At What Age Should A Child Start Dating?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 ก.ค. 2024
- What is the right age for teenagers to start dating? Watch as the ladies discuss this interesting topic, sharing their dating experiences as teenagers and their parents’ reactions to it.
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My parents told us stories from their experience and that of others and it was really helpful. And no forming perfect human as parents, be real.
Nyma, the fact that your Mum was a disciplinar, was the best. Haven't you realized people love your point of view most at time. Your background was good
I believe that parents should have open conversations with their children. Be the First person your children come to for guidance and advice. 😊
Story telling is the best! Blessed to have a grandparents that told stories that I learned from.
This is a very educative topic. I really wished this can be discuss again from another angle. Thanks ladies
Wow! I feel like Nyma childhood is identical to mine. I had exposure to anything of wisdom whether it was of Christian source or not. I remember as a student in OAU, I listened to the words of wisdom in the mornings on the radio, mostly Christian Yoruba sermon-based as my mother made sure we always did at home.
including Ela loro (Yoruba). I celebrate the openness of Muslims and any people who can see beyond religion and love people for humanity and truth sake.
Fantastic discussions, ladies! Nima, I can so relate with your reference to Pastor Bimbo Odukoya.Thank you.
Before Nigeria got gaga and so foolish and immoral, we had programs like "I Need To Know" where great values for teenagers and parenting was taught and broadcast on TV. Now what we have is lady's showing us their Asset sometime with rashes all over it..
True.
Yes I need to know. Funke akindele was the lead role character
Sadly
There’s no need to be hypocritical,most of us did not collect permission from our parents to start dating. We just have to pray that all the good upbringing we give our children makes them take the right decisions re dating when that time comes. Secondly,we should also let them know that we’re available to talk if they want to talk.
Exactly, well said
My daughter is 24 yrs, she told us (parents) about the guy who says, he loves her..we invited him not to the house, we asked him to meet us at a fun park.. He came, we eat, had fun and later we questioned him about his life and family generally..we are African, we discussed the raw truth about racism and he assured us his parents and circle of friends are totally different.. He is in the Uni like our daughter..all we told her is can you handle a relationship with your studies? Gave her the best advice we could..She has to decide after all we have told her..We are open down here, in Africa, this hardly takes place. The child hides to do whatever he or she wants. Only when things go wrong, before the parents will know, their child has been seeing someone..
Dont you think 24 years old is not a child at that point she is a grown woman you should trust your daughter judgement and she will introducece the guy when she is ready just my option
24 is not a child…..
Very interesting topic their are many lessons to learn from your conversation
The story telling part is true! I remember how my Mum use to fake stories of people who did wrong and got the consequences and also people who did right too, my rev. Sis back then in secondary school also used stories in helping us to know our self worth as girls.
An enlightening discussion
Like your approach on a great topic!
I agree with Nima, be a story telling parent. My father taught us most values with real life stories of other people’s mistakes and his own mistakes and life experiences
Our live style influences the children alot as well.. we dont drink nor smoke and they see so much decency... at the same time, some children will always have their own mind..one of my daughter is a very out going and I talk with her alot. Dont let friends influence you, dont do anything just because you want to keep a certain group of circle..she keeps telling me, Mum, whatever i do is not because of anyone,..kids are different
Voice of order of mama is very important in socio-spiritual upbringing of a child. As a cool fine boy when I was still young, my mother made me believe that every girl was my sister and any man's wife, no matter the tribe and place of the man, is highly punishable by the clan's shrine if I ever make sexual advancement. Now am a grandfather and this rule is still in my mind.
Wow!
Thank you so much ladies this topic is the best
My Sincere Contribution....is good to be open in conversation with our children and to know d kind of friends our children move with!!!!
A Very interesting topic👍👍👍
Bicee, Nyma and Myriam, you always got me
These are the conversations our parents needed to have with us early in life but of course, they don't. I feel my mom wouldn't let me date anytime soon. Though I understand why but it's kind of suffocating. Am happy to come across this channel
Nyma your Dad was the best. I see why your self-confidence is very high
God bless this SQUAD
This is a very important Topic
Thank you Nyma!!!!!
Bicee, you are right, value yourself
I really loved this❤️..
Definitely sending it to my mom🤭
Ideals are mirages. You’d never reach it but you think you’re close. Every child is a beautiful soul, train them to best of capacity as a parent but ultimately PRAY for them. Whichever way they turn is their choice.
God bless Moyinoluwa that was the summary of the whole matter
I think parents should be friends with their kids so that they can feel free to tell u anything. I didn't take permission from my parents before I started dating n I wouldnt want that for my kids. I want a situation where my kids can tell me anything. No secrets. Communication is the key
Nice program, I love it,
Pls on which station did you show this program?
Wow I am so glad tht God Almighty kept me until I was 24 and lost it to my children's father at tht age.
Surrounding your kids with responsible aunties n uncles that can mould them into responsible adults is very important. I wasn't close to my mum n dad when growing up cus they were very strict on us. I felt they would judge me or beat me when I discuss how I feel n issues on relationship. I use to confide on aunties who I felt understood me at the time. And seriously,that helped me
I'm afraid of uncles and aunts o. Many of our parents trusted people who violated their children... Parents should own up to their responsibilities and consistently have conversations with their children by themselves
What about the effects and the pressure of Social media
Hmmm.... A good topic. It's only parents that separates time for building their children personality that enjoys the benefits of good children. But a father or mother that's preoccupied with work and other life challenges, na only God fit judge.
Teach your children how to value themselves, nice one, teach them how to love themselves. storytelling is good, my mum is good at that. God help all Mums,its not easy. kudos to all Mum.
This is interesting
Obiajulu is good abeg! Too good!
when she's ready and matured, when you allow teenager date, anything that happen, is she ready for emotional heartbreak, unwanted pregnancies,my mum always tell us that when you're ready to start dating, make sure the guy is ready to talk responsibility when anything comes up.
Very
One more thing oo. As parents are beginning to discuss these things with the girl child, they shouldn't leave we the boys out. We are not supermen to figure out things on our own
Money or poverty doesn't make a good home, a good home is a commitment of the parents to show love, care, and respect for each other in front of their kids. Children learn more through parental behavior which to me is the key. Don't create a toxic environment for your kids to tolerate. What you see is what you perform.
These conversations will not be possible if we don’t establish good relationships with our children. They won’t trust us to understand how they feel.
Moyinoluwa,nice ☝️👏🏿
Can you guys also speak about Parenting with gay children... I think it’s a struggle recently.
Beecee, most girls at 16 think that boys who respects them and cares for them are worth it. They must know that certain acts and areas are no go in dating till marriage. If their partner truly respects them, they would wait, else they can go - meaning they are not God's perfect gift for them. But don't give up your values until it's time
Just like Obiajulu said, some kids do still choose what they want. I know someone that got pregnant and while still breastfeeding the baby she got pregnant again. As a parent how will u take it?
This one's bad
As a parent, I wouldn't work my nerves because my child decided to make one mistake twice. Have you asked how the child was treated when she made the first mistake ? Is she just being rebellious ? Were the parents authoritarian?These are questions I would ask because some children would be like, I did it the first time you almost had my head,make we see wetin you fit do if I do am again.
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I grew up with boys, brothers and sisters
We should be present to our children, love our children particularly the girls so that they wouldn't look for it outside.
My sisters, wo may Allah help us all ,parents keep trying
I believe it should be in their 20's, it's better if thy are even 25 would be better.
Did you wait till 25 yourself hypocrite
Fool, you talk like you waited that long.
Yoruba ni owu iya gan lomo n ran your kids may start at the age you start.lol,owa.kusi Owo omo
There's no right time for a girl to have a boyfriend, she's suppose to go from her father's house to her husband house period!
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Trash talk!
Jesus should be de message of every family. Prob 22:6. is de summary of ur message. Ecclesiastes 12:1. Serve de Lord in de days of ur youths.
The Muslim lady is lying about the dating thing, because I always noticed anger in her voice anytime she's talking about anything relating to man and woman ( You dare not touch me ). She speaks like someone who was abused before. She couldn't have dated before marriage.