Ask Steve: That’s The Key To Real Happiness || STEVE HARVEY

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  • @lauraestavan8343
    @lauraestavan8343 8 ปีที่แล้ว +496

    "...you ain't gotta start nothing, it's coming!" LOL

  • @raunij7967
    @raunij7967 8 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    I LOVE THE WAY STEVE POINTS HIS FINGERS AND SAY "YOU!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @GermaicanExperience
    @GermaicanExperience 8 ปีที่แล้ว +308

    im addicted to steve harveys shows

  • @cindychelsea
    @cindychelsea 8 ปีที่แล้ว +686

    this is why men think we’re crazy

    • @MagicLM
      @MagicLM 8 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      But women are crazy...we don't think it, we know you are.
      But honestly everyone has a little crazy in them. It's a human quality and some show it more than others. Women being the emotional ones, tend to show it the most because they overthink things and that leads them to doing or saying things that men associate with being crazy. Again, men can be the same way if he's driven more by emotion than logic.

    • @toxicbearzhd1046
      @toxicbearzhd1046 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Spelled were wrong, it’s we’re

    • @priyamanobal
      @priyamanobal 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MagicLM Im not crazy

    • @michaelfawcett9935
      @michaelfawcett9935 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Seeing stuff like this though...can you HONESTLY blame us for thinking that?

    • @tennisplayertracy9343
      @tennisplayertracy9343 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You ALL are crazy and we deal with the craziness the best way we can.

  • @karolmel19
    @karolmel19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    "I've never been married" is what got me....😂😂😂

  • @NataliaCh93
    @NataliaCh93 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I love this crazy man, I always watch his shows to make my mood better, he always makes me forget about problems and that I'm sad sometimes

  • @23imansaray
    @23imansaray 8 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Why would you want to pick a fight just for the hell of it? Enjoy the peace now. If the relationship gonna continue, you're gonna need a time to reflect and remember the peaceful time so that you can re-think things and maybe make different choices that don't mess things up. It's pitiful when a women has a good thing and just wants to mess it up.

  • @KamisKisses
    @KamisKisses 7 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    "Hey Babe, I not comfortable with being happy, so let's argue, you know, and live happily ever after"

  • @denisemohammed4473
    @denisemohammed4473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Steve is right, living together is different than living apart

  • @SheaRealSavage
    @SheaRealSavage 8 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    she bored becuz she like drama and he not giving her THAT rush!!!

    • @JRob594
      @JRob594 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      took the words right out my mouth, most women black/white love to start drama but men we just don't have time for all that it's 2017 time to grow up

    • @jsallysally
      @jsallysally 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      +dj oldskool yep!!!

    • @SheaRealSavage
      @SheaRealSavage 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Professor Nasty pants 2016 (Juicie)😂😂😂😂😂yeah

  • @ifeaustin4382
    @ifeaustin4382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love how Steve answered her

  • @manoja538
    @manoja538 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The girl behind her in turquoise is an absolute gem💯

  • @meishabryan1590
    @meishabryan1590 8 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I think she just wants to see how reacts when agitated or angry. I wouldn't move in with anyone unless I was sure that they and the hulk didn't share the same conflict resolution skills.

    • @blueherts5016
      @blueherts5016 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LMAO omg that's literally the best way to put it

    • @rogergarrison4271
      @rogergarrison4271 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wouldn't move in with someone that'll try to intentionally provoke an argument with me just to see how angry I get

  • @christopherortiz9330
    @christopherortiz9330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    People are afraid of joy these days, because they're afraid of the pain of losing it.

  • @justtimm1255
    @justtimm1255 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great recovery. Steve is the best comic at using quick wit, and be naturally funny.

  • @zainabgazal6586
    @zainabgazal6586 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I don't why but whenever this man says, "Let me ask you something," I start laughing before he even asks. .

  • @shanda251
    @shanda251 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    She wants to see what he is like when he is angry. Don't force an argument because I agree with Steve, it's coming.

  • @maryvardeh3883
    @maryvardeh3883 8 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I never been married 😂😂😂😂

  • @Shieva
    @Shieva 8 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    Smh what kind of question was that lol

    • @trulyjeannette
      @trulyjeannette 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Shieva...His answer was funny for sure Hahaha. But the question itself is questionable. To me, it sends red flags regarding what she expects in a relationship.

    • @MsSHINeeTVXQSuju
      @MsSHINeeTVXQSuju 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      that's my reaction to most of these questions, haha XD or at least half of them

  • @michaelnaisbitt1639
    @michaelnaisbitt1639 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I was married to the perfect woman for 23 years. The FIRST SIX WEEKS We had 12 arguments after that we only had 12 major fights She was my life and I grieve for her every day and always will Don’t be in a hurry to start a fight. It’s not worth it

    • @lovingmyself8416
      @lovingmyself8416 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so sorry and I understand. 🙌🏾🙏🏾❣

    • @teresadavis9557
      @teresadavis9557 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry for your loss.

  • @fgumaneh65
    @fgumaneh65 8 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Ohh she gon get an argument after he sees this

  • @user-tk4qd8dj1p
    @user-tk4qd8dj1p 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It’s not crazy. You don’t know someone’s true character until they don’t get what they want, until they are stressed and life’s not perfect. THEN someone’s true character is revealed. Actions > words. People say cope well with stress and love you. First time in 14 years with a friend before, first thing he said was racist manipulative and controlling. Insecure narcissist are manipulative and wait to trap you before him you. It’s always good to get to know someone living with them for an extended period of time before marriage and truly see him in an extended period of time. She’s right: do need to learn to argue well. Say we are nice then dominating insecure and degrading to keep you theirs.

  • @trulyjeannette
    @trulyjeannette 8 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    A year and a half, no arguing and she would like to get one out of the way? I think that she's the type of person who grew up seeing couples argue. Perhaps she was always in that kind of relationship herself, also disappointed and believes that arguing is the norm. Now that she's in a relationship where there is no conflict at this time, it's strange to her. I can't help but feel bad for her, seems like she may like conflict. According to Dr. Pat Allen, renowned relationship, and marriage therapist, there is an effective way to communicate what you do and don't want in a relationship. I wish her all the best. Sounds like she's in an adult, mature relationship and I hope that she doesn't mess it up by picking fights.

    • @Matdogg2k
      @Matdogg2k 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very insightful. My parents argue ALL the time and to me it's normal

    • @kingbey9500
      @kingbey9500 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Or Maybe She Wants To She How He Is When He Is Annoyed , Upset , Angry and Aggravated To Make Sure Before They Move In That He Doesn't Go Bonkers Crazy When He's Upset .

  • @jaqueen1380
    @jaqueen1380 8 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    two people in a relationship for that long and no argument? As my granny used to say either 1 or both of them is hypocrite

    • @Theorangecrushgamer
      @Theorangecrushgamer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      well your granny was wrong.

    • @fayepatrice1672
      @fayepatrice1672 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      That used to be me and my husband. For the first 5 years, no arguments. As soon as he locked me down with marriage and a baby, all the LIES came to the light. He was lying and cheating from day 1 and hiding it. I used to think arguing was a negative but now I think that with honesty will come arguments, or at least disagreements. Your grandma is absolutely right. Don't trust anyone who pretends to be on the same page about everything. They are lying.

  • @beryljones7118
    @beryljones7118 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am praying for her

  • @ashadesuza4237
    @ashadesuza4237 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    that was a really good come back!

  • @folly70
    @folly70 8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Absolutely hilarious😂😂😂

  • @yvettemclean2478
    @yvettemclean2478 8 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    a year in a half in no agreement that s### sound strange to me Steve told the truth tho

    • @musafirioliver
      @musafirioliver 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Why do you say "agreement?" she said ARGUMENT

    • @allisonwalder8075
      @allisonwalder8075 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That is not strange. The thing is when you visit each other, there is usually a plan of what to do to have fun, especially if both partners are working and funds is not an issue. Living together is a whole different story

  • @cccruzer73
    @cccruzer73 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Some people ask questions just to get on tv

  • @MsNobody
    @MsNobody 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If you never had an argument before as soon as you move in you will have argument for sure. Just wait and let it come.
    You need to argue because if you don't, you won't learn anything new about him, yourself and your relationship. Arguments and Love Quarrel can make your relationship stronger. As long as Pride does not come in your way. You both have to be humble and learn how to forgive and compromise.
    Just then you will discover how much you love each other.

  • @iMolikaMenThlang
    @iMolikaMenThlang 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The look on his face says it all. 😆😂💀

  • @SwordKingsTV
    @SwordKingsTV 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This done set women back a few years.

  • @cindydoelah5666
    @cindydoelah5666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am addicted to only the 'Ask Steve' video's

  • @wax89
    @wax89 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    man those faces Stee makes are just priceless

  • @Corekidbeenybunny
    @Corekidbeenybunny 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was laughing so hard at the end that I almost choked on my food 😂😂😂 thanks Steve

  • @crizbacani9488
    @crizbacani9488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the lady's crazy!

  • @wa2k99
    @wa2k99 8 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    moving in before marriage. failure

    • @jakopflatekval6922
      @jakopflatekval6922 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      No, if you move in befor, and try it out, you can easy brake it up, if you don't can stand the person after some time.

    • @EllePlowPlow
      @EllePlowPlow 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Clearly you've never been married.

    • @jakopflatekval6922
      @jakopflatekval6922 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Elle Plow Plow i'm married for 20 years now.

    • @EllePlowPlow
      @EllePlowPlow 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Jakop Flatekval I was speaking to wa2k99 never being married. I agree with you that you should try it out and live with each other before marriage.

    • @spybubbble
      @spybubbble 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      No it's not. People lived together before the institution of marriage came about. Marriage is just another option.

  • @izzyem
    @izzyem 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If it’s not broke, don’t fix it. Don’t go looking for a fight omg, most relationships want to b like hers🤷🏻‍♀️ they’re lucky😇

  • @mewi789
    @mewi789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's coming Galll 😁😁😁😁😁

  • @BluntSpeaker
    @BluntSpeaker 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They definitely argued once, EVEN if it was for 10 seconds

  • @adibahmed10
    @adibahmed10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I mean I get where she's coming from. She wants the "real arguments" later to be lighter I guess.
    But Steve's advice that you don't need to learn how to argue is absurd. Knowing how to negotiate is key in every healthy relationship.

  • @sweettrinilife2095
    @sweettrinilife2095 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Girl appricate the fact u have a good man my husband an I together 4 years an never had a fight or an argument

  • @clc1003
    @clc1003 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh hell yeah! Steve is so…..right! When you move in…..oh LORD!

  • @fatmatajalloh8315
    @fatmatajalloh8315 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    it totally contagious.

  • @DoctoRRRRRRameswaRRRRR789
    @DoctoRRRRRRameswaRRRRR789 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No relationship no worries

  • @sumiitkapoor
    @sumiitkapoor 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing.

  • @gulitzt5865
    @gulitzt5865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    errr fighting is actually a healthy relationship. AND living together for at least 6 months will give a definite answer if your partner is the one.

  • @tahirihachiaa1626
    @tahirihachiaa1626 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    she craizy!!

  • @shibbikitteh
    @shibbikitteh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nah I get what she means, you might have an argument and realise they are CRAZY! Like super aggressive or hurtful when arguing and I wouldn't want to find that out whilst living with someone if I could avoid it.

  • @JC-fb9nz
    @JC-fb9nz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Steve , what u should have said : if it ain't broke dont fix it !

  • @BluntSpeaker
    @BluntSpeaker 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is why Steve calls women crazy.

  • @karatefightfitnessdrills5430
    @karatefightfitnessdrills5430 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That's the key to happiness!! Ok!!
    Lady with white hair said. "I've never been married." 😁😁

  • @TigerLily12345
    @TigerLily12345 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My head is spinning trying to understand this woman 😵‍💫

  • @unbreakable.3132
    @unbreakable.3132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These girls are crazy. Not all of us.

  • @babydoes30
    @babydoes30 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wuhahahahaahahahaahahahaha that lady at the end 😂😂 ROFL LMFAO

  • @ladylabyrinth6345
    @ladylabyrinth6345 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I understand what this saying. It's like a calm before a storm but ain't no storm ha

  • @storyreact
    @storyreact 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    1:20 there combing😂😂😂

  • @nothabosiziba1531
    @nothabosiziba1531 ปีที่แล้ว

    It will be a dream come true for me 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @sarahlindsey4965
    @sarahlindsey4965 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi hey 👋

  • @teresadavis9557
    @teresadavis9557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t like to argue. I hate it.

  • @KJAD_Radio
    @KJAD_Radio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was really looking up to the old lady to share her advice about marriage until she opened her mouth

  • @johnkanza4472
    @johnkanza4472 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They are still listening to the snake since Eden garden

  • @prettydarkie8011
    @prettydarkie8011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You ent got to start nothing the fights coming lmao Steve funny but keeps it real love you sir

  • @juneblogger22
    @juneblogger22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Steve you cant answer this question because he's married. LOL

  • @digthewarmth
    @digthewarmth ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a really good idea. You should see if y'all can handle a disagreement before signing a lease.

  • @borregalesandres
    @borregalesandres 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Revealing

  • @sherlockholmes3317
    @sherlockholmes3317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No one noticed the green dress lady behind ?

  • @rarekind6977
    @rarekind6977 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've never been married and I'm here to tell all of y'all-Steve is wrong! Maybe never having a long term partner might be what he means? Charlie Harper seemed pretty happy overall.....Idk, I just know not making something official isn't the answer!!!

    • @ebubeglory8044
      @ebubeglory8044 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Steve just cracking a joke...he doesn't mean it literally

  • @ahmedmuhammed4906
    @ahmedmuhammed4906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She said "Relationsh-er"

  • @chrissyrocco796
    @chrissyrocco796 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Never heard of that. She’s nuts.

  • @foxxfire9063
    @foxxfire9063 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    EXACTLY!!!

  • @sabrinashitu8791
    @sabrinashitu8791 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I do that sometime
    🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @mewi789
    @mewi789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    its coming gall🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴

  • @ivawilliams298
    @ivawilliams298 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    They coming

  • @billgetsprosper3859
    @billgetsprosper3859 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like Steve for this 👌

  • @nothabosiziba1531
    @nothabosiziba1531 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am inspired by him please Stive if it happens u visit Zimbabwe with your beautiful wife just want to meet you in person

  • @ABRROB2008
    @ABRROB2008 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She use to argue alot with her ex and she misses him when she find the perfect guy

  • @desireedavenport1306
    @desireedavenport1306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG! What kind of crazy are you to WANT to fight with the love of your life?!

  • @GetTheGrandFunkOut
    @GetTheGrandFunkOut 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    (Howl) True, true, true, true, true!

  • @ghaith-azizi9282
    @ghaith-azizi9282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    steve: how long have u been married..!
    lady: I've never been married
    steve: that's the key to real happiness, Don't DO IT
    Trust me Don't DO IT

  • @carollothian4583
    @carollothian4583 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    create the argument boo yh #womanpower

  • @alexandragisellechavez3564
    @alexandragisellechavez3564 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    jaajjaajajaja jajjaja I can not stop having fun with Steve jajajajaj !!

  • @Damien_Bathory
    @Damien_Bathory 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I came here for a life advice walked out with a whole different thing

  • @pojdiavaj1422
    @pojdiavaj1422 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Never argue? try it with your mirror

  • @SheaRealSavage
    @SheaRealSavage 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    seem like the guy is a peaceful person and laid back don't like drama but she do...tf...he need to leave her... she gonna mess up his life with her craziness#!! church stomp...😦😦😂😂😂😂😂

  • @itsyaboi1846
    @itsyaboi1846 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I guess it's true, women love drama.

  • @bcole1637
    @bcole1637 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Is she serious?

  • @i24kali62
    @i24kali62 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Women : steve don't call us crazy
    Also women :

  • @firewing6
    @firewing6 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pillow Fight to the DEATH

  • @onceuponahouse9748
    @onceuponahouse9748 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    can't stop laughing :))

  • @КсенияВажинская-б8г
    @КсенияВажинская-б8г 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well, she's right. What if he'd punch her when he's mad and arguing.

  • @mariacarino5665
    @mariacarino5665 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Crazy a___ b___

  • @AliDal
    @AliDal 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    My answer is just say "I'm fine" "nothing is wrong" and say nothing after that.

  • @illenessOne
    @illenessOne 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THat proves you women don't know what they want at certain point , you don't argue with them " they want it " when you do " they don't .

  • @Mercury_TM
    @Mercury_TM 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is odd not having an argument though. In a bad way.

  • @jayyahmad9225
    @jayyahmad9225 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why do women like to argue so much. What can you possibly gain from that besides more gray hairs.

  • @leetheboss8538
    @leetheboss8538 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not wit ur love learn 2 argue wit ppl th@ steal from u ppl who lie ppl th@ pic fites wit u or a boss th@ did u Rong not ur bf gf specially wen it's good

  • @caangler6698
    @caangler6698 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    She's prolly a lawyer

  • @Xavier-Valentino
    @Xavier-Valentino 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    He gone leave her ass.....TF

  • @Inner.Wisdom8
    @Inner.Wisdom8 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She's mad