Mary Todd Lincoln | The First Lady With a Shopping Addiction

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  • @lavishhistory9751
    @lavishhistory9751  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for watching! Like, comment, and subscribe for more lavish videos of the past!

  • @JoannaCrickenberger
    @JoannaCrickenberger 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Mary Todd Lincoln's shopping addiction was a symptom of PTSD, as were the rest of her "oddities". It started with the loss of her mother at a young age. Abe was one of the very few people who understood her oddities, depression and frustrations as he suffered from many of them himself. The early days of their marriage was rough at times, not just Abe's long absences from home, but they sometimes argued and lost their patience with each other, yet at the end of the day their shared losses, PTSD, and underlining love for each other actually brought them much closer together rather than apart. They were perfect for each other. After so many loses in her life, especially after losing her husband and her youngest son being the last straw, she naturally never really recovered. She thought her only surviving son Robert betrayed her by having her commented to a luxury asylum. All he was trying to do was keep his mother from committing suicide after a failed attempt at jumping from a window and it was on the advice of her doctors. He didn't know what else to do, he was just trying to save his mother. Non the less, it did serve as somewhat of a wakeup call to Mary and prevented her from completely losing her mind. At least she found some happiness in her last years living with her sister and with her grandchildren, whom she saw regularly despite her estranged relationship with Robert. They forgave and reconciled with each other before her death. If only doctors, Robert, and even Mary could've known then what we know now. Not their fault. They did their very best.

  • @mollyf1998
    @mollyf1998 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    love your videos! awesome work ❤️ so well researched, voice over is soothing and use of actual historical photos love love

  • @deborahculbertson578
    @deborahculbertson578 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I visited Springfield I’llinois
    15 years ago and walked through the Lincoln home,
    Attorney office and the Lincoln museum. I love the history but never did I hear about her spending spree only that she would cry, throw fits. They called her crazy?

  • @valenciaboyland6825
    @valenciaboyland6825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love your videos! Hope your channel grows❤️❤️❤️

    • @lavishhistory9751
      @lavishhistory9751  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! I’m so glad you like my videos!

  • @adoxartist1258
    @adoxartist1258 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just found your channel. I like your voice and manner of speaking in addition to your content. Thank you for the work you put into your videos! Liked and subbed. 🙂

    • @lavishhistory9751
      @lavishhistory9751  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much for your kind words and support! I’m so glad you like my videos!

  • @Laura_toggsgirls
    @Laura_toggsgirls ปีที่แล้ว

    Mom said don’t ever take her to New York

  • @Laura_toggsgirls
    @Laura_toggsgirls ปีที่แล้ว

    👜 oh Carmen del sur

  • @typical_snowflake
    @typical_snowflake 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Travel and shopping what else?

  • @Laura_toggsgirls
    @Laura_toggsgirls ปีที่แล้ว

    God does not screw up someone hurt already hurt again and again God makes it right

  • @Laura_toggsgirls
    @Laura_toggsgirls ปีที่แล้ว

    If Mary is 5 or orange

  • @Stumble.guy2
    @Stumble.guy2 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A

    • @crankyoldperson6871
      @crankyoldperson6871 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shopping addiction is a serious problem. I still struggle to understand how wealthy people can spiral out of control and end up broke, but still somehow manage to continue living in luxury. I must be doing something wrong.

  • @Laura_toggsgirls
    @Laura_toggsgirls ปีที่แล้ว

    Defeat God, no!!!! Defeat the dinosaurs 🦖

  • @jenkneefur1984
    @jenkneefur1984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Imagine if she had the internet or QVC

    • @Meelan72
      @Meelan72 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao

    • @lindaeasley5606
      @lindaeasley5606 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Looking like a queen ,living a broke ass life

  • @reenakemp9132
    @reenakemp9132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I hope your channel grows. Very good research and editing

    • @lavishhistory9751
      @lavishhistory9751  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! Your supportive words mean so much!

  • @stephentruthershields3615
    @stephentruthershields3615 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    In the picture at the 33 sec mark what round thing behind Mary?

    • @bethwaltz2607
      @bethwaltz2607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's a fire screen, actually a fabric panel mounted in a wooden frame. It was used to deflect heat from the fireplace away from someone sitting beside it, while still warming the area.

  • @Laura_toggsgirls
    @Laura_toggsgirls ปีที่แล้ว

    If they come to terrorize us we know they lost mom lol 😆

  • @Laura_toggsgirls
    @Laura_toggsgirls ปีที่แล้ว

    God makes it right