Bade Bacche Hone Ka Stamp - Nidhi Narwal | Hindi Poetry | Spoken Fest 2022
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 เม.ย. 2023
- Are you the elder sibling? Then this poem is for you.
Have you ever felt like being the elder sibling of the house, killed your innocence? Like you have always been a "project" to your parents or the society rather than being JUST A CHILD TOO, like your younger siblings? Nidhi did too!
Nidhi Narwal performed this poem, the story of every "ghar ka bada baccha", at Spoken Fest 2022.
Written and performed by: Nidhi Narwal
Edited by: Ninoshka Andrade
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I was absolutely reluctant to perform this piece at spoken fest. I remember telling Kommune that “I’m not in love with what I’ve written in this one! Let me perform something else”
But then, the-day came and I was there! When I legit completed this honest rant, I realised this one very important thing - that you don’t always have to LOVE what you write. It’s important to write things which you absolutely HATE. Things which make you feel less and lonely. Things which make you uncomfortable. It’s important to write them and take the weight of those thoughts off your heart!
When I performed this at Spoken (thanks to Shantanu that I did it) all I felt was ‘light’
And I realised how important it is to feel light sometimes :’)
I hope you feel that my rant is your rant 😂 (but I also hope you don’t feel that it’s a rant)
Haa bilkul di btw first viewer of your comment ❤😊
Thanks that you did perform this ! Could relate to every word and feeling being the bada baccha and feel relieved that these feelings are widespread and I'm not the only one going through this !!!
Thank you for sharing this side of your. I want to say a lot but all I have is that your comment is just magical. Isne mujhe kuch esa yaad Kara Diya Jo mene bhi likha tha dard me aur usse Aaj bhi padke dard to hota hai but you make me realise that it is also that equally important to write about love and hate things. Also I want to tell you that I fell in love with writing and storytelling coz of you. The first story i heard was mein ajeeb nhi alag hoon and that was just amazing and very close to my heart. And being very honest just because of that story i heard many and then I also started to write and that writing has helped me a lot during my mental health issues. Thank you for always sharing the best and being you...
And yeah this is also super relatable 😅❤
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I cried badly at that line "papa mummy ki ladayi me bde ko nhi Rona" felt very deeply...I love my brother ❤️
"Being the older one definitely sucks" last night I cried thinking about my life as an older kid and maybe kommune heard it and Nidhi delivered it, thank you so much🥺❤️
I almost cried. Being the younger sister, I feel really bad for my elder sister... Uski kya galti wo badi h
Being. Tht chup chap badi beti is hard yet not impossible but still I wish my parents n my younger siblings understand tht smtimes i wanna tke rest too
It's not a story of only elder sibling
People should know
Younger siblings pr bhi alg hi pressure hota h
Kyuki aapka bada bhai apne parents ki saare baat sunta bina yeh soche ki usse kya Krna h
So u also have to do the same
Apne sapne maar do
Bss Jo parents khe vo sun lo
Koii relative tameej se baat na kre tohh bhi usse kuch mt bolo kyuki vo relative h
Bt agr aapke frnds chahe kitne bhi acche ho
Kitne bhi sacche ho
Vo kbhi shi ho hi nhi skte parents k liye
Being a girl
Sab bolte h parents protective rhte h
Bt mjhe smjh nhi aa rha yeh mjhe protect kr rhe h
Ya andr se maar rhe h
All they want
Ghr pr rho bss
Pdaii krni h ghr pr kro
Bt pdaii krne k baad kya
Apna career vo kya hota h
Bhr hum nhi jaane de skte duniya shi nhi h
Nd they think ki hmare baache humse jhoot kyu bolte h humne tohh jhoot bolna sikhaya nhi
Yeh ques baccho se krne ki jgeh khud se bhi kr liya kro
Aakhir aisa kya hua h jiski wjeh se tmhre apne baache tumse jhoot bolne lge h
Aakhir kyuuuu
Kyuu parents apne baccho k dreams ko smjhna nhi chahte
Kyu parents
Apni ladkiyo ko bss pinjre m band chidiya ki treh rkhna chahte h
All they want ki tum ki ladke se baat nhi kr skti dosti nhi kr skti
Bt randomly hum kisi ladke ko leke aaye
Tohh 1 month m uske saath shaadi krke zindagi bhr k struggle k liye bhejne ko ready h
Tab apni beti h liye protective nhi hote
Kyuuuuu
Kyuu apni aulaad ki Zindagi apne haath khatam kr dete h parents
Or fir bolte h humne tohh sab shi hi Kiya h tmhre liye
I feel so disheartened
Why our parents didn't want to understand us
Why can't they let us follow our dreams💔💔💔
Yes mam
Haye 💘 mera dil nikal kr rakh diya 🥺❤️
Being the elder child, it felt like someone said what i always had in my heart but wasn't ever able to tell it loud and clear to anyone, whatsoever.
When I used to feel angry about everything which I was and still going through, I used to blame myself that maybe I am doing something wrong and the problem lies with me. :((
Thank you for this beautiful piece! 💕
Just can't stop crying......
I thought I was there speaking all those words....So so so relatable....
Before watching this , I would thought I am the only one who is experiencing this but hats off you that u have expressed this in public spitting out all our BIG child's heart felt words !
मुझे लगता था के हम बड़ो को कोई व्यक्त नहीं कर सकता। आपने दिल की बात कह दी❤
Our poem expressed exactly the same feeling which till date we could not tell anyone...😟❤
Har ek middle class family👪 ki story ko lafz e lab pe lana bahut khoobsurat hai....
I never thought so. Now hearing this has changed my all mindset about my elders
I started to cry while listening to your poem... it just expressed my situation very well and how I wish that the way you expressed it our parents understand it then perhaps it can remove stamp of elder sibling....
Seriously I felt that .... I was feeling that someone came up and kept my emotions on the stage .... ❤️ Although all your poems are very beautiful and relatable but this one was damn relatable as being a elder sister myself 🥺
Tumahre aashman me kaante uga ke khte h ki ye jgh h tumahre udne ki or iss kaanto se bhre aashman me v sb tumse umid krte h bas udne ki ❤ i really felt this line......🙂
How realistic representation of life of eldest child 😭💔it's so true being the eldest kid makes you an ideal for younger ones without ur wish 🙏🏻👨👩👧👧🙇♀️ Though I'm a single child I can feel the pain through ur poem😞🙏🏻🎵
Going through this struggle didi
My parents won't allow me to go abroad for my higher studies but I want to and i can't fight against them
They never asked me what I want to do in life infact I am forced to do what they want 😐
this video really makes me cry... this is not just your feeling, this video is relatable to every elder children. That's why you are my favourite bcoz u always win everyone's heart with your poetries ❤️ really this video is just amazing, I really can't stop crying after watching this
Every line explaining the life of elder brother of middle class family...❤
Ohh bhai elder sister is also same situation
Apne sahi kaha jo ghar main bade hote hai unhe bahut kuch sacrifice karna padta hai aur aakhir jo bade hata hai oh piche hi raha jata hai sahi kaha aapne really heart touching words ❤👍👍
Ye kahani naa jane kitno ki h aur rhii h pr ye kahani ab jubaani hui h❤
her traditional look killed me every day❤
Ham ghar mein bade hain.. Aur bas jab tak zinda hain.. Sabke liye khade hain.. So beautifully explained
I feel proud to be elder sister.. sometimes it's a blessing..
True words by nidhi di...... My favourite poetess.... She always brings us to our real feelings. And realise us that we are also have feelings. Love uh di for these types of words.❤️
I am the older one at my house and when i chose to do what I wanted and desired it started affecting my family and younger sisters and then i realised it's true if i do what i actually want then it's not right cause everyone around me expect me to behave a certain way. Kab ye society sabko apne standards mai fit Krna band kregi?
Literally I cried, when she said ..
Bass emotions hi to control krne hai....😅❤
Aisa lag rha tha ki ye kbhi khatam hi na ho ❤❤❤
Speaking out things u hate / don't like is definitely uncomfortable but let me tell you this that u just spoke out so many hearts.
And for me this piece took me to the memory lane of my younger sister i lost last year... She used to call her my 1st child and always use to ask this kya tum khud b vo ho jo bnna chahti thi to q nahi krti ho jo Krna chahti ho.....
Lot's of love to ur video ❣️
It's so true yrr ek alag hi responsibility hai badi behen hona 😢❤meri ek choti behen or bhai h or wo jab ladte hai to mujhe sort out karwana padta hai ye dhyan rakhte hue ki kissi ek ka jyada side na le lu😅😢
Nidhi narwal... The girl who speaks a thousand hearts! Makes me cry and smile at the same time. And yes.. Sorry for itna zyada bol gyi mai!!!! ❤
Osm prepare lines for nidhi narwal and you ❤🤗🥰
U r on another level nidhi dii🙌❤ commendable performance 👏
एक तुम्हें ही देखने की चाह,,
तन्हा रखती है ख्यालों की भीड़ में भी....🥀🥀❤
This is reality of big child 😢today I felt why my big brother are serious for your life❤❤ love you bhai
@nidhi mam Jo bhi lines aapne btaya sab sach h.mai bhi apne ghr pr sabse bada hu apne bhaiyo me... or aapki in lines ne dil chu liya... soo gud performance mam... and mujhe bhi aapke shows me aana h pr mujhe pta ni chal pata h... shows ka delhi me kab or kha honge... and u really a gud inspirations of mine...🥰🥰🤘🤘😇😇🙈🙈
This is reality of big child that you deliver to this world .. thanku for express this ...
It felt like me and my friends are talking, like seriously this is the same situation that we're in🙂
निधि की सारी कहानियां एक सुकून देती हैं. एक छोटो सी उम्र में भी वो इतनी mature जैसी बातें करती हैं. She is an amazing lovely person. Gpd Bless You Nidhi.
One of the best works of Nidhi di and definitely my favourite one. Being the oldest child and going through all this, made me cry listening to you. ❤
Mere saath yeh sab huwa..
Dil ki sab kehadi apni ❤🙏
Tears in eyes..your every line touched heart..kya karu badi hu na..
Being a elder child i totally relate to this ..thank u for this poetry..u doing good job best of luck nidhi ❤..keep going ✨
Nothing Can Be Better Than This ...❤
This one got my heart ❤ I can relate totally as I'm myself the elder sibling of the family !
yar Nidhi i am also the eldest child or asa lag rha hai bol aap rahe or
kahani meri hai, thank you for reciting this.
I almost cried... Soo true each and every word..
I was thinking this is only my story...but now get to know that it is same for all elder child 😢
alll relatable.......awsm nidhi mam
Flawlessly aapne bol diya
Wow di....Literally i have no words to appreciate you....your way in which u recite this poetry is very appreciating and unique.....Just wanna say one thing....lots of love and respect for u sister!!!❤❤
Di you expressed my emotions in your words When I was listening it my eyes were full of tears. Every single word touched my heart ❤
So beautiful expressed the feeling which is always there but never expressed!! Very nice❤️
This was so relatable..I just can't hold my tears😞
Just can't control my cried ... So so relatable
Idda lgga jidda Mai ajj apne dil dii awaz sunni jo shyd kade kise noo sunni nhi but jo feel kardi aa Mai oh DS vi ni skdi kioki ghar me badi ho is liye😥😔
Amazing as always 🤩😍nidhi apki juban se nikli baat itni sch lgti h sidha dil ko chhu jati h ....💜 Kyuki tumne hi kahan tha ....saja saja k kagaj pr main alfaaz nhi likhi 🌺 jo hue nhi jo sahi nhi vo main baat nhi krti ...jaan nikl kr rkhti hu ...main kagaz pr bkvas nhi likhti 🥰🌹
Muje yad h yeh lines kyuki bhot khas h mre liye 😇 💙
Thanks so much and keep growing 🌺
I agree every word to my life
For us Age eligibility criteria of 18 years is meanless.....
Qki responsibility to hamesa se hmare upr hi hoti hai
Logo ka kahna hai, hm Bde bache sirf tb tk bache hote hai jb tk unka koi Younger siblings n ho..hm to usi din bde ho jate hai jb hmara koi younger siblings birth leta hai...
Nothing more relatable than this🥹❤
Sis, really u r amazing person because your lines is soo good.. I'm proud of you 👏🏻👏🏻..sis 🔥🔥
My eyes are tearing Nidhi, I feel this from deep of my heart 👍 🙏
She just steals my heart everytime
Absolutely best 👍
Your every words describe my feelings ☺...
Heart touching sisters 🥰..Love from sri lanka 🇱🇰
Just mind-blowing
Along with these stamps we elders also carry the multiple emotions which are caused by these stamps & all that emotions just bursted into tears while hearing to this🥲
bohot relatable :)
Itna relatable*😭💗✨
It seems like she always speaks my heart out😮😢
Your Poems Are Always Relatable 😮😮😮❤❤
So true and relatable. Very heart touching video. I am the elder sister. 🥺🥺❤😢😢💗💖 . I suffer bring the elder sister. It does suck. thank you so much.❤️🥺
Speaks my heart out 🥺
Just beautiful ❤️
Superb...i can relate each and every line😢
Awesome👌. Couldn't agree more 💯
I literally feel too much alone i cry yr y achi bt ni h hum bi bucche h hume bi huq h yr hr chej k or pyr ki jrurt hume bi hoti h na ki sirf chote bhai bhn ko 🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭being a girl and being a elder one i feel too much yr bhot mere sth i feel every line i cry so much 😭😭😭😭😭
I want to say so many things but i can't koi h ni sunne wala mumy papa koi ni 😭🥺
Same here...I totally feel what u are feeling..... every one needs love...🥺🥺
Thank you Di for the masterpiece.'
Nidhi jaisa koi nai❤❤❤❤ yaar kya ho tum❤️❤️
Speechless ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Shi baat hai
Bada hona kabhi acha hai kabhi bhot tiring 😊
Uh make me emotional
Why so relatable mam hats off to uhh❤
I tried to ignore this poem in the first few lines.. But I could not.. Its way too real.. I wish it wasn't..
Every line great dii🙂
Always wait for her poetry
kaffi jyada relatable ❤️
Heart touching story sis.
Hats off to you 🙏🙏
Absolutely right dear... 🥰👌👍
Damn. Eyes welled up. Your best work till now! ❤
Very very touching 🙌🏻
Being an elder brother or sister is not easy .... chote jo v glti kre unko ye bol diya jata h ki jo bara karega wahi na karega ...u cannot be average
This is amazing❤
It's totally relatable 😓
Yes, I'm relatable from ur each line.... ❤.
Remarkable ❤
Amazing
Being an eldest daughter of a family is a bleesing, i guess🙆♀️
I literally crying 😭
Best yar 💙... Love you...