Can someone please educate me is it by Law that a mother can force their daughters to marry old man that can be their father because he has money and he can take care of the girl family how is it right and is it a tradition. Because l see even father giving out 14 year old to marriage and even 10 yrs. 15 years all underage girls are running away from home because they don’t want to be married. That is very sad that a mother would give out their daughter to old grand papa just for money there must be a law against this barbaric wickedness
Well said. I respect People who came on this platform to give good advice instead of judging and conderming the poor it's condition that makes crayfish bend. We can all see the condition they're living there. May GOD have Mercy upon All of Them...
Hmm 😮 How could you take a loan for buried ceremony of husbands cope and now after chill you have a mouth for asking your daughter to marry him wow 😲😲😳
When the brother died why didn he come to help raise money to bury him, the woman did what she did out okf desperation to bury her husband. Now the man want to marry the daughter and take the land, thatbis evil. Go see the man, and see how the money van be raised for him. Definitely it cant be 700k
Please tell that lady to look for a buyer for the Land ,then she will see that it worth more than 500k. Please let that girl be in peace. You the Mother marry him. 🇨🇲BAMENDA 🇨🇲
The old man is oppressing this widow it’s wrong and the brother is wrong too he want to take over the widow’s land how will the widow feed? This is injustice and he can’t even come up with the loan she took out.
But how will he collect the land and still demanding the girl?! Let assume that land is for sale, does it not worth more than 700k? All this greedy old men
My question is this,was the man in Abuja contacted before the burial arrangement? what was his response?was he informed of his brother death? Who headed the burial arrangement?Decision to sale or mortgage the land should have taken by the brother of the late man along with the elders in the family.
Why is it that Nigerian male seblings especially brothers senior or junior cousins uncles fighting for God's created lands. U people should stop, watch n learn they should come together discuss about the brothers funeral n other expenses on how to pay back the money. It seems thst funding is only coming from the brothers wife instesd of the entire family. That's why she did what she did selling the land. Lafwell please ask about how funding was carried out by members of the family. If it wss only the wife that😮 contributed for her husband's funeral.
Please if you are there to help you do help her, she said she doesn’t want to marry him, you can not force someone to marry, Only 22 years old still future
Lafwell may God help you, Some people are selfish, the young girl need an education so she can help to change the narrative in her bloodline. I hope the brother realize that he came back after the fact and his sister-in-law has not said that he is in a position to help but he knows the land belongs to him . The mother tried to take shame from her face but an old man brought it back. May God help us disarm that spirit of poverty and those who have money to give in support of this family please do. I'm now seeing this , as a decendant of África our annsestors left understand this is in the history of África. I pray that betterment will come to África and Áfricans will work hard to change the narrative of it's people Physically and Spiritually . God bless you and your team in Jesus Christ name.
The mother is a fool!! Did she FIND OUT THE TRUE MARKET VALUE OF THE LAND BEFORE GIVING IT AWAY? WHO TAKES A LOAN WITHOUT HAVING THE MEANS TO REPAY? THE LAND IS WORTH MRE THAN THE 500K COLLATERAL SO THE GUY DOES NOT NEED TO MARRY THE GIRL!!!! IT WOULD HAVE BEEN BETTER TO SELL IT FOR TRUE VALUE....IGNORAMUS!!!
Lafwell, you came to settle a tap and a well opened. I commend the girl’s aunt in Lagos that asked you to help her niece. Now, the widow borrowed money from a man to bury her husband and gave out her husband’s land as collateral. HER DAUGHTER WAS NOT PART OF THE DEAL. Afterwards, she wanted to add her daughter based on an additional discussion with her benefactor and money lender that has fast become a Mafia Boss. SOLUTION: She should move in with the old man as his wife and leave her daughter alone. Her husband’s brother that is fighting over the land should go and hustle for his possessions. There is no hand me down here unless it is a family tradition. Otherwise, he should redeem the land and own it. The young lady is in a quandary. Please help her to get an education or some sort of vocational training as a pathway for life. Her future is still in front of her.
Is it only Nigeria u work hard with your husband to achieve things and the family will come take it if he's late. Especially lazy wicked uncles who wldnt give $1 for medicine...LOL
He is selfish . He doesn’t care about a girl just cared about the. land . Why you borough something you can’t manage to pay back ? You should do something simple . Send her to Emmablink to get help and job training .
I don't get... what kind of lifestyle in some part of this country self. How is it a duty of a wife to bury her husband, that would had to borrowed to bury her husband.
Protect that innocent girl. She has the right to choose who to marry. Her mom is very selfish. She and her brother-in-law should arrange to pay that Shilock of a man back and get their land back and leave the poor girl out of it.
How much did this man pay for his brother's funeral? Why didn't you burry your brother? The woman should marry the money lender herself as the man is old
Where were this guy wen his brother was buried? Now he want to fight the widow because her husband is no more, if he was a responsible brother, the widow shouldn't have go and borrowed money for his late brother's burial.
Abeg why did man det do gragra...let them stop begging him and just tell him oya do whatever you want to do, at times begging someone overreacting is just boosting their ego
The man has no right to even suggest such, cause she has paid him back with the land that cost more than the money she borrowed from him. The young lady should leave the house and be independent, cause she’s not a minor.
The uncle doesn't even care about his niece but all what he wants is the land , well he got the right sister-in-law. The girl did the right thing by leaving that toxic family .
Madam is still young enough to remarry , she can marry the man not to destroy her daughter's future. Even if the man is not old she doesn't want the man and she can never marry the man. Why you did make enough money for yourself after all , you suppose to send the girl to school not to rear her happiness.
So for Akwayibom if man dies his brother takes over his piece of land but that her brother in law the high oooo the guy is acting like say kolos dey work am
Lafwell when the husband died what should the woman do with the body? Wait on brother who was not around? The brother is chatting rubbish he should get no land.
Woman go and marry the man and leave your daughter alone shame on you lord have mercy and this woman she not going to marry that man.watching from Jamaica 🇯🇲.
The guy gets the mother so scared and I think the mother just wants to pay him back so anything he tells the mother she agrees i don't think she wants to sell her daughter how can u force a grown person to get married to someone she doesn't love.
This is serious ooh. What kind of family is this? How can you use your daughter to pay for debits? Madam, you can go and marry the man yourself
😂😂😂😂😂This Woman is too Funny Saying that her husband brother is Staying at Abuja Drinking 😅😅😅
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Can someone please educate me is it by Law that a mother can force their daughters to marry old man that can be their father because he has money and he can take care of the girl family how is it right and is it a tradition. Because l see even father giving out 14 year old to marriage and even 10 yrs. 15 years all underage girls are running away from home because they don’t want to be married. That is very sad that a mother would give out their daughter to old grand papa just for money there must be a law against this barbaric wickedness
There is no law rather it is poverty and greed makes some parents behave like this.
@@blessingokpu2489 thanks for that but it’s so sad greed and poverty has to be a crime. Because at the end of the day both turns into murder
Let the woman marry the man herself
D man dat they gave d land to and collect money is wicked and greedy
Young lady you are beautiful 🤩. Go back to school Be a BARISTA
The woman should marry the man since she is the one that took the loan.
God bless my sister
Exactly
Absolutely 💯
He doesn’t want her.
Lol
Borrow £500,000 for a burial that you know you can't afford!!
Why are u bl
Why are u blaming her
She is not a road side woman so she has to borro.
Is 500.000 nairas.and not £500.000 uk money .
That’s where she went wrong because she can’t pay it back and is daughter she wants to used collectors
She is not sound in mind I guess
How he says the land belong to him………
The husband woman should take over the husband's property……. What is wrong with some evil uncle ‘s😡
That women should be ashamed of herself
Protect the girl like you did with Blessing. You are a philanthropist, we trust you.
Well said. I respect People who came on this platform to give good advice instead of judging and conderming the poor it's condition that makes crayfish bend. We can all see the condition they're living there. May GOD have Mercy upon All of Them...
Since your father is no longer a life your mother should marry the man
These mothers always do that kind of thing!
Instead of marrying the OLD MAN themselves🤦🏻♀️
Exactly
Madam why can't you marry the man
Why must you borrow 500k for burial when you have nothing to pay
How can you give your daughter to an old man
This widow should married the man and leave her daughter alone
This woman is shameless.
Laughwell, please collect the land back from that greedy man.
She didn't llove her daughter
Poverty is indeed bad.
Hmm 😮 How could you take a loan for buried ceremony of husbands cope and now after chill you have a mouth for asking your daughter to marry him wow 😲😲😳
The man is greedy he wants land and the girl wicked man Lafwell pls help her.
Thank you Laffwell you are doing a great job, let see how it goes with the man that want to marry a young lady and still carry the land.
When the brother died why didn he come to help raise money to bury him, the woman did what she did out okf desperation to bury her husband. Now the man want to marry the daughter and take the land, thatbis evil.
Go see the man, and see how the money van be raised for him. Definitely it cant be 700k
Lafwel, we know your worth, help this young from her mother's evil plans
Please my dear brother you should not touch that girl because she is not the one who borrowed money from you thank you
This woman is wicked.How can u sell ur brother inlaw land.
It’s her husband’s land not the brother’s
Please tell that lady to look for a buyer for the Land ,then she will see that it worth more than 500k.
Please let that girl be in peace. You the Mother marry him.
🇨🇲BAMENDA 🇨🇲
Watching from London, Lafwell pls help this girl.
For God's sake why will people be fighting over inheritance instead of working to have theirs.
Raphael how are those twins? The dramer is is some how interesting.vzambia
The old man is oppressing this widow it’s wrong and the brother is wrong too he want to take over the widow’s land how will the widow feed? This is injustice and he can’t even come up with the loan she took out.
Whose name is the property in, what about the children inheritance? What a Country😢😢😢😮😮😮
But how will he collect the land and still demanding the girl?! Let assume that land is for sale, does it not worth more than 700k? All this greedy old men
You want expensive burial, while you are poor
Is it the duty of a wife to be responsible for the burial of her husband? What is the role of his own family?
My question is this,was the man in Abuja contacted before the burial arrangement? what was his response?was he informed of his brother death? Who headed the burial arrangement?Decision to sale or mortgage the land should have taken by the brother of the late man along with the elders in the family.
Well done guys
Paparazzi nice one make mama go married the man
Let her mother marry the man he borrowed money from since her husband is late.
Why is it that Nigerian male seblings especially brothers senior or junior cousins uncles fighting for God's created lands. U people should stop, watch n learn they should come together discuss about the brothers funeral n other expenses on how to pay back the money. It seems thst funding is only coming from the brothers wife instesd of the entire family. That's why she did what she did selling the land. Lafwell please ask about how funding was carried out by members of the family. If it wss only the wife that😮 contributed for her husband's funeral.
She’s old enough to be on her own.
Call the police for him.how can he wants to beat the woman
Please if you are there to help you do help her, she said she doesn’t want to marry him, you can not force someone to marry,
Only 22 years old still future
I can see all he was interested in is about landed properties not how his brother wss buried.
Lafwell may God help you,
Some people are selfish, the young girl need an education so she can help to change the narrative in her bloodline.
I hope the brother realize that he came back after the fact and his sister-in-law has not said that he is in a position to help but he knows the land belongs to him .
The mother tried to take shame from her face but an old man brought it back.
May God help us disarm that spirit of poverty and those who have money to give in support of this family please do.
I'm now seeing this , as a decendant of África our annsestors left understand this is in the history of África.
I pray that betterment will come to África and Áfricans will work hard to change the narrative of it's people Physically and Spiritually .
God bless you and your team in Jesus Christ name.
The woman should marry the old man because she wt money 😮😮😮😮🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️💔💔
The mother is a fool!! Did she FIND OUT THE TRUE MARKET VALUE OF THE LAND BEFORE GIVING IT AWAY? WHO TAKES A LOAN WITHOUT HAVING THE MEANS TO REPAY? THE LAND IS WORTH MRE THAN THE 500K COLLATERAL SO THE GUY DOES NOT NEED TO MARRY THE GIRL!!!! IT WOULD HAVE BEEN BETTER TO SELL IT FOR TRUE VALUE....IGNORAMUS!!!
Take Back your brother land
Lafwell, you came to settle a tap and a well opened. I commend the girl’s aunt in Lagos that asked you to help her niece. Now, the widow borrowed money from a man to bury her husband and gave out her husband’s land as collateral. HER DAUGHTER WAS NOT PART OF THE DEAL. Afterwards, she wanted to add her daughter based on an additional discussion with her benefactor and money lender that has fast become a Mafia Boss. SOLUTION: She should move in with the old man as his wife and leave her daughter alone.
Her husband’s brother that is fighting over the land should go and hustle for his possessions. There is no hand me down here unless it is a family tradition. Otherwise, he should redeem the land and own it.
The young lady is in a quandary. Please help her to get an education or some sort of vocational training as a pathway for life. Her future is still in front of her.
Is it only Nigeria u work hard with your husband to achieve things and the family will come take it if he's late. Especially lazy wicked uncles who wldnt give $1 for medicine...LOL
Madam go wife that man if he’s NOT old. for the loan. Your daughter needs her life .. Madam and BIL are wicked and selfish!!!
This man is out of his mind🙆🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️over land that he could not acquire if not for the death of his Brother🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
He is selfish . He doesn’t care about a girl just cared about the. land . Why you borough something you can’t manage to pay back ? You should do something simple . Send her to Emmablink to get help and job training .
You Need Man Of God . The woman should marry the man. Always walk with Police Men. This woman is wicked,
Africa and funeral problem.
How can a mother force her daughter to marry she's 23 years old. Strange culture in Africa! Young Lady standup you are not a child.
I don't get... what kind of lifestyle in some part of this country self.
How is it a duty of a wife to bury her husband, that would had to borrowed to bury her husband.
You all have some strange tradition over there in Nigeria that foolishness could never happen in my country Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹
Laffwell may God strenghten you and give you wisdom to settle this matter.
Do give us updates please.
Protect that innocent girl. She has the right to choose who to marry. Her mom is very selfish. She and her brother-in-law should arrange to pay that Shilock of a man back and get their land back and leave the poor girl out of it.
What a stupid idea oh😢😢. Do the dead need money or the living? What a shameless woman. Giving your child to an old man in exchange for money?
How much did this man pay for his brother's funeral? Why didn't you burry your brother?
The woman should marry the money lender herself as the man is old
Madam, you are aggressive. What if as you chased this girl out she went and enter bad hands you would be happy right. Can the man marry again.
Why did he not come back to bury the brother, is land he will inherit. Is he not suppose to bury his brother. Selfish man.
THIS WOMAN SHOULD MARRY THAT OLD MAN OLD MEN LIKES YOUNG GIRLS, PLEASE BUT IF AN OLD WOMAN MARRY A YOUNG MAN ALL THE WORLD WILL KNOW, .
Where were this guy wen his brother was buried? Now he want to fight the widow because her husband is no more, if he was a responsible brother, the widow shouldn't have go and borrowed money for his late brother's burial.
Abeg why did man det do gragra...let them stop begging him and just tell him oya do whatever you want to do, at times begging someone overreacting is just boosting their ego
The man has no right to even suggest such, cause she has paid him back with the land that cost more than the money she borrowed from him. The young lady should leave the house and be independent, cause she’s not a minor.
The uncle doesn't even care about his niece but all what he wants is the land , well he got the right sister-in-law. The girl did the right thing by leaving that toxic family .
Madam is still young enough to remarry , she can marry the man not to destroy her daughter's future. Even if the man is not old she doesn't want the man and she can never marry the man. Why you did make enough money for yourself after all , you suppose to send the girl to school not to rear her happiness.
So when camera come to your conpand it means they want to buy the conpand😂😂😂😂😂😂this man will not kill me with laugh
So for Akwayibom if man dies his brother takes over his piece of land but that her brother in law the high oooo the guy is acting like say kolos dey work am
Lafwell when the husband died what should the woman do with the body? Wait on brother who was not around? The brother is chatting rubbish he should get no land.
The young lady cannot stay with her mum who is hell bent on selling her child. Also, she should look for something to do rather sell her daughter.
Lafwell, you are too slow, you have to be able to express yourself if you are doing this kind of work
Woman go and marry the man and leave your daughter alone shame on you lord have mercy and this woman she not going to marry that man.watching from Jamaica 🇯🇲.
So burial is now a carnival or wedding party, she should marry the man herself. . .
The guy gets the mother so scared and I think the mother just wants to pay him back so anything he tells the mother she agrees i don't think she wants to sell her daughter how can u force a grown person to get married to someone she doesn't love.
IT IS AROUND $400!! WHY IS THE AUNTIE NOT HELPING 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
Let me clarify: The madam, the girl's mother should marry the old man, after all her husband is dead.
Pls recover the Land from that man and protect the girl from such useless marriage.
The way she is talking i dont trust them ..
It seems they know you content creators will always help
This man come to claim the land why not help to pay the man since you did not help to bury your brother
There was a borrowed money for burial but no borrowed money for the school fees, So sad!
The man who the woman leant the money is not good he wants the girl as well as Land?! Please pump some sense in his brain
Please lafwel please i need your contant please i need family libreation
She should marry the man herself not her daughter, what nonsense? please lafwell help that girl
How do you know good things will come from the person you are pushing her to?
PLEASE WAY ARE UNCLES ALWAYS SEE TOO MUCH TO LAND ARE THEY THE KILLERS OF THEIR FAMILY
Thanks 🙏 AUNTY
Help her retrieve her land back please so that they can use it for cultivation
The land belong to the widow not the brother. What women have if husband die?
Try and give the money to the man.
Help the girl she is venerable 💔💔
that still going on in Nigeria my God what in 2024 am I dreaming?
The woman should go and marry the man since her husband passed away.
The woman is young enough why don't she marry the man instead 🇹🇹
As if he is responsible for the brother's death in the name of property
Lawfell the girl is beautiful work on her and marry her
Why are they making the burial so expensive.
How much did you brod in-law bring shameless man.