@@welsha7484 I honestly feel like you're trying to make a big deal out of nothing. This thing >` isn't a coma, you're doing too much. She was just explaining who is who simple as that.
@@jenspyck be casual but let them know you're into them, they don't want to have to guess around too much. But you want to be a little mysterious... Maybe something like "hey... I have something to ask you" first to get their attention
@@jenspyck also if you think you're coming on too strong change your settings so you type in all lower case, it usually garners more attention for some reason
THIS IS MEEEEEEE! I would be so nervous Quick story: I reached out to a guy I had a crush on in college. We hadn't seen or talked to eachother since (23 years). I had no idea he would remember me but I said "f it why not try" I sent him a message on IG, he messaged me back right away saying of course he remembered me, I had recently crossed his mind. Didn't turn into anything romantic (we live in different states) but I had no expectations, I was proud of myself for even going through it. So I TRY IT! What's the worst that can happen.
i had the same thing happen with a coffee shop guy! i asked for his number, and we talked for a bit but it never went anywhere because he didn’t seem interested! i thought it would be awkward to grab coffee but then i remembered- he’s the one serving me coffee at the end of the day 🤷🏽♀️
OhGodItsKeith I’m glad you didn’t send it honestly .You’re just asking him to go out on a date not his hand in marriage don’t explain too much . Just be chill and have fun with it
lol i’m the type to be like “hey, you are beautiful and I couldn’t help but tell you. I was wondering if you ever wanted to catch a bite or drink. It would be great. Let me know ☺️” i honestly just go for it. a rejection is a redirection anyhow 🤷🏽♂️
Wow, this makes me feel bad for not being so thoughtful. I would literally tell guys I thought they were hot and somehow that worked. Fellow ugly people, there’s your hope! If I was able to get cute guys and marry an amazing and cute guy, y’all can do it too!
I kinda had a thing with a barista at coffee bean once... I would go in almost every day and we would chat about our day and he would even tell me his schedule without me asking. And I was gone for two weeks once out of the country and he kept asking my coworkers when I would be back. When I came back he gave me a free drink and he kept giving me free drinks every time after that. I gave him my number when I came back and we texted and made a plan to hang out but he said he couldn’t go the day before and then we were going to make another plan but we kinda kept ghosting each other. I stopped going to the coffee shop cause i quit my job (it was a summer job) and we haven’t talked since. After considering things I didn’t really think we had as much chemistry as I thought i just liked the idea of it.
@@ktyreality my theory is that the lull periods were maybe *attention-deferring-to-other-people* moments. but if there were that many clear signs there was a definite interest there and y'all just needed a proper hangout.
We often overthink our texts when we have a crush (and by god i am no exception 😂), but I found that it is always best to just keep it simple. Just tell your crush you think they are intresting and you'd like to get to know them better over some coffee/tee/whatever :) If they say yes - you win! If they say no - you win too because you will know it wont work out instead of just sitting there and wondering. You can do it!! Sending lots of love and bravery vibes your way :)
TH-cam recommends this to me after I got ghosted by my crush on Insta asking out for being FRIENDS . Naw need to remind me of my heartbreak oh dear.. Got it worse than being friendzoned .:"D
Ronny is laid back dude who loves sweets, he told me he doesn't do anything but stare at his ceiling to pass time on his days off because he never has plans to do anything, and he recently gave me his cellphone number. He doesn't know mine yet so here's what I got so far: Hey Ronny, It's Mari, I was just wondering since we both have Wednesdays off wasting time doing absolutely nothing on our own, how about we waste time together and get some ice cream at the nearby shop across our office? I've been wanting to go but I'm too chicken to go sit alone. Keep me company, my treat? ;) Is it subtle? Too much?
My honest opinion (bc I want it to go well for you) I think you should shorten the message up a bit. That’s how I feel bc i feel like long messages indicate coming on too strong. But do whatever you think is best I’m just giving you my opinion :)
Hiya Ronny, since we both waste time doing nothing on Wednesdays, how about we waste time together and get some ice cream? My treat. ;) - Mari Is this better? I shortened it.
@@PoutineProductions i think its cute but i would say "hey ronny, wanna go grab some ice cream today?" that's it. make it simple and to the point so to make it seem casual and not too strong
This is so real! I could so relate to all of this. But right now I want to unfollow my insta crush. I think it only happens rarely that something comes out of it...
What’s wrong with... “Hi, you’ve been on my mind. Would you like to go out for drinks/coffee.” Or “I just heard about this concert (restaurant, band, movie etc.) and thought of you. Are you available on ...”
I got rejected 1 year ago and i found my next crush not long after in 2020 i know him through my best friend and the last time i saw him in person was in 2019 and in 2020 i didn't see him at all because of dumb dumb covid now in December of 2021 he is coming to my house to hang out and we will get to know each other better i love him so f*cking much he means the world to me we have the same personality and the same hobbies. my ex crush was a country boy and i'm Emo so back in 2018 - 2020 i would dress all country style just for him then after he rejected me i thought about the guy i have most in common with and i know there is a bright future out there for me - Lauren
lmao i couldn’t do this. not just bc i’m awkward and would be nervous af. but also bc we don’t follow each other and he would be weirded out that i just found his ig.
The level of overthinking here is cute, unsettling and relatable all at once
Just write the dam message
If you can’t have me at my howdy do you deserve me at my hey?
Hailley HOWDY!! It’s me @ohgoditskeith 💕
OhGodItsKeith 🤠
I would take you at your shut up and poor me another drink. Lol bartender here.
Mikerphone DRANK swalalala
@@OhGodItsKeith lol shimmy shimmy shimmy yay, shimmy yah,
Bad girls gon swalla-la-la. Yeah i hear that song in the bar a lot 😂
I want the confidence of the dark haired girl. Damn.
Jackie Who? there were two
@@ally-lz6qr Rachel. I had forgotten her name. Simone was too relatable and caused me too much anxiety 😂
Caribbean Empress No he/she’s talking about the white girl with the dark hair her name is Rachel . The ‘black girl name is Simone
@@welsha7484 People get offended too eaily these days bro. Gotta be careful
@@welsha7484 I honestly feel like you're trying to make a big deal out of nothing. This thing >` isn't a coma, you're doing too much. She was just explaining who is who simple as that.
girl: ‘let’s have a fling...’
also girl: ‘it says what I want in the message without being too straightforward!’
yes. absolutely.
well, at least it doesnt say, "are u dtf" lol`
"If you can't have me at my howdy , do you deserve me at my hey?"
-quote of the year
albin albin BETTER PUT IT IN UR YEARBOOK AND CITE ME
I really wished Simone's worked out, she seems great.
If this isn't a lesson in dating: just shoot your shot. Short and sweet and don't overthink it.
@Zoran Males too, saw lots of time that males telling their buddies when there's a girl rejecting them.
0:30 At Starbucks: "What's your name?" "Phil." - We're on a first-name basis now.
Thought having a crush was in your teenage years... Its nice to know grown adults have them too.
ha yeah no they don't stop! just less often bc your not always around alot of ppl ur age like in school
*if u cant have me at my howdy can u have me at my hey*
Pastel Rain yes always!!! Howdy it’s me @ohgoditskeith🤠🤠🤠🤠
@@Abcdefghujklmao you put two asterisks (*) at the start and end of what you want to *bold*
Pastel Rain you mean one at each end
I don't know why but when he said "How did you find me sir", I started cracking up
Naomi Pieters ooo am I funny like that?! 💕✨
Steveee lmaoo samee
Had to rewind it back a couple times 😭
omg the coffee shop one is straight out if a wattpad story LMAO
Ok you are not the only one who thought that lmao
Which one?
HAHAHAH
Yes, I want to know which one?
The coffee pact?!?!?
this makes my anxiety go through the ROOF. i could neva 😔
2:47 "Let's have a fling" is not straightforward? Man, the dating game has changed a lot.
@@aklforge wtf
Keith is literally my spirit animal. He’s so funny, expressive, and doesn’t take life so seriously.
Itsmehmarvis OMG ARE U MY SOULMATE FIND ME @ohgoditskeith 💕✨
wtf is a spirit animal?
SWIFTzTrigger Search it up.
But he didn’t send the text though ://
I don’t think your observation have meet the reality, he maybe take life a little too seriously, so he ends up failing to sent the text?!
I keep wanting to interrupt every 5 secs and be like “no, type this!” as if I were the best friend 😭
Well help me out then. How do women like to be asked out?
I need you in my life. You are the perfect friend lol
@@jenspyck be casual but let them know you're into them, they don't want to have to guess around too much. But you want to be a little mysterious... Maybe something like "hey... I have something to ask you" first to get their attention
@@jenspyck also if you think you're coming on too strong change your settings so you type in all lower case, it usually garners more attention for some reason
All hail Bradley C
Sarah Fox he left her on seen
My Loud Toilet lmao you right
This gave me anxiety and two stress pimples lmfaooooo
Adia Carter me too!!! I couldn’t even send it 😪
''the goal is to be easy breezy I feel, when asking out somebody'' and next second we see Keith writing an essay haha, loved the editing of this video
pineapplee I’m a professional essay writer
pineapplee what easy breezy means? Like a cool relax person?
I love rachels straight forwardness, and she got a positive response!! happy for her
If I was Simone, I would have quit going to that coffee shop. There's nothing weirder than your crush pretending like you didn't ask him or her out.
It’s only awkward if you make it awkward
"My mouth feels like I just ate cat litter" 😂😂😂
Jorden Giesbrecht IT DID I WAS SO NERVOUSSSSA
@@OhGodItsKeith Oh my goodness same tho 😂😂😂
“ Often the idea is so much bigger in my head then it really is in person “ nailed it!
THIS IS MEEEEEEE! I would be so nervous Quick story: I reached out to a guy I had a crush on in college. We hadn't seen or talked to eachother since (23 years). I had no idea he would remember me but I said "f it why not try" I sent him a message on IG, he messaged me back right away saying of course he remembered me, I had recently crossed his mind. Didn't turn into anything romantic (we live in different states) but I had no expectations, I was proud of myself for even going through it. So I TRY IT! What's the worst that can happen.
Keith, why didn't you send the message! He went through that effort to find you??
I knoww. Keith send it !
Can we talk about how gorgeous Simone is??!!
LOL her repeatedly asking if she’s sending it is so me
Sooo don’t ask out your crush!! Got it.
Osa 🤣😂🤣😂
i had the same thing happen with a coffee shop guy! i asked for his number, and we talked for a bit but it never went anywhere because he didn’t seem interested! i thought it would be awkward to grab coffee but then i remembered- he’s the one serving me coffee at the end of the day 🤷🏽♀️
We should grab a coffee sometime Jasmine
Rachel, you are such a boss! Loving the confidence
thoraya does it better
Elizabeth i love her videos
shes such a great youtuber
She really does
Yes she does. Love her
Agreed
I have told three of my crushes that I liked them ( at different intervals obviously) and none of them reciprocated 🙂
I can relate
bro this is why i’ll never ask someone out
Girl I feel you :( it’s ok we’ll find someone eventually
It’s okay sis, you will get a yes soon!
@@Daniela-gj4jt yass let's hope so 😊
I mean most of the text messages were too long
Rand Saad was mine ?
OhGodItsKeith I’m glad you didn’t send it honestly .You’re just asking him to go out on a date not his hand in marriage don’t explain too much . Just be chill and have fun with it
this is so wholesome
the man wasn’t even on ig he was on normal i message 😂
scarlett evie shhhhhhh don’t tell them
bro when he said his blood type was “zero” 💀💀💀 like do you mean O???
lol i’m the type to be like “hey, you are beautiful and I couldn’t help but tell you. I was wondering if you ever wanted to catch a bite or drink. It would be great. Let me know ☺️”
i honestly just go for it. a rejection is a redirection anyhow 🤷🏽♂️
unmeritedgift blue pill
SIMONE IS SO ME WHENEVER I TEXT SOMEONE I LIKE OMG!! I overthink things WAY too much and get super uncomfortable 😂😂
“what if they’re like: this kiD...... this hoWdy kid”
thats meeeeee
Wow, this makes me feel bad for not being so thoughtful. I would literally tell guys I thought they were hot and somehow that worked. Fellow ugly people, there’s your hope! If I was able to get cute guys and marry an amazing and cute guy, y’all can do it too!
I'd get that "sorry I'm straight" reject if I asked out my crush lmao
find lesbians?
I wouldn't be brave enough for this ahaha
That last girl is so confident sheesh!
I was really rooting for her and the barista it seemed like the cutest story 😕💗
These people are so funny! Lol
Uma Frost-Hausman thanks 💕
Simone is literally precious!
The most relatable video on TH-cam!
Ciera Rose ✨
Do you like the girl in the black jacket initially had a better chance since it showed past messages from the guys she chose to DM
Kaela Wyche yeah it was kinda planned
omg watching these people stress is giving me stress😳😆
I really like the way this is edited!
Like how'd you find me sir 😂😂
Cierra Farnworth HOW ?!? Lmk
I'd love to have the courage to do this without freaking them out
I like the message of the fling "
this is the one the funniest things I’ve ever watched lol 😂
I kinda had a thing with a barista at coffee bean once... I would go in almost every day and we would chat about our day and he would even tell me his schedule without me asking. And I was gone for two weeks once out of the country and he kept asking my coworkers when I would be back. When I came back he gave me a free drink and he kept giving me free drinks every time after that. I gave him my number when I came back and we texted and made a plan to hang out but he said he couldn’t go the day before and then we were going to make another plan but we kinda kept ghosting each other. I stopped going to the coffee shop cause i quit my job (it was a summer job) and we haven’t talked since. After considering things I didn’t really think we had as much chemistry as I thought i just liked the idea of it.
This happened this summer idk why I said once
@@ktyreality my theory is that the lull periods were maybe *attention-deferring-to-other-people* moments. but if there were that many clear signs there was a definite interest there and y'all just needed a proper hangout.
this gives me the balls to do it...
i think i'll wait a little more xd
Me nervously trying to find the right words to ask my college crush out! But he might think I’m awkward , ahh🥺
We often overthink our texts when we have a crush (and by god i am no exception 😂), but I found that it is always best to just keep it simple. Just tell your crush you think they are intresting and you'd like to get to know them better over some coffee/tee/whatever :) If they say yes - you win! If they say no - you win too because you will know it wont work out instead of just sitting there and wondering. You can do it!! Sending lots of love and bravery vibes your way :)
Hey how are you? I think you're cute, would you like to get coffee sometime?
Send it!!
“Hey your hot let’s go out sometime next week” and then send it
@@alannah1685 no
Yo I feel like people are more attracted to confidence If it works out fine if not f him
They're all so freakin beautiful! 🥰
purpledragonfly4 💕💕💕u too sis!!
oh dear god. no.
oneuniqueusername nooooo
I am so sad for the first two
I clicked send for all of them.
Simons personality is really attractive to me! I’ll take you out!
HOW ADORABLE
Does anyone know Simones instagram? She's so cool.
Faith Ervin stalker..
i love these kinds of videos!
How could anyone not give Simone an honest shot
this made me so anxious
This is so cute for some reason
TH-cam recommends this to me after I got ghosted by my crush on Insta asking out for being FRIENDS . Naw need to remind me of my heartbreak oh dear.. Got it worse than being friendzoned .:"D
Ronny is laid back dude who loves sweets, he told me he doesn't do anything but stare at his ceiling to pass time on his days off because he never has plans to do anything, and he recently gave me his cellphone number.
He doesn't know mine yet so here's what I got so far:
Hey Ronny, It's Mari, I was just wondering since we both have Wednesdays off wasting time doing absolutely nothing on our own, how about we waste time together and get some ice cream at the nearby shop across our office? I've been wanting to go but I'm too chicken to go sit alone. Keep me company, my treat? ;)
Is it subtle? Too much?
PoutineProductions awww that’s nice, send it and keep me updated!
Subtle but straight to the point i love it!Go for it💪Hope it goes well
My honest opinion (bc I want it to go well for you) I think you should shorten the message up a bit. That’s how I feel bc i feel like long messages indicate coming on too strong. But do whatever you think is best I’m just giving you my opinion :)
Hiya Ronny, since we both waste time doing nothing on Wednesdays, how about we waste time together and get some ice cream? My treat. ;)
- Mari
Is this better? I shortened it.
@@PoutineProductions i think its cute but i would say "hey ronny, wanna go grab some ice cream today?" that's it. make it simple and to the point so to make it seem casual and not too strong
Wow this chanel is the best
Ελπιδα Γαβριλη soooo good !!!!
you kidding? They totally stole that idea
/watch?v=X5-ybFoVSnA
No I didn't see that
This is so real! I could so relate to all of this. But right now I want to unfollow my insta crush. I think it only happens rarely that something comes out of it...
Simone is stunning
Normalize asking men out !
I love this.
keith is so funny lmao
ahgajaye aww Gras!!!!!
I am not an approacher, I wouldn't even know what to say, probably " hey wanna hang out someday?" or just "hey" and then ask
Not HOWDY!! Lol
Hallucinogen2000 HOWDYYYYYY
My boyfriend and I met via DMs ...lol😂
I'm so excited for Rachel
keith looks so familiar, has he been in something else?
Keith looks like Wall-e its really cuutteee
literally im insulted HUHHHHHHH
Get straight to the point. Explain later🤦
if you can't have me at my howdy .. can you really have me at my hey ?
#feltthat .
omg yayyyyyy
So relatable
Love u glamour plz ❤️ heart 😘😂😂😂😍😍
I GET NERVOUS THINKING FOR THEM
Rachel got cakes and was straight forward, Simone must be crazy if dude rejected her, Keith a whimp and wasted our time on here!!!!!!
Dude... all they had to do is say "Hey lets meet up" .....all of these were soooo wordy
This is too real
The OverThinking is ridiculous.
The second I saw the guy, I knew.
“Howdy🤠”
Kazuichii howddddyyy
I feel like everyone needs to go back to talking on the phone, because texting can be weird.
my mouth feels like i ate cat litter
Emma Trevino it didddd!!!!
I couldn't see what happened to last girl bc of the "Next Videos"
mcmic1212 Rachel and her crush went on their date and had a nice time. She’s optimistic that something may happen in the future
@@justafairy thank you!!
mcmic1212 no problem :)
@@justafairy you the real MVP 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
AlMoSiCe210 🙌🏽
What’s wrong with... “Hi, you’ve been on my mind. Would you like to go out for drinks/coffee.” Or “I just heard about this concert (restaurant, band, movie etc.) and thought of you. Are you available on ...”
I got rejected 1 year ago and i found my next crush not long after in 2020 i know him through my best friend and the last time i saw him in person was in 2019 and in 2020 i didn't see him at all because of dumb dumb covid now in December of 2021 he is coming to my house to hang out and we will get to know each other better i love him so f*cking much he means the world to me we have the same personality and the same hobbies. my ex crush was a country boy and i'm Emo so back in 2018 - 2020 i would dress all country style just for him then after he rejected me i thought about the guy i have most in common with and i know there is a bright future out there for me - Lauren
Thought this was great as i have a couple of people i've never met, but feel would make a great friend and have good convo.
lmao i couldn’t do this. not just bc i’m awkward and would be nervous af. but also bc we don’t follow each other and he would be weirded out that i just found his ig.
So only the confident one's date worked out.....hmm