I have heard from many other blind youtubers that people think we are either also deaf or mentally disabled. A lot of times they will talk to other people instead of asking you things directly. I am not really 100% out as a blind person to the world. I do not use a cane yet and I do still try to hide it the best I can so I havent really experienced those sort of things. But sometimes I feel like some family friends are nicer to me cuz of my vision or help me a lot more than others.
Yes I have experience that, especially people talking to the person I am with instead of speaking to me directly, but it really only happens when I have my cane out. And That’s good that some of your family members are nice and helpful
Kayla you’re really amazing in what you do I love your videos this particular one that you’ve done are reminds me that fellow blind creator my back did a similar video on this
I'm visually impaired and some people think I can see because I can see their hands when I can only see shapes and colors. I'm near sighted due to cerebral palsy and my vision get worse every year
I too wish they would portray people with disabilities in the media accurately especially blind people. But drove me nuts growing up, as I would see somebody lose their vision in an episode then in the next scene they have a guide dog. And as a person who has had a couple of dogs, and in between lost my remaining vision you don’t just go get a guide dog in the next scene of your life. And be seen walking around confidently with the dog. It takes time and energy. There was a show a movie that came out in the late 90s called at first site and the man in there I remember seeing that when I had some vision, the man was walking around in the first part of the movie with a damn hockey stick as a cane. That just is not reality. And then later on they showed him with his retired guide dog and then him finally using a cane. And it just was portrayed very stupidly.
I hate that a lot of people think blind equals seeing total darkness when in reality it’s so many different things in between the spectrum of being legally blind and totally blind. The media portrayal of people with disabilities definitely plays a huge part in people’s perceptions of people with disabilities.
Great video! I recently have been told I don’t “look blind” and was shocked because it was said almost in a way like “you are overthinking your disability; you don’t need a cane.” I think videos like this are great to combat misconceptions because assumptions can be done without thinking but, like you said, they can be hurtful. I do agree that blind and visually impaired characters with better portrayal are so needed!! I have only found one that I can watch and enjoy (Covert Affairs-Auggie).
Beauty Beyond Fear thanks so much for watching and for your comment! Yes, I think the whole “you don’t look blind“ statement really shows how ignorant people can be
That’s exactly how I feel . I don’t like when people are either treating me like a baby or the contrary assuming because I can dress myself oh your not that blind. People are so un educated
Dana Belden Sometimes I want to unscrew someone's head, take their brain out and put it in a bottle and shake it up. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Today people in society think there are only blind people. No one is Visually Impaired. This is the stereotype that drives me up the freaking wall, because there are so many things that go on in the eyeball that people can't see.
I’m also legally blind I also use my brain and memorize things like my home lay out etc. I utilize dragon and screen readers and my apple I pad to blow up screens . I was told I needed a rep payee I have been paying bills online on my own. I feel like my rights are being taken away. It’s what little independence I have left. Your advice?
@@CaylawithaC I was able to resolve it and you were right. They said it was in my best interest ( my dr ) but it was not mandatory that made me feel so much better. Grateful to be able to pay my own bills
I would like some guidance on how you handle people who talk to you like too are less or stupid? I deal with this often at my work and I try to just make jokes or just shake it off. I think there’s a thin line between seeming defensive and standing up for yourself. Does anyone else feel this way?
That’s a hard one. I guess my best advice would be to ask them very calmly and politely to not speak to you like a child and to speak to you like they would any of your other coworkers
Great video Kayla. You made some really good points. I think the misconception I hate the most is people either assuming I can’t do something because I can’t see it or talking to the person I’m with.
Sydney Steuernagel I completely agree. People talking to the person I’m with instead of speaking directly to me drives me crazy. I’m definitely going to have to talk about that in another video
I agree that disabled people need to more portrayed in media, but where I draw the line is the Mary Sue type characters that have destroyed many franchises. There is a fine line between diversity in movies and tv, and making the whole show or movie all about the particular minority group. That's by biggest problem with wokeness in media.
I'm a cranky old fart of a blind guy with a sarcastic sense of humor. I find some sighted people to be very kind and helpful. Bless them. Others, not so much. People with disabilities scare the pants off the ablies because disability doesn't discriminate. Anyone can have one or get one and it could be them. Using my cane helps to make people aware that I don't see as well as they do. Some get it, some don't. We have to have patients and understanding for those who are slow and self absorbed to catch on. You go girl!
Thank you ❤️ Your knowledge is awesome. ❤️💜❤️💜❤️💜 💜❤️💜❤️💜❤️ I am Visually Impaired and I couldn't agree more. You might want to add the fact that people lose their vision because of all different reasons. ❤️🖤❤️🖤❤️🖤❤️🖤 🖤❤️🖤❤️🖤❤️🖤❤️ This is amazing you just crushed a stereotype that I am sure 5 million TH-camrs around the world have made.
I am really enjoy how much you make me smile. I always seem to want to say so much that it can never be fitted into a comment so sometime we have got to connect.
For me who has a retinal dystrophy so my VI affects more tiredness colour and low light. Because Of that people think that wearing glasses makes me see perfectly fine which it doesn’t. I constantly get looked at like I’m different and can’t understand things. Like I don’t know why VI people get this kind of patronising discrimination
I just found your site, your great.I am 83 years old and have macular degeneration and my vision is getting pretty blurry, I am fortunate to have the vision I have but I resent people with the attitude that oh well, he’s 83 so what. You never get old enough to not miss your vision. I am thinking of trying a device called Nu Eyes, have you heard any pros or cons on this ? Love your site, thanks
Ralph Thomas hello and thank you for your kind words. I agree, anyone would have a hard time losing their sight regardless of their age. I haven’t heard of new eyes. Sorry I am not able to give you any information. There is a TH-cam channel called the blind life where he reviews a lot of different technology. He may have something on his channel about it.
vihanga fernando I am not currently working because I will be starting graduate school soon, but I have had a job before, and there are plenty other blind and visually impaired people who have jobs as well
Yeah and get it you don't no longer you're not a kid you're yeah it might destroy the center you're not looking over to your own I don't know when people are doing that not not good all right cuz I'm good yeah cuz you're what 20 25 26 yeah so it's not yeah I know there are some new people so try to take one of those people
I have heard from many other blind youtubers that people think we are either also deaf or mentally disabled. A lot of times they will talk to other people instead of asking you things directly. I am not really 100% out as a blind person to the world. I do not use a cane yet and I do still try to hide it the best I can so I havent really experienced those sort of things. But sometimes I feel like some family friends are nicer to me cuz of my vision or help me a lot more than others.
Yes I have experience that, especially people talking to the person I am with instead of speaking to me directly, but it really only happens when I have my cane out. And That’s good that some of your family members are nice and helpful
Oh, I can't tell you how many times I've been either patronized by people or ben told rudely "you can't see that", and other rude statements.
Kayla you’re really amazing in what you do I love your videos this particular one that you’ve done are reminds me that fellow blind creator my back did a similar video on this
Thank you so much!
Rules? I was unaware that there were any real rules.
I just hope that one day pepple will care enough to educate themselves about disabilities.
I'm visually impaired and some people think I can see because I can see their hands when I can only see shapes and colors. I'm near sighted due to cerebral palsy and my vision get worse every year
I too wish they would portray people with disabilities in the media accurately especially blind people. But drove me nuts growing up, as I would see somebody lose their vision in an episode then in the next scene they have a guide dog. And as a person who has had a couple of dogs, and in between lost my remaining vision you don’t just go get a guide dog in the next scene of your life. And be seen walking around confidently with the dog. It takes time and energy.
There was a show a movie that came out in the late 90s called at first site and the man in there I remember seeing that when I had some vision, the man was walking around in the first part of the movie with a damn hockey stick as a cane. That just is not reality. And then later on they showed him with his retired guide dog and then him finally using a cane. And it just was portrayed very stupidly.
I hate that a lot of people think blind equals seeing total darkness when in reality it’s so many different things in between the spectrum of being legally blind and totally blind.
The media portrayal of people with disabilities definitely plays a huge part in people’s perceptions of people with disabilities.
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You took the words right out of my mouth 👄.
Great video! I recently have been told I don’t “look blind” and was shocked because it was said almost in a way like “you are overthinking your disability; you don’t need a cane.” I think videos like this are great to combat misconceptions because assumptions can be done without thinking but, like you said, they can be hurtful. I do agree that blind and visually impaired characters with better portrayal are so needed!! I have only found one that I can watch and enjoy (Covert Affairs-Auggie).
Beauty Beyond Fear thanks so much for watching and for your comment! Yes, I think the whole “you don’t look blind“ statement really shows how ignorant people can be
That’s exactly how I feel . I don’t like when people are either treating me like a baby or the contrary assuming because I can dress myself oh your not that blind. People are so un educated
Everything you talk about is on your channel is just like what I go through wow
Dana Belden
Sometimes I want to unscrew someone's head, take their brain out and put it in a bottle and shake it up.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Today people in society think there are only blind people. No one is Visually Impaired.
This is the stereotype that drives me up the freaking wall, because there are so many things that go on in the eyeball that people can't see.
I’m also legally blind I also use my brain and memorize things like my home lay out etc. I utilize dragon and screen readers and my apple I pad to blow up screens . I was told I needed a rep payee I have been paying bills online on my own. I feel like my rights are being taken away. It’s what little independence I have left. Your advice?
I’m sorry to hear that. Who is telling you you need that? I feel like you have the right to decline any service you don’t want or need
@@CaylawithaC I was able to resolve it and you were right. They said it was in my best interest ( my dr ) but it was not mandatory that made me feel so much better. Grateful to be able to pay my own bills
I would like some guidance on how you handle people who talk to you like too are less or stupid? I deal with this often at my work and I try to just make jokes or just shake it off. I think there’s a thin line between seeming defensive and standing up for yourself. Does anyone else feel this way?
That’s a hard one. I guess my best advice would be to ask them very calmly and politely to not speak to you like a child and to speak to you like they would any of your other coworkers
Great video Kayla. You made some really good points. I think the misconception I hate the most is people either assuming I can’t do something because I can’t see it or talking to the person I’m with.
Sydney Steuernagel I completely agree. People talking to the person I’m with instead of speaking directly to me drives me crazy. I’m definitely going to have to talk about that in another video
Cayla with a C that’s a good idea.
I agree that disabled people need to more portrayed in media, but where I draw the line is the Mary Sue type characters that have destroyed many franchises. There is a fine line between diversity in movies and tv, and making the whole show or movie all about the particular minority group. That's by biggest problem with wokeness in media.
I'm a cranky old fart of a blind guy with a sarcastic sense of humor. I find some sighted people to be very kind and helpful. Bless them. Others, not so much. People with disabilities scare the pants off the ablies because disability doesn't discriminate. Anyone can have one or get one and it could be them. Using my cane helps to make people aware that I don't see as well as they do. Some get it, some don't. We have to have patients and understanding for those who are slow and self absorbed to catch on. You go girl!
Lol. I totally agree with you
First of all I would like to say that you have great potential and good character and second of all I would like to collaborate with you if you
I'm annoyed when I'm treated like I'm broken
Thank you ❤️
Your knowledge is awesome.
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I am Visually Impaired and I couldn't agree more. You might want to add the fact that people lose their vision because of all different reasons.
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This is amazing you just crushed a stereotype that I am sure 5 million TH-camrs around the world have made.
I am really enjoy how much you make me smile. I always seem to want to say so much that it can never be fitted into a comment so sometime we have got to connect.
LOL thz same thing happening to me every day and its annoying
HAKIM ARTS I agree, extremely annoying
For me who has a retinal dystrophy so my VI affects more tiredness colour and low light. Because Of that people think that wearing glasses makes me see perfectly fine which it doesn’t. I constantly get looked at like I’m different and can’t understand things. Like I don’t know why VI people get this kind of patronising discrimination
I can totally relate
I just found your site, your great.I am 83 years old and have macular degeneration and my vision is getting pretty blurry, I am fortunate to have the vision I have but I resent people with the attitude that oh well, he’s 83 so what. You never get old enough to not miss your vision. I am thinking of trying a device called Nu Eyes, have you heard any pros or cons on this ? Love your site, thanks
Ralph Thomas hello and thank you for your kind words. I agree, anyone would have a hard time losing their sight regardless of their age. I haven’t heard of new eyes. Sorry I am not able to give you any information. There is a TH-cam channel called the blind life where he reviews a lot of different technology. He may have something on his channel about it.
Hi, I'm having the same disease (rp), I have a question up to you all guys; are you an employee? I mean would rp effects in our career?
vihanga fernando I am not currently working because I will be starting graduate school soon, but I have had a job before, and there are plenty other blind and visually impaired people who have jobs as well
Yeah and get it you don't no longer you're not a kid you're yeah it might destroy the center you're not looking over to your own I don't know when people are doing that not not good all right cuz I'm good yeah cuz you're what 20 25 26 yeah so it's not yeah I know there are some new people so try to take one of those people