He's madly in love with the woman who can't remember him
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ส.ค. 2024
- Pat and Millie's love is stronger than the battle they are faced with every day. Despite her Alzheimer's, Pat loves his wife as deeply as the day he married her.
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God bless them.
+Thanatos this is an untrue and unkind statement. We are not promised a perfect and problem free life. with faith in our Savior we are blessed with the strength to endure hardship.
I know
ADRIAN I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS
Your right God bless that poor woman 🙏🏻🙏🏼🙏🏽🙏🏾🙏🏿 cmon everybody say Amen
God bless
My grandparents are like this. Except it's opposite. My grandfather has Alzheimer's and he doesn't remember her but he loves her and forgets who she is everyday. And he always is proposing to her and asking her to marry him and when he finds out that they're already married he gets so happy
That is so sweet! God bless you and your family! I hope he will remember her for a little bit longer in the future!
Aww that is so sweet, its like they get to relive falling in love over and over:) Alzheimers is a cruel and horrible thing, it is heartbreaking and heartwarming hearing love stories like this. Bittersweet, you know?
omgoodness that's supposed sweet. out of the pain yet comes the sweetest moments. to be proposed to everyday by the person whom you love.... how sweet
that's adorable😄
Awww
While watching this, my roommate walked in on me.. And I quickly splashed the bottled water on my face and told him I was trying to get something out of my eye.
breh whyyyy
LAUGHING SO HARD
+Taylor Smith why R U laughing
+Taylor Smith you need to stop if you was him will you laugh 😡😡😡😡 you don't know what
he feels you need help
+Allyssa Marshall SHE WAS LAUGHING AT HIS JOKE YOU DUMBASS
my mother has this slow and dreadful disease. my parents have been married 62 years. I live with them and see the many times my father cries. she does not remember me or my two younger sisters anymore. she is confused now daily about who daddy is. she remembers her childhood. she asks most every day if my parents have passed away. I am blessed. I am with them until their time is up. I know that might sound odd, but helping them through this has made me realize what true love is.
+Carla Bunn same but its my greatgranfather that died beacuse of it and my aunt
+ana lucia solsi I am so sorry.
omg I am crying God bless your family
+Da Ca thank you for your suggestions. I ask her to tell her favorite childhood experiences. she enjoys that.
+ana lucia solsi yes it is a fatal disease, I am learning to enjoy her company in different ways. she very much enjoys company and conversation. I have become pretty good at figuring out the word she is trying to express. I believe it is essential to always treat her with dignity and respect. My knowledge that my Savior is with us gives me faith and endurance.
omg this kind of love is one of the best ever. :'(
right after the love for someone you never actually seen.
+heidi egy Feel free to talk about the love for someone you never actually seen. There are many people that know that pain too.
Terri Knoll why there's pain in that love?
+Terri Knoll in every seen my dads parents
Ikr
This reminded me of my grandparents. My grandfather had alzheimer's and he ended up living in a different area of the nursing home my grandparents were living in as well. This was because my grandmother had a stroke (and later a seizure that left her not able to speak) and needed special treatment. He would go and sit with her everyday until he couldn't remember anymore and stopped going. He ended up sleeping 22 hours a day, but sometimes my father would wheel him into my grandmothers room and she would grab a hold of his hand. We could sometimes get him to wake up and sing French songs with us, and that was the best part because then my grandmother would squeeze his hand and say, "I love you," and he would respond, "I love you too dear." They both really loved each other very much and after he died, my grandmother died two months later. I miss them both very much, but this video made me smile as I was reminded of the loving relationship they had for each other.
Your story even made me cry! Why do I do this to my self?!?!
A beautiful story and a great testimony for everyone. Thank you!
+Natalie Bean My gramma never went to a nursing home, she lived to 95 and actually yelled at God everyday at that age that she was tired of living, bless her heart. My grandpa had been in a nursing home since I was really small with Alzheimer's disease and I feel she had a lot of guilt over that. She never married again after him. They were devout Christians (he more so as he didn't believe in celebrating pagan rituals like Christmas) but as he progressed and became non verbal (except for explicit cuss words) she always worried about his soul. How could a "Christian" talk like that. Anyway towards the end of his life, he became totally non verbal. But on his death bed, he opened his eyes and looked at gramma and said "momma, I see Jesus". She always loved him, and he let her know he loved her.
For those that want to get on the "religious bent" that is not what I meant. She knew what he needed "a devout wife no matter what" and he knew what she needed "a saved soul". There is not enough of that in the world today.
what a touching story
My grandfather has had Alzheimer's for 6 years. During those 6 years, he was able to walk, talk, and feed himself with no issues. Until about 7 months ago, my grandfather was put in the hospital. They made a huge mistake on him. They drugged him every single day and he never walked. He came home and he was never the same. He woke up from his sleep a day after he came home from the hospital, and the first thing he said when he woke up was, "I love you, my love" to my grandmother. ❤️
Aw
I thought it was sweet at the beginning when he said "we were diagnosed with Alzheimers". He is so devoted to her and he genuinely loves her. Beautiful
My eyeball is sweating
mine too
Hey It's Aly
Katherine 712 Mine too
My grandma or as I call her Nonny has this terrible disease. When my grandpa passed away she cried, then she forgot if he was dead or alive. We would tell her he was dead and she would start crying again. It's absolutely terrible that she has to live with this, she can't remember anything, and it breaks my heart to think one day she won't remember me.
That is so sweet. It made me tears eyed.
MADE YOUR TEARS EYED!?!?!
+Iwantzhamsterz Andhamsterz whoops!
+Hannah Panek lol!
My parents were married in 1939 too. They made it 71 years. My mother had some dementia, but Daddy just let it roll off his back. Had she had full blown Alzheimer's, he would have done the same thing, gone to see her every day, held her hands every day and loved her until the end. As it turned out, Daddy died at 95 and my mother died a couple months later even though there was nothing physically wrong with her. She just laid herself down and said she was going with Daddy and no doctors, hospitals or anyone could talk her out of it.
So sad, I hope they had great times together it's pretty rare to see marriages like that anymore. God Bless Your Family!
Damn, if that is true, I'm sorry for you. Perhaps it was meant to be? :)
"Sometimes she tells me she loves me and sometimes she'll tell me to go to hell" *laughs* I love how optimistic he is even tho she can't remember him
they are perfect for each other
i swear marriages these days last for an hour or so this is soooo flipping sad
Yeah
i cried at this
Ya its flippin annoying how these hooligan kids always marry than throw it away two flipping seconds later it really grinds my gears!
This is so special and lovely. Thanks for posting it. I remember 30 years ago, before I became a scrub nurse, I worked as a nurse's aide in an old folks home. There was a couple like this one. She had Alzheimer's but he did not. He walked every single day from their home to see her. They held hands the entire time he was there. She was so beautiful even then and very cute and loving and pleasant. I noticed she had a bunch of frilly bed jackets. One day I put her white hair up with a silky blue ribbon and got her into a frilly bed jacket just before her sweet hubby arrived. She was so happy! When he came in and saw her, he got tears in his eyes and he was so happy to see her that he just poured out love and smiles. I left and closed the door so they could share the moment. I still think about them and what a small, simple act made both of them so happy. Hang on to your good memories. Sometimes that's all you're left with.
This made me cry ;~;
Like seriously
It made me cry A LOT
LIKE A LOT
This was such a sad story
Poor guy he loved her so much
HE LOVED HER SO MUCH D,X
My heart just melted. I'm so glad he's still holdin on to her for as long as he can. Thank god for people like this. So many people just give up but they didn't. Thats what true love is.
I honestly don't know why people would dislike such a touching video
God bless them both.
i was cutting an onion i totally did not cry......
What a coincidence i was doing the same thing life is crazy haha
+Violet Phantomhive yeah phandom!
+Gudrid Joensen. don't cry, craft!
I'm sorry😂
+Mila l. Haha 😂 the phandom is everywhere! 😅
This is the sweetest thing ever. I'm actually crying. They are so cute. He's such a charming man.
"This is how we spend our days. We don't talk much, but that means we're together"
She remembers the kisses. Keep kissing her Pat. For the rest of us, remember a trigger object. For my gramma who was very young when it happened it was towels. That is the only way she remembered me. So precious, enjoy life now.
thats sad her love dosen't remember him but in the heart she will :) 😌 ❤
there so cute right If made me cry
Lysette Salinas yes but their together for ever 😌
Don't cut onions while doing this, you'll drown yourself in tears. 😥
The Notebook feelings anyone?
I showed this to my father, and we cried like little babies 😢 God bless him, what a man.
why do I do this to myself?
this, this is love.
I'm not crying,my eyeballs just sweating
Yep... Just ran a marathon... **sniff**
I cried. "together, don't talk much, I just believe that I have to be with her." that is so beautiful.
GOD BLESS THESE PEOPLE
this is so sweet im trying not to cry the man is remarkable god bless you
Just me or does this remind me of The Notebook?
exactly what I was thinking xD
yes that's what I was thinking
exactly
Same case with me
yup
this is a wonderful video. Even if his wife can't remember him, he still loves her with all his heart
This actually made me cry. My aunt that passes away about 2 years ago had Alzheimer's and my grandpa (her brother) cared for her and she, at some points, asked who he was.
And here he loves her so much and it's so special that they just spend there time sitting together and he's so grateful for that and its just so awesome! This is the best thing I've seen in my entire life
This touched my heart
I started crying when he said that she was diagnosed with Alzheimer's. My grandfather passed away from dementia which is a very close illness to Alzheimer's.
that was the most beautiful thing I've seen in a long long time we need more people like him in the world
That poor man. How terrible that the love of his life cannot recognise him on some days. It must break his heart.
Oh this is so heartbreaking , especially when he says "I'm a good listener". Aw poor baby. What a wonderful man, and hearing him tear up like that is devastating.
God bless them and she is so pretty and he is so adorable they look cute together
I barely ever cry but this got me :") such a beautiful love story it's sad she cannot remember him :( my grandma has Alzheimer's
Happy tears I'm so happy that they are together.
It reminds me of "THE NOTEBOOK" movie
Young people ,this is LOVE.
Aw this made me cry💜it was so sad but cute how he still loves her so much
Besides the girl having Alzheimer's, this is my marriage/life goal
That's what a marriage should be. Unconditional love. Forever by their side. 💕
Oh this kind of love! She always find her way back to him ♥
This is what true love is. I am in tears because this day in age people date loosely and only for looks. then you see this beautifully amazing couple and humanity is restored.. God bless you both. 😊💜
Omg this is the cutest couple ever their love is so deep even though she doesn't remember him he will always be with her and always love her omg my mom is chopping onions
Pat and his wife are lovely. Made my day to see this video.
aw omg 76 yrs so sweet and heart warming
my grandfather is in the advanced stages of Alzheimer's
Awe I'm sorry!
So sorry
Oh no I'm so sorry for you
beautiful true love conquers all what an amazing life they must have shared may it last forever
I'm literally crying. God bless them.
I feel so sorry for you I know you love her and it just brings me to tears God bless you
My great grandmother was diagnosed with Alzheimer's at the age of 77. She had forgotten everyone that she loved and knew. She's 93 atm and she's not doing so well, I saw her last month and I couldn't stop crying, trying to tell her I'm her granddaughter, Josie. She may be affected by a devastating condition but she's still my gramma.
i just bawled omg this is the sweetest thing ever
'Old' People like grandparents and all that are so cute 😄❤️
this is relationship goals. its not buying matching watches or dressing the same; its loving your partner forever despite the troubles you receive: that's relationship goals
no no no no I'm crying their so sweet "I think I just gotta be with her"
This bought tears to my eyes. I hope someday there is a way that they can reverse the Alzheimer's disease. Its so tragic that you can create such wonderful memories with someone and for that person to not remember them.
This is a story of true love. I wish you two all the best.
God bless them! That is way to sweet!
this is a inspiration to people that think no one loves you but at least 1 or 2 people u dont know or dont talk to you they love you no matter what even if you forgot them they will still love you ....... remember that :)
My grandma passed a few years back from this disease it was heart breaking to see and to feel the confusion she went through I love you so much grandma I miss you. At least you are an angle now and can watch over me.😭😇🙏🏼
i cried during this video GOD BLESS THEM
Awh, both of them are so sweet. Bless them :)
I CRIED SO HARD THE SADNESS IN HIS FACE AND VOICE MAKES ME SO SAD GOSH I WANNA GIVE HIM A HUG AND THEN PERSUADE HIS WIFE TO REMEMBER HIM OH GOD I LOVE THEM
this is so overwhelmingly beautiful. I love when he said..... WE were diagnosed with Alzheimer's.... cause it is both in this kind of situation.
My grandfather had alzheimers. Sadly, he passed away in 2006. Sometimes he didn't remember my dad.
🙏🏾hope you coped well same thing happened to me in 2013/2014 for my poppy and God bless this man and his wife🙏🏾❤️
I'm grandpa had this when I was nine.... he passed and so did my dad 1 year ago today..... :( I only saw. grandpa once and he had this too he could not remember mom or me and he's my grandpa and my dad died at 47 from heart attack....
Aw man that's the year I was born 🙁
what a sweet loving kind man and I hate that she can't remember him.
This is what you call true love !!!!! You can see he loves her just by looking at his eyes when she enters the room !!!
Oh look at that..my eyes are watering my pet/plant/tissue for me! How sweet.
I've cared for Alzheimer victims (yes victims as they are robbed of everything) and all of them still have a strong connection with their spouse. Their minds can't remember but their hearts never forget.
My dad and brother just came home from my grandparents house. My grandpa didn't know who my brother was and couldn't remember his name today. My brother said this at the dinner table and my mom said to my dad that this has been going on for five years, his memory gradually getting worse. Mt grandparents are in denial and refuse to take him to the doctor. I just learned of this, and price together all the times grandpa has forgotten little things. I'm not close with my grandparents, I'm with them at major celebrations or birthdays but nothing more. This makes me feel even worse, knowing I've wasted all this time I could have been using to get to know my grandpa, because who knows how much more time I have.
Please call your grandparents and tell them that you love them, because you really never know what the future holds.
I want a love like this💕
humanity is restoring! men these days care about looks but he doesn't care he cares about her and only Her!
True notebook story 😭❤️ this is so sad but so cute he loves her so much God bless them! ❤️
This made me cry. It was so sweet.
what a lovely couple & first class gent. may your happiness continue sir.
awh this is so cute God bless them too
I feel sorry for the man makes me cry wen I was hearing dat! God Bless You!!💯😭🙏🙏🙏
Sweet man.... elderly people love
GOD BLESS THESE TWO ARE THE BEST COUPLE EVER
i cried at the end god bless them and they are adorable
So beautiful God bless them
They were such an attractive couple. Dayum.
And now they are so lovely, it's heartbreaking.
I love when old couples hold hands!
Awe they are so cute it made me tear up😢God bless them
God bless everyone my grandpa died when I was in preschool and he was good he would cook for me bless you all
Awh! That's soooo sweet of him to keep trying:)
So touching and precious.
They are so cute! God bless them both! Ok I'm crying😢😭
My great grandparents were sorta like this. My great grand father had Alzheimer's for 12 years. March 2015 is when he couldn't take it anymore. Rest in piece pap!! We miss you!!
This same thing happened to my great grandmother but she couldn't remember her husband and children and grandchildren .
awww i dont know what i would do
Great great grandpa .i just got born and when I was 1 and 6 months he was diagnosed
I swear my neighbors must be growing an onion farm next door....