My heart sunk when the little boy said “he’s not small he’s big” knowing he’s terrified of his own dad.. this is literally disgusting behavior towards your kids.
@jaspurrz Alright, maybe I'm just not seeing this the same way you are. How about this, my example of an actual threat would be something similar to: "Shut up or I'm gonna make you regret what you just said." or any similar if-then statement that proves actual violence that will happen in the future. Please correct me if I'm wrong though.
Literally when she said “Erik don’t cause more problems when they leave” or whatever that sentence was should have been an automatic arrest for interfering and should’ve been seen as a threat.
As a former EMT, the fact that the police let the grandma into the room while Eric was being talked to made me so infuriated. I would’ve told her to get out as soon as she tried to interfere. And I would never have let the mom know it was Eric who called…are you kidding me? If we ever get domestic abuse victims in EMS, we always talk to them alone, one on one. Jesus.
Social worker, teacher, nurse here....why are all the other required reporters aware of how to handle these things better? Watching infuriatedly 😂 we gotta take some of these officers to a training.
Exactly! I was so mad. She literally tried to intimidate him into shutting up IN FRONT OF THE COP. I really hope he was removed from the home for his safety. The mom saying she threw something instead of hitting him, like thats better? That's still assault! It's still considered abuse! And basically letting everyone in the family know it was him. Way to go. They put a target on his back. Just absolutely atrocious.
@EdWatch-yx7hy Well when you send someone who's only job is to shoot people of color and dogs to a job for a social worker they are bound to get a paid vacation
I don't know anything about this stuff, and it seemed obvious that that grandmother needed to be out of the room. I can't say I was very impressed with these officers. For one thing they had no idea how to calm down these drug-addled people.
Agreed the ammount of stories ive heard of the kids calling the cops or cps and they tell the parents the kids called and the parents are let off they will put those kids in danger
Lol, at least things have changed, Im impressed the police actually did something, im so happy there are police that will actually do something now 😀 its so much better than what i got, the police out right told them I had called and done a statement, Then i was told it was perfectly normal disaplin and i should behave myself and do as im told and not break the rules, then i wont get disaplined in the first place. To be honest i would have never even reported it if the doctors and my teacher didnt make me do it as i said to them it was pointless as its my own fault for breaking the rules, but alas they made me. And i was totally correct it was totally pointless, !! the shock on both the doctors and teachers faces when i told them what the police said was hilarious 🤣 oh my crime i shut a door too loud, no i didnt slam it i just shut it too hard, my punishment my spine fractured in 5 places 🙄 granted the police were correct if i hadnt shut the door too hard i wouldnt have been punished so yes it was my own fault, however after been told by both a doctor and teacher that i must report it , only to be told by the police what i said all along left me very confused, seriously what was the point in making me report it if nothing was going to be done other than me getting punished again for reporting it 🤣
He has 3 records of CHILD ABUSE and they keep letting him back to his kids??!!! What the hell!!! Poor kids, I hope one grows to be 18 and they just emancipate immediately and adopt the rest
Because his stupid psychiatrist thinks he's okay to go back to his kids. it's obvious because of the Mental Health evaluations that he clearly keeps failing.
Not that simple. I'm a foster parent (FP) I see children with responsible, loving family members who would love to take the child, but unbeknownst to most people, DCFS, CPS & the courts #1 priority is to keep the children with their parents. It doesn't matter what they did, except SA. Even when children plead to not go back, from ages 0-17 they are treated as emotional children with no say in the matter. The child's attorney "GAL" will tell you "I will listen to what a child wants, but it really doesn't play into my decision". Every "support" person for the child is there to gleen info to use in reuniting the parent with the child. As FPs, we are required to make sure the children in our care meet every court ordered & CPS "suggested" plan of action, or we are subject to criminal charges. The reason children are moved from FP to FP is, a majority of the time, due to the parent, who doesn't have custody, requesting it because where the child "is an inconvenience" to them or their worker has children in a certain area and this child is moved to be in that area. Since the workers children come and go, and new ones are put in their care, a child can be moved a lot. So why do I continue to be a FP? Because I'm hoping that each child I have, for however long, will feel love, support, & that a spark of hope will ignite in them. Knowing that their lives can be so much better than it is now. To work hard on improving themselves better through academics, sports, whatever. That it IS their choice how their story is written. ❤
Because they are usually people who pick fights with the vulnerable or someone who couldn't win against them in a physical fight. So when they are shown they have no power they freak out. My mom has a saying for people like this "That person would choke a book they couldn't read"
The way Alex started crying and whining about being overworked and then changed behavior completely when he realized he had been caught is terrifying. I hope the boys got away from him for good.
Srsly. I'm glad the cops did not let him know the boys called. He was fishing to find out in order to know who to target. I hope tjose kids were removed, but something tells me that he got visitation again. They keep trying to keep families together, even though it's not safe for the kids.
Why do you think she has common sense in the sitaution we are finding her? You seem to be lacking common sense yourself 😂@nonhotrovatounnomemigliore9221
I've been Eric until I was 18. Long story short, my mom was a piece of shit. My extended family were very much aware that my mom is a horrible person, yet blamed me for "causing problems." And then they wonder why I stopped seeing every family member on my 18th birthday.
Absolutely nothing but the whole entire truth....I have CPTSD and if I slip and snap, I'm devastated! It's only words, but the way I can say a thing would make a person cry, so I hold myself accountable with my sons....They deserve my best regardless of what I'm going through, they are amazing and aware and are very protective of my mental health, as I am about theirs, the world doesn't need any more angry men with Mommy issues.
@@ItsAllLove4Real Absolutely, as a parent you are the very bridge to your child’s upbringing and how that bridge is paved and how they’re taken care of crossing that bridge will effect them for the rest of their life.
Mental Illness may not be a right to do so, but it is more understandable. Not saying that it's right or anything, but when someone is in the midst of a mental breakdown, they have no control of their actions. That's just how crazy works.
I know this is an old video and an old comment that I'm replying to and I'm sorry for this but- and obviously not in all cases- but CPS is encouraged to keep kids with the parents as much as possible. Unfortunately between that being taken to a ridiculous extreme and the foster system being overcrowded and underfunded as is makes for some extremely horrendous situations for kids. A lot of foster parents are only in it for the money and treat the kids terribly, too. There's nowhere they can go and no one they can turn to, and when they do finally get the courage to call for help they're just left behind or sent somewhere just as bad, sometimes worse. There needs to be some serious reform in the child protection department.
I was so angry that they kept letting family into the room while they were interviewing Eric. Stop letting them get in there and pressure him into keeping quiet, he’s clearly afraid and he’s a victim but they’re letting these enablers pressure him into silence.
The dad saying "Did my kids call?" sent chills down my spine. I could feel the anger and rage hidden behind this calmness, that if he left without being separated from those boys that something bad would happen to them
@@KayPrescesky It's cuz he abuses benzos, which is why he gets angry. It's called "Bar rage" as in xannax bars. Benzos make your anxiety worse big time to the point you will have seizures just from not having them. Most likely what this dude does. Pops a couple bars, looses all fear, then beats his kids because he is not scared of being reprimanded... until the high wares off.
Mental health is only real when it's THEIRS, ever notice that? Now ask them about THEIR "really" abusive childhood and how lucky their kids are that they don't "really" abuse them.
When he immediately said he’s stressed and overworked I knew he was guilty🙄 that’s always the excuse, asshole like that love venting out their frustration on kids…not the kids fault you’re a failure buddy do better!!
It's hilarious when abusers and murderers say I have anxiety, I'm feeling claustrophobic, handcuffs are hurting me when they've done the unthinkable to their victims. It's even more hilarious that they dont see the irony.
the boys in the first one keep calling their dad big. He's not really that big, but they all see him as being so big and scary because of the power he has over them and the pain and violence he causes. heartbreaking
My old man was like that ,but often worse. Beatings with different things, verbal abuse ,outright hate and despise for me, Thank God he is gone now, I was afraid of him, even when i was bigger than him in the end.
It seemed like they were trying to whisper as well, like they were afraid he could hear them from inside. They were that terrified of him. I can’t imagine what other incidents those boys went through over the years that they haven’t brought up 😢
I hope Eric is doing all right. The grandmother seemed quite aggressive as well, with wanting to take him for a ride, and he better not say anything he'll regret...
yeah . . and the fact the first thing she did was scream loudly when the police came, and then cutting off the police, to try to avoid exposing her crimes. .
Don’t say anything you’ll regret, it’s literally telling a child to shut up cause the adults are gonna be in trouble. I hope he is ok as well, It takes a strong man to stand up like he did, he’s a hero ❤
All honesty, the thing (I refuse to call her a human or any form of the word mother) that stuck their head in the room and made that comment should have been arrested as well for trying to intimidate Eric into not giving an honest statement. Not a single one of them should be surprised when he moves out the second he can and cuts all contact with them
Yes, this mom was the worst to me. All she was concerned about was pegging her son for calling cops (and what he contended against her) - SHE was way more concerned about blaming her son - SO CONCERNED ABOUT BLAMING HER BOY - ALL POST BREAKING GLASS, POST INABILITY TO SPEAK TO OFFICERS, POST THREATS, etc. They (mom/gma) both should be removed from these kids' lives!! They are toxic as hell - I pray for those children. Please God, get these women away from these children (young men)! These gross adults are not okay and will not accept that fact - not better themselves. Breaking glass, SCREAMING LIKE A BANCHEE, and threatening to beat son like a man - DISGUST!
The fact that she was even given a chance to talk to him was unbelievable. I wish the officer had said "Nope, you're not talking to him. I'm talking to him right now. You can talk to him later." My god... no WONDER that was an abusive household.
How the fuck did the first guy only get Probation (especially on only 2 accounts when there were three kids) when he has a track record of child abuse?
F-ing florida. Some states allow child abuse and call it "discipline". Notice how the two time offender picked up words from his previous court appearances "disciplining". Piece of shit. The older the state... the older the laws. Florida/the south and the midwest are notorious for this.
They probably didn't, most calls don't even result in arrests. Calling 911 or cps does nothing - a kid who had to report his father more then 6 times with nothing happening
My dad gave my sister a black eye that had to be covered with makeup for school the next day. Older sister and i feared for our lives growing up with him around. School caught on, cps and cops were called. Even with the extra questioning of me, my other sister, and my mom he still got away with child abuse. Two months of supervision by my paternal grandpa and no contact. Didnt change a thing after the two months were up.
"Mom you can't lie to a police officer" might be the most heartbreaking thing I've ever heard. That's a smart kid who finally had enough of his parent's reckless behavior and had the bravery to tell the police, despite the love I'm sure he has for his mother.
This whole video shows TWO different types of moms. One who CLEARLY cares about her child’s wellbeing and future and one who CLEARLY DOESN’T and got behind the wheel DRUNK with her child in the car.
@@Torirme17 I would have to say that yelling at your kids, shaming their kids and grounding them for a month is emotional abuse and verbal abuse. It’s not discipline. That’s not what a loving and caring parent does. Screaming/yelling/raising voices at kids doesn’t work. Screaming/yelling/raising voices at kids can provoke them to anger and cause them to shut down. Yelling at kids can harm a child’s developing brain and it can also damage the relationship between the parent (or even a caregiver or even a grandparent) and the child. Also, shocking news, according to Legal Eagles, excessive and harmful yelling can lead to intervention by CPS, and in extreme cases, chromic emotional abuse may result in criminal charges. 4 reasons to stop yelling at kids: 1. It makes behavioral problems worse. 2. It teaches kids that’s okay to scream/yell at someone when angry 3. It can lead to depression and anxiety 4. It shrinks the developing brain 5. It affects physical heath Just like physical punishment, yelling, as a form of correction, teaches a child that problems are solved best with violence, rage and aggression, therefore, perpetuating the cycle of sinful behavior inside the home. Yelling is the new spanking. Many of us struggle with yelling because we did not have caregivers who modeled the Fruits of the Spirit (Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Gentleness, Faithfulness and Self-Control), emotional regulation, Christlike behavior, or effective non-violent communication to us in childhood. We also have caregivers who claim to know God, but do not understand child psychology, do not understand the Hebrew context behind the Bible verses, and have their hearts hardened against God and are continuing to live in sin. Yelling as a form of correction can increase anxiety, depression and stress according to a 2014 study in The Journal of Child Development. Humans instinctively yell as a form of PROTECTION, but when used as a form of correction, yelling creates relational tension and floods a child’s brain with stress hormones. Yelling as a form of correction can alter and even damage emotional & brain development. A recent study has found a link between consistent negative childhood experiences, including verbal abuse, pedophilia and child grooming, and physical conditions in adulthood such as arthritis, bad headaches, back & neck pain and other chronic conditions. Yelling has been shown in multiple studies to stunt the growth of the pre-frontal Cortex, responsible for the development of logic & reasoning (among other things) and the Amygdala, responsible for assigning the right emotional responses to a given circumstance. She also should have never cussed at the kids. That’s not showing what being a good role model nor what being a loving caring mother looks like. She should have prepared for such a problem by predicting what might happen (based on past experiences), prepare a response, then practice that response. The response must find that she is in complete control, must demonstrate to the child that she is not about to be intimidated, and should the child behave violently, clearly understood earned consequences will be borne immediately by the child. I would recommend taking away privileges calmly, in caring and in love, that last no more than a week. Not in anger. A month is too long. This will look like this: “I’m sorry you choose to do that and because of it having denied yourself your Xbox privileges for a week. I forgive you, but that does not mean that you are keeping your Xbox for a week because of your choice.”
@@Torirme17 She also doesn’t realize that obedience is actually based out of trust, not out of fear. Intentionally inflicting physical pain on a child to coerce obedience is not an act of love. It’s an act of fear. The word obey means willness & following through, to carry out wishes of others because of trust. Parents, pastors caregivers, teachers, grandparents and in-laws that call themselves a Christian think Biblical obedience is a high value of compliance and behavioral control. They have a fear of getting it wrong or they may feel like, “I don’t know how to get that compliance without at least having this threat in my back pocket to pull out”. In communities, parents reward compliance. Parents have been complimented on their “well-behaved” children. Other families that have “well-behaved” compliant children are kind of seeing as something to aspire to. Satan wants the world to believe that parents who have different goals than behavioral compliance are that the children are not compliant. Here’s the truth. Demanding your children to do something without question is not teaching Biblical obedience. Demanding your child to something wrong and sinful is not Biblical obedience. Blind first time every time obedience isn’t Biblical obedience. Blind first time every time obedience does not reach the heart. God has never said He wants complaint people. I would also not recommend the counting to 3 technique. The counting to 3 technique is a “quick fix”, but it doesn’t solve any problem at all. By counting to 3, we give children a chance to ignore us and trigger us to snap and rage. The counting to 3 technique supports the authoritarian style of parenting, and also the narcissistic, tiger & neglectful styles of parenting. Blind first time every time obedience (which again, isn’t true Biblical obedience), which lead to more escalation and causes us to be more angrier instead of solving the problem. Blind first time every time obedience will cause harm to our relationship with children. Kids are not trusting parents because they continue to support physical punishment, emotional punishment, verbal punishment and other forms of physical abuse and verbal abuse against them, and even unforgiveness, authoritarianism, rageness and grudges against them. Blind first time every time obedience will also make children easier prey for the predators, like pedophiles, and even the Devil Satan. While strict and responsive parenting style (authoritative, attachment, unconditional, positive, and gentle) without physical punishment, emotional punishment nor verbal punishment produces the best outcomes in kids, strict, satanic, abusive, harsh and unresponsive parenting style (authoritarian, narcissistic, neglectful & tiger) produces adverse outcomes includes low self-esteem, self-control issues, sinful lifestyles like gender change, same-sex relationships, same-sex marriages, illegal drug use, tobacco chewing, weed smoking, tobacco smoking, porn watching, mastrubation, sexual abuse, domestic violence, alcohol drinking, rudeness, disobeying parents, false witness, taunting or harassing characters, murder, & mental health problems. Kids raised with satanic strict authoritarian parenting, neglectful parenting, narcissistic parenting, physical punishment and/or tiger parenting are more likely to be unhappy, more depressed, & become bullies, brats, meanies, or sinners. Kids raised with satanic strict authoritarian parenting, neglectful parenting, narcissistic parenting, physical punishment and/or tiger parenting are also more likely to commit suicide. Kids raised with satanic strict authoritarian parenting, neglectful parenting, narcissistic parenting, physical punishment and/or tiger parenting are most like to rebel.
@@Torirme17 Obedience is not simply about following rules without questioning. It isn’t blind obedience. It is, first and foremost, relational. And when we realize that not only does Yahweh call His people to shema His word. He reciprocates that shema towards His people, we can see how our modern understanding of obedience might be a little bit upside down. In John 14:15, Jesus says to His followers: “If ye love me, keep my commandments”. Jesus communicated the relational nature of obedience: it is born out of love and trust. In Matthew 21:28:32, Jesus shares a story about a son who says he will obey his father, and one who says he will not. It is the one who first states that he will not obey, then later decides to do it, that Jesus says “does the will of his father”. When we understand and factor in the Jewish understanding of obedience (to consider, listen and thoughtfully respond), we can understand why it is the brother who changes his heart who is counted as obedient. So, Biblical obedience is actually developing trusting relationship overtime, not blind first time every time obedience. Trust, not force, is the key that unlocks Biblical obedience. There are times when it’s right to disobey earthly authorities in order to obey God. Even little children & toddlers can be taught this truth, that there is a time when it’s right to disobey earthly authorities in order to obey a higher authority. There is a time when it’s right to get help. Like for example, if earthly authorities in the government that are part of the Illuminati forces the world to wear masks & be physically distant from each other, then we must disobey the earthly authorities in the government that are part of the Illuminati because masks can cause carbon dioxide poisoning, initiate you to the new 6.0 edition of the One World Government, and symbolizes blind allegiance to the AntiChrist, and social distancing can lead to PTSD, depression, more stress, decrease of the chemical oxytocin, and symbolically separates you from God. If someone forces you to get the COVID vaccine, then you must disobey because the COVID vaccine has microchips named Luciferase that can change your DNA and turn you into a hybrid human/animal, and it also has graphene oxide in it that will make you become a zombie. If Catholics force you to pray to Mary or the saints, then we must disobey because God says that we should not bow to any grave image that represents anything in Heaven or on the earth. If an authority figure forces a child to do wrong, like get the COVID vaccine or spank a baby, then the child is not culpable, but we can actively teach them that God doesn’t require them to obey a parent who is abusive, narcissistic, forces vaccinations and/or committing crimes.
My brother and I grew up with domestic violence and not once ever thought to call the police, we were too scared. These kids are incredibly brave, I am so impressed.
I’m good. My brother unfortunately overdosed at the beginning of the year, I miss him soooooo much. Our trauma affected us both in different ways. I’m a high school teacher now.
Child abuse needs to get years in prison especially if they have previous convictions. Gross how he only got 36 months of probation… GROWN ADULTS can physically abuse children, and get no prison time.. what a sick world we live in..
When I was 14, my dad beat the living shit out of me. When called the cops he told them I had done it to myself and had me thrown in a mental institution, where I was then forced to “admit” I had made it all up before I was aloud to leave. He was president of the HOA and high up at his company. Abuse isn’t just in crackhouses. If a kid is asking for help, for the love of God, please help them.
I'm so sorry this happened to you. May GOD Bless You and ease your pain now. I hope the rest of your life is absolutely wonderful and peaceful, because you absolutely deserve it. Again I'm so sorry you had to experience any kind of pain as a child. No child should suffer especially at the hands of the people that are supposed to protect them and love them the most.
@@amandacantrell1146 "No child should suffer especially at the hands of the people that are supposed to protect them and love them the most." Says the one who's talking about "GOD". The "all-powerful being" that picked out this gem of a father for this child. Where was god's "love and protection" then, hmm?
@@gingerweasel2Please don't speak like that in this context. We understand your stand point, and as another Christian it is valid, but do not ever speak like that in this situation. Like the previous reply said, God doesn't prevent evil, even if he has the power. He can only save your life if you choose to believe in him. Acts 16:31 says "And they replied, "Believe in the Lord Jesus and you will be saved, you and your household."" Take that as you will, and have a wonderful day.
@@itzzlayne7955 Since the mother has no legal right to be there and the legal residents of the property did not want her there, so police asked legal residents if they wanted to trespass her, which they said yes to.
It’s really telling how his major initial concern was not whether the alleged events happened, but who made the call. My mom dated someone like this when my sister and I were kids and he was just like that. First he pointed at our mom, and then at our grandparents next door, and then eventually to us.
That Grandma shouldn't have been allowed to wander around when the cops were there. Definitely should have not been allowed to interrupt that interview.
That Grandma definitely guilty of witness intimidation. She walked into that interview and told him not to say something. Lock her up too. Women get away with so much.
That first dad put a lot of emphasis on life being extremely hard for him. But notice how he only made it about him and being the victim. No matter how difficult life is a parent should never allow their anger or stress being turned into physical violence or physiological abuse.
Life probably is hard. It’s hard for everyone. He may not touch his children in the way he did on all three occasions he was proven abusive. And for all of the other times
@@CraigGrant-sh3in these poor boys are dead meat ..they wanted to go ..they are such innocent good boys it's a shame : what's the options run away live on streets . These poor boys knew it's more than discipline...and there's much documentation. God this upsets me to fullest ..this man ain't dsnt " like" technology..think there's going to be a phone ...anywhere for a mile of these kids next time...sick fuk like this guy ...he gonna male them pay ...if they off his you know what i. The middle of night though they the ones going to do time still he w I no serve time. ..just probation with what full custody still. Teavisty.
In the second part, the family member who is trying to get Eric to change his story should be arrested for interfering with an investigation. She’s part of the problem too.
@@Shrimptoast21she reminds me of my ex who also just had a kid so i feel bad for that kid because ik what it has to deal wirh especially with an ex crack addict and alcoholic for a father and the mother herself being an ex meth addict its a grear combination why i feel we need licensing for having a kid you need one to drive a car which needs far less maintenance daily than a kid yet anyone can just get preggo and then kill the kid because of their mental issues
I remember calling the cops on my parents. My mom told the judge she would kill me when she got the chance. They had to put me under protection in the system so that my immediate family couldn’t figure out where I was until they moved me with family in another state. It was awful but overall saved mine, my niece and nephew and my parents lives
I guess with „my parents“ you were talking about those who really loved and cared for you, your biological aunt and uncle who grew into your parents? Did I understand that correct? Thanks to the Lord for them loving you so much to go through all the legal and safety stuff and even move out of state. What a blessing, glad you had them
i never had that and my parents threatened to tie me up and leave me in the basement where they would beat and kill me and child protective services didn’t do anything they failed me.
I remember when my aunt abused me and almost killed me when I was 11. The cops came and she hid me in her room acting “nice” and she made me sleep in her bed with her. I couldn’t get help and come out and talk to the police. It’s so powerful that those kids talked to the police or called them, it’s EXTREMELY Terrifying and hard to do that. Proud of them, I hope they are safe now.
I feel like the Grandma in the second case should've been arrested for tampering with a witness, obstruction of justice and impeding in a investigation.
The grandmother is the big enabler. That’s why the daughter is as she is. Poor boy, finally brave enough to call out for help and they let him down. Glad the police took her but she’ll be home soon again sadly.
It annoyed me that the police let her come in the room and talk to him when he was trying to tell the police what was happening. That should've been shut down straight away
@@Xcxc13 yeah the courts are shitty and prioritize keeping kids with a parent, the mom is probably a druggie and the courts simply don’t want to assume custody of the three boys so they let the dad stay
@@Xcxc13No one said the dad wasn't abusive or trying to shift blame. . . jus gave a possible reason why the kids kept going back to dad; the other parent/viable family member is worse. You are also correct, court systems can be stupid-shitty and will drop a case over things as simple as a technicality, despite *everything* else demonstrating clear reason not to.
He wasn't charged, he was accused. It's a stupid thin line when dealing with abusive homes like this, but until you're actually convicted of the crime than your case is treated like it's the first instance. There's special exceptions of course for varying circumstances, but unfortunately not many/enough.
The fact that Eric’s grandma cared more about her daughter than her own grandchild, HER LINEAGE, THE ONE THAT WOULD TELL STORIES ABOUT HER FOR THE REST OF HIS NATURAL LIFE, that says that there’s something else wrong.
Yup, my Grandma was like that too. She'd watch me get abused day in and day out and called me ungrateful when I said I was uncomfortable living under those circumstances. Later on my mom told me she planned to evict my Grandma and steal her money she put in the house (both bought the house but only my mom had her name on the deed). She told me I was trying to start shit and that I was a looser son and grandson. I moved out as soon as I had a job and place to live. Not 1 year later and guess who got kicked out of the house 🤪 now my Grandma is suing my mom and I'm just eating popcorn the whole time lmfao like honestly if my Grandma stood up for me I'd have been a witness for her against my mom because my mom is an awful person. Cheats and steals from people. But nope! Never heard a thing now :P
It was her granddaughter tho so I’m thinking she didn’t really care about her either all she cares for was herself she didn’t want to ruin her reputation and her families reputation in my family so,etching similar happened and the saying was “if no one knows then it isn’t happening” so I’m guessing that’s what was going through her kind as well
The fact that the grandmother cared more about an adult woman making bad decisions than a minor that has no ability to support themselves and directly relies on their parent to live..... How about that instead of some stupid nonsense about lineage???
my dad was like this but he made us rub his feet. i think its a control thing, like the kid has no choice but to comply to his dehumanizing demands because the other option is a beating, and the dad enjoys that feeling because hes a miserable person to his very core
As a regular viewer of body cam footage, I will say that this channel has some of the most entertaining captions. Pointing out the dog sh*t, multiple *unintelligible* *random noises* and *who knows* just makes me laugh.
Honestly that should be a prison sentence or at the very least “you don’t have kids anymore” along with license revocation. It’s a shame the US doesn’t have the infrastructure to actually help kids in those situations though.
I think a forever ban tbh, you drove drunk first off all risking the lives of strangers but second of all W YOUR KID ? You don’t even care abt your own blood?!?!? you def don’t care abt anyone else then fs… no license in this lifetime or any after that !
I often wonder if people truly think through some of these totalitarian "comment section sentences" they purpose & are just fine with the distopian outcomes they would have on our society. Or if they are just making emotionally charged statements without fully understanding the full reaching impact of what they are proposing. For the sake of the future, I'm sincerely hoping it's the former and not the latter.
@@rayrayqbaby I’m not generally one of those “any criminal should be in prison for life!” People… but driving while drunk with a your child should be aggravated attempted murder and child abuse. You absolutely should not be let behind the wheel for a long time as you show callous disregard for not only the safety of the general public, but your own family as well.
“I can pass out from stress” imagine how stressed out your kid who’s afraid of hights felt when you forced him to clean the top of your trailer when it was covered in soap. Imagine how stressed your kids were waiting in the woods for the police to come, hoping you wouldn’t find them. Abusers dont get to play the victim card and expect empathy when they are apathetic to everyone else
Why do these cops keep telling the parents everything the children said about abuse? Did they not have any training?! You don’t directly quote the children as that endangers them even more as you don’t know if the parent in question will be locked up yet.
Hearing that young kid say "my mom just got out of jail and my dad I don't know I guess" is sooo heartbreaking to hear :( I hope one day he knows what the love of a family feels like
The first guy had a prior child abuse case and the court gave him probation on these charges? The system is broken. Those poor kids are in for it. So sad.
Yea. But..speaking as a social worker. There aren't enough places to places children and thats just facts. There needs to be more adoptive and foster parents..but people arent into that.. and having them in a home w other kids often isnt ideal either. The idea is honestly...😅.. bettwe the devil you know..with monitoring. So they really try "rehab" and "safety plans".
“36 months of probation” for beating 3 of his sons? But if I smoke weed in the wrong state I can get 1 year or more in prison and thousand dollar fine. Tf is the justice system.
The injustice in this country literally drives me mad. He had a history of abusing his children and he only got a slap on the wrist. I hope his sons are able to stay away and stay safe from him. Disgusting.
Marijuana use is illegal everywhere in the US under federal law. Local police have the discretion to arrest a user or ignore marijuana use. State law only permits marijuana use in the user’s home - full stop.
Michelle, the woman in red had to have been on drugs. Something. The cop said, "because I know you Michelle, I've been dealing with you for 12 years!" Lmao
Shout out to the mom in the last clip tearing into her son and properly disciplining him while also separating him from the kids who were engaging in the same behavior. That's a great sign, kid has a good mom.
The last clip had a Good Mom with a disobedient child and an Awful mom with an intelligent, respectful child. Crazy video Hope all these kids are doing better
Yeah it took me a second to figure out what was going on once the drunk mom showed up. Pure chaos but the cops handled it perfectly. I laughed so hard when the kid snitched on his mom (rightfully so)
I have to say it was slightly funny hearing the actually good mom going nuts over her kid nearly being it and how she does both a good job of ensuring he gets the point but also making sure he knows how worried she was
I’m surprised the cops didn’t get overwhelmed with everything going on. I would have lost it! They handled it great tho. Poor kid with the drunk mom most have been terrified
The adult women in Eric’s life are poor excuse of motherly figures! My heart goes out to him. Crazy mother and the grandmother making excuses for her behavior!!!
And I bet she's a well-respected teacher but her kid doesn't feel safe with her. The mother yelling at her kid for getting into trouble is criticized.and not respected by anyone.
@@debbiemohekey1509 the mother yelling at her child, I respect. Her son is young. She wants to make sure he gets to live a good and happy life, and starting out this way is not it. Good on her for saying those kids aren’t allowed over anymore. Hopefully she does more than just yell to teach him though
I grew up in abuse (in the UK) and severe violence (we were caned, beaten, belted, locked in our rooms with a bucket to piss in when children). I am expecting a little boy (my first child) and will protect him with my life.
The fact the 3rd child called his mother out, recognising the lying and trying to get away with it to the police breaks my heart, children shouldn't have to be their parents moral compass. What a wonderful kid.
As someone who grew up in an abusive home, it’s a survival tactic. Our brains now we can’t afford to be naive and act like children so something clicks in our brains where we just start to mimic the good parts of the adults we see. My first memories are of consoling my mentally abusive mother bc her physically abusive husband hit her (but she didn’t leave before he started hitting me and worse)
That 3rd lady is a PERFECT EXAMPLE of why DRUGS ARE BAD KIDS. USING her children, causing problems with the daughter’s boyfriend and the daughter who CLEARLY has a heart of gold, is still begging the cops not to hurt her mom. If my mom EVER did that and I love my mother, but I’d just walk away. Let ‘em do their job. She wants to be difficult. Fu** around and find out.
Unfortunately that "nice" is codependency. She didn't know how to recognize when the mom needed to live with the repercussions of her actions, and kept trying to "save" her. This is a common thing that happens when kids feel like they need to protect their abusive parents. They get taught from a young age that they are the ones supposed to be taking responsibility for the parents actions instead of the parents themselves.
this is like why ive always respected good cops- the amount of patience you have to have to deal with people like this. i would've flipped out the first few seconds.
It always annoys me when the cops tell the suspects that their kids were the ones that called. Most likely they’ll end up back with their parents and it’ll be even worse because of that.
and i dont see anybodyyyy talking about that girl... it blows my mind the maturity that she had to gain, and its shows. the mother was in a caotic state and she was still worried about her, about the way the cops were carring her
Fr and her pleading them not to hurt her and even telling her she's welcome tomorrow just not today 😭 Poor girl, she's too sweet, I hope they're doing ok
My mother, in a rage, broke everything possible on our kitchen. I don't remember how old I was, but do remember that I stayed in my bedroom all day. Only 1 plastic cup survived. It's a blessing to become an adult and not have to be around people like her anymore
the fact they let that lady come into the boys room and manipulate him into not saying anything to protect the mother is terrible. they should have talked to him in complete privacy
girl that last one was so much, two moms, one terrified- one drunk. one group of kids are committed crimes- another child telling on his drunk mom jesus christ
@@ILOVEMARILYNMANSON89the innocent kid had been in trouble twice, the police having called the mom twice. She was justified in giving him a talking to.
Literally,but what I couldn’t understand was why didnt the cop kick her out of the room? She was clearly putting pressure on him and trying to convince him to just let it go and saying that he shouldn’t cause problems..crazy.
That first dad knew exactly what the situation on the roof of the camper was when he told his sons to wash it - he straight away mentioned the slippery roof, the soap, his son's hyperventilation and said that he put his son down to keep him from falling off the roof. My God. He mentioned ever single circumstance on the roof - he knows exactly what he was doing to that poor child. I hope they're all safe now.
I feel so bad for the kids who have to deal with this everyday. With parents friends teachers anyone. I pray for you and hope u have the strength to speak out💕
I sometimes think about how any given moment, some child , somewhere is being treated poorly. I say a prayer and remind myself to stay vigilant and not turn a blind eye.
How many times can someone be charged with child abuse before they get the children out of there into a safe and loving environment? I feel horrible for those boys.
So you have a boy (17) who says he is afraid of his mom, no one in the house likes his mom because she is a dramaqueen. The house and car are owned by the great grandmother. But oh no, the grandma decides it needs to get handled internally??? And even guiltblames the son?? Get that freaking enabler out of that house too!!
Those poor kids. I really hope they're safe now, and I really hope they do learn from this traumatic experience and let it be a guide to being good parents when they grow up. I hope they don't let the abuse shape them poorly, but give them kind and forgiving hearts.
@@1976mcfarlane thankfully they’re all of age that courts would absolutely not send them back if they requested it. But praying the justice system works in these boy’s favor for once 😭🤞🏼
The fact that the mom is just REAMING her kid(s) for doing stupid shit, while the other mom is getting REAMED by the officer for DUI is unironically hilarious. And the fact that the cops are like "See this is a perfect example," is killing me XD.
To me, the the mom yelling at her kid. You can see that child eyes that they are oblivious like she is yelling and he is looking at all sort of direction. I mean she said she was called twice by the police. HOPEFULLY, this is his overwhelmed face and not “im just gonna tune it out face”.
@@aho9071 he seems like a good kid just needs to learn how to deal with not following the crowd and going along with everything. When kids get together in groups all the dumb ideas bubble to the surface. I think kids that age can be unsupervised at home but definitely not in groups.
@@cavatika yeah that’s why I said hopefully he looks overwhelmed bc again that’s the second time he’s been dealing with the police. Almost getting hit, shouted, and punished would definitely stick with him
I was never physically abused but I was sexually abused from age 13-16 by mom's POS dad. I never had the courage to speak up until I was older and to this day I wish I'd ran out of his house screaming about what he did to me for someone to help me. These kids are so brave and my heart goes out to them.
My heart sunk when the little boy said “he’s not small he’s big” knowing he’s terrified of his own dad.. this is literally disgusting behavior towards your kids.
Yeah the kids were worried about the officers’ safety, too, 😢
soon they will be bigger than him. that's gonna be a fun day for fatso
He was such a disgusting puney little boy too, that dad?
Facts!
I literally started crying at that moment
" Shut up and don't say nothing that you're gonna regret later".
Very smart of you to say that in front of a police officer
They should have arrested her too, because that's technically a threat.
@@blobbertmcblob4888witness intimidation for sure.
@@blobbertmcblob4888It's advice to not get yourself in trouble. It's not a threat.
@@D0NCH33T0braindead freak?
@jaspurrz Alright, maybe I'm just not seeing this the same way you are. How about this, my example of an actual threat would be something similar to:
"Shut up or I'm gonna make you regret what you just said."
or any similar if-then statement that proves actual violence that will happen in the future.
Please correct me if I'm wrong though.
When a kid calls on a parent or elder, the police should never reveal that fact. That can cause more abuse once the parent is allowed to go back home.
Literally when she said “Erik don’t cause more problems when they leave” or whatever that sentence was should have been an automatic arrest for interfering and should’ve been seen as a threat.
@@Jasmine-bn9ex I agree.
At least that was recorded@@Jasmine-bn9ex
Those poor boys. Their voices sound so hopeless. What kind of childhood they have to endure. It’s so sad.
@@Jasmine-bn9ex yeah that poor kid is absolutely going to have it worse after this. I hope he got the help they needed.
As a former EMT, the fact that the police let the grandma into the room while Eric was being talked to made me so infuriated. I would’ve told her to get out as soon as she tried to interfere. And I would never have let the mom know it was Eric who called…are you kidding me?
If we ever get domestic abuse victims in EMS, we always talk to them alone, one on one. Jesus.
Social worker, teacher, nurse here....why are all the other required reporters aware of how to handle these things better? Watching infuriatedly 😂 we gotta take some of these officers to a training.
Exactly! I was so mad. She literally tried to intimidate him into shutting up IN FRONT OF THE COP. I really hope he was removed from the home for his safety. The mom saying she threw something instead of hitting him, like thats better? That's still assault! It's still considered abuse! And basically letting everyone in the family know it was him. Way to go. They put a target on his back. Just absolutely atrocious.
@EdWatch-yx7hy Well when you send someone who's only job is to shoot people of color and dogs to a job for a social worker they are bound to get a paid vacation
Grandma should’ve been arrested for interfering at that point
I don't know anything about this stuff, and it seemed obvious that that grandmother needed to be out of the room. I can't say I was very impressed with these officers. For one thing they had no idea how to calm down these drug-addled people.
When these parents ask “who called the police” it makes me so scared for those kids.
Yup. That's the only thing a narcissist wants to know. Who needs to be punished for revealing family secrets?
Agreed the ammount of stories ive heard of the kids calling the cops or cps and they tell the parents the kids called and the parents are let off they will put those kids in danger
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Lol, at least things have changed, Im impressed the police actually did something, im so happy there are police that will actually do something now 😀 its so much better than what i got, the police out right told them I had called and done a statement, Then i was told it was perfectly normal disaplin and i should behave myself and do as im told and not break the rules, then i wont get disaplined in the first place. To be honest i would have never even reported it if the doctors and my teacher didnt make me do it as i said to them it was pointless as its my own fault for breaking the rules, but alas they made me. And i was totally correct it was totally pointless, !! the shock on both the doctors and teachers faces when i told them what the police said was hilarious 🤣 oh my crime i shut a door too loud, no i didnt slam it i just shut it too hard, my punishment my spine fractured in 5 places 🙄 granted the police were correct if i hadnt shut the door too hard i wouldnt have been punished so yes it was my own fault, however after been told by both a doctor and teacher that i must report it , only to be told by the police what i said all along left me very confused, seriously what was the point in making me report it if nothing was going to be done other than me getting punished again for reporting it 🤣
You say anonymous tip
He has 3 records of CHILD ABUSE and they keep letting him back to his kids??!!! What the hell!!! Poor kids, I hope one grows to be 18 and they just emancipate immediately and adopt the rest
Because his stupid psychiatrist thinks he's okay to go back to his kids. it's obvious because of the Mental Health evaluations that he clearly keeps failing.
The mother is worse. She left them with him.
Not that simple. I'm a foster parent (FP) I see children with responsible, loving family members who would love to take the child, but unbeknownst to most people, DCFS, CPS & the courts #1 priority is to keep the children with their parents. It doesn't matter what they did, except SA.
Even when children plead to not go back, from ages 0-17 they are treated as emotional children with no say in the matter.
The child's attorney "GAL" will tell you "I will listen to what a child wants, but it really doesn't play into my decision". Every "support" person for the child is there to gleen info to use in reuniting the parent with the child.
As FPs, we are required to make sure the children in our care meet every court ordered & CPS "suggested" plan of action, or we are subject to criminal charges.
The reason children are moved from FP to FP is, a majority of the time, due to the parent, who doesn't have custody, requesting it because where the child "is an inconvenience" to them or their worker has children in a certain area and this child is moved to be in that area. Since the workers children come and go, and new ones are put in their care, a child can be moved a lot.
So why do I continue to be a FP? Because I'm hoping that each child I have, for however long, will feel love, support, & that a spark of hope will ignite in them. Knowing that their lives can be so much better than it is now. To work hard on improving themselves better through academics, sports, whatever. That it IS their choice how their story is written. ❤
It’s crazy but plenty of GOOD fathers end up without their kids for no good reason
@@kingjellybean9795the courts demand shared custody. It’s not up to her.
Why do the abusive jerks always cry like babies when they are caught?
Because they’re cowards.
They think they can mänipûlate others into feeling bad for them and ignore the awful things they’ve done.
Because they are usually people who pick fights with the vulnerable or someone who couldn't win against them in a physical fight. So when they are shown they have no power they freak out. My mom has a saying for people like this "That person would choke a book they couldn't read"
Because that is what bullies do when caught. That, and blame the victim.
Because they are pussies when caught
The way Alex started crying and whining about being overworked and then changed behavior completely when he realized he had been caught is terrifying. I hope the boys got away from him for good.
Srsly. I'm glad the cops did not let him know the boys called. He was fishing to find out in order to know who to target. I hope tjose kids were removed, but something tells me that he got visitation again. They keep trying to keep families together, even though it's not safe for the kids.
He probably said it because whenever a woman says they're overworked and tired, most of the time people feel bad and give them a free pass.
@@furygeist it's awful. He has two separate charges of abuse against THE SAME CHILD. He SHOULD NOT BE around children.
@@henny8883lol that's like an excuse to avoid s3x, not child abuse charges 😂 but I def think ur right that he THOUGHT that
Yep and they gave him all the respect he doesn't deserve
Cops should NOT have told that woman who called the police. Put that boy in danger.
As soon as she said that I was like nooo 🤦♀️ They must be new to these kind of cases
The woman would've found out anyway
If the woman has common sense she had understood who called the cops from the start
@@nonhotrovatounnomemigliore9221if she had common sense we would not be seeing her here.
Why do you think she has common sense in the sitaution we are finding her? You seem to be lacking common sense yourself 😂@nonhotrovatounnomemigliore9221
That person who said to Eric to "Stop causing problems" is an *enabler* and is the reason *WHY* victims SUFFER in silence because of people like that.
Made me so angry. Poor Eric is surrounded by Some real dumb women
that was the grandma I think
@@urblondeangel Eric's grandma not mom's grandma
my grandma did that too..would always tell us to "not make mom mad"
I've been Eric until I was 18. Long story short, my mom was a piece of shit. My extended family were very much aware that my mom is a horrible person, yet blamed me for "causing problems." And then they wonder why I stopped seeing every family member on my 18th birthday.
Having a bad day, suffering with the deaths of family members, or even having mental illness DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO ABUSE YOUR CHILDREN, ever.
Absolutely nothing but the whole entire truth....I have CPTSD and if I slip and snap, I'm devastated! It's only words, but the way I can say a thing would make a person cry, so I hold myself accountable with my sons....They deserve my best regardless of what I'm going through, they are amazing and aware and are very protective of my mental health, as I am about theirs, the world doesn't need any more angry men with Mommy issues.
@@ItsAllLove4Real Absolutely, as a parent you are the very bridge to your child’s upbringing and how that bridge is paved and how they’re taken care of crossing that bridge will effect them for the rest of their life.
@@Himbeaw😊😊❤
Mental Illness may not be a right to do so, but it is more understandable. Not saying that it's right or anything, but when someone is in the midst of a mental breakdown, they have no control of their actions. That's just how crazy works.
He is clever at coming up with answers but still did enough stalling on answers that was'nt obvious to give him just enough time to think.
So the first guy was arrested numerous times for beating the same boy? WHY THE F do they send those kids back? They’d be safer in the foster system.
That isn’t always true…
I know this is an old video and an old comment that I'm replying to and I'm sorry for this but- and obviously not in all cases- but CPS is encouraged to keep kids with the parents as much as possible. Unfortunately between that being taken to a ridiculous extreme and the foster system being overcrowded and underfunded as is makes for some extremely horrendous situations for kids. A lot of foster parents are only in it for the money and treat the kids terribly, too. There's nowhere they can go and no one they can turn to, and when they do finally get the courage to call for help they're just left behind or sent somewhere just as bad, sometimes worse. There needs to be some serious reform in the child protection department.
I was so angry that they kept letting family into the room while they were interviewing Eric. Stop letting them get in there and pressure him into keeping quiet, he’s clearly afraid and he’s a victim but they’re letting these enablers pressure him into silence.
It was probably so they could have proof and get him out of tgere
folks have a hard time seeing men as victims at all, even if their still kids. i deal w it all the time where im from.
I think they were trying to let her and the mother dig their own graves for the court.
That is true they should never let in a family member clearly intentional
Yes. Stupidity
The dad saying "Did my kids call?" sent chills down my spine. I could feel the anger and rage hidden behind this calmness, that if he left without being separated from those boys that something bad would happen to them
literally i’ve heard that tone before and it’s always just rage that’s just ready to bust i hope those boys are in a safer place now
I hope those boys made it out of there and never had to face their father again!
He only got probation....
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"I beat my kids but I have anxiety and I'm gonna pass out"
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Mf really wasn’t expecting his kids to call the police💀
And seizures, to boot? As a person with the inconvenience called epilepsy, we don't claim him. /l
@@KayPrescesky It's cuz he abuses benzos, which is why he gets angry. It's called "Bar rage" as in xannax bars. Benzos make your anxiety worse big time to the point you will have seizures just from not having them. Most likely what this dude does. Pops a couple bars, looses all fear, then beats his kids because he is not scared of being reprimanded... until the high wares off.
Mental health is only real when it's THEIRS, ever notice that? Now ask them about THEIR "really" abusive childhood and how lucky their kids are that they don't "really" abuse them.
When he immediately said he’s stressed and overworked I knew he was guilty🙄 that’s always the excuse, asshole like that love venting out their frustration on kids…not the kids fault you’re a failure buddy do better!!
It's hilarious when abusers and murderers say I have anxiety, I'm feeling claustrophobic, handcuffs are hurting me when they've done the unthinkable to their victims. It's even more hilarious that they dont see the irony.
the boys in the first one keep calling their dad big. He's not really that big, but they all see him as being so big and scary because of the power he has over them and the pain and violence he causes. heartbreaking
poor babies. :(
By big, they mean fat. He's probably been doing this their whole lives.
My old man was like that ,but often worse. Beatings with different things, verbal abuse ,outright hate and despise for me, Thank God he is gone now, I was afraid of him, even when i was bigger than him in the end.
He is slanting his legs out so he looks smaller.
It seemed like they were trying to whisper as well, like they were afraid he could hear them from inside. They were that terrified of him. I can’t imagine what other incidents those boys went through over the years that they haven’t brought up 😢
I hope Eric is doing all right. The grandmother seemed quite aggressive as well, with wanting to take him for a ride, and he better not say anything he'll regret...
yeah . . and the fact the first thing she did was scream loudly when the police came, and then cutting off the police, to try to avoid exposing her crimes. .
Don’t say anything you’ll regret, it’s literally telling a child to shut up cause the adults are gonna be in trouble. I hope he is ok as well,
It takes a strong man to stand up like he did, he’s a hero ❤
The mother, going mental with the 3 boys, is a pissed off mama, no time for drunks
All honesty, the thing (I refuse to call her a human or any form of the word mother) that stuck their head in the room and made that comment should have been arrested as well for trying to intimidate Eric into not giving an honest statement. Not a single one of them should be surprised when he moves out the second he can and cuts all contact with them
Yes, this mom was the worst to me. All she was concerned about was pegging her son for calling cops (and what he contended against her) - SHE was way more concerned about blaming her son - SO CONCERNED ABOUT BLAMING HER BOY - ALL POST BREAKING GLASS, POST INABILITY TO SPEAK TO OFFICERS, POST THREATS, etc. They (mom/gma) both should be removed from these kids' lives!! They are toxic as hell - I pray for those children. Please God, get these women away from these children (young men)! These gross adults are not okay and will not accept that fact - not better themselves. Breaking glass, SCREAMING LIKE A BANCHEE, and threatening to beat son like a man - DISGUST!
No way Eric’s grandma switched on him and said “stop looking for problems.” My god i hate family members like that! Please protect those kids.
The enablers of abusers are JUST as bad as the abusers!!!
My family was likee tht. It shows the lack of intelligence.
Truly heartbreaking because Grandma cares more for her daughter than her grandkid. And this is what was shown, who knows what's happened before that.
if that takes her away then yes i’m scared for my life 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The fact that she was even given a chance to talk to him was unbelievable. I wish the officer had said "Nope, you're not talking to him. I'm talking to him right now. You can talk to him later." My god... no WONDER that was an abusive household.
“I tOoK mY bRa OfF sO i CoUlD sTaNd LiKe SuPeRmAn” I was on the floor!!💀😭
😂😂😂 Right! It was sad cuz she so zonked out, but I couldn’t stop laughing.
I’m going to be honest … the way she said it so normal and serious was what sent me. 😂
How the fuck did the first guy only get Probation (especially on only 2 accounts when there were three kids) when he has a track record of child abuse?
F-ing florida. Some states allow child abuse and call it "discipline". Notice how the two time offender picked up words from his previous court appearances "disciplining". Piece of shit. The older the state... the older the laws. Florida/the south and the midwest are notorious for this.
He makes his kid rub his back and sht. What a fcking weirdo.
I hope they at least took the kids away
They probably didn't, most calls don't even result in arrests. Calling 911 or cps does nothing - a kid who had to report his father more then 6 times with nothing happening
My dad gave my sister a black eye that had to be covered with makeup for school the next day. Older sister and i feared for our lives growing up with him around. School caught on, cps and cops were called. Even with the extra questioning of me, my other sister, and my mom he still got away with child abuse. Two months of supervision by my paternal grandpa and no contact. Didnt change a thing after the two months were up.
"Mom you can't lie to a police officer" might be the most heartbreaking thing I've ever heard. That's a smart kid who finally had enough of his parent's reckless behavior and had the bravery to tell the police, despite the love I'm sure he has for his mother.
This whole video shows TWO different types of moms. One who CLEARLY cares about her child’s wellbeing and future and one who CLEARLY DOESN’T and got behind the wheel DRUNK with her child in the car.
Exactly and also probably back we with th e m sickos.
@@Torirme17 I would have to say that yelling at your kids, shaming their kids and grounding them for a month is emotional abuse and verbal abuse. It’s not discipline. That’s not what a loving and caring parent does.
Screaming/yelling/raising voices at kids doesn’t work. Screaming/yelling/raising voices at kids can provoke them to anger and cause them to shut down. Yelling at kids can harm a child’s developing brain and it can also damage the relationship between the parent (or even a caregiver or even a grandparent) and the child. Also, shocking news, according to Legal Eagles, excessive and harmful yelling can lead to intervention by CPS, and in extreme cases, chromic emotional abuse may result in criminal charges.
4 reasons to stop yelling at kids:
1. It makes behavioral problems worse.
2. It teaches kids that’s okay to scream/yell at someone when angry
3. It can lead to depression and anxiety
4. It shrinks the developing brain
5. It affects physical heath
Just like physical punishment, yelling, as a form of correction, teaches a child that problems are solved best with violence, rage and aggression, therefore, perpetuating the cycle of sinful behavior inside the home. Yelling is the new spanking. Many of us struggle with yelling because we did not have caregivers who modeled the Fruits of the Spirit (Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Gentleness, Faithfulness and Self-Control), emotional regulation, Christlike behavior, or effective non-violent communication to us in childhood. We also have caregivers who claim to know God, but do not understand child psychology, do not understand the Hebrew context behind the Bible verses, and have their hearts hardened against God and are continuing to live in sin.
Yelling as a form of correction can increase anxiety, depression and stress according to a 2014 study in The Journal of Child Development.
Humans instinctively yell as a form of PROTECTION, but when used as a form of correction, yelling creates relational tension and floods a child’s brain with stress hormones. Yelling as a form of correction can alter and even damage emotional & brain development.
A recent study has found a link between consistent negative childhood experiences, including verbal abuse, pedophilia and child grooming, and physical conditions in adulthood such as arthritis, bad headaches, back & neck pain and other chronic conditions.
Yelling has been shown in multiple studies to stunt the growth of the pre-frontal Cortex, responsible for the development of logic & reasoning (among other things) and the Amygdala, responsible for assigning the right emotional responses to a given circumstance.
She also should have never cussed at the kids. That’s not showing what being a good role model nor what being a loving caring mother looks like. She should have prepared for such a problem by predicting what might happen (based on past experiences), prepare a response, then practice that response. The response must find that she is in complete control, must demonstrate to the child that she is not about to be intimidated, and should the child behave violently, clearly understood earned consequences will be borne immediately by the child.
I would recommend taking away privileges calmly, in caring and in love, that last no more than a week. Not in anger. A month is too long. This will look like this: “I’m sorry you choose to do that and because of it having denied yourself your Xbox privileges for a week. I forgive you, but that does not mean that you are keeping your Xbox for a week because of your choice.”
@@Torirme17 She also doesn’t realize that obedience is actually based out of trust, not out of fear. Intentionally inflicting physical pain on a child to coerce obedience is not an act of love. It’s an act of fear. The word obey means willness & following through, to carry out wishes of others because of trust. Parents, pastors caregivers, teachers, grandparents and in-laws that call themselves a Christian think Biblical obedience is a high value of compliance and behavioral control. They have a fear of getting it wrong or they may feel like, “I don’t know how to get that compliance without at least having this threat in my back pocket to pull out”. In communities, parents reward compliance. Parents have been complimented on their “well-behaved” children. Other families that have “well-behaved” compliant children are kind of seeing as something to aspire to. Satan wants the world to believe that parents who have different goals than behavioral compliance are that the children are not compliant. Here’s the truth. Demanding your children to do something without question is not teaching Biblical obedience. Demanding your child to something wrong and sinful is not Biblical obedience. Blind first time every time obedience isn’t Biblical obedience. Blind first time every time obedience does not reach the heart. God has never said He wants complaint people. I would also not recommend the counting to 3 technique. The counting to 3 technique is a “quick fix”, but it doesn’t solve any problem at all. By counting to 3, we give children a chance to ignore us and trigger us to snap and rage. The counting to 3 technique supports the authoritarian style of parenting, and also the narcissistic, tiger & neglectful styles of parenting. Blind first time every time obedience (which again, isn’t true Biblical obedience), which lead to more escalation and causes us to be more angrier instead of solving the problem. Blind first time every time obedience will cause harm to our relationship with children. Kids are not trusting parents because they continue to support physical punishment, emotional punishment, verbal punishment and other forms of physical abuse and verbal abuse against them, and even unforgiveness, authoritarianism, rageness and grudges against them. Blind first time every time obedience will also make children easier prey for the predators, like pedophiles, and even the Devil Satan.
While strict and responsive parenting style (authoritative, attachment, unconditional, positive, and gentle) without physical punishment, emotional punishment nor verbal punishment produces the best outcomes in kids, strict, satanic, abusive, harsh and unresponsive parenting style (authoritarian, narcissistic, neglectful & tiger) produces adverse outcomes includes low self-esteem, self-control issues, sinful lifestyles like gender change, same-sex relationships, same-sex marriages, illegal drug use, tobacco chewing, weed smoking, tobacco smoking, porn watching, mastrubation, sexual abuse, domestic violence, alcohol drinking, rudeness, disobeying parents, false witness, taunting or harassing characters, murder, & mental health problems.
Kids raised with satanic strict authoritarian parenting, neglectful parenting, narcissistic parenting, physical punishment and/or tiger parenting are more likely to be unhappy, more depressed, & become bullies, brats, meanies, or sinners.
Kids raised with satanic strict authoritarian parenting, neglectful parenting, narcissistic parenting, physical punishment and/or tiger parenting are also more likely to commit suicide.
Kids raised with satanic strict authoritarian parenting, neglectful parenting, narcissistic parenting, physical punishment and/or tiger parenting are most like to rebel.
@@Torirme17 Obedience is not simply about following rules without questioning. It isn’t blind obedience. It is, first and foremost, relational. And when we realize that not only does Yahweh call His people to shema His word. He reciprocates that shema towards His people, we can see how our modern understanding of obedience might be a little bit upside down.
In John 14:15, Jesus says to His followers: “If ye love me, keep my commandments”. Jesus communicated the relational nature of obedience: it is born out of love and trust.
In Matthew 21:28:32, Jesus shares a story about a son who says he will obey his father, and one who says he will not. It is the one who first states that he will not obey, then later decides to do it, that Jesus says “does the will of his father”. When we understand and factor in the Jewish understanding of obedience (to consider, listen and thoughtfully respond), we can understand why it is the brother who changes his heart who is counted as obedient.
So, Biblical obedience is actually developing trusting relationship overtime, not blind first time every time obedience. Trust, not force, is the key that unlocks Biblical obedience. There are times when it’s right to disobey earthly authorities in order to obey God. Even little children & toddlers can be taught this truth, that there is a time when it’s right to disobey earthly authorities in order to obey a higher authority. There is a time when it’s right to get help. Like for example, if earthly authorities in the government that are part of the Illuminati forces the world to wear masks & be physically distant from each other, then we must disobey the earthly authorities in the government that are part of the Illuminati because masks can cause carbon dioxide poisoning, initiate you to the new 6.0 edition of the One World Government, and symbolizes blind allegiance to the AntiChrist, and social distancing can lead to PTSD, depression, more stress, decrease of the chemical oxytocin, and symbolically separates you from God. If someone forces you to get the COVID vaccine, then you must disobey because the COVID vaccine has microchips named Luciferase that can change your DNA and turn you into a hybrid human/animal, and it also has graphene oxide in it that will make you become a zombie. If Catholics force you to pray to Mary or the saints, then we must disobey because God says that we should not bow to any grave image that represents anything in Heaven or on the earth. If an authority figure forces a child to do wrong, like get the COVID vaccine or spank a baby, then the child is not culpable, but we can actively teach them that God doesn’t require them to obey a parent who is abusive, narcissistic, forces vaccinations and/or committing crimes.
Dude that grandma needs to be locked up for Eric’s sake. She’s just as bad as Christine. She basically threatened him.
Oh it's generational for sure
fr
Fr. I’m hoping he’s safe from the grandma
So much white trash
Mom: "I didn't drink."
Son:" You just lied to a police officer!"
Cooked bro
Daughter: Hope she is sober then...
Son: Hah!
That came directly from the heart.
That and "tangerine time" made me laugh amongst all the horrible stuff.
Those kids have infinite fucking patience and love for their mother.
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@@Collin-to1oeand she doesn’t deserve an ounce of it, I hope they’re ok
My brother and I grew up with domestic violence and not once ever thought to call the police, we were too scared. These kids are incredibly brave, I am so impressed.
Are you ok?
My brother and I had a system after a few years. I would distract my dad my brother would run to phone 911
I’m good. My brother unfortunately overdosed at the beginning of the year, I miss him soooooo much. Our trauma affected us both in different ways. I’m a high school teacher now.
@@Losketch13 rest in peace to your brother and I hope your life is filled with happiness and good days moving forward. 😊
oh my gosh, same here. and we were too busy surviving.
" get an attorney"
"My attorney just died"
Umm okay, my condolences, get another one? Wtf kind of excuse was that???
😂😂😂😂 right
Yeah, I didn't realise we were restricted to one. Guess I took someone else's that one time.
Catching lobster lol
How do you die lobster fishing? Getting pinched to hard???
LMFAO?????
Child abuse needs to get years in prison especially if they have previous convictions. Gross how he only got 36 months of probation… GROWN ADULTS can physically abuse children, and get no prison time.. what a sick world we live in..
When I was 14, my dad beat the living shit out of me. When called the cops he told them I had done it to myself and had me thrown in a mental institution, where I was then forced to “admit” I had made it all up before I was aloud to leave. He was president of the HOA and high up at his company. Abuse isn’t just in crackhouses. If a kid is asking for help, for the love of God, please help them.
I'm so sorry this happened to you. May GOD Bless You and ease your pain now. I hope the rest of your life is absolutely wonderful and peaceful, because you absolutely deserve it. Again I'm so sorry you had to experience any kind of pain as a child. No child should suffer especially at the hands of the people that are supposed to protect them and love them the most.
@@amandacantrell1146 "No child should suffer especially at the hands of the people that are supposed to protect them and love them the most." Says the one who's talking about "GOD". The "all-powerful being" that picked out this gem of a father for this child. Where was god's "love and protection" then, hmm?
I am so sorry that happened to you…I hope you’re living a better life now ❤
@@gingerweasel2 GOD doesn't prevent evil. He can only be your saving grace.
@@gingerweasel2Please don't speak like that in this context. We understand your stand point, and as another Christian it is valid, but do not ever speak like that in this situation. Like the previous reply said, God doesn't prevent evil, even if he has the power. He can only save your life if you choose to believe in him.
Acts 16:31 says "And they replied, "Believe in the Lord Jesus and you will be saved, you and your household."" Take that as you will, and have a wonderful day.
“I’ve been dealing with you for the past twelve years of my life” I think that’s a sign for a restraining order 😭
i don’t think cops can just get a restraining order because they’ve dealt with a person multiple times 😂
@@itzzlayne795512 years tho?
@@itzzlayne7955 I think they meant the kids need a restraining order ;)
@@VectorRabbit yeah but the cop said it not the kids lol
@@itzzlayne7955 Since the mother has no legal right to be there and the legal residents of the property did not want her there, so police asked legal residents if they wanted to trespass her, which they said yes to.
I hope those 3 boys at the beginning are safe. Shame the dad got off with just probation
It’s really telling how his major initial concern was not whether the alleged events happened, but who made the call. My mom dated someone like this when my sister and I were kids and he was just like that. First he pointed at our mom, and then at our grandparents next door, and then eventually to us.
They live in constant fight or flight mode Everyday.....I know how they feel😢
It will never stop until they cut ties with the dad.
@@robyne.1082 Yep and that will cause a laundry list of problems
They got turned over to their mothers care and he was ordered to have no contact with all 3 of them
@@Ashujalemrothat’s a relief. Poor kids.
Good job to the first cop for lying about the kids calling 911!! 👍😊
That Grandma shouldn't have been allowed to wander around when the cops were there. Definitely should have not been allowed to interrupt that interview.
That's witness intimidation.
That Grandma definitely guilty of witness intimidation. She walked into that interview and told him not to say something. Lock her up too. Women get away with so much.
As soon as the mom was being put under arrest and she got up to go after him I was like nah I’d arrest her right there
@@multipletanksyndromeyea bro totally cuz it was a women 🫠🙄
@multipletanksyndrome So did the man with the 3 separate cases of child abuse apparently. Don't make it a gender thing dude.
She said “LET’S GO FOR A RIDE!” That was a SUPER red flag 🚩
Literally threatened him right after. 20:19
Yep. THAT was pure EVIL.
Definitely
That. And said don't say anything you're gonna regret later. That's a threat af
“Nuh-uh” smart kid, nuh-uh saved him
That first dad put a lot of emphasis on life being extremely hard for him. But notice how he only made it about him and being the victim. No matter how difficult life is a parent should never allow their anger or stress being turned into physical violence or physiological abuse.
Classic narcissism. 💯
Those poor boys are absolutely aware this is not ok . That man needs prison not probation like damnnnn he only going to do more violence than before.
@@Robinsunshine83, I'm sure the cops will be back . He knows the boys called for the police. I'm sure there will be punishment for that
Life probably is hard. It’s hard for everyone. He may not touch his children in the way he did on all three occasions he was proven abusive. And for all of the other times
@@CraigGrant-sh3in these poor boys are dead meat ..they wanted to go ..they are such innocent good boys it's a shame : what's the options run away live on streets .
These poor boys knew it's more than discipline...and there's much documentation.
God this upsets me to fullest ..this man ain't dsnt " like" technology..think there's going to be a phone ...anywhere for a mile of these kids next time...sick fuk like this guy ...he gonna male them pay ...if they off his you know what i. The middle of night though they the ones going to do time still he w I no serve time. ..just probation with what full custody still. Teavisty.
In the second part, the family member who is trying to get Eric to change his story should be arrested for interfering with an investigation. She’s part of the problem too.
I feel so bad for eric. His family is trying to make him feel like he's in the wrong for wanting to live in peace
If he doesn't already, Eric's going to grow up to hate women.
This makes me so sad.
@@scottevans2685bro what, i was abused by my mom too but i never hated women. thats fucking stupid
You could tell Christine was a raging, lying, abusive person. She just seems like she would do anything to save her own skin
Reminds me of my mother. The moment she's confronted by ANYONE, oh God the world must be ending! Tears and tears and screaming nonsense. Ugh.
She acted like she was on crack which she probably was
@@Cloverkittysame as soon as she came on screen I was immediately reminded of my own mother.
@@Shrimptoast21she reminds me of my ex who also just had a kid so i feel bad for that kid because ik what it has to deal wirh especially with an ex crack addict and alcoholic for a father and the mother herself being an ex meth addict its a grear combination why i feel we need licensing for having a kid you need one to drive a car which needs far less maintenance daily than a kid yet anyone can just get preggo and then kill the kid because of their mental issues
I remember calling the cops on my parents. My mom told the judge she would kill me when she got the chance. They had to put me under protection in the system so that my immediate family couldn’t figure out where I was until they moved me with family in another state. It was awful but overall saved mine, my niece and nephew and my parents lives
Holy crap, that's really awful. I am so sorry you had to go through that. I hope you're able to start healing. I also hope she can never find you.
I guess with „my parents“ you were talking about those who really loved and cared for you, your biological aunt and uncle who grew into your parents? Did I understand that correct? Thanks to the Lord for them loving you so much to go through all the legal and safety stuff and even move out of state. What a blessing, glad you had them
Sorry,I’m confused
That was pretty badass of you.
i never had that and my parents threatened to tie me up and leave me in the basement where they would beat and kill me and child protective services didn’t do anything they failed me.
So glad that mom was holding her son accountable and not making excuses for him.
I remember when my aunt abused me and almost killed me when I was 11. The cops came and she hid me in her room acting “nice” and she made me sleep in her bed with her. I couldn’t get help and come out and talk to the police.
It’s so powerful that those kids talked to the police or called them, it’s EXTREMELY Terrifying and hard to do that. Proud of them, I hope they are safe now.
Hey, you okay? Im sorry this happened to you and i hope you got justice.
I'm so sorry that that happened to you! I hope you are ok now
That's scary as hell..
CAP
why do I find that it’s mostly the aunts that are terrifying
I feel like the Grandma in the second case should've been arrested for tampering with a witness, obstruction of justice and impeding in a investigation.
Was thinking the same, you can hear the attitude in her voice when she comes outside to confirm the cops again, definitely a family trait.
Intimidation too?! of a minor + victim. I was surprised the cop let her do that.
The grandmother is the big enabler. That’s why the daughter is as she is. Poor boy, finally brave enough to call out for help and they let him down. Glad the police took her but she’ll be home soon again sadly.
It annoyed me that the police let her come in the room and talk to him when he was trying to tell the police what was happening. That should've been shut down straight away
@@emneesonyes, she definitely intimidated him on the spot.
Explain to me how a man that has been charged with abusing his child twice still gets custody of this child to be able to abuse him a 3rd time??? Wtf.
probably because the mom is worse….
@@andie5031no it’s because the courts are shitty. The dad is abusive and stop blaming his actions on other ppl dillhole
@@Xcxc13 yeah the courts are shitty and prioritize keeping kids with a parent, the mom is probably a druggie and the courts simply don’t want to assume custody of the three boys so they let the dad stay
@@Xcxc13No one said the dad wasn't abusive or trying to shift blame. . . jus gave a possible reason why the kids kept going back to dad; the other parent/viable family member is worse.
You are also correct, court systems can be stupid-shitty and will drop a case over things as simple as a technicality, despite *everything* else demonstrating clear reason not to.
He wasn't charged, he was accused. It's a stupid thin line when dealing with abusive homes like this, but until you're actually convicted of the crime than your case is treated like it's the first instance.
There's special exceptions of course for varying circumstances, but unfortunately not many/enough.
I love the mom in the last one just going OFF on her son, good mom right there honestly.
Child abuse should be a mandatory jail sentence, and tell everybody in there what he/she did.
Agree
agree
The fact that Eric’s grandma cared more about her daughter than her own grandchild, HER LINEAGE, THE ONE THAT WOULD TELL STORIES ABOUT HER FOR THE REST OF HIS NATURAL LIFE, that says that there’s something else wrong.
This is why blood ain't shit. Biology means very little.
Family is who ACTS like it.
Yup, my Grandma was like that too. She'd watch me get abused day in and day out and called me ungrateful when I said I was uncomfortable living under those circumstances. Later on my mom told me she planned to evict my Grandma and steal her money she put in the house (both bought the house but only my mom had her name on the deed). She told me I was trying to start shit and that I was a looser son and grandson. I moved out as soon as I had a job and place to live. Not 1 year later and guess who got kicked out of the house 🤪 now my Grandma is suing my mom and I'm just eating popcorn the whole time lmfao like honestly if my Grandma stood up for me I'd have been a witness for her against my mom because my mom is an awful person. Cheats and steals from people. But nope! Never heard a thing now :P
It was her granddaughter tho so I’m thinking she didn’t really care about her either all she cares for was herself she didn’t want to ruin her reputation and her families reputation in my family so,etching similar happened and the saying was “if no one knows then it isn’t happening” so I’m guessing that’s what was going through her kind as well
@@IllustriousCrocoduck💯❣️
The fact that the grandmother cared more about an adult woman making bad decisions than a minor that has no ability to support themselves and directly relies on their parent to live.....
How about that instead of some stupid nonsense about lineage???
3 big kids and dad crammed in a camper, he makes them give him back rubs and doesn't let them have phones? Creepy af
I seriously feel they need to ask those kids more questions. Something doesn't sound right. He better not be abusing them sexually as well...😢
@@missbae28I’d be surprised if they didn’t ask more off site
my dad was like this but he made us rub his feet. i think its a control thing, like the kid has no choice but to comply to his dehumanizing demands because the other option is a beating, and the dad enjoys that feeling because hes a miserable person to his very core
As a regular viewer of body cam footage, I will say that this channel has some of the most entertaining captions. Pointing out the dog sh*t, multiple *unintelligible* *random noises* and *who knows* just makes me laugh.
Real
Driving drunk with a child in the car should carry a mandatory minimum ten year driving ban
Honestly that should be a prison sentence or at the very least “you don’t have kids anymore” along with license revocation.
It’s a shame the US doesn’t have the infrastructure to actually help kids in those situations though.
I think a forever ban tbh, you drove drunk first off all risking the lives of strangers but second of all W YOUR KID ? You don’t even care abt your own blood?!?!? you def don’t care abt anyone else then fs… no license in this lifetime or any after that !
I often wonder if people truly think through some of these totalitarian "comment section sentences" they purpose & are just fine with the distopian outcomes they would have on our society.
Or if they are just making emotionally charged statements without fully understanding the full reaching impact of what they are proposing. For the sake of the future, I'm sincerely hoping it's the former and not the latter.
@@rayrayqbaby I’m not generally one of those “any criminal should be in prison for life!” People… but driving while drunk with a your child should be aggravated attempted murder and child abuse.
You absolutely should not be let behind the wheel for a long time as you show callous disregard for not only the safety of the general public, but your own family as well.
That doesn't stop people from driving unfortunately
30:03
“Get your foot in..”
“If they shut the door on your foot…That’s your own fault!”
“I DON’T CA-“
*door closes*
Why was that actually funny?
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😆😆😆😆😆😆😂😂
The video : 💔💔🩸🔪
This comment : 😂😂😂😂
funny as hell despite the situation
Lol
“I DON’T WANNA TALK!”
Keeps talking.
I know right 😅
It’s very stupid😂
She’s like Christy from dance moms 💀😭
FR
I DONT WANNA TALK unless I can gaslight you but if not I DONT WANNA TALK
“I can pass out from stress” imagine how stressed out your kid who’s afraid of hights felt when you forced him to clean the top of your trailer when it was covered in soap. Imagine how stressed your kids were waiting in the woods for the police to come, hoping you wouldn’t find them. Abusers dont get to play the victim card and expect empathy when they are apathetic to everyone else
the first man needs to not be let around his kids anymore.
"You came in here uninvited!"
Does she think the cops are vampires and HAVE TO be invited in?
LMAO STOP THE TVD REFERENCE IS KILLING ME
right? he’s a cop not a soldier
Vampires don't need invitations. We can go anywhere we want.
@@DjDark333 Make sure you don't cut yourself with that edge ;]
@@DjDark333 It's a TVD reference
The way that woman started gaslighting Eric 🤦♀️
Truely very very sad, everything family should not be
It was triggering hearing that.
Why do these cops keep telling the parents everything the children said about abuse? Did they not have any training?! You don’t directly quote the children as that endangers them even more as you don’t know if the parent in question will be locked up yet.
the second cops should not have told her who called for the cops....
that last video was pure chaos LOL
Agreed
otherwise she probably wouldn’t have talked AT ALL and she probably figured herself
That kid will be afraid to call again. With our F**ked up court system, he will be very lucky to even survive 😢
Hearing that young kid say "my mom just got out of jail and my dad I don't know I guess" is sooo heartbreaking to hear :( I hope one day he knows what the love of a family feels like
That’s a LOT of kids, especially kids of color in poor neighborhoods.
Thats probably why they were acting like that...
That broke my heart too.
the cop roasting those kids that were throwing shit on the road was hilarious. "your small, your gonna have a rough time in jail"
"I'm putting you in with the killers." 😂 😂
I’m glad my anxiety doesn’t make me poop my pants man.
The first guy had a prior child abuse case and the court gave him probation on these charges? The system is broken. Those poor kids are in for it. So sad.
Yea. But..speaking as a social worker. There aren't enough places to places children and thats just facts. There needs to be more adoptive and foster parents..but people arent into that.. and having them in a home w other kids often isnt ideal either. The idea is honestly...😅.. bettwe the devil you know..with monitoring. So they really try "rehab" and "safety plans".
“36 months of probation” for beating 3 of his sons? But if I smoke weed in the wrong state I can get 1 year or more in prison and thousand dollar fine. Tf is the justice system.
The injustice in this country literally drives me mad. He had a history of abusing his children and he only got a slap on the wrist. I hope his sons are able to stay away and stay safe from him. Disgusting.
Marijuana use is illegal everywhere in the US under federal law. Local police have the discretion to arrest a user or ignore marijuana use. State law only permits marijuana use in the user’s home - full stop.
@@dolinaj1a BS law that they're surprised people dont follow 😂
@@dolinaj1 oh that makes it just
It’s a JOKE.. it truly is!
As an abuse survivor myself, I applaud these young individuals for their courage in exposing the evil that they experienced in their lives!
Holy- are you okay?
@@LilDummy11 I am okay. Thanks for your concern!
Same ❤ Living my best life out of spite, works for me ❤
I’ll bet these parents are products of the “I gOt My BuTt WhOoPeD aNd I tUrNeD oUt FiNe” generation… 🙄
That last mom is so crazy, she clearly taught her son to be COMPLETELY honest to police but then will commit crimes right in front of him😂
"You ratted me out, you little bastard!"
"You taught me to do it, Mom."
"D'OH!!!
Rules for thee..
@@scottevans2685crazy how she's literally as dumb as Homer Simpson lmfao
@@scottevans2685 time stamp?
Michelle, the woman in red had to have been on drugs. Something. The cop said, "because I know you Michelle, I've been dealing with you for 12 years!" Lmao
Hall marks of a meth addict
It’s horrible to imagine what addiction did to this family - especially the kids. They must have been kindergarten age when she fell into the abyss
I believe she was on LSD mixed with a different mild drug
I thought it was meth…
na. i just think shes kinda slow. honestly, that one kind of heart warming.
Poor Eric, if he knew the level of gaslighting he's experiencing... People are monsters
Shout out to the mom in the last clip tearing into her son and properly disciplining him while also separating him from the kids who were engaging in the same behavior. That's a great sign, kid has a good mom.
"Eric please"
"Nuh uh"
why did that get me laughing 😭
Eric was over it at that point. He was not backing down.
pov eric after: *locks in*
So true 😂
20:13 if anyone was looking for a timestamp :)
@@hellokittyjazze never back down never what
The last clip had a Good Mom with a disobedient child and an Awful mom with an intelligent, respectful child. Crazy video
Hope all these kids are doing better
All it needed to be a three ring circus was a clapping seal. The officers did a good job as Ring Masters though.
Yeah it took me a second to figure out what was going on once the drunk mom showed up. Pure chaos but the cops handled it perfectly. I laughed so hard when the kid snitched on his mom (rightfully so)
I have to say it was slightly funny hearing the actually good mom going nuts over her kid nearly being it and how she does both a good job of ensuring he gets the point but also making sure he knows how worried she was
It’s sad, I can see my own mom in the that cared about her kid. A father figure is important in a child’s life for guidance and a good example
I’m surprised the cops didn’t get overwhelmed with everything going on. I would have lost it! They handled it great tho. Poor kid with the drunk mom most have been terrified
The adult women in Eric’s life are poor excuse of motherly figures! My heart goes out to him. Crazy mother and the grandmother making excuses for her behavior!!!
Not the grandmother threatening Eric in front of the cop... "Don't say nothing your going to regret "
Notice- no men around.
“my attorney just died… lobster fishing” okay 🙄 go get another one then?
The fact that the last woman's friends let her leave with her young son to go home OBVIOUSLY drunk is a crime within itself.
And I bet she's a well-respected teacher but her kid doesn't feel safe with her. The mother yelling at her kid for getting into trouble is criticized.and not respected by anyone.
@@debbiemohekey1509 the mother yelling at her child, I respect. Her son is young. She wants to make sure he gets to live a good and happy life, and starting out this way is not it. Good on her for saying those kids aren’t allowed over anymore. Hopefully she does more than just yell to teach him though
Brave children. I hope they grow up to be better parents than the ones they have.
They surely will since they know it's wrong
They should work for the police or become one, they would serve well.
if they even choose to be parents.
I grew up in abuse (in the UK) and severe violence (we were caned, beaten, belted, locked in our rooms with a bucket to piss in when children). I am expecting a little boy (my first child) and will protect him with my life.
Assuming they want kids after the abuse they suffered
The fact the 3rd child called his mother out, recognising the lying and trying to get away with it to the police breaks my heart, children shouldn't have to be their parents moral compass. What a wonderful kid.
Props to the kids for calling out... that must have been so hard
The Mom in the red shirt is absolutely vile. I feel so sorry for her daughter who still defends her and begs the cops not to hurt her.
It’s sad that these kids are more mature than their parents. Some people shouldn’t have custody of kids.
Fr, don’t understand why people even have kids just to treat them like shit.
A lot of times- not always obviously- but my experience is you gotta mature early cuz the adults are trash.
@@Readrose8 yeah, but sometimes people grow up thinking abuse is the answer
As someone who grew up in an abusive home, it’s a survival tactic. Our brains now we can’t afford to be naive and act like children so something clicks in our brains where we just start to mimic the good parts of the adults we see. My first memories are of consoling my mentally abusive mother bc her physically abusive husband hit her (but she didn’t leave before he started hitting me and worse)
Abused children usually are
That 3rd lady is a PERFECT EXAMPLE of why DRUGS ARE BAD KIDS. USING her children, causing problems with the daughter’s boyfriend and the daughter who CLEARLY has a heart of gold, is still begging the cops not to hurt her mom. If my mom EVER did that and I love my mother, but I’d just walk away. Let ‘em do their job. She wants to be difficult. Fu** around and find out.
to make things sadder that was actually her son, not her daughters boyfriend.
Her daughter was too nice.
Unfortunately that "nice" is codependency. She didn't know how to recognize when the mom needed to live with the repercussions of her actions, and kept trying to "save" her. This is a common thing that happens when kids feel like they need to protect their abusive parents. They get taught from a young age that they are the ones supposed to be taking responsibility for the parents actions instead of the parents themselves.
this is like why ive always respected good cops- the amount of patience you have to have to deal with people like this. i would've flipped out the first few seconds.
It always annoys me when the cops tell the suspects that their kids were the ones that called. Most likely they’ll end up back with their parents and it’ll be even worse because of that.
They know anyways.
Dad can’t even remember the reason why the kids were “disciplined” but they will remember this day forever
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I hate when parents just answer for there kids like “he does feel safe” when he obviously JUST said that he doesnt feel safe.
“I don’t car-“
Door shuts
Poor chloe i feel so bad that she practically has to parent her own mom :(
That woman was so damn high like damn
i feel her, done that my whole life growing up, wish i have called the cops, hope she stays in jail or gets help for chloe's sake
and i dont see anybodyyyy talking about that girl... it blows my mind the maturity that she had to gain, and its shows. the mother was in a caotic state and she was still worried about her, about the way the cops were carring her
Fr and her pleading them not to hurt her and even telling her she's welcome tomorrow just not today 😭
Poor girl, she's too sweet, I hope they're doing ok
My mom isn't nearly as bad but growing up with a drug addicted parent is hard and still loving them and wanting the best for them is even harder
My mother, in a rage, broke everything possible on our kitchen. I don't remember how old I was, but do remember that I stayed in my bedroom all day. Only 1 plastic cup survived. It's a blessing to become an adult and not have to be around people like her anymore
the fact they let that lady come into the boys room and manipulate him into not saying anything to protect the mother is terrible. they should have talked to him in complete privacy
Yes to the last kid. Really good on him for calling out his mom.
girl that last one was so much, two moms, one terrified- one drunk. one group of kids are committed crimes- another child telling on his drunk mom jesus christ
the innocent kid got attacked repeatedly by that mom yelling at the kids on top of being terrified for his life. thats going to do a number on him :(
That was wilddd
@@ILOVEMARILYNMANSON89the innocent kid had been in trouble twice, the police having called the mom twice. She was justified in giving him a talking to.
@@eloschk the kid that was in the car driven by the drunk mom? i'm pretty sure that kid didn't do anything. he was not a part of those boys.
@@eloschkthey are talking about the innocent kid who was in the back of his drunk moms car.. not the kids who were on the road.
That grandma was unbelievable talking to Eric like that. She should be ashamed of herself for sticking up for her daughter. Disgusting
Exactly
Literally,but what I couldn’t understand was why didnt the cop kick her out of the room? She was clearly putting pressure on him and trying to convince him to just let it go and saying that he shouldn’t cause problems..crazy.
That first dad knew exactly what the situation on the roof of the camper was when he told his sons to wash it - he straight away mentioned the slippery roof, the soap, his son's hyperventilation and said that he put his son down to keep him from falling off the roof. My God. He mentioned ever single circumstance on the roof - he knows exactly what he was doing to that poor child. I hope they're all safe now.
I feel so bad for the kids who have to deal with this everyday. With parents friends teachers anyone. I pray for you and hope u have the strength to speak out💕
Makes me sad how these parents treat these poor kids
I sometimes think about how any given moment, some child , somewhere is being treated poorly. I say a prayer and remind myself to stay vigilant and not turn a blind eye.
Fr, one reason why I no longer want to be in this world, and people act like its the happiest place on earth.
How many times can someone be charged with child abuse before they get the children out of there into a safe and loving environment? I feel horrible for those boys.
Same problem in the UK, it corrupted the system
So you have a boy (17) who says he is afraid of his mom, no one in the house likes his mom because she is a dramaqueen. The house and car are owned by the great grandmother. But oh no, the grandma decides it needs to get handled internally??? And even guiltblames the son?? Get that freaking enabler out of that house too!!
Those poor kids. I really hope they're safe now, and I really hope they do learn from this traumatic experience and let it be a guide to being good parents when they grow up. I hope they don't let the abuse shape them poorly, but give them kind and forgiving hearts.
“We can’t go back in there” 😢😢 those boys especially the one in the jersey, and the one thrown. Praying they’re ok.
Yes, praying for these children- they were obviously terrified of their abusive dad
I really really hope they were never reunited with their dad. 🙏🙏🙏
@@1976mcfarlane thankfully they’re all of age that courts would absolutely not send them back if they requested it. But praying the justice system works in these boy’s favor for once 😭🤞🏼
Did the stup*d idi0ts give the give the kids back this THIRD time he got caught abus*ng them?!
Stop giving kids back to horrible parents!!!
“He called because I was gonna call!” And then proceeded to scream at the officers for being there beforehand
The fact that the mom is just REAMING her kid(s) for doing stupid shit, while the other mom is getting REAMED by the officer for DUI is unironically hilarious. And the fact that the cops are like "See this is a perfect example," is killing me XD.
These DARE presentations are getting very realistic
@@juliagulia3426 You can bet that officer is gonna have one helluva story to tell.
To me, the the mom yelling at her kid. You can see that child eyes that they are oblivious like she is yelling and he is looking at all sort of direction. I mean she said she was called twice by the police. HOPEFULLY, this is his overwhelmed face and not “im just gonna tune it out face”.
@@aho9071 he seems like a good kid just needs to learn how to deal with not following the crowd and going along with everything. When kids get together in groups all the dumb ideas bubble to the surface. I think kids that age can be unsupervised at home but definitely not in groups.
@@cavatika yeah that’s why I said hopefully he looks overwhelmed bc again that’s the second time he’s been dealing with the police. Almost getting hit, shouted, and punished would definitely stick with him
I was never physically abused but I was sexually abused from age 13-16 by mom's POS dad. I never had the courage to speak up until I was older and to this day I wish I'd ran out of his house screaming about what he did to me for someone to help me. These kids are so brave and my heart goes out to them.