Everything you said is true. Once you have dealt with one of these predators, you are able to spot them immediately. It's a hard lesson but once you know, you know.
Absolutely. Time in video 25:50, I'm not perfect, but my particular experience yes. I was in a devastating situation, he rescued me, or so I thought, all the things I told him, he turned on me, used against me, created situations to rescue me from, isolated me, and really, I could have avoided it. Be grateful for the hand that feeds, that helps, beware the one who wishes to. Thank you sir. I really appreciate your content. I really appreciate your honesty. 😊
O and watch their mother figures ladies and gentlemen, for your own sake. I'm breaking habits, I'm breaking chains, I'm seeking help, I'm in therapy... I've seen many go leaps and bounds, but never for any reason other than to hone their skills and traits that only further themselves. I wondered about myself for some time, I've my reasons, learning to adapt to stay safe, to protect myself, it can make you as terrible as the monsters of the world. With people like the professor here, we can create a world without masks. Again. Thank you sir.❤
Your work is real. As you don’t sell anti-narcisist t-shirts, bags and other merch, making money on victimhood. Isn’t that abuse itself? Respect for your work mr.V ✌🏼thanks
I came across some of those videos. It felt empty and commercial. I believe your channel have everything we need to know about narcissism and it's free. Which is very appreciated!
It almost like they gave the professor autistic lack of shame instead of narcissistic lack of shame, and now we have access to some of the greatest insights about narcissisms available.
From what I have learned, my understanding is that Narc’s are full of shame and perhaps self loathing, disgust with others perceived inferiority. In turn revealing their projection of their subconscious fear of being interior?
I can relate to your organic abs raw version of how you explain narcissism at the very core! You helped me escape a5 year relationship with a covert narcissist. I believe I have mild bpd and was diagnosed with general anxiety. Everything you explained about bpd and covert narc union was me and him. Thank you so much for your contribution to mental health Dr. Vaknin your are the father of narc movement! ❤🙏🏽🙌🏽🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷
I really miss you professor of emotion for me in Sukkot... Thank you I appreciate every word and especially in the last six months, after I experienced first hand the rage and violence of a narcissist who turned into a psychopath! Thank you Professor for being persistent and an investor, I wish you all the best and lots and lots of videos in the future🏆🔝👑
I came across such a person. She sold courses for a lot of money basing her "knowledge" on experience stealing the ideas of others. All it took was for someone to disagree with her and she would get aggressive. She created a group for victims, and at some point it began to look like a cult of the individual. Talking about her life, advising on every aspect of life with emphasis on her opinion. Her courses cost more than a few sessions with a qualified therapist. Such people are very dangerous, they show fiction and what the victim wants to hear. They prey on people who want to live in an illusion, who want to hear that you can achieve anything in life-just buy a course for a few thousand. Thank you Sam for this video. I was able to recognize such a coach and remove him from my space
Dear PROF SAM , What you said in the introduction of this video , about your own self :---- My homage to your's such raw truthfulness towards your own soul self beings . Very few persons in this earth plane possess the courage to be such bluntness honest to own self . 🕉 🙏 .
If I trust anyone, it's you. I don't know anyone else who is noticeably authentic. The combination of your professional title and your narcissism is very unique. It is of great importance even though you are not here for us but for yourself. personally, I have reason to be convinced that narcissists cannot be cured exactly as you claim. And I I noticed that narcissists do not know the concept of rules,, of justice and morality. For me the message of the video is crystal clear.
Sir, I have heard from UG Krishnamurti and even Jiddu sometimes that communication is impossible. Jiddu said it in a different way. He said that you cannot say to a person that you know them. That is a form of violence. I truly feel this to be real. This is why I never say no to anyone. Everyone gets what they want from me. I do not feel comfortable when this is happening but I give benefit of the doubt. I expect I will finally get a friend but it ends up such that I get taken advantage of. The way I feel can be summed up in Charles Bukowski's The Genius of The Crowd. Sir, I am in hell. What am I to do?
There are a few people in my life whom I used to consider friends. They are DEMANDING my attention. They are advising me on matters of morality. I have no patience for this. I have lost all respect for my friends. I do not think they are my friends anymore. I am already enlightened and do not need the advice of people who have barely gotten out of their cradle. It is irritating to listen to them talk to me with such pride and arrogance that I am making immoral decisions. I respect as equals and I respect their rights. But you know how this psychological manipulation or mind game goes. I have tolerated them for years. Now, I feel like I wanna kill myself. At first they show niceness and not kindness then they lash out feeling betrayed with me not responding then they lash out and then they use love as a device to display that they have changed and finally they hate you and do their damndest to hurt you. Finally they become apathetic. All of this going on while I’m stuck in a deep and I mean VERY DEEP moral situation. Morality is unique to every situation. I hate that people say it’s subjective. They do not realise that morality is the only serious situation. Anyone who prefers ethics over morality has already lost credibility in my book. I can see them coming from a mile away. I see EVERYTHING. What should I do? There is such a thing as dangerous knowledge. People use knowledge as means to an end. I respect it for its own sake. Trolls are everywhere and I didn’t invite them. They shoved themselves into my life. Sir, how do I communicate with you? If you think I might be able to provide some valuable insight whether as a case study because you might think I am a narcissist or because I am willing to play by the rules, please let me know. Of course you owe me nothing but I need your help. You are the only one who could understand me because you yourself have said you’re a narcissistic psychopath. I’m not insulting you. I just think I might be one too. Help me understand. If not for my sake then the people in my life or the people I might meet in the future. Thank you either way.
Sir I am also willing to open up completely and have a therapy session. How do I contact you? Or rather the question is how do I set up an appointment? I feel a bit guilty because I have no money of my own. I will have to ask my dad to support me with this. But with all the things we have spent money on this of all things is absolutely vital. Any snide remarks anyone might want to throw at me for the sake of amusement is also welcomed. I am making a decision here. I will only respond with absolute clarity that I have attained over the course of the past few years. What I am looking for to be honest is either dissent and advice or confirmation that either I’m wrong about everything, something or whatever it may be or that I am right but still culpable. Again honestly speaking I already know that latter is true. I am culpable. Help me, sir. I really wanna talk but I’m also somewhat intimidated. But, I’m courageous enough to push through this. If you respond give me some time, sir. A day or two to get acclimated to the prospect of having a session. I often feel crippling anxiety and cave in to it and retreat back into myself. I will do my best to avoid this. But ultimately the appointment relies on when you have the time to set up one. I do not desire to take away from you the valuable time that you must be having for other commitments. I have been as personal as I can. Here on out I will be as professional as I can until the appointment is set. I will open up completely as per your rules. You will have my complete attention and acceptance. Sir, be as harsh with me as needed or even blunt. The decision is ultimately yours. Sorry or thank you as per your sensibilities. But you have my thanks either way.
Sir, they say if you have nothing good to say then be silent. But, I do not think that is true. You silence can mean a few things: 1) you are keeping distance. 2) you cannot see my comments. 3) you have personal reasons or boundaries to keep. If this comment is also bypassed I'll let the communication attempt end here. Either way I thank you for everything, sir.
Everything you said is true. Once you have dealt with one of these predators, you are able to spot them immediately. It's a hard lesson but once you know, you know.
I love your sense of humor, the spontaneous sarcasm
Absolutely. Time in video 25:50, I'm not perfect, but my particular experience yes. I was in a devastating situation, he rescued me, or so I thought, all the things I told him, he turned on me, used against me, created situations to rescue me from, isolated me, and really, I could have avoided it. Be grateful for the hand that feeds, that helps, beware the one who wishes to. Thank you sir. I really appreciate your content. I really appreciate your honesty. 😊
O and watch their mother figures ladies and gentlemen, for your own sake. I'm breaking habits, I'm breaking chains, I'm seeking help, I'm in therapy... I've seen many go leaps and bounds, but never for any reason other than to hone their skills and traits that only further themselves. I wondered about myself for some time, I've my reasons, learning to adapt to stay safe, to protect myself, it can make you as terrible as the monsters of the world. With people like the professor here, we can create a world without masks. Again. Thank you sir.❤
Agreed 👍
Your work is real. As you don’t sell anti-narcisist t-shirts, bags and other merch, making money on victimhood. Isn’t that abuse itself?
Respect for your work mr.V ✌🏼thanks
All my seminars and lectures are free as well. In fact, I charge money only if you want to talk to me. Everything else is free of charge.
I came across some of those videos. It felt empty and commercial. I believe your channel have everything we need to know about narcissism and it's free. Which is very appreciated!
Your honesty is somethin' else. whew! People tell me I'm direct, but you take the cake! Enjoyed the introductory 11.5 minutes of this video.
You are the best Sam now and always 😊 Thank you so much for all your work.
It almost like they gave the professor autistic lack of shame instead of narcissistic lack of shame, and now we have access to some of the greatest insights about narcissisms available.
From what I have learned, my understanding is that Narc’s are full of shame and perhaps self loathing, disgust with others perceived inferiority. In turn revealing their projection of their subconscious fear of being interior?
Vaknin is diagnosed with NPD and describes himself as a narcissistic psychopath lol
There's a docu-hitpiece on him where he's pretty unrestrained
Autistic lack of shame?
I can relate to your organic abs raw version of how you explain narcissism at the very core! You helped me escape a5 year relationship with a covert narcissist. I believe I have mild bpd and was diagnosed with general anxiety. Everything you explained about bpd and covert narc union was me and him. Thank you so much for your contribution to mental health Dr. Vaknin your are the father of narc movement! ❤🙏🏽🙌🏽🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷
I appreciate you sharing your knowledge!
I really miss you professor of emotion for me in Sukkot...
Thank you I appreciate every word and especially in the last six months,
after I experienced first hand the rage and violence of a narcissist who turned into a psychopath!
Thank you Professor for being persistent and an investor,
I wish you all the best and lots and lots of videos in the future🏆🔝👑
I never felt connected listen to some of them ,its like something doesn't feel right.
I came across such a person. She sold courses for a lot of money basing her "knowledge" on experience stealing the ideas of others. All it took was for someone to disagree with her and she would get aggressive. She created a group for victims, and at some point it began to look like a cult of the individual. Talking about her life, advising on every aspect of life with emphasis on her opinion. Her courses cost more than a few sessions with a qualified therapist. Such people are very dangerous, they show fiction and what the victim wants to hear. They prey on people who want to live in an illusion, who want to hear that you can achieve anything in life-just buy a course for a few thousand. Thank you Sam for this video. I was able to recognize such a coach and remove him from my space
Dear PROF SAM ,
What you said in the introduction of
this video , about your own self :----
My homage to your's such raw
truthfulness towards your own
soul self beings .
Very few persons in this earth plane
possess the courage to be such
bluntness honest to own self .
🕉
🙏 .
Thank you, over and over, Sir.
Love the truth thank you Sam 😊
If I trust anyone, it's you.
I don't know anyone else who is noticeably authentic.
The combination of your professional title and your narcissism is very unique.
It is of great importance even though you are not here for us but for yourself.
personally, I have reason to be convinced that narcissists cannot be cured exactly as you claim.
And I I noticed that narcissists do not know the concept of rules,, of justice and morality.
For me the message of the video is crystal clear.
You are funny 😂wise and many other things thankyou 🙏
Your truthfulness is as much as valuable as your brilliant efforts to save yourself, and us!
Im starting to believe im more narcissistic than i myself think.
Lol. This is Too Good!
You are my ONLY hero
Sir, I have heard from UG Krishnamurti and even Jiddu sometimes that communication is impossible. Jiddu said it in a different way. He said that you cannot say to a person that you know them. That is a form of violence. I truly feel this to be real. This is why I never say no to anyone. Everyone gets what they want from me. I do not feel comfortable when this is happening but I give benefit of the doubt. I expect I will finally get a friend but it ends up such that I get taken advantage of. The way I feel can be summed up in Charles Bukowski's The Genius of The Crowd. Sir, I am in hell. What am I to do?
There are a few people in my life whom I used to consider friends. They are DEMANDING my attention. They are advising me on matters of morality. I have no patience for this. I have lost all respect for my friends. I do not think they are my friends anymore. I am already enlightened and do not need the advice of people who have barely gotten out of their cradle. It is irritating to listen to them talk to me with such pride and arrogance that I am making immoral decisions. I respect as equals and I respect their rights. But you know how this psychological manipulation or mind game goes. I have tolerated them for years. Now, I feel like I wanna kill myself. At first they show niceness and not kindness then they lash out feeling betrayed with me not responding then they lash out and then they use love as a device to display that they have changed and finally they hate you and do their damndest to hurt you. Finally they become apathetic. All of this going on while I’m stuck in a deep and I mean VERY DEEP moral situation. Morality is unique to every situation. I hate that people say it’s subjective. They do not realise that morality is the only serious situation. Anyone who prefers ethics over morality has already lost credibility in my book. I can see them coming from a mile away. I see EVERYTHING. What should I do? There is such a thing as dangerous knowledge. People use knowledge as means to an end. I respect it for its own sake. Trolls are everywhere and I didn’t invite them. They shoved themselves into my life. Sir, how do I communicate with you? If you think I might be able to provide some valuable insight whether as a case study because you might think I am a narcissist or because I am willing to play by the rules, please let me know. Of course you owe me nothing but I need your help. You are the only one who could understand me because you yourself have said you’re a narcissistic psychopath. I’m not insulting you. I just think I might be one too. Help me understand. If not for my sake then the people in my life or the people I might meet in the future. Thank you either way.
Sir I am also willing to open up completely and have a therapy session. How do I contact you? Or rather the question is how do I set up an appointment? I feel a bit guilty because I have no money of my own. I will have to ask my dad to support me with this. But with all the things we have spent money on this of all things is absolutely vital. Any snide remarks anyone might want to throw at me for the sake of amusement is also welcomed. I am making a decision here. I will only respond with absolute clarity that I have attained over the course of the past few years. What I am looking for to be honest is either dissent and advice or confirmation that either I’m wrong about everything, something or whatever it may be or that I am right but still culpable. Again honestly speaking I already know that latter is true. I am culpable. Help me, sir. I really wanna talk but I’m also somewhat intimidated. But, I’m courageous enough to push through this. If you respond give me some time, sir. A day or two to get acclimated to the prospect of having a session. I often feel crippling anxiety and cave in to it and retreat back into myself. I will do my best to avoid this. But ultimately the appointment relies on when you have the time to set up one. I do not desire to take away from you the valuable time that you must be having for other commitments. I have been as personal as I can. Here on out I will be as professional as I can until the appointment is set. I will open up completely as per your rules. You will have my complete attention and acceptance. Sir, be as harsh with me as needed or even blunt. The decision is ultimately yours. Sorry or thank you as per your sensibilities. But you have my thanks either way.
Sir, they say if you have nothing good to say then be silent. But, I do not think that is true. You silence can mean a few things: 1) you are keeping distance. 2) you cannot see my comments. 3) you have personal reasons or boundaries to keep. If this comment is also bypassed I'll let the communication attempt end here. Either way I thank you for everything, sir.
Professor, have you ever heard of Mark Burno's work? If you did, what's your opinion on it?
Never heard of him.
Christmas Sam Vaknin is a rare and favourite collectible.