genius
I did that, and watched this video after to confirm … 😂 fk she think I am , I am a King!!! Value your self Bros!
look my girlfriend brings up her ex to me a lot like will show me request of him on instagram and like messages he sent her then like i look at her followers shes following her ex and her ex is following her to like i wanna break up with her like i dont know if she textin him or something cause i be stressin over it like . Her ex broke up with her btw and then got a new gf and i came along wanting her and thought i swooped a good ass girl but like idk.
Dump her. Yesterday.
You don’t it’s over
move on
What an interesting guy he his
i mean she really does like me, we spend a shit ton of time together and we legit have the connection.. but she is not over him and i dont know what should i do? I cant just let her go, hurts like a bitch..
I had to watch this because I don’t wanna end up like will smith.
You literally just saved me
Why didn't you make this video back in 2014
walk away … its soul destroying and you are second choice ….
🗣💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
You put two videos..get ex back and how to attract her from ex😂😂who will win?
Okay i did what you said....
But what if she leaves me for real......
Black Brat you shouldn’t care about that. She should be the one who worries that you’ll leave her.
Develop Attraction i don't have enough words to appreciate u great ever guy....here is the words guys please listening to this guy if want to success with women
Black Brat bro. Pls stop beating yourself up over her.I've been through hell and back and here i am still alive and well.I've learned the lesson the hard way.Be a man and stand your ground.The power and strength of pulling away and moving on is real and i did it many times already.Women would always come back once you display indifference towards the situation. Do this instead: cut the booze as alcohol exacerbates the stress hormones that's messing up in your system. Hang out with friends and talk about because that's how our brain heals thus reduces your anxiety.If they are not available, just chill at a coffee shop or shopping malls where you see a lot of people. And never ever ever ever contact her again! Give yourself time to grieve and heal and start talking to other girls when you're ready.Good luck!
Black Brat.....You need to ask yourself why are you handle adversity this way. Just reading your plea for help tell's me why this woman left. You're coming across weak and needy......that is never attractive to any woman!!! This is an opportunity for you to be the best version of yourself! Start by going into your room and cry it out for a whole night if you need to......let all the pain out!!! Then start eating healthy, go to the gym every day, be friendly to everyone who you come into contact with. Hang out with friends and go on dates!! Take a freezing cold shower every morning it is amazing in improving your mood [proven to be more effective than an antidepresan] Improve your wardrobe, focus on your business or work and most importantly start meditating every day for 10 to 12 minutes! Last, remember this if you don't know your self-worth.....you will always be easy to throw away! You came into this world alone, and you will leave this world alone!! Be good to yourself
High value males like me dont just believe where awesome but if she doesn't think I'm awesome keep it moving you want a gurl trying to chase you Like a Celebrity and if she's not all over you Like a Celebrity then she's not for you all the ladys I know or slept with in the pass always said I kept that Spark light keep it at the First impression always dont ever let a girl know that she has you be the guy who doesn't care if she stays or Goes be the guy who doesn't care be the Carefree guy have your own Life and if she wants to Rock with you in your Boat ,plane or Car then let her do as she pleases just live your Life to all my underdogs out there I got you be cool and let her come to you like a Cat and get money baby🤑
If she is watching:-)
Lol it’s not difficult getting a man back, just throw the box lol dudes are easy
@@jendrizzyy box of chocolates?
It's same with me....
Thanks
I'll do that now...
But it's really difficult 😣