Lol... Just make yourself and your goals number one then your family .. d women will notice you but you try to make them feel wanted they will start to misdo hahaha .. I didn't say don't flash light to them to get there attention
Have you heard the story of the man whose wife cheated on him, and he started being nice to her? Real slick is plotting that divorce that won't cause you to part with half your resources...resources that is literally the most important to her. Men know, especially a present man, we know the changes in emotions and behaviors...we just plan and act accordingly.
I always knew that and I was told that when I dated women that were 10 to 15 years older than me when I was in my 20's. One of them told me if you don't see them or around them at any time, they are cheating. If they are making excuses or need some time alone they are cheating. They were right ....
The truth is woman are never satisfied with anything. If she hangs around it means she has not found a competent trophy,but as soon as she gets it she is gone brother. The danger is men are wired to Love. Once you unlock your love trouble is on your way. Women are expected to respect not to love.thats where the issue start. They respect if you have something to offer. Failing which they discard.
The reason women are perceived to be better at cheating has nothing to do with how good they are at doing it. It has everything to do with the man they're cheating with fully cooperating in any way he needs to in order to keep smashing.
A man who is observant will know. The truth is women take men for idiots. Men just need to be self disciplined and observant and you will know all her game. And it will make you sad as a man
Couldnt agree with you more, women think they are so much more on the up and up than men. Truth is the majority of men are just in it to see how much sex they can get. That never works, no wonder they miss the key points concerning women. With age comes WISDOM, Im grateful to figure women out
Look women don’t know if a man is cheating on them or not. If you’re a man who’ve been in the game, trust me, she’ll never find out. Women who cheat are the ones who do not 1) have anything meaningful to do. 2) the ones who’s husbands never have time for them 3) The gold diggers. 4) The ones who were forced to be with you. 5) The ones who’s husbands have been cheating on them, so they are trying to pay you back 😂😂 When a woman is really in love with her man or husband, it’s really really hard for them to cheat. Women are emotional beings.
Any man who has dated enough women through out their lives would know the pattern of a cheating women. My opinion is, get as much out of them that you can, and then prepare to let them go.
Exactly bro. These days I don't even bother to prove I'm right about a corner corner babe, once she just starts exhibiting those traits, I already know where to class and place her - straight and then give her the ashewo babe treatment which is a very calculated and wicked treatment. After everything they'll be the ones shouting men are scum 😂. And na those cheating ones d sabi shout pass. 😂
To correct you,. Men find out,. But sometimes it hurts and we don't make it obvious we found out...because ur so good at planning it that u actually over plan and it now becomes obvious ...
Never tell a woman you love her, until you two are in a very serious relationship. She will take advantage of you like you never thought possible. Women, are very conifying. Their game is very tight!
Wow wow wow, lady you are indeed ultra -special as a woman you are telling the truth. We thank you as black men and men in general for your profound information which you express so fearlessly, we love you beautiful and amazing lady, please continue this great work.
What I've learnt from this video is; don't waste your time and energy on women. Pursue your life goals instead. There's way too much fulfillment there.
If you meditate enough and you will naturally find answers to many things in life'not just about women but everything except what God doesn't want you to know So from experience when someone begins to lie about something If you v the right knowledge and wisdom in life you would know Except you don't pay attention
I already know all these from my observation i never fall in love but i stay where i get respected and don't get yoo distance from if i sense anything i mean anything sticky around I'm always ready to move, some people don't know some of these things though thanks for sharing
Women date for security. But when they are with a guy that can provide they are looking for the guy who has even more. That is not being satisfied not dating for security when she was already in a secure place. That is another issue.
Chasing women is a waste time of the more you love them the more you become afool l don't care about them,I care about money and am proud to be a rich bachelor
I’ve been a rich bachelor and it’s Ben fun. I have my home cleaner , cook, body massagers all women and they give me what a wife would say she will give me even without peace. I pay for female services and if not that we need to make babies with woman I would have just pay for them to make babies for me and still have my kids. Being with women such as wife, girlfriend or partner is a big work nowadays.
@@IJayNedum I’m feeling you. 😀😀 I don’t know if o should say you are doing a good job. The topics are controversial 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ - but needed. That’s why I call you Bado - naughty but true.
Every time I come to this channel. It makes me distant my self with women. Truth be told is only men that love. Because if you don’t have the money and the status she won’t want to be with. It’s always what they can gain rather than what they can do for you
The fact that most women cheat with more connection/attachment makes it easy to know. It will take time before she starts showing the signs sha o. sometimes even up to 6 months sef. But once she is fully attached to the new guy she’s knacking, she will start misbehaving, arguing about little things, caring less about sex with her bf/husband, even unconsciously caring less for her children sef 😅😅😅. E must cast if she is cheating with just one person bcoz she will surely get attached and she must misbehave. Na just time. But the hard one to catch na the one wey de cheat just to knack. They are rare ladies like that but dem dey. dem go get like 1-3-4 guys wey be knacking mate to them. And this type of ladies will not even misbehave in thier homes 😂 They will treat their husbands or bf well and na this type all guys suppose dey fear 😂😂😂😂 They are all about sexual satisfaction coz one man no dey reach them 😂
It’s a myth that women know how to hide cheating, it’s always obvious they are. Women love to compare a lot, so when she starts highlighting things about you she never was concerned about before, just know that there is someone else she’s comparing you to.
Women love to be chased, unfortunately I stopped that shit. Am chasing my career and now I choose who to eat cuz they’re always behind me. Chase money guys, ladies will never let you go alone.
Lol! Honestly I don't think checking dick print is a perversion. Its just natural. Same way men look at the size of boobs and bum. And yes i agree that a lot of women cheat a lot, especially if they are beautiful or sexy. The pressure is always much from men. And unfortunately some of these men are always going to be "bigger" than the woman's partner. So she would love to experiment. However as IJ said, they are master planners and are very very discrete when they cheat. Especially when she still loves her man. It is also true that many wives have children from their lovers while in marriage. Somehow they don't have much guilt living with this for the rest of their married lives. As they say, a woman's heart is an ocean of secrets. My advise to men is this- As long as your partner is fulfilling her marital responsibilities to you and loving and respecting you as expected please don't bother snooping on her phone or her life because you are bound to see what you don't want to see. Just assume she is faithful and enjoy her.
Thank you, I've really learned something. You've actually tried a lot explaining in details all of your points which might be correct in someway but I disagreed with two points. Those points goes in for both men and women. Interesting content though.
Hi IJay Its such an educating and quite impressive video you put up there, I watched most of your videos, and it gave me so much to recommend to my folks... That's such a good work... Though I just subscribed to your channel buh trust me, I've watched so many of your videos... Love you so much... Keep up the good work❤🎉😊
Look out for her closest friends she’s got before dating her at anytime.. if her friends are promiscuous, my guy please just run, she can’t even be saved.
If most women cheat, which I already know, why would any man with a incling of common sense want a woman at all? I mean a man that wants a real relationship? Trust is one of the most important part of a relationship and it's just not there! Personally I'm out! Because I'm just truly better off that way! Your loss women.......
its a few of us''' who, dont cheat, dummy' but got cheated on'''' and i want a loyal woman cause i know iam loyal'''' '' the funny part is you didnt live long enuff too really give advice'' but these young silly wanna listen ,, more power to them''''''
What do you do when you are in love with a woman, and she all say's she loves you too and you bring up the relationship idea and she says we should take it slow let's not rush things And it's. Been like 3 months now and a half please what do I do??
It's so easy to read a thot it's ridiculous. All you have to do is listen. I know when I'm dating a thot and I allow her to think I'm naive to what she's doing until I'm through with using the liar for a certain purpose and release that idiot. Always make a woman pay for her own delusion....If she brings nothing to the table, don't allow her to sit at the table... The game is simple.
I do notice if my woman is cheating even wen i am far from her and if i want know the truth about that i will just seat her down n ask her but firstly she never say the truth untill i press harder n all that i will do next is to bring my chair n popcorn she will say the truth but she never tell me how times she slept with the guy, i will just hear i slept with him twice that is not truth.
Thanks for being honest, though anyone wise is aware of these, among much more besides. We have to walk around pretending to be stupid, so women feel comfortable🙄 That, in itself, is a drag! (And, yes, there is lots to be said about "men", but that's not the subject here)
most of the the women around me I mean does who know me have crush on me and it makes me more and more confuse to know what the want sometimes they will say it at there own gathering, later one of them will come and say it to my hearing. it get me confused....
Great video. I already suspected most of this. but a lot of yall really dont cheat that well....yall just lie and gaslight very well😂 Im laughing but thats y i dont trust none of yall fr
I am a little over 40 and it is beginning to appear to me how much energy we men waste on women.....it's not worth it.
true
Are you knowing . I’m surprised you are just knowing 😅🤐
eya... pele
Lol... Just make yourself and your goals number one then your family .. d women will notice you but you try to make them feel wanted they will start to misdo hahaha .. I didn't say don't flash light to them to get there attention
Yep... they will hold out on you the "good guy" but give it up instantly to a "bad guy."
Men always found out and know. We are not fools. Just that we don’t always react so much or creat a scene
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Bro we don't know shit...
I've always known when being played unless I was too busy playing myself
True on a 💯
men are not so perfect in knowing about women
Men find out everything a woman does,especially when we observe her emotion changes but we play it cool and plan our next move
❤
I keep telling them that, they tink they slick, but we catch on, and we just observe them in silence. smh.
Have you heard the story of the man whose wife cheated on him, and he started being nice to her? Real slick is plotting that divorce that won't cause you to part with half your resources...resources that is literally the most important to her. Men know, especially a present man, we know the changes in emotions and behaviors...we just plan and act accordingly.
So true
💯💯
I always knew that and I was told that when I dated women that were 10 to 15 years older than me when I was in my 20's. One of them told me if you don't see them or around them at any time, they are cheating. If they are making excuses or need some time alone they are cheating. They were right ....
Then this means they cheat All the time 🤪🤪🤪 isn't it?
The truth is woman are never satisfied with anything. If she hangs around it means she has not found a competent trophy,but as soon as she gets it she is gone brother. The danger is men are wired to Love. Once you unlock your love trouble is on your way. Women are expected to respect not to love.thats where the issue start. They respect if you have something to offer. Failing which they discard.
The reason women are perceived to be better at cheating has nothing to do with how good they are at doing it. It has everything to do with the man they're cheating with fully cooperating in any way he needs to in order to keep smashing.
😑💔
Really? That’s lame
This!☝🏼 Women are the gatekeepers so of course it's easier for them to cheat. Especially with how thirsty most men are out here.
Ironically speaking, she‘s cheating with another man who maybe was cheated on🙄
So that's the reason you go fighting a fellow man when you catch your wife cheating.
Men marry for love
Woman marry for security ( it's contractual)
It has always been.
That the way it is - and always has been.
@@andersnielsen6044thats the way it was and no longer will be
Dangerously!
A man who is observant will know. The truth is women take men for idiots. Men just need to be self disciplined and observant and you will know all her game. And it will make you sad as a man
Observant and Disciplined 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Couldnt agree with you more, women think they are so much more on the up and up than men. Truth is the majority of men are just in it to see how much sex they can get. That never works, no wonder they miss the key points concerning women. With age comes WISDOM, Im grateful to figure women out
Actually, you will only be sad for a moment. But its good to actually know her game, especially at the beginning.
I'm extremely sad about most women behaviour, they don't even care about the consequences.
Look women don’t know if a man is cheating on them or not. If you’re a man who’ve been in the game, trust me, she’ll never find out. Women who cheat are the ones who do not
1) have anything meaningful to do.
2) the ones who’s husbands never have time for them
3) The gold diggers.
4) The ones who were forced to be with you.
5) The ones who’s husbands have been cheating on them, so they are trying to pay you back 😂😂
When a woman is really in love with her man or husband, it’s really really hard for them to cheat.
Women are emotional beings.
Emotional beings are also very very impulsive.. Trust me, if you got game - you can make any woman cheat, anytime. ;)
@@andersnielsen6044most guys' nightmare 😂 someone is fucking the queen...oops
Any man who has dated enough women through out their lives would know the pattern of a cheating women. My opinion is, get as much out of them that you can, and then prepare to let them go.
Exactly bro. These days I don't even bother to prove I'm right about a corner corner babe, once she just starts exhibiting those traits, I already know where to class and place her - straight and then give her the ashewo babe treatment which is a very calculated and wicked treatment. After everything they'll be the ones shouting men are scum 😂. And na those cheating ones d sabi shout pass. 😂
"Women cheat" how true!
Like what are signs a give me a few
Wat can you get?
That's a good one!
It is easy to know a cheating woman ! First, she doesn't depart from her phone.
There is truth to this 🤣🤣
@@IJayNedum This is know SECRET!!!
soo if she doesn't depart frm her fone means she cheating smh
@@davidbailey6549 this is the strongest, easiest and quickest single indicator ! You have to corroborate it with other redflags.
U rẹ Right bro
Honestly I just love you. I am blown away by everything you said here. You are just amazing.
To correct you,. Men find out,. But sometimes it hurts and we don't make it obvious we found out...because ur so good at planning it that u actually over plan and it now becomes obvious ...
Men care about a woman's past while women care about a man's future
Never tell a woman you love her, until you two are in a very serious relationship. She will take advantage of you like you never thought possible. Women, are very conifying. Their game is very tight!
Tell her I love you and don’t mean it
Very true
There is no way you can love her without telling her you love her.
When she gives you the signal the you have to say it because its you job to love her though
Dumb!
Wow wow wow, lady you are indeed ultra -special as a woman you are telling the truth. We thank you as black men and men in general for your profound information which you express so fearlessly, we love you beautiful and amazing lady, please continue this great work.
Those are some honest assessment of women for real, but many women must be mad at you right now😂
Men know you cheated when you start to display (subconsciously) quirks, mannerisms and other idiosyncrasies that are not from him.
Well said
Hit and run sounds like something really fascinating..
How to catch her cheating call her without notice and when she doesn’t pick-up that’s a sign she’s talking to another man
Not always true.
What I've learnt from this video is; don't waste your time and energy on women. Pursue your life goals instead. There's way too much fulfillment there.
Another good one!
They wont admit their body counts but always claim it doesn't matter
You actually the one lady you spitting the truth about this topic
You just said if a tall woman is dating a short guy that means she is benefiting something from it, does that mean short guys have no value or what ?
Only women over 30 care about being used. That's 304 time, as long as they think they are in control
If you meditate enough and you will naturally find answers to many things in life'not just about women but everything except what God doesn't want you to know
So from experience when someone begins to lie about something If you v the right knowledge and wisdom in life you would know Except you don't pay attention
OMG you spilled the greatest secret.
The reflex screening below the belt 🙂
We wasted our time on our face had you told earlier 😀
Yes you are well informed. Everything you aee saying is the truth nobody wants to talk about 😊
I know right. Thanks for watching 😊
@@IJayNedum
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL GORGEOUS LADY OF AFRICA
@@IJayNedumhello
👏🏾👍🏾💐 I am loving your videos, but most of all your sense of humor. You are something else. Have a good evening.
Phelix
The last one hit hard
I know right 😊
You're perfectly correct
I already know all these from my observation i never fall in love but i stay where i get respected and don't get yoo distance from if i sense anything i mean anything sticky around I'm always ready to move, some people don't know some of these things though thanks for sharing
Thank you for your comments I appreciate a woman like you as black man
Most guys suspect and know that their girls are cheating while some guys play along maybe because they are also guilty or are playboys
You are realy saying the truth thank for unveiling this
Women date for security. But when they are with a guy that can provide they are looking for the guy who has even more. That is not being satisfied not dating for security when she was already in a secure place. That is another issue.
Chaaaa this lady can talk. Heeerrrr. I love her vibe
Chasing women is a waste time of the more you love them the more you become afool l don't care about them,I care about money and am proud to be a rich bachelor
I’ve been a rich bachelor and it’s Ben fun. I have my home cleaner , cook, body massagers all women and they give me what a wife would say she will give me even without peace. I pay for female services and if not that we need to make babies with woman I would have just pay for them to make babies for me and still have my kids. Being with women such as wife, girlfriend or partner is a big work nowadays.
That’s when she doesn’t 💕 u she won’t tell you the 7 secret 🙏🏾
Keep dropping it; we LOVE you❤
There's always this saying that when a woman tells you her body count, multiply it by 20 and that's the answer
I really appreciate your efforts and the idea you are giving us, Thanks, one love
Chase and waste your time, you are supposed to to build your future and prepare your self for old age.
A good video to make is things to look for when you are trying to get married.
How did you read my mind ?😳😳😳 It’s dropping tomorrow 😊
@@IJayNedum I’m feeling you. 😀😀 I don’t know if o should say you are doing a good job. The topics are controversial 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ - but needed.
That’s why I call you Bado - naughty but true.
Every time I come to this channel. It makes me distant my self with women. Truth be told is only men that love. Because if you don’t have the money and the status she won’t want to be with. It’s always what they can gain rather than what they can do for you
Even if you have the money, women are still not satisfied..
This is why a woman has to marry b4 sex. Cos the more sex she has with different men the more unsuccessful she can bond with one man
The fact that most women cheat with more connection/attachment makes it easy to know. It will take time before she starts showing the signs sha o. sometimes even up to 6 months sef. But once she is fully attached to the new guy she’s knacking, she will start misbehaving, arguing about little things, caring less about sex with her bf/husband, even unconsciously caring less for her children sef 😅😅😅. E must cast if she is cheating with just one person bcoz she will surely get attached and she must misbehave. Na just time. But the hard one to catch na the one wey de cheat just to knack. They are rare ladies like that but dem dey. dem go get like 1-3-4 guys wey be knacking mate to them. And this type of ladies will not even misbehave in thier homes 😂 They will treat their husbands or bf well and na this type all guys suppose dey fear 😂😂😂😂 They are all about sexual satisfaction coz one man no dey reach them 😂
Thanks for this video Its really really helpful
So how are women scared of being used but they slept around and cheat? Please explain?
It’s a myth that women know how to hide cheating, it’s always obvious they are.
Women love to compare a lot, so when she starts highlighting things about you she never was concerned about before, just know that there is someone else she’s comparing you to.
Why do they pretend as if they don't like you , yet deep down they ❤ you a lot?? Why??
Cus' she doesn't want to look cheap.
its the essence of the game brother
@@danielgrossman9140 okay, do what must the guy do?
I like the stuff.
Keep doing it.
I believe you 100% ijay
Keep job going u are educating us .
Women love to be chased, unfortunately I stopped that shit. Am chasing my career and now I choose who to eat cuz they’re always behind me. Chase money guys, ladies will never let you go alone.
The presenter said, "Women cheat a lot," and they "don't like hit-and-run." Hit-and-run sounds fair when a woman cheats. Instant karma, maybe.
Lol! Honestly I don't think checking dick print is a perversion. Its just natural. Same way men look at the size of boobs and bum. And yes i agree that a lot of women cheat a lot, especially if they are beautiful or sexy. The pressure is always much from men. And unfortunately some of these men are always going to be "bigger" than the woman's partner. So she would love to experiment. However as IJ said, they are master planners and are very very discrete when they cheat. Especially when she still loves her man. It is also true that many wives have children from their lovers while in marriage. Somehow they don't have much guilt living with this for the rest of their married lives. As they say, a woman's heart is an ocean of secrets. My advise to men is this- As long as your partner is fulfilling her marital responsibilities to you and loving and respecting you as expected please don't bother snooping on her phone or her life because you are bound to see what you don't want to see. Just assume she is faithful and enjoy her.
Yhhh I agree women also shouldn’t check men’s phone you might also find something you don’t want to
you sound very good in the video. I wonder how you really are in real life.
Women don’t like to be “USED”…….that’s a BIG statement there.
True. Yet feel entitled that u should be used😏
Very interesting thanks darling 💕
Thank you, I've really learned something.
You've actually tried a lot explaining in details all of your points which might be correct in someway but I disagreed with two points. Those points goes in for both men and women.
Interesting content though.
Very interesting presentation..thank u
Hit and Run, fellas. Hit and run
merci encore sur le meme video!!
Hi IJay
Its such an educating and quite impressive video you put up there, I watched most of your videos, and it gave me so much to recommend to my folks... That's such a good work... Though I just subscribed to your channel buh trust me, I've watched so many of your videos... Love you so much... Keep up the good work❤🎉😊
Thanks Sister for the enlightenment 😂
Look out for her closest friends she’s got before dating her at anytime.. if her friends are promiscuous, my guy please just run, she can’t even be saved.
I love those secrets
You are doing well
Spill the beans 🎉
Yes women are very powerful in cheating, but we do fine out at times when she's very frequent in the act
If most women cheat, which I already know, why would any man with a incling of common sense want a woman at all? I mean a man that wants a real relationship? Trust is one of the most important part of a relationship and it's just not there! Personally I'm out! Because I'm just truly better off that way! Your loss women.......
Ij, I think I like you. U re real
its a few of us''' who, dont cheat, dummy' but got cheated on'''' and i want a loyal woman cause i know iam loyal'''' '' the funny part is you didnt live long enuff too really give advice'' but these young silly wanna listen ,, more power to them''''''
How did you get this update and research
What do you do when you are in love with a woman, and she all say's she loves you too and you bring up the relationship idea and she says we should take it slow let's not rush things
And it's. Been like 3 months now and a half please what do I do??
I had a girlfriend that cheats but I didn’t mind cos I knew everything lol. I just let it slide cos I knew she was not worth it.
It's so easy to read a thot it's ridiculous. All you have to do is listen. I know when I'm dating a thot and I allow her to think I'm naive to what she's doing until I'm through with using the liar for a certain purpose and release that idiot. Always make a woman pay for her own delusion....If she brings nothing to the table, don't allow her to sit at the table... The game is simple.
How now bro!!?
@@washingtongurru3959 Pimp Chronicles my G. It gotta be in you and not on you...
You got it bro, use them and drop them they will be shocked
The game is simple
I do notice if my woman is cheating even wen i am far from her and if i want know the truth about that i will just seat her down n ask her but firstly she never say the truth untill i press harder n all that i will do next is to bring my chair n popcorn she will say the truth but she never tell me how times she slept with the guy, i will just hear i slept with him twice that is not truth.
You wasting time in asking her questions. Your intuition knows instantly when a woman cheat
I'm grateful 🙏
Thanks for being honest, though anyone wise is aware of these, among much more besides. We have to walk around pretending to be stupid, so women feel comfortable🙄 That, in itself, is a drag!
(And, yes, there is lots to be said about "men", but that's not the subject here)
Please how can identify ladies in multiple dates, good morning
most of the the women around me I mean does who know me have crush on me and it makes me more and more confuse to know what the want sometimes they will say it at there own gathering, later one of them will come and say it to my hearing.
it get me confused....
Very informative.
Really interesting 👌 👍
Thank you for update 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Great video. I already suspected most of this.
but a lot of yall really dont cheat that well....yall just lie and gaslight very well😂
Im laughing but thats y i dont trust none of yall fr
You are so amazing ❤
It's over 2am. In USA back to bed hunny
Thanks for watching 😊
How do we get a hold of you for the right country to choose a wife?
l really appreciate your advice and motivation.
Sure beautiful lady 😍❤️
we men know all of it...
What happened to the Ashawo people
I have no ideas since am single
That's truth
NPD personality disorder and Borderline personality disorder Mental illness Now I understand better
My futo friend in Dominican city is now a TH-camr. Longest time Ijeoma
Guys who are older than me what advice do you have for me
Good job 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤
whatever you do, never chase any 304.
remain Gangsta, these 304s wilding .
Thanks