Shannon did amazing biting her tongue and not snapping at that question/comment, being a defender of your family to the ones you love most she showed so much grace in answering the question. Kudos Shannon!
Can we all just take a moment to enjoy all the progress this young man has achieved, and we as a group has been delighted in viewing! Thank you for including us and will be here to view more!❤️
can you share the recipe of how to make the dish which you had on the chicken sausage,capsicum,and cauliflower rice . would love to make this nd when would you be sharing the pasta recipe @John.
I wrote out a whole long message. But I think sometimes less is more. Those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind. Quite honestly I’d be absolutely devastated if you John and Shan chose to stop daily vlogging. You are both amazing, going above and beyond not only for Nicky but for anyone/everyone with special needs. I watch you for your humility, love, kindness, and so much more. You’re a truly special family and I love you all! And lastly I don’t doubt Nicky will one day play a C Chord on his ukulele, however what’s more likely is he will probably end up playing a full song. Because I believe in him. Sending love and hugs always!🧡
You and Mrs savoca are his parents! You both know what he loves and what he doesnt most of the time.Nick is your child not theirs. Each accomplishment is fantastic no matter what child.enjoy and just love each other!
I have been watching autism related vlogs for a year. I dont know anyone with autism. I love watching all the small victories. Feels like I'm part of the family and rejoice every time. Its opened up my eyes so so much. Shan you are a Mighty woman. Like a lioness protecting her tribe. Its shines through. You are doing great. Parents always know best.♡
😌👍 Well said... I've only been watching for the past handful of months and I can't even remember how I got here. 😂 At first, I didn't see myself sticking around because my leisure time is limited, and if I remember correctly, I stated that very thing in my first comment on the channel. 😉 However, I'm still here and I'm hooked. Most nights before bed, I scan my _lengthy_ YT video notification list for _anything_ from NickyTV. I'm hooked and I have grown to love and appreciate this wonderful family. What a treasure it is to see a pure example of humans being as authentic and as loving as they possibly can... given the specific set of challenges they've been assigned to handle by Almighty God! My heart overflows even as I type this message... it's not often that I acknowledge the genuine respect that I have for them... so thank you for the timely nudge, Mother Africa. You're special 🤗❤️‼️
I remember watching you trying to show Nicky how to play a chord on the ukulele and then I saw you recognize that it was too much and settle in with just letting him strum. I was impressed! Try something new- assess- change course if it isn’t working. I have learned so much from watching your vlog. I watch it every day. I feel like you are my family. Thanks for doing a daily vlog. You know there are a lot of lonely people right now with shelter in place. I am not lonely even though I live alone and have been shelter in place for ten months. Why? Because I watch blogs like yours and get to be a part of a family every day. I get to participate in the pride of small accomplishments. I get to just hang out with you. It’s so awesome!
Don't let people get to you guys because unfortunately their is always going to be people who assume way too much but I can say without a single doubt that I love your family because I can tell your real and don't put on a big fake production..people have no right to judge you guys..you and God know your real hearts and that's really all that matters..If Nicky wasn't happy we wouldn't be hearing him laughing so hard in the back ground through out the whole time you guys were talking..God bless you all my friends and I love you!!!💙💙💙🤗
You guys amaze me every day. You are right John. There are a few channels out there that have steered their content into a negative direction about vlogs like yours. Luckily most of what they say is u founded. You did wonderful responding in such a calm assertive manner that you both do so well. The progress in the past year for Nicky is absolutely astounding. And his close out was incredible! Keep going you guys!
NickyTV has been an amazing Vlog for my children to watch and learn from, as 2 HS boys and a MS 7th grade girl! They are better humans for it; they will treat their peers in school and outside of school better having knowledge for the lunchroom and other times. My kids constantly ‘fail’ at activities... they’re all kids, including Nicholas, whose brains are developing and learning - whether typical or atypical. None of them are failing, we’re parents who are introducing activities and re-introducing activities to our children! Pls continue being authentic and true to your mission, you’re amazing! Great content. My Matthew, who now plays for the 18th ranked U16 team in the COUNTRY, hated soccer when he first played.... and look where he is today!
I’ve been following your channel from the beginning. John and Shannon, yall are doing amazing with Nick. I’m sorry for some of the negative comments or people questioning. I have disabilities myself and I love you guys. I love watching your videos every day. I have bad anxiety and other learning problems. I wish I could be friends with Nick. He makes me laugh and puts a smile on my face. I love when he works on crafts, music time and plays at the beach. Also I love the doggies. Sam also is great with Nick. Johnny is the best brother. I’m so glad Nick has such a strong and loving support system. ❤️❤️ Thank you for sharing your journey with us. God bless.
Dear lord where would they get the time to create content, this is real daily life, the ups the downs, it's wonderful if you've been here a while to see how Nicky developes , the great team around him and there are no failures it's challenges like we all have with teenagers can we fucus more on the successes, riding, chores, showering, the barber, his speech , excersise and hey during this video can you hear the constent laughter, it's these moments we appreciate John and Shannon as wonderful parents, one thing in life there's negative Nellie's there's no manual for people with autism it's a constant learning curve , each child is different, thank you for taking the time to vlog each day that's really appreciated love from Sydney Australia 🇦🇺🐨🦘💙🍀
What I feel is that your content is helpful for others. As someone who also lives with autism in our family. Sharing all that Nicky learns for his growth and independence is what others can perhaps see for their own children. Or to hold onto the belief their child will be able to learn also. Keep doing what you do and thank you for doing it.
I love your content. We lovingly push our kids to their best potential. We are amazed every day by our son’s progress and we enjoy watching Nicky grow. So proud of you guys. Such an inspiration 😊
You are far from boring! I love this channel and I'm so impressed with how much Nicky has improved in his day to day! Keep up the great work! Side note....Shannon love your shirt! 💕💕💕
I love you guys and your show. I have an 11 year old grandson with autism. You are doing a great job. People who say you are pushing him or anything does not know what it is like having a child like this.
There will always be haters no matter what you do 🤷♀️. I watch your channel not only for the uplifting vibe but to continuously learn about the special needs community. I find the more I can educate myself, the more I can advocate for and support a community that is so often misunderstood.
I feel privileged to watch Nicky progress every day. You both are fantastic parents as I've said before your the first channel I watch every day and John I love your energy and enthusiasm and likewise Shannon as well xx
This is what worry’s me about doing my own vlogs is getting the negative comments. I’ve been bullied so many times because of my disability. Well done for staying calm and answering those difficult questions.
Shannon and John you are amazing parents and Nicky is an amazing young man And you have amazing Vlogs . I look forward to your vlogs daily . Love you guys And God bless you
You guys are a fantastic family. I love watching your videos. You giving Nicky tasks and activities is the same thing as every other parent out there. In your case it may just take more time for Nicky to pick it up. Please don't let other discourage you from giving your son, or should I say sons, nephews and nieces option. Then they figure out what things they like. Keep it up john shannon Johnny Nicky Sam.
I think people are asking questions like this bc there is a current vlogger out there that is tearing down families that showcase their children. He’s a very mean man. He’s recently been attacking FA and Pricilla herself. It’s sickening. Idk why people feel the need to degrade and feel this way. If you don’t like it, go away. You don’t force anyone to watch these videos. I love y’all and support you and all you do 100%!!! Actually, watching y’all and FA is helping me to get a diagnosis for my 4 year old. So THANK YOU!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Brilliant Sam hiding from nick 😂🤣😂 nick has came on millions and I personally think he’s came on leaps and bounds from the day I started my journey with you guys keep doing what you all do guys hugs from Scotland 🏴
You guys are wonderful parents.I know you would never do anything that would harm Nicky in any way.You only encourage him to do the things he likes.We see that and we(in this household) will watch and enjoy your vlog every time you post one.keep doing You!!!Its truly a wonderful thing to see.God bless!ps I must say I could see this coming.Yesterday I typed in fathering autism and a couple of anti family bloggers came up! They are Miserable people that I have nothing better to do keep your positivity and MoveOn
I feel badly that you felt the need to address those issues. Unfortunately, I think the drama surrounding FA may be rubbing off onto other Autism family vlogs. This too shall pass. Your family exudes natural joy and love. I think it's the reason why you're gaining so many new subscribers.💕
Your so right,they shouldn’t..But there is a group of people who have been targeting all the Autistic families on TH-cam for a long time! before they made ASA their main target..what they say on these vile gossip & hate groups is disgusting and doxing all the families,telling people to leave vile comments etc,It’s heart breaking..
Your vlogs are one of the best parts of my day watching a incredible family with such love .from watching your old home videos when the boys were younger you are exactly the same now ,not acting up for the camera .Nickys progress is amazing and it's wonderful to be on that journey with you all he has people from all around the world cheering him on .I cried the first time he did the outro and the vlog with miss g hair as I was so proud of him and countless other times .I have smiled constantly .such a pure family .please keep vlogging from spreading awareness ,helping me as a special needs parent and countless other and just being such positive people you are a inspiration x
I so look forward to watching your family everyday, I love that I have been able to watch the progress Nicky has made and sharing those achievements with you. My family is extremely close and as we can't see each other due to covid I feel a part of your loving family and this has really helped me and my son through some very difficult days. You are the most genuine family,please don't change anything about yourselves or your content. We love it all 💖
Being a parent of a special needs daughter I get it. We celebrate every try because that is a win. I love when Nick might not do something as well as he has in the past and you still celebrate it.
John don't feel alone when it comes to not doing online shopping. I am old & not too tech savvy. I still pay my bills via check & snail mail. BUT, due to covid, being high risk & unable to handle all of the chaos out in the world right now, I have been figuring out how to purchase things online. I didn't start right away when covid hit, but there came a point long about August I needed some things & really didn't have a choice. I love it now, it's amazing!! I'm still learning, but no, you are not alone. Had covid never hit I may have never took that leap!
Love 💕 your whole Family Sam that includes you too!! You are always so loving and show so much patience and kindness !! Never change and stay true to the real reason y’all started this channel!!
Hello Savoca Family!!! I am absolutely obsessed with Nicky’s videos!!! I look forward to them everyday. I hope y’all have an amazing day!! Nicky’s vocabulary is getting better and better everyday, I love it!!! Mrs. Shannon do you still dress-put on Nicky’s clothes and/or shoes out of habit or because he is the baby and you are not wanting him to grow up? Please please don’t take my question negative I would never speak any negativity to any of you. Mr. and Mrs. Savoca I will tell you I love to see how in love y’all are even 20 years later. It is so amazing to see y’all are truly relationship goals. I think you John and Shannon are AMAZING parents. Johnny and Nicky are the perfect examples of your wonderful parenting.
Hi Jami! Thank you for your kind words. I dress Nicky out of habit. But I’m trying not to anymore. The mornings are tougher because of time constraints but at night he’s getting dressed and un-dressed on his own 🦩💙
Oh, can I tell you how happy it makes me to get a shoutout at the end in the credits?!?! I had to screen shot it the first rule I seen it and send it to my fiancé! Haha. It made my day!!!!!! Thank you!!
I don't see any of your content as boring and I don't feel trying things like the ukelele as abusive or bad. You have to offer the opportunity to try things or you would never know what works and what doesn't. And...if you don't challenge him he will never grow. No parent is perfect but you guys are amazing.
💪 While I genuinely respect, can relate to, and give mad props to the questions posed... even greater, is my increasing respect and appreciation for you both in answering these questions to the fullest degree. Thank you for taking the time to address each of these very _valid_ and thoughtful points. While I have at times, sensed each of these points being raised in my own mind, in answering so openly and honestly, you guys have dispelled all discomfort and questions in my mind. You both are stellar parents, advocates, and an incredible team. Your family deserves the very best and I pray bountiful blessings and grace in this beautiful journey. *You are special, you are beautiful, and you are loved.* 🤗❤️‼️
When I worked at Walmart some times we use a cart to put stuff on as we worked. They wo take the stuff out of cart a d take the cart. Also there was some one would leave a cart full of items,and leave in garden centers. I was always in the same place.
1st let me tell you when Nicky and Sam were playing hide-and-seek and he kept calling out sam's name was just the cutest. I think sometimes nicky needs to be pushed a little bit but that's what every kid, Anytime you push and you've seen resistance from him you've always back down that I have seen. Nicky does not have failure, what has he failed at? There has been so many times are you guys have seen that he has been stressed or just anxious for that day and have not put any demands on at all, if People watch your vlogs they would know that. You guys are doing amazing. I have watched every vlog since the first one
Nick makes lots of strides in life everyday. John @ Shannon you are great parents Johnny You are an awesome brother. Love viewing your content everyday keep doing what you are doing.
Hey John I just wanted to say that I throughly enjoy watching your videos ! And I think that as Nicky’s parents you and Shannon know what Nicky likes & dislikes and from my point of view You can see he loves playing the ukulele and making music. 😊 I think people should think before they comment on certain things. As it may hurt over people’s feelings. Sending you all lots of positivity and love ✌🏽 take care from Jordan 🙂
Rockstar Nicky love your laugh and your so happy. See I don’t see Nicky having failures at all it’s accomplishing something. Even if it’s playing one cord or doing wash etc.... it’s very important for Nicky to learning to do things. We all learn every single day throughout our lifetime. I enjoy watching your Vlogs. They’re fun loving and educational. 🥰🥰🥰🥰
You honestly don’t know anyone an explanation on raising your own child. It is obvious that you love Nick and only want what is best for him. His progress has been amazing. Some people just can’t believe people can be genuine.
Love your content, Never change ! Omg the hide and seek Had me cackle. The way you teach nick the uke is the way my brother tries to teach me, you’re doing great. Parenting isn’t perfect anyway right and you guys are doing each day with grace and integrity I feel like the person who wrote that comment doesn’t watch or subscribe honestly you guys are authentic!!
I thought he might get upset when he called for sam. I was surprised to hear him loudly. it so important to work on daily skills. Every body needs those skills. We have have limits on what we can get upset. . He does have things to do just like other people. Exposure is important and you are doing a bit at a time and he is great.
John and Shannon😊 I have not and will not read the comments that inspired this conversation. I don’t care what others think but will speak for myself as a special education teacher on year 26 with 2 neurotypical children of my own. Your work here is tremendous. Your insight as parents is so helpful!! I partner with parents at the IEP table and throughout the school year with one common goal: their precious child! You truly add value with awareness and perspective. As always you handled this conversation with typical Savoca diplomacy and class! Much love and gratitude from Michigan❤️ Ann
I love that you guys vlog. I have learned so much and have fallen in love with your family. Nicky’s smile. Sam is so loving to Nicky. Johnny is a great loving brother and you guys are the perfect parents for Nicky. Thank you for inviting me in every day to learn more 💕
Yeah I do kind of see how people might think that you do kind of put on a show a little bit because I mean you guys are so wholesome and just people aren't that wholesome in real life all the time I guess most people aren't but you guys are most people so it's not a bad thing it's just because you're so wholesome and people find that unbelievable
I dont think any of your content is boring or abusive. Lately I believe the trend is "staging" the way their family functions and I dont see that at all with you. Actually most family vloggers start out typical and then change through time based off of a strangers comments. I think it's rude! I strongly believe you should keep your content as your family! You are a real true learning tool for families that struggle with the same things in their life. Your not here to impress people by their commands or how they want your content. Please never let the audience make you second guess. Sometimes staying on a child in a productive way is the only way to get them to learn. In days like today you do fantastic! The audience should take notes as I do. You clearly can see that they are happy leave this family alone.
Hi guys I watch you every day and love watching you. Do you watch Autistic Interpretations. It is a adult autistic woman that is at home with her mum. She is lovely. If you don’t you should see her because i ca see Nick to be like this in his 20’s it is great. I love you guys and can’t wait to see your day. Love from Annemarie in Victor Harbor South Australia 🇦🇺
I'm not sure how often you back read comments but i'm binging on a few latest videos and i couldn't not say anything here. The biggest thing with the question about content is because theres a big focus on people calling out exploitation of children and those who cant give consent. I've seen them and agree with them on the most part as a special ed teacher - there are many videos where you just think, this really isn't needed to get your point across. What i will say here is that John doesn't know how to play the youtube game and thats what's good here. He doesn't play on meltdowns or preaching progression and lessons to get views. This is a family who show their lives, a husband and wife, who have 2 kids, 2 pups, future chickens and a wonderful extended family. People watch these videos for everyone. The lessons and advocation and the like comes naturally from seeing a family who just so happen to have this aspect in their lives. If you look closely at these guys, watch videos on the regular and welcome in other sources of insight into special ed learning then you'll see that you have to push your kids the same way as you do your neurotypical ones and you have to respect them the same way you do your others. They may need different levels of support but that doesn't mean you shouldn't push your kids and open up the world to them. You'll see that Nicky has said in videos that he's done and doesn't want to be a part of whatever task they're doing, they ask for clarification because we do so with everyone, yet other people can read your facial ques and communicate non verbally or you'll say something like 'are you sure' for clarification whereas Nicky needs a more direct communication which maybe sounds more harsh? It's not though. When they went skiing, Nicky gave it a go and when he said no more they did no more. I understand peoples views on exploitation and i truly am glad they're raising their points because there is so much exploitation on social media. Do i think these guys exploit Nicky? No. Why? because we've seen Nicky say no and the family respect that. Am i worried this may begin to tip? Maybe. We've seen it so many times but where we are right now - these guys are giving an insight into their family and putting in lessons and thoughts on the Autism world but it's never acted out or with a highlight reel of Nickys struggles or when Nicky is frustrated in the moment. It's all after the fact, just the caregivers opinions and purely just some thoughts. Where these guys are right now is the perfect medium. A lot of their viewers have ties to the world of Autism and this is the kind of content we truly want. It's just life and we're all just chatting about life and figuring out the route life takes us and how best to make life work for us. As i said, i get the worry people have but take it from someone who provides care for multiple people with a range of additional needs - there are autism vloggers out there who do exploit the fact and i too struggle with them but these guys aren't at that point and i've seen maybe 1 thing on here that i'm like i get it but there's really no need to show this but even then that was nowhere near the extent of other vloggers that i've seen. These guys are ok here and i really believe Nicky could truly be exploited and they would get millions in the way of views and dollars - he isn't though. I also believe Nicky could verbalise and show that he doesn't want in on the videos and also find the videos online (which i think he already has?) and have some level of understanding around it and make some of his feelings known. My observation is that these guys are ok and do show Nicky respect and 100% listen to him and his thoughts and feelings. (i never proof read comments so please feel free to come @ me with thoughts or corrections or education or the like)
People who don’t know special needs people often don’t understand that a minimal success for a spec Ed person is like a significant success for the average person. They still require expectations, rules and criteria for success but they are very different for an average kid.
I don't like to shop online so I get my kid to do it for me when I really need something and I can't go out and get it physically. I'm one of those people that have to touch it before I buy, lol. Ps: my kid keeps telling me to get a cart so I can put things in it, but I had no clue that's what she was talking about.
Hya its Katie why don't you teach nicky the cleaning up song he love it just a idea i had he loves to sing songs he so happy love him hope your family had a great day x
Hi Tammy! Nicky can tell us when he doesn’t want to be in the video. When he sees himself in the new camera he starts making funny faces 😂. Nicky watches the videos on his phone all on his own too 🦩💙
@@shannonsavoca975 _I've noticed the faces and it makes me smile!!!_ Also, I'm so happy to know that he watches himself on TH-cam, that's fantastic! 🤣❤️‼️
Thanks for being gracious enough to answer my query which surprisingly came out sounding so negative in its tone. Talk about distortion. Lol. I was genuinely curious about what changes, and I am sure there must be at least a few, take place in the life of you tube families. Oh.. abuse.. lord no.. I was not implying that in relation to your or any other family. I was talking about how a normal parenting practice might almost invite accusations of abuse when viewed by an outsider looking at things from a certain perspective or background. And special needs community, because it involves a slightly different parenting style might just be be misunderstood more because of the unfamiliarity involved with the special needs community in general. I was wondering if you are conscious of how what you project will be received, when you are creating your vlog. See this is what I meant about things getting not lost but distorted in translation. I had to clarify my entire query. But I did understand what you conveyed. Thank you once again for your sincere response. I hope your family is never misunderstood and that you are actually able to bring acceptance for differences. There is no indignity in a meltdown, incontinence, wearing a diaper at 20, messy eating. Its looks like an indignity from a certain perspective..probably a majoritarian, neurotypical perspective. And that disturbs me. Wishing you well and rejoicing in Nick's happiness and hoping you did not take my generic query personally Regards always
It certainly was not our intention to have a negative tone, nor did we attempt to distort your question or our answers in any way. That's why I read the question line by line and answered it one piece at a time. I didn't think that you were accusing us of being abusive and I apologize if that's how my response sounded. It certainly was not our intention.
@@NickyTVFamilyVlog Ah, here we go again. Lol. I never said anything about your intention. I was just reconsidering my own choice of words. Its seems to be a day of hypersensitivities. Sometimes text messages misconvey thoughts. My apologies if I hurt anybody's sentiments. Nothing else except my most sincere good wishes for Nick and family, always.
Kriticka... just so you know, I for one, genuinely appreciate your questions. It presented a wonderful opportunity to dig into some of those specific instances and circumstances. Personally, I heard but _quickly discarded_ the idea of it being negative at all, because many of those points have also danced in my mind from time to time. As a result of John and Shannon answering so honestly and beautifully, my respect and appreciation has only increased. Not to mention the opportunity and nudging to voice it right here in the comments 😉 🤗 I genuinely appreciate it. As viewers, we are being carefully and thoughtfully _welcomed_ into the Savoca family and our loving voice is being heard. That privilege is part of a very healthy family dynamic. We are all so blessed just to be a little 'fly on the wall' and I know we are grateful for it!! 😊❤️‼️ Edit: _grammatical correction, word inclusion._
Shannon did amazing biting her tongue and not snapping at that question/comment, being a defender of your family to the ones you love most she showed so much grace in answering the question. Kudos Shannon!
Thank for acknowledging this Danielle 🦩💙
_AGREED_ 💪❤️‼️
Can we all just take a moment to enjoy all the progress this young man has achieved, and we as a group has been delighted in viewing! Thank you for including us and will be here to view more!❤️
Thank you Linda!!! I’m ecstatic over Nickys progress this year 🦩💙
can you share the recipe of how to make the dish which you had on the chicken sausage,capsicum,and cauliflower rice . would love to make this nd when would you be sharing the pasta recipe @John.
I wrote out a whole long message. But I think sometimes less is more.
Those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.
Quite honestly I’d be absolutely devastated if you John and Shan chose to stop daily vlogging. You are both amazing, going above and beyond not only for Nicky but for anyone/everyone with special needs. I watch you for your humility, love, kindness, and so much more. You’re a truly special family and I love you all! And lastly I don’t doubt Nicky will one day play a C Chord on his ukulele, however what’s more likely is he will probably end up playing a full song. Because I believe in him. Sending love and hugs always!🧡
Loved your response!
Perfectly said! 🥰
I agree
Jessica that was lovely xx
It’s a privilege being a part of your lives, thank you 💜
You and Mrs savoca are his parents! You both know what he loves and what he doesnt most of the time.Nick is your child not theirs. Each accomplishment is fantastic
no matter what child.enjoy and just love each other!
oml the “SAM”s playing hide and seek 😂 he’s so FUNNY I love it
Love you guys! You are doing a great job!
I have been watching autism related vlogs for a year. I dont know anyone with autism. I love watching all the small victories. Feels like I'm part of the family and rejoice every time. Its opened up my eyes so so much. Shan you are a Mighty woman. Like a lioness protecting her tribe. Its shines through. You are doing great. Parents always know best.♡
Wow! Thank you for taking the time to write such an amazing comment xo
😌👍 Well said... I've only been watching for the past handful of months and I can't even remember how I got here. 😂
At first, I didn't see myself sticking around because my leisure time is limited, and if I remember correctly, I stated that very thing in my first comment on the channel. 😉 However, I'm still here and I'm hooked. Most nights before bed, I scan my _lengthy_ YT video notification list for _anything_ from NickyTV. I'm hooked and I have grown to love and appreciate this wonderful family. What a treasure it is to see a pure example of humans being as authentic and as loving as they possibly can... given the specific set of challenges they've been assigned to handle by Almighty God! My heart overflows even as I type this message... it's not often that I acknowledge the genuine respect that I have for them... so thank you for the timely nudge, Mother Africa. You're special 🤗❤️‼️
I remember watching you trying to show Nicky how to play a chord on the ukulele and then I saw you recognize that it was too much and settle in with just letting him strum. I was impressed! Try something new- assess- change course if it isn’t working. I have learned so much from watching your vlog. I watch it every day. I feel like you are my family. Thanks for doing a daily vlog. You know there are a lot of lonely people right now with shelter in place. I am not lonely even though I live alone and have been shelter in place for ten months. Why? Because I watch blogs like yours and get to be a part of a family every day. I get to participate in the pride of small accomplishments. I get to just hang out with you. It’s so awesome!
Don't let people get to you guys because unfortunately their is always going to be people who assume way too much but I can say without a single doubt that I love your family because I can tell your real and don't put on a big fake production..people have no right to judge you guys..you and God know your real hearts and that's really all that matters..If Nicky wasn't happy we wouldn't be hearing him laughing so hard in the back ground through out the whole time you guys were talking..God bless you all my friends and I love you!!!💙💙💙🤗
Keep volging everyday we love watching every day your doing good job. Keep it up
Thanks so much Janet!
You are an awesome family guys thank you so much for letting us into ur lives 👍👍🙏🙏🇬🇧
He loves the ukulele! Keep it up! Y'all are fabulous parents! He will play a chord one day.
I’m with you Cathy 🦩💙
You guys amaze me every day. You are right John. There are a few channels out there that have steered their content into a negative direction about vlogs like yours. Luckily most of what they say is u founded. You did wonderful responding in such a calm assertive manner that you both do so well. The progress in the past year for Nicky is absolutely astounding. And his close out was incredible! Keep going you guys!
NickyTV has been an amazing Vlog for my children to watch and learn from, as 2 HS boys and a MS 7th grade girl! They are better humans for it; they will treat their peers in school and outside of school better having knowledge for the lunchroom and other times. My kids constantly ‘fail’ at activities... they’re all kids, including Nicholas, whose brains are developing and learning - whether typical or atypical. None of them are failing, we’re parents who are introducing activities and re-introducing activities to our children! Pls continue being authentic and true to your mission, you’re amazing! Great content.
My Matthew, who now plays for the 18th ranked U16 team in the COUNTRY, hated soccer when he first played.... and look where he is today!
Thank you Bethany for your flamazing words 😁🦩💙
The bond Sam n Nicky have is just amazing, n I love watching.
Sam. Ur gonna b a great dad someday.
I’ve been following your channel from the beginning. John and Shannon, yall are doing amazing with Nick. I’m sorry for some of the negative comments or people questioning. I have disabilities myself and I love you guys. I love watching your videos every day. I have bad anxiety and other learning problems. I wish I could be friends with Nick. He makes me laugh and puts a smile on my face. I love when he works on crafts, music time and plays at the beach. Also I love the doggies. Sam also is great with Nick. Johnny is the best brother. I’m so glad Nick has such a strong and loving support system. ❤️❤️ Thank you for sharing your journey with us. God bless.
Dear lord where would they get the time to create content, this is real daily life, the ups the downs, it's wonderful if you've been here a while to see how Nicky developes , the great team around him and there are no failures it's challenges like we all have with teenagers can we fucus more on the successes, riding, chores, showering, the barber, his speech , excersise and hey during this video can you hear the constent laughter, it's these moments we appreciate John and Shannon as wonderful parents, one thing in life there's negative Nellie's there's no manual for people with autism it's a constant learning curve , each child is different, thank you for taking the time to vlog each day that's really appreciated love from Sydney Australia 🇦🇺🐨🦘💙🍀
What I feel is that your content is helpful for others. As someone who also lives with autism in our family. Sharing all that Nicky learns for his growth and independence is what others can perhaps see for their own children. Or to hold onto the belief their child will be able to learn also. Keep doing what you do and thank you for doing it.
Thank you Robinann for this beautiful comment 🦩💙
When Shannon was saying Nick doesn't say what he wants are like what he wants to join the school it actually made me crying.
Btw, seeing them play hide and seek was the coolest! I laughed so hard and smiled so big when he opened that door and that smile was just so big!! 🤗🤗🤗
It's really nice seeing him improve
You guys are amazing parents and your channel is real, honest and sincere. That’s why I love you guys!!! Keep being you!!! ❤️
So encouraging for me. As I work with a young man with Autism. Between you guys and the Mass family. Thank you!!!
You are a great dad
What's up my friend! So glad to see you here. Please tell Mom and Dad that I said hello.
I love your content. We lovingly push our kids to their best potential. We are amazed every day by our son’s progress and we enjoy watching Nicky grow. So proud of you guys. Such an inspiration 😊
Well stated!!! 🤗❤️‼️
You are far from boring! I love this channel and I'm so impressed with how much Nicky has improved in his day to day! Keep up the great work!
Side note....Shannon love your shirt! 💕💕💕
I love you guys and your show. I have an 11 year old grandson with autism. You are doing a great job. People who say you are pushing him or anything does not know what it is like having a child like this.
There will always be haters no matter what you do 🤷♀️. I watch your channel not only for the uplifting vibe but to continuously learn about the special needs community. I find the more I can educate myself, the more I can advocate for and support a community that is so often misunderstood.
Yesss! 💪❤️‼️
I feel privileged to watch Nicky progress every day. You both are fantastic parents as I've said before your the first channel I watch every day and John I love your energy and enthusiasm and likewise Shannon as well xx
This is what worry’s me about doing my own vlogs is getting the negative comments. I’ve been bullied so many times because of my disability. Well done for staying calm and answering those difficult questions.
Shannon and John you are amazing parents and Nicky is an amazing young man And you have amazing Vlogs . I look forward to your vlogs daily . Love you guys And God bless you
You guys are a fantastic family. I love watching your videos. You giving Nicky tasks and activities is the same thing as every other parent out there. In your case it may just take more time for Nicky to pick it up. Please don't let other discourage you from giving your son, or should I say sons, nephews and nieces option. Then they figure out what things they like. Keep it up john shannon Johnny Nicky Sam.
I think people are asking questions like this bc there is a current vlogger out there that is tearing down families that showcase their children. He’s a very mean man. He’s recently been attacking FA and Pricilla herself. It’s sickening. Idk why people feel the need to degrade and feel this way. If you don’t like it, go away. You don’t force anyone to watch these videos. I love y’all and support you and all you do 100%!!! Actually, watching y’all and FA is helping me to get a diagnosis for my 4 year old. So THANK YOU!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Brilliant Sam hiding from nick 😂🤣😂 nick has came on millions and I personally think he’s came on leaps and bounds from the day I started my journey with you guys keep doing what you all do guys hugs from Scotland 🏴
You guys are wonderful parents.I know you would never do anything that would harm Nicky in any way.You only encourage him to do the things he likes.We see that and we(in this household) will watch and enjoy your vlog every time you post one.keep doing You!!!Its truly a wonderful thing to see.God bless!ps I must say I could see this coming.Yesterday I typed in fathering autism and a couple of anti family bloggers came up! They are Miserable people that I have nothing better to do keep your positivity and MoveOn
My Nicky is growing, when I heard him say dog get off me.. I said wow listen to Nicky. I love the transformation that Sam brings to Nicky’s life.
Wasn’t that funny?! And yes, Sam is so amazing 🦩💙
I feel badly that you felt the need to address those issues. Unfortunately, I think the drama surrounding FA may be rubbing off onto other Autism family vlogs. This too shall pass. Your family exudes natural joy and love. I think it's the reason why you're gaining so many new subscribers.💕
Your so right,they shouldn’t..But there is a group of people who have been targeting all the Autistic families on TH-cam for a long time! before they made ASA their main target..what they say on these vile gossip & hate groups is disgusting and doxing all the families,telling people to leave vile comments etc,It’s heart breaking..
Your vlogs are one of the best parts of my day watching a incredible family with such love .from watching your old home videos when the boys were younger you are exactly the same now ,not acting up for the camera .Nickys progress is amazing and it's wonderful to be on that journey with you all he has people from all around the world cheering him on .I cried the first time he did the outro and the vlog with miss g hair as I was so proud of him and countless other times .I have smiled constantly .such a pure family .please keep vlogging from spreading awareness ,helping me as a special needs parent and countless other and just being such positive people you are a inspiration x
So well said "A Pure Family " Its so obvious .
Your channel is awesome keep doing what you do!
I so look forward to watching your family everyday, I love that I have been able to watch the progress Nicky has made and sharing those achievements with you. My family is extremely close and as we can't see each other due to covid I feel a part of your loving family and this has really helped me and my son through some very difficult days. You are the most genuine family,please don't change anything about yourselves or your content. We love it all 💖
Don't forget John....put it out there and OWN IT!!!
That’s right!! OWN IT! 🥰
Being a parent of a special needs daughter I get it. We celebrate every try because that is a win. I love when Nick might not do something as well as he has in the past and you still celebrate it.
John don't feel alone when it comes to not doing online shopping. I am old & not too tech savvy. I still pay my bills via check & snail mail. BUT, due to covid, being high risk & unable to handle all of the chaos out in the world right now, I have been figuring out how to purchase things online. I didn't start right away when covid hit, but there came a point long about August I needed some things & really didn't have a choice. I love it now, it's amazing!! I'm still learning, but no, you are not alone. Had covid never hit I may have never took that leap!
Love 💕 your whole Family Sam that includes you too!! You are always so loving and show so much patience and kindness !! Never change and stay true to the real reason y’all started this channel!!
Hello Savoca Family!!! I am absolutely obsessed with Nicky’s videos!!! I look forward to them everyday. I hope y’all have an amazing day!! Nicky’s vocabulary is getting better and better everyday, I love it!!! Mrs. Shannon do you still dress-put on Nicky’s clothes and/or shoes out of habit or because he is the baby and you are not wanting him to grow up? Please please don’t take my question negative I would never speak any negativity to any of you. Mr. and Mrs. Savoca I will tell you I love to see how in love y’all are even 20 years later. It is so amazing to see y’all are truly relationship goals. I think you John and Shannon are AMAZING parents. Johnny and Nicky are the perfect examples of your wonderful parenting.
Hi Jami! Thank you for your kind words. I dress Nicky out of habit. But I’m trying not to anymore. The mornings are tougher because of time constraints but at night he’s getting dressed and un-dressed on his own 🦩💙
Oh, can I tell you how happy it makes me to get a shoutout at the end in the credits?!?! I had to screen shot it the first rule I seen it and send it to my fiancé! Haha. It made my day!!!!!! Thank you!!
I don't see any of your content as boring and I don't feel trying things like the ukelele as abusive or bad. You have to offer the opportunity to try things or you would never know what works and what doesn't. And...if you don't challenge him he will never grow. No parent is perfect but you guys are amazing.
Good morning Nicky, glad you had a happy day❤️John, we got your snow, mostly rain and wind😢
Great video John! You have a beautiful family. Hi Nick! 👋🏻 xo Jen
💪 While I genuinely respect, can relate to, and give mad props to the questions posed... even greater, is my increasing respect and appreciation for you both in answering these questions to the fullest degree. Thank you for taking the time to address each of these very _valid_ and thoughtful points. While I have at times, sensed each of these points being raised in my own mind, in answering so openly and honestly, you guys have dispelled all discomfort and questions in my mind. You both are stellar parents, advocates, and an incredible team. Your family deserves the very best and I pray bountiful blessings and grace in this beautiful journey. *You are special, you are beautiful, and you are loved.* 🤗❤️‼️
When I worked at Walmart some times we use a cart to put stuff on as we worked. They wo take the stuff out of cart a d take the cart. Also there was some one would leave a cart full of items,and leave in garden centers. I was always in the same place.
This is my fav TH-cam channel
Thank you Nicholas! 🦩💙
1st let me tell you when Nicky and Sam were playing hide-and-seek and he kept calling out sam's name was just the cutest. I think sometimes nicky needs to be pushed a little bit but that's what every kid, Anytime you push and you've seen resistance from him you've always back down that I have seen. Nicky does not have failure, what has he failed at? There has been so many times are you guys have seen that he has been stressed or just anxious for that day and have not put any demands on at all, if People watch your vlogs they would know that. You guys are doing amazing. I have watched every vlog since the first one
Nick makes lots of strides in life everyday. John @ Shannon you are great parents Johnny You are an awesome brother. Love viewing your content everyday keep doing what you are doing.
Thanks John!
I love to watch Nicky's progress or not. He has taught me patience and kindness. 👍🧩🧡🙂
Hey John I just wanted to say that I throughly enjoy watching your videos ! And I think that as Nicky’s parents you and Shannon know what Nicky likes & dislikes and from my point of view You can see he loves playing the ukulele and making music. 😊 I think people should think before they comment on certain things. As it may hurt over people’s feelings. Sending you all lots of positivity and love ✌🏽 take care from Jordan 🙂
Your an awesome family!!! Some people need to chill down!!
I love your blogs ... I also think how you guys communicate is a great example for us all.
Great flamingo’s Nicky 💙💙💙🇳🇱
Rockstar Nicky love your laugh and your so happy. See I don’t see Nicky having failures at all it’s accomplishing something. Even if it’s playing one cord or doing wash etc.... it’s very important for Nicky to learning to do things. We all learn every single day throughout our lifetime. I enjoy watching your Vlogs. They’re fun loving and educational. 🥰🥰🥰🥰
You honestly don’t know anyone an explanation on raising your own child. It is obvious that you love Nick and only want what is best for him. His progress has been amazing. Some people just can’t believe people can be genuine.
Hi Nicky and Family. Have a blessed day ❤️🤗
what great improevement on his talking great job Nicky hi mom sam johnny and dad don't listen to the negtive comments your doing fine as parents
I know you inspire us I see Nicky's progress and I know my guy can make progress he's 12 so I see what Nick has done at different ages it helps
I’m so glad Tammy that we inspire you. I understand that this road we are on isn’t always easy and we just have to remain positive and have faith 🦩💙
Love your content, Never change ! Omg the hide and seek Had me cackle. The way you teach nick the uke is the way my brother tries to teach me, you’re doing great. Parenting isn’t perfect anyway right and you guys are doing each day with grace and integrity
I feel like the person who wrote that comment doesn’t watch or subscribe honestly you guys are authentic!!
you all rock your awesome!!!
We r from ontario and we love your videos
I thought he might get upset when he called for sam. I was surprised to hear him loudly. it so important to work on daily skills. Every body needs those skills. We have have limits on what we can get upset. . He does have things to do just like other people. Exposure is important and you are doing a bit at a time and he is great.
John and Shannon😊 I have not and will not read the comments that inspired this conversation. I don’t care what others think but will speak for myself as a special education teacher on year 26 with 2 neurotypical children of my own. Your work here is tremendous. Your insight as parents is so helpful!! I partner with parents at the IEP table and throughout the school year with one common goal: their precious child! You truly add value with awareness and perspective.
As always you handled this conversation with typical Savoca diplomacy and class!
Much love and gratitude from Michigan❤️
Ann
Love your program watch you every day love from South Afrika
I love that you guys vlog. I have learned so much and have fallen in love with your family. Nicky’s smile. Sam is so loving to Nicky. Johnny is a great loving brother and you guys are the perfect parents for Nicky. Thank you for inviting me in every day to learn more 💕
I think u bo a good job being parents I like that you encouraged Nick to bo
Dont you worry. I love the authenticity of your vlogs!! Keep on...🙌❤
You have a thick skin in the utube world! Assa has been attacked, child services, etc.
Your doing great, don't change!!
Thanks so much Judy.
Love your videos 💙!
Yeah I do kind of see how people might think that you do kind of put on a show a little bit because I mean you guys are so wholesome and just people aren't that wholesome in real life all the time I guess most people aren't but you guys are most people so it's not a bad thing it's just because you're so wholesome and people find that unbelievable
You said it so well "Wholesome" !
You guy's are AMAZING N I MEAN THAT FROM THE 💜 THATS NARROW MINDED PEOPLE LUV YOU ALL
I dont think any of your content is boring or abusive. Lately I believe the trend is "staging" the way their family functions and I dont see that at all with you. Actually most family vloggers start out typical and then change through time based off of a strangers comments. I think it's rude! I strongly believe you should keep your content as your family! You are a real true learning tool for families that struggle with the same things in their life. Your not here to impress people by their commands or how they want your content. Please never let the audience make you second guess. Sometimes staying on a child in a productive way is the only way to get them to learn. In days like today you do fantastic! The audience should take notes as I do.
You clearly can see that they are happy leave this family alone.
Hi guys I watch you every day and love watching you. Do you watch Autistic Interpretations. It is a adult autistic woman that is at home with her mum. She is lovely. If you don’t you should see her because i ca see Nick to be like this in his 20’s it is great.
I love you guys and can’t wait to see your day. Love from Annemarie in Victor Harbor South Australia 🇦🇺
Love from Danmark every day
I love Shannon shirt
Shannon, I love your sweatshirt! Where did you find it?
Thanks Kate! I bought it last year at Marshall’s 🦩💙
John my adoptive father was also a proffessional musician he played Clarinet, Sax and Maimba what did your dad play?
Hi Hillary, John’s dad was a singer ~ he was an amazing man
It might be helpful to put a circle sticker on string you want him to hold down. Tell him to keep finger on it and sing chord letter when strumming
Great idea Maria!! 🦩💙
I'm not sure how often you back read comments but i'm binging on a few latest videos and i couldn't not say anything here. The biggest thing with the question about content is because theres a big focus on people calling out exploitation of children and those who cant give consent. I've seen them and agree with them on the most part as a special ed teacher - there are many videos where you just think, this really isn't needed to get your point across. What i will say here is that John doesn't know how to play the youtube game and thats what's good here. He doesn't play on meltdowns or preaching progression and lessons to get views. This is a family who show their lives, a husband and wife, who have 2 kids, 2 pups, future chickens and a wonderful extended family. People watch these videos for everyone. The lessons and advocation and the like comes naturally from seeing a family who just so happen to have this aspect in their lives. If you look closely at these guys, watch videos on the regular and welcome in other sources of insight into special ed learning then you'll see that you have to push your kids the same way as you do your neurotypical ones and you have to respect them the same way you do your others. They may need different levels of support but that doesn't mean you shouldn't push your kids and open up the world to them. You'll see that Nicky has said in videos that he's done and doesn't want to be a part of whatever task they're doing, they ask for clarification because we do so with everyone, yet other people can read your facial ques and communicate non verbally or you'll say something like 'are you sure' for clarification whereas Nicky needs a more direct communication which maybe sounds more harsh? It's not though. When they went skiing, Nicky gave it a go and when he said no more they did no more. I understand peoples views on exploitation and i truly am glad they're raising their points because there is so much exploitation on social media. Do i think these guys exploit Nicky? No. Why? because we've seen Nicky say no and the family respect that. Am i worried this may begin to tip? Maybe. We've seen it so many times but where we are right now - these guys are giving an insight into their family and putting in lessons and thoughts on the Autism world but it's never acted out or with a highlight reel of Nickys struggles or when Nicky is frustrated in the moment. It's all after the fact, just the caregivers opinions and purely just some thoughts. Where these guys are right now is the perfect medium. A lot of their viewers have ties to the world of Autism and this is the kind of content we truly want. It's just life and we're all just chatting about life and figuring out the route life takes us and how best to make life work for us. As i said, i get the worry people have but take it from someone who provides care for multiple people with a range of additional needs - there are autism vloggers out there who do exploit the fact and i too struggle with them but these guys aren't at that point and i've seen maybe 1 thing on here that i'm like i get it but there's really no need to show this but even then that was nowhere near the extent of other vloggers that i've seen. These guys are ok here and i really believe Nicky could truly be exploited and they would get millions in the way of views and dollars - he isn't though. I also believe Nicky could verbalise and show that he doesn't want in on the videos and also find the videos online (which i think he already has?) and have some level of understanding around it and make some of his feelings known. My observation is that these guys are ok and do show Nicky respect and 100% listen to him and his thoughts and feelings.
(i never proof read comments so please feel free to come @ me with thoughts or corrections or education or the like)
You did have him put it down you did not force him you handle it good
Listen to nicky he had a good day
People who don’t know special needs people often don’t understand that a minimal success for a spec Ed person is like a significant success for the average person. They still require expectations, rules and criteria for success but they are very different for an average kid.
P.S. You’re still calling your Jeep a car 😄😄😄
I don't like to shop online so I get my kid to do it for me when I really need something and I can't go out and get it physically. I'm one of those people that have to touch it before I buy, lol. Ps: my kid keeps telling me to get a cart so I can put things in it, but I had no clue that's what she was talking about.
I grew up in the Helderburg and Catskill Mountains.
And I have hair curly like Shannon so beautiful
-30 below in MINNESOTA
you was teaching emotional intelligence taht wonderful i had a topic on the same .
There are no failures in life it's God saying it's not the right path. If you exhaust all paths it's God saying no.
Thank you. I hope you’re feeling well 🦩💙
Are Rocky and Keira service for Nicky dogs or family dogs or even both?
Hello! They are family dogs but they certainly picked up on Nickys needs quickly 😁
Oh yeah and by the way I'm mad at you! I have been walking around singing the month song for the last 2 days not happy it will not leave my mind
Same here!!🤣🤣
Hahahahahahahah that’s awesome!
@@shannonsavoca975 wise guy it's not funny when it won't go away. Ok it's kind of funny. Blah
Hya its Katie why don't you teach nicky the cleaning up song he love it just a idea i had he loves to sing songs he so happy love him hope your family had a great day x
Hey Nicky
Hi how do you think Nick feels about the camera does he notice it
Hi Tammy! Nicky can tell us when he doesn’t want to be in the video. When he sees himself in the new camera he starts making funny faces 😂. Nicky watches the videos on his phone all on his own too 🦩💙
@@shannonsavoca975
_I've noticed the faces and it makes me smile!!!_ Also, I'm so happy to know that he watches himself on TH-cam, that's fantastic! 🤣❤️‼️
Thanks for being gracious enough to answer my query which surprisingly came out sounding so negative in its tone. Talk about distortion. Lol. I was genuinely curious about what changes, and I am sure there must be at least a few, take place in the life of you tube families. Oh.. abuse.. lord no.. I was not implying that in relation to your or any other family. I was talking about how a normal parenting practice might almost invite accusations of abuse when viewed by an outsider looking at things from a certain perspective or background. And special needs community, because it involves a slightly different parenting style might just be be misunderstood more because of the unfamiliarity involved with the special needs community in general. I was wondering if you are conscious of how what you project will be received, when you are creating your vlog. See this is what I meant about things getting not lost but distorted in translation. I had to clarify my entire query. But I did understand what you conveyed. Thank you once again for your sincere response. I hope your family is never misunderstood and that you are actually able to bring acceptance for differences. There is no indignity in a meltdown, incontinence, wearing a diaper at 20, messy eating. Its looks like an indignity from a certain perspective..probably a majoritarian, neurotypical perspective. And that disturbs me.
Wishing you well and rejoicing in Nick's happiness and hoping you did not take my generic query personally
Regards always
It certainly was not our intention to have a negative tone, nor did we attempt to distort your question or our answers in any way. That's why I read the question line by line and answered it one piece at a time. I didn't think that you were accusing us of being abusive and I apologize if that's how my response sounded. It certainly was not our intention.
@@NickyTVFamilyVlog Ah, here we go again. Lol. I never said anything about your intention. I was just reconsidering my own choice of words. Its seems to be a day of hypersensitivities. Sometimes text messages misconvey thoughts. My apologies if I hurt anybody's sentiments. Nothing else except my most sincere good wishes for Nick and family, always.
Kriticka... just so you know, I for one, genuinely appreciate your questions. It presented a wonderful opportunity to dig into some of those specific instances and circumstances. Personally, I heard but _quickly discarded_ the idea of it being negative at all, because many of those points have also danced in my mind from time to time. As a result of John and Shannon answering so honestly and beautifully, my respect and appreciation has only increased. Not to mention the opportunity and nudging to voice it right here in the comments 😉
🤗 I genuinely appreciate it. As viewers, we are being carefully and thoughtfully _welcomed_ into the Savoca family and our loving voice is being heard. That privilege is part of a very healthy family dynamic. We are all so blessed just to be a little 'fly on the wall' and I know we are grateful for it!! 😊❤️‼️
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_grammatical correction, word inclusion._